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>>32682225You just justified my commitment to toxicity with one post, impressive.
State Gender.State Age.What threads, if any, do you use on /soc/ other than this one?How could /soc/ realistically be improved?
>>32682945M28>What threads, if any, do you use on /soc/ other than this one?None!>How could /soc/ realistically be improved?Don't think it really can.
>>32682758Yeah I got a question Why do you keep wasting thread slots on this general that already exists and is better on /adv/
>>32683156I disagree with the notion that it's better. /soc/ provides unique opportunities that /adv/ doesn't, such as posting pictures, vocas, exchanging contact info, and other things that /adv/ doesn't approve of.
Why do people french kiss? I dont think I've ever gotten something extra out of adding tongue while kissing.
>>32683156I mean how much worse is it than yet another horny contact thread or dick thread?
>>32683229It's not, and these threads have been around forever. I feel like you have more freedom doing it on here as opposed to a blue board. >>32683226For me it gives it more of an intimate feeling. It's like...more primal. Aggressive.
>>32682945Male, 29I don't use any other /soc/ threads most of the time. Occasionally I post in one of the threads where everyone posts a bunch of stuff about themselves and contact info to see if I can meet anyone, but I rarely get any hits.I don't see a reason to improve it, but then I don't really care about it. I only come here because it's a place where /atoga/ns can post stuff that would normally upset the jannies.
>>32682945M, 25. I use the voca thread and that's about it. Idk how you'd do it but it would be nice if there were less cock and naked rate threads. Maybe if there was just one rate thread at a time? Idk I don't care all that much really
>>32682945Male, 22.>What threads, if any, do you use on /soc/ other than this one?Just this one. No idea if it's any worth to venture beyond the bounds of this thread.>How could /soc/ realistically be improved?Not familiar with the board as a whole to really know.
Is it too late to post Halloween costumes?
>>32683704I think my pictures are as good as any posted last month, but posting a costume picture in November seems goofy
>>32683708>>32683704Just post it. What's gonna happen, will the jannies ban you for posting an out of season Halloween costume pic?
>>32683712No but seeing as that’s literally me in the picture, I don’t want my image to be associated with being goofy. Oh well I’m thinking too much >plot twist, I’m not a woman
>>32682945I’d say, SFWsoc should be made its own thing. But I don’t care much anyway because I only come here for this. It just feels like I need a hazmat suit when I search the catalogue for atoga
>>32682945M, thirty...ish.>other threadsNone, this board is a wretched hive of dicks and mental illness.>improvementsI'll second the idea for a blue version of /soc/, so people who aren't full on degenerates (or are capable of compartmentalizing their degeneracy) can socialize about non-coombrain shit.
>>32683753>It just feels like I need a hazmat suit when I search the catalogue for atogaIs it that bad outside of here? Also, you can type in "/soc/atoga" after the "boards.4chan" URL to get straight to the search result page.
>>32684452Yes, venture out into the wasteland if you dare. I bet the first or second image you see will have a cock in it
>>32682758>parents are out of town>sister is at work>house to myselfOh yeah, it’s time to get schoolwork done, watch regular show, and play with my dog until I go into work.What are your plans today?
>>32682758Ladies: can you describe how sexual arousal feels like to you?As a guy I can without effort elaborate how sexual titillation affects my system down to it's minute detail but when I ask the opposite sex about their experience all I get is ''i feel wet lol''I write erotica on my free time but never from a woman's POV precisely because I just know I'd get the most basic things wrong since I have only second hand experience on what female arousal is like instead of living it...
>>32683715>romanchadcloaked up on a saturday, we comfymaxxing ITT
>>32684465>Yes, venture out into the wasteland if you dare.I don't think I will.>I bet the first or second image you see will have a cock in itAlready had that happen with me in these threads, so this won't surprise me.>>32684540>What are your plans today?It's almost 9PM for me here, so my plans is watching some YouTube videos, play a game for a bit and then browse social media and etc before going to sleep.
>>3268294533, MaleI generally lurk on /soc/ and only post in the ATOGA threads. /soc/ would be immensely improved if there were far less dick rate threads and troons shiteing up the place.>>32683156It's really not, though.
>>32684571>/soc/ would be immensely improved if there were far less dick rate threads and troonsDon't forget the sellers.
Ladies, what is it about the sight of a man pleasantly engaged in gaming/painting/reading/vibing that inspires an irresistible compulsion to engage in conversation that is banal, vapid, and/or completely irrelevant to us?I swear this shit is the death knell for every relationship I've ever been in, and is shaping up to continue that trend for the girl I'm with now. I'm conflicted. On the one hand, I feel like maybe it bothers me more than it should, and on the other, I can't see how it isn't inconsiderate and immature of someone to do this when I'm just sitting there, perfectly content. It's very hard not to feel resentment, especially once the behavior becomes habitual.
>>32684668Dude just try talking to them and asking them to stop. That's what I did when me n my girl lived together. Everyone needs some time alone to destress and enjoy themselves
>>32682758Girls, what type of guys do you consistently talk to? I get that if a girl posts her tag here, she will get dozens of adds, and so will inevitably ghost 90+% of the guys who add her, but I'm curious what 'secret sauce' the guys who don't get ghosted have? I used to get ghosted within 1-3 messages in the past, so even though I've improved a lot since then, I seem to never be able to develop even semi-long term relationships here. Now I just get ghosted within 10-20 messages instead, or if I manage a good conversation on the day we meet, even if it was 1-2 hours long, I just get ghosted the next time I try to talk with them later that week. What am I missing? I feel like if I don't put 110% of my effort into and carry a conversation, it just drags to a halt. I feel like a circus monkey every time I talk to girls here, trying to keep their attention and entertain them, yet even that isn't enough it seems
>>32684683>Dude just try talking to them and asking them to stopI'm aware of this option, my point is, I/we shouldn't have to ask in the first place, and I'm curious as to the psychology going on behind this kind of behavior.>That's what I did when me n my girl lived together...Uh huh. Where is she now?
>>32684759She's laying next to me in bed right now. Otherwise, she lives at home for school and I live in a different city for school. We lived together through undergrad and she's currently visiting me. Back when we were living together, I'd bug her sometimes too in the same way she'd bug me. She's very studious and hardworking and likes to focus completely when she studies. I am much more easily distracted so I'd bug her or try chatting with her when she was working on stuff. So it was a bit easy for me to say let's both give each other space when we are focused on something
Ladies, you know how there's this common fantasy about a girl dressed in a maid suit, being on her knees and giving you a passionate blowjob, what would be an equivalent or similar fantasy for you women?
>>32684668because most relationships require equal care about both parties. it is perfectly valid to want alone time, but you mentioning engaging in conversation as "banal, vapid, or irrelevant" tells me it's not about alone time but rather how you feel about either a. your partner or b. women in general.so either you are choosing partners who aren't on your level of interest and have interests you can't connect with, OR you are a shitty partner who can't engage with your partners interests and have conversation. either way, it's fucking retarded for you to enter these relationships and then blame it on women for your own incompetency. and no, I don't care if you think women's interests are stupid, that would be fine on it's own except for the fact I don't see how you can feel that way and expect a healthy relationship with woman. Like no fucking shit if you feel that way and enter a relationship you're going to be unhappy, they require interest and effort.
Once youve pinned a woman down in a relationship how can you torment her for making it so hard to get one?
>>32684772Sounds like you've got a good thing going. Kudos for making it work through school. How long have you been together? Has going long distance been difficult?>>32684983I think your motivations and methods might not be entirely healthy. Why do you feel the need to punish this nice lady who probably smells nice and touches your genitals, for the perceived crimes of women as an abstract whole?
>>32682758How do I find women on the internet? Where do you dwell?Not nessearily to be romantic with, but just to talk and build chemistry. I am fine with either outcome.Now, let me adress something>you only want sex!No I don't. I live in a forest and just want a more varied social circle.>do hobby chattsMy hobbies are programming, game development and game modding. None of the servers/groups I am in has any women.If it comes down to having a different hobby: Please suggest one. Thank you.
>>32685098Coming up on ten years in December. Long distance has been pretty shit but luckily we are only 2-3 hours away from each other. Problem is we are both busy with school and work so not as many opportunities to visit. I think we both try to make each other feel appreciated in spite of the distance but there have been some slightly rougher patches but we good luckily. Next year I should be heading back home if all goes well
>>32684571How's the pregnancy coming along?
Women, would you say that you are more attracted to men with dark skin? Doesn't have to necessarily be a certain race, but rather skin tone. If not, what physical characteristics do you look for in men the most?
>>32685495Not particularly. I just like tall, wide guys.
>>32684772>So it was a bit easy for me to say let's both give each other spaceRight! I forgot to say! It's easy for you to say "just tell her, bro" when *you're* the chatty Cathy (relatively speaking) in the relationship.>>32684930>it is perfectly valid to want alone timeNo, I *need* alone time.>but you mention engaging in conversationNo, I was talking about a specific kind of conversation under specific circumstances; if I'm decompressing and doing me I have no interest in, say... being a sounding board to a stream of consciousness inner monologue, or hearing about girl drama, or being asked to look at something *RIGHT NOW* while I'm trying to focus on something. Stuff like that.I love my girl very much, and she tends to have a lot of insightful and interesting things to say... but like all human beings (myself included) sometimes she just wants to make noise, and I wish she'd be better at reading the room.I don't mind that some of the shit that comes out of her mouth is vapid, banal, or irrelevant to what I'm doing or my capacity to impact, it bothers me that she can see me trying to clutch out a win in a sweaty ass lobby when it's down to three squads, and she'll think "now is the perfect time to ask Anon if I should change my major, and this conversation absolutely cannot wait." My question isn't how to deal with the situation, I deal with the situation by not engaging, assertively reinforcing boundaries if need be, paying no attention to any huffing and puffing that may ensue, and enjoying the apology blowjob that inevitably follows.My question is, why do so many women do this? As crazy as it sounds, it's like they're threatened by the idea that they're not the only thing that can bring their man joy. I think I'm just feeling sort of bemused because it would never occur to me to bother someone I care about with some random bullshit while they're clearly engaged in an activity, so I'm not sure why this behavior is seemingly ubiquitous in women.
Women, when was the last time you lost a heated argument with a man? Also, what was the argument about, who was the guy, and what did he say that convinced you he was right? By heated I mean something you’re passionate about, not something you consider trivial. I’m mainly looking for IRL examples, but because everyone is on social media if it happened online you can include it.If this scenario hasn’t happened to you then ignore the question.
>>32685465OK so damn, ya'll been together since puberty. 2-3 hours is nothing insurmountable. If either one of you starts worrying about not having or making enough time, I promise you this is just how life is if you're accomplishing anything with said life. I grind 8-10 hours a day, Mon-Fri, Saturday morning is for decompression, Saturday afternoon is for the boys, and Sunday is for her.Work/life balance is sacred, do not compromise it.
>>32685696>argument got heated>woman lostPick one.
>>32682758Both genders, do you collect anything?I collect coins.
>>32686125MI collect many different thing such asRocksPez headsMarblesCoins etc.
>>32682758Is it a turn off if a guy has a cat?
How do I find a woman into pegging without openly advertising I wanna get my ass fucked
>>32686125I collect plushies. My mother gets a bunch of them from the goodwill as toys for the dogs, and I salvage the ones I recognize. Must have at least 30 by now.
>>32682758Both gender.Would you date someone if they have had consensual sex with their parents or family members before and why?
>>32686176No. That's only hot in fantasy, not reality.
>>32686125MaleI have a coin collection, but I haven't done anything with it in years.
>>32686176F, no. I believe it'd make their relationship with their family too complicated for me to want to deal with all that.
>>32686125F. Yes, sex toys.
Ladies, is 175-176cm too short for a man
>>32686176M. I’d give it a shot, as long as no laws were broken and I liked this woman. But I’d have a lot of questions and concerns.
>>32684668there was this guy I was hooking up with (who I was obsessed with) that after sex and a little chit chat, he wanted to play 2k. I always ask him questions about basketball or whatever video game he's playing because im autistic and inquisitive (and love to be mansplained), so while he played I would ask whatever popped into my mind about it. Since it was post-sex, I was feeling super attached and just wanted to still talk and have his attention. I guess for him post-sex he prob was feeling less attached and just wanted to grind on his game. I could tell he he didn't want to talk after a while which bummed me out. bum ass nigga I hate him
>>32686491im 5'4" F and I think that's a perfectly fine height. I've dated a 5'4" guy before. Some girls don't have height preference. I like stocky guys.
>>32682945Texas (Tex/Texem) 187/178
>>32684540>watch regular showBased, I should rewatch it too>>32686176M, no, hella weird
>>32682945 F/28Only the sfw threads like these or other friend threads or sfw dating. I have 50 posts hidden rn with filters cause if I don’t put the filter I get nauseous by all the threads, especially by the male threads comparing their hairy asses or comparing dicks or a bunch of super manly wide shouldered hairy “femboys”. I wanna stay a straight person and not be turned off by men so gotta protect myself. We need a sfw soc and let the gooners and gays have this board so we don’t have to face it anymore.
>>32686125Male. Not really. I don't currently have any opportunities for that. Would've been nice to get some small game collection in the bright future though.>>32686176I would have to say "no" simply because the question itself makes me incredible uncomfortable.
>>32685685I guess I don't relate because me and my husband deal with our alone time of we spend about half our time together (for example kitchen/chore time, watching stuff together, walking the dog, etc.) and the other half doing our thing in our separate rooms. To communicate will set his status to either DND which I know means leave him alone unless it's URGENT, or "away" to be "you can probably come bother me but I will be watching something with the boys and you might need to wait in between episodes", and ONLINE as "come bother me as much as you want".I don't do that but generally if he messages me that he wants together time I'll let him know when I'm available, or he'll knock on my door and peek in. If he sees me playing certain online games or I say "decompression", he'll fuck off. If I know I'm going to be playing a moba with friends I will tell him beforehand and he'll know how to handle that.I think you need to understand that yes, you do have to communicate these things. You mentioned earlier that you shouldn't have to and no, you absolutely do. granted if you already made your wants clear and the woman doesn't understand that, they're retarded.I'm not sure why you're saying all women because again, I'm a woman and I'm not upset when my man wants to do shit alone, I encourage it because I honestly need more alone time than he does. I will sometimes bother him with random shit and he'll have to shoo me but that'll be because I might not understand he's busy and that'll be that, and he does the same to me. Neither of us get upset about it. So I'm genuinely confused why you're labeling all women under that because all of my female friends are the same way. Why are you putting them all in the same category based on the fact that you willingly date women with these tendencies? seems again, retarded
>>32683226>Why do people french kiss?I think it's hot. I like tasting the person I kiss and it just feels good.>>32683704>Is it too late to post Halloween costumes?No, but it's just called cosplay when it's out of season.>>32684548>Ladies: can you describe how sexual arousal feels like to you?Like my entire body is heating up and becoming more sensitive to touch. My chest gets a bit tight and my stomach twists in a knot. >>32684725>Girls, what type of guys do you consistently talk to? White country guys>>32684920>what would be an equivalent or similar fantasy for you women?I guess a butler eating us out?>>32685495>Women, would you say that you are more attracted to men with dark skin?No, I like lighter skin color with a darker tone. Pale black guy? No. Tan white guy? Yes. Light Mestizo? No. Dark Castizo? Yes.>>32686176>Would you date someone if they have had consensual sex with their parents or family members before and why?No, for the same reason I wouldn't date someone that still keeps talking to their exes.
>>32686512> that after sex and a little chit chat, he wanted to play 2k. I always ask him questions about basketball or whatever video game he's playing because im autistic and inquisitive Wish I could find a woman like this... well minus the sex part since I know nothing of sex. But it's nice to meet people that ask questions about the stuff you do even if they don't understand it. Ugh people like this are rare.
>>32686878>I guess a butler eating us out?But does that actually turn you girls on? I mean, is it really something that makes you go "I scored a win today!" if that would happen?I mean personally speaking for me it would really depend on the suit, I love to dress sharp but being dressed like an actual restaurant waiter would seem retarded to me, unless we're speaking something like a host club I don't know.Personally I would love to eat a girl out being completely naked save for a cute collar such as pic related, but that's mostly me, what would be something you really, really would enjoy?
>>32686626>especially by the male threads comparing their hairy asses or comparing dicksThis. The cringiest thing is- most of them aren't even biologically gay. Just batshit insane because of all the cooming.
