Just go outside. Make it a habit, observe the couples all around you. Lookism bs is cancer, there are literally all kinds of guys in relationships. I see men with horrible jaws, recessed chins, fat men, men with positive canthal tilts... all in relationships. I'm average looking and wasted majority of my late teens being upset about my flaws, about chads, etc. The moment I made friends, I found a girlfriend. I understand, the making friends part is a big barrier but just don't fall for the incel thinking because it's hyperbole and things are grotesquely exaggerated to make you feel hopeless
>>69152672Piss off you shitstain
What you have to realize OP is that both sides are correct. Do not be a nig
>Go outsideAnd be weird and disconnected outside.Post the social capital explanation again, Lookism is dated as fuck I hope nobody here still thinks about that
anybody can date their looksmatch. It's the guys who are sub 5's who complain the most because they want a stacy/becky type, but they don't have the genetics for it. And they don't want to date their looksmatch.
Going outside is how you get shot and or stabbed where I live. Plus my parents sold off my car for their stupid ass vans so I'd be stuck looking like a damn soccer mom if I went out
I go outside but I only find deer. No gf
>>69152672>I see men with horrible jaws, recessed chins, fat men, men with positive canthal tilts... all in relationshipsI dont
>>69152672Wow good job you figured out normie now go outside
>>69152672Wings of Redemption has a wife. I don't know how he did it but if he did it then so can we. If this fat fuck kept trying until he got a woman then so can (You). The only reason you faggots, most which are in much better shape than WoR don't get a wife is because you stopped trying.
Blackpill in general is true.It does lack representation of people who are just socially unfit but still "normal" people in most regards.Socially behind individuals or "autismpill" combined with thr blackpill.T. 31 khv
>>69152672I started going out everyday when the lockdown started. Over two years now. Nothing's changed.
>>69152964How are you still alive, innawoods anon? How long has it been?
>>69153168Me too, I am outside for more time than indoors every single day.The only thing that changed is that I am not skinny fat anymore because of all the walking I do.
I've never seen a sub-5 young man in a relationship older guys (30+) sure
>>69152672>observe the couples all around youI don't know if this is a result of living in Cambridge, but damn near every girl seems to be paired up with a well-off male model here. I have never seen one of the many, many nerdy guys here with a woman.
the problem is i can only make friends with 60 year old men because i have autistic old people hobbies
>>69153447I've lost 30kg but have 10 more to go to be skinnyOne day a month ago or so I thought two girls looked at me smiling or checking me out but it aint happened ever since so maybe I imagined it
>>69152672>zoom zoom's first beta buxsee you here in a week, assuming she doesn't fuck someone else before then, loser
>>69153390srry idk who that isI don't live innawoods I just went camping.
>>69152672That's because lookism is bullshit, but mentalism is legit. What can I do as as a terminal autist? Nothing. I can't hold a conversation for 30 seconds. Fuck face, fuck, height, fuck canthal tilts. Charisma > all. That's the final blackpill.
>>69152672>hurr durr everyone is in a relationship50% of young men are single.
>>69153549It's something else for meI can keep a conversation going and make some women laugh, but I've never been able to escalate anything into sexSo even if you could hold a conversation it's not a guarantee of anything
>>69153572Yes. This should fall under the same banner but with diffrent degrees.Its still "socialcapitalpill" or "autismpill" to not be able to navigate conversation into relationships and further.Not many talk about it because its too complex for the lukewarm IQ meta that the last remaning freespaces online revolves around.Again, im a 31 khv.
>>69153612We should talk about it. The numver one holding me back is I don't know how to try. Even if I get rejected for looks or ehatever after, I still tried. But I have no idea how it happens.
>>69153612There was some sperg spamming his videos a few months ago talking about what you are talking about. If you are somewhat attractive but are a complete sperg or social retard you're fucked. Only model tier guys can get away with being a sperg.
