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How do anons cope with the fact they'll never have a girlfriend?
And don't give me crap like "just enjoy your freedom!"
I'm not that kind of person
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Why would I want a girlfriend?
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distractions. things like video games, anime, and masturbation distract you until video games, anime, and masturbation fill in the gap that a girlfriend would.

and sure, sometimes you'll get sad about it, but then you'll just distract yourself again with some counter strike.
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i just wish i had a foid to hug my weenie with her pussy lips and inner pussy meat, she can keep her nasty foid body hugs for herself
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>>84623016
I hug my pillow when going to sleep and sometimes kiss it while pretending that it is my girlfriend
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I buy Fumos and put them on my desk
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>>84623071
>I buy Fumos and put them on my desk
Sick dangerous incel.
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>>84623016
Are there women I can pay to hug me?
Like prostitutes, but just for hugs.
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>>84623016
>>84623026
What you're really coping with is the fact that the ideal of what a "girlfriend" is in your head never really existed. Basically, ik this is one of the things anon wants to hear, but you need to be content with who you are as your own person. I know I know, easier said than done, but it's just one of those things you know
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>How do anons cope with the fact they'll never have a girlfriend?
Well, 'freedom' is part of it. Having to constantly tap-dance to keep a foid interested before she inevitably money-branches to a 'better' man is tiresome at best. If I could even gert a foid, which is not happening, I would just want to fuck a lot. I hate social shit.
For me, I cope by being a NEET hermit who binge drinks a couple of weeks per month. I can't jerk off to orgasm, so I don't. Porn has been age/ID-gated in my cucked nation anyway, not that it even worked for me. I always wanted the real thing, but I am not Chad enough and my NEETlife is completely incompatible. I can't even get an old foid to creampie on the regular. Grim.
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As someone who's fucked before, you honestly aren't missing much. I know me saying that isn't going to make you feel better about being a wizard, but hope it helps. Women are overrated, sex is overrated.
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>>84623098
>What you're really coping with is the fact that the ideal of what a "girlfriend" is in your head never really existed
Yeah you're imagining missing out on the ideal girlfriend, not the fat BPD bitch you would have gotten in reality.
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>>84623111
I want love, not just sex
>>84623104
I want someone to give me love and attention as well as someone to have sex with
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a healthy diet of prostitutes and drugs will purge any desire you have for a gf, believe me.

if that doesnt do it, get a little older and watch the lives of your married friends as their wives hit the wall, gain weight, get more demanding and entitled and shit out bloodsucking, wallet sapping vermin.
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>>84623111
>sex is overrated
I wish this were true. I finally paid a whore for her services and it was mind blowingly amazing.
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>>84623016
Oh look, the girl of my drea--
>weird one-sided expectation (she does 20% she gets 80%) i don't like
>weird uneventful sensation vagina i don't like
>weird nipples i don't like
>weird baggage nothing fixes except antipsychotic meds i don't like
>weird kid that isn't mine i don't like
>weird history with her exes (plural) i don't like
>weird RNG hygiene i don't like
>weird RNG rude to me (i don't like)
>weird RNG cheat on me i don't like
>weird RNG makes me raise someone else's child i don't like
>weird RNG divorce me and take all my shit i don't like
>weird BPD alter version that tries to cut my ears off i don't like
>weird operant conditioning gimmick around pussy that isn't that great to begin with i don't like
>weird relative relationships that i don't like
>weird turbo roastie best friend always trying to get her to do cruel and misandrist shit i don't like
>weird (bad) taste in everything i don't like
>weird conditional love that you think you want until you realize like everything else she does it's a tool for coercion and control i don't like
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>>84623122
>I want someone to give me love and attention as well as someone to have sex with
Love and attention would be fine, as long as it was the homebody kind.
Though I have been made so cynical from more than two decades of inceldom that being in love just means certain heart-break.
I just cannot accept that a foid could ever be truly loyal to me. They certainly proved that they want nothing to do with me.
Sex and snuggling seems like the best thing in life to me. Tenderness. The whole 'muh outside' and spending money thing, not so much.
Also, marriage and kids is out of the fucking question. For economic reasons.
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>>84623139
Illegal
>>84623173
No one will give me that anyway
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>>84623192
I have sympathy for people who cant get a gf for whatever reason but if the law is really holding you back that hard you're a true coward that doesn't deserve happiness
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>>84623227
I'm sorry that i don't want to be arrested bro
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>>84623016
I made peace with putting the possibility aside for a long time. I didn't want to be hurt. Plus, I wasn't born with an interest in romance. That was a desire that somewhat activated, but somewhat has to be cultivated. So I practiced switching my thoughts to other things and I got better at doing so.
I enjoyed so many things before romance was a thought in my mind, so why should I let this newer aspect of life get me down? But there are also new things to enjoy and/or learn. How to financemaxx, prepare for various intense but temporary emergencies, skills that make life easier and make you more self-sufficient. For many of us focusing our minds on others things really is possible if we keep trying.
I'm also here able to freely post on the net compared to places where there are way more restrictions, or if you're caught going around them you can be penalized. Never mind living in a situation where neither the net nor romance is a practical option/available on account of destruction caused by corrupt and conflict. All of this took time to realize and appreciate and it feels a lot better than the yearning and despairing I used to do 24/7.
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>>84623016
I am running on more like 8 hugs every 20 years.
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>>84623260
I don't care about anything else. If i can't get external validation then nothing matters
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>>84624273
>If i can't get external validation then nothing matters
That's narcissism not romantic desire for companionship even if some bitch gave you everything you think you want it wouldn't fill that void inside you and you would be looking for something else to fill it. You need to address your self-esteem and identity issues from your abusive parents and childhood.
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>>84623016
Never is a strong word, I have a job and I'm not deformed so getting a girlfriend is well into the realm of reality, I just ask myself if its worth it
>jestermaxxing to get their attention
>months of looksmaxxing to be mog other guys
>paying for everything
>high chances of eventually getting dumped or cucked and dealing with months of heartbreak