>>32682945Female28I use /adv/ and /diy//soc/ could be improved by lighting all trannies and their admirers on fire. maybe a “strictly straight” board. most women don’t like bisexual men
>>32686878>Like my entire body is heating up and becoming more sensitive to touch. My chest gets a bit tight and my stomach twists in a knot.Sounds like a hangover to me
>>32687000Same mfers who hate women and wonder why women don’t want them.
>>32687679Why does mom slap my ass? I'm almost 30m
>>32687322Seconded. Since moot left this entire site base become 50% tranny shit.
>>32686125Currency from dead civilizationsFossilsMerch/Memorabilia from a few games>>32686133Not to anyone who matters.>>32686176For purely recreational purposes? Maybe, if they're really hot. For anything serious? No, because that's a fucked up family dynamic I have zero interest in trying to navigate.>>32686512>I guess for him post-sex he prob feeling less attachedYeah, if we're just "hooking" up we kind of just want you to go after business is done, and we tend to be especially transparent and unapologetic about this if we know you're obsessed with us. You can't sway us into commitment with sex; this is an important lesson for women to learn.>I hate himHe still hit, though.>>32686685>I'm not sure why you're saying all womenI'm still not sure why you think I'm saying all women, it's almost like you're trying to build a strawman or something.>>32687322We really need tranny and BBC containment boards.
>>32687714>we are hooking up... >we want you to know...Chad fucked her, you didnt, cuck. Why are you referring to a personal experience as "we"? Most people are tired after fucking and don't wanna talk anymore, it's normal. I used to have a clingy dude who would say he wants to cuddle, kiss or even talk about future plans after sex and I'd cringe so hard because I just wanted to sleep or do something else.Quit inserting yourself into other people's sexual experiences and referring to yourself as another man. Why are so many men here so interested in talking to a woman about another dude fucking her? Did the cuck porn really melt your brain that hard?
>>32683715yo nice costume here’s mine.
>>32687759Triggered roastie is triggered. The *entire* point of this thread is the two genders exchanging insights and anecdotes as to how how and why we think, act, and operate the way we do.>I used to haveThat is the way it tends to go, isn't it? Stay mad.
>>32687714because you literally said "I'm not sure why this behavior is seemingly ubiquitous in women."also strawmans are usually a thing in a debate. sharing of experiences is not a debate, so honestly you're pretty fucking retarded for trying to pull that after making above statement and then when I point it out you try to accuse me of making a strawman. nice job trying to pull a got em, though.
I wonder why actual females to use 4chan
>>32685467I think I may not be the intended recipient for this question.>>32686125CD's, mainly.>>32686176Male. ...the fuck?
>>32687833I also LIT-HUR-RALLY said "why do so many women do this?" The sample group of "so many" as in, "not all" has been established prior to what you're quoting.>also strawmans are usually a thing in a debateI'm aware. It feels like you're trying to debate me, or at the very least not trying to be helpful or offer advice in good faith. >nice job trying to pull a got em, thoughNow you're just projecting.Listen, thanks for sharing what you have, but I think our disconnect comes from we just approach life and relationships differently.>>32687853For similar reasons men do, I imagine.>>32687859>CD's, mainlyCD's nutz.>...the fuck?My nubian kinsman, you're not the only one who feels like there's a story here.
>>32688027>/d/
Hello. I got banned from adv for saying ( . Y . ) to a repost of >>32687762
>>32687762Oh thanks, it was even homemade if you can believe that. I think we had some different eras in mind here. I usually (when I do Halloween) go for historical costumes instead of modern ones because I find that to be more interesting and fun. But the cop thing is pulled off nicely here. You don’t look like the kind of cop that ruins the fun when they arrive, if you know what I mean
>>32682758Femanon, in a hypothetical society where you are legally obligated to have sex with a (ANY) man of your choosing when you turn 20, who would it be?A celebrity? Classmate? Random hot guy?
>>32684549Extremely based, where did you get one?
>>32686125Concert tickets.
>>32682945M24None>how could /soc/ realistically be improvedThat's sort of impossible, like improving 4chan in general. The core is too rotten to really alter it and change it for the better, but in idealistic terms, less narcissism and insecurity out of which countless rate threads are born from, also a focus on IRL meetups, not on contactfagging and discord servers, and putting a halt to horny posts, not to put a lid on sexuality and the frustration from not having any sex, but to focus on genuine connections between anons and to see whether it is possible to reduce the loneliness that is the connecting tissue of 4chan in general.
>>32689272But like you said, that’s pretty redundant because yes, that would be very good for all of us. However this place wouldn’t be what it is if it were not for our neurosis. Without our worse aspects there is no 4chan
>>32686125I've got some concert merch I've been accumulating, M
>>32684549Looks comfy mate. You remind me of one of my friends, who’s very intelligent and is studying physics. He’s a true and proper academic.Only, he always wears ponchos and cloaks, and likes to get baked on a regular basis. Tldr: cloak chads seem like good company all around
>>32689173Probably whomever I was dating at the time. Seems simple enough.
>>32687000>biologically gaynani?
How often do you lie about common interests and views to keep fucking someone
>>32683715Based, you look like you belong on a painting, emphatically debating with other philosophers.>>3268776210/10, would let you take me downtown.>>32689706Never. I can't imagine why anyone would do this; posers are infamous for outing themselves in short order. Also, if you don't know anything about something, but are actually interested, that just gives you something to talk about.
>>32689898Thanks, I’ll take that as a solid compliment to the outfit, and also confirmation that I could go back in time to antiquity if I wanted, and I wouldn’t stand out until I tried to speak
>>32689311But imagine a new paradigm shift for 4chan, one that would retain that morbidness, but would transform it into something healthier, not just a defense mechanism that steams out of insecurity of not fitting in into the so-called "normal" society. It's a naive sentiment, I fully understand that, and I have been here for 8 years so I should know, but sometimes I think about the wasted potential of this site and what the alternative would look like. Given all the changes, all the people and all the "events" that took place on it, with a sincere enough attempt, I could envision a positive change making waves on it and making a dent into the nihilistic, irony poisoned shithole it deteriorated into.
My friends always tell me that trying to make a move on a girl doesn't work and women will make it obvious. That tracks with my experience since making a move on a girl always goes poorly anyways.Is that just it for men how we're supposed tk date nowadays? Looksmaxx and then wait for the chicks to be into us?
>>32690367Not approaching one may give her the impression you have no interest in her, so simply waiting for them to come to you all the time doesn't work either. If you like a girl, talk to her, try flirting and ask for a number then see where that leads you.
>>32690367that's how it should be. It's prob how it is for chad, but not for most men. I don't blame men for not approaching, especially in an age where women can ruin your life with a single rape/sexual assault allegation or humiliate you on tiktok for exposing any sort of vulnerability. If dating apps weren't used by corporations to take advantage of lonely single men by making them pay for boosts and visibility, we could use those sorts of programs to create an online dating marketplace where people could be assigned/paired together, but women wouldn't want that because they're in a position of privilege right now. They enjoy watching us suffer
I wish i was born a female must be easy to not be invisible and never be appreciated, living as a male nowadays is living like zombie
>>32682758Both genders, Do you find it attractive if someone speaks 2 languages?
>>32690756MaleYes, that's impressive.
>>32690756MSpeaking two fluently is common, 3 is where it starts getting impressive.
>>32686984>But does that actually turn you girls on?Not really, but it's not really a 1:1 comparison. Women typically find men in positions of power sexy, not positions of service. Bosses, police officers, authority figures, teachers.>>32687853>I wonder why actual females to use 4chanIt's my outlet for being shitty>>32689173>Femanon, in a hypothetical society where you are legally obligated to have sex with a (ANY) man of your choosing when you turn 20, who would it be?Does he have to be single? Is this a one-off? I'd likely pick a celebrity. Probably Chris Hemsworth.>>32690756>Do you find it attractive if someone speaks 2 languages?FNot really. I speak 3.5It's only impressive to stupid people and those that never tried to learn a second language.
>>32690947>>32691044Learning a second language because it was taught to you throughout primary education as part of the curriculum is not impressive, but learning a second language as an adult is.
Should i make bbc innuendos in front of random women
>>32691157Yes, make sure to tell them how often you think about BBC and how appealing it is to you.
Do women like guys who like farming or planting/gardening
>>32691065>because it was taught to you throughout primary education as part of the curriculum is not impressiveIt is if you are actually fluent in it and actually have a deeper understanding of it beyond what you were taught in primary/high-school.
>>32682945M (femboy) 21>What threads do you use on /soc/ other than this one?I used to use the femboy / trap / trans threads to find other ppl to talk to about femboy stuff. Now I mostly stick to discord. I still roam around /soc/ to see what silly stupid shit people are up to.>How could /soc/ realistically be improved?I have no clue. It's always gonna be toxic as hell, you just gotta be careful. Some people post the accounts of people they don't like, pretending to be them, and ask for dick pics and stuff. That's awful. Maybe a sticky warning about scams and tricks like that? Though, if you're falling for those things, you probably shouldn't be here anyway
>>32682758Q 4 all: did you ever have a crush on your teacher?
>>32690756F, and absolutely!>>32691940I've had a bunch of crushes on teachers throughout the years, most notably a highschool teacher I slept with and a college professor I tried to sleep with lol
>add girl>she's a mentally ill whore>add guy>he's a mentally ill loserthere are no exceptions, no one is here except for the literal dregs of society
>>32691940Yes, my linguistics professor from 2018/2019. I had a raging boner during one of her classes because she was wearing sweatpants and had a top on her that revealed her tummy. She was just my type, intelligent and brimming with sexual energy.
>>32692054>most notably a highschool teacher I slept withDuring highschool or after?
>>32691940No, never. I didn't really develop interest in girls until after I was out of public schooling, aside from one random crush in elementary school.
>>32691940Nope. Most (if not all) of my teachers were too old for that to be a possibilty. School psychologist I was briefly visiting in high school was kind of fine though, but even then my head was too messy to really register that.
>>32682758Doc says I’ll likely have knee and hip problems in the future with how my legs and hips are. Anyone else ever get troubling news from the doctor?
Someone told me recently that I sounded like I had no idea what women were like and I thought they were right. Does anyone know where to find women online that aren't busy, normie, or malicious? I find that every woman I meet online has at least 1 of these traits. I don't even want to date them, just befriend them.solar_rel on discord and telegram if you're interested
>>32691044Which 3.5 do you speak
>>32690756>Do you find it attractive if someone speaks 2 languages?How to tell that you're American without telling that you're American.Every country in Eastern Europe speaks at least 3 languages (the native, the russian and the english + the "native native", if it's a smaller nationality, like the tatars).
>>32687801I used to have because I blocked him once I got tired of his clinginess and found another guy. You're a mad incel who's inserting himself into situations and speaking on the behalf of a guy who slept with anon like the cuck you are.
>>32692359>very country in Eastern Europe speaks at least 3 languagesUnless you're Russian, in which case you might speak two languages if you're lucky enough.
Woman will never understand how good they have it
>>32692484They do understand how good they have it, but just like how boomers refuse to admit they had it easier, they know that if they just admit en masse that short guys, small dicked guys, ugly guys, guys with non-perfect physiques just don't have a chance, then society would stop working.
>>32692100>she's a mentally ill whoreAnd very probably not even a "she.">he's a mentally ill loserThe worst, by far, is the self-pitying types. It's like you try to tell them a fulfilling life takes a lot of work, and then they just double down and insist that no, there's something special about their circumstances, and their particular brand of obstacle makes it OK to not even try, then they get all ass-blasted when they you don't have some magic button they can press to unfuck their life.>>32691940My high school biology teacher was a total smoke show, and I had it for her bad.>>32690756Depends on the language.>>32692388>I used to have because I blocked him once I got tired of his clinginess and found another guySo you're yet another female who has nothing to offer beyond pussy, who is so broken you find genuine affection and interest in you as a person repulsive, and who can't help but monkey branch to the next dick for fear of being alone with her own thoughts for too long. You love to see it.
>>32692100I'm neither of those things (male) but that's probably also why I seem to absolutely despise every single person that adds me from here.
>>32692100Nah there's some more normal or stable people (like me) but they're hard to come by and I imagine they aren't as interested in sharing their contact
I would suck guy's dick only if he also lets me play with his asshole. Men, is that a fair deal?
>>32694054Absolutely, but I might be a little sensitive
>>32692911This. I never share my contact these days, but I've reached out to a few people I've gotten familiar with over multiple threads.>>32694054It's a fair deal in the sense that a steak dinner that comes with a free dessert is a fair deal. Meaning, absolutely... but there are lost souls who don't enjoy tiramisu, for whatever reason.I'm not sure why so many dudes are averse to ass play, but I think it has something to do with this retarded notion that letting someone play with/eat your ass is gay... even if that person is a woman.
>>32682758What do men think of big clits?
>>32692100This is 4chan, what did you expect?
>>32694148anabolic steroids
>>32691157Better idea: you should kill yourself>>32691426>Do women like guys who like farming or planting/gardeningYes, I do.>>32691940>did you ever have a crush on your teacher?Yeah, a couple of them. Especially math teachers because I'm really good at math and they were very encouraging.>>32692256>Does anyone know where to find women online that aren't busy, normie, or malicious? I find that every woman I meet online has at least 1 of these traits.And what's the common denominator? Stop talking to the chronically online.>>32692295>Which 3.5 do you speakSpanish, English, and German. And some Japanese, but haven't been motivated to put forth the effort to be fluent. I also learned some Arabic in Kuwait.>>32692484>Woman will never understand how good they have itAnd men will never understand what it's like to be a woman, despite how much you like to believe you do or try to claim that women don't understand what it's like being a man.
>>32694148bit weird, but not a deal breaker. Hell some guys have a fetish for it so there's that
>>32694485How did you come to learn those languages? What was your impetus? Are you euro? The fuck were you doing in Kuwait?
>>32694054No. Some people aren't into that at all, and ultimatums aren't healthy.
>>32691044>Not really, but it's not really a 1:1 comparison. Women typically find men in positions of power sexy, not positions of service. Bosses, police officers, authority figures, teachers.Then what would it be something that makes you go "yess, I scored a win today!"?
>>32694054You can eat me out (we can use plastic wrap after me thoroughly washing it to ensure no bad stuff happens) and finger my butt by only inserting the first segment of your finger.I also wouldn't say no to having my butthole rubbed.
>>32694485>And men will never understand what it's like to be a woman, despite how much you like to believe you do or try to claim that women don't understand what it's like being a man.I do believe that reading berserk helps a lot men to understand women and women to understand men.
>>32694054Nope, I don't like to have my asshole fingerprints (assprints?) on my woman's lips or fingers. You see, I don't like to kiss my own ass.>>32694148Depends. If it's a normally big one it's ok. If it's one of those gigantic pseudo-penis ones- that's a big no. If I wanted my partner to have a dick- I would fuck a dude or a hyena.
>>32694110>retarded notion that Do you like to kiss your own ass? Do you like to put your ass on the photo of your loved on? Do you like to put your ass on your food? Finding it gross has nothing to do with not wanting to look gay.
>>32694110>I'm not sure why so many dudes are averse to ass playWell first of all it's an inherently submissive thing to do (fun fact, blowjobs in japan are considered a dominant act), unless you spin it in a submissive way (no need to make it gross or humiliating, more like something like being serviced or pleasured or something), it very depends on the person involved as well as the partner.>letting someone play with/eat your ass is gayWhich might or might not be the case.>pic related
>>32694618>How did you come to learn those languages?Born in Mexico, moved to the US, obsessed with German engineering and cars and wanted to travel to Germany, and I want to visit Japan. Not because I'm a weeb, I promise.>Are you euro? Eww>The fuck were you doing in Kuwait?I got deployed there while serving in the Army.>>32694646>Then what would it be something that makes you go "yess, I scored a win today!"?I don't know. Maybe being forced into a maid costume and being made to suck a dick?>>32694655>I do believe that reading berserk helps a lot men to understand women and women to understand menWow, reading Berserk. That shows a lot of Guts.
>>32689173Jungkook. I'd drag my tits through broken glass just to suck that man's dick for 10 seconds.
>>32695127>I'd drag my tits through broken glass just to suck that man's dick for 10 secondsYou literally CAN do that by studying his preferences, working smart and getting rich, slowly changing your character and appeareance to whatever he prefers, moving to Korea, or wherever that dude is, and moving yourself closer and closer to him. It will probably be harder than dragging the tits through broken glass, but at least you'll live longer than a dozen minutes, and you'll get to suck his dick every day,
>>32694716>I got deployed there while serving in the Army.>I don't know. Maybe being forced into a maid costume and being made to suck a dick?
