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Normies seem to lose their mind over this. My logic is pretty simple: I am a virgin, i want a wholesome romance where we both do cute, lubby dubby things together, then finally give ourselves to each other in marriage. I want us to be the only ones who have ever been with each other. This seems like an incredibly reasonable standard; after all, everyone is born a virgin. No one has to actually work for it. However, normies seem to lose their minds when I mention this, even after I explain. Why? What is their logic?
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Bumping this thread with cute Sonamy are and what I would like to do one day.
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>>69695291
All your classmates were fucking in 9th grade and you have no clue.
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>>69695412
All that would mean is that there is no one alive who is good enough for my very easy standard. That says less about me and says more about the state of humanity.
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Bumping the thread one more time for genuine answers.
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>>69695291
>not wanting broken goods yandere gf
Because they know you have bad taste when you say that
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>>69696213
I was virgin at 20, my gf at 22
We plan to get married soon
Kind souls are rare in this world
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>>69695291
>I want us to be the only ones who have ever been with each other.
Enjoy your awkward and shitty sex lol
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>>69696241
Enjoyment in sex comes from emotional connection and the desire to pleasure a partner you love, not acrobatic quadruple penetration you saw on pornsites
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>>69695291
Because it's a arbitrary and shallow standard that decreases your chances of finding a happy relationship by a wide margin. Goof luck tho anon
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>>69696259
>an actual virgin telling me where enjoyment in sex comes from
Actually top kek. Also I don't watch porn bucko.

Enjoy your shitty and awkward sex faggot. I hope your waifu leaves you
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>>69696278
MUH DIK MUTHAFUKA
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>>69695291

In the same position as you, OP. Chances are slim, though.
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>>69696261
It is not that at all.
>>69696558
We can make it.
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>>69696558

Rookies, let me help you. All these dogshit shows lied you about romance, swooning over one girls leads to your heart being broken and you being accused of being called a stalker.
>Doug is dogshit
>Hey Arnold is dogshit
Johnny Bravo has the right idea.

>harem anime is stupid
>naruto and rock lee are fucking simps
Ryo from city hunter has the idea and so does Dandy.

>Blue arms sonic is a simp
Tan arms game sonic has the right idea

Girls have multiple dudes they are fucking or talking to at a time, They've shown me man, many have just have a public face.

>i want a wholesome romance where we both do cute, lubby dubby things together, then finally give ourselves to each other in marriage. I want us to be the only ones who have ever been with each other.

My friend married a virgin, she gained 60 pounds on him and prevents him to talking to certain people.

Girl I met at a networking event was married since graduating highschool to her first love; but he ditched her ass after moving to California after being married for 10 years. She is now dating my pal.

Another person I know married a virgin, but she ended up being a gender-fluid non-binary lesbian after 8 years and divorce raped his ass.

Shit doesn't work in the real world, you gotta get pussy while you can man.
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>>69697573
> Shit doesn't work in the real world, you gotta get pussy while you can man.

