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Thread for the old skool losers.

Previous thread: >>71905536
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My friends and roommates were getting laid weekly in their teens and twenties. Basically watched them talk to girl and then heard them fuck but I never found out that missing step between chatting and fucking. It really bothers me. 30 years old and can't figure this shit out
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>>71932701
yeah that's all normal people. they either get in a longterm relationship young or have a lot of casual sex. we're in the other category.
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>>71932588
>Why wouldn't you had survived?
Weak, socially retarded, ugly, poorer than average, single mother. I didn't get a meaningful job until 25
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think i'm gonna do noporn for a long while. i'm too fucking desensitized man. or at least just fap to solo anime tits or something. i can't tell if i'm bored or depressed or what but nothing does it anymore.
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>>71933125
Speaking from experience I think it's a combination of both
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>>71933145
being an ugly wizard and getting bored of porn and fapping is hell because naturally you just turn to wishing you could fuck a woman instead since this absolutely doesn't do it anymore. i have nothing a woman would want in terms of a relationship though so. it feels like i might have to get my shit in order to get some ugly, fat, desperate roastie tail. sucks man. i don't want to fap alone anymore.
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>>71932648
>Create tinder profile
>spend several days going through profiles
>Finally get a match, she instantly messages Hi
>tell her politely I am busy with work and will respond later so she doesn't think I am ghosting her
>instantly umatched
Why are women so impatient? Wouldn't have killed her to come back a bit later, or is there some technical reason behind it like having too many chats open or a limit on how many matches could be displayed?

Tinder's entire model is so scummy, I'll try for a week more then delete my profile the entire experience was demeaning. It's designed for hookups at its core.
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>>71933305
Any woman has 100 matches easily, we are just chew toys to them unless you are gigachad. Try bubmel; or hinge
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losing weight is great for my overall general energy levels and ability to do stuff, but i have more weight to lose
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>>71933305
>Why are women so impatient?
because they can find a man like pic related at the swipe of a finger after half an hour. replacing you with an upgrade is easier for them, and a better deal
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>>71932701
the missing step is to touch them and kiss them. you have to roll the dice and just kiss her at some point.
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>>71920281
>>71924624
Why does the easiest shit in the world seem so hard? I'm going to have to ask her to do something eventually but I feel I need to talk to her more and try and get more info. Plus I would be nervous and awkward most likely and don't need to get embarrassed. Chances are that's whats going to happen anyway but whatever at least I'm trying I guess.
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>>71933415
That Chad wouldn't fuck average women on Tinder.

I have seen how Chads don't give a fuck about average women too. When Chad has fucked the top women he isn't going to give a fuck about an average woman even if she wants to be his sexslave and cook and clean the house for him. There are levels to the game.
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does this apply to you?
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>>71933692
Yes but I am creepmaxxing so I'm pretty happy. I am poorly groomed and aim at all times to make women uncomfortable. I try to look like the kind of man who might rape them and bite their tits hard enough to scar so they always remember me when they look in the mirror naked but really I just enjoy making them mildly uncomfortable.
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>>71933305
>>71933383
This. Tinder for girls is basicly omegle. A trillion horny average looking guys fighting for a piece of used up pussy

I still use it though. Its fun to chat with real people sometimes
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>>71933383
nah I'm over dating apps in general already, not for me.
Figured I'd give it a shot out of curiosity and I wish I haven't, you get to peer a bit at other women's lives and the landscape out there is so bleak.

From what I have observed about 1% of the girls had wholesome profiles looked decent (not obese) and had some common ground for discussion with an interesting bio.
Majority of the profiles were likely blatantly catfishing or looking for a hookup.

A few trends I've noticed
>A sizeable amount of rich women that are very outgoing and lead an active lifestyle, not bad but way out of reach for common folk and hard to keep up with or share common interests for discussion
>Majority of young women show off their body in the first picture, cleavage/downblouse/swimsuit etc... A lot of them are self absorbed with narcissistic selfies some condescending remark and little to no information about their interests
>Foreigners visiting a country looking for a tour guide or recently moved in and want someone to teach them the language mostly young in their 20s, signalling they are a limited time deal
>Profiles of women in their 30s a lot are scantily clad in the first picture yet claiming in their bio outright they are looking for a long term relationship and no hookups
>Women wanting someone to help out with some chores like setting up/moving furniture,cooking etc... (most likely just a lighthearted joke)
>A lot of profiles that are just a covered camera or do not contain people (cheating? low profile for hookups? scammers phishing for gullible targets?)
>A buttload of nurses, likely because they lead very busy carreers with unaccomodating schedules
>A lot of women in their 30s with high profile careers
>A lot of single mothers around 28+
>A lot of women with tattoos all over and into drugs
Fuck it's morbidly depressing, ignorance truly is bliss.
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>>71933752
With nurses and teachers you notice it more because the fields are so female dominated. You dont notice the cashiers or whatever even genedered splits there are
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>>71933711
Sounds like fun,
origami
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Join Meetic anons, Rebecca is there waiting for you.
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>>71933774
what is that sites gimmick? mail order brides?
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>>71933692
general schizo cycle
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>>71933778
No just straight up scams. Get hooked up on a monthy member ship thats impossible to quit and you have to pay six months in advance. Also all the girls are bots
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these hoes out here who do nothing but fuck Chad are about to be homeless when they hit retirement age lmao.
they don't understand how they perturb everyone out of their life because it takes a couple decades to observe the effects, especially their family.

https://youtu.be/FyZHMWsPdcw
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>>71933831
Anon unless they get fucked up they can still find beta bucks
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In my 35 years of life I've met one woman who understood me. Don't think it'll happen again
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>>71932701
The missing step is attraction.
>Be me, chat up fat black chick online
>She tells me she's into raceplay and bdsm
>Go see her, she only wants to watch anime with me.
>Make a move, make out, bite her lip, lightly grab her neck... she's into it
>Try to escalate further, she stops me constantly
>Go out another time, she again pulls the exact same shit.
She didn't want to fuck because she thought I was ugly. She wanted attention but someone like me just couldn't get her wet. This is just one example.
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>>71933750
Is tinder social for friends worthwhile? Probably better to just join some gaming or other activity based community and check once you make some friends there if anyone lives in the vicinity and would like to meet up.
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>>71933841
I met a woman I clicked well with but she was a single mother.
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>>71933875
Mines married now
Worst part is I could have easily had her
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>>71933887
Probably better to remain single at this rate and lead a minimal stress/anexiety lifestyle enjoying what interests I have with the fruits of my labor.
The entire ordeal is one giant minefield, the juice just isn't worth the squeeze man.
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>>71933966
I'm not quite there yet unfortunately
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>>71933478
>Why does the easiest shit in the world seem so hard? I'm going to have to ask her to do something eventually but I feel I need to talk to her more and try and get more info. Plus I would be nervous and awkward most likely and don't need to get embarrassed. Chances are that's whats going to happen anyway but whatever at least I'm trying I guess.
Don't waste time. You've already spoken to her. She goes out of her way to talk to you.
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fuck off katie you disgusting whore, i hate you
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>>71934040
Yeah and I walk into her classroom and start talking to her, so what if shes the one who started it and would come up and say hi whats the problem? But ill just give up then thanks guys
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>just turned 30
>still live with parents but pay rent and my own bills
>shitty wagie job barely making 50k a year
>just bought a 50k car

I paid off all my debt last year and have been hoarding whatever money I don't spend and life seemed so pointless, I decided to sell my old car and buy a new one so this is the only debt I will have, it's only 40k but still. I just feel so bored and depressed all the time, maybe having a nice car will cheer me up and motivate me to go back to school or something, I feel so depressed, I literally lay on my floor and listen to music when I'm not working, that's all I do.
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>>71934287
You have a car
Now you need to save up for a trip
You can spend a month in Japan for under 5k. Rent an airbnb for a monthly rate, and check Google flights daily for some weeks to make sure you get the best rate on a flight.

If you're not a weaboo fly to Vietnam or Thailand and find a wife who wants a green card and will marry you within 5 years of dating
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>>71934372
Realistically I could actually do that. My job gives me like 4 weeks of vacation a year and I have some money that makes the whole experience not so far fetched. My problem is my extreme anxiety, I would give everything I own just to be able to go out, go to the gym, or just walk around the store without feeling extremely insecure and awkward. I would be so happy if I could just feel normal, no material things will ever make me as happy as me being able to walk through the streets without anxiety, going to the store to buy the candy I want, or just having a small conversation with a random stranger.
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>>71933692
Literally me frfr. All it takes is being calm, quiet, and having a bit of self-control in public, and all the adults think you're the bestest boy ever. Too bad that doesn't translate well for adults: when you do speak up, suddenly it's like "the freak has awoken, run!"
>tfw 292 pic related
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>>71933866
Yes most interactions wnever leave the screen. Mostly you talk to girls
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>finally start trying dating apps
>actually get matches but they're all normie women I can't relate to
>just want a nerd/weeb gf but the single ones over 25 are all extremely unattractive landwhales
pain, I missed the boat already. I wish I was a zoomer, it seems like all the late teens/early 20s girls watch anime.
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>>71934230
>Yeah and I walk into her classroom and start talking to her, so what if shes the one who started it and would come up and say hi whats the problem? But ill just give up then thanks guys
I mean don't waste time by not asking her out.
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>>71934493
honestly sounds better than trying to date.
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>>71934524
being fundamentally unable to relate to other humans in any meaningful capacity has pretty much ensured I'm going to die alone

I wasn't born this way, I was made this way and I don't think I can be fixed. It makes me want die.
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>>71934641
Yeah maybe. You can have hour long conversations with people you would never be able to talk to in real life. You might even get flirty.

Its much more fun since the preassure is off.
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>>71933195
>it feels like i might have to get my shit in order to get some ugly, fat, desperate roastie tail
Yep. If you work your ass off at a shitty job for 14 hours every day, spend 4 hours every day in the gym every day, starve yourself, count calories, and do that for maybe four years non-stop you might be able to get a horribly fat morbidly obese ugly landwhale foid that has lived in mommy and daddy's house her whole life and never done anything.
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>>71933711
>creepmaxxing
Is it possible to learn this power?
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>>71934979
>a horribly fat morbidly obese ugly landwhale foid that has lived in mommy and daddy's house her whole life and never done anything.
sounds ideal
you can make a woman lose weight but you can't unwhore her
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>>71934404
>144
I'm being nice to myself by not counting my computer as a toy, and not counting desperate to find love since most people are desperate for that so it's natural.
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I've been dying my hair black fearing age discrimination for entry level jobs
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>>71933711
>tfw don't even need to creepmaxx tomake people around me feel uncomfortable
I never asked for this tho.
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>>71933692
>Have a problem at 23
>Do nothing to fix it
>Upset that at 30 things have gotten worse
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>>71933692
Oh yes far too close to home, I never overheard people calling me boring but I am certain without a doubt they did behind my back.
Sometimes people are so easy to read.
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>>71932701
everyone's survival in this world takes a different form
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>>71935040
>can't even do this because went bald mid 20s
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>>71935040
I have no wrinkles I just lie that I'm 6 years younger than I am
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>>71935101
yes, mine's a cockroach.
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I got fuckin tinnitus I don't know when past weeks not looking like it's wax fuck fuck gonna have to listen to this shit for the rest of my life MMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMM
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>>71935097
What the fuck is the problem though? It starts out as literal virtue and then overtime morphs into the single biggest problem a person can have, a problem no one can name but everyone can think of a victim of it, a problem with no solution.
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>>71935097
>Have a problem at 23
>Work towards fixing it but slow cause you've been a slow cunt your whole life
>New problems get introduced
>Gotta deal with those now too while fixing those initial ones
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>>71934793
You know what I'll give it a shot, was going to delete my profile anyways but this might be fun to explore for a while.
There are other better dedicated platforms to chat with randomn people.
However you've noted one interesting advantage, it's not easy to get in touch with women in online communities and have a level headed discussion with one without people sperging out.

Take this place for instance, the moment an anon claims to be a woman all hell breaks loose and the topic shifts towards agression and sexual tension.
Now there are a lot of attention whores out there that enjoy the drama and fame, but there were a few women that were pleasant to chat with, however such threads are rare.

Sharing pictures on here is obviously a huge risk and not allowed by the rules, however on tinder it is common place for people to have their pictures on display.
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>>71935211
>the moment an anon claims to be a woman all hell breaks loose
IS THERE A FEMANON IN THIS THREAD?!? AWWOOOGA! PLEASE, MAY I HAVE A CRUMB OF PUSSY, M'LADY?
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Decided to randomly check an old friends fb account and saw he'd had a kid and moved with his wife to Japan. Fuck that made me want to kill myself.
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>>71935247
That's what I was talking about, if you go outside how often do you see men clobbering over wo-
nevermind, do carry on.