>>32695193I don't know much about the Kpop world, but from what I do know, these guys are on another level when it comes to security. I don't think they're like Western pop stars who are fucking groupies all the time. From what I hear their contracts are very strict and that sort of stuff is off limits.
>>32695195
>>32695195you're either lying, very rich now, or very stupid
>>32694485>but haven't been motivated to put forth the effort to be fluentTo be fair, it's a lot of fucking effort you're talking about.>And men will never understand what it's like to be a womanTrue.>claim that women don't understand what it's like being a manI mean you really don't, though.>>32694655I request further elaboration.>>32694662Don't be so suburban.>>32694716>That shows a lot of Guts>mfw
>>32694054Sure, go for it.
>>32695503What exactly am I lying about, if I only greentexted the anon that said that he was both in the military and wants to suck a cock? >>32695554What's ''suburban'' about not liking to kiss my own ass? Would you also like to lick your own feet?
>>32694655What does Berserk have to do with understanding women? If you said Utena, Nana or Rose of Versailles, sure, but Berserk? Nah.
>>32694148No real opinion as long as it doesn’t affect my sexual enjoyment.
>>32690756Male. I do. I speak a bit of German myself (not well) and know how hard it is to master a new language.
Women, is there a casual way to ask a woman which style of panties she likes to wear?
>>32682758I’m about 6”x5.5” (15cm x 14cm) and I was thinking about experimenting with penis enlargement at home. What are the downsides of potentially going on to 7.5” x 6.25” (19cm x 16cm) or maybe even more?
>>32696516No, lol
24 f anon here, how do you best reject a guy after a first date? I don't think he did anything wrong and our conversations were alright, I'm just not super attracted to him. I feel like guys hate when women say "there wasn't a spark" but I also don't know what else to say really.
>>32696788>”hey, the date went well but I just don’t see us working out”That’s probably how I’d want to be rejected in that situation. Rejection is always gonna hurt so don’t worry too much about not hurting him. Just don’t be needlessly cruel and most guys will take it fairly well
>>32696794is this sometimes the reason they ghost? like it's the easiest thing to say and you can block right afterwards if you dw him pestering you afterwards
>>32694148do not like but would not mind provided the woman is not a pooner or actively abusing roids, detrans poons I would take if they have reedeming qualities and they look normal after detran + seem well adjusted
>>32696973I don’t know. I’m not a woman. I’d rather someone just be honest with me than ghost me. You tell me there’s something wrong with me, I can accept that (maybe even work on it). You ghost me I’m probably gonna assume it’s the thing I’m most insecure about and feel way worse. I understand why people ghost others even if I try to avoid doing it, people are annoying.
>>32691044it's impressive but not in terms of intelligence cause midwit tier brainpower is more than enough for any language, it's impressive in terms of dedication and discipline provided it's not a language nerd doing it as a parlor trick but someone actually putting it to good use
>>32696794ty i basically sent that to him>>32696973>>32696981some of my friends were telling me to ghost and I think that it's a really shitty thing to do on purpose because I know it would make me feel worthless. But yeah, I think the issue is that we don't wanna hurt the person's feeling and so some people rationalize that ghosting somehow sends the message in a way that doesn't actively require you to do anything. Like letting the trolley kill 5 people instead of being the one who chooses that 1 specific person dies, I guess. It's hard to tell someone "no" in general, I think.
>>32697010I swear every time with a woman her friends are encouraging her to be as callous and flighty as possible but as a dude whenever I ask advice it's always just like try your best man
Should I tell girls that I have pretty bad premature ejaculation before sex? I usually cum in 10-15 sec, so my dick is practically useless.
>>32682945f 19i go on /d/, /b/, /gif/, /ic/, /mlp/, /vt/, /trash/, and of course /soc/.i feel like if people were more specific with their threads that might be good but that's a really vague answer, i'm just not really sure.
>>32684725I can't speak for any other femanons, but only from personal experience. Being ghosted is an unfortunate but regular experience for anons. It's especially true online, where 50% of communication is lost (Body/Facial expression). This is because there are so many factors in other peoples life that are frankly beyond your control and shouldn't shoulder whatever they feel about you or what is going on in their lives preventing them creating any connection with you. Humans are simple (DNA, Dopamine centre of the brain & subconscious dictate a lot of behavior's), but also complex as far as their self-agency, preferences and communication styles go. We live in the age of instant gratification. So, the probability of any interaction progressing into a deeper connection is pretty low, and thats NORMAL. Effective communication is important, it's not about being entertained, or constantly engaging but (Personally) more about mutual interest and respect. Curiosity I find plays a big role in genuine conversations. When both an anon and myself are curious about one another's lives, their thoughts, and emotions or how they view the world, or if they are willing to listen and not feel pressured to change my opinion or their own. It's a two way street though, not always reciprocated. A lot of interactions are superficial, I have already accepted that it is a fact that anyone I speak to online has their own lives, friends or are speaking to other people. I do my best to keep a humble perspective that it takes time to foster anything worthwhile. Also ... places like 4chan... you're dealing with a community mindset that doesn't necessarily value the same desires you want from the people you are connecting with...Longterm deep connections that evolve into something. Even if they say they want that most people have no clue what they want. Little changes in how you start conversations, or ask questions can make a big difference.
>>32686133I can't tell if you're joking. I think its absolutely fine but this is a preference thing based on the individual. If they don't like you because you have a cat and not because of a particular personality trait or habit that you have control over, you're probably dodging a bullet. Just saying.
>>32686142I like pegging men. It's one of those things you have to feel out. Setting out expectations right away is important. The dynamic has to be established right away. Boundaries and safety should be priority. Kind of play the "Read the room card" if you're speaking to a femanon that clearly is hot as shit but is either young, inexperienced or has zero interest in sex... Just don't bring it up. Probably not the lady you are looking for. It takes experience and a general view of the human sexual/pleasure experience to not hear "I want to be pegged" from a man and not be icking your yum? Also... its a huge turn off if the man who wants to be pegged doesnt know how to clean their assholes and clear the lowest part of their colon. No one likes shit on their nice strap-ons.
>>32686512So femanon to femanon, if you are a biologically sexed female, your brain gets flooded with dopamine especially if you reach orgasm. There's other neurotransmitters at play including oxytocin too (The driver of wanting to be close). It allows for more orgasms (an important DNA driven way to ensure pregnancy) while anons who are biological male sexed will be flooded with serotonin (a mood regulator that is now more associated with not just positive mood but also sense of safety and the rest-digest state) and a some oxytocin. It's sometimes called Post-nut clarity, but more often its biological sexed males make millions of sperm so sleeping and recovery is more of biological response. I guess your anon's recovery mode is gaming??
>>32696516Short answer is no. Long answer is... there is social pressure to be sexy, but not too sexy, but also sexy over healthy??? To be honest, I get this question a lot from women who are experiencing yeast infections. The line of questioning usually goes like this "This is the second time in 2 months is there something I am doing wrong" and I will ask them "Well, are you using perfumed soap or antibacterial soap, douches, spraying perfume on the outside of your pants, using scented panty liners or wearing synthetic underwear?" (again this is if they are not coming in related to having an STI or STD) and they will say "Does Dial shower gel count?" or "No I don't douche, but does this vegan organic blah blah count? "or "I wear these stretchy 100% lycra/spandex thongs/sport panties/ xyz" and I'll encourage them to wear underwear that is at least 45% cotton. Synthetic underwear keeps in sweat, it get warm and it becomes a perfect breeding ground for bad bacteria to take over the natural vaginal bacterial flora. High sugar diets can also impact this natural flora. Anything perfumed can impact that natural flora....but socially there is an expectation to look good rather than feel good. I kinda just let them know, usually they will try it and their issues resolve. Keeping a few sets of sexy underthings perfectly fine, but wearing them every single day... bad new bears.
>>32696788The fact that you're even asking this question is great. It's challenging and not wrong. Try to handle the rejection with as much compassion and kindess using 'I' statements and being clear is key and direct is key. As a femanon, I can't and wont attempt to speak for anons, but from experience being rejected, it's always helpful to explain yourself like one adult to another. You're right that "I don't feel a spark" is shitty, because its ambiguous... "I really enjoyed meeting you and our conversation, but I don't feel a romantic connection to you' is a clear statement. It acknowledges positives but sticks to your feelings. Be prepared for them asking for feedback... its entirely up to you how much you want to share, but again kindness respect and clear statements are helpful.
>>32691940Nope. Never had any attractive teachers, tbqh.>>32692100I'm very much a successful normie; I'm just here habitually.>>32694054Absolutely not.>>32694148"Huh, that's interesting.">>32697466I used to be surprised that people didn't get this; then I realised that a lot of people have been more or less completely socialised online. Mad world.>>32697473Don't encourage him. Dogs are better.>>32697482Keep myself clenched around you, love.>>32697525Well, this was eye opening.
>>32696788You're right. we do. But if that's the hill you're gonna die on, just get it over and done with. The only thing I dislike more than answers I think are asinine is having my time wasted.
>>32697414Get good at foreplay>t. fellow fast finisher with a roster of fwb that keep coming over
>>32697414Being open and honest about your personal sexual experience like PME is important. This is because it affects the mutual satisfaction of both of your experiences. I would always error on the side of caution and communicate this before becoming intimate. An Informed partner can at least make Informed decisions which hopefully means exploring alternative ways to ensure you're both mutually pleasured and sexually fullfilled. Intimacy and human sexuality is more than just penetrative sex, it fosters closeness and longevity in long term relationships. with out more details, I would suggest reaching out to Urologist as they might be able to help you with PME.
>>32697553Aww I like dogs too.. I have three. But Seriously though pretty bad reason to give up on someone if everything else is great but they have a cat?? I dont know... Pets are family for alot of people. Yes, I'm apart of that middle generation where I grew up online but was still forced to interact socially all the time... going through Uni etc. Also femanon so there's an expectation to be ultra sociable. 4chan is a place where I can be an asshole or not... I guess tonight I'm feeling generous hahaahah Heyyy man dont knock it till you try .. but Yeah, I'm pretty open to different forms of pleasure. Thats just one. There's lots of others which can be satisfying for both. It's also kinda true for men. I've encouraged some young men who have large testicals to look into pocketed or dual pouch boxer briefs. It cuts down on chafing and also helps with feeling secure. Cotton blend underware is healthy for both biological sexes. I think everyone has fallen into the "Well this is all i can get " kinda mindset... the worlds your oyster you should be comfortable because comfort (8 times out of 10 is usually health)...
In the USA, 6 foot is the magical cutoff between man and compromised man. 5 foot 10, of the woman feels generous. What’s the mark for West Europe (Germany, Benelux, Scandinavia) where everyone is taller?
>>326975966'3
>>326975966’4
>>326975966'5"
>>32697585I'm generally not very fond of cats, at all. I'd have to really like that particular cat, or really, *really* like that girl.I am humbled by your graciousness, love.Nope. Nope. If anything, just as a matter of religious conviction; but even then, no interest in the matter.I generally always wear cotton, so I've never thought about it at length.>>32697596No idea. Height only really seems to matter on the internet, and to women irl who believe they can be rude to just about anyone they wish.
>>32697613You've been a Gent! Care to chat? I have a long night ahead of me. I have discord, prefer telegram. What's your poison?
>>32697656Hah, you charmer. My discord is mr.byrd.n.a.hatt
>>32697668Nicely done anon nicely done
should I go up to the cashier as a socially incompetent male who has never approached womencontext roundabout my age, facial features mannerisms suggesting that we may gel
>>32698558Please don't hit on people who are working. It's a pretty big social faux pas. They're unable to leave, and expected to be nice to you, which makes rejecting you quite uncomfortable for them, should they choose to.
>>32698574you sure this isn't part of the new zoomer sentiment that everything is harassment cause they're too used to atomized society?
>>32698586Yes. Many people are not in a socializing mood while they're working. Or even a good mood. And the last thing they want is somebody hitting on them. It could very well turn a likely yes into a no.
>>32682945F18I lurk /atoga/ frequently enough, and I'll stop by one of the rate threads just to see what the people of this site look like. It's fun./tv/ /ck/ /o/ are my favorites, and I would add /g/ if it weren't such an incompetent boardI hate how sexual everything is around here, it's just depravity after depravity, but I mean I don't think that's a solvable issue so oh well
>>32698574I get that you’re trying to help but I think he wanted advice from women, given the nature of the thread. They might say the same thing you did—or maybe not—but I believe he wanted an opinion that wasn’t from another guy.
>>32697414Yes. I sometimes lie to women that I'm impotent - it's flattering for them to feel me get hard with them.
>>32696703The risk is breaking your penis.5.5" girth is perfect fine, above average even.You could be cursed with 4" girth so no woman will ever feel anything with you.
>>32699039But if I’m extremely cautious about it I could get bigger
>>32698643I'm aware, but with how slow these threads are there was no guarantee he'd get one any time soon, and may have left beforehand. Just because a question is aimed at one gender doesn't mean the other can't comment on it.
Are men into getting dommed by shorter women?I'm 5'3 but I wanna pull off the whole "seductive dommy mommy" thing, but every dude I've been with tried to turn it around/reverse it despite me explicitly saying I don't like subbing. Should I just go for guys under 5'3? I don't really want taller guys to be *into* the fact that I'm short either. I just want someone who's normal about it.
>>32699204I personally am. Quite submissive, but have always loved shorter women. At the end of the day, it's roleplay, since I'd generally be able to overpower a woman unless I'm bound or held at knifepoint or something. So her height isn't really relevant to the equation. The dominance is mental, not physical, unless we're including bondage.>Should I just go for guys under 5'3?Seems like that would hurt your dating pool a lot. Such guys are pretty rare, and many of them would probably aim for shorter women.
>>32699204You are based, but the thing is its harder to pull off the whole mommy dom thing if youre 5'3, it just dont feel the same as a tall woman, but if youre really good you can pull it off
>>32698558No. Try to meet women through friends or shared hobbies/spaces. Don't go up to strangers.>>32692891If you're in a fwb situation once one side catches feelings it's usually over. Incels who don't get any sexual action pretend they're based chads pumping and dumping women but whenever a femanon mentions she isn't into a guy romantically your facade falls apart and you cry like a little bitch.
v>>32699073Maybe. I don't know. I live in the city where they do dick fillers. That's my plan.
>>32699204I'm not into it at all so I'm not your target demographic but I imagine you'd be hard pressed to find a guy who would be into it unless he's specifically a fan of you being short
>>32699367Those don’t do much for length
>>32699204I'm a submissive man myself. I'm into thr dommy mommy thing. The energy is what means me weak and want to submit not height. Hell couple of breathes against the ear... a whisper and I'm a puddled mess. We are out there. Only issue is you are catering for a certain demographic only with its weirdness while fitting in another. You are going to sadly have to deal with a lot of guys into height being a thing. But I assure you what you are looking for is there.
>>32699829Length is pointless outside of just being above 5 inches or longer. Too long can hurt the chick. There's no such thing as too wide.
>>32690531I'm a girl and I'm very lonely. Everyone suffers
>>3269670320 feewww why would you want do that? your size is good. is penis enlargement common with guys??
>>32700289I don't know why he specifically would want to do it as he's already pretty big, but for someone like me it's a necessity to hold onto a relationship and not get cheated on.
>>32698558F. if you're chill and nice about it, I think it's ok :) especially if you think you're compatible. women barely get hit on by strangers these days, she might be glad.>>32698574I think if for whatever reason she freaks out about it then you know she's annoying and that's that. I don't think it's that serious. the worst thing that'll happen is you might be too embarrassed to shop there again
>>32698776I'm split between thinking this is cute n funny, or so cruel. if I was hooking up with you and found out you were lying I would be humiliated lolll
>>32700312>I think if for whatever reason she freaks out about it then you know she's annoying and that's that.It depends on the person I think. Some people get pretty freaked out by strangers hitting on them. It can be especially freaky at one's place of work, because if said stranger ends up being a creep, they then know exactly where to find you in the future.All in all, I don't think it's worth the risk unless you're pretty confident that there's some sort of mutual attraction going on.
>>32700301this is a pretty crazy mindset. At the risk of sounding gay, you need to love yourself! I briefly dated a guy who was like 4" and had ED. The sex was great and I adored him. He was the one who ended things.If you are a loving person who doesn't hate himself, you will attract good people.
got a question for females:Would you be turned on by erotically fighting, boxing, wrestling, or sexfighting with a guy as a form of foreplay/the main course of sex? would you realistically be able to beat a guy in these areas, or are you too weak?
