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What physical features are you attracted to the most in the opposite sex?
Are there certain attributes you prefer(hair color, eye color, etc…)?

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>>32157821
M
>What physical features are you attracted to the most in the opposite sex?
I've recently come to realize that I really like lips. And in that vein, a nice smile will slay me.
>Are there certain attributes you prefer(hair color, eye color, etc…)?
Not really, no. I like a wide variety and don't have any particular preference in those regards. If I currently have a crush on someone I become obsessed with whatever their attributes are, not the other way around.

>>32157821
I flip flop between favorite hair and eye colors, but that's because they're all pretty and I've seen proof of every type. Same with hair styles or body types, Stacies or Beckies doesn't matter. What's important to me is that she avoids the usual traps like bad makeup, bad dye colors, face piercings, lip injections, distasteful ink. More often than not the girl is born with good genetics but she ruins it with ill decisions from social pressure.

>>32157821
M. Bony hands, thin wrists, collarbones. It all drives me wild. I hold the hand of a girl like that I immediately pop a boner.

M, what do you think is the biggest problem facing men today?

F, what do you think is the biggest problem facing women today?

>>32157821
>What physical features are you attracted to the most in the opposite sex?
F
Not individual traits, but I've noticed I like certain traits in groups. If a man has golden blonde hair, I want him to have light eyes and a warm complexion. If a woman has alabaster skin, I want her to have dark hair and eyes.
Those kinds of things

>>32157893
>M, what do you think is the biggest problem facing men today?
Obsession with masculinity. It's the root of so many branches of problems. The reluctance to display any emotion, reluctance to get help with anything, reluctance to show any weakness at all, putting others down or doing other things to get a leg up on them, violent tendencies, feeling worthless if we think our body or height or dick or whatever can't compete with other men, the list goes on. It all comes from that.

>>32157692
Just got back from the gym with a nasty leg pump. Do girls like muscular legs?

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How come girls react like utter subhumans if they find out I don't own a phone? Also why do girls use "weirdo" as an insult, but guys generally don't? Also why should you kill yourself if you're a pathetic non human?

F, what aspects of traditional masculinity do you like? Mercy, Honesty, Duty, etc. Do you like them at all?
>>32157821
M
The stomach and the buttocks, my favorite part of the face is usually the eyelashes. Weirdly I like grabbing a girl's pelvis and squeezing a little bit along the arch. Idk hard to describe it with text but iykyk.
>>32157893
M
In America? Probably our suicide rate.

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>>32157821
The most? Hard to say. I do have a bit of a type. Ideally speaking I like pale skin. Soft hair that looks like it smells good. Not too skinny. Not too heavy. Let's say slightly chubby. Shoulders and a neck I can put my teeth in. Wide hips. A round butt and full thighs to squeeze. A determined look in her eyes. Full, round breasts. Fat cunt. Ultimately the make-or-break is how she carries and presents herself. Sum >parts.

>>32157893
Today? Men are fallling behind in education. Many fall through the cracks. Traditional gender roles are dissappearing. Not a bad thing in and of itself, but men seem to have a hard time adjusting and many sort of check out.

F
>>32157821
white skin, dark and long hair, big arms, a lil chubby
>>32158246
assuming they match the rest of you, yes
>>32158261
>How come girls react like utter subhumans if they find out I don't own a phone?
i don't know what kind of reaction you mean, but it's strange to not own a phone in this day and age
>Also why do girls use "weirdo" as an insult, but guys generally don't?
weird describing a guy = creepy/odd
weird describing a girl = manic pixie dream girl

>>32157692
Girls:
What would be the ideal penis size/girth of your partner?

>>32157893
>M, what do you think is the biggest problem facing men today?
A lack of meaning and purpose. I think most problems men face are either caused by or made worse by this lack of meaning and purpose. If men lack a positive vision of their lives and of the future then they have no reason to strive to be better or to contribute to society.

>>32157893
>M, what do you think is the biggest problem facing men today?
Before all a man needed was a job to get a gf which lead to a family, now that women make their own money and have higher standards we're in this state of limbo.

I think women's problem is that their biological need of wanting to raise a family and take care of their children is in a constant battle over "equality".

>>32158562
I think the issue with equality is that it doesn’t actually exist. Therefore, the only tangible way for women to perform at equality is to “do what men do.” Whatever one thinks of changing gender roles, they haven’t made anyone more equal, especially not when it’s based on “doing whatever a man can do equally good or better.”

>>32158584
Well I think women were heavily pushed into the career meme that having kids makes you unhappy and making CEO Mr. Goldman a million more dollars while you earn pennies in comparison will make you happy.

Women are also stuck in a hard place with everything being so much more expensive now that they need a much higher paying man in order for him to provide for her if she wants to be a home maker while also needing a job in the first place to just live.
Unless you get married at 18 to some 35 year old 6 figure a year guy you have to do something in the meantime and you also have to watch out so you don't get used by some guy who doesn't commit.

Meanwhile average men aren't getting a crumb of pussy anymore and jobs are being outsourced like crazy and thus we have less and less demand for our services and nonlivable earnings in comparison.

>>32158665
Yeah, that’s about the gist of it.

>>32157919
So you think insecurities stemming from "toxic" masculinity?
>>32158246
Yes but muscular ≠ big. Large legs take away from the optics of a wide chest and back.
>>32158261
>How come girls react like utter subhumans if they find out I don't own a phone?
Because most women survive by networking. It's in our genes and has been for hundreds of thousands of years.
>why do girls use "weirdo" as an insult, but guys generally don't?
Because men are the socially awkward ones and are judged by women on their ability to be sociable. Men don't give a shit if a woman is socially awkward, some even prefer it. I get guys chasing me when they find out I'm autistic.
>why should you kill yourself if you're a pathetic non human?
You shouldn't.
>>32158281
>F, what aspects of traditional masculinity do you like?
I like the strength and comfort a good man provides. Men don't have to be emotionless but I think an emotionally mature man knows when and where to be emotional. He should be a safe harbor in a storm for those around him. As well as general masculine traits like confidence, discipline, ambition. I don't like that masculinity is used by other women as a dirty word when most of them try their best to emulate those same traits to be successful but want to rebrand them with shit like "a woman can't be confident?"
>In America? Probably our suicide rate.
Doesn't this seem like putting the cart before the horse?
>>32158292
>men seem to have a hard time adjusting and many sort of check out.
Likely due to a lack of help. Educators are primarily women and boys aren't given the same pathways to success that a lot of girls are. If a woman wants to enter the STEM field, she is incentivized to do so. If a man want to be a nurse, he's put at the end of the line.
>>32158532
Women's opinion on penis size is like men's on vaginas. They may look different, but so long as they get the job done, 99% of people don't care.

Dear sluts, and I mean that endearingly I think y’all are hot, how would you best like to be approached while out cruising a bar?

>>32158737
>So you think insecurities stemming from "toxic" masculinity?
Pretty much, yeah. It's kinda crazy how much that stuff is on our mind. The pressure to be manly. Can even take us to an early grave, from mental or medical issues we're too strong and proud to get checked. Just imagine how many men would sternly refuse a prostate exam, despite the ridiculously high rates of prostate cancer.
Once I started making an active effort to care less about being masculine, it felt like I turned on a cheat code.

>>32158546
>A lack of meaning and purpose.
What do you think can be done to help men?
>>32158562
>Before all a man needed was a job to get a gf which lead to a family
Do you think men can thrive in today's dating world, considering everyone's standards are going up for long-term partners? And do you think men are forgoing families entirely due to that?
>>32158584
I agree. Equality also doesn't factor in the pitfalls of being a man. Women still have their emotional support, don't have to be the pursuer in dating, don't have to register for selective service, etc.
>>32158665
I agree with all of this, but I think the way forward is to balance all of that. Both working but also both maintaining the home and family.
>>32158754
>Can even take us to an early grave, from mental or medical issues we're too strong and proud to get checked.
Is it really a desire to seem masculine that causes this, though? To me, it's always seemed that boys are conditioned to not voice their problems and they become men that don't know how to articulate those problems. Like that man that drove to the hospital after shooting himself in the heart because he didn't want to bother anyone.
>Just imagine how many men would sternly refuse a prostate exam, despite the ridiculously high rates of prostate cancer.
I don't want anyone messing with my butthole either.

>>32158761
>Is it really a desire to seem masculine that causes this, though? To me, it's always seemed that boys are conditioned to not voice their problems
Yes, because that's masculine to us. Be a man, rub some dirt on it, walk it off, etc. Real men don't voice problems, they fix them! It all leads back to society's idea of masculinity and our desire to fit that mold.
>I don't want anyone messing with my butthole either.
Same, but a few minutes of a finger probing my butt sounds better than a potential lifetime of cancer.

>>32158761
>Do you think men can thrive in today's dating world, considering everyone's standards are going up for long-term partners? And do you think men are forgoing families entirely due to that?
Personally I think it's less that the standards are crazy high and more that male and female spaces are increasingly stratified. A lot of women are also ending up alone and some of it is due to standards like education but mostly it's that places like this are male dominated and places where females talk are female dominated.

>What do you think can be done to help men?
This is a very hard question. Right now, a lot of men don't feel a sense of purpose because they don't really have to do anything. You can sit around and jack off and no one will care about you at all. The only way to get value is accomplish things. Setting people on track to accomplish those things isn't easy, but probably starts with a rigorous and flexible education system that prepares people more broadly for whatever subject they have aptitude in.

>>32158761
>What do you think can be done to help men?
I wish I knew. BUT I do know two things that won’t help: Trying to return to a previous status quo or trying to make men more “sensitive” and less masculine. I think neither of these will work because they’re both fragile systems that fail to adapt to change. Those wanting a return to a previous status quo don’t have the vision or drive to build a new, better, less fragile system and prefer to dwell in nostalgia, they’re intellectually lazy and lack imagination. The “sensitive” male on the other hand just sees men as flawed women and eventually retreats into a fantasy world where he doesn’t have to compete or grow or do anything productive or useful, he sacrifices himself for comfort.

If there is an answer it has to be something new, something that isn’t a return to the past or a retreat from reality. Something that recognizes that men and women are fundamentally different yet need to work together.

But a good starting point would be something like having integrity, courage, a removal of unearned guilt and resentment, a love of strength and knowledge, friendships, community, growth, and a goal or challenge that betters oneself and helps the tribe. This is just me spitballing but I do think it would be a good start.

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A question for girls, is a low libido a deal breaker?
I feel or fear that, if I were to be with someone, my low libido may sour things down if she's always in a heat. I heard of men a lot of disgusting things, but I think the best answer can be attained from girls

>>32158452
>assuming they match the rest of you, yes
Good, what’s your preferred muscle group if you don’t mind me asking?

>>32158754
>Just imagine how many men would sternly refuse a prostate exam, despite the ridiculously high rates of prostate cancer
I don't want to live that long, anyway.
I'm glad I'm still not at that age where I'll have to decide to do it or not.

>>32158761
>Do you think men can thrive in today's dating world, considering everyone's standards are going up for long-term partners?
Only the top guys can thrive. Some totally fail, some get some success.
>And do you think men are forgoing families entirely due to that?
I don't think it would be just due to that. The ones who want to have a family will have a family. I have bad genes, so I don't want to have kids.
I also observing women staying single for giving up on men.

