Before you fucking say anything, no he was not "Chad". You fucking people told me I would get a boyfriend who wouldn't cheat on me if I dated an incel or a nerd type. So I went down to the comic book store and picked the fattest one there and gave him a shot. He didn't talk much at first, but he was sweet. Things were nice and after a while he started to lose weight and open up. And he started leading the d&d campaigns. I thought for sure that MAYBE, maybe this time he'd be the one. I let him fuck me for hours and let him do what he wanted to me. I made his fucking meals so that he could be healthy and keep losing weight. You, him, and everyone else kept saying how it didn't matter that I wasn't a 10. Incels don't want someone with huge tits, they just want the bare minimum. They don't want Stacey. So I canceled my plans to go full bimbo-mode, and tried to take your advice. For once in my sad life I thought maybe I'd found someone special, and even wanted to marry this guy. I was hoping in a few months maybe if he didn't propose that maybe I would.And then its like.. Welp. Came home yesterday, and that bitch from our group was on top of him moaning like a fucking slut. I couldn't fucking believe it, I got literally NTR'd by a fat fucking bastard, and I honestly want to commit fucking rope because I've never been more mortified and betrayed in my entire life. Either that or force myself to be a lesbian at this point because I honestly hate men at this point it makes me fucking sick holy shit.
>>78714405i ain't reading all that, sorrybut i can basically sum up my response to>taking advice from 4chan of all places rather than using common senselooks like you brought it on yourself, better luck next time, anonget to know the person you're getting together with, and get to know them well, before you trust them with a relationship
>>78714405Doo hoo nigga
>overly social group gamer that was just unattractivehe was a normie with some debuffs. what you really want is a racist schizo who has barely gone outside the last 10 years and a home cooked meal would be the nicest gesture anyone has done for him his whole life.
>>78714405Unfortunately the people here are retards. In relationships there is a very delicate push-pull power balance that has to be maintained. If you ever give yourself over to another person completely you run the risk of them taking you for granted and consuming you whole.I'm sorry you had to learn it this way. Don't give up. There is someone meant for you. You had to learn the traits of someone who isn't to make it easier to find them.
>>78714405Oh how I wish this was a true story. Foids deserve to be betrayed and cheated on.
>>78714405>So I went down to the comic book store and picked the fattest one there and gave him a shotThis didn't happen, things dont just happen like that you lying cunt. Also fat fucks are subhumans, more news at 10.
>>78714405yeah incels are as much bad as chads, if not worse>but I am a nice guy!nah they are notsorry you had to go through thatgo get some chad, at least he wont pretend he is nice
>>78714405I will literally impregnate you ASAP and you will be a wife and mother
Nobody is buying this, proud of you robots, your larp detectors are working
>>78714405Op you know you can work at a comic book store and not be an incel or an autist right?Your autism detector failed. You got cheated on by a fat normie with social skills.
>>78714405D&D groups do be like that sometimes. We dont think it be like it is, but it do
>>78714405>had premarital sex>he left before we could get marriedGood job, your value in the dating market is gone retard.
Friendly reminder that it is not morally impermissible to cheat on women and betray women because women are ontologically evil and therefore unworthy of moral consideration.Cheat on foidsLie to foidsBetray foids Manipulate foidsGaslight foidsThis is righteous work.
>>78714455>what you really want is a racist schizo who has barely gone outside the last 10 yearsCan't I just settle for a dude who hasn't gone outside? >>78714462>In relationships there is a very delicate push-pull power balance that has to be maintainedWhat does this even mean? How do I "maintain the balance"? Just don't be nice to them? It feels weird to just hold back arbitrarily. >>78714467>Foids deserve to be betrayed and cheated on.Fuck you.>>78714517>I will literally impregnate you ASAP and you will be a wife and motherAnd then you'll leave when you get bored. And I'll be a single mother just like my own mom was for most of her and my life.>>78714433>>78714450For years people kept telling me men were the "empathetic gender" and that women had no feelings and all that shit. And then I read stuff like this and wonder how people can justify that statement when men are just as mean and nasty as any woman.
>>78714580>For years people kept telling me men were the "empathetic gender" and that women had no feelings and all that shit.Wait, are you telling me that you unironically 100% took the advice from the retards in here to heart?
