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Is it ok to post private conversations you had with your bf online if you leave out his username desu?
Would you get mad if your gf did this without telling you?
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>no dox
I wouldn't care
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>>72616438
It is not okay to post private conversations without the consent of the other person, even if you leave out their username. Everyone has a right to privacy and sharing their private conversations without their permission is a violation of that right. Additionally, it can also be considered a breach of trust in a relationship if one partner shares private conversations without the other's knowledge or consent.
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>>72616438
Beats doing it without leaving out his username, but no. Can't even imagine why you'd want to do that.
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>ok to post
In what context? What are you trying to show and to who?
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no
you could just describe the conversation you don't need to post screenshots
i don't understand this zoomer obsession with treating everything forensically like you are on trial
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>>72616438
id be pretty bothered if she asked a Laotian leather tanning forum before me
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>pic unrelared
>>72616454
>Can't even imagine why you'd want to do that.
Could be various reasons but biggest one i can think of is asking for advice and an outside perspective on a conversation you two had
>>72616467
No private information or anything like that
>show
An argument
>to who
Randoms online
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>>72616438
>Would you get mad if your gf did this without telling you?
Yes. That's break up level shit.
Why would you even do such a stupid thing?
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>>72616514
This, but I'm sure he knew what he was getting into when he decided to date a 4chan demon
>>72616515
For what reason? Do you want opinions on who is right? I would be disappointed if I realized but then again I doubt I'd realize it. If you want to talk about your problems try chatgpt first, just give it some context and maybe it'll say something useful and it's a fairly valid opinion.
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>>72616550
>4chan demon
I'm not that bad >\\\<
>For what reason?
To see who was in the right and if such a reaction was warrented. For example your bf telling you to die during an argument.
I can't imagine anyone saying that to someone they love no matter the context but maybe others disagree
>I would be disappointed if I realized but then again I doubt I'd realize it
Is it immoral? No one would know who we are
>try chatgpt first
How good is it for complex things like that?
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>>72616438
woman who uses internet for anything but cat videos, movies, education and cooking recepies is a big no for me
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>>72616515
>An argument
>>to who
>Randoms online
This would be annoying. Why is it that you're trying to get the hivemind's opinion rather than working things out together?
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>>72616628
>For example your bf telling you to die during an argument
I'd call you a dumb whore only interested in abuse chad and that you deserve everything happening to you
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>>72616628
>How good is it for complex things like that?
It will give you a very contextual leftist opinion where the woman is ultimately always right, unless the other party is a tranny or a minority.
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>>72616768
>Why is it that you're trying to get the hivemind's opinion rather than working things out together?
It's all well and good but the argument still bothers me. Is it ever ok to wish for your gfs death, other than if she cheated?
>>72616779
>I'd call you a dumb whore only interested in abuse chad and that you deserve everything happening to you
This was expected but try having some empathy. I hate when he is mean but wishing me to die is crossing a line. How would you feel if your gf said that to you?
>>72616782
Lol
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>>72616438
l wouldn't like it and I make a point of not doing it to others without their approval.
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>>72616851
>How would you feel if your gf said that to you?
That would be very upsetting and I would simply leave her.
>empathy
You're choosing to be treated like shit by staying. What empathy when you like the abuse?
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>>72616851
>It's all well and good but the argument still bothers me.
Missing the point. Why involve others? Do you really the need the "yass queen that's not okay" in order to make a decision?
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>>72616851
>How would you feel if your gf said that to you?
My e-gf said that to me at least a thousand times, I like tsundere so it's okay.
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>>72616851
>Is it ever ok to wish for your gfs death, other than if she cheated?
I can't imagine a situation where it would be other than out of mercy for someone who was already dying.
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>>72616851
>How would you feel if your gf said that to you?
I wouldn't have a partner any longer because I don't simp over abusechad.
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>>72616875
>That would be very upsetting and I would simply leave her
You either never loved someone or have planty of options. Maybe both
>What empathy when you like the abuse?
Huh? There is more to it that that. I like the good things about him, but everything has it's downsides. He isn't even abusive i think
>>72616885
>really the need the "yass queen that's not okay" in order to make a decision?
No but i do question if i did something wrong. What would warrent such a reaction?
>>72616886
>My e-gf said that to me at least a thousand times, I like tsundere so it's okay.
That's horrible. Does she mean it at the time?
>>72616895
Right?
I don't know. Even if you think it and are mad,why say it? And imagine not even saying you regret it
>>72616906
Can women simp?
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>>72616988
>He isn't even abusive i think
>tells you to kill yourself
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>>72616988
>There is more to it that that.
Cope.
>I like the good things about him, but everything has it's downsides
Cope.
>He isn't even abusive i think
Cope.
You like abusive men because you don't like being bored and because he had sex with you, you think that's "love" somehow. Not even the savior complex in me wants to listen to your retarded issues. He's right. Kill yourself
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>>72616449
An ai wrote this
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>>72616988
>Does she mean it at the time?
Probably, but I always laugh at it because she's much more likely to kill herself than I am.
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>>72617002
It's another episode of foid dates an asshole, ignores all the red flags and the relationship goes poorly.
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>my bf is abusive teehee

