From reading general internet sentiments aswel as r9k I understand that most men will not love especially they will not love you for the rest of your life. So now I am dating this one man I am loyal to him and try to be loving but on the inside I know it is pointless and he will leave me sooner or slightly less sooner so I don't even bother thinking of a breakup since he will do it for me. Haven't had sex with him yet which now writing this I don't think I trust anyone to want to do it so I will probably withhold till he leaves. I think after this I will try dating one last guy and then remain single.
>>83088523I loved all my previous girlfriends with all my heart, then one girl completely shattered my heart and no other girl since has been good enoughI don't think I'm capable of love anymore
>>83088523I didn't read any of that, im just saying that your cat is gay and i can prove it mathematically.
>>83088523I loved a woman before. I gave her everything and treated her like the person I would give my life to. Then she developed a sudden hatred for me and left me for some christ cuck. My point is what you said about men I can very much apply to women too.
>>83088523well same goes for women only 10 times more. it's indeed not easy to find a love for life but if you're young it's worth a trouble to at least try
>>83088554Dude, why do they do this. Why do so many men have the same fucking experience
>>83088523What if I love you but just don't think you're all that special? What if I just love everyone huh?
>>83088523you got pump and dumped from the sound of itprotip: choose more wisely next time
>>83088613Here's the thing. Even when you choose wisely that person can have a sudden 180 and go from loving and caring to abusive and schizo. Bpd and mental illnesses hide things well
>>83088639that's what the dating is for
OP I can promise you that it is possible for a man to love you forever. You do have to work hard for it and there is also luck required, but it's possible. I absolutely love my wife and know her on a level I did not think was possible and I love her even at her absolute worst. I would never cheat and know I have a partner for life
>>83088523Agreed, I want to fall in love so badly but seeing the way men online talk about women has made me never want to trust them ever.
>>83088639a person with bpd or mental illness do NOT hide who they are very wellall you have to do is ask them "are you on any pills" if the answer is no, then good, youre not dealing with a crazy personand as far as mental illness goes, it stems from being lied to over and overparanoia sets in, and they start to question everything, and when these questions are answered with lies, it gives that person all the more reason not to trust peopleso remember, a person, who lies, will call you paranoid when theyre next to be found out - name calling, that is theyre way of shielding themselves from you finding out the truth
>>83088753I have BPD and nobody knows it until it's too late. There's no pills for itTrue about the lying part
>>83088776bpd is just walking contradiction. want unconditional love but condition is theyll sabotage anyone who gives it. op's playing it smart by not fucking him, cut the cycle before it starts