It all depends on context I suppose, there are some spaces like work where you can approach and chat with women without sexual tension.
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>>71934404
>432

nice cant wait to die
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>>71932648
I'm 36, doing OKish on money, at least I can live by myself and my two jobs are super comfy. I workout a lot and do healthy stuff. Recently I started no fap/no porn (I have fapped intensely since I was a teen) and it fucking dawned on me. I am slowly realizing all the negative aspects in my life that I have ignored since I can remember. Being a loner, not being able to connect with past partners, being jealous, sabotaging my own relationships in order not to commit. Lying. Being an overall piece of shit. I feel like I want to kms.
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>>71934404
pointless. age and red section alone send you zooming past putrified.
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Today I am allowed to post here :)
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>>71934589
Bro thats no longer a thing

They have to ask you out. If they dont theyre not interested
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>>71935211
It was always *kinda* like that but like someone said it was mostly weirdos, oddballs and catladies back then. Even the attention-whores were of a specific kind of odd.

Now it's influencers and e-whores looking to exploit users.

>>71935262
Dude sounds like he's living millennial nerd's dream.
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>>71936424
On second thought I won't bother, it is really draining to use these apps just one endless slog.
It is designed to fleece you and give you the illusion of choice and control, you don't really get to tune the decision making process to your liking, that is not profitable.
You can set various paremeters and your choices could have a slight impact but they get to play "matchmaker" and control the flow and quality of results with the algorithm running in the background.

I feel like it is all broken by design, they want the majority of women to be conceited and the average man to feel hopeless and resort to paying his way through for an advantage.
But ultimately it is in their best interest for people to keep coming back especially those that pay hence people forming stable relationships is detrimental, cheating and casual sex are good for business.
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>>71933692
My parents are a bit schizo so I had to be the adult. Or some facsimile of one. I missed a proper childhood. When it came time to be an actual adult it just didn't go.
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>>71934589
I get what you're saying now and I figured that I probably have a limited time window on this. I just don't know what to ask her to do honestly, do people really just go out and have a coffee do I suggest a bar or something else?
>>71936344
In what world does that happen? If this was the case half the people in these threads would of gone out with someone by now.
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>>71937829
vast majority of the sex havers on this board get approached by women.
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>>71933305
Because tinder is a hookup app, not a dating app. It's just a digital gloryhole really.
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>hmmm maybe i should do noporn and take a break from fapping
>wake up and look at porn
>fap
>repeat
ngmi
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>>71933861
maybe she wanted you to force her? tie her up and degrade her, all that good stuff.
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>>71933711
Based. Don't blame people like you. I don't shave my beard until it annoys me, just cut my hair with no style when it gets long. Don't use deodorant, don't smell as bad as guys that slather on cologne etc like peacocks.
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>>71934404
Not a very good score scale. Just red section alone has me at 306.
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>>71933861
>fat black chick
damn, that's pretty low.
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>>71939010
habituation is a bitch
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>>71934404
87, nice
Orange and red is really unforgiving
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>>71934404
30 year old khv. 221. radical.
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>>71939971
>radical

have you ever thought about deradicalising and coming back to the centre? every day you spend as a radical is another day further from a gf and sex
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>>71940036
trying to but i'm so far behind at this point i don't know if the end result would even be worth it. right now i need steady income, my own place, and my driver's licence (terrified of driving). so realistically i'm still like 2+ years away from having sex. so i'll probably be like 35 or older if i do manage to get laid or have a first gf. which is depressing to think about and makes me not want to bother.
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>>71940126
well the longer you put off starting the later and later it's gonna get, you are already significantly behind as you say. there is no third way, it's either waste your life here or put some work in
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>>71940170
already wasted my best years being a shut in so it doesn't matter ultimately. all downhill now whether i try or don't.
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>>71940204
don't you think if you got a job, a car and your own place over the nxt 3-5 years it would be an improvement to where you are now? that's not downhill
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>>71940219
marginally maybe. i'd still be depressed about being an ugly fuckup. i don't know if an equally ugly fuckup gf would help but i guess i don't have a choice, else i'll probably get kicked out at some point if i keep living how i do.
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30+ incel thinking of converting to islam. why not? in europe liberals are giving islam everything they want. will probably move there after converting. inshallah
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>>71932648
>no looks
>no personality
>no career
>no status
>no sexual experience
i didnt achieve anything in 30 years.
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>>71940251
i think you would have more success by cutting /pol/ out of your life than by converting to islam. have you ever actually been to europe?
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>>71940309
nobody can stop me. I am joining my muslim brothers and getting a white wife. inshallah
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>>71940288
You survived all those years.
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islam is the future for us incel brothers. liberals will no longer be able to criticize us under the protection of islamophobia. inshallah
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>>71936568
>I feel like it is all broken by design, they want the majority of women to be conceited and the average man to feel hopeless and resort to paying his way through for an advantage.

The former is correct, the latter not so much. I remember reading somewhere that dating apps are designed to extract as much money as possible from you.
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>>71940420
>You survived all those years.
I wish I didnt to be completely honest. I chickened out on a date.
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>>71940656
>>no status
>a date.
Hey, that's a status... even if you didn't into it.
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Daydreaming about taking over the world lads.
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>>71940913
that happened 10 years ago.. even then I got cucked...
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Where do you find escorts (non-street walkers) in the U.S?
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What's going on with Google? Difficult to explain, but when you search for something, it doesn't give you the results it used to.
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>>71942215
In what sense? Give me an example.
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>>71932648
Real steep drop off in my libido at 31. Must be my body's way of telling me that I ought to have fulfilled my biological function as a human being by now and should be preparing for the final stage of my existence.
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>>71932701
Yes, tis a mystery as old as time.

I recommend to anyone experiencing this, who is in their 30s (or older) and afraid of never being intimate with a woman, to go to Thailand and fuck prostitutes. It's not the same, of course not, but experiencing a psuedo-relationship with a Thai hooker for a week, or two, is way better than never knowing any sort of relationship at all. That's the conclusion I came to anyway ymmv. Even so, that still comes at a cost as the vast majority of autists will fall in love just like I did, still well worth it though, overall.
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>>71942466
not him but goddamn man why do you people always go straight to fucking a whore. what if i don't want to lose my virginity to a prostitute, jesus christ. why do people take this stuff so lightly late in life. it seems like a one way street to just ONLY fucking prostitutes if you take that easy road.
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>>71942515
>over 30
>stright to
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>>71942515
Because it's their lives and they can do whatever the fuck they want with them. No one is telling you it's imperative you join in too.
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>>71942552
literally 9/10 times the advice here is just "go do illegal shit bro". good for you if you don't live in NA i guess.
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Do you know any NEET that has a girlfriend?
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>>71942716
if they're good looking or charismatic enough i don't see why a NEET wouldn't fuck.
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>>71942644
>good for you if you don't live in NA i guess.

I'm not but from personal experience I can say that a significant portion of Western sex tourists are from that part of the world. I used to frequent a forum dedicated to Thailand's most popular sexpat destination, and not once did I hear about anyone getting into serious trouble for messing around out there; only a few guys who got hassle from the TSA on their return home but weren't actually arrested. Keep your laptop and phone clean of any holiday snaps; and make up some bullshit intinery of visting family beach resorts and temples, and you'll be straight through without any bullshit.
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>join 30+ discord server
>it's all fags from /soc/

why can't they stay off our board
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>>71942750
>using discord period
>with 4chan people no less
you get what you fucking deserve.
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>>71942750
What in God's name did you think was going to happen?

>>71942716
>Do you know any NEET that has a girlfriend?
Over 30? Only deadbeats. Kind of an odd question but I see why you're asking.

>>71942413
>Must be my body's way of telling me that I ought to have fulfilled my biological function as a human being by now and should be preparing for the final stage of my existence.
That final stage will feel like an eternity.
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>>71942750
the days of making friends off this board anon are long gone. servers are full of normies, omegle is normies, r9k has a bunch of normies on it. its why all the oldfags left and a bunch of the old egirls
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>>71942852
>this board
more like the internet in general.
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>>71942515
Not like it wasn't foretold. Us original internet kids joked about creepy 40 year old pedos all over the internet. Those kids grew up and fulfilled their own prophecy.
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>>71943451
Except the vast majority of sex tourists are fucking adults, not kids.
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>women don't want me for years
>turn 30
>zoomer girls at work throwing themselves at me
>women my age desperate for babies throwing themselves at me

what is this bullshit why do they want me now I have bad joints and a mortgage
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>>71942852
Normalfags just had to takeover geek culture didn't they?
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>>71944181
geek culture is now mainstream
outcasts of today are not geeks
what they are i do not know
but how do they perceive the originators of current mainstream culture?
are we normalfags to the outcasts of today?
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>>71944408
>what they are i do not know
It's something that's been bouncing around in my mind.


>but how do they perceive the originators of current mainstream culture?
>are we normalfags to the outcasts of today?
Interesting questions, I'm almost certain that geek culture is having it's roots erased or altered to fit the normalfags. Like I imagine the geeky outcast character you see in movies is being recontextualised so that it a normalfags can self-insert without any cognitive dissonance. Sort of how "incel" is now being used as insult to those they would have called nerd and geek pre-2010s.

I also wonder where the outcast girls of their generation reside. Cos I remember the cosplay scene used to be full of homely girls.
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>>71943981
keep dreaming. they sense you are an easy trick.
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>>71942215
I've noticed this too. Results have gone to shit. Seems to completely ignore important words sometimes too
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>>71944503
Trick me how? for what?
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>>71935010
Just imagine what an unhinged murderhobo might look like and go for that
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>>71939039
>Risk rape charges for some subpar pussy
Why would I have done that?
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>>71942215
>>71944504
Yup things have been fucky for a while. Search engines are basically become frontpages for the flea market of the internet. Nothing but Ebay/Amazon type results. Aside from the search results that loop you right back into social media.

One theory I been pondering. Maybe it's being gimped on purpose. What if they're prepping to shift over the paradigm to whatever AI/ML tech. Some chatGPT style thing. God I hope they don't wall that shit up behind microtransactions and paywalls and bullshit like that just forcing us to talk to stupid fucking bots.

The dying days of the open web interoperable technology paradigm are absolute ass. We've been trending that way for years already. Ever since the focus shifted to power struggle to centralize the web around social media. The tech bros got all personal. Fighting each other for marketshare. Becoming more reclusive paranoid. Meanwhile the rest of the world stuck inbetween their tech mogul fight. What happened to those kids who just loved technology.

Have you all noticed how reddit cheats webcrawlers by injecting current posts into old posts. So you click a result that looks like it was from X years ago that seems relevant. But the webcrawler was tricked into scraping content from a recent post. The two and two have nothing to do with each other nor what I'm looking for. The entire search result is garbage. They just wanted my click. And people still think reddit is the forum where you can get good info on niche hobbies or whatever??? Horseshit.

Maybe it's simply the techbros made their billions and so can't be assed to care about technology anymore. They're laughing printing money from end stage commercialization of the web. Nobody builds random cool shit to share with the world for the sake of it anymore. It's as if the web is rotting from within.

I grew up loving technology. With each passing year, I become more luddite-like. I want to ditch it all and live in the woods far from the mess.
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>>71939501
I know my shit tier sexual market value.
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>>71944926
>One theory I been pondering. Maybe it's being gimped on purpose.
This is exactly what's occurring. They used to have bots that automatically clicked links, scoured website roots for pages to index... 5 billion links in 2.1 seconds.
This had some downsides, you could spread viruses via gaming the system. Now the engine has reverted back to what Yahoo used to be, a relatively human indexed search engine.
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>>71934404
I got 229 just for being a virgin with toys and whatnot. That's unfair.
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>>71944926
Pretty much all silicon valley companies have been massively overvalued for years and now the free money has run out

The only thing that they have is meta data on users to sell add space so they are destroying their own products utility to make it even 1% more profitable look at any website that's not in the top 10 most popular and it's completely unusable from all the adds even your own personal email is full of spam emails which used to not happen

I don't know where the internet is going now but it's not good
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its kind of crazy ive been posting on 4chan longer than youtube existed, to be quite honest. i still remember the very very very early days of youtube. i even remember e-girls i used to watch. here is one example, a girl that r9k used to WORSHIP, but now largely ignores, rose

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v_XMZIDYbRs

i remember this one e-girl was in japan and she'd upload videos like "what a day in my life as a japanese student looks like". i was in HIGHSCHOOL when that video came out. in that video there was a small part of her filming her walking looking at her shoes, like what you'd see if you looked down when you were walking. that video is deleted and it would be around 16 years old now, and i still remember it. this girl has a kid that's almost old enough to reproduce

and im still the same. still like the same videogames mostly WoW, still like the same music, still a kv autistic loser. its like im some observer watching the world go by, just here to experience the pains of being a human, but none of the joys. my biggest joys in life has been videogames and having close friends growing up. its like i have a life sentence of being a robot, personally signed off by our malevolent god himself

im ambivalent towards my existence, but i do want to stick it out to the end, just to see what happens. im a very curious person
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>>71932648
I'm not even interested in women anymore.
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i only just started posting here and i hate how comfortable i am
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>40 years old
>married one child
>on the face of it a normie
>behind it all a robot
>spent years perfecting an emotional response to other people

Ama
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>>71945575
Yeah alright that's disgusting .There are like a dozen faggot threads. Keep that shit there.
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37, fat ugly kissless virgin neet here who cant even drive. I was so terminally autistic that I spent all my time on the internet never interacting with people except as anon on 4chan. I started to learn solidity 3 months ago to challenge myself and now I have a job and a zoomer boyfriend 15 years younger than me who wants to get married. Was it this easy all along?
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>>71945891
>and a zoomer boyfriend 15 years younger than me who wants to get married
if you are a gay or female, yes. and it always will be, even into your 50's and 60's. men are just that desperate, perpetually, for anything
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>>71945891
You are in the wrong thread, tranny.
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>>71932701
>initiate conversation with females
>?????
>coitus
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>>71933692
Replace creepy with weird or retarded and that's literally spot on.
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>>71943981
Maybe they are attracted to certain paternal qualities, some men tend to mellow out by their 30s and some women might find them to be attractive if they look nurturing, endearing, and stable.
Who knows what they even think man.
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>>71944973
They don't have webcrawlers anymore? Are there no alternative search engines that operate how google used to?
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>>71939010
>hmmm maybe i should do noporn and take a break from fapping
>wake up and look at porn
>fap
>repeat
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>>71945958
>?????
That's the step I have problems with.
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>>71945304
>but now largely ignores, rose
Didn't they used to post her on /g/? Even up to 2016-7?
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>>71939010
I always forget about it then after I cum my penis smugly reminds me.
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This is the first time I've ever noticed myself properly ageing. Greying beard and thinning hair. Always had a head full of thick hair. Always looked pretty young.

