I want to talk to people, but I'm quite low energy. It's not like I don't want to talk to people, I just constantly have low energy especially if it's someone I'm not super familiar with. The whole process of knowing someone is not very appealing to me. It's really awkward. I have someone I'm really close with, but I only play games with them and it would be nice to have another person I can talk to. I'm talking about online btw, I don't have trouble talking to people in personI also feel like I don't have many interesting things to talk about. I'm not the type to sperg out about my interests or complain about my problems.It also doesn't help that most people online are mentally ill and retardedAnyone else have the same problem?
>>83080208Nope, I'm the oppositeI'm "charming" in a way that no one that I know of personally, isI can walk up to random uncs and talk to emI can join in whatever convo my friend group is talking aboutI can approach girls and guys randomlyEven embarassed my friends a few time the way I actLike this one time I know one of my guy friends was into this one girl, so our group and her group went out to have this one big group dinnerI purposely went and sit with her group so I can free the seat next to my guy friend and have her sit next to him didn't work btw, she went to the bathroom and cried for some reason
>>83080245Did you read my whole post bro> I don't have trouble talking to people in personIRL and online friends are different, I'm looking for online friends
>>83080305i did, but i'm tryna say that they're the same thingirl or online, they both require social skills
>>83080343Where would you suggest I look? Where majority of the people aren't retarded or mentally ill. I posted on soc once and all I got were old guys asking me if I sold nudes, the others were retarded/mentally ill.And you're right about that they both require social skills, but it's two very different versions of it.
>>83080380>Where would you suggest I look?Just like IRL, where you think folks like you congregateif you're looking for normie sites, if you're looking for niche folks, niche/hobby forumsdown here on /r9k/, the pre-requisite is to have a few screws loose haha
>>83080458I'm ngl I'm starting to think you actually didn't read my post at all or you might just be delusional> IRL and online friends are different, I'm looking for online friends> Waiter! One plate of folks like me please!I'm not retarded bro yeah no shit go outside if I want friends IRLI have IRL friends which I go rock climbing with every week and I meet new people everytime I go> pre-requisite is to have a few screws looseSo everyone is just fucking mentally ill
>>83080568>delusionalthat could be it, honestly>So everyone is just fucking mentally illare you new to the internet in general?healthy, as in genuinely healthy folks in both mind and body don't use the internet
don't want thread to dieany idea guysshould i just stop trying to actively seek it out and let it come to me
