How long do you think it takes being with someone to develop feelings when you're dating? My last ex it probably took about 3 months and I fell for him hard in the year after. The guy I started dating now I've been going out with every weekend for 3 months and I still haven't caught feelings and consistently have been comparing things with my ex. Is this just not going to work out or should I give it more time because to be fair with my ex I did see them more often.
>>43667351... do people really date people they have no feelings for?
What do you mean by date? I wouldn't ask someone out unless I had feelings for them. 3 months is crazy.
why are people so proud to tell everyone how much of a bad person they are? seriously lol
>>43667382Yeah lol ironically my first bf was the only one I had feelings for prior to dating >>43667406They asked me and I went with it and just do dumb shit every week like go see a movie or watch something. I'm probably autistic or something but I dunno really how to date people or how to figure out if things will work out. So by 3 months if I don't have feelings you think I should call it quits? >>43667424Does this make me a bad person? I legitimately just think I'm autistic
amazing.
>>43667351I think I'd catch feelings for any moid who showed interest in me.
>>43667456I'm not sure if you should give up, but no feelings after 3 months seems crazy to me. Do you kiss? Cuddle? Sex?
>>43667527Yeah I've had sex once and we kiss. I guess no feelings would be an overstatement but I can tell you for sure I'm not in love and I'm behind where I was in previous relationships at this point
>>43667616If he seems happy and you don't mind I guess it makes sense to maintain status quo.
Kinda feel bad now like I don't want to lead the guy on but I'm just unsure about it all
>>43668129Don't worry to much about it.
>>43667351you should probably stop leading him on faggot
>>43667456relatable i think i only developed feelings for someone for real once. idk i feel like once someone gives you those feelings and then leaves your life its like impossible to truly feel that deeply for anyone ever again. i believe pair bonding is real and only truly happens once in someones life. unfortunately in the modern world most people dont end up with their pair bond for life and this is detrimental to pretty much everyone.
>>43669622I believe in pair bonding as well I sure hope my ex didn't ruin me forever though and I'm just still not completely over him or something
>>43667351>Dating for 3mo no feelingsI can't even start dating the people I DO have feelings for, how do you do it?
>>43670101People ask me and I say yes it's probably easier with people you don't have feelings for to be fair I just kinda assumed after my last relationship feelings would come after a few months
>>43667351idk, most of the women i date catch feelings within the first month even if we’re fwb, it’s annoying lol
>>43669909idk its been years for me i pair bonded at 19 with someone i havent talked to since i was 21. 26 now and it shows no signs of actually getting better. i get glimpses of feelings for ppl but it usually goes away quickly or i end up in relationships like u where i'm just not rly feeling it, im just kinda there because being alone is worse
>>43669909I'm sorry I damaged you.
>>43667351A couple days usually. Sometime a couple hours
>>43671153Fuckkkk I really hope I'm not stuck like this