>but I think the way forward is to balance all of that. Both working but also both maintaining the home and family
Agree.

>Is it really a desire to seem masculine that causes this, though?
Sometimes it's not really a conscious thing. It's related to proud as well. It's much more common seeing adult women learning to swim than adult men. It's humiliating for men. You see little kids already swimming and you, a grown-up man, can't do it? I feel like proudness is not an issue for women (is it?). They also get more support from everyone.

>I don't want anyone messing with my butthole either
*High-five*

>>32157893
m
men have no purpose anymore. jobs are getting automated, and its basically impossible to find a wife unless you are extremely good looking. most of us are just trying to make it through the day with no plan for the future. I'm one of the lucky ones that has a job so I have a tiny amount of purpose, but since I have no hope of getting a family theres no reason to try

>>32157692
Ladies, I have quite the foot fetish! Can you tell me what's currently the worst smelling pair of shoes you've got right now? :)

Opinion on having sex on 18+ omegle?
We bought some eye masks but wondering how dumb it would be even with that?
Worse case someone records it and posts it somewhere but I'm not that worried about that.

>>32159207
delts & biceps
>>32159039
no, a lot of women have low libido too especially as they get older. just don't date someone who has a high sex drive and expect to be compatible

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>>32157692
Ladies, What are your thoughts on the Brad Pitt rule? I find myself in a similar situation, and this is looming overhead.
(Also this was written in 2008, Doesn't have to be Brad Pitt, but the idea should work with current attractive guy)

>>32159759
Fellow footfag, you give us bad reputation.
t. Footfag who likes clean feet.

>>32159812
Just record a video, post it on a porn site, and post the link here.

>>32158775
>Setting people on track to accomplish those things isn't easy, but probably starts with a rigorous and flexible education system that prepares people more broadly for whatever subject they have aptitude in.
This is notable because studies have shown that women are far better auditory learners, so they learn better from lectures (i.e. most academia) than men do. Men meanwhile learn better from seeing and doing, which is why they perform better in the trades. In what ways could post-secondary education, where men struggle most, incorporate more kinesthetic learning?
>>32159039
>A question for girls, is a low libido a deal breaker?
No, I have a very low libido as well. Also, I love wizard toad.
>>32159267
>Only the top guys can thrive.
I disagree with this. Plenty of mid or even below-average guys are successful with women these days. But it's important to know your audience and how to sell yourself to them.
>It's humiliating for men. You see little kids already swimming and you, a grown-up man, can't do it?
This bothers me that competence in all matters should always be assumed for men. It works inversely because it's a type of learned helplessness by women and unfairly puts men under pressure when a situation arises. If a man let a woman change a flat tire, he'd never hear the end of it.
>>32159759
>Can you tell me what's currently the worst smelling pair of shoes you've got right now?
Gym shoes. Or my canvas shoes because I never wear socks in them.
>>32159859
>What are your thoughts on the Brad Pitt rule?
I wouldn't do it because Brad Pitt beat Angelina Jolie. But generally, it's a stupid notion. Of course you shouldn't chase someone, but if someone feels like they're worth the effort than you should try to continue to develop that relationship. Oftentimes it is a case of just not knowing the person well enough.

What do I need to do to find a wife as an ugly guy? I have a lot to give but never get the chance. How can I signal to women that I would be a good husband even though my face is pretty messed up? I will get plastic surgeries as soon as I can afford them.

>>32160081
I'm a man too, single mid 30s. What really should to do is focus on becoming stronger physically through exercise and focusing on building skillsets that are in demand so you can get a good job. That's what I've done and my life is going really well overall. It took years of suffering and struggling, but I now have a six figure income and am in great shape compared to most people. I'm still single because I find most women repulsive and have rejected the few that have shown interest, but at the same time the few women I've liked have rejected me. Life isn't fair or perfect, but I'm in a better position than I've ever been in. You should strive to get into a position like I'm instead of worrying about women, most of them (as in more than 99%) suck anyway.

>>32160096
I work as a software engineer and I have been lifting for years. Thing is though, women still see me the exact same. I wish I could stop caring about women, but finding a wife is the only way I'll ever have my own family. The only thing keeping me going is the hope that I'll have my own kids one day.

>>32160102
If you don't have a problem with tattoos, piercings, or baggage, and women being subpar, you probably will find a partner. How old are you?

>>32160116
I'm 23. I have basically no standards as long as she is around my age and wants to have kids some day

>>32160118
Kid you got time. If you have no standards after being a software engineer you'll regret it soon. Why the hell do you have no standards as a software engineer who lifts? You should reject lame women like I did (I work in IT too). Being alone forever and dying a virgin with independence and being able to do whatever you want whenever you want beats being with most modern western women.

>>32160127
I have no women to reject, lol. The only thing I want out of life is to have my own family, and thats not happening unless I can find a woman who is fine with an ugly guy.

>>32160118
Wouldn't you feel shitty knowing a girl is with you out of desperation instead of actually wanting to be with -you-? And how do you think such a relationship would affect those kids growing up? What would that teach them?

>>32160005
I like reading your posts. You seem to have a really solid grasp of things

>>32160138
Well, good luck. The motivation of wanting love kept me pushing myself enough and going through hell to the point I made it big and now whether I'm recognized as high value or not to most women is irrelevant. As long as my tax dollars don't go towards anyone's birth control, healthcare, or abortions, I'm good.

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>>32160081
>What do I need to do to find a wife as an ugly guy?
Think of it like RPG stats. Your looks may be 3/10 but you can compensate for it by increasing your other stats. Improve what you can to the best of your ability and be proud knowing you did all you could to better yourself.
>How can I signal to women that I would be a good husband even though my face is pretty messed up?
Looks don't signal to a woman that you'd be a good husband either. It's them getting to know you and your positive traits that will signify whether you'd be a good father and husband.
> I will get plastic surgeries as soon as I can afford them.
It won't make you feel better about yourself. That comes from within. And if you don't love yourself, how can you expect a woman to love you?
>>32160102
>Thing is though, women still see me the exact same.
Because it's not the money or physique, it's the mentality. It bleeds into every aspect of your personality.
"He who says he can, and he who says he cannot, are both usually right."
>>32160118
>I have basically no standards as long as she is around my age and wants to have kids some day
That's a bad idea. Be selective. It will be better in the long run, even if it takes longer to bear fruit.
>>32160141
>instead of actually wanting to be with -you-?
Exactly. Just because you're married and have kids, it doesn't mean you have a family.

>>32160081
>What do I need to do to find a wife as an ugly guy?
probably keep lowering your standards, women are much pickier these days as they don't typically need men to support them anymore

>>32160383
>It won't make you feel better about yourself
Why do normal people say that? You don't know how it is living with a big flaw on your face.
My corrective surgeries made me feel better about myself.

>>32158761
>Do you think men can thrive in today's dating world, considering everyone's standards are going up for long-term partners?
I think the current generation of men are in a growing pains situation with women having so much more independence that it's almost like evolution, and only the men who can make the cut get to reproduce and the rest wither. This also applies to the "I don't need a man" or girls who refuse to go for guys their status and end up alone.
>And do you think men are forgoing families entirely due to that?
I think men are forgoing society, after all what's the point of it all if you're not getting pussy or having a family.
>I think the way forward is to balance all of that. Both working but also both maintaining the home and family.
I think from the boomer age to the zoomer age there is such a massive difference in ideology in such a rapid amount of time that the whole "I work all day to avoid the kids and wife I hate and fuck my secretary" boomer to the zoomer who wants to work at home and help out with the kids needs to be mended.
It doesn't help that at least in America that money is all that matters and work life balance is nonexistent for people grinding to afford things like a house.
There are people with careers who have to uber as a second job because they can't afford living expenses with their spouses income in consideration, having kids and taking care of them is much much more and until income and living expenses are overhauled it will not get better.

>>32160102
>I have been lifting for years
Post body

>>32158737
>Doesn't this seem like putting the cart before the horse?
It depends on how you look at the issue but to generalize the prevolence of male suicide to one single cause would be inmature at best.
I appreciate the response tho.

>>32157692
Why do people not immediately delete their ex from their phone? Delete every form of communication and move on.

>>32160864
As long as they weren't a nutjob or an asshole it's an easy way to get sex.

M questions for F

What do you wish boys would say to you more often?

What is a topic you wish you could talk about more about with guys (but can't due to insecurities, disinterest or social convention ?)

What is a clothing or accessory that you think is underrated or underutilized by men?

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>>32157893
>M, what do you think is the biggest problem facing men today?
I'll give you a trifecta.
1. Lack of purpose; most of us feel utterly lost.
2. The trivialization of masculine virtue/the idea that all expressions of masculinity are inherently toxic.
3. Complete indifference from society towards issues which effect men, on the rare instance they're acknowledged/validated at all.

>>32157919
I feel like, at least in the states, we have the opposite problem, where most men are afraid/ashamed of their masculinity, where the typical white male looks and acts like gif related,
>glasses
>beard
>receding hairline
>DYEL/skinnyfat/obese
>literal manchild
>has no identity beyond being cucked and a need to CONSOOM
there's definitely aspects of what you're talking about, but I feel like most men either accept being socially castrated, or become apex predators. Then of course, you have the ones that snap and kill themselves and/or other people. None of these scenarios are ideal.

>>32158261
Having a phone is extremely unusual, and I can't imagine how you properly function without one. Women likely draw similar conclusions. Also, they tend to want access to guys they're into.

...Why don't you have a phone?

>>32157821
Thigh gaps, wide hips, perky ABCs, tattoos that are either non-existent or extremely well done.

>>32158754
>Once I started making an active effort to care less about being masculine, it felt like I turned on a cheat code
Based. I'd say this applies to consciously deciding to not give a fuck what random people think you "should" be in general.

>>32158761
>To me, it's always seemed that boys are conditioned to not voice their problems
What's more, we're conditioned to think others wouldn't care if we did. The scary part? We're usually right.

That dude who got choked out on the subway is a great example of this; that whole incident was a perfect storm of the ways society fails men.

>>32161079
Not sure what people you connext with. When a relationship ends that's usually the end of it period. Even if it ended on relatively good terms those pains and feelings don't really go away when you keep them around.

>>32158584
This. We're supposed to be different and complementary, not identical and adversarial.

>>32158665
See, I think it's fine if a woman wants to pursue a career. There are women are there who have zero maternal instinct, whose passions lie in their careers or academia, or what have you, and it's awesome we live in a world where they can pursue those passions. What is decidedly not awesome is how women are conditioned to think that's what they *should* want, and that being a good wife, a good mom, or even a good person is somehow beneath them. The problem is, what "should" be, and what is are by no means the same thing, and you see so many women in their early or mid 30s, or god forbid, older, who wake up one day and realize the life they live is a life they never wanted, and that it may be far too late, practically, biologically, or both, to do anything about it.

I think everyone, relatively early in life, should spend some time abroad, disconnected from it all to figure out what truly matters to them, so they can act on it. Ya know, have a hand on the wheel, and not wake up one day and say "how did I get here, and where did my life go?"

>>32159859
I'm a dude, but this is a solid fucking rule. The only amendments I'd make is that I wouldn't necessarily leave it to the girl to suggest an alternative time; it's a very good sign if she does, but women are conditioned to leave that to us, *and* if she gives you two excuses back to back, you can safely write her off as a prospect. Also, depending on the girl (for example, if you know that she struggles with social anxiety she could be interested, but just finds the idea of leaving the house overwhelming) a second pass may be acceptable.

