I keep forgetting you're not important to other people. The moment I have a conversation with a woman online that goes longer than 5 or 6 messages of greetings, I think "hey this might be the one girl I will actually become friends with without feeling like I'm being ignored/like they're extremely bored" but then the girl I was talking with just dipped in the middle of the conversation, like they always do. I don't want to seem like a prick if she just didn't find me cool to hang out with so I won't send a DM again, and just wallow in self-hatred for a bit. It's just my luck every single time. I just want to have a friend. Is it in the hopes of one day having a romantic relationship? Yeah, but so what? At least we could get to know each other well first, share anything in common and like the presence of the other. I just want that with a woman.
>>83101663That only happens so frequently nowadays because women perceive attention and connection as a disposable resource. Back in the day there were only a few whores from your community that acted like this, but the internet gave them all devotion on demand, while us men are as lonely as ever. Relationships among those two types of people are as difficult to happen as it is among couples with a 20+ age difference, psychologically speaking
>>83101663Even in a platonic context, so many of these hylic NPCs are animals that are actually incapable of stepping out of the Darwinian box because what else could they pursue other than Darwinian motives like sex, social status, and resources? They are matter and will exist in a manner consistent with it that defends it.
>>83101744That's definitely true for some women, but the same way I don't fit into some stereotypes for men I wish I could find a girl who didn't. I love being pleasantly wrong about a person. They're just so prevalent though because they always become micro-celebrities in whatever capacity they have at their hands, and their words always go "viral" in some way or another, but I know there's someone out there for me who's just my definition of normal.>>83101816I'm sorry but I don't put any trust in blackpill schizoposts like this
>>83101663Why would anyone be important? Right now internet is exact opposite of what it was during my highschool. There is no more going along with the ride, just dick measuring contests all the time. People with no self-reflection projecting their insecurities onto whole world. And worst of all? Now kids look at those narcissistic assholes and think this is the norm. We are all way beyond saving at this point
>>83102036>There is no more going along with the ride, just dick measuring contests all the time.This but especially when it comes to morals. People will actually destroy entire communities over differing opinions. I can understand if it's something about hating an entire group of people or whatever but it will happen over simple disagreements
>>83102075If you're op then I think you cannot consider yourself a loser. And even if not I think you understand what I wrote better than meAnyways, maybe we'll see end of this hyper-individualism on the internet? I keep coming back here just because it's one of last places where I come across random people who sometimes feel like a good old friend
>>83101663idk, a lot of people have stuff to do and find it akward saying "okay i gotta go now". i never take it personally if some one dips mid text conversation. thats why i prefer face to face talking instead.
>>83102135Thank you I guess.>>83102147I understand. It's always easier to blame yourself for the conversation stopping, even if the person does come back later honestly. No matter what I just feel like a failure for not being able to entertain them longer, and at the same time, I don't want to be the human equivalent of dangling keys in front of someone's face. It's just so weird.
>>83101663OP you're probably fine but if you're meeting people off soc this is to be expected especially from women since they're usually just seeking attention
>>83101663People who do this are just terrible people. There's no excuse to ignore someone without explanation.>just wallow in self-hatred for a bitDon't hate yourself over how terrible act. Think of yourself as superior to them.
