A question for all the girls: where are you going to meet men these days? None of the old sites seem to have women anymore, just spammers and pic sellers.

ladies, what boards do you browse?

>>33545662
Usually r9k, soc, random and...that's about it. More so r9k recently, since soc is hyper sexual (not that r9k isn't hyper sexual in it's own ways)

>>33545662
a, ck, co, fit ( yes, i know, but it's the funniest board ever i swear) and a couple of specific theads on soc,
i spend more time hiding asshole pics than anything here, but i have a bit of affection for the atoga thread here

>>33545918
Fit is pretty cool sometimes
But i didnt browse it much recently

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This is for the femanon from legwear thread for being hot as fck

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>anytime I ask a girl out always the same
>anon, you're a great guy, but I only see you as a friend/I don't feel that way about you
Can they just tell me that I suck? Or to fuck off? I'm so tired of hearing the same thing every god damned time.
>"duhhhh but it's good to have friends"
I don't give a fuck. I'm tired of hearing this. It's exhausting. I also have enough friends as it is.

>>33545662
mlp, lit, x

>>33546032
ok share your friends then since you have so much

i have two questions for women:
how often do you have sex?
are you in a relationship?

>>33545399
M and F, are you happy with your life? If so, where do you find joy? If not, what do you think you need to change?

>>33546477
M
Yes
I'm healthy, I'm not a degenerate, I live comfily

>>33545539
Not meeting men anywhere at the moment lol I rarely go "out" and the few times I have recently, it's to a bar where a bunch of drunk guys hit on me or divorced dads offer to buy me a drink.

>>33545662
soc, ck, tg, v

>>33546411
At the moment, none. Usually 3-4 times a week in a relationship depending on my partner, and no, currently single.

>>33546477
Not really. I think I need more of a purpose or goal. At the moment I'm just kind of drifting and doing the usual too much.

>>33546477
>are you happy with your life
No I'm incredibly depressed lol
I wish I had made better choices when I was younger. I wish I had worked harder and smarter so I could actually afford my own place and the freedoms to do the things I like
Tbh even in that situation though I'd probably find other reasons to be depressed

>>33546503
Depressing

>>33546541
100% straight facts

>>33546503
do you consider sex as a necessary chore to maintain a healthy relationship or is it something you actually enjoy and look forward to?

Thread should've been called " Guys ask girls questions " because i never seen a women taking any form of interest towards men

>>33546682
I enjoy it a lot honestly. It feels amazing, and it also makes me feel very close to the person. When I'm in a relationship, if I'm not having sex frequently, my mood drops and I get worried they aren't into me as much, unless their is a reason. There have been times when I was exhausted and burnt out after work or a long day where it felt more like an obligation and I wanted to just do it to get it over with, but I still enjoyed it, just less than normal.

>>33545662
Besides this one, /lit/ and /mu/ (and /po/ many years ago).

>>33546477
I wouldn't say I'm happy, but I'm full of joy. I love to learn, I love the people around me, and I love having the time to engage in my hobbies lol. I suppose I have a "grass is always greener" mentality, and that's where I should change.

>>33546686
there are no mysteries to men

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State gender
In what ways would you sexualize or desexualize society if given the chance?

>>33545662
>ladies, what boards do you browse?
Frequently? /o/, /biz/, /ck/, /fit/, and /gif/
Infrequently? Most boards.

>>33546411
>how often do you have sex?
Roughly five times a week.
>are you in a relationship?
Yes, with a woman.

>>33546477
>are you happy with your life?
I am. It took me a very long time to say that, but I caught myself just smiling for no reason the other day. It was very profound.
>If so, where do you find joy?
Mostly in my relationship, but also in my personal growth.

>>33546782
This. I know pretty much everything I need to know about men already.

>>33545399
why are women so fucking insane fellas?

>>33546942
Most women are pretty sane compared to me tbf

>>33545918
>co
What comics do you read, anon?

>>33546942
Trauma, abuse fear, anger and a ton of pent up sexual and non sexual frustration

>>33546894
>State gender
>In what ways would you sexualize or desexualize society if given the chance?
M
I'd push to make casual sex more common by opening a chain of cheap mini-motels in a similar vein to love hotels. A lot of people would be more willing to treat getting a hot coffee like they would going out for actual coffee if they had a clean, safe, and affordable neutral place to b-b-b-bone, and that's what it would aim to be. $30-$50 to get you 3 hours with condoms and dental dams provided. I know there's nightly motels that get close to that price point, but they're also always super gross.