I think the bit that gets to me is the empty life I've had rather the ageing itself.
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>>71943981
For the women over 30 it's their body telling them to hurry the fuck up because menopause is right around the corner meaning they can't carry out their biological function since they haven't been able to lock down anyone better than you yet.
As for zoomer girls they're probably surrounded by ugly retarded zoomer boys (the ones with chad qualities they have already fucked) so any older man who isn't completely disgusting is probably very attractive from their perspective.
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I'm 35.
Basically over the last 10 years of having corporate desk jobs, I've just gotten fat from zero exercise, and dependent on alcohol to cope with stress.

It's going to be a massive effort to undo all of that and get healthy again. But I do want to. I have a 3yr old niece and I want to be healthy enough to do stuff with her, like take her to the zoo and not get winded walking around, play in the backyard without having to take a break to catch my breath every 3 minutes. I don't want her to grow up thinking of me as her fat drunk uncle...
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>>71948049
My mom didnt go into menopause until 56. You are an incel.
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>>71948049
Also a nun lived until 118. Seems like no men and children are the key to peace and longevity. Seeth and dilate. Sorry you have been rejected by women all your life. Will the sperm banks accept your sperm after 40? Didnt think so. 30 percent of men by 40 have erectile dysfunction and the number just rises. You may make sperm while women lose eggs but your likelihood of impregnating somebody diminishes. Maybe you can pick a Chad sperm donor for your wife if you ever get one. Have fun losing testosterone by the day and becoming an ugly woman.
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should I just remove friends who ghost? I try to be friends with people but they never keep the conversation interesting or going
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>tfw i've always had a super long refractory period
>even as a teenager i could barely fap twice a day
>even if i got my first gf at 30 i probably couldn't sexually satisfy her because i can only cum once a day and tons of dudes online can literally go for 5+ times in a matter of hours
this sucks man i'm so insecure about it. my test is fine my body is just absolutely retarded. maybe i'm just not built to ever have sex.
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Time to move out. What are the steps I need take towards buying a house? I'd rather pay a mortgage than rent. Also maybe rent out a room.
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>>71949242
Maybe don't base your worldview on what you see of dudes online.
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>>71949387
i guess. hopefully if i ever have sex its with a girl who doesn't need some dude who can fuck 3+ times a day on the weekend or something.
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>>71949297
>What are the steps I need take towards buying a house?

What is it that you don't know about that?
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I really cant do this anons. each day gets worse and makes me want to rope more. why cant we just have peace, why are we cursed to walk this life as incel autismos?
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>>71949242

anon you cumming doesn't pleasure the woman
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>>71950838
no but i thought women needed repeat sessions to cum.
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>>71950451
Do I talk to my bank first or a realtor?
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>>71950984
If you are going to get a mortgage then first find the house you want to buy, see how much it costs and then go to the bank and see if they can give you the mortgage for that. I have never done it (and never will) but I think that is the logical way to do it.
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>>71937837
I was approached by women during highschool and college but nothing ever happened due to a mix of me being both uninterested/cowardly chicken/ even autism I suspect
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>>71951714
i mean at least you have looks good enough for any woman to approach you period. i don't even have that.
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>>71951728
What does approached by women even mean?
Does she have to ask you out?
Is it when female interacts with you in any way?
What is the line that is considered approached?
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I hate having to try to explain to my work that I can't (read: won't) install zoom. I'm trying to find some excuse that won't get called out. Why the fuck do we need video shit? I hate conference calls, but in the case, that would work alot fucking better. Ah well, probably because some Pointy-Haired-Boss got swindled by a salesmen into installing this shit.
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Got stood up again by a hooker I tried to hire.

My wife kicked me out of the house.

I'm still at work.


Gonna go workout afterwards and find a hotel to stay at.
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man I feel mentally sane after having read about the types who approach women on online dating apps. guess I have major 'tism or some such, that I never even tried.
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>>71951997
>I hate having to try to explain to my work that I can't (read: won't) install zoom.
Man the future sucks doesn't it? Have you tried forcing them to give you equipment to run zoom? At least that way you get something out of it.

@71952019
Shove your blog up your arse.
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>>71952073
Tell me about. You know what's really frustrating? When you explain to them you don't have a smart phone, and they give you the fucking stare. You know the one, the one they give you when you say you "don't use trendy-popular-app"? Fuck I hate that look. They just assume because they use it, everyone else does, and wants to, too! St. Terry Davis was right, these people really are cattle.

You know what's even more retarded about this thing? The data is super sensitive, it's not supposed to leave the premises, but they're going to scan, and upload the data and show it on Zoom for a tutorial! What a bunch of fucking morons. If it's that secret, why are we putting it on Zoom?

>Have you tried forcing them to give you equipment to run zoom?
I'm going to try and do this the next time I physically go into work.
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>>71952143
>You know the one, the one they give you when you say you "don't use trendy-popular-app"?
I work a wageslave job and watching my colleagues during downtime infinite scrolling through tiktok (or whatever the latest piece of shit app is) is absolutely mind-boggling , you can actually watch their attention-span shrink in real time. Whenever they ask why I don't have it, I explain it to them and they'll either stare or agree with and go straight back to infinite scrolling.

>What a bunch of fucking morons. If it's that secret, why are we putting it on Zoom?
Over time you realise certain people got to certain positions through social prowess rather than any skill or knowledge. Or maybe people are still retarded when it comes to computers.

>I'm going to try and do this the next time I physically go into work.
Let us know how it goes.
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>>71952278
> infinite scrolling through tiktok (or whatever the latest piece of shit app is) is absolutely mind-boggling

I don't get it either. I remember being a teenager and not being social while around others was considered "anti-social" and "weird". Then I became an adult, and realized, yeah, you have to try be social, only way you are going to meet people and such.

But now? They're the ones doing the anti-social behaviour, and it's considered weird if want to be social. What the fuck hell happened?

I really wanted to work on my social skills, but you can't even do that because everyone is glued to their fucking phones. I don't really want to talk to them, it's just that human need for interaction.

> Or maybe people are still retarded when it comes to computers.

Even the ones that go to school for this shit are retarded. So many of them can't do a simple fizzbuzz program.
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>>71951944
none of those have happened to me so i don't know. obviously the asking out one comes to mind.
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>>71951728
it's irrelevant if I have average or decent looks, they've been wasted on me since the brain is at fault here so the outcome is the same
>>71951944
being asked out through others, someone's sister asking if I ever wanna hang out, weird late night phone messages asking what I am up to
But it's been more than a decade since then so it's over anyway
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>>71935097
All evidence indicates personality is set in stone by about 17. You can't le fix it, and denying this fact is just tantrumming against reality
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>>71952583
>it's irrelevant if I have average or decent looks
i mean no, it is. you can get help for your mental health issues but refuse to. i can't change my bone structure. looks are the biggest first impression and how people initially judge you. personality comes after. people don't want to approach or get to know me because of my looks. if you got help or learned some strategies to cope with socializing better like some of the other good looking failed normies around here you'd eventually just be a well adjusted normal person. you choose not to because its hard. i choose not to because my outcome will never change.
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>married because I wanted to be a normie
>full time stressful job, fintech
>only hobby is lifting weights, have to fit it into busy schedule
>also doing grad school
>wife stays at home, just plays animal crossing or some other games that are pretty much the same thing all day
>even with hours and hours a day of gaming, somehow "too busy with the kids" to do anything.
>doesn't know how to cook, I have to stop my study time to help her chop vegetables
>just now, too stupid to tell mushrooms were slimy and spoiled, was about to cook them with salmon
>puts almost an entire stick of butter on the pan, still needs help to cut the vegetables.
>get angry, call her a fucking retard, yell at her, throw everything in the garbage, and start all over.

Even if you're a 6'2" buff chad with abs working on a STEM graduate degree and a simultaneous finance/suit and brainy STEM job, even if you're going insane trying to keep it together and be a top 0.001% human, the best you can get a near subhuman retard that's worth shit beyond a cumdumpster and baby factory.
Should have just stayed single. I don't even like fucking her anymore, its literally a chore and she gets way more pleasure out of it than I do. For the last few months I just tell her I'm busy with work and then beat off in my home office every day.

Every year I grow to hate women more and more, never met one, even in my family, that wasn't a lazy, entitled moronic piece of shit. None at work, none anywhere else in my close to 35 years of shit life.

If you were an outcast/robot ever in elementary or even kindergarten, is fucking OVER for you, there is no escape, you will always be lonely, life will always hurt and suck I just don't want to fucking do this anymore.
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>>71952384
>What the fuck hell happened?
Since I work a wageslave job, the conversations with the type of people that I worked with aren't the most riveting but now that everyone hooked up to the social media matrix that whenever they do talk, it's about the whatever the social media matrix has designated for the day.

>So many of them can't do a simple fizzbuzz program.
Is it still possible to "learn to code"? I have a maths degree (from 11 years ago, it was a lower 2nd class, I don't remember shit).

>>71953154
This is some terrible bait.
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>>71953154
>married because I wanted to be a normie
>"too busy with the kids"
>breeder normie who willingly got married and had kids complaining about the consequences of his actions

??????

atleast you have the pleasure knowing you are legally responsible for those children until they turn 18, and if you ever get divorced, you will owe your wife the house, child support, marital support, on top of her lawyer fees and half of all your shit
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I cant get into online dating and I dont care for the women in the area all of them are annoying hipsters / are muhh corporate world who come from well off families and who can never be satisfied It also doenst help that every girl I run into has that generic "brought up on corn syrup" look in their face.
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>>71953270
its probably bait. if not he doesn't deserve any replies anyways. ignore him.
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>>71933692
Kind of.
>1-8
>oh you're adorable and so quiet and well-behaved too unlike all the other kids!
>9-13
>you're kind of annoying and weird but i'm trying to love you also you're getting really fat
>14-18
>oh anon i forgot you existed and i don't know anything about you but i don't care to find out also go exercise
>19-20
>anon you're so sad all the time and introverted should i send you to a therapist?
>21-28
>why are you so incompetent and a failure?
>29-32
>oh you're depressed, autistic and burnt out well i didn't see it coming anyway did you hear your sister had another baby? grandchildren yay!!!!
To strangers I was just "that creepy weird guy nobody liked". I guess they could sense I was a freak.
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>>71952384
I went to a fucking bar social event in my area yesterday since Ive been forcing myself to go outside and be "social" after work.
>get there a little early and just sit at the bar and have a drink
>watch as people start coming in
>can count on one hand how many people came in alone
>everyone else came in with their established friends group
>bar filled up
>everyone in their established social circles just took tables and kept to themselves
>just people gossiping about work and whatever the latest buzz that was going on in social media

I cant fucking take this shit
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>>71953401
yep. this is everywhere too. people say "JUST GO OUT MAN" but this is what "going out" looks like. so if you're friendless you genuinely can't date or meet people irl. its all online, and online dating is fucked to begin with for different reasons. its all rigged against introverted and friendless men. all of society is made to fuck us.
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>>71953434
Like oh yeah I got to talk to a few people but conversations really went nowhere I even got brushed off a few times when I tried to jump into conversations
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>>71953154
>she gets way more pleasure out of it than I do

this is just being a male who's good at fucking right? women get way more pleasure from sex if you do it right, it's not like switching to another woman is going to fix that
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>>71953320
Get on your knees and thank God (that Bastard) for letting your sister take the pressure off for having grandchildren. You don't know how bad that burden is.

>>71953401
"Just go out" really only works when people are forced to congregate like school or church.
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>>71953926
not breeding is the easiest thing in the fucking universe to do. even if you do breed there is literally no guarantee your offspring will be successful in continuing your bloodline. literally doesn't matter and nobody should judge anyone for not bringing another damned soul into this shit world.
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>>71953950
>>71953926
Im this anon
>>71953401
And Im literally going through that whole pressure on me right now because my younger brother went from "being close to getting engaged" to "breaking up" and Im fucking starting to get asked again "oh hey anon when are you going to get us some grandkids"
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>>71954059
haha oh man. my parents gave up on me ever breeding a long fucking time ago. i'm my dad's only kid and i genuinely don't give a shit. i'm not cursing an innocent kid with my looks and brain issues even if i had the option. good luck though man if you actually want kids.
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>>71953207
>is it still possible to "learn to code"? I have a maths degree (from 11 years ago, it was a lower 2nd class, I don't remember shit).

