Should I compliment the girls I find attractive?
And then after should I do after? Should I just continue to talk to them and get their contact info? Or should I just ask if I can kiss their stomach or something? Should I synchronize when I talk to them with when they're ovulating?
>>83076095no, that's called rape anon
>>83076095You should take photos of them secretly at the library. Specifically ones with BIG TITS. Then make threads about her. Then try to draw her while in the library, and then give her your drawings of her. Keep us posted.
>hey there pretty lady, how's about I take you out sometime? >I would rather die, creep! >*runs away to the guidance counselor* >*reports you for sexual harassment >*get email from college saying that you're expelled and are to leave campus tomorrow* Woooow. Great idea, OP.
>>83076095>Should I compliment the girls I find attractive?Depends, how hot are you?>And then after should I do after? Should I just continue to talk to them and get their contact info? Get their contact if they seems busy keep talking if they're engaged >Or should I just ask if I can kiss their stomach or something? Do that after you put your pp in them>Should I synchronize when I talk to them with when they're ovulating?If you're more masculine than the average male yes otherwise it'll backfire
>>83076120>>83076127Literally how? I'm asking them for stuff, not forcing myself into them>>83076140Uhh no. I don't do that>>83076141You guys are always focusing on the negative like that's always the outcome.>>83076151> Depends, how hot are you?Mmmmm I'm unfortunately 5'3, but I don't look disproportionate. Girls have come up to me and ask if I'm a guy or girl. I have voluminous hair that covers my forehead and partly my eyes, since it's gotten so long. I'm concerned that it makes me look like creep or loser, but I take care of it and groom it so it shouldn't look that bad.Anyways, I'll give myself around a 3.5-4.> If you're more masculine than the average male yes otherwise it'll backfireAwwww that sucks :(
>>83076095Not unless you want them to find you repulsive and pathetic The first time I told my wife she was beautiful was on our wedding day. She is a 10/10 and I am sure has heard those type of compliments thousands of times. Women do not like that shit. If they are wearing a shirt or some bullshit that is interested related, compliment the piece and not her to start a conversation about whatever interest that is. Whatever you do, never compliment their looks.
>>83076276We're not saying this to lie to you, but if you're really that short and unattractive what this anon posted will a 100% happen to you: >>83076141
>>83076653> If they are wearing a shirt or some bullshit that is interested relatedWon't this be impossible if you don't know what she's wearing or she's wearing earring plain clothing?>>83076725Ohhh :(
You should ask out ones you think you have an actual chance with. Do not give random compliments. Do not pass Go. If you get ghosted accept it, don't dwell on it, just move on. Word travels more than you'd expect.
>>83076806> ask out ones you think you have an actual chance withSo girls that say hi or put effort in first? But that rarely happens > Word travels more than you'd expectWhenever I'm around girls, they always talk about guys. It's always the first thing they talk about and they always come back to the topic.
>>83076769There are endless topics to bring up Weather, the location you are currently at , anything really. The only thing you cannot compliment is her appearance.
>>83077004So complimenting her appearance makes you seem desperate and weird? You only do that in relationships
>>83076095Yes you should. Just don't be a creep about it.Just say they look nice today and they will love you for that.
>>83076095Ultimately no. It's sexual harassment if you do, after all. If a woman finds you sexually attractive then they will come to you.>>83076276>Mmmmm I'm unfortunately 5'3You are not a 3-4. Sorry. Leave women alone.
>>83076095I knew a chick who told me she felt so creeped out by a dude in her class who spoke to her that she reported it and the campus looked into it. But go for it anon
>>83077352> Yes you should.>>83077498> Leave women alone.>>83077644> But go for it anonSooooo, what should I do?
>>83077498What do you think my actual rating is?
>>83078272At that height? 0. Height is one of the first requirements a man has to meet to elicit attraction from a woman and there has never been a woman in history sexually attracted to a man below the top 20% of height in her society. Sorry man. But it's also important to know that if you aren't an 8+, to all women that makes you a 0. Most of the time, female attraction is just binary: either you are an incel or you're Chad. Women DO rate Chads varying levels of attractive, of course, but that is only after you achieve a Chad rating in the first place which most men can never do.
>>83077768Just talk to them dude. About whatever's going on. Don't put the focus on their physical appearance. Women know you're attracted to them, they know why you're talking to them. You need to learn to talk to them anyway. If you compliment their appearance they'll put you in the ick zone.
>>83078419Oh that's sad. I thought I would at least be a 3. I remember seeing a looksmaxxing rating scale and below a 3 meant that you had severe burn scars or birth defects>>83078488> If you compliment their appearance they'll put you in the ick zoneWhy does this happen tho? I would love to have my appearance complimented. Also, talking to them doesn't seem to led anywhere much. I feel like I'm having an interview with them.The years of being socially isolated truly turned me into a bot
No, but you should try having casual conversations with them.