In general, though, I stand by the rule; people make time for the things and people who matter to them. If she can't find the time, you don't matter.

I’ve never had a conversation with a woman that wasn’t a family member or worked related, how bad is it?
I’m 24

>>32157692
Dear femlings, what is your fave male power fantasy video game, or game in general? What do girls do in the playground as kids? sometimes we’d make up stories or just play tag. Was curious if different. I assume the kids now just on their phone at lunch. The horror.

>>32160005
>Brad Pitt beat Angelina Jolie
Only according to accusations made by Angelina, who is a legitimate crazy person, who has cause to besmirch his reputation. I feel confident in saying Aldo Raine ain't do that shit. Earlier, you asked about problems facing men today, and a really big one is this trend, this idea of BELIEVE WOMEN... just because they're women. That shit is dangerous. If you need a recent example of why that shit is dangerous, see: Matt Araiza.

>if someone feels like they're worth the effort you should try to continue to develop that relationship
I find it's more productive to pursue other relationships, sending the message that you have options and that your time, and attention, is valuable. This is how one can get women to do the chasing.

>>32160383
>Think of it like RPG stats
So roll wizard and max intelligence? I mean you're not wrong.
>Looks don't signal to a woman that you'd be a good husband
Eh... they kind of do though, "your looks are your personality." There are numerous studies that prove attractive people just plain do better in life, and that the same behavior can be interpreted in negative or positive ways, depending on how attractive the person is that's performing the behavior. Ex: Ugly men are arrogant, attractive men are confident.

HAVING SAID ALL OF THAT...
>"He who says he can, and he who says he cannot, are both usually right"
There are few things more true than this, and the idea that just because one was born further from the summit is justification to not bother climbing the mountain is pure cope.

>>32161079
This, which is why if someone keeps an ex around I limit things to being strictly casual. Aside from obvious concerns, being able to let things (and people) go is important to me.

Ladies:
1.) Fisting. Ever tried it? Would you?
2.) Would you let your husband piss in your mouth in the shower?
3.) Would you let your husband brainwash you into getting big fake bimbo tits?

How do women cope with the fact that the vagina is far less aesthetically appealing than the penis?

Nobody is turned on by looking at a vagina but it’s scientifically proven that even heterosexual men are aroused when they see an erect penis.

Seriously, how do you come back from something like that?

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>>32162287
The heck are you talking about, anon? I find vaginas extremely aesthetically pleasing, moreso than boobs or butts or any of the other typical "erotic" body parts. And the only penis I like is mine.

>>32162293
Foid cope

>>32162301
Sorry, I don't speak buzzwords.

>>32162287
There are alluring vulvas. But you are correct that only men who can access their suppressed animalistic urges can be aroused by the mere sight of an ugly vulva. Aesthetics are a modern concept. In caveman times any woman you could dick was worth dicking. Any vulva would be exciting because that meant the possibility of reproduction, your whole entire purpose in life. Now that we have evolved and created the concept of aesthetics, beauty, allure, radiance, mystique, etc, then all of a sudden a really ugly vulva is just kind of repulsive. And truly aesthetic vulvas are few and far between. Whereas a truly ugly penis is actually a rarity, and usually due to botched circumcision or something of that nature.

Ladies:
If your lover/husband wanted to pay for you to get a vaginoplasty and/or complete labia minora removal would you do it?

>>32162287
M, I don’t think labia are meant to be pretty, and quite honestly the uglier ones turn me on more, it feels intimate that she’d trust you enough to show it off, and demonstrates self confidence which I like. Most of them have the aesthetics of dough balls anyway, if they were on show they’d likely evolve to be prettier.

>>32157893
>biggest problem facing men today
I'm not sure honestly. I feel like my own experiences aren't reflective of men as a whole. I look at the parts of my life where I feel fulfilled and I don't understand why other men fail to achieve the same. Why do you need someone else to give you purpose in life? Why can't you make your own meaning? Why don't you become someone you can be proud of? Is it weakness? Is it a lack of self awareness? Maybe that's it but then that's not really specific to men. Humanity as a whole is severely lacking in self awareness, in the ability to reflect critically upon oneself. I really don't get it, why was I able to figure it out?

>>32162227
1. An exbf tried it once but it didn't work. It's not something I want to try again.
2. Yes, if he were my husband.
3. No, I don't like bimbofication. Sometimes I wish my breasts were bigger and think about getting implants, but I wouldn't want them to look fake or be too big.

>>32162287
Lots of women have beautiful or cute vaginas. Mine is ugly, it's just something I have to accept. I do Kegels regularly and I'm meticulous about keeping myself clean and groomed. I don't expect anyone to love how I look down there, I just hope it's not not a complete turn-off.

>>32162310
I've thought about it a lot, but I'm too afraid of losing sensitivity. I'm fairly sure it wouldn't make me look good anyways, just less ugly. It would honestly be hurtful if my future husband wanted me to get surgery. I'd hope he could accept me, even with all my flaws.

>>32161756
>What do you wish boys would say to you more often?
do you mean from a relationship perspective or in general?
>What is a topic you wish you could talk about more about with guys (but can't due to insecurities, disinterest or social convention?)
my job, i feel like no one gives a shit but it's hard not to talk about something i spend 40+ hours doing lol
>What is a clothing or accessory that you think is underrated or underutilized by men?
i'm not sure if it counts as an accessory, but i think nose rings (not septums, the ones on your nostril) make a guy 10x hotter

>>32162186
>What do girls do in the playground as kids?
used to jump rope, play red light green light, tell "scary" stories, and we had a lot of made up scenarios based on what was popular at the time (e.g. would pretend to be pokemon/pokemon trainers or neopets)

>>32162227
no to everything, though i'd consider fake tits if they WEREN'T big and fake looking

>>32162287
>How do women cope with the fact that the vagina is far less aesthetically appealing than the penis?
i think vaginas just have a lot more deviance in their appearance than cocks, there are definitely some pretty pussies out there

>Nobody is turned on by looking at a vagina but it’s scientifically proven that even heterosexual men are aroused when they see an erect penis.
that's because everyone's a little gay

>Seriously, how do you come back from something like that?
by not caring

>>32162310
>If your lover/husband wanted to pay for you to get a vaginoplasty and/or complete labia minora removal would you do it?
if i had roast beef curtains and it was a legitimate insecurity that i couldn't cope with then yes
in my current state, not at all

>>32157821
>What physical features are you attracted to the most in the opposite sex?
Male.
A nice arse, for sure; although my benchmark for attraction is generally "no fat chicks". I also like quite prominent cheekbones.
>Are there certain attributes you prefer(hair color, eye color, etc…)?
I tend to like a lot of different things, most of them quite antithetical.

>>32157893
Most certainly the loneliness epidemic, and the constant attempt to make genuine male bonding seem homoerotic at every turn.

>>32159812
Can't take the highground, as I'm secretly still into webcam stuff.

>>32159859
Not a woman, but in my experience, it's definitely a decent measure of how interested she is.

>>32157821
Femoid answering moid questions
>physical features I like
Blond or light brown hair, light eyes, big smile, someone who looks very "boyish". Not feminine but masculine in a youthful way. My height is 165 cms and my ideal boyfriend would be around 175-180 cms
>>32157893
For the average woman it is probably the idea of "having it all" because you cannot combine family and career if your man won't do anything around the house or take care of his children
>>32159859
You might be overthinking or she is trying to let you down easy
>>32161756
I like it when men wear boots in Winter. Sneakers when it is snowing looks ridiculous. I think some men can also pull of jewelry quite well
>>32162174
Join or a club or something anon
>>32162186
I was too autistic to play with other kids often but they played house or they imagined themselves as Totally Spies characters or Winx Club characters. Sometimes we would also play with the whole class
>>32162227
Kys coomer
>>32162287
Anon you can be gay without being misogynistic

>>32162478
>I'm too afraid of losing sensitivity

Do the labia minora really have that many nerve endings? Male and female junk form from the same things. Clits are tiny dicks. Clit hoods are foreskins. Ovaries are testicles. And labia minora are scrotums. And the scrotum has basically zero erotic sensitivity at all. I've seen photos of vulvas after complete labia minora removal and they looked fantastic. I don't really understand the point of the labia minora. They seem unnecessary.

I know some of you americans are so used to the idea of cutting off parts of people's genitalia due to circumcision,but it is not fucking good or healthy even if your society has normalized it. Don't push it on women because it's more "aesthetic" or some bullshit, and stop doing it to your male kids while you're at it.

>>32162005
Think I’m going to steal that trifecta. You did a good job explaining it in a succinct and readable way.

In 2011, at the suggestion of mutual aqcuantinces, I met a girl who was waiting for the one. After meeting me, she seemed to really like me, and being around her was fun. But then came the time, after several dates, when we had to make out. She was physically one of the most unremarkable women I've ever seen. She wasn't obese or anything, but had 0 curves or lines, basically had the body of a post menopausal woman in her 20s, and that sucked. She asked, after making out, if we were a couple. I told her we were not because I was moving soon (not a lie, but if I liked her I wouldn't have cared and done anything to stay with her) and we broke up. Women today are even worse, I'm in my mid 30s and have a six figure income and approaching women is pretty much a no. I don't know how to fix this.

>>32162622
>approaching women is pretty much a no
Wrong.
>I don't know how to fix this.
Get rid of the above mentality.
>long story about the one that got away
Honestly anon, if she'd gotten you hot you would've stuck with her despite her body. You're just selectively remembering shit in order to bully yourself now.

>>32162508
Mine are pretty sensitive, enough that it would be a real loss to me if labioplasty did result in reduced sensitivity. I don't think the after photos I've seen look fantastic, but maybe I haven't seen enough. They're definitely unnecessary, I don't know why some of us end up with them although sometimes they can look really cute.

>>32162522
I do agree it's wrong to trim off any part of a child's body, without legitimate medical reason. Adults can make that choice for themselves though.

>>32162622
Is that you don't find women attractive, or you don't want to initiate?

>>32162658
>Approaching women is a no Wrong.
I've tried at church. I literally starting talking to one girl I kind of like, turns out she wasn't into me and the entire young congregation went from integrated men and women to women went to the opposite side of the room from where I was and whenI tried to talk to them they'd quickly migrate to the other side of the room. I never said anything bad or perverted, just tried to get to know maybe one of them and I guess she felt uncomfortable. Clearly there is something wrong, at least among some women, approaching one of them.

>If she'd been hot you'd have stuck with her.

Duh, but she wasn't attractive so I lost interest.

Hey women, are you aware that AI will replace you in every job you can possibly do online and also that we're taking all of your rights away in the future? Just wanted to let you know. Enjoy being IRL whores and maids for money because its the only work you'll be able to do. Men are not going to bother marrying your asses either, its a bad deal for us. You've been exploiting men's sympathy for hundreds of years while you sit on your assses living easy lives, enjoy your slavery, or else.

>>32162665
Read this>>32162673

>>32162673
Okay. You went to church and struck out with a girl and everyone thinks you're just pushing to get married. That's pretty fucking normal bro. You weren't supposed to approach it that way. You were supposed just to socialize and let the chips fall where they may.

>>32162287
How do you cope with being gay?

