how do i make sure my virgin bf is happy even tho i've been with a few guys
>>83097738Make sure you have a few threesomes with him and your female friends.Otherwise if he's only been with you and you've been with other men it will ALWAYS be bothering him in the back of his mind.
>>83097738idk just make him feel loved ig. be patient when he finally gets to *do it*
>>83097738Let him do anal or do something kinky and convince him he's the first person you've done that with and that you're the first person to make you orgasm.
>>83097738Just make him feel loved and appreciated. That's literally all we want.
>>83097745bro do you not know how common it is for threesomes to nuke good relationships>>83097754>>83097775how tho>>83097770i've done anal before, hated it
>>83097738why is your bf still a virgin despite being your bf
>>83097738>how do i make sure my virgin bf is happy You will never be able to control how someone else feels. That is not within your locus of control. Emmerson is right, greatness is recognizing that virtue is enough. Pursue virtue in yourself, and love others. Ask for nothing else.
>>83097738>picwhy do foids intentionally make themselves repulsive by cutting themselves and farming attention from discord simps? they could just, not
>>83097738if he has an issue with you not being a virgin it'll be over before it began. thankfully majority of non incels are pretty normal about that stuff.
>>83097784>bro do you not know how common it is for threesomes to nuke good relationshipsA relationship where he's only had you but you've been with other men is not a good relationship. He will ALWAYS resent you deep down inside for it and it'll just be a question of how long it takes for this to bubble up.
>>83097738just dont cheat, let him hit and wake him up with top every once in a whileyou are used goods so you might end up in the pawn shop if you dont act right
>>83097784>i've done anal before, hated itHe doesn't have to know that you stupid fucking whore.
>>83097784>some other dude got to have anal with you but he doesn'tGRIM
>>83097788i used to go into the fucking phase very quickly and im trying to go slower this time to make it work>>83097792virtue like what>>83097793idk i dont cut myself but i like the aesthetic>>83097797he's basically an ex-incel>>83097850he's going to be used goods soon anyway idk why men care lol
>>83097880>he's going to be used goods soon anywaythis is the mindset to have, you should want to claim him, scratch all over his back or leave hickeys, he'll have a special connection to the person who took his virginity
>>83097738unironically just tell him that all the other guys had small dicks and that his is way biggerI'm being 100% serious. This is the one thing you can say that will heal a guy's ego when it comes to the topic of body count
>>83097910interesting. i guess you do>>83097932i had sex with 1 guy who was super hung but i think my bf is slightly above average (i watched him masturbate, no sex). idk
>>83097944>i had sex with 1 guy who was super hungif he doesn't already know this and there's no way for him to find out, then just lie about it. Also if he doesn't know your exact body count, then lie about that too and say it's only one or two (again, only if there's no way for him to find out)>my bf is slightly above average this is good, it makes it more plausible
>>83097880hes not going to be used goods sweetie, mens value goes up after thirty and womens goes down. im sorry that life is not fair, its easy for a woman to be promiscuous in her youth and hard for a man
>>83097932Probably the best way to go if he's sensitive about this kind of stuff.
>>83097951Building a lasting relationship on lies...Why not lmaoNo wonder you niggers are alone and miserable.
>>83097982>b-b-but lying is le bad!! all the time!!! no matter what!!!I'm a utilitarian. If lying to him leads to increased happiness for both parties and little to no potential drawbacks, then she should lie
>>83097982thisnona should make sure her bf knows his dick is nowhere near the size of her earlier partnerhonesty is the best policyif he's a good man it won't bother him
>>83097991 is a crab trying to torpedo your relationship
>>83097738it's an issue of loyalty. How can he be sure that you won't fuck another man the moment you're slightly annoyed by him?The ultimate proof for loyalty, by the way, is making a child. If you're unwilling to do that, ask yourself why. It may be doomed from the start
>>83097990If i would find out that my partner lied sbout such i would break up in an instant.No way to know what else is lied about when you felt the need to mske such petty shit up.
>>83097982An entirely harmless lie where no one involved is hurt and ends in a net good for the relationship.
>>83098009... then she should just not let him found out lolI'm sure your mom would be disappointed in you if she knew all the freaky porn you've jerked off to over the years. Does that mean you should tell her in the name of honesty?no nigga that would be dumbno harm no foul. If it comes up, just lie
>>83098023Nigger!Why do i have to be honest with my mom????I have different standarts for different positions in my life, and one for my mom is to mind her own business!From my wife who i rape multipe times a week i expect total honesty, social media codes and a tracker on her at all times. They are not the same lol
>>83098067>why be honest to momask your mom that question anon
imagine being so much of a cuck that you date female used goods, kekenjoy paying her bills and being a good little betabuxx while she fantasizes about the dozens of hung chads she used to fuck during her peak years
>>83098092noga larping as chad on the incel board
>>83098067let's agree to disagree niggawhat I expect from a girlfriend (marriage is fag-coded) is sex, cuddles, good conversation, and participating in fun activities together. I don't need complete honesty or disclosure also I don't have the energy to track a girl's social media
>>83097738Let me tell you from experience they will never like you or feel good about it :)
>>83098092>bottom 5% men need to go for top 5% womenSurely
>>83098107If your girl has social media, its not your girl lmao
>>83097880>virtue like whatSorry, no time, must sleep now. Good question, ruminate on that and maybe read some philosophy.
>>83097982As opposed to... what?"Hey darling, just letting you know you're #27. Whatever you do won't be special to me, nor will it be as satisfying as anyone else I've been with specially #1 and #14. Every time we have sex is purely for your sake, because this is just mundane for me. Love ya <3"The ideal relationship would be for OP's bf to fuck off and try with someone better, but this isn't an ideal world, so all they can do is try to make it work.