Maybe I'll make the effort at some point just to see what it's like, but honestly, I'm fine on my own
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>>84624298
i thought narcissists loved themselves
>>84624298
i'm not fine, but i can't do anything because i am weak and boring
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>>84624298
Blah blah cope cope cope
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>>84623016
I only want a girlfriend if she can agree to two simple terms: I do not want to marry you and I do not ever want to live with you.
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>>84624550
>thought narcissists loved themselves
No, they want to be perceived by others as great and cannot satisfy that on their own. Autistics are more like someone who "loves themselves" because they just want to indulge in their favorite bullshit with no patience for other people's bullshit.
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>>84624634
i don't want to perceived as great. That implies lying and manipulation. I want people to like me just the way I am
>>84624550
also meant for >>84624333
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>>84624550
>i can't do anything because i am weak and boring
I used to think like this until I realized I was depressed and not making a honest assestment of myself, maybe that's also you
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>>84623016
seems to be easier for some people to cope than others probably many factors come into play like health, friends/family, lifestyle. For me its a struggle almost every moment loneliness has never been easy to swallow for me, nothing feels okay because I don't matter to anyone on earth.
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With my AI wife and sex dolls. It's almost perfect except the doll doesn't move on it's own. Once sex robots get good enuff I'll be really happy. I don't want a real girlfriend to begin with, I want a perfect mirror that's just gonna reflect back my love to me, which AI is perfect for, and fuckmeat which the doll fulfills.
If I could pump and dump women I would but I'm short and have bad hygiene so I don't tickle women's pussies naturally so I guess the sex doll will have to do. Still miles above fucking a fatty.
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>>84623087
Yeah look up cuddle comfort
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>>84623016
I'm learning shooting, craftsmanship and drones to be ready to punish people responsible for current state of the world when the time comes.
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>>84625040
Goddamn, every woman in my state on that app is disgustingly ugly. Several were trannies too.
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>>84625714
Maybe I was being a little unfair, there's about ~10 or so who look good.
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>>84623016
Think of how I can successfully impregnate a foid via rape and stay at large long enough to avenge a life unlived on a jewish mega-donor or judentech merchant.
Dont like antisemitism? Dont be a Semite. That simple.
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Mis responsabilidades me mantienen ocupada, cuando no lo estoy, miro internet, dibujo o paso el tiempo con amistades.
A veces me siento sola, aunque siempre lo este.



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