>>32162699
The chips fell and I wasn't satisfied. I want the woman I fell for in 2005 (as she was then, not as she is now, she sucks now but set a standard then that no woman has been able to even come close to).

Seriously I love /soc/ and that I can vent this here. Fuck western women, you all suck.

>>32162665
Sure, adults can make that choice, but pushing your partner to do it because you think it might look nicer is just complete absurdist clown behavior. It's the equivalent of a woman wanting a guy to get circumcised because it's more "aesthetic" to have had part of yourself cut off. That kind of thinking just drives me up a fucking wall.
Then again, I don't really understand the issue people seem to have with womens genitals itt in the first place. Yeah, labial folds exist, they're normal. When I see them attached to a woman I like, I don't spend a single second thinking about if they look too flabby or some nonsense, I'm too busy being aroused by the fact that said woman I like just got naked for me.

femanons how do i meet girls as a single dad

>>32162678
I'm not sure you have a very good grasp of history, anon. It's hard to say what the future will bring with AI coming down the tubes, but it will affect men and women both.

>>32162673
>>32162684
Are there any volunteer opportunities or other activities you can do through your church? That might offer a more organic way to get to know some girls over time.

>>32162764
Oh, I agree it's wrong to try and push a partner into doing it. Even though I don't like the way mine look, it's so deeply personal. I'd feel rejected if my bf or husband seriously wanted me to get surgery.

>>32162814
I imagine the same you'd meet girls if you weren't a single dad. Through family and friends, work, social events, volunteering, dating apps.

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Requesting female opinion about this thread mine:
https://archived.moe/adv/thread/28888158/
Do you girls do the same with your discord friends?

>>32162352
>and quite honestly the uglier ones turn me on more, it feels intimate that she’d trust you enough to show it off
lol

>>32162478
>2. Yes, if he were my husband
Eww...

>>32162497
>but i think nose rings (not septums, the ones on your nostril)
Disgusting.

>>32162622
>I don't know how to fix this.
Why would you?

>>32163304
NAG but I regularly have this happen with girls I pick up online. When they ask, I just tell them my first name and immediately ask for theirs. Like:
>Girl: I have a weird question. What's your real name?
>Me [immediately]: Oh, I'm Anon! How about you?
>Her: I like that name. I'm Femanon. I hate it.
>Me: Why? I think it sounds pretty.
In one case I even (eventually) got her last name by "carelessly" dropping mine.
>Me: [telling a story about something in college] And then he was like, "Mr. Anon, did you read the assignment?" [continues telling story]
>Her [doesn't say anything about the name drop]
>[a week passes]
>Me: [talking about family from the old country] Their last name is Anonkowitz.
>Her: Oh I know that name, people with that name are usually from the Anon prefecture of A city.
>Me: Wow I never knew that. Can you tell that kind of thing from other last names?
>Her: Oh like mine, Anonski, they're usually from the Femanon prefecture of Z city.

The trick is to be confident and not be a panicky pussy about getting your name dropped, and also to just do it naturally. Just don't be a degenerate and behave with her as though you know each other IRL and there's no real risk associated with talking to each other.

Alternatively you can be like, "Please don't take this personally but it's my policy not to give out my IRL name so soon. I got burned doing that before. When we know each other better no problem. You aren't overstepping any bounds by asking, btw; I'm just extra cautious now."

Either way it's fine. And yeah if some random girl disappears after a convo like that she's pretty weird and it probably wasn't going to happen anyway.

>>32163358
i told her my real name but she didn't want do the same and we keep talking.
these last weeks she has feel a bit depressed so i sent her a gift card in oder she can buy a plushie in amazon

>>32163376
Honestly that's pretty bullshit. I don't think I'd keep fucking around with her after playing games like that.

>>32163376
>sending a stranger money
Are we watching this man get catfished/exploited in real time?

>>32162005
i always feel like i am being punished for trying to be nice to guys like the pic. i’ll never be comfortable getting to know anyone like him ever again, because when it goes to shit, it ends up with me feeling like a loser for even trying.

Girls. Do any of you like guys with smooth faces and no facial hair? Most of my hair went into my head that I like to keep long. I see lots of couples around my age where the guy almost always has facial hair. I even dated someone last year who likes hairy guys so what gives?

>>32163525
Most guys have facial hair because they're chinlets.

>>32163384
>>32163434
She didn't request anything. It was something i purpose to her because we shared dense stuff

>>32162005
Receding hair/balding is a very masculine trait my dude, a natural part of being a man that most men will face at some point in their life, It's a symbol of adulthood and maturity. fear and avoidance of it in modern society is a symptom of the delayed adolesence problem as well as modern obsession with peacocking, and ties into point #2 of your listed problems facing men in the modern era.

>>32163571
Wait what? Your OP in the other thread said SHE asked YOU for your name.

>>32163525
I prefer beards than clean shaven x

>>32163376
>so i sent her a gift card in oder she can buy a plushie in amazon
You're too dumb for this world, anon.

>>32164057
Really? I always hear girls complaining about beards, even when their bfs have beards.

>>32157692
M or F
please be subjective to your own likings and experiences - do you generally prefer partners with larger cocks?

>>32157692
Both genders,
how many kids do you want, if any?

>>32164320
Zero.

Opinion on having sex/fooling around on 18+ omegle?
We bought some eye masks and would use them or mouth masks but wondering how dumb it would be even with that?
Worse case someone records it and posts it somewhere but I'm not that worried about that.

>>32162582
You're welcome, that's kind of my thing.
>>32163459
How do you mean?
>>32163665
Literally none of the men in my family are bald, and women almost universally prefer a full head of hair over a bald one. That said, plenty of men pull off the bald look, and plenty more men could if they'd accept their baldness, but it feels like for every guy who owns it and moves on there's 10 who try dumb shit like hatfishing or letting their hairline's last stand play out, or God forbid... the dreaded combover.

>>32163567
Correct. Facial hair is almost always hiding a weak chin, or too many chins.

>>32164182
I forget where I heard or read it, but I believe there was a study showing there's a correlation between how common beards are and how favorable women tend to react to them; the less men who have beards, the better. It makes sense to me. And MUH STATISTICS aside, I think it's fair to say the reason so many women are experiencing "beard fatigue" is because beards have become part of the default onions manbaby look.

Besides, the real cheat code is shaped stubble.

>>32164320
3 to 4.

>>32163571
There's a very good chance you're not the only guy sending her stuff.

>>32164034
>>32164706
I meant she didn't request for any gift or money. It was something i wanted give to her. She has never said stuff like "oh babe im struggling with paying the bills, i need money :3"

>>32163525
Absolutely, I tend to prefer when men are clean shaven.

>>32164201
Female. No, penis size is pretty much the last thing I think about when it comes to desirable traits in a partner. Sexual compatibility is far more important.

>>32164320
I would love to have 3-5

>>32164601
I'm not into exhibitionism so I can't really comment, but isn't it possible there could be minors on there? If you really feel the need to show off make sure it's on a platform where it's really adults only who are expecting to see that kind of thing.

>>32164320
Man
I had someone who I loved really dearly, and I wouldn't have minded to have seven with her.
BUT, looking back at it, and given that sometimes things don't go as expected, I think 3 or 4 might just be enough

>>32164320
As many as I can support, really. But I'd like at least two.

>>32163220
>Are there any volunteer opportunities

Only older or unattractive women volunteer I've found, the few that are attractive that volunteer are already in relationships. I find my time volunteering is best spent helping people one on one so they improve themselves and not in a group, I've helped a lot of people that way and I really am glad I'm able to make a difference, but no attractive young woman seems to want me to help them one on one.

>>32162814
Not a girl but what happened with your wife? I dont want think that she passed away, if that's the case im sorry.

>>32164182
>You're too dumb for this world, anon.
See >>32165152

>>32165325
There is an adult section where you have to confirm you're 18+.
Maybe an adult chat room where I can share my cam?

>>32163220
i work in trades lol theres no women.

>>32164320
M, none. It's too much work and I have bad genes.

>>32165325
>Absolutely, I tend to prefer when men are clean shaven
What about laser hair removal? Is that too much?

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>>32160864
>Why do people not immediately delete their ex from their phone?
Because some people are adults and can end things amicably.
>>32161756
>What do you wish boys would say to you more often?
"You're 100% right and always are and could probably do a sick kickflip without even really trying."
>What is a topic you wish you could talk about more about with guys (but can't due to insecurities, disinterest or social convention ?)
Sex and women's issues.
>What is a clothing or accessory that you think is underrated or underutilized by men?
Jewelry. Unfortunately men have the most garish and gaudy taste imaginable and think cuban chains and skull rings look good/cool.
>>32162186
>what is your fave male power fantasy video game, or game in general?
Probably either Force Unleashed or Doom Eternal (soundtrack is kino). I also like homebrews and fan expansions to DnD that let me be OP af.
>What do girls do in the playground as kids?
Play pretend and gossip. I was too cool and autistic for that, so I'd sit in the library to read or look at the Pokemon cards I stole from Walmart. They had this cool tunnel/tent thing in the big fake tree in the center of the library that I basically had to myself.
>>32162215
>Only according to accusations made by Angelina
And the FBI, who investigated it.
>This is how one can get women to do the chasing.
Don't chase or be chased. That's immature behavior for immature people.
>>32162227
I thought this said fishing and I got so excited to answer.
>>32162287
>How do women cope with the fact that the vagina is far less aesthetically appealing than the penis?
I'd argue this anecdotally because 95% of the penises I've seen have been ugly, while at least half of the vaginas I've seen look appealing.
>scientifically proven
Pic related
>>32162522
It's the women that are perpetuating it.
>>32162622
>and have a six figure income and approaching women is pretty much a no
Because you think your biggest selling point is your bank account.

>>32162678
AI can't do my job
>>32162703
GOT'EEM
>>32162814
>femanons how do i meet girls as a single dad
Look for single moms. They're incredibly common these days. Though this depends if you're a bum ass single dad or the primary caretaker single dad.
>>32163304
>Do you girls do the same with your discord friends?
I do, but that's due to trust issues and fear of consequences for the things I say on the internet when I think I'm anonymous. Also, I'm ashamed to know where that picture is from.
>>32163525
As long as they have a good jawline.
>>32164201
>do you generally prefer partners with larger cocks?
I literally do not give a shit
>>32164320
>how many kids do you want, if any?
2-3 Kids are like horses. They're expensive and you can't have just one.

>>32165645
>It's the women that are perpetuating it.
Really? What the fuck, women.

>>32165325
>Sexual compatibility is far more important
What is sexual compatibility?

>>32164201
F, and I'd say no. It can be nice, but it can also be frustrating.
>>32164320
I've thought about before and I still feel like I'd want two ideally, three max.

>>32164320
If we had the means and capability to start now I'd be down for 4 but by the time we finish school and get settled, maybe 3?

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>>32165664
>I do, but that's due to trust issues and fear of consequences for the things I say on the internet when I think I'm anonymous.

What advice you give me with this discord girl? Here an update:

>>32163376
>>32165152
Do you think im a simp/loser for give her this gift?

>Also, I'm ashamed to know where that picture is from.
I have all the episodes but i never find the scene when this guy kick the shit out of her.

Women, do you have a older brother?
If not, do you wish you did?

>>32165990
OH and uh for those who do, do you like your older brother?

>>32165664
im the primary caregiver of my children. its just so hard to go out and meet anyone cause they are so young. just wondering if there is some specific thing i need to do.