Sure! Outside a shitty QBasic and Visual Basic 6 course in highschool, I've learned everything else on my own. I recommend though to do it for fun. What do you want to learn how to do? You have to remember though to learn to crawl before you walk. Older resources too tend to have better writing, while newer ones sound like the were ghost-written by people in the middle east. You can learn the old stuff first, then just brush up on the changes applied since then.

If you want to start off with something piss easy, QBasic (or QB64) work. Search for RadioHands QBasic (Also known as Vic's QBasic Programming Tutorial). It's a bit rough, but that was the second programming resource I remember using when I was a kid. The other one was "Qbasic for all" which seems to no longer be online, but Pete's QBasic site has alot of good stuff too.

>>71953926
>"Just go out" really only works when people are forced to congregate like school or church.

Sometimes not even then. At my old parish, I didn't know a single person and I was there almost a decade. Except for one guy who kept trying to set me up with his 19 and 20 year old daughters. Didn't like them (they're not my type), but he really got on my nerves. And the older one wouldn't stop staring at me.
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>>71953926
>You don't know how bad that burden is.

Not that guy but I thank the universe every day that it was my brother and not I who was led to reproduce. His wife asked me recently whether I feel any resentment towards them for not having a family life like them, I just told them I'm glad someone managed to give my mum grandkids (which is true desu) - I didn't have the heart, however, to tell them that I consider bringing spawn into this trainwreck of a society, unless you're from a wealthy background, to be something which only deranged masochists, or the truly delusional ever invest in. I can't remember the last time my brother actually looked happy.
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>>71954159
>Didn't like them (they're not my type)
lol. sometimes i feel like the only truly hopeless loser here and the majority of you are just picky/uppity cunts who choose a life of lonliness willingly.
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>>71952143
>St. Terry Davis was right, these people really are cattle.
Saint Terry (PBUH) was right about everything.
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>>71954285
>lol. sometimes i feel like the only truly hopeless loser here and the majority of you are just picky/uppity cunts who choose a life of lonliness willingly.
Well, the thing is, I only find fat chicks attractive, and his daughters were rail thin farm girls that looked like they belonged on the set of little house on the prairie.
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>>71954244
Man don't get me started on that shit. Everybody agrees life sucks and it isn't fair but the moment you broach the subject of just not having any more kids and trying to fix this shit people lose their minds. Biology is a nigger.
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>>71954324
okay so you're mentally ill. whatever.
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>>71954499
I've liked fat women since I was a child. I can't control it. I tried dating a thin girl once, it was the worst experience of my life. It's hell to have to deal with women you're repulsed by, it's not some good feeling, it's demoralizing.
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>>71954534
yes i understand. you're mentally ill and like unhealthy people who are killing themselves with food addiction.
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>>71954546
Overweight women are not necessarily unhealthy. Some women simply carry more weight.

Why are you upset? What's wrong dude?
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>>71954324
> rejected a harem of farmers daughters
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>>71954582
And rejected them for fatties.
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>>71954582
one man's treasure is another man's trash
i'm not into fat chicks but i would've turned them away as well
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>>71954610
>one man's treasure is another man's trash
Exactly. This is an excellent way of looking at it.
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>>71948858
yeah remove them. Its meaningless.
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>>71954159
>What do you want to learn how to do?
Right now I have an idea for an app for my wageslave workplace. Simple ass idea that probably could be done in an afternoon by someone who knows how to code. Main reason no one's else has thought of it is because work doesn't give a fuck about optimising shit.

I'm trying to learn Python to make it.

>Except for one guy who kept trying to set me up with his 19 and 20 year old daughters.
Must have been a confidence booster.
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>>71955078
why don't you try using chatgpt to write the code for you?
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>>71953270
>if you ever get divorced, you will owe your wife the house, child support, marital support, on top of her lawyer fees and half of all your shit
The best part is the wife can cheat on him and still walk away owning nearly everything he has, and the government will force him to pay for her to get railed by chads.
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>>71932648
Anyone want to add a 34 year old neet girl?

my discord is charlotte!#8475
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>>71954324
>I only find fat chicks attractive
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>>71955276
do you have intentions of dating a robot or just ghosting us all?
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>TFW never here for the first 100 replies of 30+ thread
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>>71955305
>or just ghosting us all?
It's obvious that's "her" plan.
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>>71954582
I have nothing to add to this discussion but thank you for adding to my small but curated and ever -expanding collection of Images Of Middle-Age-To-Elderly Asian Men Who Find It All So Tiresome.
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>>71955194
I was thinking about getting someone fiver to do it.

>>71955276
In the old days we'd all be talking on an anime/vidya forum with accounts. Tell us about yourself.

>>71955323
>"her"
Chances of you being right are high.
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>>71955078
>I'm trying to learn Python to make it.
Python's a pretty good option. I don't use it as much as I use PHP though. Depends on what the problem is, each has their strengths.
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>>71955276
You should tell us about yourself first, otherwise you'll just get randos with too much time who add everyone.
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>tfw think I meet a seemingly attractive woman online and start a long distance relationship
>we voicechat frequently
>make plans to meet
>always fall through
>get impatient and start to dig deeper on her
>find out she's a fat married woman with too much time on her hands

It's really my fault. Copium and the fact that I really really wanted it to be real led me to overlook the red flags.
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>>71955633
my life consuming anxiety issues mean i will never seriously date online. too many bad things could happen at no fault of your own. so can irl dating but at least you can confront the person in real life. online dating is just so pointless in my opinion. sure you could get incredibly lucky and find the woman of your dreams and meet with her but the chances of that have to be similar to actually winning the lottery. its all just a crapshoot.
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>>71955633
I had a very similar thing happen, but I actually fucked her IRL after flying to her location, and then she ghosted me after we spent a night fucking for like 8 hours. We talked on webcam hours every day for like a year, but I think she was married and cheating on her hubby, but I didn't realize until after she ghosted me. She was like 20 years old, and I was in my early 30s.
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>>71955722
What tears me up the most is the fact that she was pretending to just be a normal 6/10 woman. She stated plenty of faults that I was willing to live with, so it all sounded more realistic to me. It gets worse too, I found out and contacted the woman who's pic she was using to catfish me to let her know that was happening and she thinks I'm a creep. My only solace is that the chick whose pic was used is a massive dyke so the game truly was rigged from the start.

Still, I feel like I got it with both barrels.
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>>71955697
I used to hear and read people dating online and on forums all the time back in the 00s. Online dating back in the 00s and earlier used to be looked down upon, so the dating pool back then used to be both smaller and more focused.
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>>71955633
Where did you meet her?

So she was trying to cheat or just wanted to be your friend?
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>in love with a girl ill never be with
anyone know this feel? god made her to mock me for being a manlet incel
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>>71932648
>graduate recently
>36
>keep in contact with classmate in their early 20s
>i interview for a job
>get rejected because i dont have experience
>20 something classmate who has never had a job before applies with the same in field experience applies
>they get it
I wouldnt be so upset but they literally told me i needed a specific type of experience that you do not get as a student and that was why they rejected me
Of course its really because Im a fat old fuck loser that should have never had the audacity to dream they could become something more.
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>>71956551
>Of course its really because Im a fat old fuck loser
In a sense. I don't know what job you're applying for but employers (in good jobs) like younger people who they can mould.
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Lost my wizardry to a asain masseuse and it felt so good
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>>71956720
if you were going to pay why not fuck a broke college girl instead of a granny
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>>71956720
What a shame. You've lost your powers.
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>>71932648
I just found out my grandma's on her death bed and said my good yes to her tonight...I was preparing for this, still, sucks...I'm 34, my Dad and both my grandparents are gone, lost two friends this year as hell, shouldn't be losing everyone you love in your 30s..bigsadsbros.
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>>71956695
Hello captain fuck face obvious.
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>>71956747
>bigsadsbros.
Hang in there.
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>>71956783
Did you insult the interviewers too?
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>>71956795
No, but i did insult you. A stranger on the internet as a way to sublimate my impotence and failure. Are you happy anon?
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>>71956825
>No, but i did insult you. A stranger on the internet as a way to sublimate my impotence and failure. Are you happy anon?
I guess.
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>>71955793
>I found out and contacted the woman who's pic she was using to catfish me
ALWAYS get a girl you meet online on webcam ASAP, so you can verify their face.
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>>71955276
you can do better than r9k weirdo's. you have a vagina, apply yourself. even grandma can find gigachad. its 2023, literal rich chads dying to fall in love with you are a swipe away as long as you are a female, even if you are decades into being post-menopausal

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q0RKDtBCRBY
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>>71956886
>even grandma can find gigachad
It's funny because it's true.
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>>71956886
What I hate is, morons like her will drop their contact info, but not give me any reason as to why I should bother talking to her, like "muh vagina" is enough reason. I got better things to do.
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>>71956551
keep trying. At this point their picking based on dick sucking skills. They know none of you has any real skills as you already aware. Sooner or later someone will like the way you gobble knob.
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>>71957067
I have no choice but to keep trying. Too bad Im a depressive retard. The pills really were working until today. Shame.
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Being fired feels bad. Rejection really sucks. It makes me want to be self-employed so it never happens again and not answer to anyone besides customers.
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>go through periods where every post i make is negative and bait and i want everyone to kill themselves and feel insecure about everything
>go through periods where i try to be as positive as possible in all my posts and help insecure people
why.
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>>71957272
Maybe you're bipolar?
I'm really feeling miserable lads, feeling pretty hopeless
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>>71957583
my maternal grandmother is bipolar but i was only diagnosed with generalized anxiety disorder which isn't really a real thing. i'm just a pussy ass bitch about everything.
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i am going through another period of extreme inner panic about everything.
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>>71958405
me too. It becomes very active when Im trying to sleep.
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>>71942810
>Kind of an odd question

Why is it an odd question?
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>grandpa passed away
>she'll be alone in her house
>dad pulls me to the side after funeral
>anon, you're still young and aren't married with kids like everyone else. You should uproot everything, transfer jobs, move in with your grandma and take care of her

It's completely over for me now.
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>>71958591
Fuck that. I'm 32 and do that. My parents are dead, so I have no choice. Don't let your old man do you like that.
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>>71958601
It is a free place to stay and I do care about my grandma. My dad told me she still treats him like he's a kid so he doesn't want to do it but he'll come if she ever needs anything major. Everyone knows I have no life so it's hard to get an argument to stick. Not to come off like an asshole but I don't even think they're going to let me stay or give me the house after she dies. I bet they'll just sell it and tell me to move on as if I didn't just throw away years of my life.
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>>71958591
huh? thats his job not yours.
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>>71934404
>144
>Outcast
Sounds about right. I'm getting alright with the thought that I'm just different and this is just my life. Acceptance is the first step.
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>>71935206
This. No one has prepared me for being an adult.
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>>71958642
Nut the fuck up and say no. The "argument" is you don't want to. You can be there for your Nan without living with her, just like your dad is right now.
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>>71958591
Do NOT do this. This is the same thing that happened to me except my grandfather was sick. The moment I moved in with him, everyone cut me off and told me to ask him for money and help. The moment he got better and could drive again, he started treating me like shit and basically told me that I did what I had to do which was throw away the best years of my life taking care of him.
No one is more ungrateful than family and women.

>>71958770
This as well. My mom and her sister got to live their lives freely while I was taking care of their father. They only came over when they needed money and would then shit talk me, asking me why I haven't achieved anything.
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>>71955903
online dating used to actually exist in the early 00s but now its just fucking garbage
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>visit therapist for quite some time
>ask him on whats wrong with me
>he says that I'm very likely to have AvPD
>read on AvPD
>it's like I'm reading about myself
I never had a chance at this life.
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>>71960373
>he says that I'm very likely to have AvPD
Avoidant Personality Disorder?
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>>71959152
The sound like psychopaths
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>>71960385
>Avoidant Personality Disorder?
yes. it explains A LOT.
especially me being 30 year old khv
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>>71960373
okay so they gave it a name. how does that help u? i swear these niggers are so uselss.
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I'm a 35 year old virgin and I've never cared. The vast majority of people on /r9k/ either have codependency issues or are just bored and assume a vagina would somehow make their life more interesting. It won't.
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>>71960527
>it explains A LOT.
I have my doubts. This is like when robots and wizards get diagnosed with depression. It's like, depression is a logical reaction to your circumstances, if your life sucks then why wouldn't you be depressed?

If you were constantly bullied, outcast or something why wouldn't you be avoidant?

Unless there's an *actual* chemical imbalance what are therapy and pills going to do for you?
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>>71960621
>I'm so great.
You can go to wizchan and be superior over there.
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>>71960621
32 here Ive tried online dating and I just cant pull myself to swipe right on anyone because everyone seems to be an insufferable cunt who is overeducated and extremely political and its just nothing but red flags in the profile. I still want to find a wife and have kids but the dating scene has been horrible for ages. I feel like as a guy im not allowed to start at square one and work my way up Im fucking expected to already be meeting/exceeding a womans expectations even before I approach her so its more like job hunting at this point.