>>32700318I agree with the mutual attraction part. It's best to do it if you feel like the vibe is right.> they then know exactly where to find you in the futureagain, it's not that serious. It's normal for guys to hit on women (not to contradict myself). if he presents himself in a way that isn't super creepy and like he's ok with his offer being declined, I'm sure she'll sleep fine.
>>32700342Yeah, making it clear that you're welcome to decline is definitely the way to do it. But that can be hard in a situation where you approach someone who can't leave. If it were me I'd probably do something like, leaving a note with a little message and my number. Might not come off as confident, but it feels less pressure-inducing, at least.
>>32700352True, I get what you mean, it can be awkward. Also I'm pretty sure cold-approaching girls usually doesn't work out. But I have faith in this anon! life needs to be less sterile
>>32700328As nice as it sounds, I think most people are willing to put up with a few flaws, but wheb you have a lot of flaws like I do, it's almost impossible.Also I have a fixation on PIV. If I can't make it feel somewhat good with her in PIV it doesn't feel mutual.
>>32700333boxing your girl is crazy lmao
>>32700333Yes. I don't think I'd be able to win consistently against a guy unless I was given a handicap. I wouldn't mind losing if it leads to good sex, though.
>>32700369Do you think maybe your fixation on PIV stems from your insecurity about your penis size? sex is so much more than thatAlso, as a girl, PIV can honestly only feel so good. I does feel good but most of the pleasure is mental (if that makes sense?), we're not like guys. But for me the physical pleasure is actually increased when I really like the guy I'm with, regardless of his size.A girl will like you a lot if you like yourself a lot. unless you're some tortured artist which can also be hot
>>32699289>If you're in a fwb situationThere's your problem right there. Show me a woman who can separate sex and intimacy, and I'll show you damaged goods.>IncelsYeah, honey, this word has lost all weight; it just registers as "man who who says things I don't like.">>32700278Lonely how? Are you very ugly, very picky, or is something else going on?>>32700196>tfw blessed with coke can dick>>32699204Some men are, but most tend to be dominant or just vanilla. I personally don't have a submissive cell in my body.>>32696703Don't do it; eggplant syndrome is horrifying, and the treatment even moreso. Also, stop watching porn.
>>32700381I mean I just like the idea of railing a girl and her being really into it. Even with certain techniques it feels like that's impossible to achieve with anything other than a really girthy dick.
>>32700383>Are you very ugly, very picky, or is something else going on?yeah, I'm the secret third thing
>>32700392certain positions can help with increasing her pleasure a lot. having a small dick isn't a death sentence. and maybe you weren't meant to rail a girl porno style. you have to learn to play with the cards you're dealt with
>>32700196You can just control your depth. You can also break out more if the lady wants more
Ladies.Would you ever date a guy who was severely physically disabled? Like look up Shane Burcaw. I don't have the exact same disease, but I'm disabled to a similar degree. Would you ever date anyone that fucked up?
>>32700289Part of me just wants a bit more. Better to have and not need
>>32700411He has a wife, it’s certainly possible
>>32700417He has an employee. Shane is an inspiration porn grifter. Has been since way before she barnacled onto him.
>>32700370are you now? are we talking play boxing, or how rough do you like it?
How weird is it for me to let my female friend cuddle and hug me while she actively tries to find someone to date?Never really been into her, she talks to too many guys for my liking, and theres usually a new guy she talks to every few weeks, though this time she told me she probably found the one yet shes still super touchyIs she acting odd or am I the one thats touch starved
>>32700374about how tall are you and how much do you weigh? btw I figure win or lose the sex would be great as long as you were a challenge and were into it. Sometimes girls say they're up for it but then go dead fish or expect me to do all the work and it sucks.
>>32700404Yeah but one of the cards I was dealt is living in a time where I can medically increase my girth.
>>32700440Lol ok valid. Also generally how do guys feel about fake boobs?
>>32700411If you're a cool guy, yes. it'd be even cooler if you were a genius or some shit like Stephen hawking but I don't wanna put all disabled guys into a box lmao
>>32700455>generally how do guys feel about fake boobs?Personally, they're my worst enemy. I prefer smaller sizes, so the concept of artificially increasing size is poison to me. Doesn't help that it seems rare for them to come out looking natural. I mean, you'll see celebrities spend millions on the things, yet they still look incredibly obvious.
>>32697482I met a Chinese international student online who wanted to peg me. She texted in poor English and took a long time to respond, but surprisingly we actually met. That was the first time I ever met someone, I guess it didn't go that well since I was nervous and she couldn't speak well, but I liked it. I'm very attracted to Asian women, and she seemed to be experienced at pegging. I didn't ask her for anything else since I was too nervous. But I've been sad since she hasn't responded, and I've become obsessed with her even though I don't know anything about her. I keep thinking about how I'm never going to experience anything like that ever again. Watching Fallen Angels helped a bit, but can anyone give me some advice on how to move on? Also is it bad to be obsessed with Chinese and Asian women? I'm thinking of learning Chinese going to China.>>32697482This seems to be good advice, but how do you attract girls into pegging in the first place? Do people use tinder here because most people seem to be talking about irl? Anyway the thing is that I barely get any matches with my photos just being selfies in my room wearing makeup and I was thinking I would get better success if I just created a profile with good photoa instead. But at the same time I was able to match with people into pegging, so maybe being more selective is a good thing? Or should I just stop using dating apps and try doing it in real life.
>>32700455Mild augmentation, like adding some fat into them, is fine by me, but if they stop jiggling, I'm no longer into it.
>>32700289>is penis enlargement common with guys??No it's not >>32700455Personally not a fan at all and I tend to assume most guys aren't into them either. They don't look good and they don't bode well for a woman's mental state
>>32700278Lies u can get almost any man nowadays even at 400pounds
>>32700791Projecting much?
The /adv/ atoga just had a 2 hour long argument about whether not having a bedframe is a red flag. Want to do that here? I'm on team sleep on a slate.
>>32700795No i am just 75kg but what i said its a fact , almost all men even top percent men are so desperate to be with someone that all girls have chances the opposite is impossible to happen
>>32700807I was referring to projecting the desperation.It's true that a lot of men have low standards when it comes to casual sex, but that's not a relationship, anon.
>>32700815Personally i never tried to that aspect but i saw it on friends family and almost to anyone...men sadly they give too much for less
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>>32700333Picrel>Would you be turned on by erotically fighting, boxing, wrestling, or sexfighting with a guy as a form of foreplay/the main course of sex?Yes. I actually don't like the normal type of dom/sub stuff, because it doesn't actually feel like being dominated when you're GIVING control to someone. So I like it sort of TAKEN. >would you realistically be able to beat a guy in these areas, or are you too weak?The average man? Yeah. I don't have whatever gene makes you playfight. So it's always a fight for survival. I'm getting better about it through BJJ, but that instinct is still there.>>32700437>this time she told me she probably found the one yet shes still super touchyMale brain at work
>>32698558Don't make a huge deal out of it; make some small talk, give her your number, and hope for the best.>>32699204I find your attempts to be quite cute, if nothing else.>>32700370You don't actually hit her, silly bollocks.
Women, my question is about envy. In your experience do you feel men envy other men more or do women envy other women more? Basically, which gender envies the members of their own gender more?
>>32701022male but I think this one should be obvious
>>327004395'2", about 125lbs. I agree that the fun would be the struggle, regardless of who wins or loses.
>>32701022How many women partake in forums dedicated to complaining about Stacy stealing all men? Now how many men partake in forums complaining about chad stealing women and keep posting about chads looks, body, etc. and try to looksmaxx to be like him?Men are more insecure, probably because the average man doesn't get the attention the average woman does(from the opposite sex but also compliments and such from their samesex friends), also men are competitive in nature. It's how it's always been and no matter how much men lie to themselves, they can't change their competitive nature.
>>32701067but I don't resent more successful men unless they're successful in a soulless way like "gambler playboy millionaire" or somethingany young business owning type / high ranking military guy / or successful public persona that seems like a good guy to me never made me feel worse for having less status than them, they're inspiring if anything
>>32700381>A girl will like you a lot if you like yourself a lot.Oh well, I knew I'm a lost cause at the moment.>unless you're some tortured artist which can also be hotI did read it as "autist" initally, yes.>>32700455>Also generally how do guys feel about fake boobs?Don't really a fan because it often doesn't look that good. There're probably some exceptions, but none that I know or can recall right now.
>>32701073>but I don't resent more successful men unless... Do you think women resent successful women like female surgeons or something? No one resents successful people who worked for it but men are known to be jealous of better looking richer men with better social status more commonly compared to women. You're delusional if you can't admit that most men here are jealous of normal/average men who have been dealt better cards at life.
>>32701088I always thought that the definition of the word implied a resentful coveting, of course I would like to have the advantages of people who were dealt better cards than me but I don't seethe about itif your definition of jealousy is just wanting something then everyone is jealous cause you can't not want to be one of the ones doing better
>>32701067also male looksmaxaxing is just an poor autistic imitation of what women start doing intuitively at like age 7 and the male takes up at like age 16-19
To clarify, envy is wanting what someone else has. Jealously in its original meaning was different, although the two terms are often used interchangeably now. As for competition, that’s not inherently envious. Wanting to defeat someone because you think you’re better at something than they are wouldn’t be envious, but trying to bring down someone because their success or even existence makes you feel inferior would be. Likewise, wanting to achieve something because someone better than you has gained something similar would not be envy, that’s more of an inspirational model.
>>32701124yeah anon seems to almost apply that there's something wrong with that competitiveness, that it stems from an "insecurity", when it's like clearly the most natural urge humans have to help them survive
>>32692543We’re kinda already in the way to that outcome. Men are checking out whether women notice it or not or even care about it and the few that are, seem to be panicking over it. For us average dudes, there really isn’t any incentive to try when the dating market is this fucked. If anything the only one fucking us is the government who tax us out of being able to actually build respectable wealth despite working 40-60 hours a week.
>>32700989>The average man? Yeah. I don't have whatever gene makes you playfight. So it's always a fight for survival.as long as you can dial that back mid struggle to the point where you can be sensual and erotic WHILE fighting then I'll marry you right now <3
>>32700316you'd be humiliated just by hooking up with me it's all cool
Hi femanons, I'm in a rly dark place in terms of romance right now. I had a wonderful girl in my life who checked all my checkboxes and who was my very best friend, but I fumbled her by refusing to commit for over a year and being mean to her to boot. Now she's replaced me as of a year ago, and I don't really know what to do with myself. The circumstances of meeting her were totally by chance, and she's the only person who I've ever met who came even close to evoking romantic feelings in me. She was the only person who ever understood me, and hence she set my standards to what feels like an impossible high. It's for that reason I feel like I'm doomed, because I know if someone can't meet the standards she set at a minimum, I won't be interested. Dating apps contain thousands of women that I swipe left on. Meeting women irl is impossible nowadays especially since I'm out of college now. I don't know how the hell it's ever gonna happen again with another girl. I'm almost halfway thru my twenties and I feel like time is running out. How do I even begin to find someone who I will be happy with?
>>32700427Well said.>>32700437I'm curious, why are you friends with this person?>>32700455I'm a guy who loves ABCs, but size preference aside, they also look unnatural which I'm not a fan of.>>32700544>is it bad to be obsessed with Chinese and Asian women?Define "obsessed." If by "obsessed" you mean "a strong preference for" then no, you're fine. I have an incidental preference for Asian women, as I have a preference for women who are fit, submissive, value education and family, and aren't into ratchet shit. Is that the only girl from Asia you've been with? I will say this, be prepared for the realization that you like the idea of Asian women more than the realities of them.Also, you need to not obsess over a woman who has ghosted you.>>32700800The bar for "red flags" has gotten kind of low, hasn't it? Can you tl;dr the concept for us? Why is it a red flag? I have a cushioned headboard, because I like to read, play my switch, and it's handy during sex.>>32700807Going by income, height, and general aesthetics I am objectively in the top 20% of men and I don't talk to any woman who is older than 26 and/or lacks a thigh gap.Granted, there is sudden and drastic change in the line between invisible and desirable, but a lot of men are much closer to the right side of that line than they think.>>32698558Have you ever had an actual conversation with this woman?>>32701022Both genders envy as hard as the other, but generally for different reasons.>>32701067This post is just straight truth. I'll also expand that attempting to deny one's competitive nature is one of the leading causes of mental health issues in men.Knowing one's self, being at peace with one's self, and the unapologetic pursuit of one's best self, is absolutely essential. Boys, if you're not doing shadow work, do shadow work.>>32701088>men who have been dealt better cards at lifeOr men who just play their cards better.
>>32701438Female.I don't know where you would find another girl, but for the sake of the next girl you're with, pleaseee get over this one. It sucks meeting a guy and finding out he's still hung up on his ex. That majority of men are like this, their first heartbreak stunts them emotionally. There are grown men with wives and kids still thinking about their hs gf. Sad. Accept that you made mistakes with her but don't go your whole life feeling regret and longing.
>>32701484>I'm a guy who loves ABCsI love 4chan, it's one of the few places where you get a surplus of guys who love small boobs. As a downtrodden flat-chested girl, I appreciate you artistic kings fr <333
>>32701530The thing is, I have no faith in there being a next girl. You yourself admit you don't know where I'd find her, because in all reality it would be just as rng as it was with my ex. But I'm not as outgoing and charismatic as I was back then. If I can find someone who miraculously measures up to the standards she set, i could ever my lingering feelings for my ex become a problem. But I don't think that person will ever come. Methinks I'm doomed unless I settle which is a nightmare scenario to me.
>>32682758What games do women play? Other than Candy Crush, the Sims, and city-builders.
>>32701067women aren't in forums in general (w/ the exception of fucked-up ones like me) so that's not a fair comparison. Intra-sexual competition is normal among both genders. Me-Too was a psyop created by older famous women to give themselves value in the sexual marketplace to compete with younger prettier women. Incels seething about Chad is just guys who hate themselves angry about a guy who doesn't. Most female envy takes place irl. If you're an average girl in a room with guys and one attractive girl, the guys usually pay attention to the hot one.But this is nature. Attractive people have advantages and that's ok.
>>32701542We're definitely out there! And even among those who don't prefer it, I think many guys are happy with any boobs regardless of size. Keep your chin up!
>>32701557Female intersexual competition doesn't exist, in nature males always compete for women. The only women who I've seen compete with fellow women were unattractive autists that were so bottom of the barrel they were almost female equivalent of incels, probably you're one of them given how bitter you are.In a room full of women, the man pays attention to either his girlfriend, female friend or his relative. Not to the hottest woman. Since you've never been seen as attractive, you think just like an incel would and think Stacy steals all good men and that's why no one pays attention to you when it's actually because you're too below average to be desired by anyone, like incels.
>>32701545I said idk where you'd find the next one because idk where to find a bf. I'm not the one to get advice in that regard. Maybe if you have irl male friends, spend more time with them. It sounds like you know what your problem is though: you're not outgoing, etc. But if you were like that before, you can be that again, stop moping. You just feel hopeless because that's what heartbreak feels like. This feeling will pass with time!! Learn to appreciate the other aspects of yourself.
>>32701567Yes it does!! I've seen it with my own eyes, two attractive girls competing for a guy. And second of all I am not fugly, just depressed and awkward. I don't see my post as bitter at all, I was saying it's normal for people to compete and for some people to have advantages. I am not bitter about hypothetical guys initially preferring a hot girl because that's their nature and I don't completely hate myself. I bring some things to the table, too!
>>32701110>I always thought that the definition of the word implied a resentful covetingThat is correct.>>32701295You hate to see it, but you're right. Most men are just checking out and going through the motions of life, or committing themselves to becoming apex predators at the top of the social food chain. Our society has starkly divided men into winners and losers... so which are you?What makes you so average? Sounds like you need to change things up a little, or maybe a lot. If taxes are getting you down, change states, or hell, change countries. Is there a better way you could spend those 40-60 hours?It is very hard to move up just by working hard and saving, this is by design. The way you counter this is by not conforming to certain assumptions about how one lives their life; getting 2 or 3 roommates you can trust and going full on cocoon mode for a year or two while saving up enough money to breath long enough to ask yourself what you want and have enough resources set aside to actually make it happen isn't the most elegant solution, but it is a solution.If you tell me a bit more about your situation, where you're spinning your wheels I can give more meaningful/tailored advice.>>32701438>halfway thru my twenties and I feel like time is running outBruh. You're fine. Don't waste your 20s on video games and weed, but by all means get out there and put some miles on your soul.>by refusing to commit for over a yearMen don't commit in their 20s. Seriously, why would we?>She was the only person who ever understood meYou've literally just started life.>Dating appsAnyone you meet there will be for recreational use only, and having the benefit of time and experience I would... caution against casual sex. I'm not saying don't partake in hook-ups at all, just don't let it become your life like... this one idiot did, for awhile. He got better.>How do IBy finding happiness within yourself and being open to sharing that happiness with someone else.