>>32165373
she couldnt handle life as a mom and abandoned us she has mental issues though. im not even mad at her i more feel sorry for her and wish for her to get better.

>>32166000
>>32165999
checked
Also is she paying child support?

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>>32165875
>Do you think im a simp/loser for give her this gift?
No, but relationships are about give and take, not just giving or taking. If you choose to do so while fully aware of the consequences, that's on you, but you're ultimately playing yourself by investing more into a relationship than the other party is willing to reciprocate
>I have all the episodes but i never find the scene when this guy kick the shit out of her.
wdym?
>>32165990
>Women, do you have a older brother?
I have two and I wish I didn't have any.
>>32165999
Frequent places with single moms. Parks, PTA meetings, dating apps, your kids' friend's birthday party. I'm not going to lie to you, your options are limited since your kids live with you. So if you're looking for a woman to play step-mom, you're going to have to play step-dad if you're wanting anyone halfway decent.

>>32166006
nah lol
>>32166048
im okay with that. I just am in that phase where i feel like nobody will ever love me again. I love kids my boys are crazy for dada haha. i wouldnt mind a single mom, as long as that she isnt the reason she is single i cant handle more crazy. I am also open to having more children if a future wife wanted kids of her own.

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>>32166048
>No, but relationships are about give and take, not just giving or taking. If you choose to do so while fully aware of the consequences, that's on you, but you're ultimately playing yourself by investing more into a relationship than the other party is willing to reciprocate

Thank you for you advice. So tell me, after read the thread i posted(https://archived.moe/adv/thread/28888158/), tell me, do you think she is interested on me or im just seeing things that doesn't exist. Why she wanted feel closer and after that say that im just a random guy to her?

Any advice? What you girls like?

>wdym?
pic related.

>>32157692
I’m about to hit the gym. It’s arm day

>>32167190
Please do not hit the gym, violence is wrong.

>>32167202
Ok hippie

>>32163358
Online dating seems so gay.
Do you even have a chance at anything better than a male manipulator or a BPD chick?

>>32167190
Only faggot zoomers have an arm day.

>>32167348
Simply do not care nor did ask

>>32167347
As someone who fucks with it occasionally, it's mostly a cope for being too much of a pussy to go for women IRL.

>>32165645
>you think your biggest selling point is your bank account

I don't lead with that. Honestly I used to do a lot, and women didn't care. Everything from animation, scuba diving, volunteering, being part of a church group (this was 15ish years ago), I had the problems then, they're even worse now. I learned that having hobbies and doing interesting things means nothing to most attractive women, though neither does earning six figures. I'm better off where I'm at.

>>32165990
I have two older brothers.

>>32165996
I like them both but I tell my oldest brother’s Top Gun story at every opportunity. In high school, my brother’s girlfriend at the time’s parents had a house with a big basement and he’d go over there and they’d get up to things down there. Her parents didn’t know about that and liked him, and he had dated her for a long time and was over there a lot, so basically they let him come and go as he pleased. One night they were down there and the movie Top Gun was on TV while she was going down on him. Her older brother started walking down to the basement for something, and they heard him on the stairs, which was another reason they went down there for that. They were both completely naked and rather than try to get dressed, she panicked, grabbed her clothes, and ran into a closet to hide, leaving him sitting there completely naked and watching Top Gun. Her older brother walked into the basement and saw my brother sitting there completely naked, with a glistening hard on, as the shirtless jean shorts volleyball scene played. Her brother gave him a very weird look, turned without a word, and walked out of the basement.

>>32157821
Male
I love women's legs so much.

>>32164320
Male.
2 at a minimum, ideally 3-4.

>>32165645
>some people are adults and can end things amicably
I can end things amicably, emphasis on *end* things. I just struggle to think of a scenario where a relationship implodes, yet a friendship makes sense.
>"You're 100% right and always are
This isn't cute or endearing, just an FYI on behalf of literally every man, ever. Same goes for just assuming we're ok with you eating off our plate or using our lap as a footrest.
>and could probably do a sick kickflip without even really trying."
You totally could. Like a day or two of genuine practice, tops. You should believe in yourself, as I believe in you.
>Sex and women's issues
If we seem disinterested it's only because your issues aren't exactly hurting for attention, or real estate in the public consciousness.
>men have the most garish and gaudy taste imaginable
When you're right, you're right. Jewelry is only the tip of the iceberg, tattoos, how to dress, how to choose and wear a scent. The amount of men who have never seen a tailor legitimately baffles me.
>And the FBI, who investigated it
Really? Source? I did a quick perusal and all I saw from the investigation was that they determined he *didn't* harm his kids. This doesn't mean I necessarily believe it (I have precious little faith in or reverence for, government agencies) but I respect you nonetheless for having a higher burden of proof than an accusation in and of itself.
>Don't chase
That's why I suggest against the "put effort in" the invitation is the effort, it needs to be reciprocated or ya move on, is all I'm saying.
>I got so excited to answer
Fuck it, answer; I caught enough mackerel (Spaniards) this morning to eat for a week.
>Pic related
I'll take "villains" who did nothing wrong, for $800.

>>32167658
What, exactly, are you looking for in a woman? I can probably tell you where to find her.

>>32157692
What language do you want to learn?

M, I’d love to learn German

>>32168466
None really. Japanese would be cool in theory, but I've heard a pain to learn.

>>32168466
I'd love to learn a bunch of different languages. Spanish, Italian, German, Russian, Japanese, etc.

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>>32168466
Svenksa(Swedish) just to feel closer to a girl that needs a lot love.

What to make of this with my friends gf?

Basically a group of like 6 of us are out of town. We were walking somewhere and my friends wanted me to lead. Then for some reason the gf came and walked with me, even trying to speed the two of us to put distance between us and the others. (She claimed it was to hopefully speed them up, but after they just kinda stayed lagging she continued.)

Then we all got food and what not and as we were leaving I stood up and she just kinda stood weirdly close to me. Plus the one time she was staring towards me (though thos could have been random)

On the walk back she did the exact same thing with us outpacing the rest. Plus she laughed at a horribly dumb joke

>>32168647
I probably wouldn't make anything of it yet. That's barely enough to suggest she liked you even if she wasn't dating someone else.

>>32165990
No. And no, I'm very happy that I have a younger brother and wouldn't want it any other way. Even if he isn't happy about it.

>>32168466
M
German
>YJK
Italian

>>32164320
F. One son, and as many daughters as it takes before I get that one son.

>>32168974
>as many daughters as it takes
Even if you end up being an Octomom?

>>32166247
>pic related.
Yes, but you said you can never find it. I don't know what you mean by that.
>>32167202
This. Turn the other cheek and let the gym hit you.
>>32167347
Yes, you can get a fat ugly 40 year old man who thinks women don't want him because he's under 6' or a Histrionic girl.
>>32167348
>Only faggot zoomers have an arm day.
This. Upper body day should hit your whole upper body, not just your biceps.
>>32168056
>Her brother gave him a very weird look, turned without a word, and walked out of the basement.
Why didn't the brother join in? Is he gay?
>>32168434
>I just struggle to think of a scenario where a relationship implodes
There are obligations within a relationship that aren't there in a friendship. And a relationship doesn't have to implode for you to end it. Sometimes you realize you're not right for each other or there are serious obstacles that make it unsustainable.
>If we seem disinterested it's only because your issues aren't exactly hurting for attention
I agree about a lot of it being overblown but there are things we are socially programmed to deem as acceptable from a young age that men may understand but can never fully comprehend. The same goes for women with men. I understand that men are often seen as predatory but I don't know the feeling of being seen with a child and assumed to be a monster.
>Really? Source?
There were pictures in the report of wounds she sustained during the plane ride and the report said he was said one of his kids looked like a school shooter, poured a beer on Angelina while she was sleeping, and alleged that he choked one of the children and struck another one. That his kids want nothing to do with him is very telling.
>>32168466
I've been learning German for the past year because I'm going there next month. I'd like to learn Japanese. It's been a dream of mine to go there but I want to fully experience it too, not like a tourist.

>>32168466
I learned some Japanese before going there on a trip. I'm going to be going on a trip to Tahiti with my girl next month so I should learn some French before then. In terms of actual use in my life, I should learn Spanish

>>32165722
Similar tastes in what you like in sex, similar libido, actually finding each other attractive in the bedroom

>>32164201
I prefer partners who do not have cocks nor have they ever had any cocks

>>32157821
I prefer brunettes, lighter complexion, I like full, natural lips. As far as body goes, as long as they aren't stick skinny or super fat I could potentially find them attractive depending on their personality/flirtiness. At a baseline though I like bigger tits and ass

>>32162287
You might just be gay dude. I've never liked the look of a dick but before I became sexually active I wasn't particularly turned on by the sight of a vagina. Now though it's different, I've probably just come to associate vaginas with sex so they are arousing to me. Honestly as long as it's not extreme in some way, all vaginas kinda look the same to me but I've only really seen one vagina in person

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>>32157821

M

I love women with well-developed legs, especially calves and thick thighs.

>>32157893

Absence of philosophy/meaningful rolemodels.

State gender, what are your favorite sexual positions and why?

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>>32169677
M
Big fan of cowgirl, or similar positions where she's on top. Aside from providing a great view, it gives a lot of control to the girl, which would ease my worries about hurting her.

>>32169677
M, it depends on our mood. Prone bone is great, I think it's easier for both of us to cum like that and it makes her feel small and makes me feel more dominant. It's easy in this position for me to bite her ear or neck too. Doggy is great because I have a lot of control and can use the full length of my dick, I can slap her ass, pull her hair, put a leash on her. I also like grabbing both of her wrists and fucking her from behind like that so she's fully depending on me to keep her from falling over. Missionary is good because it's easy to kiss, it's intimate, overall it's the most lovey dovey one in my mind. Cowgirl is great because I can suck on her tits, I can put my hand around her neck, I can grab her ass. I think it's becoming more of a habit for us to swap between positions during sex too. Idk what it's called but sometimes it'll be more like missionary but I'll put her legs against my chest and kind of fold her over and fuck her like that. Again, good for using the full length of my dick and being dominant but that one is hard on her physically. We've done doggy the most if I had to pick one however but that's been changing lately

>>32168466
>all these people wanting to learn my native language
M. I'd like to learn Russian.
>>32169473
>Disrespecting the late Richard Piano, patron saint of 8 hour arm workouts
for shame.
>>32169677
I had to look up the name, but anvil because it's intense/deep.

>>32157821
F here. I come from an Asiatic/Middle Eastern family and I find blond hair and blue eyes exotic. I also really like freckles. Every boyfriend I've had and every hookup I've had has been with a really white guy. It kinda turns me on that I've never had a dick inside of me that didn't belong to a completely white guy.
It's not white supremacy, more of a string of events. My dad is a racist but he also hates the white minorities in our country. My first boyfriend was part of that minority, and they happen to be very white.
So, essentially, I like blond, blue eyed, freckled, pale, lanky, curly haired men with sparse body hair.

>>32169677
F
I'm not too certain because my sexual history is limited to women, but it's easiest for me to orgasm while standing or lying on my stomach.
>>32169857
>Disrespecting the late Richard Piano, patron saint of 8 hour arm workouts
Richard Piana is one of the most juiced up ducks I have ever seen. The growth hormones killed him.
>>32170001
>It's not white supremacy
It's that the men from your culture/ethnicity set the bar so low. I get you 1000%.

