in a month I'm going to be a 33 year old virgin who has never been in a relationship i also don't have friends, can't drive and live at homei never had fun in my youth and my anxieties and full time job prevent me from having fun nowthe only way it could get worse is if i were to get fat, which is already slowly happeningif you were in my position what would you do?
>>72628429Well, what are you into?
>>72628456movies/tv/games/youtube, the usual things a shut-in enjoys
>>72628429I would just continue doing the same. We'll never be normies. t. 30 lvl wizard
>>72628429>if you were in my position what would you do?I don't know, I was like you at 22 but got a job which gave me confidence to make friends at work which gave me confidence to talk to women and go out.
>>72628429I was in your position and getting a job helped me. I'm also kindhearted and somewhat attractive so it wasn't too hard for me to find girlfriends when I started trying. They were e-girlfriends but I did meet up with one of them in person. They were 18 and 22 respectively. You should learn to drive. It's not that hard and you'll likely be better at it than you think once you get enough practice on your own.
im a bit older than you and same, cept for not having fun in my youth. i had "fun", but none of it was shit i wanted to do really.a big thing with my friend group growing up was everyone always just did whatever the person with the most money did. when i would offer to do an activity i wanted to do, no one would want to do it. but then they'd complain that all i ever did was try to play video games, i would never really enjoy parties like they did.it was like going to a few parties with them wasn't enough, they wanted me to go to every single fucking party, every other day and if i didn't i was being a loser in their eyes.they just got really gassed up at an early age and fucked up off drugs, i didn't. i always stayed down to earth.
>>72628486i have a job and it hasn't done the same for me, it's a pretty isolated job though, i'm around people but we don't talk indepth about much, partly cause i'm so uncomfortable when talking to them
>>72628490>somewhat attractiveweird flex but okay
>>72628429yeah I'd kill myself if I were you bro
>>72628500what is your job? Can I get it without a college degree?
Turned 32. Nothing is going to change. Finally decided to remove Facebook for good. Tired of suggests to people who will never talk to me who have nothing in common with me. I just want to go back. When I could talk with people have actual fucking conversation not this bullshit small talk everyone on the internet is barely able to manage. I want to do stuff together with people work on things together and I'm never going to fucking have that no matter what I do. Can't even get you fucks to share your hobbies with one another. I'm so tired of being alone.
>>72628513Because you don't have that dawg in you. You aren't a fighter. You're a blackpilling little bitch.
>>72628429I'm not sure if it helps, but I'd start exercising, I'm old and have been sat doing nothing for years. I moved out at 35, I was working, and wanted a dog, but parents refused to have a dog, so I left. I regret it constantly, as I struggle to keep the house in good state. Don't even have the dog as I had to get rid of him after 3 months.
>>72628513i knew someone would say it eventually, i think about that as an out sometimes but i can always sleep those moods off, good or bad i'm here till my natural end
>>72628539You're in a good spot if you can afford having a house.
>>72628524admin, yeah it can be done without a degree, i have a degree but i didn't have much interest in pursuing the work so i just got whatever the job agency could get mea lot of my problems come down to anxiety and avoidance, my life would probably get much better with the right treatment for it
>>72628429>if you were in my position what would you do?I would fight anonI would fight and try to compensate however I canI'm turning 31 in a few weeks and I'm joining the Army because that's the only sensible option I've been left with to become who I am supposed to beThink anonThink long and hard, think until your mind hurts. Confront all the things that you don't want to confront, and ruminate on these things until you understand them. Once that is done, you will have to think harder, and eventually you will be able to contrive a path for yourself that will seemingly lead to your becoming who you were meant to beI'm not saying this guarantees happiness, peace of mind, or even safety. I'm not saying this will work no matter what.I'm saying this is what you need to do, and if you don't life will get worseAlso exercise you fat fuck this is coming from somebody who spent their entire childhood fat and will likely always have at least some amount of visible body fat because of my phenotype as a person meant to live a harsh lifeThe day that my musculature was finally more prevalent than my fat deposits was a glorious day. Even though I don't have what hollywood or popular media perception would consider a "hot body", I am still proud of my physical prowessApply yourself. You already have the humility you need, start to develop power. Before power can be gained in any capacity by a human being, humility must first be tremendously stocked in reserve and undepleteable
>>72628533I just say that cause what drives me in life are my passions, but OP's interests are just totally consumer niggercattle, he said movies/tv/games/youtube. No point in living if your life is just watching retarded shit on a screen.>>72628544yeah, it doesn't matter if you die sooner or later anyway, it would make no difference
>>72628584>No point in living if your life is just watching retarded shit on a screen.well i don't enjoy going out much so what else is there to do at home?
