what the hell? We'd been friends for months, played games together, watched movies, it was nice. One day she decides to add my insta and realizes that I have a gf, so she ghosts and posts a bunch of stuff implying she was cheated on on her twitter, then when she eventually responds to me again, I asked if she wanted to watch a movie and she asked if that would be weird because I have a gf (my gf knows about her, its not a secret) then she blocked me on everything.
>>83077288>have gf>have friendsI don't get it is this a joke post?
>>83077288she was using you for attention. Once you got a gf, it (in her mind) devalued your attention. The attention doesn't feel as good if she knows you're also giving attention to another woman. She basically wanted you to stay hopelessly pining for her while ignoring other women, because that's the attention equivalent of Columbian pureshe felt cheated on because part of her brain was convinced that you were, in some perverse sense, her boyfriend, because you were providing her the attention and validation that she should have been getting from a bfwomen could easily avoid these issues by not diversifying their emotional and sexual needs to different guys, and instead have 1 (one) boyfriend that provides everything, but they're terrified of doing that for some resaon
>>83077856I wish she didn't just throw me away like that, and if she'd wanted me to be her boyfriend just said so. I lwk wanna shoot myself right now.
It is weird to watch a movie together with another woman online if you have a gf. She was acting appropriately and you were not. It is also weird that your gf never came up in conversation. I predict you did that on purpose. You are not innocent, you are a man. Men love to play the innocent card. It works, so I don't blame you. Enjoy playing with stupid naive women and pretending you are so gosh darned good natured and love having friends.
>>83077878we were friends before I started dating my gf. I didn't bring up my gf, but she didn't bring up her (at the time) bf either, although she did post about him online. I though it would come off as weird if I talked about her. I wasn't playing with anyone.
>>83077865>I wish she didn't just throw me away like thatyeah, it sucks, I feel for you. But her actions show that she was using you (at least primarily) as an attention dispenser. Imo, it's better to have people like that out of your life>and if she'd wanted me to be her boyfriend just said soshe didn't. She wanted you to perform the emotional duties of a boyfriend, but not the sexual ones (because she wasn't attracted to you)It's analogous to how some guys will use a girl for sex but not want to engage in emotional intimacy with her, women just do the opposite; they use a guy for emotional intimacy without wanting to engage in sex with him
>>83077921>I thought it would come off as weirdSo you did conceal it on purpose because you were hoping to upgrade at best or have a flirtationship at min. You are just mad she has boundaries and won't settle for being a side ho. Her having you as a simp was different you were supposed to actually hit on her once she became single but you were playing fuckboy games
>>83077921also>(at the time) bfyeah she was 100% using you for attention. This is a very common patternboyfriend gives her dick so she's sexually satisfied, but he's emotionally distant so she's goes and finds some other guy to give her the attention and validation that she isn't gettingso together, you and her bf form a frankenstein-boyfriend-system that satisfies all of her needsIt's retarded
>>83077929IDK. This seems the most likely but it just feels wrong. >>83077931No I didn't conceal it, it never came up and I never brought it up. When she did ask I was truthful. I wasn't flirting with her, or trying to get with her. I'm not mad that she has boundaries, I'm mad that she blocked me with zero warning. Boundaries would've involved talking about whatever her problem was, not this. She wasn't a side hoe, because we were never romantically involved at all. I didn't know when she became single, we didn't talk about our relationships, and once again, I wasn't trying to get with her, so why start flirting then?
>>83077950like I said in >>83077944, the fact that she had a bf at the time confirms it. Before you mentioned that, I was thinking that there was maybe a 5% chance that she really did like you romantically, but was just being retarded about it. But if she had a bf the whole time, then she was using you for attention. There's no other explanation. She was hanging out with you and watching movies with you and telling you about all her problems and using you to complete the boyfriend experience that she wasn't getting, but then at the end of the day she was getting pumped by another guyit sucks but that's what was happening. I've been there too, you just gotta move on. You have a gf now though, so I think you'll be fine
>>83077970>I lwk wanna shoot myself right nowHe literally said this and you are keekeeing with him that she's totally the one in the wrongHe was emotionally cheating on his gf with her and is butthurt she cut it off
>>83077978I don't know if she's totally in the wrong, but I wish it wouldn't have gone like that. I honestly wasn't trying to manipulate her. I wasn't cheating on my gf, it's not emotionally cheating to have friends of the opposite sex, especially when my gf knows that I have them. I'm not butthurt, I'm depressed. I lost someone I cared about.
>>83078018I think you're overreacting thinking just that she blocked you means you can never be friends again, I mean as long as you know her in real lifeI did some pretty fucked up stuff to a friend of mine who's a girl and she blocked me everywhere but we're actually on ok terms now a few years later
>>83078032we were online friends, not irl
>>83077978>emotionally cheatingno he wasn't. Men really don't really do this. Watching a movie with a female friend is not cheatingChrist my generation is retarded
>>83077865you're being absolutely unfair to your girlfriend.
>>83078068>watching a movie with a friend you're attracted to and wish made a move on you is a-okay! never date a man with opposite gender friends
>>83078068It's absolutely cheating. I did something not even as bad as this and I considered it emotionally cheating (just voicechatting with a male discord friend but at weird times, like he wanted company while getting wendys, Nauti fyi for other fembots that know him lol you know he loooved to try that with girls that had bfs) and I cut it off
>female online "friend">has a bf yet emotionally readjusting to jump ship to youshe's a typical whore that prefers situationships over relationships (read: normal woman). no expressed boundaries or definitions on your interactions since being official is too intense, and then get upset when you seemingly betrayed her. >>83077288>and she asked if that would be weird because I have a gf did you respond with "you had a bf and we watched stuff all the time, what's the issue". >>83077865>if she'd wanted me to be her boyfriend just said soif I can be as charitable as possible you'd mean to say "she should tell me she wanted me to be her boyfriend so we can talk about it and I can reject her" but otherwise doesn't sound like you were that platonic about iteither way if you wanna be friends with girls you're a faggot. the point of watching a movie with a girl is to hear her reactions because they exclaim occasionally or they're clueless and you find it endearing either way. I want one foid in my life only that I can rape and make fun of and cuddle and have her make me quesadillas.
>>83077878Yeah, this was a shit move from OP, a shit man. The girl only does this if she feels she was strung along under the pretense of the guy being single. Men are shit.
>>83078378>Men are shit.She had a boyfriend.