>>32701590So you're ugly, awkward and depressed? The blackpill whores who think all women have to compete just because they're so unlikeable they have to chase men for male attention are so pathetic. Doubt you bring anything to the table aside from misogyny and bad hygiene - like your incel counterparts.
>>32700544It's a positive thing that your first experience was pleasurable. You're probably not experiencing full on rejection but preference is likely at play. Knowing that language is a barrier is probably difficult for not only you but also the woman pegging you. Try not to bias a single interaction as your best. It was your first so of course there's a special glow that comes when remiencing. Be an active participant in seeking out what you'd like...outside of just this woman's nationality and looks. I know anons are biologically more focused on physical apperance, but urge you to focus on the physical pleasure. How do you know she was experienced? Did it hurt ever? Did you get anal tears? Are you personally experienced doing butt stuff by yourself? Was this woman's stamina good? Even with the language barrier were they able to reach your prostate? Was there ample lube? These are important questions ask when undertaking butt sex (either pegging or gay sex) you only have one arsehole. Treat it nicely. One bad bout of anal fissures, hemroids etc can really squash your capability to enjoy that form of sexual pleasure. So to answer your question about obsession... Everything in balance. For every woman who may be skilled in pegging but not of some Asian nationality is a missed opportunity for you to narrow in on your own pleasure. I don't know how old you are, but the world is full of women who enjoy pegging their partners. Myself included. I can't comment on tinder being a good way to find women who enjoy pegging but if your goal is to attract women period, use natural light, outside full body and portrait photos tend to get more likes. I feel a lot of remorse for those who use tinder and the like. The ratio to female to male is very lob sided. It doesn't help that tinder encourages males to purchase more expensive plans to score more women. Wish you luck
>>32701530This. I would also add that if one has time to dwell on the past they're slacking in the present.>>32701542Smaller tits are way perkier. Nothing wrong with larger boobs or the girls who have them, but I'm 99% sure the reason they're the default preferred option is because the pervasive influence of porn.>>32701545If you live your life and pursue what makes you happy, you will naturally find people who share in that happiness. You're like dudes who are like WHERE DO I FIND GIRLS INTO VIDEO GAMES AND ANIME... at video game and anime conventions/events/gatherings, you fucking twats. Also, show up showered and dressed in something other than cargo shorts, and don't be fat.What do you have going on in your life other than the pursuit of a relationship?>>32701567>Female intersexual competition doesn't existStopped reading. Yes it does. I've literally watched two women get thrown out of Disneyland over me. I've personally witnessed many (as in, probably over a dozen) female friendships/friend groups implode over feelings about a man, over the years... and I wasn't always said man....but I fucking LOVE IT when I'm the man.
>>32701619Madam, just so you're aware, you're being a raging BIATCH for no reason at all. I'm sorry your life sucks, but that a-cup princess isn't the reason you're so cunty and full of hate.
>>32701022Both men and women spend time puffing up their chests when trying to find mates. 9 times out of 10 women dress for other women. It's a competition for both sexes. Envy is motivated by pain, the pain one experiences when they do not have what someone else has or looks like. Jealously is motivated by fear of losing what one already has or likely to have (a mate opportunity). I don't believe you can generalize and entire sex group to envy itself. It's more likely that each sex equally envies and is jealous of the same sex depending on context. You're asking a question related to social expectations and social role sequencing. If you're caught up on someone of the same sex, just know that at any given moment you are only seeing a slice of the entire person and their life. I have had to explain this before to someone in finance. When Steve jobs and warren buffet went on a trip for river rafting/canoeing... Warren was so anxious about not being able to have sat phone connection he refused to go down the river. It's one of those things you can have everything in the world and still be very lonely.
>>32701574I think the answer for the both of us as to "where" is just that it's going to be wherever we aren't expecting it, going off of how it happened with my ex. It'll some context we'll find ourselves in that we are in organically, not really looking for a partner within it. Or maybe I'm wrong lol, but it's the only way I can really see something as magical as my first happening again to any capacity.I feel like my male friends might be holding me back bcuz they are all single like me for the most part and they sorta make me complacent, as in I'll be more likely to hang out with them, where there is no chance of meeting a girl, versus going out and meeting new people.I don't think time in of itself is a healer, it's already been over a year for me and I feel marginally better at best. I cant seem to get her down from the pedestal in my mind. No one else has ever been able to compete. But I think you're right that it's this that will destroy me, since it will make it unfair for any girl who may actually be interested in me in the future.>>32701542Flat is unironically the best btw do not EVER feel bad about that
>>32701088I think you're partially right. Women can be jealous of women with prestigious career but at the same time women understand it's very likely those women had to give up a lot to get where they are. (being mothers, having work life balance, hobbies, etc) men envy. They experience pain when they are either incapable or unable to achieve what another man has. Jealousy comes into play when men who both have achieved something to be proud of (Plastic surgeon vs. lawyer) both lucrative careers so then there is focus on physical attributes, and tearing that man down. Women do this too. It's a dog eat dog kinda world when it comes to status games.
>>32701649I never talked about boob size wtf>>32701644>watched two women get thrown out of Disneyland over me. Were you guys 7 years old when this happened? Are there adults autistic enough to try and find a date in a kids fair?
>>32701682>I never talked about boob sizeI wasn't talking about you. It's not all about you, hard pill for a narcissist to swallow, I'm sure.>>32701682>autistic enough to try and find a date in a kids fair?Disney parks are for everyone. That's actually their entire point. And yeah, people hook up at Disney resorts all. the. time. You have an unusual preoccupation with how others live their lives and find joy, did you know that?
>>32701530>There are grown men with wives and kids still thinking about their hs gf. Sad.dude my uncle back in the day got left by his gf and he insta became an alcoholic and married some really ugly womanto this day he's an alcoholic and wallowing in self pity as a result
>>32701550I'm currently playing Duke Nukem lol it's so endearingly assOn my phone I only play PvZ though And I don't really understand why you think there's a gender distinction to be made here though, the games you mentioned are played by most WASP moms
>>32700333I just want to reiterate that this is me and this is my discord: trebuchet#1101so if you're into this, lets talk! Its so rare that women are into nude erotic fighting/boxing/wrestling/sexfighting that we shouldn't miss this opportunity. It's fate that we're coming together, you know.
>>32701682>Are there adults autistic enough to try and find a date in a kids fair?I want you to know that this sentence alone is very revealing of who you are as a person. You are very emotionally and intellectually stunted and immature. Stop looking down on how others live their lives and be more receptive to the idea that there are perfectly valid perspectives that exist outside of your own. You truly sound like a hateful, bitter individual.
>>32701910why the reddit coded response
>>32701927I know it may surprise you newfag, but things you don't agree with or like aren't always "le rebbit". Sorry -- maybe I should've said nigger a few more times so my post could be acceptable to you.
>>32701875Women have different brains, so obviously their interests vary form typical male interest>PvZPlants versus Zombie? That's definitely a girl game, graphics are designed to be cute.
>>32682945m 26 drain the swamp of trannies furries bronies idk whatever else goes on im tired of clicking the catalogue and seeing a bunch of shrunken down hermaphrodite cock and obese peoples chodes on display like people need to retain their sanity a little more... i'm not biased either i don't wanna see titties out either i don't know you bitch put those away...
Question for women.I have an internet friendship that turned sexual but for around 2 weeks now she's been "busy". She never initiates conversations and she replies way less now. The first message I send her will usually be ignored but if I double text hours/a day later she replies within minutes but mostly keeps the replies short. I asked her if everything is alright since her behavior seemingly changed overnight and she apologized for being distant and said she's just been "busy". Is being "Busy" ever a genuine excuse? I want to believe her but the fact that she replies to a double text within minutes but chooses to completely ignore the first message makes me think otherwise. I understand she doesn't owe me a reply but it just feels shitty.
>mutuals with this girl on Twitter>she posts on priv that she'd like a cum tribute>I offer to do it for her under an alt>"bless~ I'll be waiting eagerly anon">edge for a full week, plan to record it on day 8>find a tierlist of her fetishes from a few months ago>Torture S-tier>CBT A-tier>I ask "does edging myself to the point of blue balls count as edging?">No response>she's still replying to other people so she's not busyWhat gives? Is she just scared of typing something overtly sexual or is there something I'm not getting?
>>32702783I meant to say>"does edging myself to the point of blue balls count as CBT or Torture?"
>>32702569busy is rarely an excuse unless they are willing to elaborate. granted, sometimes it can be a sign of genuinely being busy, especially if something extreme happens, but if her behavior has changed and she's just been "busy", then she's probably bsing you.
can I use the apps if I'm a schizoid retard? I make a fake account, the women are all instagram hoes, even on here the weirdo women are more inherently socialized than men let alone on tinder, how the fuck am I gonna pass as normal on a date?can you normie fraud? at work I pretend I go out to x pub if they ask but I think they're normie shittesting me and can tell I'm a retard
>>32703239to clarify I'm in a small touristy town if that makes a difference
>>32703239>>32703241>I'm in small touristy town if that makes a differenceIt absolutely does. Here's whatcha do.STEP 1: Don't be fat. If you don't have any muscles, feel free to build some.STEP 2: Learn how to dress yourself well and find a scent that works for you; if you have no idea where to start as far as cologne, "Invictus" by Paco Rabanne is perfectly decent and simple to pull off.STEP 3: Take good pictures; natural light, good angles, make sure one is a good profile pic of you taken by someone else, and have a few of you in engaging/interesting scenarios.I also live in place very popular with tourists, and one of the biggest advantages when it comes to "gettin gurlz" for someone in our situation is there's a constant rotation of new prospects that are looking for excitement and usually open to things they wouldn't be open to at home. What activity or thing draws people to where you live? Take pictures of you around that thing or doing that activity, that gives you the "he can show me around and probably knows stuff only locals know!" angle.Then you just fake normal long enough to close. Be warm but somewhat aloof, throw in some light teasing, don't be afraid to get into an actual conversation. You'll be fine, you way one day wake up and realize you've been faking it so long that you've made it.Also don't fear rejection or dwell on it when you get ghosted. It happens.
>talk to woman>hit it off, extremely into each other, gush at each other for hours on end, intense passion between us both>suddenly she is "busy" all the time and has literally no time to even say hi or respond to anything>bring this up>she gaslights me into thinking i'm needy, assures me she is just busy and will make time to talk soon>she doesn't, nothing changes>next time we talk she just cums and runs>back to being busy 24/7, constantly ditching plans or moving hangouts forwardWhy are some women like this? I have my fair share of experience with BPD, but I don't even think this is BPD. I know there are ulterior motives at play but I can't seem to figure out what. I'm just trying to understand so I can stop making these mistakes. And before you call me some needy incel we had established before talking that we were both looking for something serious. And I live a busy life myself so it's not like I was begging for her constant attention.
>>32703747another guyshe's keeping you on the hook in case it doesn't work outeasiest one ever, next
>>32703791That's what I figured. Thanks for your honest anon
>>32703747Chances are she wasn't serious but kinda into you, didn't wanna break your heart so didn't tell you that. You can like someone without being in love with them or wanting to constantly talk to them. Don't be clingy, it turns women off.Also stop trying to diagnose women and look at your own actions first. You sound more bpd than her to be obsessed enough to post here when you weren't even officially dating.
>>32703799>Don't be clingy, it turns women off.I stated in my post that I wasn't clingy at all and in fact lead a very busy life. Why are you assuming this despite me saying otherwise?>Also stop trying to diagnose women and look at your own actions first.You think I didn't assess my own actions first? You think my very first response was to go vent my worries on an anonymous imageboard?>stop trying to diagnose women >diagnoses meBased on your other hostile replies here, you seem truly fucking stupid, man. Sorry not sorry.
>>32703747I agree that there's another guy, or guys, above you on her internal tier list, but I'll also mention what you should do about it; stop messaging her, and when she messages you, leave her on read for a day or two.>we had established before talking that we were both looking for something seriousThat was your first mistake. You don't want to come off as too safe; she needs to believe you have options. I understand when you say "I'm looking for something serious" the message you're trying to convey is "I'm a good guy, I'm not playing games" but what women also hear is "I'm afraid of competition, and the quality of what I give isn't tied to the quality of what I get." Treat her like a queen, she'll treat you like a pawn. Look into competition anxiety. Women need to believe that other women want you, and the price for undesirable behavior is that your time, affection, and resources go to someone else.You need a little toxicity to be desirable, anon.>>32703799I don't know who hurt you, don't know what man lives in your head rent free, but you need to stop projecting what your feelings about him onto every other male you interact with.>>32703806I'm guessing she's one of those women who follows a few TikTok psychologists, thinks that makes her an expert, and is just attractive enough to get away with not being told when retarded shit is coming out of her mouth. Probably into crystals and astrology, too.
>>32704171>Women need to believe that other women want you, and the price for undesirable behavior is that your time, affection, and resources go to someone else.This was interesting advice actually, I had considered this before but not pieced it together like this. Noted for future interactions. I got kind of tired of her playing games and told her to fuck off anyways, lel. When I rose this issue before and she gaslit me it was a huge red flag. I really should've dipped then, truthfully, but I am stubborn since we were so similar. But I can smell ulterior motives like a shark does blood in the water and knew something was right. It's better off this way really, I am far too direct to deal with someone so indirect. I appreciate your earnest reply.
This turned into a slower /adv/ /atoga/. That sucks, it had such potential.
How do women cope with the social atmosphere of guys telling each other what women think is attractive?
>>32682758Anyone else like making out more than getting head?
>>32704179>I got kind of tired of her playing games and told her to fuck off anywaysChad move, but the GigaChad move would have been a hard ghosting. Negative attention is still attention.>When I rose this issue beforeToday you learned attraction can't be negotiated. A very good rule of thumb is this: if you've sent her a message, don't send her another one until she responds.>she gaslit me it was a huge red flagThe reddest of flags. There was a time I'd say take that as it being open season to treat her like a piece of meat, but nowadays I think expunging people like that from your life ASAP is the right move.>I am far too direct to deal with someone so indirectFair, and like I said in this case I think you made the right call, but understand women just tend to be far less direct in the way they communicate.>I appreciate your earnest replyAnytime. Also, I think this video would be of help to you.https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lL13EeEhgag>>32705178What's to cope with? Are you implying women don't compare notes on men? If you're talking about how prevalent it's become in the social zeitgeist i.e. podcasts, etc, it's because of the social issues men face. Namely most men feel invisible and utterly bereft of purpose. Most men feel frustrated to the point of existential crisis because they followed the "blue pill" guide to what women want, with zero positive results, and they'd like to know why. So they see men who aren't struggling with women, and they ask questions, and knowledge speaks, wisdom listens.
>>32705879>GigaChad move would have been a hard ghostingI did that too, I just told her to fuck off first. It be what it do.
>>32705879as someone who's never dated, what is it just necessary to play these retarded games or you don't get anywhere?
>>32706086> is it just necessary to play these retarded games or you don't get anywhere?Yes.. generally speaking. Obviously not all people are the same, and it's totally possible to find some mentally unwell or extremely autistic woman who thinks more "normally"Women are very emotionally intelligent but a defining biological trait is that they're not very emotionally *mature*. They are not direct people and they generally think they know better than others, particularly of the opposite sex. I can't necessarily blame them considering most men are fucking stupid, but it creates this dynamic where they are constantly testing and prodding others based on standards they will never explicitly state or elaborate on. You play their game and win or you don't play and you lose.
>>32700381Also I know there's that stat of "only 30% of women cum from PIV" but what percentage of that stat do you think actually came from small dicks? Probably close to 0%. Not to mention that as a guy I want to be able to have my way with a chick and her feel good too during it, not feel like a lesbian who has to finger and lick to get anywhere.
>>32701550Can only answer for myself but I play games with a lot of story choices and roleplaying, visual novels and SRPGs.>>32702569It's possible to be busy for a long stretch but if I actually like someone and this is the reason I can't talk I will at the very least elaborate on the circumstances. >>32703239What do you want out of these apps? If it's more than casual sex I don't see why you'd have to pull a full on normie larp.Hello, men. I recently tried out app dating for the first time (was in a long term relationship for roughly my entire adult life) and I just want to understand the mindset of men who ghost because I get emotionally invested in people easily and I'd like to avoid being hurt again. Went on 2 dates with a guy and we connected on a lot of different interests, had deep conversations about all kinds of topics, honestly felt like a rare kind of connection. We made out on the first date, the second date I slept over, went a bit further but we didn't have sex. In the morning he made me breakfast and we hung out a bit more so it's not like I got kicked out for not putting out or something I'd think. Day after I send something along the lines of "I had a good time so let me know if/when you want to hang out again" and well, I've been left on delivered for 2 weeks. What would bring you to do this? I don't like how hung up I've been over the lack of closure...