>>72628601I just think your hobbies kinda suck, just consumer stuff. It's better to have productive hobbies, like I do programming and music. It's way more stimulant for the mind to actually do something than just feed yourself dumb entertainement. So I guess find you better stuff to do in life than what you're doing, since it seems so devoid of anything interesting.
>>72628615different strokes for different folks, i personally have no interest in music and find programming to be one of the most boring things in the world
>>72628649I didn't tell you to get in music and programming. I told to find passions or whatever that stimulates your mind better than the mindless consumer garbage you're doing now that's making you retarded.
>>72628649having consumer hobbies isn't "different strokes".productive hobbies are literally different. you feel different doing them, you feel better, like actual pride and self worth.there is no self worth in the consumer hobbies. you don't feel jack shit and you aren't telling people about it.
>>72628429Well I am also 33 and never had sex or drivers license, but I am fit and NEET. Would have been seriously ready to suicide before I would ever work full time again, that's never gonna happen. I got diagnosed with autism and and working to get on autismbux, which could take a year or more. Once that happens I can qualify for low income or disabled housing. I have compassion for you because I understand that being a wagecuck and missing out on life makes you bitter, angry and depressed. NEETs can cope by enjoying their freedom and learning to enjoy life being alone and abnormal, they don't compare themselves to others anymore or expect things like friends and sex. One thing I do almost every day that keeps me relatively happy is walk around alone outside for a few hours.
>>72628681>>72628679dismissing media consumption as not being a hobby or worthwhile interest is some sort of weird residual boomer logic that has made it way into the heads of younger generations, you are still engaging with someone by consuming it, least a mutual interest in a show seems like a possible conversation starter
>>72628429>If you were in my position what would you doI don't know. I'm 22. If you were in my position what would you do? I've got 11 years more than you left you squandered those and it is yet to be seen if I squander them as well. I already think about my own mortality everyday to a sickening degree I can't imagine how often I'll be thinking of death when I'm your age in 2034
>>72628563I'm a rent pleb, and an actual pleb, I didn't save whilst I was working.
>>72628429Fuck sake you sound pathetic. Buy a prostitute and get it over with you fucking loser.
>>72628732Boomers are the one watching tv all day, rotting their brains because they need their stupid entertainement to forget their problems in life. There's nothing wrong with consuming media, but if that's pretty much the only thing you're doing in your life, you're a completely worthless individual. And who cares about some show being a conversion starter? So you can have some superficial conversion with another niggercattle consumer about the latest tv show because that's literally the only thing going on in your life? Better to stay alone than that.
>>72628743i was you on this site at 22 too and i had the same sort of contempt for people who were older sharing their issues here thinking that i would be any better, well here i am and you probably will be toi don't think i've squandered much, i have accomplished a few things that make me a functional adult, there are just several milestones i haven't reached that many my age have and that makes me feel bad sometimes.
>>72628758yeah me too. my younger brother owns a studio and has good amount of savings when I live from check to check. I guess owning my own place would be nice but thats not happening.
>>72628774it's not all i do with my life, it's what i do when i'm not working, i think this is more your personal hang up than it is me being worthless, i could say you're wating your time by making music noone cares to hear or programming something noone will care to use but i won't cause i'm sure there is some value to it and if that's what you enjoy so be it
>>72628762if i were to go to a prostitute i would have done so already, obviously i'm not interested in that
>>72628732i don't understand why you're being so stubborn against having a productive hobby that you can share with people.i didn't say they weren't hobbies and that they aren't worth while, you literally aren't comprehending what i'm posting. it's fucking annoying, fuck you.get eyes checked and brain scanned.
>>72628777>Several milestones I haven't reached What are those milestones? I'm constantly trying to not care about that sort of stuff I've dropped out of society for years (I'm a NEET) but I can't seem to shake off those societal expectations because it's all bullshit. There are many paths to get where I wanna go and I'd rather not take the conventional way of being a wagie and getting with some useless fucking whore to get some status and feel good about myself. I would prefer to take an alternative, unconventional route.