>>78714508You retards need to realise that everyone is a different person, many different people are capable of good and bad and lumping people into stereotypes is a poor cope for your trauma. Dating a "chad" just because "at least you know what you get" is a terrible way to learn from your mistakes as well, opening yourself up to more abuse on purpose just to spite a group of your apparent "enemies" just because one person hurt you says a lot more about you than it does about them.One "nice guy" cheating on you does not mean all "nice guys" are deceitful liars. You just have poor judgement of character and picked the wrong person. Maybe try looking at the situation a little harder and ask yourself what signs you should have seen in this person and how you can do better next time.
>>78714405Shit happens. You can reduce the risk, but never to zero. That's life.
>>78714405Its more likely that you are the leader of a G7 nation, shitposting in your free, than a fraction of that story being true.I don't understand the fun in larping and shitposting on the incel board, inventing stories to "prove" that all men are psycopaths pretending to be normal. Shouldn't you be doing this on a feminist forum or something like that? I really don't get it.
Imagine living life on debug mode and still getting a Bad End screen.
>>78714580>men were the "empathetic gender"i hear so fucking much about women being that tooseriously, if everything was simple enough that these labels did anyone justice, we wouldn't have problems like thatpeople are way more complicated than that, there are nice guys and nice girls, there are dickhead guys and dickhead girls, so how the hell do you tell them apart?you get to know themideally you befriend them because when the hormones flooding your brain die out, that's who you'll be stuck with, and if you don't like that person, well... break up or you're fucked, loltl;dr rule of thumb, don't trust anything anyone says about anyonesee for yourself what people are like, they can be wildly different, regardless of their gender, ethnicity, whatever you can think of
>>78714620This.>Muted you have
>>78714580You went and thought the kind of fat normalfag that hangs out at comic book stores is an incel or "nerd" lol
>>78714405You gotta look to evolution, the male abusechads(not about looks, it's the potential/vibe of being able to move up socially and dominate other competition) and psychos got moved up socially, had more appeal, resources and safer job and had better reproductive outcome long term(most kids died before 5) overtime outbreeding everyone else and dominating the gene pool. Almost all(not almost all because women got pregnant and passed down genes) modern men today are children of abusechads with their genes, that's how their mind works, ethics/empathy is a low consideration motivation for them unless it serves them.Simplest model of what I'm talking about can be understood by looking at chimps. Some big chimps sometimes randomly 'chimp out' breaking shit around them or punching others cause fucked in the head, the other ones get extra nicer to him, he is first in line to get food and other resources, he gets more friend to share his access and becomes more important, females have more reason to mate with him and he also gets first pick compared to other males etc. It works differently in human but it's similar. Social training, larps and copes only goes so far. There are lotsa shitty things going on with women as well - why I don't put any effort into getting into a relationship- but that's not relevant here.I don't have scientifically accurate estimate of people who are not affected by abuse-chad genes in their mind, but it's probably no more than 7%. You gotta do way better filtering, directly on how they think and ways their mind works. Clean past/virginity alone isn't enough since almost all are descendants of abusechads and therefore most incels are failed abusechads.
>>78714405Why not just join in and have a threesome instead of getting butthurt about it?
>>78714620Btw this isn't aimed at op specifically it's aimed at everyone here moids included. You all need to stop holding entire groups of innocent people responsible for the assholes who hurt you. Hate the people who actually deserve it aka the assholes. Honestly you all fucking suck as much as each other here.
>>78714580>What does this even mean? How do I "maintain the balance"? Just don't be nice to them? It feels weird to just hold back arbitrarily.It means that men enjoy hunting, when there is no hunt they get bored. Every female friend I have tried a free use agreement and always got cheated on.>And then I read stuff like this and wonder how people can justify that statement when men are just as mean and nasty as any woman.Cause we know your type. I've given a few femanons a chance and they always just ghost. Go ahead. Start hating all men. It won't change the fact this shitty thing happened to you and it will only make your future dating efforts suck more.
>>78714405>I let him fuck me for hours and let him do what he wanted to me.Details, whore
>>787144054.8/10 bait thread. The start isn't great because it's very obvious you try to imply your 'bf' is the average 4chan user. You then try to make yourself out to be the perfect supportive gf, the type you see all the incels make threads about. Then you try to call out the incels who don't want stacy and lastly you say>on top of him moaning like a slutTrying to make the people who read this midly horny, because nothing gets these people worked up like the idea of sex.A few notes:Women in general don't use swears as much as men so that was a clear giveaway.You say 'ntr'd' but women don't use terms like that, they say 'i got cheated on'.The way you structure your sentences and use proper grammar is a dead giveaway that whoever wrote this is not having an emotional moment.And lastly, the picture used is just too try-hard.Too bad these retards will still fall for it, but good for you anon. Hope you have fun fucking with these retards
>>78714405waaah I chose a normie nerd and he cheated on methere's a reason you won't choose someone who's decent looking yet miserable inside. you want a clown with friends and a social circle
>>78714405I'm at a healthy weight and women don't even look in my direction let alone talk to me. Any girl showing genuine interest in me would earn my loyalty. I really hope this is bait because I'm fucking sick and tired of women chasing after assholes, it makes me wanna vomit at this point.
