My girlfriend of nearly 7 years suddenly broke up with me today. Im about to be 27 in about a month. I find myself obviously upset that I was abandoned like this, but I cant lie whats bothering me more is the realization that I wasted my entire youth devoted to one person. All for nothing. I want to crazy. I need endless 18 year old pussy to make up for all those years lost. I will ever commit to a relationship again
>>83094853>girlfriend of nearly 7 years suddenly broke up with mewhy?
Men have a whore mindset like 100x women do
>>83094947because uh she just did in this imaginary story okay?
>>83094853>girlfriend of nearly 7 yearswhy is it not wife? you knew something was wrong. should have broken off earlier
>>83094853>7 yearsHow long were you planning to wait to marry? she probably got tired and left your ass
>>83094999>>83095037Neither of us cared about marriage. Wasnt a belief I forced on her, just something we both never felt strongly about. We were as committed as any married couple anyway
>>83094853You'll get over it big hoss, don't worry about it. Single at 27 isn't honestly that bad.
you are lucky that you get that experience those feelings, the relationship and also yes the heartbreak.
>>83094999Feeling a pit in my stomach as a 25 year old with a girlfriend of 4 years that ive wanted to break up with for years now
>>83095250some cunts won't tell you what they want, if she had married or engaged friends she wanted you to ask her
>>83094853>whats bothering me more is the realization that I wasted my entire youth devoted to one person. All for nothing. I want to crazy. I need endless 18 year old pussy to make up for all those years lost. I will ever commit to a relationship againVery, very real anon. Extremely real as fuck. I regret this more than anything, as well. I was from about 22 to 30. We are not getting that time back. Any younganons reading, you MUST cheat. You have to. You fucking have to cheat on her as much as possible. There is no other justifiable path. It is going to end and then what was all your "loyalty" for? That is if she isn't just cheating as well - if that's going on then you really need to even more.
>>83095250>We were as committed as any married coupleIt doesn't seem like till death did you part. No kids either. Has she been on birth control?>>83095291Well, two things ought to be sorted then. Viability and logistics. Other girls around you might be complete dogshit, you may not have game anymore, or maybe you're too emotionally dependent on her to leave. Either of which would give you a newfound appreciation for her, so you stay. If you think you can't open up to her because she'll get upset about it and then you end up having to apologize to her for reacting to her being shitty, then carry on as usual anyway and the next time she pulls it just break up with her. State the way she's acting isn't sustainable for marriage, and leave. You're going to have detach emotionally to begin with, rivaling having broken up with her in your head in the first place. Then, with a more neutral, less emotional perspective you will coldly state what she's doing and you're not happy. If she manages to miraculously change and revive your heart after you've deadened it, she's the right one for you and you should stay. Otherwise the rest is just logistics, which is sorting out rent, friend groups, moving different places, changing your vernacular so you don't sound like a guy that's absorbed his ex gf's personality, and so forth.
>>83094853just get a new one normalnigger. your "problems" mean nothing here.
>>83095291The reality is, don't forget, dating is a nightmare. Especially after some time off. You think you're going to leave her and then have a girl to fuck by next week? If you believe that, then no problem. But the value of a regular fuck for an average man is very high, even if she is annoying. So, what you need to do is to focus on making the deal more favorable to you:>limit your time together>maximize how much you bang her per hour invested>establish strict daily routines that you can go through unemotionally>distance yourself without being mean - act "professional" with her>start shopping for other options and see what your outlook really is after a few years offOnce you have staunched the bleeding by reducing the misery in your current situation to sustainable levels and you have a better understanding of what you would be stepping into if you broke up, you can make some more informed decisions. Everything in the above list is essentially reversible if you decide to invest after all, or can be maintained indefinitely if that equilibrium is suitable for you long-term.
>>83095331Are you making up for lost time? How is 30+ year old life when you are trying to stack bodies?
>>83094947She told me she lost the spark and didnt feel in love with me anymore
Modern /r9k/ in a shellnut
>>83095513I binge fucked sluts for a few months after breaking up, then got a new gf who I only see on the weekends and I cheat on her nonstop. This optimizes for a few different things. I get sex 1x per week like clockwork no matter what. I have a lot of time to myself which I like as an antisocial freak and serial cheater both. I rack up bodies while still maintaining a decent public facade, and with the benefit of having a strict criteria that I can't catch feelings for any of my random fucks which is obviously a problem for me. Also, while my gf is a little annoying and we don't fuck as much as I want to (honestly if she put out on demand 24/7 I wouldn't bother with anybody else) I do basically like her as a friend and she is physically completely perfect for my taste so it's hard to give that up entirely.
>>83096502How tall are you and how big is your penis
>>83094853the only thing that really works is posting pictures of her to take back your misplaced sexual desire
>>830965186'6 10" and I live under a bridge
I'm in a very similar position to OP. Let's say I WANTED to fuck girls wantonly for a while. How the fuck to I go about that? I can fake my way to being a little charismatic and am white, lean, average height, decent looking I guess. Is there anything I can do in this day and age? Because I get girls flirting with me sometimes, but I can never seal the deal. I don't even know where to start. I feel like there's some braking mechanism in me that keeps me from pursuing girls very seriously because I don't want to make myself vulnerable.
>>83095906Pretty much. It's been completely overrun by normals. And then some people have the audacity to tell me that the .is website is worse lmao nah nothing is worse than this. I don't even know why I keep checking /r9k/, it's pointless.
>>83094999>>83095037are you foids? What men are that obsessed with marriage? You two sound like faggots