The thing is that I have absolutely not interest in that beyond shallow hedonism, and that is nothing to me. I want a real romance with a girl as wholesome, loving, and into me as Amy Rose, and I do not care how much is costs.
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>>69697620
I actually lost my virginity to a girl who thought the world of me and got me to fuck her friends. Sadly she passed; I am not going to stay broken. I keep moving my dude.
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>>69696261
>arbitrary and shallow standard
Is it really though?
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>>69696224
good taste bro
>tfw no broken goods yandere gf
isnt amy rose a little yandere anyway?
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>>69697643
I am sorry to hear that, but I do not want a harem.
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>>69696241
i did it and we were both virgins and it was pretty alright actually idk what crack ur on
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>>69695291
THIS LITERALLY MAKES ME SO FUCKING MAD. IT'S FALSE AND FAKE AND PHONEY AS SHIT AND PEOPLE CANNOT SEE THAT. WHAT IS THE POINT OF THIS SHIT? IT'S LITERALLY NOTHING BUT SEX AND THAT PISSES ME OFF BECAUSE IT'S SO FUCKING SHAMELESS. I AM LITERALLY SEETHING THROUGH MY FUCKING TEETH RIGHT NOW BECAUSE THIS HAS UPSET MY BLOOD PRESSURE AFTER HAVING IT UNDER CONTROL FOR DAYS NOW. HOW FUCKING*** DARE THEY DO THIS SHIT. WHO THE FUCK DO THEY THINK I AM? WE ARE? THEY ARE TREATING PEOPLE LIKE FUCKING IDIOTS BY DOING THIS SHIT. IT'S NOT REAL IT'S NOT "BANTER" IT'S JUST SEX. PEOPLE ARE LITERALLY GETTING LAID FOR POSTING FAKE CONVERSATIONS AND PICTURES ON TWITTER WITH THE PURPOSE TO GET PEOPLE TO LIKE THEIR POSTS BECAUSE IT GIVES OTHERS THE IMPRESSION THAT THEY ARE FRIENDS AND WORKING TOGETHER. DO. NOT. BUY. INTO. THIS. I'VE SEEN SHIT LIKE THIS BEFORE AND EVEN THEN IT MADE ME SICK TO MY FUCKING STOMACH, BUT TO SEE IT BE DRAGGED OUT FOR THIS LONG, WITH THIS MANY SOCIAL ACCOUNTS, IS TRULY SOMETHING ELSE AND IS SICKENING ON A WHOLE ANOTHER LEVEL. FUCK THESE GUYS, FUCK THESE SHAGGERS. I WILL NEVER, EVER, EVER* SUPPORT THESE PEOPLE. EVER.
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>>69697683
I am not saying you are stupid. I don't want you to get hurt friend, it's a rough world out there man. Sometimes you gotta take what you have to take, or avoid getting fked over liked the cases I mentioned previously.
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>>69695449
Humanity will go on just fine, you'll spend the rest of your life alone. But yeah, it's not you, it's everybody else.
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valuing virginity/purity makes normies and whores mega insecure
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i told mom and her friends i wanna marry a woman that havent had sex before me and havent had any social network account and they all laughed at me and said sorry but you're a loser, i wish i had some balls to shoot them all but also i wish i had a gun for that operation
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>>69697834
>>69697834
Both my parents told me to get a virgin gf
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Cuz it's a retarded and outdated ideal to have in 2022. It's like being a flatearther or religious or some other equally brainless 9th century idea.
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>>69697834
My parents would laugh at me too. Especially mom who is still whoring around well into her 40s.
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>>69697653
She is but I don't think she's broken goods. I want someone like from Blue Flame or Dokuzakura.
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Islam will be the dominant religion within the next couple decades and you'll be able to have that option

just like the taliban
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>>69697892
roastie cope. you need a man to physically assault you in order to feel anything. you probably wont ever be happy.
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>>69697960
Do you really think there are any girls on this site newfag?
Go post your frogs on reddit where it belongs
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>>69697987
>a "man" attacking other men for wanting a partner who's as sensitive as they are to share an incredibly intimate and special experience with
kill yourself
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>>69698040
You're delusional if you think the first time will be special. It won't. You will be awkward and she will be in pain. 15 years later you will both have forgotten about it and probably even each others faces too
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>>69695291
Men aren't allowed to expect or want things of women in normal society
But also, from what I've been told I think it's like a mix of jealousy, because when presented with it they recognize they gave up their virginity too easy, and anger that someone is doing something different from the hive, which would be not having or trying to have casual sex
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>>69698064
either you're not white, or your mom put you on psych meds as a kid and fucked your head up. sorry you cant truly connect with other people.
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>>69698088
None of that is true. I'm a white Scandinavian with blue eyes. My mom is super nice
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>>69698088
>either you're not white
not that anon but if you want a WHITE virgin that's never happening, lol
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>>69698108
nah youre fucked up some how. dont know why some people desiring purity and sensitivity makes you so insecure. it shouldnt. you should be able to relate. hope you get over it some day bro.
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>>69698145
I'm sorry you feel jealous that I have sex with a bunch of ladies on the regular. Maybe you should get some plastic surgery to put boobs on your hand so you at least can feel a bit better
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>>69695291
>Why do people freak out when I say I only want to date and marry a virgin?
Because they recognize it as an unhealthy fixation as opposed to a naturally developed desire built around logic. If you were in highschool this would not just be considered possible, but smart, and something likely encouraged more and more with future generations. But being that young makes finding a healthy and stable relationship hard. It is a choice made to spend your life trying to see some of the strongest emotions you will ever see through.