>>83097784you're actually a terrible and inconsiderate person wtf. you're like the stereotype of whore who does shit with other guys then mistreats the one she "loves"
>Larp threadKill yourself dumb tranny
>>83097738I've been in your bf's situation before, though Idk how similar the circumstances are. When we got together I was 24 and my (now) fiancee was 25. I was a virgin (never had piv sex at least) and she had been with 2 guys (and 1 girl) before.Honestly I've been slightly insecure about it at times, but it's NEVER been bad enough that I even had to bring it up to her. More like a passing thought that goes away in a few minutes. I think the main factor that helped me is the fact that se never made it a secret that she enjoys sex with me much much more than with anyone else. It's always been painfully obvious, even by how genuinely surprised she was the first times I made her cum, or by how she spontaneously changed her minds on some kinkier things (raw sex, anal, some toys..) that she initially didn't wan to try. Of course I never pressured her, she just got curious a d I always made it clear I was up for exploration. Of course it helps that I do put a lot of effort into pleasuring her, which apparently wasn't the case for her exes.Also I know it shouldn't, but it also helped that she compared me favourably to her exes a few times. Stuff like>Ex1 having a dick so thin she couldn't feel it inside>Ex1 trying to jam it in her ass without warning "as an accident">Ex2 never ever eating her out>Ex2 barely ever making her cum at allAnd again, it shouldn't but it helped that she's never made it a secret she likes my size and she thinks I'm big. Even comparing me (directly or indirectly) to the exes. As I mentioned she's outright stated ex1 was veeeery thin (I'm above average in length and way way above average in thickness).
>>83098318His fault for choosing a used up whore.If you cant stomach the truth better keep looking since that is far better then the the broken heart and shame to be fallen for such a pos.For me any women is disqualified who has ever done anything with a dude outside of a relationship both partys aknowledged.And then you simply cant! Stack so many bodys!
>>83098500Cont.Also when we were just friends (been friends for years before getting together) she mentioned ex2 had "a big package but no idea how to use it". I guess this could be kinda similar to the situation with your hung ex. I never asked for a direct size comparison with him (and I don't wanna), but I'm happy enough knowing that I'm quite lacking as well (especially by her standards) and, unlike him, I can use it to blow her mind.So yeah, it's a mix of you making it super clear you like him better and making him feel good at it/exalting the areas where he actually does excel. He also had to carry his weight though, if he sucks at sex you can't pretend I've doesn't: it's gonna come out sooner or later.
>>83097738Keeping a guy as a woman is really easy.Literally just be normal and don't have too many woman chimp out moments and don't let yourself go and gain 100lbs.That's pretty much it.
>>83097745This person probably hates you and wants to ruin what you and your boyfriend has
>>83097738he will never be special for you, hes just one of many bfs. you cant fix this. even if hes not thinking about it now he will in the future. you are a used up slut and deep down he knows this. not to mention you cant properly pair bond with him
Behold: the average woman who posts on hereAdmits (this is only what she's willing to admit) that she has fucked super hung guys, done anal and other stuff like that, slept around during her younger years, and now wants to settle down with a virgin guy as the safe option. Even if it's bait, it's so fucking accurate that it doesn't matter.
>>83097944>super hungHow much? How was the sex? How did the feeling compare to smaller ones?
>>83097738Ngl I was in your bf's place once and after I got the.>umm actually I don't like sex act I've done before hahatalk I tuned out. Left her after I felt experienced enough. My only regret is that even years later she's stalking me. I've been informed by multiple friends independently of each other that they received messages from her asking about me. She's also apparently made a whole series of drawn fanfics on me. This all might sound cool but it's a nuisance desu.
Are we going to pretend OPs artist doesnt draw herself getting fucked by black men
>>83097738Never ever mention anything to do with an ex EVERDont carry your past baggage into this relationshipBe loving and caringInitiate and guide intimacy
>tall and skinnylmao like clockwork
>>83099544>at least half asian AMWF or somethingfuck off
7 year relationship here. i was the virgin bf. do not listen to most people here.make him feel loved by being up front with him on everything. history is important and it tells a lot about you. if you are honest with him he will be honest with you. communicate your wants in bed, if you need him to do something to get you off then you better fucking tell him, or else you are not going to be satisfied. he is not going to be cognizant of what you want. be patient with him, if he hasnt had a relationship before he will be learning how it should be. if he learns to be a shithead from you he will be a shithead, and the relationship will not last and you will contribute to the problems modern dating has. dont engage in the childish bullshit that social media does, like those retarded love tests and shit. its going to make him feel like you arent taking him seriously and he wont take you seriously. keep it exclusive for the same reason.all this goes for him too. be a reasonable adult and you both will be fine.
>in this thread we help a used up whore defile an otherwise pure male that wants lovekek>>83098852true. It's so outrageous it can't possibly be anything else but bait
>>83097784>i've done anal before, hated itDo you have 0 self respect? Why would you let a man fuck your asshole, that's like low levels of respect. You're disgusting.
What in the Israeli botfarm is this retarded thread.You can clearly see the divide between the genuine posts and those that are done as part of a psyop.You should definitely tell your bf everything you did and how you won't do it with him, for his sake.
>>83097738You are a man in a dress who pretends to be a woman, begging for attention. You should end your life.
>>83097880>i used to go into the fucking phase very quickly and im trying to go slower this time to make it workyeahi think thats how itll be with mei know im powerless, completely unsexy, and completely irrelevantbut if im ever dreamy and sexy to a girl, just know, in my heart i will NEVER give real love to a girl like youit will always just be a adversarial power struggle. you will be used as a practice gflove has to be given freely, im not ever giving it up to a ran through whore