>>83078706>Also, talking to them doesn't seem to led anywhere much. I feel like I'm having an interview with them.That's just it - just keep doing that, fag. Eventually, one of these conversations *will* lead to something. It will get easier over time, too.
>>83078737It's doesn't really go anywhere I feel like. Do you think a girl automatically knows you're interested if you talk to them? Talking to girls is so complicated. I sometimes notice glancing or looking at me, but can't tell what it means. I can only go by interpretations and what me doing in their shoes mean
>>83076095no, you should try to find a way to rape them
>>83078748>It's doesn't really go anywhere I feel like.Given enough time and enough effort, it will.>Do you think a girl automatically knows you're interested if you talk to them?Yes.>Talking to girls is so complicated. I sometimes notice glancing or looking at me, but can't tell what it means. I can only go by interpretations and what me doing in their shoes meanThat's because you're autistic. Keep having conversations with people. Think of life as an RPG and those people as NPCs. Don't neglect talking to males either and make at least 1 male friend.
>>83078743Godddd that feels like such a monotonous task. If I want a certain girl, why don't I just tell her straight away that she looks good? I thought college girls were horny and we're even down for giving sex to nerdy boys Saw this attractive girl in the laundry room and probably should have said something to her. The biggest barrier I face is that I see like 90% of women eye-to-eye because I'm their height
>>83078767> Don't neglect talking to males eitherI don't have to worry about this. I never struggled with talking to guys. But there's something different about talking to girls. I don't know what it is, but it seems like they're either scared or really respectful. It makes it seem like I'm talking to a doctor that's hearing me out. This isn't bad, but I can't catch any social clues when they're just looking at me with a neutral face or smile with a "blank eyes".Whenever I observe girls talk to other guys, it almost seems like I'm spectating a movie or show, where the girls makes exaggerated expressions and vocal tones. Why doesn't that happen more with me? What's going on?
>>83078767>Given enough time and enough effort, it will.I should clarify that point - I don't mean putting persistent effort into talking to people who don't make the effort to respond to you. I mean keep talking to new people and you'll eventually meet someone with whom conversation is easy.>>83078769>Godddd that feels like such a monotonous task.It is, but that's just the RPG called Life.>If I want a certain girl, why don't I just tell her straight away that she looks good?Because she already knows she looks good, she doesn't need *you* to tell her that.>I thought college girls were horny and we're even down for giving sex to nerdy boysCollege grills want the best they can get and they're not gonna sabotage their social standing by fucking some nerd autist right off the bat.>The biggest barrier I face is that I see like 90% of women eye-to-eye because I'm their heightGonna have to learn to get over it, I guess. Not much else you can do about the manlet curse.>>83078784>Whenever I observe girls talk to other guys, it almost seems like I'm spectating a movie or show, where the girls makes exaggerated expressions and vocal tones.>Why doesn't that happen more with me? What's going on?Probably because they can sense your autism and are instinctively taking the cautious approach. The fact you're in this thread asking for advice on how to talk to women says as much.
>>83078806> College grills want the best they can get and they're not gonna sabotage their social standing by fucking some nerd autist right off the bat.Honestly such bullshit. I should be owed one good college girl pussy for having to go through all this effort as a manlet. > Probably because they can sense your autism and are instinctively taking the cautious approach.I'm not diagnosed so I won't know for sure, but what's so scary about autism? I know some autistic people in my class and they're extremely sociable and people aren't scared of them
>>83078862>some nerd autistWhoops, forgot to add "manlet" to that. But you get the idea.>I should be owed one good college girl pussyBad attitude. You're not "owed" anything. Keep grinding at that social game and you'll get some eventually, I can promise you as much. Going through uni with zero pussy is a death sentence for people like you.>I'm not diagnosed so I won't know for sure, but what's so scary about autism? I know some autistic people in my class and they're extremely sociable and people aren't scared of themThat's because other people know what to expect from "openly autistic" people. People can't quite figure you out and can tell that you haven't quite figured yourself out either. You can always try and get diagnosed if you think it will give you some clarity.
>>83078904> Going through uni with zero pussy is a death sentence for people like you.I'm pretty sure it's a death sentence to like everyone. Everyone is expecting to get laid or get intimate during this time> People can't quite figure you outHow is this possible if they should naturally be good at reading body language? I thought only autists struggled with that> you haven't quite figured yourself out eitherI'm pretty sure I've figured myself tho.