>>32170001
What country you from? What ethnicity was that first bf?

>>32170024
It's actually kinda true, the men "setting the bar so low". But it's also that I moved across the country somewhere I'm now the minority. I've actually had great luck, specifically because they find me exotic. There was a Jehovah's witness guy at work who was hitting on me, clearly referencing that I look different to anyone he's familiar with. It's funny. I love seeing big families of gingers and blondes, like this guy, who had 12 siblings. Might be strange to say, but I really want more pure whites to fuck more, so that there's enough to keep them looking like that and also those who find exotic people attractive can do so freely.

>>32170001
You're far from alone in this preference
>>32170024
He simply became too swole to control and transcended his physical form

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>>32170075
I'm Romanian. My boyfriend was Hungarian and his father worked for the Hungarian Party in Romania, which my father despised. Bit of a Romeo and Juliet type of situation. It turned me on to no end. It was kind of wrong, because ""our peoples"" had been massacring each other, and my father wouldn't stop ranting about how he'd round them up etc. etc. but his dick felt amazing. Similar situation with the rest of them, though it really became just a preference for the hair and eye colour.

>>32169473
>Upper body day should hit your whole upper body, not just your biceps
GMI
I do bicep curls on a monthly basis and still have better biceps than 9/10 guys at my gym. Isolating arms is overcomplicating things and stealing from your training capacity without adding to your hypertrophy if you're a beginner.

>>32170085
>He simply became too swole to control and transcended his physical form
His heart and liver did at least

>>32170247
He has truly left humanity behind.

>>32170236
Most gym goers aren’t consistent. I train arms because I like to but you can build them to a certain degree with compound back and chest movements too. My arms grow better when I use specific training on them

>>32170336
That's the point. If you are consistent, you can't afford to train arms, unless you're on juice, or an advanced bodybuilder (so probably on juice).
Assuming you're training for strength too, anyway. Which you should.

>>32168434
>What are you looking for in a woman?

Pleasant, fit, younger (20-25) no tattoos or piercings, no kids, at minimum a high school education, and low maintenance.

>I can tell you where to find her.

In my head. (at least someone I described who likes me back and is single).

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>>32169473
>Yes, but you said you can never find it. I don't know what you mean by that

Yeah, as i said i have all the episodes of that hentai, i have watched all and i never find this scene where nemu is beaten. Pic i posted was something i find on internet.

Anyway i have a lot questions about this discord girl. Could you please add to discord? Im a normal dude, i only want female advice. SARAH#4093

>>32170437
It's probably from the game. There's a visual novel and it has multiple endings and apparently gets really dark.

What's up ladies, I'm obsessive and women seem to like how intense I am but I'm not jealous even though i am a fiend for attention. Most of the women I meet and want it are usually some kind of unhinged. I'm intense but I don't want to live my life on a constant emotional roller coaster. How do I find a woman who's okay with me being obsessive but isn't trying to turn it into a toxic shithole? Do I just keep it to myself?

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>>32170739
I wonder why they didn't add that scene to the hentai(that was the only reason why i downloaded all the episodes, just to know the context of that beating).

Anyway i hope you can help me with this discord girl.

>I have taken the pill for 2 years so my bf could go raw in my pussy
>he won't take the allergy so I can have a cat
Why are men like this?

>>32168434
We eat off your plate and use your lap as a foot rest because we’re marking our territory, not because we think it’s cute.

>>32168466
I’ve tried to learn Arabic and failed three times. I learned Japanese and some others so I don’t know why Arabic is so impossible.

>>32168647
Nothing.

>>32169473
>Why didn't the brother join in? Is he gay?
I know this is 4chan, but you’re asking if he’s gay because he didn’t have sex with a man or mutual masturbation with another man to the Top Gun volleyball scene?

>>32169677
F, missionary, doggy, or whatever propped up against the wall with my legs wrapped around his waist is called. Bonus points for the last if he’s shorter than me.

>>32164320
M, 0-3. I'm not sure that I want or should have kids, but if I do I'd prefer for them to grow up with one or two siblings as I have

>>32168466
I'm considering picking up Latin again

>>32170972
>We eat off your plate and use your lap as a foot rest because we’re marking our territory, not because we think it’s cute.
Then I'll take it as a compliment from now on

>>32170947
People who haven't had cats don't understand their appeal, I think. They are ignorant to the heaven that is a soft loving furry thing laying on you and purring.

>>32170947
relationships are about give and take, not just giving or taking. If you choose to do so while fully aware of the consequences, that's on you, but you're ultimately playing yourself by investing more into a relationship than the other party is willing to reciprocate

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>>32157692
I love my bf to death but he can say the most absurd things that Im so worried he will say it to the wrong person

For example the most recent one. We were at his nieces birthday and we were hanging with his cousins just talking. I got to jokingly complaining about how he always says the sweetest things to me but always says "just kidding" or makes it out like it's a joke. Then the way he defends himself was something along the lines of "you know, jokes are just truth told through comedy. So if she finds it annoying or cringe I at least have my escape. It's like in that book, diary of Anne Frank where she hides in the attic, jokes are my attic XD". Everybody is mortified and laughing at how absurd of a comparison and how it doesn't even make sense . Like what the heck, imagine he said that in front of my family or friends.

I don't want to neuter him or anything but would it be wrong or too controlling of me to want to tell him to just be careful with what he says around my family/friends? Also why can't he be upfront with my about how he feels, why would he think I would find him saying sweet things to me to be annoying or cringe?

>>32171296
>"you know, jokes are just truth told through comedy. So if she finds it annoying or cringe I at least have my escape. It's like in that book, diary of Anne Frank where she hides in the attic, jokes are my attic XD"
KEK
What a retard

>>32171296
I'd say that might be a little too controlling yes, he'd probably be hurt that you don't trust him to be normal around important people. If anything I'd instead warn my friends / family that my partner can be kinda eccentric at times.
>why would he think I would find him saying sweet things to me to be annoying or cringe?
My guess, a fear of rejection, combined with that man thing where we're terrified of displaying any genuine emotion.

>>32171296
He sounds hilarious.
If the "just kidding" thing actually bothers you, talk to him alone, don't put him on the spot while other people are around.

>>32171482
>>32171426

Don't get me wrong I find him hilarious too and understand what he is trying to say or convey but he does it in such a strange way and it even took me a while to get use to him. He makes these random inclusions of pop culture references to link his thoughts. It's fitting, but not fitting at the same time if that makes sense. He will say he heard it in a song or in a movie or that it's like this movie or that song or that character. The closet example I can think of is he speaks very similarly to how Kanye West speaks in interviews.

For example one time he was telling his nephews that girls can hypnotise them. When they all got hooked and interested and asked if he was for real, he was saying it's like in Minecraft with the black shadow people that attack you when you look at them. Or theu hypnotise you through whispering, like the whispers in the morning in the Celine Dion song. Then he said the ultimate hypnosis is when try to bite your ears and when they do you become paralyzed and can't do anything anymore. He even told them that all the parents wedding rings were hypnosis rings to make the hypnosis more powerful. He was telling them if you don't want to be hypnotised by girls to just look down and protect your ears from them.

Another example when his family was talking, accusing each other of falling for fake news. He went on a rant about how it makes him wonder how much of history is fake news, because no one could read or compare info back then and just had to rely on the town priest to give them news or read letters. All the while giving everyone cheeky grins. Then when they asked how he knew he said because it seems like how things were in the book Don Quixote that was written in the 1500s

He says ridiculous stuff like that yet it makes people laugh I guess

>>32171535
None of this sounds world-ending. Just eccentric.

>>32171296
I'd say you could make it out to be more about the family youre visiting than it is about him, like oh my family can be a bit uptight, their sense of humor can be a bit rigid as a heads up. I don't think it's too controlling to give him a warning or heads up, I'd rather be given that than make a fool of myself in front of my girls loved ones

>why can't he be upfront with my about how he feels, why would he think I would find him saying sweet things to me to be annoying or cringe?
That's something to talk to him about. Sounds like typical guy fears of rejection or ridicule on being open or emotionally vulnerable. Maybe he's experienced that in the past and has been trained to always have an out so he never gets too hurt

>>32171535
>>32171296
He's just weird. Everyone is. That's normal.

As for why he can't be up front with you about how he feels, that's vulnerability, and that requires trust and confidence and it can possibly lead to problems if you trust the wrong person or if you try to say something and fuck it up and it comes out wrong. I hope he does at least sometimes tell you how he really feels though.

>>32169677
F, prone. Best angle of penetration, get to feel the weight of them on me, I can bury my face in a pillow so I don't embarrass myself.

>>32169417
That's just a risk I need to take, I guess.

>>32170748
I think you're my type, I'm also like this. I used to have a phase I was into jealous guys back when I was BPD and insecure, once I actually got a jealous guy it was an instant "Nope! I'm outta here." for me. Never been jealous myself.
So, anyway, I think you're looking for something kinda rare, the way you're phrasing it. You sound really passionate or romantic, which is really sexy, but I'd suggest you don't call it "obsessive ", just "very romantic". Even though they're the same thing, "obsessive" sounds like you're one step away from murdering someone for love, while "romantic" doesn't have that immediate connotation. Jealousy is bad, either way. If you're jealous or if someone else is into you being jealous, big red flag. Stay away.

>>32169677
F, I don't know what it's called, but I like having my legs closed together, while the guy's are open and he inserts inside me. In missionary the woman's legs are spread and the guy's are closed in between them, but it's just not as good. I like having my legs closed because I can tighten my cunt to maximum capacity, massage his shaft directly and squeeze his pussy lips around him, all the the same time. 90% orgasm rate for me, without even touching my clit. I like having control over his stimulation and "forcing" him to orgasm and milk his cum inside of me.
Pronebone is also good, but I can't breathe and it's not sexy to me that I can't breathe. I can't focus on the pleasure.
Doggy is really hot, but I can never find something stable to hold onto. I don't like banging my head against things or swaying back and forth while he's doing the same. Doesn't work.
I really like deepthroats, too, but I don't like getting eaten out.
I used to take the pill so they'd cum inside me raw, but I like the feeling of being forced directly down his cock more. Because I can feel the desperate grip of his fist on my head and the exact moment his reason leaves him.

>>32170001

Ive seen several posts over the years where a western guy will be talking about how good his relationship is with a girl from a traditional country. (China and Kurdistan) The girl worships him and the guy listens and is attentive.

>>32157692
>be me
>20yo M
>people mistake me for being 17-18 a lot
Is it because I’m short or because I’m beautiful?

>>32170748
I can relate to your post, even though I wouldn't call myself obsessive I can come on very strong. I tend to reserve my affection for only a few people, but have a lot of it for those people I do care about. That extends to relationships.
Your best bet is to stay reserved for long enough to determine what type of girl you're dealing with. Ramp things up proportionately to how close you actually are with her, keep checking yourself. You don't have to stop being the way you are fundamentally, but don't just go hogwild if you want something actually sustainable. If the girl was only interested for that "obsessive" trait, she will probably filter herself out for you.
>>32171777
Checked
I don't think I've ever tried that position, but you have successfully shilled me
>>32172412
That's a two year difference. Relax. It doesn't mean anything

>>32172460
>That's a two year difference. Relax. It doesn't mean anything
Sometimes it’s more

Male here.