>>72628827i'm not against them, i'm just not a fan of people dismissing what i currently enjoy as if it is nothing which was the approach you both decided to make, guess what that it, fucking annoying
>>72628854i have a several qualifications and a job that pays me sufficiently, that enough to count as a functional adult
>>72628894I think you misread me I greentexted you saying milestones that you HAVEN'T reached.
>>72628877i never dismissed your hobbies, i didn't respond to you until you said "different strokes".highlighting the difference between a consumer hobbie and a productive one isn't attacking you, i'm not attacking you.get off of 4chan.
>>72628940oh sorrylasting friendships, travelling, going to parties and weddings, having sexual experiences, getting an unrestricted drivers licenses, owning a car, moving out of home, being in a relationship, getting married, having kids, being in a job that i feel i belong it that respects my capabilities and helps me grow rather than stagnate, buying a houseall stuff people my age have already done to the point where it's not even an achievement for them anymore just normal
>>72628951if i don't personally enjoy it how is it productive though, it just wasted time i could be enjoying
>>72628780My younger sister is similar, she saved and bought her own house. I just buried my head, took drugs, drank, spent time hating myself, and pitying myself. I'll never stop hating myself, but now I'm older, I think it would have been nice to own a bit of land. For years I had the mentality of a teen, I always thought around 14, it wasn't till a couple of years ago (42) that I felt like I mentally matured to around 20.
>>72628991its productive because you're producing an actual thing that can be shared? i'm talking about the objective definition of product, not whatever you have in mind.you've decided in your mind that isn't possible to enjoy doing something productive, which is kinda ngl. no wonder you post on here.
>>72628429Fix your damn life already so you don't end up like this
>>72628429>in a month I'm going to be a 33 year old virgin who has never been in a relationshipI lost my virginity late and that was still 11 years younger than you are. What have you been doing?
>>72629052>kinda sad*.>it isn't*
>>72628825The point is, drop the ego and stop being a retarded faggot. You will never get anything better. Stop coping and own virginity or get a prostitute
>>72629052why are you posting on here then, don't you have something more productive to do?
>>72629057not having sex
>>72629055man is being shamed for living rent free and avoiding people who shame him, what is so wrong with that?>>72629062how do you know i won't get anything better?
>>72628429You can easily fix thatGo on grindr and get TOPPED
>>72629123the idea of using dating apps fills me with dread, i hear nothing but bad things
>>72628429You seen unhappy and disapointed with your life. Why don't change something?
>>72628722damn, you really are a bit sadder than me, autism is not an excuse to live like that
>>72629135i want to, i'm trying to get a better job now so that at least something, the friends/sex/relationship thing is a whole different obstacle to get around cause i generally don't like being around people, i don't feel accepted by them fear mockery and rejection, if i had had better experiences this wouldn't be a problem but it is so i will dismiss a lot of things that involve me going outside my comfort zone to protect my self worth from being attacked
OP it's your own fault. You sat in your room in your teens distracted by autism then sat in your room in your 20s waiting for invites instead of making your own plans. You had 20 years to develop some sort of personality but you wasted it on useless crap
33 isn't even old to change but you're too stupid and stuck in your ways. Just get an escort already
>>72629163you don't know my life to make definitive comments like this, you can't hurt me
>>72629168i might do that but it's make me feel like an even bigger loser
>>72628429A friend of mine hit pretty much the same thing (but at 31). He saved a shit ton of money from living at home and not having a car, then fucked off to new zealand for a year. He worked in bars, met loads of women, lost his virginity, and honestly came back a more confident and more rounded person.If you got the funds - just fucking do it, man!
>>72629178Then just fucking change man, stop being scared to try something new. Change your style, talk to new people, learn something.. stop watching youtube other than for when you eat a meal
>>7262916833 is too old to have fun with young women in their prime.
>>72629181i haven't been saving as much as i should, but i'd consider that, i worked in a bar for 30 mins once and hated every second of it so that out of the question, but travelling is something i'm interested in
>>72629183i'd like to, all of it seems daunting and my mind overthinks doing it, i think i probably need to be medicated for all that to finally become manageable
>>72629032>it wasn't till a couple of years ago (42) that I felt like I mentally matured to around 20.How did it happen? Do you get along with your younger sister?