>>69153644I presonally have never tried to even have a female friend of any sort or even talked to females in my classes all the way from middle school until community college more then one word responses or what is required of me in group assignments.If I could go back in time, again for me personally, I would have much more confidence and knowledge and everything so I would have no problem talking and actually escalating it to relationships if I was 13 to 18.The meta for how relationships starts are based on age you are and what year it is, no memeing.Through my job im required to small talk and even be "buddy buddy" with people at diffrent workplaces. I work as a massage therapist at location and people come and sign up for the day and usually its a rotation of all of the people at that office or whatever. I have my eyes and ears open ever since I started this job because I was fucking awful at the start at anything social at all.All the way from just greeting people to just chit chat. Im still really bad at this because I never did it as a young teenager or even in my 20s.Im basically just using unwritten flowcharts in my head that branches off in split seconds. Im still in survival mode when it comes to office banter and getting to know people and being "buddy" with them.Some knows that im not in my natural place and they can sense it and I feel I really cant do anything about it because I havent aquired the knowledge of how to move my face and use my words in that precises of a way to keep those giga normies in check and make them think im one of them yet.So there is always going to be some people that find me awkward even though im nice, I do my job, I talk to them and so on.There is something there that im sure if Im 50 years old I will have figured out how to "flowchart and fake".I dont think this approach though will help me that much in finding a relationship out of all of this but it will make me survive for now.
>>69153757Yes I know what you are talking about.It is true.I wanna keep talking to you guys in this thread, I dont wanna get banned.But im way above average in looks as a 31 khv.Belive it or not for now.
>>69152672Go away. You were never an incel to begin with, probably just underaged.
I go outside almost every other day. I walk for several kilometers.In the woods.Alone.
>>69153757>>69153779Hate to break it to you but you're sub8. Sub8 = incel in 2022 unless you go for obese whales. Even if you weren't a sperg, it'd still be over
>>69152672this is the best post on r9k ever
>>69152672What a massive, fucking, arrogant faggot.
>>69152672Stop. Just stop. It's over.
>>69153807you're a fucking retard stop shilling your mental illness on the internet
>>69154044>"you're a fucking retard stop shilling your mental illness on the internet. Woman are LITERALLY kweenz!"
>>69154049youre saying that EIGHT outta tens are incels? that is utter bullshit eight outta tens can still easily pull girls nigger go outside
>>691540935-6-7 bros are stuck with fatties and uggos unless they careermaxx. Truth hurts
>>69154093what you think is an 8/10 is a 5 to women, grow up
>>69154093He probably says that because he's 7.9/10 but retarded. Many such cases
>Lookism bs is cancer, there are literally all kinds of guys in relationships. Nope.In my area ( wealthy college kids are common ) couple are all>white male>male is thinner than the woman>male is taller than the woman>average looking at worstIt's so bad out here I've seen more WMBF couples than even BMBF couples among <30 couples.
>>69152672all you have to do is not eat garbage and move heavy stuff around, the bar is so fucking low but you lards still wont do it
>>69154260What the actual fuck, how can people on this board be so bluepilled
>>69152672theres no point im deformed in 3 places one of them is my dick
>>69154431That man can still find a partner, retard
>>69154474That man is a radio DJ in Seattle with a happy family and a good life.
>>69152672>The moment I made friends, I found a girlfriend.>friendsH-haha...
just stop fapping and go outside. people can sense your "i'm a degenerate coomer" vibes and aura and so they avoid you
>>69154685>just stop fappingHow?
>>69154762go on drugs and eat nothing
>>69154800>How do I stop being a degenerate?>Be a different type of a degenerate lol
>>69154762stop watching porn. occupy your mind with something more productive like touching grass.
> he's still here doing this shit Bro Nobody is buying into this lmaoWe are well aware what world we are living in
>>69154762>>69154832i forgot to mention. quitting things is not going to be easy, so i recommend like limiting yourself to a few faps a week until you only need to fap a few times a month.
>>69152672bro im 25 and never had a gf, I lost weight and I still am invisible to women the only thing I got left to do is weight lift, I legit dropped 80 lbs in less than 4 months and I am still a fucking ghost to women. I went from fuckin 210 to 130, fuck off and stop lying, last time I went on a date was almost 2 years ago people like you genuinely piss me off fuck off normie scum.
>>69152672Cope only mulattos and Latinos slay because their NT
>>69154813better than coomer brain. maybe you can get some fake sympathy
>>69154800thats literally what im doing rn.fasting and smoking weed all day yeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee
>>69154565No he's an italian millionaire and people mock him daily for his looks
>>69154685What the fuck lol you people are completely deluded
>>69154877And once again, gymcel bro is right and OP is a faggot
>>69154685then why is it when I am outside and in a mood where view women with utter contempt that they send me the most thirsty attention / "choosing signals" ? This is also right after I anally masturbated to degenerate shit, you don't know what you're talking about.
