Ask a guy with BPD something
>>72616828is it bipolar?
>>72616834No, it's Borderline Personality Disorder. Bipolar is a full "split", while BPD comes and goes depending on the person/situation/feelingsIt's considered the female variant of Antisocial personality, but some men can get it too.
>>72616828do you believe in pure hearts and kind souls
>>72616854I think that I have it too. How were your relationships?
>>72616859Yes I do. But most people are corrupt and damaged, it's almost inevitable. And genetic tendencies play a role in this too, apart from upbringing and family.>>72616862Chaotic. Nothing was ever stable and that made me numb/hypersensitive/fearful...had anxiety for 24 years and depression is still lurking around.Anxiety is much better though, I found a great therapist and she used EMDR. I now feel fear 90% less than I used to.
Why is anyone giving the made up bitching disease thread any attention. Bpd doesn't exist and is only an excuse for Chad to pump and dump foids.
>>72616884>Nothing was ever stable and that made me numb/hypersensitive/fearful...had anxiety for 24 years and depression is still lurking around.Thats my case and Im 30 which is even worse. >I found a great therapist and she used EMDR. I now feel fear 90% less than I used to.How was your therapeutic process?
>>72616919Actually I read what BPD was here in r9k years ago. I found an organisation in my country that specialised in BPD and started going to therapy there.The first 2 years and a half was a constant uphill battle against memories and bad feelings. You have to reconstruct past traumas and make your body understand that they are no longer there, they are part of the past.After that my therapy focused on the feelings that were caused by those traumas. As I said, look what EMDR is. 24 years of anxiety dissapeared in half a year.Not going to lie, it is a long process. But it is worth it.
>>72616940Was there a big breakthrough in therapy or was it gradual improvement? Did you solve intimacy issues?
>>72616978Actually, when I sorted out my mind and the EMDR therapy started (which kinda sorts out your body and emotions), I felt a big breakthrough, like a milestone. But it was a gradual process too. I'd say healing your mind is a process, while healing (calming) the body is a lot more sudden, like popping a zit after months with EMDR.I'd usually get tachychardia from a simple phone call, that's how bad my anxiety was. After my 3rd month of EMDR I remember no longer feeling dread. The anxiety was almost gone because my body "understood" past traumas were no longer a present threat.If by "intimacy issues" you mean "feeling loneliness", then not completely. Those can be managed to a certain extent, but the next rejection or dissapointment is going to trigger that loneliness. Shit keeps the same, but you get stronger. It doesn't affect you as much.After extensive therapy, that loneliness becomes dulled and bad feelings last shorter.
>>72616900this nigga spittin
BPD gives w*men a reason to be lying cheating unstable whores. They embrace BPD. Only men can overcome it.
>>72617060If I were a woman I'd be a very bad person. But playing on Hard mode humbled me the hard way.
>>72617028Seems like you've come a long road. Are you still continuing the therapy?
>>72617185I hope so. No matter how the therapist convinced him, BPD isn't treatable much less curable. Like an addiction to heroin, you're still going to shoot up at the first chance but at least you can tell people you're sober!
>>72616900>Bpd doesn't exist and is only an excuse for Chad to pump and dump foids.BPD man here (not op) and I was pumping and dumping long before I realized I have BPD.
Are you good with girls?
>>72616828Do you have BPD, OP?
>>72617491fuck, the hot seat
Imagine believing in BPD lmao. Fuck off with your made up mental illness you feminine faggot. Literal women shit. Kys. Not actual proven science, no observable tangible evidence, so much overlap between diagnoses with other made up mental illnesses because they categories are so broad and undefined, no real values to quantify just arbitrary judgment of qualities, lol seriously neck yourself you dysgenic victim complex loser
Sorry for the pause, I'm back for an hour or so>>72617185I have.I recently had a romantic rejection and old loneliness feelings came back. My "inner child" still feels alone. But it's much more manageable, I'm no longer a slave of my feelings.>>72617386Yeah sure, tell me how my life has been lol >>72617483not at all. Had a few girlfriends but shit was all chaotic. I'd routinely feel jealous, fearful, bored, horny...there were no stability in those relationships.>>72617491Yes>>72617512u mad?