>>78714405here comes the waterworks
If you are a biological female, sorry this happened to you.
>>78714405Nah this is a psyop to get fembots to hate us
>>78714620I did not get cheated on and I did not have sex, I just observe male behaviour and I decided I wont deal with their bs
>>78714405that's why you don't hold out sex for too long lmaowhere were you when he was on booty call? clearly not with him
>>78714405>>78714580What a fucking shit bait kys now 0/10
>>78714954Like I said if you're going to blame a whole group for the actions of one person then it says more about you. You're not dealing with your trauma in a healthy way, you're just lashing out. Quite immature desu.No one will feel sorry for you apart from other bitter foids if you act this way but if you want to just spend your life being bitter then be my guest.
>>78714405the free market always wins bitchsounds like he upgraded, this happens alot when guys get over their first gf and get over the never ending gaslighting/propaganda done by females and dudebros and realize they have optionsincrease your own value or you're gonna die alone
>>78715030Also it probably says a lot about why you were cheated on. Shit personality no doubt. Cope.
>>78714405>a boyfriend who wouldn't cheat on me if I dated an incel or a nerd typeNo, I said date a volcel and I also said to wait a long time before sex.>I let him fuck me for hours and let him do what he wanted to meSad.>You, him, and everyone else kept saying how it didn't matter that I wasn't a ''10''No, I said it doesn't matter to me if you're a ''10'' and my ''10'' is very subjective to begin with.
>>78714405Wop wop nigger
>>78714405>Things were nice and after a while he started to lose weightThis is where you fucked up. Should've kept him big so he wouldn't leave.
>>78714405hope this is real because you're a faggot who deserves it
>>78714405OP I have been cheated on myself as a guy so I understand your pain. However, I agree with this anon somewhat>>78714620You shouldn't be lashing out at a wider group. Focus your anger and hate on the person who hurt you. I am sorry he hurt you. You don't deserve it. Ignore the trolls.
>>78714405Based. Omega uprising. Cheat on all foids.
>>78714995Good story, made me smile, 10/10
>>78714954You do know women cheat as well right? And also young females tend to cheat more than young males actually. Men take over in older age groups but older age groups were around in a different time.So what this tells us is that young generation culture has caused women to become hypocrites. Hmm makes you think?
>>78715243So we should only date 80+ year old gilfs?
>>78714405>manwhore who has premarital sex is a disgusting personWow who would've guessedThat really sucks and i hope you find someone better, but regardless both of you are gross and have premarital sex like degenerates so yeah can you please get off my board thanks
>>78715243What's even more alarming about these stats is they're about married people.That means young married women are actually cheating on their husbands more than vice versa. That's right, a woman who actually finds a man who loves her enough to marry her then cheats on that man. Guess even marriage isn't enough for them these days huh?
>>78714405>Things were nice and after a while he started to lose weight and open up. And he started leading the d&d campaigns. I thought for sure that MAYBE, maybe this time he'd be the one. I let him fuck me for hours and let him do what he wanted to me. I made his fucking meals so that he could be healthy and keep losing weight.Ohhh dude you fucked this up so bad, if you want a fat hopeless retard who won't cheat on you he has to STAY fat and hopeless. Once he starts getting in shape, making friends and stuff it's over. You need him to get fatter if anything and be socially isolated. I thought this was relationships 101
>>78714574Amen brother, if you ever consider taking mercy on a woman for one second you have to remember that she would never do the same for you. If she got giney tingles for somebody else she would be gone instantly and probably abuse you in the meantime for making it more inconvenient for her to do what she wanted.
>>78714653This right here>can't I just settle for a dude who hasn't gone outside>meanwhile: literally met him outside at a social event
>>78714666>most incels are failed abusechadswise, true, and checked
>>78715331>married>self reportThis is just what married women will admit to, imagine what the numbers look like in reality and for less-serious relationships
>>78714405How could he be an incel if he could cheat, retard?
>>78714813Thats an awful long post just to confirm you have never talked to a woman.