>>32706243>What would bring you to do this?I would boldly assume that he wanted to go even further sooner without being too pushy about it, but after not getting that decided to simply move on to someone next. Since I can't technically speak from personal experience (if anything, I was kinda ghosted myself once) and that alone likely makes my post pointless, but if I really think about it... It's probably if a girl is a very nasty piece of work to a point where I don't wanna bother with drifting off nicely, but then I would have to wonder how the hell I ended up having any sort of connection with her in the first place.
>>32705879Alright so now I need to know what femanons think about guys telling others what women find attractive.
Wow the janny on /adv/ has completely lost his/Xi's mind now
>>32705178I don't really care anymore since I've seen so much of that on the internet, and I can't obviously stop them from saying that to each other, unless I want to argue with every single one (and most of them will immediately become extremely hostile if a woman disagrees with them). Not worth it.
>>32706941Socializing sounds like a nightmare. How do you talk to anybody? Casual chats with a clerk and just day-to-day doesn't sound like a big deal but do you still find actual, y'know, bonds? It's probably different for different people but I've noticed this sort of thing a lot more lately. It's kinda hard to put into words in a reasonable way, though. Like, the way it affects different women differs but the trend of non-autonomy seems consistent. Does that make any sense? Does it ever directly intrude on, or interfere with, your life?
>>32706866What happened?
>>32706298>I would boldly assume that he wanted to go even further sooner without being too pushy about it,It's probably this. Afterall people just move on to the next one if things are remotely difficult.
>>32707765I can't say, I'm kind of a neet and don't have any friends. so I only get that feeling of "non-autonomy" when I'm on 4chan seeing male posters say that kind of stuff to each other. But since it's just the internet and nothing is personally directed me it's easier to ignore.
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>>32706243>we went a bit further but we didn't have sexWhy not? Also how old are you, and how old is he? I don't need an exact age, early/mid/late 20s/30s is fine.>>32705326Depends on the girl; some are very kissable, some give amazing brain.>>32706078Ya done good, anon.>>32706086Yes, and Gen Z takes these "games" to ridiculous levels. It helps to think of them less as games, and more as establishing and maintaining a "frame" as to who you are, and expecting and being ready for that frame to be tested.>>32706101>Women are very emotionally intelligentI think it would be more accurate to say women are emotionally indulgent, and most of them *think* they're emotionally intelligent.>they're not very emotionally matureWell most of them stop emotionally maturing in their preteens, because our society doesn't really provide an impetus for them to do otherwise.>>32706941I think what is lost on a lot of people is that these podcasts and what have you aren't the cause of the modern male condition, but a symptom of it. Granted, some are more helpful/good faith than others. Myron is insufferable, but he doesn't tell many lies, and with his 4/10 face and tragic hairline, he's living proof that money in and of itself is a valid path to having access to women. I think the backlash whatever gets is hilarious because it's literally "give them enough rope: the show." Andrew Tate, when he's not being a character, gives some very solid advice about how to advance in life as a man. Hoe Math just gives great advice in general, to men and women.The recurring point of contention I've noticed is high value men want certain things, and a lot of women can't accept that while they're allowed to do whatever they want, men are allowed to select for whatever we want, and the double standard is called out *constantly* to little to no acknowledgment, further vindicating the "line in the sand" we've come to see.
>>32708339We're both mid-twenties. Reason I didn't want to have sex is (this might sound ridiculous) I actually liked him a lot and didn't want to give the impression that all I wanted was sex... If I did do that then I would've been way more devastated getting ghosted.
>>32682758Do women live in a tutorial mode?
>>3270836934/m here. Ironically I am finding it hard to find a date who doesn't get angry that I won't put out on the first date. People just move very fast these days. And even at 34, it hurts a lot to talk to someone, get to know them, go through all that, and then have them just randomly ghost you.
Do I stand a chance in the dating world if I'm a bit of a fat fuck? I went through some rough times last year but this year some anons on here convinced me to go get some help and I did, I'm in a pretty good place mentally and I've gotten my social anxiety under control so I feel like I'm ready to date again but I have gained weight. I'm around 275lbs and 6'3" if that helps, I don't wanna jump in if I stand no chance because it might just fuck my self esteem.
>>32709036Honest answer? No. Put all your effort into losing weight. Every single person who I have suggested to lose weight who did ended up dramatically turning their life around. Do yourself a favor and ignore dating alltogether until you are back in good shape. It will save you a lot of unavoidable self confidence issues.Lose weight, get in shape, and literally everything else will just magically fall into your lap 10x easier.
Ladies, if you're not into anal would you still let your boyfriend fuck your pussy then pull out, put the tip in your ass and blow his load in your colon?
>>32705326Absolutely, I'll taking making out over getting head any time.
>>32682758I’m caught in between liking women of different types. >5’2 (157cm) and under, sub 130lbs (59kg), C cup or smaller, small waist and ass.>5’2-5’7 (157-170cm), above 170lbs (77kg), D cup or larger, little chub around hips, ass, and stomach, big ass and thighs, soft>5’5-5’9 (140-175cm), 140-170lbs (64-77kg), moderately muscular, toned stomach, shorter hair, firm but not hard ass and legs, perky boobs>5’10 and over (178cm), 160lbs and up (73kg), long legs, long hair (ideally braided), C cup or larger boobsThat’s just the immediate body types that come to mind, not even mentioning other traits I like.>nice teeth>a nice jaw>pretty eyes>funny>freckles>kind>patient>nurturing>smart>talented>organized>graceful>dark hair>many others that I can’t think of right nowI like so many “kinds” of women that I don’t even really have a type. I love women so much bros.
>>32708369>I actually liked him a lotHe probably liked you a lot too, and if the chemistry was there he probably wondered where he went wrong, and consoled himself with the company of another woman who likes him more than you did, if you get what I'm saying.>didn't want to give the impression that all I wanted was sexProbably wasn't a concern for him, women who just want sex are typically very direct about it, and if there was any concern there being a first date where you didn't just jump into bed should've put him at ease.As another anon mentioned, people are used to moving very fast these days. Our society is hyper-sexualized; like "degeneracy" is a word that gets thrown around a lot, but the ubiquity and commodification of sexuality is having a literally degenerative effect on our social fabric.Does this mean you *have* to have sex fast and early? No, but it helps to be direct and vulnerable and what you're doing (or not doing) and why. My advice to you is this: text him again, and just tell him where your head is at, be like "hey, I hope you didn't feel rejected, I like you a lot and wanted to explore this connection without rushing into sex and everything that comes with it." Granted, he may continue ghosting you... but then you know he was just trying to fuck.Having said all that... you can't be changing lanes on this. Dudes ain't out here tryna take things slow only to find out you had a "hoe phase," that'll set off our internal alarm *fast.*>>32708442No, obviously, they clearly never learn anything, HA HA... got 'em... anyway, "women live life on recruit difficulty" caught on for a reason.>>32709023>I am finding it hard to find a date who doesn't get angry that I won't put out on the first datePREACH. Hot girls *do not* take rejection well. The amount of women who truly believe men *always* want sex (and will fuck anyone) is legitimately concerning.
>>32709882>The amount of women who truly believe men *always* want sex (and will fuck anyone) is legitimately concerning.God this. I have had 2 different women straight up cut contact recently, in fits of intense anger no less, because I told them I was into them but not THAT into them. One was being sexual constantly and took great offense at being turned down, the other had what I can only describe as a BPD fit because I said I wanted to get to know her better first. When most women complain about men being "sex pests", they're just projecting. Of course there's the occasional twitter/tumblr brainwashed moron that actually just hates men, but more often than not women are just as horny as they seem to think men are.
>>32709036>Do I stand a chance in the dating world if I'm a bit of a fat fuck?Probably not, and certainly not with anyone who will enrich your life. Don't put the cart before the horse; eat meat 'n greens, lift 3x a week whilst blasting hardstyle into your skull, you're gonna be fine.You'll feel so much better not being fat, it's unreal. Dating can wait.
>>32709882I already sent him another message a while after, I'll just seem like a weirdo if I keep messaging him. Regardless it makes no sense that I apparently have to sleep with a guy I like within two dates if I want to have any chance but I also can't have had a "hoe phase".
>>32710274For Jacob (sheep) - QZ4 #4456
How do I find a gf as a 28 yo virgin without any social circle
>>32711044>QZ4 #4456Say hi to Shasarak.
>>32711070>without any social circleFirst of all, you got to find one. Just look for them online based on your interests and get yourself some friends this way. Some girls might share said interests, but even then it's best to just becomes friends with them as opposed to treating them solely as a potential girlfriends.Make this good first step.
I love how this thread exists as if the average /soc user comes even slightly close to representing the population as a whole. There should be a case study on this.
>>32708442no>>32705153>it had such potentiallike what? these threads are pointless>>32700800team crash on the sofa>>32699204>Are men into getting dommed by shorter women?I am lel
>>32691940yes, many>>32690756yes>>32687762arrest me officer :o
>>32686125(You)s
>>32710274>I'll just seem like a weirdo if I keep messaging himKudos for recognizing this. Anyway, if you've already extended the olive branch, only to be left on read, wash your hands of him; he has gone down another woman's path of least resistance, and if he reaches out to you in the future, it's only because he's made his way down the list of prospects. Don't allow yourself to be treated like an option, no matter how plausible what he says may be.>Regardless it makes no sense that I apparently have to sleep with a guy I like within two datesWho said it made sense? How often do human beings *ever* make sense? Regardless, you don't *have* to have sex, but if you feel that mutual desire to fuck, don't not fuck because (insert bullshit here). >I also can't have had a "hoe phase"You can have a hoe phase. Nothing wrong with a hoe, assuming your body count isn't absurd. We (men in general) actually assume/have accepted that most of you are hoes at this point. What you can't do is have a known history of being a hoe, then suddenly decide you want to play at being a "good girl." It sets off all sorts of alarm bells.>>32711070You don't. You need to learn how to socialize and find friends.
>>32712192How do I socialize and find friends?
>>32710274NTA I'm a girl, and I agree it's ridiculous. Essentially what it’s saying is if you're not a virgin then you're no longer entitled to sexual boundaries. If you've ever made a mistake in the past, you aren't allowed to learn from it, or to mature and grow as a person. It’s dumb red pill stuff for the terminally online. Re your situation with getting ghosted by that guy, it's possible that you spending the night at his place is what turned him off, especially if you slept with him in his bed. Beds are private, sacred spaces and sleeping together is an intimate act. It sends a confusing message if you're willing to do that as early as the second date, while at the same not feeling ready for sex. It puts men in a very uncomfortable position of having to guess your physical boundaries while already having your entire body snuggling up against them in bed. It just sends all kinds of mixed signals and I think most adult men don't want to have to deal with that. Go as slowly as you need when it comes to sex, but don’t have sleepovers in the meantime.
>>32682758Why do people get called a pedo for liking short and petite women? It’s not exactly my type entirely but I don’t see the issue if they’re not underage obviously.
Happy Turkey Day, everyone!>>32712746What do you do for fun? What are you passionate about?>>32712943>I agree it's ridiculousIt is what it is.>if you're not a virgin you're no longer entitled to sexual boundariesThat's not the case at all, you're can and should establish boundaries according to your desires and comfort zone, what so many females struggle to understand is men are allowed to respond to and navigate these boundaries however we want.>If you've ever made a mistake in the pasthttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uOA43CzHfgAThe lies we tell ourselves. Sex is never a mistake; in that exact moment, it was exactly what you wanted, with exactly *who* you wanted, because attraction isn't negotiable. On some level, even if they can't articulate it, men understand this, and that's why it doesn't really sit well when a woman with a history of being a "hoe" (read: most women) suddenly wants to take things slow; we don't want to be the safe option, what don't want to be who you settle for, we don't want to be your second choice. There are very practical, and I hope, very obvious reasons for this.>Re your situationVery solid take. Mixed signals, especially when it pertains to consent, sex, and intimacy tend to make us *very* uncomfortable.>>32713079Same reason there are articles and graphs about Leonardo DiCaprio's sexual history, yet zero fucks were given when Kate Beckinsale was fucking Pete Davidson and Matt Rife; men are shamed for having standards, preferences, and boundaries.Aight everyone, be awesome to each other, I'm off to eat myself into a food coma.
>>32713275>What do you do for fun? What are you passionate about?At this point nothing, my depression made me hate everything. I play bideo gaymes but I actually hate them too
>>32713291See a therapist desu and work on your depression
>>32713293My depression is due to being a virgin and no gfIt's a loop
>>32713312And you care about those things because your value system is corrupted and your perspective needs altering. Being stubborn about these things will get you nowhere. Get help if you can't help yourself.
>>32713291What kind of games do you play?>>32713312You need to build a life that others want to share in. Depression is usually a symptom of dissatisfaction with one's life. What about your life do you want to change? Picture your ideal life, what is standing in between you and that? You need to have a better answer than "I just want a girlfriend."You need purpose and discipline.
>>32713418>What kind of games do you play?A bit of everything. Mostly japanese ones. Right now I'm playing lots of Devil May Cry.ù>What about your life do you want to change? I just want to be loved for once...>Picture your ideal life, what is standing in between you and that?I don't know, people just seem to hate me no matter what I do
I have a serious question. Dont tease me, lol. I recently started seeing this guy and sometimes when I’m sucking his dick — I notice his balls suck up under his shaft kind of. Sometimes one, sometimes both. I am aware balls can do this, but I’ve never seen it happen during sex before. Sometimes I do nothing, sometimes I will gently nudge it and it goes back down properly into the sac. Sometimes with my mouth lol. Is this ok? Am I doing something wrong? Does this just happen? I originally thought it might be if he’s trying to stop himself from cumming and flexing his pelvic muscles. Lol He’s never complained. But can someone please shed some light on this for me please? Thank you in advance.
>>32713606It means you're doing a good job. His muscles are tensing in response to the stimulation. Kinda like kegels.
>>32713622Thank you. I was keep giving 110% while slobbing the knob.
>>32713664They usually retract when a guy is reaching orgasm. It's impressive that you're providing enough pleasure to cause the reaction even before that.
a girl told me I remind her of Josh Peck the other day, should I take that as a compliment and is it actually true? I don't see it but most people don't think they look like other people so I might just be tarded
>>32682758>can get a 10oz bar or 150 mercs from LCS>I choose the mercs>more coin more better
>>32713937Wrong thread
>>32696703>bro penis enlargement is a myth
>>32713963
>>32713971It’s not, very slow but definitely possible
>>32713606there is no way to do this voluntarily, the pelvic floor muscles are behind it and don't do testicle retraction, it is autonomic unless he's way tilted back for soem reason then it could be gravity
>>32716190You can’t retract your balls?
>>32716190I don’t think he was doing it on purpose. It seems like a reaction from being close to cumming. It’s happened more than once.
>>32682758Where or how the actual fuck do people date anymore? As a man, back in college is was easy since you just met people through parties and class. But now it feels like theres just no place or way to meet people actually interested in dating.Dating apps are just scams or being ghosted, and I'm just genuinely curious where women go, or what they view as the appropriate action for finding a bf or partner.
>>32716466only bf i had after school is my coworker. has been about a year. and desu i think i'd prefer work people. i think they are on average much better quality than whatever online i run into. also my workplace has quite a drinking culture which helps. I know one guy from work who seems quite popular, when i first joined, tried inviting me to parties but i never did, but some people did go and they regularly do club/party nights. seems they meet girls that way.guy who's just having his first child met his wife just coincidentally because they worked near each other and had frequent encounters. maybe related to his smoking, idr.I guess bars is another option, but I wouldn't know much about it.
