>be me>failed normie at 41 and the "trad", "Christian" girl I was with for 5 years and engaged to couldn't resist slutting out any longer>dating apps are WAY more mercenary and anti-male than they were when I was last single (2019)>swipes are at a ridiculous premium; Bumble's the worst and gives you like 5 daily swipes now>what the fuck even IS hinge and how do people actually match on this shit? >OKC and POF are just shittier Tinder and OKC paywalls regional matches, so most engagement you get will be from thirdie scammers and bots>somehow literal whores are totally fine but I'm sure if I called them a whore I'd get bannedJesus wept. I'm sure it's still a numbers game and shit will work out, but it's GRIM before even considering the rotten jaded holes on it. Who do we blame for it being so fucked now?