I don't want to date women who activate my mate guarding instincts. I don't want to "work" to "earn" her.I don't want to date a woman who thinks a man being "insecure" is automatically a red flag. I just want to be comfortable with someone who I vibe with and we each like each other's company far more than anyone else's.
>>83092095sorry that is no longer possibledating & relationships are now 1000 trillion mind games per day psychological warfare
I'm mtf btw, but that shouldn't matter
correctif she isn't 100% onboard with you in the first 10 minutes she's probably a bitch who will waste your time or make you miserablehaving to "win women over" is a hollywood jew inversion
>>83092095Yeah that's all I fucking want in a relationship too, a woman who's just herself and lets me be myself around her. Funny because I'm not really insecure myself, and in fact one of the reasons why I despise the little theater that accompanies relationships is because people obviously engage in that stupid pretense because they're insecure about who they really are.
>>83092128I agree. If you're ready to take care of a strong woman, let me know
>>83092144I prefer a DEX or INT build woman personally.
>>83092151>another fake incelMany such cases. They all bitch and moan until it's time to take action
>>83092095>>83092128Same, anon. But you need to be careful that it doesnt swing too far into the other direction.Think of it like a split between "Lover" on one side and "Mother" on the other. There are lots of guys who want 'mommy dommy' but I'm assuming that's not you. Me neither. You just want something normal. It makes me laugh when my buddy tells me how its a cardinal sin to ever cry in front of your gf/wife. Something about her pussy drying up. Like I want them to stay together but when he talks like that I get worried for his future. Once his kids are out of the baby phase and the real parenting begins. I'm having trouble forming my next paragraph here. I want to say that there's a difference between 'working to earn her' and the idea of her simply liking you to begin with, and then the work you do being appreciated. That's why we all despise Chad so much and are afraid of being Bobby. Bobby isn't liked for who he is. But Chad is. Even if Chad is awful. You don't want to have to 'work' to 'earn' her, but remember that the 'work' still has a part to play in making you seem as the most attractive version of who you are.It's not mate guarding instincts that will keep the relationship good and away from her thinking she feels like your mom.
>>83092160I thought this was a thread about just b urselfing rather than incel theatrics? My true self requires a woman who has a high crit rate and/or large mana pool.
>>83092173>There are lots of guys who want 'mommy dommy' but I'm assuming that's not you.I have a femdom fetish but I do not care for the idea of someone "mothering" me. It's just a bedroom kink, I can do my own laundry thanks.>we all despise Chad so much and are afraid of being BobbyI don't really give a shit about "Chad" and don't even know who the fuck Bobby is m8.> 'work' still has a part to play in making you seem as the most attractive version of who you areNow this I can agree with, of course I try to take care of myself and expect the same of her. But there's a big difference between faking a persona and just trying to sell your strong points, which should actually come naturally if you don't bother acting and find someone who likes the real you.
>>83092095Someone normal in 2025? I'm sorry OP but we don't do that in current society anymore
>>83092203Laundry isn't what I'm talking about. It's about your day-to-day attitude. Think harder about what I said about my friend who said they can never cry in front of their wife. You think that has to do with laundry? No.
>>83092176nta i think she(she?) was hitting on you anon you should try and rebound to get her discord maybe she'll forgive you for being autistic
There aren't enough good men on here for all us lonely gals
Of course you can, OP. You just need to be tall, white, muscular, and rich.
>>83092259I am in fact autistic but pretty sure that was just a humorous exchange where the other poster was also joking.
>>83092270>wants men to be goodLower your standards and settle for glorious mediocrity or slight above-averageness.
I think insecurity is fine and all but I still want guarding instincts or whatever that is. Not even about moids I'll find even a masculine woman attractive
>>83092289I.. I'd prefer n-not...
>>83092299You WILL enjoy my above average looks and culture, below average social skills and wealth, as well as my remarkably average penis, and you WILL be happy.
>>83092319>below average wealthThat won't work...
So you eitehr just want a friend or wanna be a girl. I got it. Well you have a fine selections of radical feminists and transwomen that would be fine with it, you are living just in the right age to be beta male.
>>83092323You WILL live together with me so we can both become wealthier, because even shitty incomes get a lot better when you split rent and bills.
>>83092349.. n-no. I need a man that can care for me...
>>83092356You WILL feel cared for after getting a job and becoming financially independent to be able to build a relationship on trust rather than equating money being thrown at you with "care".
>>83092379n-no... I'll get more active on OF again...
>>83092095>>83092128Based.Sad part is that I know I'll never find it, the only girls who think like this aren't attractive. All the pretty girls get hooked on attention and fucking drugs, ruining their lives and dignity for nothing.
>>83092391You WILL realize that OF is pretty pointless if you're not already an e-celeb who constantly shills herself, but if you insist you WILL let me help you with photography and editing to improve your content.
>>83092406... n-n0.. I already have a bf for that... I just need some cute boys to help care for me...
>>83092173>It makes me laugh when my buddy tells me how its a cardinal sin to ever cry in front of your gf/wife.It is though, clearly you don't have enough relationship experience
>>83092462>I already have a bfBro... why were you complaining about having no good men and being a lonely gal then?
>>83092487.. a girl could always use more support and love....
>>83092531Can you get me your bf's contact so I can tell him you're a cheater who doesn't think he's a good man?
>>83092544n0.. I love him.. he loves me
>>83092173Most normiebabble post ITT. You don't get it.
>>83092580If you love him, why do you call yourself lonely and complain about the lack of good men? Also, be honest, is your "boyfriend" a drawing?
>attentionwhoring retard actively trying to ruin the threadat least 1 of these subhumans in each active thread
>>83092277yare, yare dazeI'm hope you're right anon
>>83092585Nice psychological projection. Sorry you can't have your mommy dommy fantasy.