>>32716882Fuck I work in a museum, everyone I know is either old or already married.
roasties ad turbo sluts, have you ever offered sex to an ugly dde on the internet (not dating apps), ? why ?some random roastie offered me once but i think she was just bored, depressed and looking for validation
he/they (penis haver) early twnties with ADHD Autismasking AFABa bad symptom i have from my AuDHD is hypersexuality. i make sure consent is always made before i do anything, only rarely i misunderstand or impose what i thought was ok. i dont use my illness as an excuse. what i want to ask is - in a relationship, how do i balance my hypersexuality with a partner? i dont want to put my hypersexuality onto her as if shes responsible for my orgasms, or overwhelm her with my dopamine seeking just dragging things out for so long or so frequently. i feel handling my sexual needs alone just feels lonely and uncomfortable, and id feel pitiful if she knew i was in another room or stepping away just to handle my libido. how would you handle a hypersexual partner? do you think youd be able to live with it? how much are you willing to tolerate and or embrace? to better give perspective; i usually need to orgasm once a day, i get triggered easy especially after more than a day, and the only way ive found to not have hypersexual impulses is if im busy and away from privacy for extended periods of time for at most a week until i get moody from it. (like working, then straight into a productive activity, then straight to chores at home then sleep. thered be no time to get triggered) the difficulty with hypersexuality is that its my most reliable distressing strategy, so going without any fun for long periods of time is difficult. im also fairly kinky, willing to try most anything beyond vanilla, but not the most experienced either because of my nervousness with sexual topics past a certain point so that i dont bother or offend the girl im interested in. this could just be my self esteem being over worried, and maybe the balance is easier than i expect, but it bothers me from time to time, i dont want to be seen as just some sex addict when im passionate about so many things completely unrelated to sex when in a relationship.
>>32682758Making a woman cum is so much fun. Wish I could do it all day
>>32717100F,20Just find someone who has the same sex drive as youI’ve always had a high sex drive so I tried to not get into relationships with someone who doesn’t have a sex drive like mine. Be upfront about it even if it’s awkward/embarrassing so you can avoid any future arguments or even a break up
>>32716466F,20I know how you feeldating apps really suck especially finding someone you get along with because let’s be real here- we’re a bit of oddballs if you’re on 4chanI was on dating apps for many many months and actively trying and yes I know it’s easier as a woman but I struggled to find a guy who wasn’t boring as hell/ would put effort into the conversation Ultimately I found my current boyfriend from this board lol but I got super lucky I recommend maybe some local interest groups ? Like cosplay,anime,etc still difficult don’t get me wrong but that’s were I would try as well
>>32708442No. A tutorial teaches you something; and most women, hell, most people, don't have a father figure in their lives to teach them anymore.>>32709695I'm happy for you anon, enjoy it.>>32711070Finding a social circle would probably be a good start.>>32716466I don't even meet women in church anymore, so I wish to fuck I knew.>>32717575Real.
>>32717100AuDHD woman with AuDHD partner (male) who is sort of similarour situation isn't exactly normal, as we both have our own traumas, but we sort of seperate needing stim or quick release from wanting sex. me and husband will often masturbate away from each other for the most part as it's easier than trying to get each other in the mood, and when we do have sex once a week we spend the whole day and focus less on pleasure/dopamine and more on intimacy. it's not for everyone, but it works for us because sometimes getting into an intimate mindset while wanting stim or dopamine doesn't always work, and it's not healthy for us to see the other person as just there to satisfy our needs for it. so we fap when that is the case. we focus on using sex for just intimacy and it's easier to gauge both of us being in the mood and not having to feel bad about anything. husband will sometimes run off to fap if he needs to and he probably does it once or twice a day and I never complain, and he doesn't complain if I'm unable to perform intimacy wise and just want to fap. occasionally we'll help each other fap with the others consent, but more often we do what I said above.I'm not sure if this makes sense or is helpful but it's just our situation and what works for us.
>>32718845how to get this autistic dynamic
>>32718878find another autistic person and make sure you both have good communication.me and husband met off 4chan even if I don't recommend doing so. we've been together 5 years so soc is a lot different now, but you might have better luck on other boards or websites. cons are also a good way to meet autistic women, or anything artsy.most autistic couples I know met off something nerdy.
>>32717575They don't deserve it though. They should all be prevented from cumming ever. Sex should be a chore for them. Fuck women.
>>32720094For you, dear anon.
>>32720098That's an accurate likeness, thank you anon.Fuck women.
>>32717100>he/theystopped reading
Posting this solely because I would love some attention
>>32720254trans ?
>>32720296the vagina is literally right there, anon.
>>32720296Damn dude what about me makes you think I’m trans ? You wouldn’t be the first to ask though or is this some negging practice
>>32720254Post more from behind?
>>32720254A little puff on the vagina, I like it
>>32720315Recent Breakup? And a nostalgia for my old attention whoring days on 4chan I don’t get it in person or through social media so once a couple years I do this
>>32720305Those tits are sad, and why is your pussy all gross and dark like that?
>>32720305Any contact?
>>32720324Yes I think bc I hunch over so my tits have taken to dangling and droopageLightening and light hair plus general discoloration is reason for my pussys appearance
>>32720329>>32720331Thanks boys(?!) for the (You)s I’m feeling better
>>32720336You look kinda fat too. Just not very attractive, overall.
>>32720344You’re not wrongI could lose weight and exercise and generally have better hygiene but it’s not a priority for me
>>32720353Delusional. 4/10 at best.
>>32720341No contacts?
>>32720368I guess you like uggos too.
>>32720324>>32720344you seem very porn sick.>>32720094>>32720101oh nevermind just a boy trying to drag a woman down because of their own shitty mentality.
>>32720362Nah sorry I went down that path once when I was younger and on socOnly other nude I have but this one is from almost 5 years ago
>>32720397I’m not that dumbEvening lads >>32720403Night night
>>32720384Nah, she's just not attractive, see?>>32720391
>>327203051) im a real incel so i dont know what a real woman looks like naked2) its hard to tell nowadays,3)whats that string in your vag ?
When women daydream what do you think about?
>>32720406see what? that you're porn sick? she looks normalyou don't have to see her as a 10/10 but she isn't ugly at all
>>32720473She's pudgy, her nipples are weird and uneven, her pussy is an unhealthy color, she's pale as fuck but her tan (or lack thereof) is uneven. Looks like she has bird legs too.
>>32720488skinnyfat is normal for a lot of women, that color is actually also a normal color and has to do with undertones more than anything which is why I called you porn sick, everyone knows that the average woman's vagina isn't going to look as pink or clean or pretty as a professional porn stars. the uneven skin is normal because when the sun hits you your shirt and shorts cover a portion and the rest gets a bit more tan the parts underneath. the legs comment also boils down to completely normal for a woman who doesn't work out. uneven breasts are also particularly normal as well.like I said I'm not arguing she's a stacy, I'm arguing she's normal and looks fine. most people don't seem to understand what normal looks like for women and have these weirdly high standards that don't make much sense.I'm also not sure why you're so critical of her for being average to just above average. are you an 8/10 or higher? I don't even think you could get an average chick so you might as well be quiet and go back to cooming or whatever.
>>32720488>She's pudgyIf that's pudgy to you, I hope you're into anorexics.>her nipples are weird and unevenThat's... most nipples? The human body is rarely symmetrical.>her pussy is an unhealthy colorSomehow I don't think you're a gynecologist.>she's pale as fuckAnd?
>>32720502>>32720508She's not going to fuck you. There's no reason to white knight this hard for her.
>>32720519Unlike evidently you, I'm not nice to people just to get them to fuck me.
>>32720519They aren’t white knighting.
>>32720527Yeah they are.>>32720522No, you're too pathetic for that. You white knight just so women will say nice things to you, because you'd be too much of a pussy to ever meet them in person anyway.
>>32720532She isn't even here anymore, so I'm not sure I follow your logic there.
>>32720539I'm sure you hope she'll come back later. These threads stay up for a while, and you are a tripfag.
>>32720545I mean, I'm not gonna deny bein an attention whore, that sorta comes with the territory of exhibitionism. But you don't need to want something from someone to be nice to them. And I feel sad for you, that you think that's the case. Nice should be the default unless somebody has wronged you.
>>32720254>>32720305>>32720391I know I'm late by this point, but looking pretty good.>>32720320>Recent BreakupHope it didn't went terrible wrong. Just take your time to do other hobbies or whatever. Surely you would find someone else in the near future (if you wish to do so).
>>32720549There's being nice, and then there's being delusional.
>>32720519>says a woman looks normal/average>gets accused of white knightingman the cope is real ain't it?there's a difference between defending muh lady while trying to gas her up and pointing out someone who is blatantly wrong in a poor attempt to tear someone down.
>>32720560If you think that femanon is anything less than normal, I'd say you're the delusional one, anon.
>>32720577>>32720601I don't get it. There's no pussy to be gained here, and honestly it seems like she's not even interested in giving attention, only receiving it. You two must be really desperate.
>>32720657Man, I thought I was the exhibitionist, but you're really exposing yourself here by repeating the whole "I'm only nice when it gets me pussy" thing.
>>32720664I'm not being nice though, and I'm not interested in being nice to women. They don't deserve it. I'm also not interested in getting pussy from 4/10s on the internet.
>>32720672So you came here to a thread full of things you hate why, exactly?
>>32720678Because my chosen purpose in life is to make as many women as possible as miserable as possible.
>>32720681>my chosen purposeI don't think you're in a position to have particularly many choices. You're a pathetic incel more focused on insulting random women than on trying to address the causes of your own misery. Just leave the thread, you're a waste of space and your time is better spent staring at a black wall and pondering your shitty life than it is posting here
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>>32720694Alright buddy, keep wasting away trying to bring down other people to your shitty emotional level. I'm sure that's gonna work out wonderfully for your own happiness in the long term. I bet you can look back proudly on your accomplishments throughout your life, what a champion you are, making other people feel bad on the internet. Your parents must be so proud of you
>>32720704I've already given up on all of those things. I do not wish for a better future, for anyone, least of all for myself.It seems I've upset you. I'm glad to know that. I hope to continue to do so.
>>32720715I'm honestly not all that upset, I'm unfortunately used to seeing your ilk on this site. I'm not really one to advocate for suicide, I usually tell people to aim for a better and happier future, that there's always a potential for more. But if you aren't even gonna try to find happiness, what's the point in being alive? Why not try to be better or find some actual joy in life?
>>32720720Because women might actually enjoy life and be happier if I killed myself, or if I tried to be a better person and love women instead of hating them, and they don't deserve that. So instead I'm going to carry on as I have in this thread.>inb4 mass shooterI can do more harm to women in the long term than I would as a mass shooter too.
>>32720725What other people do or don't deserve has no real bearing on your own life, on your own pursuit of happiness. You focusing on this bullshit will bring you no true joy, no matter how much you lie to yourself. You make your own reality, you are the master of your own perspective and you're wasting your precious time fixating on stupid bullshit like this. I hope for your own sake you can learn to let go and move on to bigger and better things
>>32720739I'm not interested in finding joy, you idiot. I don't want to be happy. I'm not doing this to make me happy, I'm doing it because it's what's right. I have literally nothing else of value to focus my time on, since I have been denied the only thing I wanted in life and therefore have no purpose other than the one I have chosen. Fuck you, like you care about me. You just want me to stop, but I won't.
>>32720748Why does me wanting you to find actual happiness upset you? Whats right and wrong and what is valuable are a matter of perspective and clearly your mindset has not served you well in life so far. It's foolish to focus on wanting only one thing in life, maybe start there and reevaluate all that life has to offer you. I'd like it if everyone could find fulfilling happiness in life and give up on pursuits that only bring themselves and others sorrow and misfortune, it's not limited just to you
>>32720764Not everyone can be happy in this world; it's not just gender-based, but in general women live easier and more fulfilling lives than men. They have safety nets and the ability to make connections which men lack. Society openly emasculates men while venerating women. It's only logical that the current state of things would create men like the one you're arguing with.
>>32720764I tried it your way for 29 years. I was kind and respectful toward women. I loved them. All I wanted was to marry one of them, to give her everything and make her happy, and then to have children together. In 29 years I've managed a handful of dates and a lot of rejections, and as far as I can tell all I did wrong was be "boring", i.e. kind and supportive and stable and also not a world traveling daredevil. I'm not ugly or fat, either. But women have chosen to deny me happiness, so I will do the same to them.
>>32720778There's nothing logical about what you're saying and I'm not arguing with you either. I'm a man, I can and have made connections, my life is fulfilling. I've never felt emasculated by society either. You're focusing on all the wrong shit man, your situation and your mindset are all your own doing, your own responsibility, no matter what you try to tell yourself, no matter how much you blame others
>>32720798You do not make your own reality, dumbass. There is one reality, and we all live in it. Sure, your choices have an impact on the outcome of your life, but so do choices made by other people. Yes, you can choose your own perspective, but what works for one person doesn't necessarily work for others, and there's no guarantee that life will be kind to you, even if you have a positive outlook.
>>32720798Not all men are created equal mate, that's why we have chads and we have incels. In order to succeed in today's society, you need to be appealing to women. For most men, their life isn't fulfilling. Just because you've had it easy doesn't mean you should think other men have had it easy too. This is the worst time in history to be a male; it's why you see so many becoming trannies or just killing themselves outright. And you know what - women like that.
>>32720805>>32720793You can choose what to focus on, what to care about, what to seek and pursue. Your foundation is wrong, for all you want to be romance is foolish. There's so much to life, so many things to enjoy, to experience, to learn about, to create. Why spend all your brainpower focusing on the one thing that hasn't worked out so far? I'm not saying that romance and all that don't bring a lot of happiness, of course they do. But we have friendships, we have family, we have passions, we have so much that we can enjoy in life. We are lucky enough to have what we have now, to have the physical ability to have this conversation on 4chan is a blessing. We have sight to read, we have the physical control to type, and we have the mental capability to understand each other. Many people don't and I genuinely feel fortunate to have even that >>32720806I think I have it easy in many ways but another could say I haven't had it all that easy. Like I said, it's a matter of perspective. Metrics of success are subjective, it's a matter of opinion. My metric for success in life is a person's happiness. If you aren't happy and you aren't enjoying yourself, you're not successful. And like I said above, there's more than one path to joy and to hyperfocus on any one of them is a waste of time.Anyway, I'm gonna sleep. I hope you both develop better control of your own minds and find happiness in life
>>32720829I focused my entire being on becoming a good husband and father until this year. I have no interest in making anything else the focus of my life, and there is nothing else I can think of that I could actually accomplish at this point that would be as fulfilling.In my intent to cause misery and despair for women, I am the Amazon river and you are but a quivering reed flailing in the current. You will not dissuade me from this pursuit.
>>32720842>>32720829>>32720805>>32720798Can y’all stop clogging up the thread with a bunch of bullshit? Thank you in advance.
>>32720918No, fuck you.
>>32720924Go touch some grass, kid. Hit the gym. Breathe some fresh air. Shower, use soap. Wear deodorant. Hire a prostitute. You’ll feel better. >”I have literally nothing else of value to focus my time on, since I have been denied the only thing I wanted in life and therefore have no purpose other than the one I have chosen. Fuck you, like you care about me. You just want me to stop, but I won't.”lellll
>hang out with girl from online group therapy>she has extreme social anxiety so took a bit to hang out>she's really cute>dressed in frumpy clothes (zip up sweatshirt, t-shirt, sweatpants) but still looked hella cute>after we eat brunch we go somewhere else and walk around>hang for around 3 hours totalI think this looks good? She seemed really interested and always responds positively to me. She also didn't mention a bf to me. Am I overthinking?
>>32721016prob ok. Take it slow and don't get obsessed figuring it out. You nvr know whats going on in people's heads
>>32720793I think we spoke before based on the information you're giving here and you're objectively unattractive if you're the guy I'm thinking about. Unattractive men and women have issues dating, you're almost 30 you should accept that fact.
>>32720793>women have chosen to deny my happinesswell you already failed at being a man there by making women your sole source and way of happiness. and the funny thing is? you could still change but no, you still depend on women for how you feel, you just try to bring them down now.grow the fuck up. like other anon said, there are ways to build connections and have fulfilling lives. you just don't want to and want someone to blame. life shits on everyone, you're not special, and you have to find /create happiness, meaning, and fulfillment..... just like everyone else
>>32720918It's kind of baffling to see anons fall for an obvious bait whenever it's person doing a little trolling or being genuine. No reason to argue with him as he will either enjoy his success or keep harvesting self-validation through his perception of the replies.>>32721016Sounds quite nice, but I think it's worth pointing out that from her perspective this could be a purely friendly interactions (assuming you're interested in her romantically, which it does sound like you do).Since you met each other at group therapy, it feels very important to be respectfully cautious about her potential boundaries.
>>32684548I become hyper aware of my bits. Almost an electric feeling. Desire to be touched. Touching them makes me want touched more. A need to fill the hole. The braindead mental need to scratch a primal itch. My mind wanders to whatever guy I'm chasing. No other thoughts. Mental numbness. Almost like being high.