and while in most cases these relationships fail because of both parties in a way, and that is okay, normal members of society recognize that after a certain age, you have developed into a complete person, but had sex along the way. Even if a girl herself was perfect, her partner, also a child, is gonna fuck the relationship up.

it all comes back to expecting not virginity but perfection, because you know you don't want a virgin who is a virgin for the same reasons you are, you would then complain that it is also reasonable to expect your partner to be attractive enough that it makes no sense for her to be holding on to her virginity this late in life.

baka.
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>>69698208
I'd settle for an honest to god femcel desu but they wouldnt settle for me
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>>69695291
>What is their logic?
1. They're envious. Women are envious that maidens have more value than sluts and men are envious because they want a virgin but can't get one.
2. They're anti-Christ. Whether or not you're a Christian, God says virgin marriage is the way to go, so you're going to get fedora-tippers lashing out that reason.
3. They're NPCs who are angry that you're walking a more noble path or are upset about their own choices.
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>>69698334
You just had to bring in religion in the mix, didn't you? Your value as an individual just dropped by half.
Jump off a bridge already and go meet your god, no need to let the rest of humanity suffer through your existence
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>>69698361
>proves his point
O
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>>69697730
I do not have to take anything, though. I either get the romance I want, or I do not have anything.
>>69697747
If birth rates in the West, the only place where promiscuity is tolerated, are any indication, then no, they will not. But I, on the other hand, will leave slamming the door on the earth that all of humanity will stand back and stare in stupification.
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>>69697892
Given I think civilization started its downhill descent in the 15th century, sure, I guess you are right. It just is not an insult.
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>>69698208
>Because they recognize it as an unhealthy fixation as opposed to a naturally developed desire built around logic.
I actually think it is the exact opposite. I developed this view precisely from logic.
> and while in most cases these relationships fail because of both parties in a way, and that is okay, normal members of society recognize that after a certain age, you have developed into a complete person, but had sex along the way.
Why would I care if that is what normies expect? I do not expect it, nor would I accept it.
>it all comes back to expecting not virginity but perfection, because you know you don't want a virgin who is a virgin for the same reasons you are, you would then complain that it is also reasonable to expect your partner to be attractive enough that it makes no sense for her to be holding on to her virginity this late in life.
I would not expect any woman to date me right now, and given the reason I am not married rn (and thus still a virgin) is likely autism, then I actually think it is the opposite. I would want a woman who is still a virgin for the reasons I am (that is, I would love a woman who is single due to autism). There is also no reason to assume I need to date a woman who is similarly in her mid 20s.
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>>69698361
>mention of god makes twisted individual literally seethe and smolder
thats not healthy little fella
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Because they love being Cuck Lords
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>>69698531
Idk why people are like that.
>>69698334
Probably the best answer I have seen so far.
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>>69698514
>I developed this view precisely from logic.
Yeah, that guy you replied to is severely retarded. Let's see how many things I can think of in favor of virgin marriage.

>no STDs
>less divorce risk
>all bonding potential directed toward just one person
>avoiding temptation to fornicate before marriage demonstrates the ability to avoid temptation to cheat
>no insecurity over measuring up to past partners
>less risk of being a cuckold
>children will be raised in a stable environment and witness what a good relationship looks like