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Femanons do you have any ideas where I can find autistic women? All of the autistic hobbies I know are 99% male.
I'm a sperg myself and want to find someone I relate to. Offline or online is fine and I'm willing to try "girly" things too.

>>33546703
>makes me feel very close to the person. When I'm in a relationship, if I'm not having sex frequently, my mood drops and I get worried they aren't into me as much,
wanna be in a codependent positive feedback loop with an older dude? this mind set also fits me really well.

>>33545399
Women, you probably get this question a lot, but are tiny dicks an issue?

Why do women consider it so acceptable for women to use feminism to argue that women shouldn't be held to gender roles and beauty standards, but then consider it so unacceptable for men to do the same with our own gender roles and beauty standards? Why do women talk so much about equality but then fucking despise the thought of equality in relationships and act like men are Nazi alt right woman hating bigots just because we support equality and want equality in relationships too?

>>33546782
>>33546939
Guy be like
>hey do you want to go on a picnic and cuddle.
Women
>yes (no) that sounds wonderful (in my fantasy).

Women be like
>hey can you pick me up a drink from the store literally anything's fine (you better not pick just fucking anything).
Guy
>returns with literally anything it gets called a uncaring asshole.

Also yes guys literally do just want one thing, and every straight one wants it.
It just depends in the context of how and with whom they want it

>>33546782
>>33546939

Thanks to prove once again that women are unsufferable and do not care about men at all

Women of soc, why are you as plain and boring as a piece of cardboard with conversation skills subpar compared even to the normiest normie, yet have a sky-high ego, despite knowing that if you really were that awesome, you wouldn't need to post on 4chan in the first place.

How do you cope with the crushing weight of a thousand other copes to continue your existence?

>>33546971
usually titles from Image comics, like saga, something is killing the children, die, and i mostly read a lot of european comics ( i don't know if bande dessinée won't sound too snobbish and i don't like the '' graphic novel'' name)

>>33546782
>>33546939
No offense, but these kind of takes just out you as not caring enough to know.

>>33546942
Same reasons men tend to be insane, we live in a society that (by design, in many ways) isn't conducive to mental health.

>>33546894
>In what ways would you sexualize or desexualize society if given the chance?
Ban on pornography, that is to say, sexual media and depictions without bonafide artistic merit or intent. Fines for receipt and possession, fines, community service, and imprisonment and rehabilitation for hosting and production. Some exceptions for personal content exchanged between established couples for non-commercial purposes, obviously. If we take a step back and look at the normalization and proliferation of pornography, and the net effect on society thereof, no sane or decent mind could condone it being allowed to continue. Thanks for coming to my TED talk.
>I caught myself just smiling for no reason the other day
I am familiar with that amazing, unexpected feeling, and I'm glad you got to experience it.

>>33547614
Schrödinger's feminist, anon; a woman is both a victim and empowered, as determined but whatever benefits her the most in a given situation.

>>33547949
This might be a hot take, but I feel like this wasn't asked in good faith.

>>33548020
Nice. I read Image too, I need to finish East of West despite having most of the issues. I heard SiKtC is good, but it's pretty long now, yeah? Worth jumping in still? Are you into like Tintin or Usagi Yojimbo?

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>>33547169
Cosplayers, not the stupid bimbos you see online, the average looking girls that actually put a lot of effort into making a cute anime dress, but it’s gonna be autism combined with other mental illnesses

>>33548742
Smart. I assume the best way to find cosplayers is by meeting in cons? Cold approaching is really tough for me but I guess I'll try.
>the average looking girls that actually put a lot of effort into making a cute anime dress
Need.
>but it’s gonna be autism combined with other mental illnesses
I think I can handle that unless she has a cluster b pd.

>>33548613
>I heard SiKtC is good, but it's pretty long now, yeah? Worth jumping in still?
you can try '' house of slaughter'' which is a prequel, it's shorter
also, my bad SiKtC is from booms studios, not the same editor ( i remember that giant days was also a great title from them)

>Are you into like Tintin or Usagi Yojimbo?
i'm european, so i've read all the basic francobelge comics like tintin or asterix by the time i was 10 ( it's a staple in library, everyone has those, everyone read those )

i can recommend you Blacksad or a pretty obscure francobelge comics called Chninkel (or The Great Power of Chninkel), it's probably one of the best fantasy comics in just a single volume you can get

Dead shithole

>>33546075
You know this isn't what I mean. Come on now.