With all that being said I have no fucking problem actually talking to people/socializing but I dont shit where I eat so I dont pursue coworkers despite how easy it would be and I also have no interest In the bar skunks I know.
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>>71960674
>what are therapy and pills going to do for you?
maybe I realize that having pent up emotions (or emotions in general) is not healthiest way. I dont expect to become a completely different person but rather accept what I've been locking up since the early childhood.
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>>71960770
I mean if it works for you then cool. But I'm sure you've at least had an inkling to what was "wrong" with you. It's rooted in your material circumstances, how much can therapy change your material circumstances.
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>>71960905
>material circumstances,
what do you mean?
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I can't understand this. Why waste your money like this? Especially in hard times and when millennials are supposedly struggling.
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>>71960679
Don't be so insecure.
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>>71960912
Your material circumstances as in where you live, your income, the people that are around you or lack there of, etc.

>>71961011
A few theories:
-Gen Z are retards who are more superficial than previous generations.

-Maybe it's a small bunch of wealthy zoomers that's just buying up even more luxury goods than usual.

-You don't earn enough to buy/rent, so you stay at your parents, you always have a little spare change that is nowhere near worth investing so you splurge on an expensive item.
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>>71961090
> where you live, your income, the people that are around you or lack there of, etc.
ofcourse that matters as my younger brother grew up in the same circumstances but ended up rather successful and normally adjusted.
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>>71961011
You're operating on narrative popular discourse which is stupid. Not everything fits into neatly defined bins such as millennials poor. There are quite successful millennials. They are currently middle aged. In other words in the prime of their financial earning years. Of course they have money to spend.
As for zoomers, I dn't know what's bussin fr fr no cap.
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>>71961011
Luxury sales aren't struggling because their clientele are immune from financial shocks. If your average customer is wealthy then little can be done to impede their spending habits.
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>>71957272
Sounds like depression. About a decade ago, I used to hop on Omegle and call every woman I encountered ugly to make myself feel better. Then I felt bad doing that, so then I said only nice things for awhile. Depression sucks.
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>>71961185
my sister has MDD and has to take meds and therapy and stuff. i tried ssris a few times throughout my life but i never liked how they completely killed all my emotions and made me feel like a different person and disconnected from my body. i'd rather feel the highs and lows of my emotions instead of nothing at all. tried therapy a few times and thought it was useless. i don't FEEL like i have depression, i'm not actively suicidal or anything, this is just how i've always been and i'm used to it. i think if i actually worked to improve my life my "depression" would go away, whereas people with actual depression are still depressed even when successful.
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>>71961261
just smoke weed drink beer do opiates and play videogames and try to achieve some goals and youll be happier than everyone else
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>>71961897
This doesn't work forever, the day eventually comes where you realize this is just coping.
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>>71961897
i don't know what goals i need to hit besides getting my driver's licence, my own place, and a job that allows me to pay rent.

>>71961964
to be fair all i can do is cope at this age. it feels like once you hit 30 and are still a loser living at home the best outcome at this point is just to get a shitty apartment and cope for the rest of your life. everyone else spent their 20's with education, socialization, and learning important life skills. i spent them hiding from the world. i absolutely wasted my best years and it is what it is.
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What do you guys do around married friends? I rarely see them anymore and the ones they are still dating are a bust too.
These days the only social interaction I have is with the boomers I ride motorcycles with
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>>71962867
I dont really have married friends. I used to but it ended once they started having children.
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>>71962877
Damn, all my friends are in the age where they're all getting married. I can tell a lot of their wives or GFs do not like me in their house when we hang out
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>>71960621
i think about this pretty often, i dont care i have a sexless life because im not attractive and will never satisfy a women because of my small dick but why i didnt make more dough in my teens like jesus bro im poor and unfuckable, i cant even kill myself because i dont have money for my family to turn me into ashes, holy life.
im 31 btw
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>>71962867
Friends? What friends?
In real life people my age, late 30s, are the parents of my nephews and nieces friends.
The moms treat me as invisible. No acknowledgements.
The dads are 50/50. Some treat me as invisible too.
Some treat me as the low key simpatico guys from school but aren't gonna commit to being friends. The guys who say, hey sup. Fist bumps. They know my plight as a reject failure and they know there's nothing but to acknowledge my existence and move on.
That's what my socialization looks like.
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33 here
after I completely lost interest in video games I needed something to do besides working every day so I got myself all the shit I need for digital art at the beginning of this month
.....
Currently watching some lecture on youtube and I've a course about drawing I bought that I'll watch after that.
I always wanted to learn how to draw
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>thought i wouldn't have to shovel this year and get lucky
>snowstorm out of nowhere
this sucks man.
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>>71963242
I feel that brother. All my social interactions with my "friends" from college have been reduced to the same level of interaction between coworkers
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>>71963761
>reduced to the same level of interaction between coworkers
as in they dont want to do anything with you?
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my habits are awful. putting my foot down on this porn addiction today. seriously half my day is just spent looking at porn. no more.
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I've never had a relationship in 30 years.
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>>71964542
I just had one and it was lost to suicide because of dysphoria, nothing is as painful
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>>71964571
i mean you dated a tranny man, what did you expect. it is legitimately a severe mental illness. not trying to be mean i get it i've almost been down that road, not dating one but gender issues.
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>>71964571
is it better never feel it or better to be lover and be lost?
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>>71964639
They were the sweetest person I have ever met and we had all these plans together and I did my job to keep them alive for a year, I couldn't but fall in love but it was taken away so suddenly at the same time. I am very happy you got that sorted out it's such a difficult thing.
>>71964670
It was better to never feel it I can tell you that. But at the same time try because I have never been happier than with them
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>>71964753
>I am very happy you got that sorted out it's such a difficult thing.
i'd have no sympathy for trannies if i didn't have my own issues for a long time since childhood but i don't know what the answer is ultimately. the "cure" would obviously be trying your best to resemble your preferred sex but for a lot of people who don't do anything until later in life that is literally impossible. even then people who eventually pass still kill themselves because they weren't born their preferred sex so i don't know. i think its a mental illness without a cure you kind of just treat case by case. i'm a case where i think other mental health issues exacerbated a slight gender hangup i had all my life about wanting to look like a girl but aging thankfully enough kind of permanently wiped that idea out of my brain somehow. i was VERY close to trooning out not too long ago but decided in my case it was too little too late. if i was zoomer who fucking knows.
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>>71964806
The only trannies I have sympathy for are the ones that have legit dysphoria, and not dysphoria they got from melting their minds on TikTok and Instagram.
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>>71961011
A teacher friend of mine was ranting about this recently, his theory is because they've grown up expecting this standard of living to be normal. Children have been spoiled in recent years due to parents practically giving them whatever they want, especially at Christmas, they would get iphones and $400 shoes like it were nothing, leading to them thinking this was the norm. So when they grow up, a combination of this, social media and peer pressure encourages them to buy more luxury goods and latest fashions, often leading them into debt.
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>>71964806
>the "cure" would obviously be trying your best to resemble your preferred sex but for a lot of people who don't do anything until later in life that is literally impossible.
indeed but unfortunately in this case they underwent a botched surgery without my knowledge a couple of months after we met and then the metal state rapidly deteriorated because they thought they can never get what they want after that. the last thing we talked about was bottom dysphoria and something convinced them that they can never have intimacy. which was particularly important to them seeing as they were raped and wanted to heal through intimacy with a partner
>thankfully enough kind of permanently wiped that idea out of my brain somehow
the only good thing about it, they were so young too
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>>71964998
>they were raped and wanted to heal through intimacy with a partner
uhhh is that even a thing? i know exposure therapy works and all that but rape?
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>>71964506
Half of your day? You are exaggerating, right?

Even when I was a teenager and discovered porn the most time I could spend with it was like all the night and then had to stop for several days. Yeah at that time I could spend like half the day searching and searching and watching porn, fapping like 6 or more times until my cock was swollen xD. I think that must has happened to all of us. But that was like maybe the 2 or 3 first years after discovering porn.

I assume that you are 30+ if you are posting here. If you have that level of porn addiction at that age... yeah I would try to at least reduce the addiction because it isn't normal to have that level of porn addiction at that age.
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>>71965346
i'm a shut in NEET and am 30 i legitimately have no life. completely fried my dopamine receptors, i just look at porn out of habit on and off throughout the day and need to stop. i realize now it has fucked me really bad.
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>>71934404
Not a good scale, in Europe owning a car, for example, is not a must.
108, exactly where I belong.
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>>71965395
I am someone who has sworn off it for some time if you feel like you need some help with that I am here
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>>71965395
If you got a car, rent a wooden bungalow in the middle of nowhere and go there for a few days.
Sure, you will fap a bit, but it will reset you faster than you think. It can even be close to a town, no need to be buttfuck nowhere, just turn off the phone in any case. Actually worked for me.
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>>71965395
Make the habit harder to do. Habits that are harder to do are broken more easily.
Also, try and fap to just pictures not video, and then after you break that, fap to only your own imagination, and finally, try and stop fapping.

Once you manage to get far enough, you'll be able to bounce back easier if you fail.

And finally keep this in mind: If you fail once, that's just a mistake, but twice is the start of a new habit.
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Sometimes I get hit with this crystal clear realization how utterly lost and isolated and lonely I am. I don't even post in the fucking threads on 4chan more than a few times a year. How is it even possible to become this way? Once my jealously and resentment towards people that have been way more unfortunate than I am - yet still find accomplishments, friends and love - fades, I'm left wondering what my life amounts to. It amounts to nothing but emptiness and disappointment and shame. And it gets harder to deal with every passing day. I drink before I go to work, I drink during work, and I drink after I come home from work. I want to get off this ride so bad.
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>>71933305
I'm no expert on these things
But I think you'd be better off just waiting until later to respond rather than telling her you'll respond later
Gotta play the stupid game of pretending to be cool
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>>71934404
30 yo, 300
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>>71964459
They'll agree to hang out once in a while but no communication outside that. And when we do hang out it feels forced
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>>71932701
just do it like in movies, i guess. talk and get all cuddly and touchy n shit and then move closer and eventually start kissing. it feels fake and cringey and forced as fuck, but that's life.
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>>71933305
women who are even just semi-hot can get dicked whenever they want to and have thousands of dudes who are just waiting with their dicks in their hands, until it becomes their turn.
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>>71933831
they don't think about that or care. they're young and bounce up and down on chad's dick, so what else is there to think about?
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>>71940251
yeah, might as well be ahead of the curve on that one.
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the stupid new indian piece of fucking shit scab we hired to slap up our boxes and clean our asses has gone above and beyond to confirm the assumptions about his shitskinned race
>give him shit for being a piece of turd who shows up late and wants to leave early
>tell him he's a worthless faggot who never accomplished shit
>still thanks me when i say it's 3:00 you can leave now
wish he'd give me a reason to beat his ass
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>>71965792
>Seven Samurai
I recently got the BFI Akira Kurosawa Samurai Collection, should be a good watch.

>>71962867
>What do you guys do around married friends?
The moment they got married was when I became virtually friendless. The only 2 *somewhat decent* friends I have I see now once or twice a year.
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>wake up, text husband good morning
>he's already in bed, nothing
>go to doctor's appointment alone in snowstorm
>come home, go back to sleep
>wake up, make dinner with Youtube on
>eat dinner (chicken and dumplings)
>still no text back
Being married is a lot more lonely than I expected. Only 9 more days alone.
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Still looking for a job & drinking booze on a Wednesday.
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>>71968390
how tight is your husbands asshole when you fuck it.
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>matched with a girl on tinder
>she's into videogames, anime, manga, the usual
>she messages me first
>she's fat and ugly
EVERY TIME
Why the hell women get fat? Men don't ask for much, we just want women to be pretty. She could have been so much more. Fuck
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>>71968405
What kind of jobs are you looking for?
What is your area of expertise?
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>>71933692
almost. i was a menace as a kid and became really well behaved as a teen
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>>71968576
Loose, pretty sure he's cheating on me. Shameful.
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>>71968610
Just literally anything except a pure fast food shit job like McDonalds. Not desperate enough for that yet. Haven't worked since Covid(not for lack of trying) & only officially worked retail.
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>>71968749
Try some entry level manufacturing shit? Just try to avoid super repetitive stuff, smaller companies tend to make a variety of shit compared to a big national company where you make the exact same thing all day ever day.