This last one is subjective, but I find the idea of only having sex with your wife to be very erotic. It's something special that only exists in that one relationship; no one else can share that kind of intimacy with you.
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>>69698841
>This last one is subjective, but I find the idea of only having sex with your wife to be very erotic. It's something special that only exists in that one relationship; no one else can share that kind of intimacy with you.
Absolutely, and it is very weird to me that normies do not see this. Why wouldn't this be what you would want?
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Bumping this thread, tony soprano feels edition
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I must've forgot the image. Weird it didn't post.
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>>69695291
They don't know that you're talking about a cartoon.
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>>69695291
Why don't you go and ask them instead of whining here. Granted that /r9k/ is normalfag central now
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Semi-Normie/Non-Autist here,
I lost my virginity at 17 and it was with my then girlfriend, if you want honest reasoning for why they think like this, its most likely due to the fact they were conditioned to roast you by society. I don't mind people that choose to wait until marriage, i think everyone has their interests and wants and those are fine to have. Your age regarding your question also matters a lot tho. If you're 22+ you are pretty much beyond doomed if you're still in need and wanting "ideal virgin gf" its possible but highly unlikely, since you're posting fucking Sonic the Hedgehog shipping images I'm assuming you're still on the younger side (hopefully) so if you're still in school then there may be hope for you, otherwise, them judging you or "losing their minds" is probably due to your age and still desiring a goal that is somewhat unrealistic for your time in life.
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>>69699699
What do you mean?
>>69699734
Normies don't have the capacity to articulate their thoughts.
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>>69699752
I am 26 and entirely unwilling to even remotely compromise on a romantic standard I've been seeking since childhood. If necessary, I will just date a younger woman. I'll be honest that I don't care if my goals are unrealistic; none of my goals are "realistic". Mediocrity was never an option for me. I will be great, or I will be not at all. Those are the only two options, and I would watch the world die before compromising one iota.
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>>69699752
I have autism, btw, and I will fucking kill before losing out on what I want from life due to a mother fucking condition I didn't choose.
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>>69699754
You're the namefag that keeps posting "I want to fuck this Amy cartoon" right?
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>>69699806
No, what I've posted is that I love Amy due to how she exemplifies all the character and personality traits I would want in a woman if I ever married or had a gf.
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>>69699814
blah blah blah I fuck cartoons
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>>69695291
Normies seethe because they want to fuck around without any consequences. When you say virgins are not marrying material they feel personally attacked.
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>>69699779
ah, well, i guess you have your answer for why they react the way they do. You're 26 and have a fixation on wanting something the majority of your peers all lost 10 years ago now. To them it just isn't something you hear everyday so i guess hearing you want that surprises them or bewilders them. I have autism to a degree too but thankfully im on the more high functioning side socially so i managed to scrape by, best of luck to you and your goals robot, always remember, suicide is wayyyy more badass than killing others and being a sissy like people that do mass murder homocides.
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>>69698361
Vile atheist scum. You people are worms.
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>>69699824
Thank you. I am highly functioning and get along socially, but I have not really dated before. The point I was trying to make is not that i am planning on committing suicide or going on a mass shooting, but rather that my life goals are not up for negotiation. They are rock. Maybe they make things more difficult for me, but it's irrelevant, since compromise was never an option. It's just not the type of person I am, never was, nor will it ever be.
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>>69699974
based robot.
there are most likely Christian dating apps for you to look into that you might be able to find a girl with similar interests, and also mayyybe still a virgin. That's the best piece of advice i got for you if you haven't already taken the Christian mingle pill.
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>>69696261
It's been proven by studies that the more partners a woman has, the less likely she will be faithful in a committed relationship. Seems like a pretty logical conclusion to want a virgin for a relationship.
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>>69700004
Dating apps are probably a bad idea. I would have to finish looksmaxxing and lifemaxxing first. Irl is probably a better bet. However, the virgin thing is just something I cannot compromise on out of principle. The only exceptions I could allow myself to make would be rape victims, maybe girls with autism who were easily manipulated growing up, and maybe women who are so ridiculously and utterly exceptional (with a body count of 1 or 2 men and repentant about it) that I could perhaps let the standard slide.
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>>69698361
>>Whether or not you're a Christian, God says virgin marriage is the way to go, so you're going to get fedora-tippers lashing out that reason.
>atheist instantly starts seething
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>>69700034
there ya go, I don't think they're a bad idea though, from what I heard (I'm not theist, sorry, I can see that isn't appreciated in this thread) but i have friends that use things like Catholic Match and Christian Cupid and they arent exactly the most attractive men in the world but they still get matches and meet people so I'd say you have a shot. I think if you find the girl of your dreams and it turns out shes had a body count of 1 or 2 and she really regrets it then I agree with you that you should let that standard slide. Virginity is a social construct, a hymen can be broken by anything, i would say as long as she's a respectable woman and hasn't had too much dick in her life then you should go for it.
