>>83099446
>What was your dad like?
stem sperg just like me, tho more low inhib than me

>>83099446
Not good. Especially during my early years in life. I don't even think he remembers then.

>>83099446
wasnt

>>83099446
He legitimately tried despite the divorce. However, I will never love him and only interact to keep up appearances so that I can inherit his house

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>>83099446
A GOOD MAN WHO GOT HIMSELF INTO A LOT OF SHIT HE DIDN'T WANT
MY DAD'S TREAD WATER HIS WHOLE LIFE FOR PEOPLE WHO DIDN'T APPRECIATE HIM ENOUGH
I FEEL BAD FOR HIM BUT THERE AIN'T MUCH I CAN DO.

Dale Gribble but more absent

>>83099446
Fed, clothed and housed me but didn't teach me anything so now I'm 35 and have no idea what the fuck i'm doing

>>83099446
Agressive alcoholic blue collar worker. he taught me a lot but not a good man in my eyes

ITT: once again retards not realising it was their dads causing them to be fucked up robots not because women are whores

>>83099446
i'm currently listening to dire straits - love over gold, in audacious with a winamp skin that make it look like a ps2, with a milk drop visualisaer in the background, and crying a bit.

that's the kind of emotions that remind me of my dad.

>>83099446
mean, narcissistic, emotionally distant, self pitying, weak willed faggot

>molested me and my sister
>got divorced
>vanished, no support or contact
>became a tranny
>went to mexico and got a back-alley sex-change
>died

He was a piece of shit tranny-pedo

>>83099729
ITT: retard who can't fathom that more than 1 thing can be true

>>83099735
>died
good, i hope he was in pain

>>83099750
He died from blood poisoning due to complications of the surgery. He was in pain.

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ultra-mega-extrovert that will run into random people he knows literally anywhere. Real kind, almost excessively, to his friends.
In recent years, I realize he used to be very stingy with us as kids

Always wanted me to be a (team) sport extrovert. I got really into track as a teen and he'd fight me over it bc it wasn't a team sport.

>>83099446
I don't know him at all, he was essentially a sperm doner. He was my mom's best friend for years and then they fucked and he immediately disappeared.

I know personality, autism and the such is genetic and I've turned into a anti social loner who also just disappears from peoples lives. I want to meet my dad at least once and just ask him why.

I know exactly where he is, state, address, and everything, but I don't know what to say or what to do. I don't have a dad

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>>83099446
My dad is still very involved in my life so "was" isn't a good term here.

But he's generally a good parent NOW and very intelligent and has a six figure job. Sadly, he's a third worlder immigrant so we never really understood each other as i grew up and he basically stayed out of my life completely until i was 18 (as in ignoring me, just watching TV instead of teaching me anything and letting my mother emotionally abuse me)

But in general he's a good person i think, just not a good parent. I despise my mother however (whos a white woman)

>>83099768
a friend's sister also got a kid through a sperm donor.
he's only like 5 or 6 now, so not old enough to know anything, but i'm a little curious to know what his thoughts are once he's older and finds out what he missed out on literally not having a dad.
otherwise, it's interesting how crucial dads are in upbringings, how fucked people are without a good dad

My dad just doesn't like us very much. Never took any pleasure in raising us, teaching us, or even making us do chores. He just worked and came home and watched sports or played his ds. I have NO idea why he had four children if he was so disinterested in parenting. Utterly bizarre and gave me a shitton of mental health problems

>>83099446
left in the morning -> worked in the city, came home at night and sat on the couch and watched tv

Grew up respecting him. Realised he was not as intelligent or wise as I thought he was when I was a kid so I resented him. Resented him for some of the shit he said as well when I was growing up.

Now as an adult I love and respect him but I appreciate he is not as smart as he thinks he is sometimes. I am worried about his cognitive decline as he gets older.

You can learn from older people. They have expertise. However, you have to be aware they have experience of a different world to you; the world they grew up in is not the modern world. Not everything they think will apply.

>>83099788
I'll share my own experience

I didn't realize anything was wrong or different until I was around 10 I guess, time is weird for me so my date and age range are slightly off

I had my granddad but I do remember when I first realized that my dad wasn't in my life. I immediately felt this wave of feeling "unloved" and I guess that feeling has persisted to this day

When my granddad died, I felt a part of me die, that was the second time I felt my brain chemistry change, I felt alone and I still do.

My mom never had the multiple boyfriends coming through, funny enough she basically guilt tripped me for that like see I could have been having so much fun but I took care of you instead.

My brain these days is a jumbled mess but I can't help but think how much different my life would be if I just felt loved, men get their love from their father figures, my mom stopped treating me nice the moment I stopped looking cute.