>>72629188i don't really want to deal with women under 25 anyway
>>72629139but l'm actually happier
>>72629369more like you're in denial
>>72629119you're fucking 33, drop the hope faggot
>>72629195Bar work is where you'll likely get the largest % of interaction with women, but honestly there is a lot you can do with a work visa in somewhere like Aus or NZ - i would just say avoid farm work, its a slog and really not fun, and it isolates you from the more built up areas (my brother did it for a year and hated it)
>>72629402i've got like 50 or more years left according to my genes
>>72628429What do you mean? Just keep doing what you're normally doing I guess. Why change anything?
>>72629495cause i feel bad staying this way, it makes me feel like i'm behind in life , i know it doesn't matter but mentally i feel like other people my age or younger are looking down on me for being in this position, people always show off all their accomplishments online, course i can't justignore feeling this way away, i have to make changes happen, it's harming me not to
>>72629212Not sure how it happened, I just noticed I felt different somehow. It was strange.Yes I get on with my sister, was at her 40th birthday do last night, and were going to a thing next Friday, a carribean restaurant is having a come and try the food, type thing.
>>72629528You feel like you're behind in life because you're NOT a wageslave? Wut>i know it doesn't matter but mentally i feel like other people my age or younger are looking down on me for being in this position>course i can't justignore feeling this way awayYes you can. You just stop giving a damn. It's that easy>t. 35 year old
>>72629529Do you do anything differently now that you're a bit matured?
>>72628429You got this, pal, I'm rooting for you. Everything might seem hard and it probably is, but you need to do something that you think is impossible to do. I know, I know, that's really hard, and obviously it seems impossible. But if you do that, it will prove to yourself that you can change your life. You seem to be be in a deep dark pit that only gets deeper and darker. I've been in a few pits myself, that's just how they are. You can get out, you just have to have some faith in yourself. Maybe that all sounds like the corniest shit you ever heard, but it is true. I sincerely want you to make it, anon, so get cracking, do the work, I know you have it in you. You literally have the ancestry of millions of years of dinosaurs and psychopathic myceneans within you. They all fucked and they made it. You can to. Hey, here's a thought: maybe it's good they your life sucks. Do you actually think that life is easy for most people? NO! It's difficult as shit and you have to struggle for everything! But that struggle is what makes life worthwhile. Everyone I can think of who has an easy life because they where born into money or whatever is a fucking retard. They turn into lollipop people who achieve nothing. You are a struggler, you aren't a lollipop man, you can make things happen.
>>72629560i am a wagie, i work full time
>>72629055>mfw that's me but in EuropeI at least took the habit of going out to buy my food. No Sun is actually bad for your skin in the long-term.
>>72629592My apologies. I'm very tired and I read that as you not having a full-time job.
>>72629570I've started putting more effort into my airguitaring, but other then that, nope.. It might just be from living alone for the last 7-8 years. Maybe my mind just thought, welp I guess I'm an adult now.I don't really do things much differently from when I was at my mums. I'm just old af, and settling into the role. Got arthritis, just waiting on some rheumatoid arthritis tests, my knee is potentially dislodged, so I limp after about 20 min of walking. I call it all OMS, old man syndrome.
>>72629645What do you do in general if you dont mind me asking.
>>72628429Id kill myself.In seriousness, i dont think youre hopeless. Especially if youre finances are survivable, you can make frens. There are many lonely robots here
>>72629717>making friends with people from hereyou're just asking to be ghosted.
>>72629717thats true but it also feels like whats the point? what would we even talk about?
>>72629682I was working till 2019, but I had a lot of time off, some health related, some lay down and rot related, then had enough, so left. Then I was doing volunteering walking along a canal near my town, that was good, getting out and walking around 8-10 miles once or twice a week, but then my knee gave in, and might have ruptured a tendon. I'm a bong, so it's taken ages on the NHS. Then the idiotic reactions to covid, and finally getting seen now, been about 3 years.I just sit on the PC all day, watch things, sometimes mess about on photoshop, play some games, talk to the cat. Try and distract myself from the constant tinnitus screeching in both ears, that came about after taking prozac for 6 weeks, 3 years ago, and it made my sporadic tinnitus permanent. The only thing that helps is being outside, I don't really notice it, but I'm not a fan of being outside around other people, but out in nature was great, and I enjoyed hiking anyway. That all stopped as, along with the dodgy joints/tendon, I have had bad haemorrhoids, and had surgery, and that has caused me to have incontinence, I need to have clear access to a toilet, as I have around 30 sec-90 sec between thinking I need a poo, and me pooing. I can't do the job I've done on and off during the years, factory pleb, so I don't think I'll be working much again.tl:dr I don't do anything.