>>32164201
Yes, I do quite like having a big cock.

>>32164320
Leaving this one up to chance; but at least one of my own, and one adopted.

>>32167190
Nice.

>>32168466
There's a handful; Russian and Greek are on the list.

>>32168647
She probably has some manner of attraction to you, but don't read too far into it. Plus, would be a bit of a dick move to do anything about it.

>>32169677
Honestly I'm a virgin, but I always assumed I'd enjoy doggy and pronebone. Something quite primal about it all. Reverse cowgirl if she has a great ass.

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Damn. 2 weeks for a SFW picture. I guess /atoga/ is supposed to be just a wall of text, even though this is an imageboard :/
Maybe the janitor was just in a bad mood from all the spam, and I got caught in the crossfire. Yeah, I'll choose to believe that.

>>32172412
It's probably because once you're a certain age, teenagers and early 20s just blend together. They all look like freshmen, haha. Take it as a compliment.

>>32157821
M, don't really have a preference just be good looking
>>32157893
Lack of purpose/community
>>32158261
>Also why do girls use "weirdo" as an insult, but guys generally don
they care more about social acceptance
>>32162174
just unusual
>>32164320
M, 0

>>32168466
M, none, it's bad enough having to talk to people IRL in English

>>32173016
Jeez. I've definitely posted worse than that.

>>32173016
Careful, jannies are prone to banning people for not gleefully accepting their bans and begging for more.

Men, did you sleep well last night?
Do you sleep well in general?

>>32174493
>Men, did you sleep well last night?
I got just under 8 hours, so I would say it was okay but not great.
>Do you sleep well in general?
I try pretty hard to sleep well. I normally aim for 9 hours and don't use any screens an hour before bed. It's pretty noisy where I live though and my blinds don't do a perfect job of blocking out light.

M, going to go through the thread

>>32157821
>What physical features are you attracted to the most in the opposite sex?
Eyes, boobs, voice. But I'm not as looks-obsessed as the stereotype goes. I'd rather date a 5/10 with the same passions and interests than a 9/10 instagram bimbo. I like black hair with pale skin personally, but that's just my preference and it isn't 100%. No eye color preference. Probably the most overriding one of all for me is no tattoos or weird piercings (septum etc.), but that's a matter of my taste. Also, as a big boob-lover, please don't get fake tits. The tiniest natural tits are more appealing than the largest fakes, IMO.

>>32157893
>M, what do you think is the biggest problem facing men today?
It just seems like women don't need us any more. We have very little to offer them in propositioning a relationship besides fulfilling our own emotional loneliness. Women are a lot more emotionally intimate and "loving" with their same-sex friends, so probably don't have the same lack of affection and intimacy in their lives as adults. I think we've pushed the messaging of "you don't need no man" and hardcore independence too far and now we should try to come from the angle of "men and women BOTH need each other." And of course this is all exacerbated by dating apps which turns love and intimacy into a commodity, where you have to put your looks, career, and other "stats" before your personality. When there were more social spaces, you could put your personality on display more easily and make up for a lot of faults.

>>32164320
None, I'm pretty anti-natalist pilled. Not against adoption or marrying a woman with a kid though.

>>32168466
I speak Japanese but I'd also like to learn German to read all the great philosophers in their original text.

>>32174493
No, I haven't recently. Being unemployed always gets my schedule off wack. I need to start exercising again. That always does the trick.

>>32157821
M
Eyes, lips, thighs. I have no hair colour preference, eye colour isn't the main thing either it's the shape. Also tanlines really mess me up, I find them extremely attractive.
>>32157893
>what do you think is the biggest problem facing men today?
Hate. For oneself and others. Feeling that need to be impressive to others.
>>32164320
M
If I have kids, I think 2 would be nice. Quite a close age between them. I used to hate the idea of having a daughter but I think otherwise now. I'm more scared of having a son that hurts people than a daughter that gets hurt.
>>32169677
Still M
Depends on my mood.
Sometimes missionary but with me on my knees holding their legs apart or together. I like reaching under a woman and lifting her hips up too. Just any way to get deeper and really apply pressure instead of just slamming away. Sometimes slamming away is fine too.
Sometimes doggy, but specifically when they're bent over something. That feeling of pounding them against a surface is good.
Pronebone ends me and I don't know why, it's just a position that I can't last long in, so it feels the best but I don't like that lack of control.
>>32174493
Yes. This week I have been sleeping very well.

>>32174493
Yeah I did. Dreams of Eldridge horrors crashing into the earth

>>32174493
No, I still see her in my dreams. It haunts me.

>>32174493
>Men, did you sleep well last night?
Nope, dogs were up barking a lot. Stinkers. I gotta start closing the window so they can't just lay in it and have a blast shouting at anyone who walks by.
>Do you sleep well in general?
Usually yes, but it's been rough lately. Spring allergies are beating me up and stealing my lunch money.

>>32174493
I went to bed extremely late and woke up around noon. Slept alright but could have been better. Generally I don't get enough sleep, usually 4-5 hours a night at the most.
>Wish I had someone to sleep next to ;_;

M question for Fs

Do you ever pee standing up? How/where? Have you ever seen another woman pee standing up?

F asking both.

ramble time. how can I stop being so insecure about my outie vagina? I hate looking at it. I hate being naked because of it. I’m even scared of masturbating and making it worse. I’ve had sex with one boy before and I’m scared to do it ever again with someone new because of how it looks. I know anyone who would judge is a waste of time. and that I shouldn’t worry about things I can’t change. I even like my body otherwise but having this ugly vagina really bothers me. I’m scared of liking a guy and then getting to the sex stage with him, and having to disappoint him with my ugly vag.
it’s not realistic to never date again because of this so what do I do? pictures here of my situation: https://imgur.com/a/szInKKI


one more question for the girlies. do any of you have tricks to avoid razor bumps when shaving down there? laser is out of my budget. and waxing is a no because I can’t show the wax lady my vag.

>>32175812
That's barely even an outie and it's definitely not ugly.

To answer your question, the only way you can stop being insecure about something is to make that choice yourself. Like you said, guys who would reject you over that (and I doubt there would be very many) are a waste of time anyway. All you're doing by letting that stop you from dating is guaranteeing you won't get a bf. At least if you try you have a chance. So rather than focusing on all the reasons someone might reject you, just focus on them.

Another thing to keep in mind is that typically, once you've established mutual attraction and you start to get to know each other, physical traits become less important. By the time you're having sex hopefully you have an established relationship already.

Seriously though, I'd love to eat that all day.

>>32175812
You have some weird self-image issue or insecurity about nothing. Your vagina looks completely fine, there are literally zero issues with it, idiot. The only thing that needs to be fixed is your own body image, promise.

>>32175812
Absolutely zero issues here
I love innies, but yours barely classifies as outie and looks delicious.
Especially the mon pubis looks super nice.
Please do post more.
Yes you got me hard with those pics
(As a confirmation that it looks nice)

>>32175812
I promise you it looks perfectly fine. I'm sorry you feel that way because it really is something you should cherish. The appearance of the vulva changing through sex or masturbating is not a thing, take it out of your mind because it's completely false.
> tricks to avoid razor bumps
Rub with baby oil, wait a few minutes, use gentle moisturizing shaving cream, use a small amount of rubbing alcohol on the shaved area, cover with a deodorant. Been doing this for years and it's kept me completely smooth and bumpless. Hope you feel better about it soon.

>>32175857
as others have said, I think that looks really nice. I'd be happy to chat a bit and help you with your insecurities if you wanted to add me on discord: pork#4909

>>32175887
thank you so much for the info. any specific deodorant like gel vs the white kind? and do you moisturize after the deodorant dries or no need to?
>>32175876
ugh the only big self image problem I have is this. I hate my lack of curves too. at least for that I’ve been able to go to the gym to try and get a butt.

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Question for guys:

Do guys leave any hints when they like a girl?
How could a girl tell if a guy likes her or not?
Would you ever want to be approached by a girl and if you would, how would you prefer she does it?

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Another question for guys:

Would you ever date a girl older than you? Why and why not?
How much of an age difference is acceptable when you're both in your 20s?

>>32175944
I use an unscented dove stick, just plain and simple. You can moisturize if you want but I prefer to keep things down there dry since it can get muggy where I live. Best of luck with your lovely kitty.

>>32175952
I'm 28, and I might date someone as old as 30-31. My only concern is I want at least 2-3 kids and that doesn't give us much time if she's already in her 30s.

>>32175950
>>32175952
>Do guys leave any hints when they like a girl?
Not intentionally. We aren't smart enough to be subtle, usually.
>How could a girl tell if a guy likes her or not?
Ask him. Playing the "sending signals" game is often fruitless because we're naturally inclined to assume you're just being friendly.
>Would you ever want to be approached by a girl and if you would, how would you prefer she does it?
Absolutely. Any way is great as long as it doesn't sound like I'm about to be pranked or lose a kidney.
>Would you ever date a girl older than you? Why and why not?
It wouldn't have any bearing on my decision unless it's a significant age difference. Age doesn't really mean much if you ask me, there are mature younger people and immature older people.
>How much of an age difference is acceptable when you're both in your 20s?
I'm nearly 28 and would date as young as 20, so I don't think it's a big deal.

>>32175950
Forgot to answer this one, lol.
When I like a girl I try to spend a lot of time around her, I go out of my way to talk to her and spend time with her, and help her with things when there is opportunity to do so. I'd love if a girl approached me/asked me out. Just do it casually during conversation. "Hey, wanna go get dinner together on Friday?" Something like that.

And I also forgot to answer about the age gap in the opposite direction. I'd date as young as 21 probably. Younger than that feels like we have nothing in common, and even 21 is borderline.

...is this SwissAnon?

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Girls, please post your midriff and tell us the last song you listened to.

>>32176098
>>32176102
Finding the clit isn't hard. Honestly even finding the g-spot isn't that hard.

>>32175952
>Would you ever date a girl older than you?
Sure, if we were a good match
>How much of an age difference is acceptable when you're both in your 20s?
20 and 29

>>32175724
I don't pee when standing up, but I know those bitches in the girl's bathroom do because the toilet seats are often covered in pee.

>>32157821
>M or F
M
>What physical features are you attracted to the most in the opposite sex?
Ass, legs, feet, overall proportions (hour glass figure)
>Are there certain attributes you prefer(hair color, eye color, etc…)?
Not really. I don't care about features I can't fuck.

>>32175950
>Do guys leave any hints when they like a girl?
No they normally either outright tell them, send a dick pic, or bottle it up inside waiting for the "right time" thus missing their opportunity. Or they'll take their crush on you to the grave
> How could a girl tell if a guy likes her or not?
If they're not ignoring you and actually wait for you to finish what you're saying. Then again, it could be a bit to get in your pants if they're shrewd.
>Would you ever want to be approached by a girl and if you would, how would you prefer she does it?
Guys from my experience, especially me, HATE signs. Just tell us outright that you wanna go grab something to eat or go on a date. Skip the signaling. Nothing is more frustrating than trying to read signs that are purposely vague. Fully commit and see what happens...I mean, the worst he can say is no right?