>>83079064>I'm pretty sure it's a death sentence to like everyone. Everyone is expecting to get laid or get intimate during this timeThat depends on the social circumstances. You could be celibate for religious reasons, or your studies are so intentse that you literally don't have time to fuck around (but will come out of it making 6 figures) or you already have a spouse at home. No, it's a death sentence specifically for awkward, self-doubting autists like you.>How is this possible if they should naturally be good at reading body language? I thought only autists struggled with thatThere's a difference between:>that one autist who everyone knows loves anime and vidya and who speaks too loudly when answering lecturer's questions and who will probably say something funny when you talk to himand>that one sperg who doesn't have a social niche or social skills or anything interesting to say and clearly struggles to interact with females>I'm pretty sure I've figured myself tho.You don't know the first thing about yourself, sperg boy ;^^)
>>83079268> your studies are so intentse that you literally don't have time to fuck around (but will come out of it making 6 figures) or you already have a spouse at home.Yeah, but that means you have to basically go through 4 years of your most developmental and prime years missing out on something everyone is experiencing. Most young adults are definitely not going to do that and are going to try to have sex at least once> You don't know the first thing about yourself, sperg boy ;^^)I don't know why you keep acting like you understand me entirely, but the examples you give don't even reflect me at all. I've had to constantly explain more about myself and the example you gave is just a caricature of a nerdy autistic loser that you're trying to force onto me. I've already told you that I interact with the opposite sex enough to where I can spot patterns in their behavior and responses towards me. It honestly sounds more like you're trying to catch me in "gotcha moment" at this point instead of clarifying or helping, and if that's so, then bye
>>83079433>Most young adults are definitely not going to do that and are going to try to have sex at least onceTrue, but my point still stands, which is that *some* people exist in societal structures that make sex at university either unviable, unwise or entirely optional, and you're not one of them.You've already been given all the advice you need. Anything beyond that will predictably consist of:>you asking questions that cannot be explained (like how to pet a dog)>you expressing your frustration with your inadequacy>me (or someone else) taking the piss out of your continued autism and/or frustrationBesides, caricatures can be a useful tool in explaining how other people perceive you. I have a certain perception of you and so do the people you interact with IRL, except they're far less likely to be completely honest about it. It's what you do with that information that matters.
>>83076141>>hey there pretty lady, how's about I take you out sometime?this is lowkey catcalling LOL
>>83076095You could do that, or you could just slowly build up/join a friend group and get to know the girls in said friend group
>>83076095Lurker here, quick tip: tell her ONLY that you find her attractive after a nice date with her. Try to hold her hands first during the date, if she holds your hands back and it's not awkward, then you can say that. So first you ask on a date. To ask on a date, first talk to her, see where it goes. If talking to woman seems forced or cringey for both sides, then she will not go on a date with you. If talking to a woman is not awkward for both sides and she really likes talking to you, you can ask her on a date. If you ask her on a date, she might reject you because she finds you nice but you're not her type of guy. If you got this type of rejection and it's not awkward, you're in the right path. Just repeat this with other women until you get a date, and eventually, a lot of sex and kissing and whatever. You're welcome. Also, excellent hygiene and a sharp look helps a lot.t. Experient sex haver
>>83076095nord anon here, it's genuinely so over.I joined an extremely normie uni without really realizing/thinking it was that before the realization hit me like a fucking truck. I attended some parties, but made no friends nor got no pussy. Tried speaking with some people during lectures, but they mostly regarded me as some, although high IQ, autist sperg. I remember one time some random guy just came up to me and asked for law advice, i don't get it? why? why would some random normie just come up to me and ask for help?What's worse is that at one of the parties, someone asked a fuck, marry, kill thingy, am i getting it right? The one where a gilr chooses between 3 guys of who to fuck, marry and kill and i was the marry option. It's genuinely so over. I will neet max after paying off the minimum amount of debt i have, i don't see an alternative.
>>83079889Btw, i don't know if it really has an effect, but i usually browse pol and r9k during lectures and usually sit towards the front of the lecture hall. Why do people even move so fucking far back? i don't get it?
>>83079911You browse the gay penis and nigger hate boards at a normie university? What are you thinking, you idiot? No wonder they don't like you. They probably gazed over your shoulder and saw the many BBC spam threads in the catalog.
>>83079889Incels are kill tier, you must be a normy
>>83080484>>83080507So i'm a normie and a faggot? getting conflicting news here, sorry for not responding, my brother wanted to debate me on race and iq.
>>83080507"kill tier"? i don't get it.
>>83081146normies are faggots retard
>>83081549I give up, just gonna neet and fap to rape hentai for the rest of this pitiful existence
>>83081634Yeah. That might be for the best
Something women appreciate is getting a 'drive by compliment' that's of good faith and not sexual. Say the bit and then move on with your day. Physically leave. Like that whole thing of 'being unavailable makes her want you' ... It's the lingering and continuing the conversation that can make it weird.If you compliment her, manage to make it not weird, and then she comes back and talks to you with a smiling face... great.Also, don't just compliment the women you want to fuck. Compliment humans. Compliment other guys too. Obviously for different things. Be appreciative. You don't want 1 gossip sesh between ladies to have you established as a pattern of being a predator, even if that's not your intention or even the truth.