>>72629811Do you have friends or only interact with your family? Also post your cat friend.
>>72629841I have a couple of friends I've known since childhood, 1 I go fishing with, and the other I go to his house every week. They both have kids, but one is married and has 3 kids, the other has a son, but the sons mother an hero'd when he was a baby. I used to look after the son 3 days a week when he was a baby and toddler, so my friend could go to work. That was when I was working, but only worked on weekends, so had all week off. I help look after his dog now kek, when he goes on holiday, and there's a feralish cat that my friend and I have been feeding for 11+ years, but can't do it as much now I have a cat.My cat on the left, and feralish cat on the right.
>>72628429>33 soonNice digits, sir, maybe fuck a cute twink or femboy
>>72629959Those are nice looking cats although the feral one is angry looking lol. Atleast you have that social interaction going and thats important. How was your luck with girls?
>>72630004The feralish 1 has never really been handled or had head pats, she was a kitten when she got out of the next door house, I think that might have been the day the old lady that lived there moved. She does sometimes go in the house, but panics if the door gets closed and she can't get out.I've had some luck, had 3 gf's over the years, but nothing lasted more than 2-4 weeks. I do get attention from women, but it doesn't bother me, I'm not interested in a family of my own, or a relationship. The last time I was bothered, was about 10 years ago, there was a polish girl I worked with, and liked, and she liked me, but a couple of spaghetti drops put an end to that. The others were, 1 in school (lasted about a month), 2 in my mid twenties (both lasted around 2 weeks).
>>72630066>I'm not interested in a family of my own, or a relationshipWhy not? Did those attempts kill any desire?
>>72630111There are things I don't like about myself, but seem to be incapable of changing, and I don't want another me in the world. I struggle to look after and protect myself, I would struggle with a child. I'm not bothered about sex and don't care for 1 night stands or whatever, and a gf could lead to wanting marriage and a family.
>>72630190That seems reasonable conviction.
>>72629560You can't change your biological programming.
mm, strange concept of living past 30. I can't see myself living past 23 or 25.sorry for the lack of new ideas and support, i'm not very good at words. maybe this bump will do.
>>72628762Why pay for what other people can get for free?And sex with a prostitute isn't the real thing, it doesn't count.
>>72630690same. sex with emotions is just masturbation.
Oh look. A real robot for once.Nice to meet you.I would definitely keep track of your weight to not get fat. It's not worth it.I'm someone who has been ever size throughout my life. Super skinny twice. Kinda fat for a long time, obese once, back to just alittle bit chubby working on to get to a place where I can't can't be called chubby because my stomach won't "pop" and my face is lean. I'm not there yet, maybe in a year. That is what I would do because I have nothing else for you.I'm in the same situation except I'm 32 but I have a part time job and live in an apartment my dad bought me.Otherwise I would still be living at home.
>>72630811>live in an apartment my dad bought me.damn, I wish I could be you.
>>72628429I'm a bit of a boomer, I'm 42 and was a khv up until l was 40. I wasted my 20s being a shut in and 30s trying to get my business running. Before I knew it I was 41 but I had money at least. I also have a skin problem which kinda affects my dick. It's mostly harmless but there are some scars on there I was never comfortable showing anyone and hookers will probably think it's an STI so that wasn't an option either. Some time 2 years ago, I got with a 30 year old chick from /soc/ who was into taking an adult virgin's virginity and she didn't seem to mind that I was ugly or insecure. And then again, last year, I got with a chick in her 50s who didn't seem to mind that I was incredibly insecure and ugly again. Me and her are kinda "dating" now I guess but she's a complete mess. Her husband passed away as did her son so sometimes it's just feels like I'm playing therapist for her and she love bombs me a lot when she wants something. She really is pretty for a woman in her 50s though
>>72630849>got with a 30 year old chick from /soc/ who was into taking an adult virgin's virginity and she didn't seem to mind that I was ugly or insecure.describe the whole experience.
