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Does any other femanon from a broken family just really desire to be a mother? You want a child to give all of the love, respect, and care you lacked? It hurts me so much. I don't think I'm currently in the greatest situation to be a mother yet, but I want to be one eventually.
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That's an admirable desire, and just as admirable that you realize you're not in a place to do it yet. I hope you're able to be the mother you want to be, and don't succumb to the trap of trying to experience that vicariously through your own child.
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>>62461321
I grew up without a mom so yes, I want to have a kid and be the greatest mom for them. But sadly I don't see that happening without a marriage, and I don't want to get married unless it's a true partnership in which we are both close to each other's ideal.
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Bringing more people into this world is cruel and selfish. You children never asked for any of this, spare them this hell
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>>62461469
I'm very happy and i was glad i was born, i think i'd do my best to make my children feel the same
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>had no stable caregivers as a baby and child >developed attachment issues and dependency on other people
>emotionally unavailable mom
>emotionally unavailable dad
>bullied in school
>parents divorced mom left and married abusive american when i was 11/12
>dad sort of became emotionally abusive bc of mom
>would cry at school about my mom divorcing my dad teachers didnt really help me
>starting being depressed and suicidal when i was 11
>had no one to rely on
>moved in with stepdad
>stepdad beat me twice george floyd style and was planning on shooting me if it were not for my mom
>mom angry at me doesnt report him
>mom told me i was illegally adopted from a 3rd world country when i tried to commit suicide at 13
>mom tells me that my bio mom was a whore
>she said that she failed as a mother but doesnt do much about it but gives me $200 a month and occasionally replies to my messages
>grandpa beat me up and attempted to murder me days before my 16th birthday
>mom angry at me for being a failure and threatens to send me back to my real mother
>Im basically used goods gf because i was groomed at 11 because i didnt know how to get affection or attention from any family and bad things happened to me then i did bad things to myself from preteens to mid teens
>tfw my birth was just used as profit for my biological mom and a sideline hobby for my adoptive parents

Yes more than anything.
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>>62461628
i used to be an antinatalist bc of what's happened to me but i want to try to do my best to share my bursting love and i think that it would comfort my own pain and i guess you could say make up and bring closure to my pain
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>>62461321
tfw i want to sate this desire in a girl myself and then eventually become a father but that's just weird h-haha



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