>>72617525Kind of. You mental illness larpers are a poison on society. Oh look at me, I realized I can act like an irresponsible shitty child my entire life if I just blame my garbage behaviour and habits on a made up disease hur hur and if you call me out on it you are a monster cuz im just the victim of an unobservable disease that totally exists guys :((If it were up to me, all you failed normies would get rounded up and launched into space
>>72617525Are they drawn to you in the way that men are drawn to BPD girls?
How can I get the BPD robot I met recently to open up? It's only online for now because we r in different countries or else I would just jump on him. He disclosed that he doesn't want to be involved with anyone romantically but I want him hes so hot.
>>72617525>Yeah sure, tell me how my life has been lolAll the therapist taught you was to say "don't leave me, my inner child is sad" instead of "don't leave me or I'll kill myself"
>>72617559I got better, but your hatred has no cure as of today. Wish you the best, buddy>>72617568The few relationships I had were all with damaged/mentally unstable women. It's like we can smell each other, we quickly hit it off and then begins the rollercoaster. I long for a normal stable relationship, but I don't know if I'll ever have one>>72617594Don't force him. If he has attachment issues you'll have to wait. Or else you'll end up damaging yourself and him at the same time
>>72617605and the "leaving them" part is literally like, going to the bathroom for 5 minutes lmao
>>72617512>he thinks he's being scientific>but he doesn't understand the complexity involved in what he's talking about or the concept of ethics in scienceWhat a retard you are.
>>72617679Oh please explain the complexities of psychology and mental illness diagnosis to me. Explain the complete lack of any tangible evidence for 90% of mental illnesses and please explain the discrepancies of how categories for diagnosis for an individual mental illness are so broad and overlapping with the same categories of other illnesses that it becomes completely arbitrary for which one a psychiatrist may choose to diagnose you with. Please explain the lack of repeated experimental outcomes or the lack of experiment altogether, the only so called science field that cant correspond with the scientific method lmao
>>72617792Imagine doubling down on your lack of understanding. Considering the character limit per post there isn't enough space in this thread to explain everything you're obviously ignorant of. Read up on scientific ethics if you don't understand why there aren't any experiments where scientists abuse children in specific ways to see how it impacts their adult behavior you absolute waste of carbon.
>>72616828Is naricisissm (the actual definition and not how social media tards use it) an actual symptom thats uncontroleable and in all BPDs or are the people i met just purposefully disgusting assholes?Like cant they do anything about it, or do they just dont want to?
>>72617615He has extreme attachment issues hes scared and hesitant due to past experiences. He got upset when I tried to be affectionate.T_T
>>72617838Nice cop out faggot. >I could explain youre wrong I-I just dont w-want toLol kys. Anyone with a brain knows your mental illness meme is a bunch of bullshit, try being a man instead of finding excuses to justify your pathetic existence you female-brained loser
>>72617907At least I'm aware of my mental illness. Who knows what the fuck is going on with you? Anyway, why would I kill myself? My life is better than that of the vast majority of people. How's manning up done for your life? Got a career you enjoy? Married? Own a house? These are all things I got even with my mental illness excuse, so you must be doing better than me, right? Enjoy your happiness and rich social life.
>>72617961I am close to graduating top of my class in the scientific field I have passion for. I would never marry because I am not retarded. Admittedly dont own a house yet but that will come soon enough. I do own my own vehicle. Suck my cock you weak fag, people like you are prey to me.
>>72617874It's going to go south. Let him heal first>>72617873Narcissism in BPD individuals usually stems from an unstable sense of identity. We sometimes feel either losers or above everyone else and that is how we rationalize it. It is a coping mechanism for all the damage that social relationships usually cause us. Good or bad, black and whiteI dunno if that helps, but that has been my experience.--Anyways guys, I have to go. If you keep this thread alive I'll be back within 4 hours or so. Thank you!
>>72618031>people like you are prey to me.The real world is going to give you such a harsh wakeup call soon enough.
>>72618033>Let him heal firstHow long is that going to take? I know im not the only girl who is talking to him now, what if they take him?
>>72618154>How long is that going to take?It takes years of really wanting to change. If you were smart you would GTFO now.
who was your first crush and how did it go? how long did your longest relationship last and why did all of them end?could you date a girl with bpd or would it explode violently?what do you think of pic rel