For example I worked for Kubota, it was living hell. Now I work at a local place and am always doing something different, occasionally the same thing comes around. Repeat business and all that. You should;t need any experience if you're willing to take on a shittier position (material handling, grinding/polishing, grunt work) and wait for something better to open up.
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in a way its nice knowing the world is going to shit, because so many of you people are massive pieces of shit. hypocrites, smug cunts who abuse power, etc

i have zero sympathy for this board's core userbase, and i take delight in the influx of transexuals, normies and females
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>>71969066
ask me how l know you're a tranny
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>>71969066
i am literally a shut in loser with no life.
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>>71969148
how?
is it the same reason you know that no young woman will ever love you?
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>havent left my room in 2 years
>weird pain in/near the throat
RIP I know I should go to the doctor but going outside is just not possible
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>Life is so shit that my biggest fantasy ATM is a world where success is forced on me no matter how much I try to ruin myself.
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>>71937829
>I just don't know what to ask her to do honestly
I was away.
ASK HER FOR A COFFEE
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>>71969739
>ASK HER FOR A COFFEE
Anon, listen to this guy. Coffee is a really good thing. Warm things like Coffee (or tea if she prefers) build positive associations with things like Comfort. You literally cannot go wrong with Coffee. The only thing better than Coffee would be Hot Chocolate.
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>tfw losing weight again and my fatpad is slowly shrinking back to what it was when i was at my skinniest
feels good man.
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>>71969719
Yeah I think many of us here have had that same thought. But that's not how life works, life works like this: if you can't do it by yourself nobody can. We aren't children anymore and nobody can do for ourselves the things we have to do.
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>>71968609
>she's fat and ugly
>she's into videogames, anime, manga, the usual
If she has good hygrine and cooks you've done fucked up.
Post pics of these uggos to prove me wrong
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>>71969993
I'm that school custodian anon and bros I'm gunna be honest I'm fucking terrified. I still haven't had the balls to ask her for a coffee its sad I know but I think I have to do it tomorrow now. I come home from work and see these posts after I spent pretty much the whole work day thinking about it. I had to show some shit to contractors working on the building so I didn't get a chance to see her and one of my earbuds broke so I really couldn't listen to anything to distract myself so my mind just kept going in fucking circles all night. I assume most people just go to starbucks right? I'm going to take your advice though and I hopefully I have the balls to do it tomorrow and hopefully come here with good news for once.
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>>71971071
If you know anything about coffee/tea and if there's one available go to a better cafe also a lot of women love tea. It doesn't really matter so long it's kinda nice.
Next time you see her the first chance you get you say something like "hey, we should get a coffee at *cafe*"
I think it's ok to be nervous, you like her and she seems sweet, don't sweat about the words.
If you're asking "why, what if she says no" it's because you make your intentions clear, she knows you find her attractive and want to get to know her.
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Did some DXM after doing nofap to see the future. 32 year old wizard. I had closed eye visuals of the ground drying out. Make sure you have water and extra food this year
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>quit wow for a month
>nervous wreck
>watch some twtich streamers but get tired of it
>shitpost on r9k but get tired of it
>play other games like gta 5 or various stream games i bought but never played, but get tired of it
>install wow
>instantly i feel relaxed, productive, can plan my day out, and im vibing

this game fulfills my soul. even if i am just mount collecting. its like experiencing love

some people simp for e-roasties. i simp for wow

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SpC3lZdk2HM
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>>71970474
Good job. Keep up the good work.
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>>71971071
Definitely not over thirty but please for the love of everything remotely good, do it.
Life for all its terrible and barbaric twists can also create amazing and beautiful stories regardless. If you truly want to find happiness and peace, it's best to walk through life with something. Even if at the end of it, it is only experience and memories.
Good luck anon, and godspeed.
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>>71971361
Sometimes you have to cut things off one by one to see what works for you. While other people might say it's bad but, if said thing gets you up and moving, then it's good and works for you.
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>>71971139
I actually found a nice coffee house place, good advice anon. It doesn't open until 6pm though and is only open a few hours but people have legit wrote "its cozy" in the reviews so I think its good. It does look like it from the pics too. My biggest fear is her saying no and then every other teacher finding out, they're gunna find out anyway but it'd be better if I don't get shut down. I don't think she will say no, I really hope so, I don't know if its cause I'm lonely and desperate but i think I know what normal people mean when they say they feel some energy or some shit when they talk to someone.
>>71971402
Thanks and I think I have to kid if I don't Ill regret it like a lot of shit in life right. I don't go out really and all my previous jobs were sausage fests so in a way I'm kinda glad I got this job otherwise I would never meet anybody I feel.
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>>71971874
I grant you the power of my youth to help you aid in your journey.
>Your luck has increased by +15.
>My life expectancy has decreased by 30 minutes.
Remember, all confessions are meant to be dorky and retarded as fuck and make zero sense, that's why they all seem special. It's one of the most brutally honest moments someone can have. It's also one of the most treasured tropes for a reason.
I'll be watching the thread for the next couple of days for an update, best of wishes and may 4chan be with you.
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>>71971071
>I'm that school custodian anon and bros I'm gunna be honest I'm fucking terrified. I still haven't had the balls to ask her for a coffee its sad I know but I think I have to do it tomorrow now. I come home from work and see these posts after I spent pretty much the whole work day thinking about it. I had to show some shit to contractors working on the building so I didn't get a chance to see her and one of my earbuds broke so I really couldn't listen to anything to distract myself so my mind just kept going in fucking circles all night. I assume most people just go to starbucks right? I'm going to take your advice though and I hopefully I have the balls to do it tomorrow and hopefully come here with good news for once
As a person who's spent most of their life like this, I am so glad I've broken free
I'm not saying things won't work out for you with her, but in my own journey, it's so relieving to realize that as individual's women are absolutely shit.
I don't understand why I respect femininity so much as a concept when all the women are see around me are gross ass bitches
Maybe if I change my scenery, hopefully when I join the military I'll finally be able to find a woman that I can be friends with
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>>71971916
>Remember, all confessions are meant to be dorky and retarded as fuck and make zero sense, that's why they all seem special. It's one of the most brutally honest moments someone can have. It's also one of the most treasured tropes for a reason.
>>71971916
This is a great sentence describing the nature of confessing attraction to a person
When I think about it like this, it makes complete sense that women have never really wanted to be with me when I tell them how I feel.
Man
I really really wish I could have been born asexual with the same amount of hormones that I have
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>>71971874
Sounds like a nice cafe if she says no you should go anyway and enjoy a night doing something different knowing that you did something very difficult that a lot of people here fail to muster the courage to do
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>>71934404
95, creep
Seems fair but a lot of the points come from not driving, which is not really a big deal as a yuropoor
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>>71972293
not driving is totally ok if you live in like london/new york but if you live outside a city everyone will be disgusted by you
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>>71933692
Make it 7 14 21 and 28 years old then yes
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>>71971361
Is WoW even good still?

It's amazing just how "dark but retarded timeline" the world has gotten.

>>71971055
It's a either a troll or bot post. Just ignore it.
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>>71934404
182
I'm getting a dl and a car tho, lol.
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ugh, this image
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>>71934404
>tfw 256
I never had a chance, not in this life atleast.
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>>71973326
Who the hell can own a car in this economy? I rather have owned a house, at least you can sell that for a profit that a metal box that rusts.
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>>71973294
this is the most stupid faggot chart i ever seen in this place, how is not kissing someone a liability for others, i consider being a nigger a liability
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>>71971282
tripping balls on some drug does not make you a prophet, you stupid fucking idiot
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>>71974025
no, surviving near death as a child might though. The drugs are just a tool
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I know I am definitely in the minority here, but I really don't like the thought of sleeping with multiple people. To me it just kind of lessens the value of relationships. Guess that's one of the many reasons why I am a wizard.
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>>71974586
i have absolutely zero interest in casual sex or paying a prostitute for sex. i like to think at least some millennials and zoomers are the same but its tough to tell with the vocal majority being total whores who just see casual hookup sex as not a big deal and even encourage it. world of difference between having longterm relationships and having sex during them and fucking multiple people during hookups every year. also the idea of sex is foreign and weird enough to me as is the idea of just being able to do it on a whim with a stranger sounds disgusting to me. probably just the permavirgin inexperience talking i guess. i truly think my anxiety issues would make it impossible for me to get it up with someone i hardly know.
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>>71973870
It was made by a teenager.
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>>71971916
>>71971937
Yeah its honest and revealing and makes you vulnerable which is probably one of the reasons its so hard for me. Now I pretty much have to do it at this point or I never will and for any anons lurking wondering how this goes, I go to work in a few hours so well see if I can gather the courage to do it, pray for me guys.
>>71971926
I used to not care about getting into a relationship but I just cant do it anymore, I want the connection with someone so much more than sex. Sometimes I feel like Adam Sandlers friend in the movie The Wedding Singer where hes at the bar and admits hes just lonely and wants someone to hold him and say its gunna be ok. That's me, I'm 32 and never had a relationship before and this is pretty much thrown in my face because I didn't initiate it she did so if I don't take advantage of it Ill just regret it forever.
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>>71974586
>>71974801
Internet populations and cultures changed. The old days were memory holed. Replaced with made up ideas about what the kids want to constitute as status symbols of a internet dweller. You were insufferable weirdo to be so obsessed with girls and sex. I miss those days. By now it has been long enough ago that new culture manifested itself by self fulfilling prophecy so it came to reality for a generation of sex obsessed. For them that was the spirit of their time.
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>>71975533
most of the guys i knew growing up were in fact obsessed with wanting to date and fuck woman. i just didn't care because i was fat and ugly. still ugly but not fat now at least. still a virgin though.
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>>71933692
Yeah, sounds about right.
Oregano
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>>71974586
I don't see the problem with fucking some girls specially when you are young and then finding a stable relationship if you want that. I think that virgin people idolize love and relationships, I know that because I used to do it when I was a virgin.
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>>71934404
I'm 33yo and scored 248. I think it's a bad scale because besides being a turbo permavirgin I have a normal life, career, friends.
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>>71967411
>muh work hours
Just do your daily tasks and leave whenever its done. Less stress in everyone's lives that way.
You faggots create your own prisons and wonder why nothing good ever happens.
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In my case I'm not so worried about not having sex/girlfriend again,what worries me the most is losing the last friend I have. I have been years friendless and it was the worst thing that I have felt. Right now the only thing that keeps me barely afloat is that I can hang out with that friend and other of his friends and have fun and not feel so lonely. And second would be if my parents stop giving me money or kick me out of the house but I think there is a little chance of that happening.
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>>71934404
270. Weighting of the scale seems kinda fucked though because if I had gotten laid in HS my score would be 112.
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rip this thread
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>>71971071
>I assume most people just go to starbucks right? I'm going to take your advice though and I hopefully I have the balls to do it tomorrow and hopefully come here with good news for once.
Depends on your area, niche coffee shops tend to do a bit better if you have them.
But anon, I was thinking about your problem this afternoon during my workout, and I remembered something I got from a dating advice book.

You want to make sure you use the word because. Why? Because (see that was easy) that generates some conversation, it also injects emotion into the conversation. If you can't find a way to use that word, use the word Why? Why do I say that? Because, well there's that "because" word again.

You want to know stuff about her, so when she says something find something interesting about it, and ask her why, or how, whatever, or "I always thought blah blah blah". Whatever.

I'd teach you about kissing, but let's try to get at least a date done first.
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Has anyone tried using photo-editing programs to enhance their pictures for online dating?
Seems like cheating but...the game is so stacked. Don't need to go from a 4 to a 10, maybe just a 4 to a 5 would help (I assume it's exponential in nature)
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>>71978463
What do you want to change?
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>>71978500
I don't know what's wrong exactly - 5'11, healthy but not ripped (145lb), but given the number of matches I get (maybe 1 a month?) I must be a facecel - my eyebrows are uneven, other than that unsure.
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>>71978693
the fact that good looking and fit people on this board don't even get any sort of matches on dating apps makes me never want to use them ever. like i would have absolutely no chance.
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>>71978693
>>71978761

as a male the context of your photos is equally important to your looks. for example the majority of women looking for bfs (not hookups) are repelled by shirtless gym selfies

what they want to see aside from your body and face is you doing fun activities with friends.

you need to have one photo that clearly shows your fully clothed body and face, then you should do one like hiking or something active, one group photo with friends, especially with some women if possible, and a photo with a dog or something like that

instead of wasting time with photoshop you should set out to stage some of these photos. when i was single my friends took me out on a weekend to stage photos like this for my tinder profile
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>>71978856
Only problem is I don't have friends to take pictures with - I've unsuccessfully tried to make friends with my coworkers. I'll invite them to come over to grill out and have a bonfire but then they'll flake on me.
I do have a lot of hobbies I enjoy (playing harpsichord, metal casting, blacksmithing, hiking, sand castle building - I built pic related) but I don't have any friends (and arguably that's why I have so stupid hobbies).
Having group pictures would help take it to a next level, but until such time I figure improving my attractiveness can't hurt.
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>>71978856
i haven't had a single friend in a decade. i just will never use dating apps, they're clearly for a different breed of men. brutal.
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>>71978929
looks cool anon nice sand castle.

my advice would be to look at yourself and understand what it is about you that leaves you friendless. why don't your coworkers or the other guys at the blacksmith shop want to hang out with you? imo if you can't keep a casual friendship you have very little chance of succeeding in a relationship, work on yourself first, make some real changes to your personality not just your looks.

maybe read some books or something about how to build friendships and relationships