>>78714580>What does this even mean? How do I "maintain the balance"? Just don't be nice to them? It feels weird to just hold back arbitrarily.It means don't become a doormat wich from reading your post you made yourself into through desperation. Also im sorry this happened to you.
>>78714405Sucks walking in on something like that, but women here aren't much better. Every girl I bothered to add off here ended up hiding some life ruining shit. It's like you guys know something would make a man lose interest in you so you do your best to never bring it up and lie until you can't lie anymore because it's too obvious. The last girl I dated made me completely lose faith in myself, in dating, all of it. Haven't been with someone in two years now.
>>78714405>HAHAHAH YOU PATHETIC LOSER HOW DARE YOU ACT MASCULINE JUST BE A PUSSYWHIPPED PIECE OF SHIT LIKE MY VAGINA THINKS YOU ARE. OH BUT CHAD YOU CAN BE THE MOST UNCARING ASSHOLE EVER I WILL STILL LOVE YOU <3FUCK YOU I HOPE YOU GET RAPED AND MURDERER ROASTIE
>>78715268Take the grannypill anon those saggy tits are waiting for you to slap them together like a Newton's cradle.
>>78714405>>78714580People's advice here is retarded. Everyone is capable of cheating even nerds. Going Bimbo mode won't help with that either. The only way to be relatively sure is to learn a lot about your partner to the point where you can predict how they would behave approximately in situations and also why they would behave like that.
>>78714405he was fucking that girl before he fucked you lmao
>>78714405itt: Neurosis of the mind.
>>78714405Nice fantasy post
>>78715932>"people's advice here is retarded ">proceeds to give advice
>>78716197It's ok I'll explain it to you since you are a bit slow :)By people, I mean the average robot who buys into average robot talking points. Which excludes me. Therefore my advice is not retarded.I hope that clears things up my best friend, best pal, best buddy!
>So I canceled my plans to go full bimbo-modeYou fucking donuts, this is the part you failed, once you get the man, fat or not, incel or not, you become his personal bimbo.
>>78714405>Fat nerd got to upgrade from tranny to real woman.I'd be gone at the first chance too in that scenario.
>>78714405If this is true, lesson learned, never get in a relationship with an incel.>>78714620This should be common sense
>>78714405he was chad, pumped and dumped by chad like the chad only whore you are
>>78714405You had trust in literal fucking moids.This I what you deserve.You fucking retard.Hope you learned your lesson and basically realise every single moids is the same no matter is he chad normie or incel.IF ITS A MOID DON'T TRUST ANYTHING THAT CREATURE SAY.That's literally, sister rule one. Your fault you trusted moids who want you dead instead of your sisters.Deserved.
>>78714405>no he was not "Chad".how's that possible?
>>78714405>took dating advice from 4chanYou did this to yourself
>>78714405I had a similar thing happen to me, not cheating but he went full gay allegedly and is pursuing feminine men now.when we first talked he said he needed this connection, well he didn't at all.
>>78716719I understand you are too far gone and willing to drag other people down, but who hurt you?
>>78716829oh and he wasn't chad, he was actually 300 pounds. he's had lots of partners before he was just a normal dude.
honestly sorry anon, you sound really sweet and a joy to have around. you deserve better than some normie-lite faggot.
>>78714405I am laughing because this isn't real.
>>78714405>>78716829Things that never fucking happened.
Kek l feel like l would do the same. Basically just use a stepping stone to gain some confidence and when a solid foundation is laid shoot higher
>>78714517This, this so much.>Le muted you've
>>78714405>Incel >boyfriend>manages to cheat, other females are attracted.Yeah
>>78718159My bf I met on r9k went on tinder and fucked a normie slut in under a -week after a schism between us. I don't remember what it was about. He didn't tell me for months afterwards, claimed it wasn't cheating and I forgave him. Reads even sadder than it is in my head
You deserve it for picking a fat person instead of an incel. Fat people are fat, meaning they are bad. It's impossible for a good person to be fat and impossible for a fat person to be good. This is extremely obvious.
Seeing women in pain or despair makes me happy.
>>78715030Bitch can you read? I said I didnt get cheated on, I am not OP
I feel bad for OPEveryone's capable of being a shit person in the end, some show signs but others are so perfect at keeping the mask that getting cheated on just comes down to bad luck
>>78714405>I got literally NTR'd by a fat fucking bastardim ded, lmao
if he clreaed you and a found another girl to fuck with, he is not an incel type. and don't give me that shit with being with you gave him confidence. it don't work like that.
if he fucked other girl he is not a incel so kill your self foid. You really just proved women never want incels