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how does one deal with anxious attachment style?
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I want to know too
Ex gf was one and it was a nightmare
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don't allow yourself to develop deeper feelings for people before you fix your self image issues. work on being happy just being by yourself
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>>83103298
i try not to make it other peoples' problem but it still gives me bad fee fees
>>83103301
too late for that lol
> fix your self image issues. work on being happy just being by yourself
how?
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>>83103315
>how?
get hobbies, a passion; find something you are good at or can get good at. then take pride in that. you no longer define your self worth through who you are (your looks, the way you act), you define yourself by what you do. and then you don't need constant validation from others, your self worth is not defined by someone else. you also keep yourself busy and don't overthink your relationships


maybe start fishing that is really cool
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>the strong desire to say i love them every hour
>knowing it's too much and they will leave
>bottle it up and think about them all day
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>>83103369
I'm trying to get into drawing, would that work?
>maybe start fishing that is really cool
eh, there aren't really any fishing spots where i live unfortunately
do you fish?
>>83103405
me too...
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>>83103425
drawing is awesome i do that as well! i get really locked in sometimes and time flies by so fast, best feeling
don't be discouraged if your drawings look bad at first it will get better

no i don't fish but i think i would be cooler if i did
also there are a lot of gay rules about fishing where a live



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