>>72630866I posted about being an adult virgin on there for years in all the dating threads and she simply added me. I flew to her city, I got an airbnb for a week and we hung out and spent 3 nights together. I'm guessing she wasn't really into me after the first 2 times because I struggled to get it up and I cummed super quickly each time. After the third night, she said she really doesn't want to spend another night but she'd be my tour guide and we can hang out so that's we did for the next 4 days but we never hooked up again.
>>72630901Did the sex give you any confidence?
>>72630975Not really, I was bad at it but it gave me confidence and hope that I could find another person to be intimate with again in the future. I also did start asking out a lot more women nearby and that's how I met the current woman I'm seeing. It also put me in a position where I REALLY wanted intimacy again. When you've never had it, it didn't bother me much but when I got a glimpse of it, I wanted to experience it again pretty badly
>>72628429I'm almost there too, but things are a bit different for me. In 7 months I'm going to be a 33 year old virgin who has never been in a relationship.I live through my hobbies. I play chess, I raced stock cars for 10 years, I play a shit ton of videogames (mostly halo).If I were in your position I'd get some hobbies. Stop being jealous of normies. There's no such thing as winners or losers in life. For that to be possible there would have to be some objective goal or point to life.
>>72631022>When you've never had it, it didn't bother me much but when I got a glimpse of it, I wanted to experience it again pretty badlyI think it's better for me to never experience. The shame and guilt would be too much for me to bear.
>>72631037>If I were in your position I'd get some hobbies. Get hobbies you can share with others not indoor nerd shit. That'll only make it harder for you. I tinker with electronics coding a bit and general diy stuff. None of this anyone cares for hell even if you offer to teach something like circuits no one will take you up on it. Get normie hobbies.
>>72631126Why the fuck would a non-normie be around normies?
>>72631153Because nonnormie fucks don't connect over hobbies. Tried this shit. Absolutely fucking worthless to try.
>>72628429>>72628429I would bury myself in so much hate that I would propably start studying just out of spite to be better than everyone in one field and pretend that being KHV isn't problem
>>72631037>There's no such thing as winners or losers in lifeTop based. My fellow old person. Also, we all are gonna kiss the dirt.
>>72628429>i never had fun in my youthThis is complete fake news. "Fun" is just hedonism.Why do you bemoan not having gotten drunk at parties or having had casual sex?True satisfaction comes from a life of virtue. Going to church stsrting a family young with a woman you love. Working hard and watching your kids grow up etc.Don't be such a fag and think that unrepressed instinctual desire satisfaction is anything to miss out on.
>>72628429There's actually a lot of positives for living life the way you have. So many people ruin their life by getting married, having kids, getting divorced, losing their house etc. Relationships are a gamble, they either make your life better or they ruin your life. Doing nothing is always the safe approach. Not having ties to people, friends and family, means you are free. Nothing stopping you from moving anywhere in the world or living any way you please. No judgement. All normies must sacrifice some of their individual freedoms to be more like other people, to fit in, to connect.Rejoice and embrace the wizard lifestyle.
>>72631349Is it really better to never been in love than loving and losing it?
>>72631290nta but what if he really didnt have fun, just funi spent most of my time learning and doing houseworkthe only fun i had time for was sitting on the pc and playing mmos for longer hours, during holidays>just werkyes, you live to workyou fucking modernist niggerits thanks to cattle like you, that we live in this capitalist, billionaire shithole rn
>>72631377>Is it really better to never been in love than loving and losing it?Yes because when they leave you crash harde than you wre before. Now I have a mistrust in women. Go figure you want fire you play with fire and it burns you thrn you question whether it was a good idea to play with fire.
>>72631349The wizard lifestyle is pointless. When you die, nobody will care. Nobody will come to your funeral. Nobody will remember you.I don't want that. I want friends. I want a family. I want people who will remember when I'm gone.
>>72631526do what I do anon, go out clubbing and bar hopping on weekends but have no real friends or connections. I score now and again and have made some casual friends I bump in to at certain places just because we see each other there often. I've had a relationship before, they are shit unless you match really well with a really good person. It's so had to get anything good, thats why humans need marriage and counselling to keep people together.
>>72631604I don't care for casual friends. I need close friends.
>>72631607>I need close friendshow do you plan on getting them? You will still need to go out. I could make close friends if I wanted to.
