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>Guy who I met on the internet asks to hangout
>I'm not mr popular or anything so I agree
>We hang out once
>It's super awkward, I'm just rambling trying to fill in the air because he'll hardly say anything more than "yes" or "no"
>I assume he must be shy
>He asks to hang out two more times
>It goes more or less the same
>Doesn't help that he is always either posting cropped furry porn or talking about self harm or his frankly concerning mental health, but even I could look past that if we actually had any chemistry
>I start trying to break contact, putting excuses but he messages insistently and I feel bad if I don't say a couple words at least every couple days
> Start name dropping an hypothetical gf as a last resort to see if he lets on, he doesn't, so that means it's not gay shit

Never meet anyone on the internet, not because you might get drugged and killed, but because it might be really awkward, which is arguably worse. Anyways, what the fuck do I do, because I feel like if I am direct I'm going to ruin his life.
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>>83083468
>if I am direct I'm going to ruin his life.
hey man it's either his life or yours, you gotta pick
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>>83083468
I'm like that IRL unironically
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>>83083468
>>I start trying to break contact, putting excuses but he messages insistently and I feel bad if I don't say a couple words at least every couple days
stop doing this to yourself. you don't owe anybody your time
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>>83083540
Ok so in a scale of 1 to 10 how much would you kill yourself
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>>83083468
i don't get it, are you a faggot? in that case my advice is kys
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>>83083468
>>I start trying to break contact, putting excuses but he messages insistently and I feel bad if I don't say a couple words at least every couple days
You could try just... Being honest
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>>83083468
I met a guy who is kinda like this on discord. Poor guy was so desperate he offered me to stay in his parents house to save on travel costs so we could hang out
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>>83083468
You ever think that both parties carry responsibility and he may have similar feelings as you and its both your responsibility to be honest
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>>83083468
What if you guys just do something while you hang out so it doesn't feel so awkward? Here's a list of possible things I suggest:
>watch movies at home
>puzzles (500 pieces or more)
>hand-paint warhammer soldiers or similar
>go roleplay dnd with those figures once painted, find a place near home
And if you guys feel horny:
>gooning
Or if you feel brave enough:
>gangbang some hooker irl
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>>83083468
You have to tell him friendships are a two way street. If he's not going to put in effort when you hang out then there's no point in doing so
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>>83084830
>Poor guy was so desperate he offered me to stay in his parents house to save on travel costs so we could hang out
Poor guy because he wanted to help out and get to know you better?
Man wtf is this world. Hell



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