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How do I become less nice? Im basically super polite and say yes to everything and end up feeling burnt out helping everyone. I dont know how to say No because I hate making up excuses.
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if you can't say no. say nothing.
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>>48645702
this.
>>48645434
this is something you really need to work on, because it's a skill you will need in life. but to make things easier and minimize the damage, you should learn to identify the people who want to take advantage of you and remove them from your life as much as possible. keep those people out of reach if you can.
t. oldfag who still occasionally struggles with this
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>>48645434
would you say you are like cinnamon?

https://youtu.be/JRAOdRq-1lw
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>>48645434
Who needs an excuse? Just say "I can't"
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>>48645702
Most of the time, they are asking me favors standing right in front of me. I cant say nothing because I gotta answer them.

>>48645769
The problem is most of the people doing this to me are considered family. Not the ones I live with, but the endless uncles, aunts, cousins, etc. So its very hard for me to say No cause I have to do it gracefully since I keep having to see them in life as opposed to just burning bridges with strangers.
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>>48645434
I doubt very much that you are burnt out from doing too many favors for people
odds are you're a whiny cuck who does a couple, is weak and tired and assumes causality
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>>48645434
you're a robot so you know what it's like to not have people care about you. you keep trying to be nice to others because you hope they'll reciprocate. give that up. just do and say whatever you think of first. don't censor yourself unless you're risking your job.
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>>48646008
>The problem is most of the people doing this to me are considered family.
that does make it much more difficult. i'll give you that. just do the best you can. for me, i think it's my touch of autism that causes me to freeze up in those situations and not stand up for myself. one thing you could try is staying busy. do some things to fill your day that are scheduled regularly so that you have a valid excuse to say "no, i can't. i have [x] to do." but still, that's not the best way to go about it.
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>>48646099
Good point fellow robot. Maybe its just awkward to suddenly change when I already have the reputation of being nice.

>>48646403
I will definitely try that. Sometimes my mind goes blank in the moment that I have to respond though. Im gonna try my best to say that Im busy with something next time.
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>>48646549
>when I already have the reputation of being nice.
most normies understand what boundaries, personal space, and "me time" are. they will understand. they won't be mad at you if you're busy. you'll find the reaction is quite a neutral one, typically consisting of "oh ok".
>>48646549
>try my best
it unironically takes practice. i wish i didn't know this feel, but i always have, and i still do.
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Well what I do is distance myself from these people.
Just learn from babysteps. Try to give less fucks.
Healthy egoism, you know.
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>>48645434
Try to always get something in return. Don't do shit for free.
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>>48646649
Im sure I gotta practice alot. Makes me feel better that Im not the only one that has this problem.

>>48646815
Good idea anon.

>>48646995
Im sure that would work. Would be tough for me to put up the act of wanting something all the time
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>>48645434
Let yourself be ground down until 'no's start flying out.
I still say yes far too often but at least everyone knows a no from me means I got bigger fish to fry.
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Spend more time on here, but talk wild shit to anyone who barley urkes you. Learn how your bullies eviscerate your quirks and flimsy autism. Tighten your deck and remain calm while casually gutting their hardley hidden basic bitch weaknesses. Autistically break them down by their own words. Then build yourself up
t. I hurt some people good and I know I did
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>>48647546
the best part is he believes it
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>>48648120
Who even is this brap aimed at cunt, you? lololol, do you believe it now mutherfucker, huh?
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>>48645434
>talk about being too nice
>post taylor swift
yeah okay fucker
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>>48648150
ok ok I was wrong, sorry
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I know a girl like this who it gets her into trouble. Like she's so shy and nice that she unintentionally sent me signals and then felt dumb when I acted on them. If I wasn't a cool guy I would've had her in such a vulnerable position to take advantage of, you know what I mean? I mean, girls are the weaker sex physically and idk if you're a girl, but keep it in mind that to some degree it can endanger you. You have to look after yourself before others, OP.
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>>48648159
TayTay is pure. Your probably pissed because she isnt MAGA
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>>48648665
>all the guys i date turn out to be jerks and i totally don't just date guys so i can make pitytier breakup songs :((
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>>48648732
Her experiences are innocent and sweet. And her cute autism led her to learn from her failed relationships with chads. She will be happy with a handsome robot.
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>>48645434
when someone asks you for a favor, just turn around and pull your pants and underwear down and spread your buttcheeks and fart super loud.
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>>48649006
yikes
nice fantasy you cuckold
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>>48649114
Thank you my laddette
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>>48649946
im guy
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>>48646008
say "i don't feel so good" lmao
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>>48649978
You mispell gay
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>>48650166
for not liking taylor swift?
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>>48650206
Yea thats why my fag
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>>48645434
>get gf
>get screwed by gf
>recieve depression
>get angry at depression
>recieve rage
>do whatever the random fuck you want

By this point you've usually changed entirely as a person and have a pile of new experiences to draw or reflect on and become more of a cunt in the process.
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Announce your love for Right Wing politics. The problem will take care of itself.





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