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>>69700070
I could try it, buy again, it won't be for at least 6 months to a year. I am mentally and emotionally extremely dead on the idea of falling in love with real women in the first place, so it is not all that easy. But really, virginity is still the standard. Relaxing that standard could only happen in exceptional cases (and I don't could rape as losing your virginity), and I would NEVER compromise for the sake of fucking caving to some social bullshit standard of what I "should" do or is considered "realistic".
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>>69700070
Also btw I don't care about the hymen. However, virginity is not a social construct. The question of whether or not you've had sex us a question about physical events that have happened in space time. In that sense, it is purely an objective question
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>>69700129
the term virginity has unfortunately become an all-encompassing word instead of being solely for vaginal intercourse, in my opinion, its some leftist psyop bullshit trying to convince incels that they arent virgins because someone sucked their cock so therefore they arent virgins anymore because the term virginity apparently doesn't mean what it once did.
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>>69700156
Well, i wouldn't date a girl who did sodomy or oral either.
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>>69695291
They were convinced to participate in a self destructive, insanely hedonistic and alienating culture. Their only cope is to drag as many people down with them as possible so that they do not have to admit that they fucked up.
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>>69700156
Well, let me clarify some. Oral I could be a bit more flexible on assuming she regrets it sincerely, but anal is an automatic no.
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>>69696241
People who bring this up really are saying more about themselves than who they are saying this to. I really cannot consider you a human being if your number one complaint is that the sex might temporarily be as good.
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>>69700311
Might not* not might
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>>69695291
The only people that want to sleep with virgins are the ones that have never slept with a virgin before. It is not going to be the amazing experience you think its going to be.
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>>69695291
Cognitive dissonance. They are on a hedonistic treadmill and the idea of sex not just being an act of consooming actually fries their programming.
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>>69700342
Im completely fine with awkward sex consisting of two virgins.
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>>69700342
I do not want to simply sleep with a virgin. I want to fall in love with, court, and marry a girl who will only ever share herself with me (and vice versa). I want pic related, not simply to sleep with a virgin out of some fetishistic novelty.
>>69700361
I have started to realize that normies are not fully human, if even mostly human at all.
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>>69700363
Yeah, ikr. Why do people think it matters? It is not as if you cannot just practice and get better.
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>>69698108
Yeah you are literally the worse person to ask though. Scandinavians are known to have a very shallow hook up culture.
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>>69695291
Because it goes against what people have been conditioned to believe - that casual sex is good and healthy and there's nothing wrong with being a slut.
If I'm a virgin, I will only be interested in girls who are also virgins. It's not unreasonable by any means, however the few virgin women are hard to come across, so you just have to accept that you may very well be alone forever, which I accepted quite some time ago.
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>>69700609
I do not believe I will be alone forever. There are plenty of amazing autist girls who think the same way I do. But, I would absolutely rather die alone than be with some normie woman. I have tried it before, and it was awful, just complete and total hell.
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>>69700707
>I have tried it before, and it was awful, just complete and total hell.
what happened?
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>>69700753
It was just constant arguing, outbursts, etc. about deep conflicts in beliefs, lifestyles, politics, etc. It became a daily madhouse, especially she refused to compromise on certain things. For example, I want 6 kids. She wanted maybe 2 at most. I offered to compromise and say 4, but she would refuse. We were both just miserable with each other, and I learned then that normie women just are not for dating.
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>>69695291
Same here. Don't care about a meme contract though (marriage).
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>>69697573
>All these dogshit shows lied you about romance
This. I actually hope Hollywood gets nuked for ruining it for me and some others.
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ernie disapproves of this terrifying image
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>>69701766
What, the Sonamy pic?
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>>69695291
Sexual predator looking for immature girls
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>>69695291
You're shallow as fuck if the only thing you want from a partner is your ideal of virginal purity, which doesn't exist.
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>>69697573
Ryo from City Hunter was actually friendly and not a narcissist like most people who chase women in real life. He even tries not to actually kill people and becomes serious and remorseful in situations where he's forced to.
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>>69695291
Ngl i think there is nothing wrong with that.
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>>69696241
Ngl the fact that it is awkward makes it kind of cute. Like you are going to learn together.
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>>69704047
well of course. What I am aying is he wasn't focused on one girl.
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>>69695291
Cause thats unrealistic,
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>>69703772
No
>>69703809
I never said that was the only thing I wanted.
>>69704062
Same, but we also are not normalfags.
>>69704806
Yeah, and?
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>>69698184
holy retard burn (it was not that much of an insult)



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