>>32685685My ex did this constantly. I would be in a different room, or clearly halfway through task, and he would need me to come watch yet another stupid as fuck youtube video or tell me about it. Its because that person doesnt respect what you are currently doing as important. I also had no alone time from this man because we worked the exact same schedule.
>>32702569Ah the problem with cybersex is that it immediately becomes a problem when one is chasing the real deal. She probably found someone.
Even if it has nothing to do with inceldom it is true that American society sucks for men. Petty complaint but if I'm paying for $8 drinks at a bar there is no good reason that the ladies' room is nice and normal and the men's room has stall doors that have been ripped off and urinals right next to the sink with no separators. But that's just normal because men are expected to live with worse and not complain about it even when it's really fucking stupid and easy to fix.
>>32721008I do all of these things already except hiring a prostitute. Why would I voluntarily contribute to a woman's financial success or security?>>32721086Sounds like we haven't spoken before. I've never posted a face pic or a full body pic on /soc/.>>32721172I already said it's not about how it makes me feel, it's about what's right. I have no illusions that what I'm doing will make me happy. I also have no illusions that my situation is unique, but that only makes me more determined because women are awful.>and you have to find /create happiness, meaning, and fulfillmentNo, fuck you.
My ID probably changed since I'm at work, but I'll respond anyways>>32721035I know. I'm trying to. She's just really cute and I always like talking to her.>>32721197>this could be a purely friendly interactions (assuming you're interested in her romantically, which it does sound like you do).Since you met each other at group therapy, it feels very important to be respectfully cautious about her potential boundaries.I will be cautious of her boundaries and respect them. She is just really cute and sweet and I really like talking to her and spending time with her. I'm prepared that maybe she doesn't like me romantically, but I want to at least try. Also, she always responds positively and with more than one word. Either with emojis or exclamation points.
>>32721665if it was about what was right you would try to be a better person than just make people miserable, regardless of if they're awful or not. you're just coping at this point. I know it's bait but damn is it retarded.
>>32721721All women are awful. You have a skewed view of justice if you think it should be about making people feel good. That's what mercy is for, and I have none.
>Somehow the Atoga on the dick pic board ends up being better than adv Atoga How the fuck did that happen?
>>32721721He obviously isn’t as “manly” as he thinks. There’s nothing masculine about crybaby bitch behavior. No one wants to be with that, let alone fuck it. Running on pure emotion is so feminine. He could definitely get laid by a man, but women are going to want accountability and strength.
>>32721727>Im so hecking merciless that I spend my time online insulting people You sure showed them no quarter.
>>32721806The ID system helps a lot I think. Fewer shitposters when they can be embarrassed by being tracked.
>>32721008Lel, once you hire a prostitute you’re just throwing your chances down the drain of even finding a semi-decent women.
>>32722000That’s fuckin stupid. Why would he advertise it? “Hi, I’m incel. I slept with a prostate because I couldn’t be normie enough to get laid on my own.” As long as he’s STD free, it’s no one’s business. Dude probably NEEDS to bust a nut in a real life woman or he’ll end up a mass shooter. Hence, sex workers.
>>32722008HAHA prostate? Prostitute. Prostate too though. Guys say it feels amazing.
>>32721683>I will be cautious of her boundaries and respect them.Great. Good luck to you, anon.>I'm prepared that maybe she doesn't like me romantically, but I want to at least try.If she really is as great as you say, then surely she could be a nice friend if said attempt will fail. So better be sure to leave a room for this opportunity.
>>32682945F18I lurk in every thread. I just like to “people watch”, and examine the regulars. I like watching people like people watch for birds.I don’t think /soc/ could improve, don’t fix what isn’t broken. It’s supposed to deter normies.
>>32722051>>32722013 Like this lolcow makes my people watching experience more enjoyable
I'm bored, ask me anything anonymously, 21MtF https://tellonym.me/johney.lucksman
>>32720254>>32720305>>32720391Classy.>>32721016You're overthinking. Just invite her out again in a reasonable timeframe and enjoy your time together.>>32722051>I don’t think /soc/ could improveI'm inclined to agree. It's definitely gotten worse, though.
>>32720254damn I wanna smash>>32716466was opposite for me desu, hard to meet people in college but was easy to get dates on apps
I'm a 21 year old guy who was talking to a girl from this board. If communication pretty much stops for a week, does that mean it's probably over? We were taking for about a month, and I was starting the most conversations, but it seemed like things were going pretty well. At this point should I just stop? I'm worried she wants to stop talking, but I don't know if I should just quit. I feel like this sort of thing is normal, but I'm also really anxious about it.
>>32723315If she straight up doesn't say anything for a week and never initiates conversation you should assume she is not that interested in you. Obviously rare life circumstances are an exception. I wouldn't think too deeply about it; women have an incredibly hard time being straightforward about how they feel. Just stop initiating. If she wants to talk to you, she will talk to you. Knowing this board, she may well just disappear, but you will learn from the experience and move on (hopefully)
>>32723326thanks, I really appreciate it.
>>32717100>he/theyJesus Christ... anyway have you considered developing discipline or sell control, or seeking treatment for your sex addiction? I don't know that doubling down on rationalizing and justifying your... proclivities is the best thing for you.>>32720502>most people don't seem to understand what normal looks like for women and have these weirdly high standards that don't make much senseFrom what I've observed, the majority of men don't have any standards to speak of, and just count not dying alone or getting divorce raped as a win. We live in a society where single moms have zero fear of dying alone; that should tell you something.Anyway ya'll gotta stop engaging with someone who is clearly unhinged.>>32721008>Hire a prostituteIt's unreal how often the best advice I can think to give in these threads is "save a few thousand dollars and go to Thailand or the DR for a month.">>32721597Was there a question here?>>32723315Assume she's gotten her fill of the validation she came for, and don't message her again unless and until she messages you. Then make her wait a week before you get back to her.
>>32682758Eating cute women pussy is my favorite. Women always seem to be really nice to you after you make them cum
this is probably the most autistic thing I've ever done but I don't have any friends to take dating app pics of me so I edited a pic I took of myself in my room onto a pic of the beach. Just wondering if anyone can speak as to how convincing it looks that this was actually taken at the beach? Anything I should change? It isn't perfect but bear in mind it would just be a tinder pic or whatever...
>>32723612maybe i would think different if i didn't know beforehand but the lighting looks kinda weird and the hair photoshop isn't very good. just use a normal pic
>>32723441wasn't responding to you anon. different people have different experiences/perspectives. move the fuck on.
I fucking hate women.
>>32723905I don't think this is a question, anon.
>>32723919I don't ever recall you bitching and moaning while people hornypost, post nudes for attention, metapost, etc.
>>32723930That is at least socializing, which is the purpose of the board. And interacting with the opposite gender, which is the purpose of ATOGA.
>>32723935It's still off topic for the thread. More importantly, I don't recall asking for your approval of my post, and I certainly don't give a fuck what you think about it.
>>32682758Do women like sucking dick?
>>32723942Yeh.
Do fit girls have tighter pussies ?
>>32723905I fuckin love em
>>32723905Why? Women are wicked >>32723612Bro unless you're doing a goofy shitpost pic, this is a bad idea lol it looks super fake
>>32723612You're in good enough shape that you can get away with that pic just sitting in your room. The edit is actually working against you because people's brains will pick up that something is off, and will assume catfish/AI/whatever.>>32723899>wasn't responding to you anonNo, I was responding to you, because you said something categorically incorrect, which was, at best, based in genuine ignorance.>people have different experiences/perspectivesJust because they're "different" doesn't inherently mean they're valid or equally true. You're attempting to perpetuate the narrative that women are subjected to unrealistic standards of beauty, which simply isn't true; the entire "body positivity" agenda exists to coddle the fragile female ego, and I would argue that most feelings of inadequacy in women can be traced back to interactions with other women, and not some set of standards set by men. Yes, my standards are very high, but men as a whole? Not so much; plenty of male 6s and 7s out there following landwhales around shopping malls this time of year, bags in tow.>>32724241There's not as much of a correlation as you'd think.
>>32682758This question isn’t directed toward the opposite gender specifically (I’m male), but I need some perspective and figured this would be the best place to ask. Last week I added someone from here and I thought we hit it off pretty well. Ironically, our last conversation was about being ghosted and how painful it is when there’s no closure. She hasn’t been online since. I messaged her after a couple days but I already feel like an idiot and a creep for doing that. For women specifically, is there anything at all that would drive you to do this other than just not liking someone? It just doesn’t really make sense to me considering that we had that conversation. What is the best way to go from here? Should I wait to see if she comes back? She mentioned that she was going to be busy, but I just feel like at this point it’s more likely that I’ve been ghosted. I don’t know why I can’t just accept that. Any perspective and advice would be really appreciated, thank you.
>>32724386They're all heartless narcissistic bitches who think they're owed everything and men should worship the ground they walk on.
I was bulking for a little bit too long and i ended up looking like thisIs this dateable still
>>32724264Stockholm syndrome
>>32724641>What is the best way to go from here?Just wait and see how it goes. She will get back to you? Alright, good. She keeps her silence? Oh well. For one, she could actually be very busy to a point of not logging into Discord (and potentially other online platforms) and the fact that she actually warned you about it is a nice gesture.I suppose it's also worth pointing out that the aforementioned discussion regarding ghosting could've been her incredible subtle way of hinting at the closure in your connection, even if that might be quite a stretch.
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>>32725440>Just wait and see how it goes.That's what I was planning on doing. It's just a little hard to believe that someone could just be busy after so many days of radio silence. But all I can do is wait at this point.>For one, she could actually be very busy to a point of not logging into DiscordThat's what I'm choosing to believe right now. Which is also part of why I decided to reach out to her, but it didn't occur to me until afterwards that maybe she just doesn't want to talk to me.>the aforementioned discussion regarding ghosting could've been her incredible subtle way of hinting at the closure in your connectionI guess it's possible, but it seems really unlikely. Our conversation was about specific experiences we've had getting ghosted after forming a connection with someone, and how much pain it causes. And she was always straightforward and honest about pretty much everything, which is the main reason why I'm at such a loss. I figured that if she didn't want to talk to me anymore, she'd just say so. It'd still hurt, but I'd rather have that over getting ghosted.Thank you for your perspective, anon. It means a lot.
>>32724241As a girl who isn’t super fit but not obese I’ve been told mine is super tight I feel like it might be a height thing? I’m 4’11
>>32725440>>32725542Actually, this might be important context. I was only added on her alt, since we had only been talking for a few days. She mentioned moving over to her main account during our last conversation. I'm not sure if that makes it more or less plausible that she's actually just too busy to log in. Right now I really have no idea.
>>32725566>>32724433>>32724241I think it’s more that very obese women have looser ones. That being said if someone has stronger core muscles they might be able to “clamp down” more. Both genders need to do your kegels
I broke up with my year plus consistent booty call and he would start saying the most crazy shit to try to convince me >menI told him to pipe down but I guess this stuff works some times >>32724433So when he says I’m tight? He might be telling the truth not lying ?
>>32725398Nah women are great, I've mostly had good interactions with them
>>32726041Yes, we've already established that you have Stockholm syndrome with regard to women. No need to keep reinforcing it.
>>32726050Anon, I've never been bullied or insulted or berated by women. I've made meaningful emotional connections with a few of em, they have helped support me through shit and I try to do the same for them. I have not been kidnapped by any women nor have I ever been held hostage by one
>>32726065What a joke. Women manipulate men into doing shit for them as a matter of course. The women in your life all have you by the dick. If you weren't so interested in getting pussy you could see that.
>>32725655>I think it's more that very obese women have looser onesI wouldn't know.>>32725938>So when he says I'm tight? He might be telling the truth not lying ?Why do you skew towards assuming dishonesty? Telling a girl she's tight is standard dirty talk/courtesy, and personally I wouldn't go out of my way to mention a girl's tightness if it wasn't a positive for me.I would say that in my experience, there's a slight correlation between tightness and fitness, but there are outliers. Loosest girl I've ever been with had visible abs.
>>32725363Yeah but you need to live off water, broccoli, and chicken/tuna for a few weeks.
>>32725542>It's just a little hard to believe that someone could just be busy after so many days of radio silence.Yeah, but you might not know what's going on in her life. Maybe her hands are full with a job or there're other important obligations thrown on her way.>it seems really unlikely.Again, that was more of a (kinda shitpost-ish) exaggeration that I thought was still worth bringing up... There's also one more option, now that I think about it: perhaps she's just a hypocrite, but that's probably just me wording said exaggeration in a different way.>Thank you for your perspective, anon. It means a lot.No problem. Just figured I might throw in some logical thoughts after reading your post. Ghosting seems very obvious when you see it (especially as time goes on), but it's also worth realizing that people can overreact. Not saying that it's wrong or unreasonable though as I'm personally not nearly as experience as others around the world.>>32725579>I was only added on her alt, since we had only been talking for a few days. She mentioned moving over to her main account during our last conversation. I'm not sure if that makes it more or less plausible that she's actually just too busy to log in.I would say that makes it even more plausible since you're more likely to check just your main accounts if you're on tight schedule.
Do you raise any of these redfags?Let's see how many bingos we can get.
>>32726498Well you say it’s standard courtesy so are you just saying it to increase tension or do you mean it ideally it would be both
>>32727162f 21what do i win
>>32727295my contact info
>>32723612unironically take this image as your target for photoshop realismyou will know what I mean if you are autistic enough
do women like episode 26 of neonn genesis evanglion
>>32727162In my defense I’m a college student. I’m working on losing a bit of weight
Women, what do you think about "feminists" who are "strong and independent" yet seamlessly regress into expecting men/the government to solve all their problems the moment shit hits the fan?
Mostly a question for girls, but guys can answer it to I guess.Basically, what's the appeal of casual sex? I just feel like, to me, if there's no love, then sex just kinda sucks, I don't see the point.
Men, how do you cope knowing that you will never fulfill the expectations, desires of perfection and satisfaction that women have?
>>32727162got two bingos
>>32727477That's normal for a college student t b h How hard are you working on losing weight? You can't take it easy, but also don't overdo it.
>>32727840congrats!
Is it needy to ask someone you've been flirting with "are we good?" I think I may have gotten a little too handsy on a date, judging by her reaction, but she hasn't said anything to me about it. I want to show her I care and give an opportunity to establish boundaries, but I don't wanna be weird.
>>32727806I cope by thinking that I am not too different from them. I also have my own expectations and desires that they will (probably) never meet. Is that too much copium?
>>327279255’7 205. I’m trying to move more but I’m lazy. I’m getting stronger but weight is about the same
>>32727988Make sure you're changing your diet too, anon. That's the biggest thing in losing weight. Eat healthier things, smaller servings, fewer snacks, etc.
>>327278062D girls>>32725456La kill
>>32727162>Do you raise any of these redfags?Definitely, yes.>Let's see how many bingos we can get.I have failed(?) you.
>>32727477>I'm working on losing a bit of weightCICO. Don't become one of those people who has been "trying" to lose weight for *years.* Be mindful of what you put in your body, and stay active.>>32727770>Basically, what's the appeal of casual sexWell as men we're biologically hardwired to pursue as many women as possible, often to our detriment, especially in our teens and early to mid 20s. By his late 20s, a man should no longer be ruled by the appeal of pussy in and of itself. Besides, as great as sex is, I don't know that there's a greater pleasure in life than rejecting a hot girl. Also, by this point experience and observation should have taught you the folly of engaging with low value women.Of course, I say all of this with the benefit of hindsight; it's easy for me to say "pussy ain't shit" when I've had my fill. I also know what it's like to be completely invisible to women; I was a fucking loser through high school and most of my early 20s... then I found confidence. Then I found weights. Then I found money. When you go from being a literal incel to having girls fight over you, it's hard not to revel in it for awhile. >I don't see the pointNor should you. If your brain is telling you intimacy shouldn't be trivialized, kudos on having a healthy brain; you're not missing anything.>>32727806I feel like this is less relevant to me than it is to most men, but regardless self-respect and an ability to set standards and boundaries goes a very long way; I only give what I want to give, and if that isn't enough, well... don't let the door hit your ass on the way out.>>32727962No. If she hasn't said anything, you definitely shouldn't say anything.
>>32727162Not as bad as I thought.>>32727338People who like ep.26 of NGE, of either sex, are generally not as clever as they all seem to think they are.>>32727806I'm a bit pissed off, honestly; because I'm doing alright, and it just never seems to enough.>>32727962With nothing comes nothing to worry about.
>>32728347>Not as bad as I thought. >Racist