>>69153057Wings and his wife are just two undesirable people in a sexless relationship of convenience.Wings wants her insurance.Not something to envy.
>>69155080>I anally masturbatedthey can sense you are gay. they probably don't see you as a threat but more of their "own kind". women give out attention/signals all the time, especially amongst other women/gays since they are not a threat and women are just more sociable in general
>>69155161it's like a longing kind of look. I don't know if you've ever had a girl be attracted to you and it showing in her body language/facial expression while she's looking at you.
>>69155396>>69155080unless you had sex with them you can't know if it was an actual choosing signal or you're just delusional.
>>69155478thats autistic thinking
I choose to be happy and positive despite the world crumbling around me.
>>69155396this happened to me like in the webm, but less physical. i acted like the guy, remaining aloof, and am now a wizard.
>>69152672>it's hyperbole and things are grotesquely exaggerated to make you feel hopelessIt's old cope from autists that founded this website and forum. It wasn't meant to mean anything to normal people.
>>69152672>it's another "teenager finds his first girlfriend and has to let everyone know the world isn't such a bad place after all because he's been in a relationship for 2 whole weeks now" episodesee you in a few months, champ
>>69152672I think very few people truly believe in lookism autism but a lot of people use it as a convinient excuse to not face their cowardice.
>>69152672why because they aren't autistic losers you were just a failed normalfag
>>69152672i go outside all the time, it only reinforces the black pill
Yes I can confirm from first hand experience that most couples I see are not couples where the guy is a chad looks wise. Just the other day I played board games and a couple (i think they were a couple at least) played with us. The guy was a bit overweight, crooked teeth, unkempt beard, etc. The girl was about average I would say, not particularly attractive or ugly in any way. Personally for me it's just my social skills. Had I not been autistic I'd have a gf by now I'm sure of it
>>69156777Digits say I get a gf this year (wishful thinking)
>>69152985Yeah neither do I. The only guys under 30 I see in relationships are tall and good looking
yeah i see all kinds of guys with girls outside, its a pretty stark difference from what fags on this board say. they will cope and say they are betabuxx though to keep their delusions in tact
These threads are just women (and cuck men) pretending to be (non cuck) men, trying to shame us back into putting up with their (women) bullshit.Keep doing you, bros. Live your life. Don't buy into he romanticized nonarguments and shaming tactics.Make your money, build yourself up, and tell them to go to hell.
>>69152672>Don't let r9k, blackpill and the manosphere warp your perecptionI don't believe this. Lookism is kinda true. Yes, some fat dudes have gfs but they probably looked normal before they got fat. I refuse to believe some fatass can get a hot gf
Relationships are not a measure of sexual attraction. Look at the guys these women hook up with after 5 minutes of talking.
>>69152672>Another normalfag comes here to gaslight and flex on usGo to hell.
>>69152871>anybody can date their looksmatchno they can't
>>69152672everyone is mad at you because you're right. acknowledging that you're at least somewhat responsible for your life is terrifying. when you can blame everything on immutable characteristics that aren't your fault you can convince yourself that there's nothing you can do and moving outside of your comfort zone will be fruitless anyway. i don't want to be unkind to the people who think that way because learned helplessness is very real and more powerful than regular people think, but the bottom line is you're right. this board makes me sad.
>>69152672>there are all kind of guys in relationships>posts a drawing of a guy in a relationship >the drawing is a tall and masculine faced guy on top of it >c-c'mon guys stop noticing lookism just pretend with me that it doesn't exist Hyperbole and exaggeration comes out of the truth though, even you admit that. That means women do have looks preferences. The logical conclusion is that it's looks preferences from hypergamy, and chad fucks then beta bucks. That's how it all works, "it's hyperbole!!! It's exaggerated!!!" is cope.
>>69157586>Be me>Disabled and in a wheelchair>JUST GO OUTSIDE BRO IT'S ALL YOUR FAULT BRO JUST TALK TO GIRLS BROJust shut the fuck up, please.
