I don't understand how to socialize with women or bottom-coded men. Why is it impossible for them to draw clear boundaries or tell me when they are uncomfortable? Why does it feel like I am in a minefield trying to talk to them without setting off some hidden mine that upsets them? Man it's goddamn rough and tiring.
Why are you constantly inflammatory unless someone tells you to pump the breaksTry utilizing some emotional intelligence for a change
>>83090280Why do you intepret everything like it is a threat?
>>83090271>Why is it impossible for them to draw clear boundaries or tell me when they are uncomfortable?Boundaries are clear, its comfortable if you are chad
I'm sorry to tell you that you don't come across as Top-coded or as an Alpha, but as an unaware Autist
>>83090271Having poor boundaries has nothing to do with being 'bottom coded'. It's mental illness, they were abused or neglected by their parents or their parents were mentally ill.>>83090443You're probably aggressive, dismissive, disrespectful and too autistic or self involved to realize it. Most people don't expect to have to tell people to not act like a jackass every single time they interact and when people like you are told to stop you keep doing it and act like you did nothing wrong. You're very frustrating people to deal with. People like you will go into lawyer mode every time someone says 'can you stop being disrespectful?' and now I have to provide thirty specific word for word examples of you being disrespectful or else I'm making it up and if I simply say 'fuck off' to get you to shut up and hopefully move forward the conversation you'll act like a smug retard. Joking around and busting balls is fine but when all you're doing is insulting someone and treating them like garbage it's no wonder they don't want to be around you.
>everything is XYZ-"coded">bottom-coded>top-codedThe fuck are you dribbling niggers on about?
>>83090271sorry, this is me. i dont like hurting peoples feelings by telling them im uncomfortable