>>71979015
this post for you too
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>>71979048
>imo if you can't keep a casual friendship you have very little chance of succeeding in a relationship
yeah. i'm good. i'll just die a khv like i always figured.
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>>71979048
>>71979058
>maybe read some books or something about how to build friendships and relationships
I got some recommendations for you anon if you wanna do this.
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>>71979133
why would i. i live in a shit nothing city nobody here has time or care to build friendships at 30+. they have more important shit to worry about. that shits for young people.
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>>71979048
>other guys at the blacksmith shop
It's just my garage anon
I live 1000 miles away from my family, trying to ingrain myself in pre-existing friendship circles has been tough especially that I'm now a wizard.
I have an ex-coworker who had 7 children in a really hard financial spot I lent $6000 too - though he just decided to ghost me. I knew I was taking a gamble lending him money, but thought it was worth the chance of having a friend who I would knew had my back. At least I helped his kids I guess...
I've been going to a church here for over a year now. Though about 20 people show up on Sunday and most are 70+ years old. But I really like the priest and his wife and it would feel wrong to go to a bigger church just to meet people.
>>71979048
But if you have some book recommendations I'm willing to try anything at this point.
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>>71979214
>I have an ex-coworker who had 7 children in a really hard financial spot I lent $6000 too - though he just decided to ghost me.
what the fuck? are you retarded?
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>>71979208
Yes because what you are doing now is working too right anon? What do you have to lose?
>>71979226
What this guy said, why the hell would you do that?
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>>71979214
>At least I helped his kids I guess...
anon I have some news for you.
The money didn't go to the kids.
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I make good money and don't spend a lot, losing the $6000 didn't really make a difference. I gave a little less to the church for a while.
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>>71979281
lol christ man. 6k is pretty much all i have in the bank..
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>>71979253
>The money didn't go to the kids.
Yep. I learned that one the hard way, I let my Dad have the $1000 in my childhood bank. He never paid it back, and it didn't go to help him out.
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>>71932648
I hate you fratboys. How can you accept being over 30 so gracefully? If you're such losers why take the trouble to obey that particular social grace? I just hate people of all ages who fit into society. Age, gender, all that shit only matters if you're salvageably non ugly enough that people can even perceive them in your visage. True ogres transcend all that.
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>>71979393
>How can you accept being over 30 so gracefully?
as opposed to what? killing yourself?
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>>71933692
Yup. It's the result of socializing with only my fuddy duddy parents and not other kids.
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>33 years old
>no job
>no money
>no car
>no friends
>no girlfriend
My advice, marry now and have 6 kids now. That's the advice I wish my parents had given me when I was your age. If you wait too much for things, it will be harder to find someone to have a big family.
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>>71979751
6 kids is 6 kids too many.
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>>71979751
I'm you but three years younger. Really feeling how hard it is.
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>>71942466
I never liked Asians to begin with. What's the Thailand equivalent looking for white girls? Amsterdam?
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i think i'm going to take a semi permanent break from this board. its in a really bad state atm. just not engaging or pleasant to browse at all. i see no point in being here nowadays.
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>>71979966
What is it that you don't like and what is it that you would like to see in it?
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>>71935331
thats high anon, me and you have the highest. 349 here.

30s hv wizard
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>>71980030
less humblebragging normgroids, and women, and trannies pretending to be women. more actual outcasts having discussions. 90% of threads at any time are just lazy bait. its awful. i think i might be growing out of 4chan in general despite being here since 06 i might be at my limit. or that just tells you how bad things have got.
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>>71980141
There's a guy just 4 posts up saying he has nothing.
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>>71980209
that's like 0.1% of the posts here. 95% of them are people like 18 to early 20's complaining about how their life is over because they haven't had sex in a year or some shit. it's demoralizing.
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>>71934287
>50k car on a 50k a year salary
what the actual fuck man. whats the monthly payment on that?
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>>71934404
>39
phew was worried there for a second
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>71980141
>humblebragging normgroids, and women, and trannies
You didn't become numb to it all? Took me longer than I'll admit but the trash posts doesn't faze me much anymore. Background noise.
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>>71980358
no i'm not an autistic automaton.
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>>71980379
You might have that backwards.
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>>71980141
And where are you going to go? I don't know any forum with so much activity than this and also being anonymous without user account so you can say one thing and in the next post nobody knows who you are. In my country there are classic forums with a lot of activity too but they are classic forums with user accounts and there I can't post about personal things that I post here because then everybody would know me in the next posts that I do and I don't like that.
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>>71934287
what shitbox did you buy
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>>71980457
not this board, and just on 4chan in general less often i guess. i feel like there's nothing to be gained from staying on this board as a real loser.
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>>71980713
I hope you can leave this place and spend your time doing more productive and better things but my experience says that you can't leave.
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Here's a question that I'd like answers to: Are people more and more dropping out of society in the social sense? I can't tell where I live because it's currently being taken over by wealthy hipsters and yuppies.

>>71979393
>How can you accept being over 30 so gracefully?
In what sense?

>>71979966
It's a good idea but this board will never improve. Just make sure you have *something* to replace it with.
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>>71980931
>Are people more and more dropping out of society in the social sense?
That's such a broad undefinable question.
We talking in a single country rural/city, what ages/wealth?
Everyone I know is having children so fewer of them are going out however they all have dinner "party's" and have huge social networks they constantly engage in.
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>>71980931
Marriages are dropping, people have less and less children and more people are dropping out from the labor force in the USA.

I have heard all of those things.
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>>71980931
>Are people more and more dropping out of society in the social sense
What's considered dropped out in the social sense. Those of us 30+ remember the pre-internet era. Life was slower and that was okay. You knew relatively few people. It didn't matter if you had nothing going on for a bit. There wasn't virtual pressures to live up to standards imposed by virtual realities. This internet era changed the relative basis to make everybody feel like they need to be socialite. Take away the digital facade and nothing is different than it used to be. Peoples lives aren't that exciting. They never were. The digital world made it feel like everybody has more social connections than they do because database entries says your friends list is this long. In the real life meat space I don't really know anymore people on a regular basis than I used to. By todays standards that means I'm a loser man, dropped out of society even? Except nothing has changed. I was just another nobody dude in this town before. Today I'm still just another dude. I suspect this is true for most people. The world succumbed to the surreptitious facade of virtual standards of a digital era which are nothing more than business selling user engagements packaged as a social life. Business needs perpetual growth to satisfy shareholders. Few things in real life tangible world are perpetual growth. Certainly not social life.
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>>71981413
I think he was talking about dropping out of society in the sense of not having a job, not getting married and not having children.

About what you said, yeah the internet, social networks and smartphones have been some of the biggest changes humanity have experienced and many of what you said I agree with but I remember feeling bad too before the internet when I didn't have friends. I think that hasn't changed. People wanting to have friends is a natural thing, we are extremely sociable beings.
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>>71981684
>not having a job, not getting married and not having children.
By that definition chads/stacys are dropping out of society to be influencers/spoonge of parents and are counted the same as >>71979751
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>>71982365
A Chad has a job, a guy that doesn't have a job, lives from his parents and wants to be an influencer... that's not a Chad.
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4fWyzwo1xg0
Bros hold me and tell me its gunna be ok. I'm that school custodian anon who wanted to ask a hot Dominican teacher out and well it didn't go as well as I hoped, I'm sorry guys I failed. I feel like a fool for reading the whole thing wrong cause I'm a desperate lonely fuck, that one anon was right a women being nice doesn't mean shes into you. I did muster up the courage to ask her out but I got hit with the tried and true "I got a boyfriend" line, good thing no one else was around. It was pretty much set up perfect for me too, she stayed late doing Spanish club with another teacher and after they were done the other teacher left first and she was doing some shit in her room when she came out and we started talking and I was thinking that if I don't ask here I never will and I just didn't care anymore no more thinking and threw it out there asking if she was doing anything Saturday. She thought for a second and then asked why and I said I wanted to take her out and shes like I'm flattered and then I got hit with the boyfriend shit. I just kinda shrugged like oh well at least I tried I guess.
I forgot to tell her not to say anything to any of the other teachers so we'll see if the whole school knows tomorrow, hopefully she doesn't say anything cause I didn't even tell the guys I work with I was going for her. I'm happy in a way that I was able to actually ask a women out and that I did it instead of never doing it and just wondering but at the same time I am sad. Its a weird feeling, I didn't want to but I still ended up at a 711 after work grabbing 2 tallboys and I'm almost done with the second one and I rarely drink just smoke weed everyday so I guess I am pretty bummed out or this is the only way I know to cope. Back to being a 32 year old and counting lonely permavirgin, I don't even care about sex anymore I just want someone to hold me at night and tell me they love me I'm tired of coming home to nothing.
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>>71983137
>I got a boyfriend
Nothing to apologise for. Don't ask her to not say anything, that's weird.
She seemed like she's a good chick, maybe give a little bit of space for yourself but you did fine.
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>>71983137
You shot your shot. Didn;t work. That's all.

>I forgot to tell her not to say anything
and yeah be glad you didn't do that
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>>71983137
Literally nothing wrong with what you did.
You did everything right. She was just already off the market. You weren't creepy or weird so it will just be seen as an awkward, cute thing.
She's prob a good person because she did the "I'm flattered thing" so don't dwell on it too much and you didn't do anything weird.
If anything, she might hook you up with a single friend that's around her hotness-level (birds-flock-together mentality).
Just keep everything as they were, but I'd drop her as a love interest. Doesn't mean you can't still stop in or anything when you are bored. Work friends are good ways to network.
>On the actual good thing to come out of it.
Good job on doing it. It takes a lot of courage to ask a girl out for the first times. It gets better every time you do it, the nervousness goes away bit by bit.
I know you feel stupid and disappointed, but the reason is pretty much that she was already taken off the market. Something completely out of your control.
At the end of the day, hold your head up because there are definitely plenty of women in the world and you successfully learned how to ask a girl out.
A lot of other people on this board are too cowardly/underage to attempt in fear of failure, but you can never win unless you play the game.
I wouldn't take this too hard, but if you need some time that's fine. Just not too long, don't dwell on it.
>I forgot to tell her not to say anything
Never ever do that. It's sort of just implied since it's a personal thing. Makes you seem creepy.
The natural reaction is just saying 'that's fine' and walking away.
Although if you want to continue a friendship, you might wanna "Sorry, I didn't know you had boyfriend" or something along those lines.
She will prob be like "Oh don't worry its fine anon." ---> *women filler* ---> "anyways.. (other topic inserted here)"
It's not the best to ignore things, rather you settle it and throw it under le bridge.

If anything, I am proud of you regardless.
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>>71983171
>>71983427
>>71983510
Well I guess its a good thing I didn't say anything and now I know that's weird as hell, and it does seem weird now that I think about it. I'm just more upset that I read the situation wrong honestly but oh well I am glad I did it and feel better that I actually could do it and I'm not really that upset now really. If she has single friends and is nice enough set something up I sure as hell wont complain. Other anons can learn from this experience somehow I think, but Ill keep looking maybe ill go to a bar or some place one day soon. I don't do anything else on so why not.
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>>71984232
>I'm just more upset that I read the situation wrong
From what you said you didn't. I work with a lot of women and many of them give off the feeling that they might be interested and they likely are - only aren't willing to destroy their preexisting relationship unless you're a gigachad (and they're a whore more than normal)
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compare yourself with your father at the same age
>father
>30, two kids and family
>almost owned apartment
>decent career prospects

>me
>30
>wizard
>neet
>no job or hope
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>>71981684
>I think he was talking about dropping out of society in the sense of not having a job, not getting married and not having children.
Yeah that's what I was talking about. Like >>71981398 I hear about it all the time but it's difficult to judge in a city that's been overrun by rich fuckers that seem to live in their own dimension completely oblivious to the cost of living crisis.

Also another dead person has been found in a council flat years after their death:
>"Everybody who was in contact with Laura and had a duty to her at some stage simply wiped their hands of her and forgot her. She was abandoned and left to die"

How many of you anons live alone?
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>>71934404
>236
wow i'm a loser lol cringe
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>>71948851
Incel forums are where the constantly rejected ones go. Most of us have never even tried. Girls have given me their number out of the blue a few times and still I did nothing
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>>71986426
The yuppies indeed are disconnected from reality. You'll find anons like this too. The ones who became successful in tech. Often they don't realize even in their high cost of living cities they are the rich ones btiching about their rich person problems.

A sobering data point is the median incomes. Looking even at the HCOL cities, the income is just not that high at all. Most of the world doesn't live in those cities much less are the minority of high income individuals there. So look up any average town. Hardly any of these yuppies will believe when you cite the data. Or their eyes will gloss over -- whatever don't care, got my own problems.

Well a carton of eggs and milk costs average income Joe the same as for you, mister yuppie. The difference is average Joe spends $1000/month to feed his family. He has another $1000 left over for everything else. Mister yuppie spends the same $1000. Has $9000 left over. And that's the lower end of tech salaries.
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>>71983137
Hey man, I'm proud of you. Yeah it sucks now, but hey, you tried which is more than 99% of the guys here do.
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>>71986426
>How many of you anons live alone?
Most of the year I'm alone, except the summer when my mom stays with me. She's the only person I have left in my life.