the epitome of female literature all you bitches ever talk about is your shitty boyfriends you can only get off to negative male thoughts for some sympathy updoots.
>yeah im a redditfag i will leave now
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>>72616438
>Is it ok to post private conversations
>Private
No
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>>72617002
It was a heated argument! It' not something that happens often lol
>>72617015
>You like abusive men because you don't like being bored and because he had sex with you, you think that's "love" somehow
Who gave you your psych degree?
>>72617020
It did sound like that lol
>>72617031
It's going well actually. Hoe is your relationship going? ^_^
>>72617039
Just get out already and take your shitty opinions with you
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>>72617151
>Who gave you your psych degree?
No other reason to put up with such behavior otherwise, no? You like it and that's why you stay. Simple.
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>>72617151
>It's going well actually
Yes, you're still at the ignoring red flags stage.
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>>72617151
>get heated
>tell person to kill themself
Are kys posters unironic? I always thought it was like a joke about how pissed they are or something, not some actual niggerbrained person wanting someone to die because they disagree
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No it's not okay. Using your bf for attention on here is WHORE behavior
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>>72617151
>It was a heated argument!
Oh, well, that's okay then. A totally reasonable reaction.
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>>72616449
I agree with this AI, unironically.
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>>72616438
I found out my ex was posting our private conversations on Tumblr, showing off our shitty jokes and memes we shared or general loved up conversations. She left out our names and blurred everything out but it still made me uncomfortable. I told her she was sharing things with people she didn't actually know since these 'friends' were from all over the world. She flew into a rage ranting and hurling abuse over dm's and I told her she should post this conversation as well. She didn't like that lmao
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>>72617165
What is love?
>>72617184
It's been 5 years anon
>>72617208
I can never be sure. But moids are bad at controlling their anger lmao
Just look at the crime stats
>>72617224
Have you ever been in a heated argument?
>>72617270
This is fucked up actually. I was thinking more from a point of getring an outside perspective not sharing your intimacy with the world.
On an unrelated note, is posting your nudes online cheating if you are in a relationship?
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>>72617360
>On an unrelated note, is posting your nudes online cheating if you are in a relationship?
If it's done without your partner's assent.
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>>72617360
>Have you ever been in a heated argument?
Yes. When I was a child.
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>>72617384
This. Most men would not be ok with it. Men see that as being cucked.
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>>72617439
Are they wrong? Why would one post that online?
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>>72617526
No, they aren't. I'm a man myself and would consider it getting cucked by my woman. I lost respect for iDubbbz when he allowed his gf to start an OF and defended her, for example.

That being said, some guys are either in denial or are into being cucked. So, it wouldn't be cheating in the context of such a relationship, lol.
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>>72616438
>Is it ok to post private conversations
It's definitely ok to post your private parts first
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>>72617401
>Yes. When I was a child
What? Last week?
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>>72617556
>I'm a man myself and would consider it getting cucked by my woman
But how? Aren't you the one fucking her while other simps just jerk off to her without being able to even touch her? You are cucking them not the other way around, no?
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>>72617624
She sexualizes herself with other men = she is cucking me. No man with any self-respect will stand for that unless he's a pornstar himself or something.
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>>72616438
I would kinda be mad but it's better than someone sending a conversation that you had with someone to another friend
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You shouldn't share private conversations ever. If you need to talk about something for advice you talk about the big picture not the details.

"He insulted my father at my sister's wedding and said he was misunderstood like Batman" is enough to understand and offer advice. You don't need chat logs but you want to post them to get attention as you think threads like that get more replies.
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>>72617715
Ok but that pic is so ebic and funny. Come on. My nigga thinks he batman ahahahahahah
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>>72617026
>Probably, but I always laugh at it because she's much more likely to kill herself than I am.
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>>72616438
>Would you get mad if your gf did this without telling you?
Don't have a gf but absolutely. Private conversations should stay private.
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>>72619100
>no gf
Your opinion is invalid
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>>72616438
Without any names it's just words on a screen you want a second opinion on, anyone who'd get upset when there's no dox happening isn't worth your time.
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>>72620381
Then find one for me.
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>>72616438
No it's not okay under a h circumstances for either side to do that, the fact that you have to ask this means you're exactly the kind of piece of shit that would do that.

Its called a private chat for a reason you autistic prick. If a gf did this I'd dump her for breaking my trust.
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>>72616851
What a shit argument. I wouldn't stay with a partner that was abusive or told me to genuinely die. You're a retard for staying with someone like that and deserve what you get.
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>>72620448
Why even care if it's just mundane shit
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>>72620419
This was my starting opinion but seems people disagree. I do get why some would think it's violating privacy
>>72620431
That is adorable. Your opinion maters again. Not sure i could help as i don't know any other women(not trannies) that post here
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>>72620448
>If a gf did this I'd dump her for breaking my trust.
Based. I'd talk to her about it at the beginning or our relationship and then if she still wants to do it it's bye bye.
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>>72620541
Don't give a fuck. It's called private for a reason.
>>72620712
Oh of course, I'd communicate any deal breakers at the start of a relationship and ask for hers so we can establish boundaries and respect and avoid the issue of lack of trust altogether. If these lines get crossed it's over and the same applies to me too.
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>>72620733
>I'd communicate any deal breakers at the start of a relationship and ask for hers so we can establish boundaries and respect and avoid the issue of lack of trust altogether.
You sound trustworthy anon. I hope you'll find that one girl as well.
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>>72620765
Appreciate that anon, I believe in clearly communicating and being honest, otherwise what's the point? If there's no trust and respect there's no relationship.
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>>72620712
>>72620733
I don't think you should need to tell your potential girlfriend that you don't like your private chats being broadly shared with other random people behind your back, if someone doesn't have this in them as common sense, they're probably trash.
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>>72616438
yeah i'd get mad. I wouldn't consider doing that with anyone even if they gave consent. that's so weird. i'd maybe show just funny remarks or jokes they make but hell no not whole conversations or regular stuff WHY

instant unconditional breakup worthy desu



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