When did you finally understand that "I don't care" were the magic words all along?
>>83100275Whenever I say this to people they get very angry or passive aggressive even when it's not directed at them, and I genuinely say it from a humble honest point rather than an attacking one.
>>83100323That's because the average person is madly in love with their own shit opinions and see it as a personal attack when you don't agree with said dogshit opinions.
>>83100323You're not supposed to say it to others, you're supposed to say it to yourself and learn to embody and live it. You can say it to strangers on 4chan because there are no immediate consequences to that. But most people who talk to you want you to care. Proving that you don't actually care can mean pretending to care.
>>83100275At work, when I was 23.I didn't have to put out every fire in the workplace. People were making excuses all the time so, why couldn't I say 'not my problem' when they were all piling up their workload unto me?I used to look down on people who avoided their obligations, then I realized I shouldn't slave away for a job that wouldn't pay me more for the extra effort.
>>83100275learned it in school when I realized that any "punishment" they use only works if you care and since I didn't there wasn't anything they could do.gotta say that Buddha guy really did have a point, like shit can only effect me because I have attachment to those things but if you stop caring about them then it doesn't matter what happens
>>83100275Not caring is some high level cope. Works well at fucktarded jobs.