>>71986168
>FATher, emphasis on the fat
>Lost everything because he's a psychopath
>Everyone at work made fun of him because he had the golden life but pissed it away to fuck an ugly Indian slut (My mom was a House Wife, all his co-workers were jealous)
>Fat, Diabetic, damaged his Spleen, on 5 different meds
>Had to take a shit job because his boss laughed at him for being such a fuck up, got lucky later on and was making 6 figures, only to fuck that up and be sent back to a minimum wage job
>Grey Hair by the time he was in his mid 30s

>Me
>32
>Not Fat. Fit
>On 0 meds
>Shit job, but at least I get some money
>Don't own anything, don't really need to
>Dating problem comes from lack of women (too many sluts these days)
>No Health Problems, better health than other people my age
>Still have my hair
>Don't fuck sluts
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>>71986168
>dad at 30
>had two kids and was with my mom for 8 years already at that point
>owned a house but we moved once more before staying at the same house for roughly 11 years
>was just getting his foot in at the job he's been at for like 24 years now

>me at 30
>shut in friendless NEET KHV
yeah. its whatever. my dad grew up dirt poor with old school 1st generation immigrant parents with 7 siblings so he moved out asap and i feel like that gives you more drive, he had to work multiple jobs until like 29. i grew up spoiled and lazy. none of my dad's work ethic rubbed off on me.
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>>71986168
Funny you should ask now. I am the age my father was when I was born.
Father:
> IT management career
> 3 kids
> house
> 2 cars

Me:
> No career
> Untouched virgin
> No assets

Everything went so very wrong.
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>>71986168
hey at least you have a brother
I'm here all by myself
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>>71987789
my younger brother is better than me in all aspects. I feel inferior and bring him disgrace. we barely even communicate these days.
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>>71932879
You just described my whole world experience
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It's 18:24 and I still haven't got up from bed. I have my windows closed and it looks like it's night again.

Fuck being a productive member of society, robots are going to do all the work so who cares anyways.
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>>71984901
Good to know I'm not to total retard when it comes to socializing with women. Maybe something can come of this like some other anon said if she has single friends but I'm not banking on anything like that.
>>71986902
Thanks bro and I don't feel that bad honestly, the feeling of knowing I did it is pretty good and I know I would feel worse if I did nothing. Also any anon reading this should try, I know its hard as fuck but I think it was worth it, only took me 32 years but I did it.
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>>71989177
I have to find a woman to try with first. Not sure where to find them.
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>>71989190
For me it was work just because its easier to become friendly with someone since you see them almost everyday, but that didn't work out obviously and the rest of the teachers seem taken. Maybe bars I don't know where people hang out really, I might go bowling by myself tommorow night just to go out and do something I'm getting kinda bored on the weekends.
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>>71989307
It sucks that is so hard to make friends after you leave school. Yeah my boss has said if there is some nice woman he interviews who he thinks might work for me, he'll hire her over the others. We work in a really remote location most of the year, so that's really the only way that's gonna happen.
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Let's talk about the porn addiction problem.

How are you doing lately?

In my case right now I'm trying these things to reduce the time I spend watching porn:

1) Limit the number of faps to 1/day.
2) Limit the time I spend watching porn to 30 minutes (maybe I will increase this to 45 because last time it felt like I need a little more of time to search a video that I like, but the goal is to always have a limited time).
4) Make challenges of X days to see if I'm able to be like 5 days without watching porn.

So far I have been able to do this for a couple of weeks and it has worked.
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>>71989339
Yeah its really amazing how hard it is to make friends once you get out of school. Ive had a few work friends but no one I would consistently hang out with and meeting a single women around my age seems almost impossible really they all are married or are in relationships at this age. Kinda cool your boss is trying to help you out though hey maybe something happens down the line.
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>>71932648
Why are you so comfortable with being old? You're like complacent normies with families. I still feel 12. I can't accept aging. THAT's a true loser. Anyone above that is a fratboy.
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>>71990547
congrats on your mental retardation anon.
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>>71990440
I use pihole. Porn domains block list.
It's not perfect. My addictive brain outsmarts itself. I allowed two domains a cam site and incest flix.
At least it stops me from going on a bender with 100 tabs on different sites.
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>>71990630
And you set a random password so you don't know it? Can't you uninstall it?
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>>71990440
Here's how I beat it: Treat Porn and Fapping as two different addictions as such.

1. In the first week, you can still fap, but you can only fap to GIFs/JPGs.
2. In your second week, you can still fap, but not it must only be still images.
3. You can still fap, but you have to use your own imagination.

I did this, and step 3 was just so boring I stopped fapping. Also in some cases, it's hard to find good photos since most people prefer videos.

I've done a few other things too:

Used Leechblock and redirected every porn site to a video of a happy couple having sex. Ouch, right in the fucking feels. I also sometimes would just watch it sometimes if I was thinking of relapsing and that would stop me every time.

I used a Hypnosis file I found a few times to help get it into my subconscious that I did not want to look at porn.

I still sometimes relapse, but I'm in my 30s and single so I don't beat my self up too much about it as long as it's not too frequent.

I find though now it's easier to over come it because modern porn is just so boring. It also helps that I have niche interest in a specific kind of woman, and the content that gets put out nowadays is total garbage.
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>>71991132
And porn before wasn't boring? What is the difference?
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>>71991212
The women aren't into it and don't know how to be sexy these days. Alot of these new ones are just so fucking bland. Especially in my niche.
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>>71991132
>Hypnosis file
source?
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>>71991348
Know a site I can upload it to? The last time I tried to share something here, it got blocked. I had to fix it because the audio would get super quiet at random, so I edited it so the audio was consistent across the board.
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>>71991227
Hmm... could you give me an example of old porn where it wasn't boring?
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>>71991430
Unless you share my niche, probably not. My niche is BBW, hasn't been good in over a decade. Nonetheless, that isn't important if you are trying to beat your addiction, it might just be harder is all.
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>>71991379
I don't know... maybe vocaroo? I see schizo anons post it on this board all the time
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>>71991503
Okay anon, here you are. I recommend doing this in your bed, with speakers (head phones move too much I find) behind your bed if you can, and get nice and warm and comfy in your bed. It'll help you relax more. The key to hypnosis is relaxation. This is something I learned in hypnosis class.

https://vocaroo.com/1afXfX1NdMSC
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>>71991477
Don't worry I don't mind talking about that.

I'm just interested in why do you think porn is now boring and it wasn't in the past because I've been watching porn for a while and it seems more or less the same to me. But maybe you are talking about that specific genre not about porn in general.
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>>71991619
With my niche, the women don't know how to act sexy anymore. And since Onlyfans has killed the modeling portion of that niche, you get really bad quality content because most of them are lazy, and most don't have professional lighting and state of the art cameras.

I recall one lady last year recorded her self, fully clothed, belly exposed, sitting on a couch slowly eating a bag of ripple potato chips over a two hour period, and guys paid to watch her eat and she made $600. There's nothing sexy about that, yet, this is what the average simp wants to watch.

So yeah, porn is just boring now. I prefer to go back to the good old stuff like Cherry taking a Shower, Brie doing her thing, and so forth.
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>2017 was 6 years ago
>have lost virginity and got a gf since then
>conversely i'm still a NEET and have lost all my friends

bittersweet feeling
i seriously cannot cope with the fact that 2017 was 6 fucking years ago, i can't comprehend it
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>>71932648
>33 yr old volcel wizard
Supposed to be a hell of a snow storm here Saturday. I'm going to stay comfy by doing an informal appraisal
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>>71932648
>33 yr old volcel wizard
Supposed to be a hell of a snow storm here Saturday. I'm going to stay comfy by doing an informal appraisal on a coin collection my mother and aunt inherited.
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>>71991585
Thank you, anon.
I better not wake up retarded or something.
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>>71991778
You are welcome.
If you are worried, listen to it while awake first and check if there is anything you don't like in it.
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>>71936334
Glad to have ya aboard, son
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>>71991886
Is that a signature from the old days of forums?
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>>71992171
Not at 1.94 MB it's not. if it was as big as the thumbnail, maybe.
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>>71992260
Look at the dip around 2020.

>>71986767
Oh shit I forgot about the filesize limits and the 56k modem speeds.
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>>71992493
lol you reversed the quotes
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>>71990440
i'm 30 and i think my dick is at the moment really fucked up and i am going to stop watching porn and fapping for a long while. i used to fap maybe twice a week for a good couple of years but i have been very depressed the past year or so. so i look at more porn and try to force an erection and orgasm daily because i am depressed and want to feel good. but i think i burned out shit in my dick and brain because no porn gets me off now and my dick doesn't work as well. i feel awful because i am still a virgin. so i feel like my dick is getting worse and worse and my tolerance for porn is too high now. so i'm freaking out and more depressed than ever.

i still get morning wood and nocturnal erections to be fair. i am healthy, eat well, do daily cardio. its just my dick that's fucked up. will weeks of nofap/noporn fix this? i'm seriously fucked up over this.
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>>71992800
Your depression/being a virgin is what's causing it.
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>>71992893
i dunno maybe. i have A LOT of anxiety issues about everything too and that can apparently factor into it. i think being this age and fapping in a basement never having been with a woman is really fucking with me lately and making me feel awful. i can't get off at all. i feel like shit watching men get off and fucking women in stuff now while i sit here alone and miserable. regardless i think i will do nofap/noporn and see if that changes anything. ssris will just kill my dick further like they did in the past and i'm in no shape to date unfortunately as i live with my parents and i'm a NEET.
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>>71942215
Censorship and Information Control by the left
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>>71933861
Well you're dumb or a liar because if she let you kiss her and all that she would have eventually let you smash.
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>>71932648
Had a pretty nasty realisation lately that I don't actually know what to talk to people about.
Any time I get the chance, my mind just blanks and I'm just like "yeah".
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>>71993359
Possible she just isn't ready, might be nerves. He's not calming her enough first.
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>>71993383
>I don't actually know what to talk to people about.
Sounds like you don't actually care about them enough to consider what you have in common or trying to find topics of interest to bond over.
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it is actually insane how badly i done fucked up my life. man. 30 is too late to be starting from nothing.
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>>71993503
That's probably how I come across.
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>>71993383
>Had a pretty nasty realisation lately that I don't actually know what to talk to people about.
Aside from the usual things like sports and entertainment?
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>>71993383
Neither do I, I don't seem to have a lot in common with other people.
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>>71951997
Every time I've had to use Zoom it was audio only
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>>71992800
>will weeks of nofap/noporn fix this?

Erection problems due to porn addiction are a very common thing. You have watched so much porn that now nothing turns you on because you have watched everything. It's like when you have been consuming a lot of a drug and now you don't feel anything and you need more. Your brain must be fried after so much porn watching and now you don't feel excited when you watch it. Yeah you should at least try to stop masturbating for a while or at least reduce it all that you can. And then you could go talk with a psychologist about that specific problem with erections. Maybe it can help you. I know it must be very hard to go talk with a psychologist about that but there is no much you can do, trying to reduce the porn watching by yourself and go see a psychologist.
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>>71994237
So far they haven't said anything since I said I can't install it. I'm waiting to hear back from them.
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>>71960540
Can confirm, getting diagnosed with autism a few months ago has not helped me at all so far.
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>>71960716
I try to beat the algo by never swiping right and going only for women that post messenger accounts.
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>>71971041
Actually I think I'm living that and it is not going so well
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>>71994500
what i get for using porn to cope for over 15 years because i'm an ugly loser i guess. its very depressing. to the point where i don't even want to fap or look at porn now honestly. not that i ever expect to have sex but not being able to get an erection in front of a woman would be awful and probably make me suicidal.
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>>71948828
Good luck. Quitting drinking will definitely help. I've been sober almost 6 years. Life isn't going to be all sunshine and rainbows once you quit, but your overall mood will definitely improve.

Don't matter how healthy and fit you get, you'll never be able to keep up fully with kids. They have unlimited energy. Thank you for wanting to put in all that effort for your niece.
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>>71995039
So you never get an erection watching porn or it only happens sometimes?
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>>71990630
Incest porn made me ask my sister to see her tits and try to fuck my cousin.
Maybe getting molested was part of it too
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>>71990440
>How are you doing lately?
I'm quite restrained in every regard, I can stop drinking or doing drugs after getting a buzz and I've never gone crazy. I hate gambling.
I do view a lot of porn though, however it's never gone further into more extreme categories.
I can talk to women fine and am still constantly horny/able to have sex without any problems.
I think the main problem is the hundreds/thousands of hours wasted on it
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>>71991747
Based. I did the same thing to my grandparents' coin collection. Just sat there for hours and rolled quarters and shit.
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>>71995334
i get random and nocturnal erections i just can't get horny enough to finish. i don't really get hard to porn at all.
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Last post I win!
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>>71990440
still jacking it to porn once or twice a day. almost 50 and I've never had a gf and never gonna have a gf so why quit it again when it doesn't matter
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>>71996107
i don't know how you're not desensitized. even at my horniest as a teenager i could barely fap twice a day and the second time never felt as good. guess everyone is different.
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>>71995740
>i don't really get hard to porn at all.

So how do you masturbate then? You can't cum anymore?
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>>71996191
i manage to finish sometimes but its basically just going through the motions and forcing myself to finish. porn alone doesn't get me erect i have to manually do that. i might as well be staring at the wall, that's how i feel about porn nowadays.
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>>71996138
when I was a teenager I had the infinite cum cheat. I think my T levels have always been relatively high, though I've never had them measured. These days I supplement with 50mg DHEA daily, which also helps as a mood stabilizer, and I make sure to exercise vigorously and often. Honestly would quit masturbating entirely if there were a reason, but women have never been interested in me, besides a couple of legitimately crazy ones who both had to be committed.

I do rein myself in when I sense that I'm escalating to really bad stuff, like gonzo porn, abuse shit, and fetish garbage. If possible, I like to use pix of clothed women and undress them with my imagination
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>>71996215
i've been fapping to futa and horse cocks for most of my life so. yeah maybe something is broken.
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