I want to kill myself but I feel like that would be letting something evil win

>>83099446
I love him but he is a fucking asshole. Constantly speak with hostility and disrespect, wants help or favors after doing so, doesn't acknowledge if he did or said something wrong, doesn't acknowledge if he IS in the wrong, plays victim if he gets a negative reaction from his initial negative behavior, very often refuses to compromise it's either my way or the highway. I could write multiple fucking paragraphs but I think this summaries it. As I said I still love him but his bullshit is only tolerable up to a certain point fuck people who do not admit they crossed a line on something.

>>83099833
>when I first realized that my dad wasn't in my life. I immediately felt this wave of feeling "unloved" and I guess that feeling has persisted to this day
that's understandable. it wouldn't take long into schooling to realise everyone else had something you didn't.
>My mom never had the multiple boyfriends coming through, funny enough she basically guilt tripped me for that like see I could have been having so much fun but I took care of you instead.
the friends' sister i know hasn't had any boyfriends as long as i've known her, she's basically a recluse these days. i really do feel bad for her new son (she has two other kids, adults now... barely)
>men get their love from their father figures
i doubt many want to admit or say it quite like that, but you're right. men raised by single mothers have the worst odds of a good life out of anyone. i don't have a solution, other than to just move somewhere else and forget it. be your own man.

>>83099446
>childhood
abusive
>adolescence
absent
>adulthood
he died when i was 23

good riddance

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>>83099446
>What was your dad like?
I wanna meet that dad!

>>83099735
Ur dad was literally a discord troon how does that feel?

>>83099446
constantly oscillating between being a dumbass goofball and an angry retard

I guess I'm the only anon here with a good dad who cared about me

>>83099735
What a morbid life

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>>83099446
A smart business man that climbed his way to the top, but because our family didn't live up to whatever he imagined to be "the perfect one", he went off and got some other cunt pregnant by the time I was in high-school.
Not like he left us completely in the dust, but his "shows of affection" go only about as far as bank transfers and "once a year visits" can.
He clearly has favorites (my step sister has vacationed in more countries at the age of 5 than I have visited all my life), and I expect to inherit fuck all from his fortune despite being first-born. But overall we're still well off, even as a completely shattered family.
I know many who don't even have both of their parents alive or had ones that were abusive. Sure, we'd get beaten sometimes, but it could've been much, much worse.

>>83100159
>I guess I'm the only anon here with a good dad who cared about me
Albeit a bit nerdy mine >>83099454 is/was good, shit sounded harsher than it should've been

>>83100169
>that child molesting tranny reproduced
>you didn't
looks like you're just more of an evil monster than that anon

nice to me but was always drunk and didn't treat my mother very well

>>83099708
that wholly your problem, nigger

>>83100262
He also fucked a special ed woman so inheriting more of her genes combined with a dad that didn't teach you anything kind of fucks you for life

>>83099446
Dead for the last 7 years
Before that i'd say he was a good man but meek, being disabled o algo

>>83099446
Never knew him, mom murdered him before I was born

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still alive, I love him, wish I saw him more but hes chill, hes a very nice man, very much into his aliens and bigfoot, kinda dale gribble esque and where I get my autism from but when he was my age we couldn't have been more different, pretty much up until he had me at 36 he lived a very interesting life, was involved in a lot of crime during the 80s, has a body count, had a lot of money from this but retired as he kept having the same dream of being assassinated, got some government office job in a file sorting place, met my mother (who herself lived in a hippy cult then started her own mechanics shop before moving back to this town) then they had me, dad had kind of a fucked up back, 2008 happened and they lost theirs jobs through redundancy, mum filed as dads carer and they pretty much became neets and at this point I just consider them retired. Whereas I went to university route, which no one else in the family did and got a stem msc and do bullshit government work, lived a way cooler life than I could, endless dad lore.

>>83099833
>men get their love from their father figures, my mom stopped treating me nice the moment I stopped looking cute.
Relatable, my bitch alcoholic mom every now and then shoves an old photo of me in my face whilst screaming "what happened to this [name]" as if she isn't the singular reason i'm an unlovable jaded retard

>>83099446
Based as fuck.
>speeding constantly and getting fined regularly
>talking shit to anyone he doesn't like
>racist
>threatening people and beating them up
>not beating women, because he would lose every court case. otherwise he would.
>yelling at old people for acting stupid
>benches more than twice his bodyweight
>bask in the sun on a main road
>came to work visibly sick. boss asked what illness he had. told him "testicular cancer". (yes really, not kidding)
>got fired
>sued the large company
>won

>>83100569
I relate anon, it seems like our lives are just dull

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So...it was incels who actually had daddy issues instead of whores all along? Fascinating.

>>83101411
redditors have mommy issues 4chinz is plagued by insecure daddy issues fags

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>>83099446
Worked his entire life away and was barely around. Now that he is around, he is a literal schizo who is slowly losing his mind.