>>69157586Ok let's say I do go outside, what then?
>>69152672based and true:)based and true
>>69152672>go outside>statistically speaking everyone is taller than me>statistically speaking, in all couples, the female is shorter than the male>rarely ever see fat/overweight short men with a woman>get the looks from people because I clearly don't fit inIs it supposed to make be feel better?I know your life is great but consider it actually sucks for most people. I also know you are baiting but I'm bored.
>>69157744you go have fun with your friends and their friends and through this you meet a lot of women what's that ? you don't have friends ? haha just make some friends bro it's soooooooo easywhat do you mean you "can't make friends" ? See this is why you're an incel, you just keep making excuses baka. everyone can make friends stop being ridiculous, just do it the way you made all your childhood friends, go have fun doing something you like and bond with others !
>>69152672>Blaming the manosphere on our problemsCuck detected
>>69157797I can't tell if you're fucking with me or being serious.
>>69157831you got issues man he's obviously being sarcastic
>>69157856>you got issues manNo I don't>he's obviously being sarcasticWhen normalfag advice starts to sound exactly like someone parodying it I could be forgiven for not knowing.
>>69157831>>69157856yeah I'm fucking with you, this is the kind of dumb shit fucking normalniggers or femoids would saywhich word auto translates to baka btw ? I don't remember what I wrote
>>69152672i've wasted 4 years on trying everything to be with this one girlnow that highschool is finally over i got into my dream college and feel that a fresh start is in front of mei've never had a girlfriend in my life despite being relatively good looking, never bothered since other girls were nothing compared to hernow that i'm seeing things clearly, women are objects and should be treated as such, there is no "true love" and it's just physical attraction combined with your personality
>>69152672I hardly ever see couples, in campus or elsewhere. Most common couple I see are seniors.
>>69152672What do normalfags see "outside" that makes them want to live? I only misery, selfishness and ignorance.
>>69158287spending your time with people not so different than youenjoying the scenerydoing dumb shitin my humble opinion everything is better than staying at your home all day, figured that out pretty late and i'm catching up with my social skills
>>69158616I have a job, a group of friends and have gone to many parties/events. Traveled for a bit too, saw a chunk of the world.But none of that gave me any kind of hope, I don't see any kind of beauty in all of that either.What did you saw that made all of your past life experience "worthless"? What did you experienced that made you love life?Doing drugs with a bunch of strangers?> inb4 sex/loveIf that's your answer, then you have nothing to contribute to this place, because that is precisely what most robots want but can't get.
>>69152672go out and what? i have no frens, no gf, I'm terribly stressed all the time, even when i chatted with AI she said>why won't you say anything positivealso, I'm 27, at this stage of life you don't make any lasting friendships, and even 16 yo girls are already experienced, nobody wants an old virgin
>>69158665honestly i was a shut in as a kid and rarely went outside somewhere until the first summer break of highschooli got to meet a lot of people over a neighborhood friend, kind of made a nice friend groupthat made me realize that spending time with people is way better than playing league of legends and chatting on dickcordsadly my love life is empty, i chased after a girl for the entirety of highschool and never got anywhere with her, though the only positive is that i've improved my social skills and lost a lot of weightas an example i visited an abandoned factory with 2 of my buddies, tried scrapping copper, in the end we just hang around there just looking at the old communist architecture and leaving with a few posters and a picture of josip broz titoit's just the stupid shit you do with your buddies without the fear of judgement that makes your life way betteralso a nice tip is to change up your friends, don't constantly hang out with a single person because after a certain period you will get bored of each other
which is why autism is the only true black pill. most incels should be hopeless because of their genetics dooming them to a miserable existence, they just for some reason decide to ignore their autism and project their issues onto muhlooks. there's a few reasons i think may contribute to this but i'm still trying to figure out thermain one. you're just lucky you're part of the minority of incels who is NT or NT passing and somehow got sucked into their meme worldview.
>>69152672I've had friends since middle school and I never bought into lookism because I'm not a fucking retard who gets all his information from the internet. That doesn't make any of that better because it shows its all internal which is a hell of a lot harder to fix than anything external
>>69154685Why do retards always say this? People are unobservant as shit unless you smell like garbage, if that weren't the case there wouldn't be so much domestic abuse