>>72631623Go out where? There's nowhere you can meet people at that doesn't either require a car to get there, or cost ridiculous amounts of money.Parks? If you go there alone, you will remain alone. Nobody will talk to you or invite you to join them. Bars and cafes are the same.No matter where you go, people just do not talk to anyone unless they came there with them. People are closed off and cliquish. Anyone who doesn't already have a social circle is forbidden from joining anyone else's.Why go out and waste my hard-earned money trying to meet people when I can save it by using the internet and playing vidya for free?
>>72631672>No matter where you go, people just do not talk to anyone unless they came there with them.Wrong. You can actually talk to anyone. Parks are ok places to meet people, but you have to make the effort because you're the one there trying to meet someone.Just say hello to people anywhere, at bus stops, or cafes, or libraries, or festivals, or even in a supermarket. People actually meet partners in supermarkets, look it up.
>>72631730I DID talk to people. I've exhausted all of my options and gotten no results.
>>72631526The more ties you have means more people will be hurt and negatively affected when you die. Why would you want that? Cut ties on your own terms while you're alive, sure beats having ties ripped from you or others by forces beyond your control.Even if you are remembered those memories will only last so long and then you are forgotten anyway.
>>72631793Humans are not programmed to live like that. We evolved to live in tribes, not live our own isolated lives. We have to have companionship in order to be optimally healthy. Being lonely, on top of the mental problems it causes, physically damages the body equivalently to smoking 15 cigarettes a day or being obese.
>>72628429>if you were in my position what would you do?I would use all my money to get healthy food so that I feel good all the time and remain isolated in peace
>>72628774You'll notice that's more or less every Gen of people that bitch about tech that they themselves are addicted too. Also conversions are fanatic ways to lean ways to navigate life, more so if they are passing by and you'll never see them again because that means the risks are low with the rewards being high. Needing to watch shows is a misconception, usually they will happily share what they are doing or consuming and from that not only are you getting a conversation but you are sharpening your skills and finding out what conversations are more your type and can make better future ones from it. I think this is why people like traveling so much is it opens up those types of opportunities.
>>72628429If you are in leaf land get your shit together quick, you are entering the age bracket where you going in with a paper cut is going to end with them asking if you rather kill yourself.
You're approaching the age where all the good women are taken and all that's life are single moms.
>>72632027That's coming to the US as well in several states. It's likely how they will deal with that 1/3rd of guys that are not doing anything but rotting.
>>72632071Worse still trying to date younger you are going up against guys their age that have more than you anyway.
There is increasing evidence indicating that extreme social withdrawal (Hikikomori) is a global phenomenon.
>>72632094It adds up when you consider how much modern technology and social changes from said tech did to 1st world countries. Most of the services that demanded men and women to pair up and get along have been automated in such a way that it makes things no longer necessary and as such women take what they have left (looks/sex) as their primary means to get a mate, but then we also opened up higher education to women as well as the means for them to earn a living which then radically scaled what they wanted out of a partner, thus a good 80% of men are left in this really bad spot where they either get lucky and catch one of those 5% of all women that will never give a shit how much you make as long as you are productive or you just get grinned under because about half of the women out there can function on the same level as you and want something more than that while the other half are scooped up very early as boys./men see them as good partners and don't let go. That's what is fucked up is most were never warned that getting your life together is a young mans game and that every year that pass where you don't get it together is making it twice as hard that you'll ever get it together.
>>72628429Happy early birthday! (>^_^)><(^_^<) I guess I'd try to make the best of what I have! ^_^;
>>72628429Don't worry anon. Your post wall roastie will settle for you any day now
>>72632743Anon, not even post wall roasties want anything to do with old virgins.
>>72628429Im 30. 17% body fat, Lean, ripped but not muscular, six figs job, senior position and Im still a khv. The reason is, I have immense insecurity. Im a nonwhite in a predominantly white area. Objectively I feel like I could never get a yes if I approached someone. And none of the women around me have given any hints at all. Ill never have the courage I guess. And like you Im slowly getting fat as well.
>>72631526I really don't understand why you fuckers really care how many people will remember you or how many will attend you funeral lmao; you won't be there; you won't care.Also i keep hearing that expression affraid of dying alone; everyone dies aloneI'd be more affraid of living alone honestly which unfortunately it's a reality for me as well