>>32175812
>how can I stop being so insecure about my outie vagina?
Try to come to terms that, if anyone would think less of you over such a thing, they aren't worth it anyways. I mean really, could you imagine disliking your partner because of how his penis looks? It's such an insignificant detail in the grand scheme of a relationship, unless a person is very shallow.
>I’m scared of liking a guy and then getting to the sex stage with him, and having to disappoint him with my ugly vag
Everyone has insecurities. That's normal. But you shouldn't let them run your life. Hell, most of the time people will be too worried about their own stuff to even consider yours.
>pictures here of my situation
That looks like a completely normal vagina. One that any normal guy would be more than happy with. I see none of the flaws you seem to. It's just raw insecurity convincing you something is wrong.

>>32175952
>Would you ever date a girl older than you? Why and why not?
Yeah, I have no problems giving love to an older woman. They're actually easier to talk to and skip the bullshit shy crap younger woman tend to do. Like we both want to fuck each others brains out, why are you pretending you don't want my dick when you're in my house lmao.
>How much of an age difference is acceptable when you're both in your 20s?
Men don't care. As long as your legal you're golden for a good 70% of us. Seems like woman care substantially about age gaps.

>>32175812
It’s not ugly at all. No one is going to think anything looks wrong about it and most people are going to wish theirs looked as nice. I have a whole thing I do for mine, my legs, under my arms. I always shave just before I shower. I use a washcloth and hot water to get everything wet, then use Eos Shea Better for shaving gel and one of those guy’s razors with a bunch of blades, a Mach something. It has to be new and sharp. Then I take a really hot shower, dry, and put on a moisturizing lotion. I’ve been using a Dove kind of citrusy avocado scented lotion lately. I’m sure it’s not the right way to do things but it works for me. I grew up with only my dad and my two older brothers so I had to figure out everything on my own.

>>32175950
>>32175952
Nice questions. I’m interested in the answers, too.

>>32174493
1. Haha no
2. Haha no

>>32175812
Vagina

>>32175950
>Do guys leave any hints when they like a girl?
I compulsively filter out any signs of interest I might give off and instead awkwardly try to 'act normal' around her
>How could a girl tell if a guy likes her or not?
I'd pay compliments, tell her that I enjoyed spending time with/talking to her, steer conversations towards things we have in common or things that allow us to open up a little and would generally want to know a lot about her
>Would you ever want to be approached by a girl and if you would, how would you prefer she does it?
Show me the lifeless bodies of the exes whose dicks you cut off and tell me they ain't shit compared to me.
If you're not so direct you could make up some obviously bad excuse to hang out. Anything more subtle than that might not land

>>32175952
Personality > age. Within reason

>>32176098
I don't have experience to go off of, but finding it doesn't sound that hard. Sure it may be hiding under the hood, but it's not like I have to go spelunking for it.

>>32175952
I really think people should state their age for this one so we don’t get a bunch of boomers screeching about baseball metaphors.

>>32175952
M, no because I'm already in my late 30s.
>How much of an age difference is acceptable when you're both in your 20s?
Up to +2, and down to 18 if you're under 25, down to 21 if you're over 25.

>>32176149
Don't you understand how you're creeping girls out?

>>32176192
No, and I think it'd be hilarious if you explained.

So i took this barista who was complimenting me a lot out. She was getting really close to me on a bench and touching me and seemed really into me, at the end, I took her and made out with her a little bit. A day after, she tells me she didn't like that I kissed her, and the texting stopped. Then, a week later I said fuck it and called her, apologized and she invited me to watch her play in a band. I see her afterwards and act very nervous because I didn't feel as cool and comfortable around her since she had essentially rejected me and then showed me how amazing she can sing. So now I felt like a total loser. The next day, she told me she is uncomfortable around me and she doesn't want to lead me on. The end.

I'm pretty bummed because I thought she liked me, and I wish I never kissed her. Do I go back to her coffeeshop? I go there semi-regularly but haven't been since I started talking to her like this. I was thinking of waiting a month and returning, just sayin hi hows it going then that's it. Not sure if I want her, but I thought she was pretty cool, feel like we misunderstood each other or she just lost interest.

>>32169473
>There are obligations within a relationship that aren't there in a friendship
One of the reasons I don't keep a lot of strictly platonic female friends, and especially no strictly platonic exes, is because I feel like more and more women expect boyfriend-tier support from their male friends, and that's simply not in the cards.
>Sometimes you realize you're not right for each other
This tends to lead towards FWB situations, in my experience.
>or there are serious obstacles that make it unsustainable
Other than distance, could you name a few examples? In any case, speaking from the male perspective, being in a relationship with a woman who counts one or more dudes that have been inside her as "just friends" is... not ideal. At best it's awkward, and in a lot, I'd even say most cases, there's a legitimate concern of opportunistic behavior. It's just not for me. I get that beggars can't be choosers, but I can so... I do.
>I understand that men are often seen as predatory
This wasn't nearly the issue it is until about ten years ago.
>but I don't know the feeling of being seen with a child and assumed to be a monster
Not that I want to discourage empathy on your part, but I haven't really witnessed this in real life all that much; is it a legitimate issue? I can't imagine encountering this and responding with anything other than an emphatic "go fuck yourself, get the fuck away from me, never talk to me or my niece again.
>re: Brad
I'm sorry, I still don't know if I buy it. If for no other reason than because he still easily finds work in Hollywood. Also, as far as "that his kids want nothing to do with him is very telling" goes, I think you're vastly underestimating how easy it is for mothers to brainwash/gaslight children against their fathers, particularly when custody/access has been compromised. Speaking from personal experience and observation on this last point.

Question for women.

Why would a girl suddenly change the way she interacts with you? We were basically talking all day every day for months, trading nudes, etc. Now this past week she started ignoring messages and replying with one word after 12+ hours

>>32176192
Don't bother

>>32169473
>I've been learning German for the past year because I'm going there next month
Why Germany? For how long? As you speak English and have been prepping you'll likely be conversationally proficient within a week.
>I'd like to learn Japanese
Then start learning now; Pimsleur has a good module.

>>32170001
>>32170152
These posts please me.

>>32171296
He's a peacock, ya gotta let him fly. It also sounds like you and your family/friends are whites of the "literally nothing is worse than offending someone" variety; you need to live less apologetically.

>>32176244
Nope, fuck off outta her life, you're officially someone she talks shit about to her friends. Lemme give you a quick play-by-play of the shit tests you failed and what you could have done differently.
>she tells me she didn't like that I kissed her
The correct response to this is "then why did you kiss me?" Queue her getting flustered and stuttering over her own bullshit. Then you just turn on the charm, call her on her bullshit in a playful way, and go from there. If she doubles down on being butthurt about a kiss that she was an active participant in, wish her a nice life and next her. Aintnobodygottimeforthat.
>I didn't feel as cool and comfortable around her
And she could tell. You were so sure of your spaghetti that you convinced her of it. Watch some podcasts with Andrew Tate. What he says isn't important, and in fact he frequently talks out of his ass. You're taking notes on how he carries himself, how he interacts with others, and how others respond to him. You need to decorrelate how you perceive yourself with the validation of others.

Let me ask you this, are you a predator? No. So don't suffer the accusation or implication that you are. Never apologize. Women will constantly test you, often subconsciously, and what they're usually doing is checking for cracks in what some call frame.
>I was thinking of
Nope. You'll just give her validation and lulz. The window is shut. Take the L, move on.

>>32170370
>Pleasant, fit, younger (20-25) no tattoos or piercings, no kids
So you're asking for an in demand, high value woman.
>low maintenance
In what sense?
>In my head
Nope, but consider looking abroad.

>>32175952
No, I'm in my 30s. Also if a woman expects to have me to herself for her entire life, I respectfully insist she be able to offer her best years to me. Finally, and this is by no means universal, but *most* women my age who are single are single for a reason; mentally unstable, hoes looking to retire, etc.

>>32176455
>Nope, fuck off outta her life,
I probably would've handled the whole situation more cooly if I wasn't worried about my gf finding out. So yes, Andrew Tate is perfect for me since he's got multiple gf's around the world. Thnaks

I definitely should've played around with the kiss thing. I had the idea when I was spilling spaghetti and it just turned into me saying sorry again. I notice this shit at work too when I want to say shit but freeze up. I can appear cool for only a little bit, when i want to say the really challenging things, I freeze up.

>>32175952
I did it once, not ever again, now I only date girls much younger than me. The reason is that they are statistically more likely to have more than double your body count, there's a reason they made it to that age without being married, and they will be pressuring you a lot. Don't forget the wrinkles.

>>32175812
Your pussy is literally fine. It's the most normal and least offensive looking outie imaginable. In fact you should be feeling fortunate and grateful that was the card you were dealt if it had to be an outie. I would eat that without hesitation, provided you shower.

>>32170947
>>32171109
>relationships are about give and take, not just giving or taking. If you choose to do so while fully aware of the consequences, that's on you, but you're ultimately playing yourself by investing more into a relationship than the other party is willing to reciprocate
Nigga did you really just copy my post?
>>32175724
>Do you ever pee standing up? How/where? Have you ever seen another woman pee standing up?
I've had to be for but most women make the mistake of not squatting a bit, which is what leads to dribbling.
>>32175812
>how can I stop being so insecure about my outie vagina?
F
That's a really normal looking vagina. And 99.99% of straight men wouldn't have a problem with it either.
>do any of you have tricks to avoid razor bumps when shaving down there?
You could try depilatory creams, but those can be hit or miss. Two things that work for me are using a hot, wet compress to soften the hair follicles before shaving, because I have really thick pubic hairs, and at home laser removers which can be pretty tedious and depends a lot on your skin/hair contrast.
There are also really good epilators. I use a Braun, whose IPLs I've heard good things about.
>>32176350
>Why would a girl suddenly change the way she interacts with you?
Either she has issues or she was using you as a distraction til something came along in her life. If that falls through, she'll likely reach back out.
>>32176455
>Why Germany? For how long? As you speak English and have been prepping you'll likely be conversationally proficient within a week.
About two weeks. I'm a slut for German cars (Porsches specifically) so I want to hit up the Porsche and Mercedes-Benz museums. That's really all I want to do in Stuttgart. English is also my second language. I mostly used Anki, Babbel, and FluentU for German but I'm not very good with linguistics.

>>32176506
Are you enjoying your gendered nouns?
Pop quiz: What gender is "boy" in German? What gender is "girl" in German?
No googling

>>32176506
>I've had to be for but most women make the mistake of not squatting a bit, which is what leads to dribbling.

when/why did you have to?

>>32176511
I know there's an age aspect to it, but I believe junge refers to boys or kids in general, and girls is madchen or junge frau. I'm still not well-versed in German punctuation, but I know there are supposed to be tildes and stuff.
>>32176535
>when/why did you have to?
I used to walk to and from school growing up and also like going to big parks and stuff where there may not be rest stops for a long time.

>>32176586
Oh, sorry. You're correct about those, but I was asking about the noun gender. You know how German nouns have gender, like a table being masculine (der Tisch) etc.? That's what I meant.
I asked because due to weird etymology shenanigans, "Junge" is masculine ("the boy"="der Junge") while "Mädchen" is a neutral/genderless noun ("the girl"="das Mädchen"). It's technically a diminuitive of Magd/Maid, kinda like calling a young girl a "maidenlet" or a "womanlet" in english.

This is kinda out of place but I saw the most gorgeous goth on a rate thread with short black hair and blue streaks in it. If you see this, you are a literal fucking goddess