>>33548742
I tried that once and 10 minutes into talking she felt the need to say she had a bf just to be clear.

>>33547513
Only if the guy is super insecure about it. The problem isn't the dick size itself, but if the guy is obsessed with penis size it usually ends poorly.

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>>33545399
I'm a man with a very long foreskin. I always wonder if woman care about foreskin or circumcision, etc. or if that just isn't that often on your mind.

>>33551178
Like with all things dick related, it's not going to matter unless it's nonfunctional or at some absolute extreme

>>33551184
yeah, I know, but that's not what's on my mind. I'm just curious how often woman think about foreskin, circumcision, etc in general

>>33551225
We don't think about it unless prompted

>>33551246
Thank you :) Can I ask what your opinion about circumcision is?

>>33551252
I don't have a preference for it, it's weird that it was the default in some places for a while, but I don't think it's weird that a guy is circumsized and I'm not going to be a cunt about it or go on some /pol/tard rant about the joos when I see one.

>>33551258
I also don't care about the religious aspects of it. I do think that it should be done at 16 with the consent of the child at the earliest. I think it's a violation of bodily autonomy. Except maybe when it's a medical emergency

>>33551278
I don't think it's a big deal either way, I've never met a man with a cut dick that cries about it like 4channers do. Yeah it'd probably be better with consent but I doubt it's as "bad" as people online act like it is

>>33551283
I understand that reasoning, as long as almost nobody cares about that, nobody would ever try to make it illegal.I think that's sad because I really do believe it should be illegal. But thank you very much for talking about it :) It's just a topic that has been on my mind for a while now...

>>33551289
Excuse the whataboutism, but there is just way more important stuff to care about in the world than circumcision

>>33551290
Such as? Since the commonplace mutilation of male infants for no valid medical purpose whatsoever is no big deal, I'm curious as to what, in your mind, is.

>>33551377
Global violence. Although technically circumcision is mutliation, referring to it as such shows that any discussion with you will inevitably lead down the /pol/tard rant rabbit hole as alluded to here >>33551258
Men live entirely fulfilling lives being circumcised. Is it weird we do it? Yeah. Is it worth autistically screeching about online constantly? No.

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I wrote to a friend (f) two days ago and she ignored my message. she didn't reply to it. I don't understand at all. what's the reasoning behind something like this?

>>33551434
context (dunno if it's relevant to my query or not):

>my best friend (f) becomes distant
>common friend (f) reveals to me that best friend used to secretly like me
>but now she's hurt because she found out I went out with other girls while we knew each others
>I'm devastated by the quasi-loss of best friend
>say that I've always been uncertain about the nature of my feelings for best friend. love? only affection?
>don't mention a bitter truth another common friend knows: I've always considered her a sort of a "Plan B", a second-choice potential gf.
>common friend proposes to talk to her the next day during class
>wait a few days
>ask her whether she talked to her
>no reply

Question for men, why are pure/virginal women are loosing in love and relationships compared to sluts? It seems like men prefer sluts but they are very vocal that they don’t.

>>33547614

I'm sorry you feel this way. You seem very pressured. I can't speak for the everyone, but the women in my life, including myself- are very appreciative of equal effort in relationships.

You should be able to live your life free of societal gender roles. The system puts a lot of stress on men to the be soulless financial providers to their households. Not to mention the constant pressure little boys are under to conform to the toxic male beauty standards.

People(women) in the real world are a lot less involved in this toxic rhetoric than you might think. I hope you find someone who can share the load. Look for someone kind who makes you comfortable in your own skin. You deserve happiness anon.

>>33551399
>Although technically circumcision is mutliation
Right, which is why I called it that.
>referring to it as such shows that any discussion with you will inevitably lead down the /pol/tard rant rabbit hole
You presume quite a bit. I assure you my grievances are entirely apolitical. It's a barbaric practice that serves no medical purpose in most individuals. I find it kind of disturbing that more people aren't disturbed by it, although I don't believe the reason is what /pol/ would tell you; I chalk it up to Hanlon's razor, more than anything else.
>Men live entirely fulfilling lives being circumcised
Yeah, and I'm sure women could get by just fine with commensurate alterations to the pudendum, but I'm still glad that never caught on in the western world.
>Global violence
In what sense?

>>33551526
What makes you say that? Do you have any examples you can give? Context would help me give you worthwhile answer.

>>33551615
zzzzzzzzzzzz

>>33551622
Sluts:
>Male validation and attention
>Bigger dating pool because they whore around so much
>Men are open to their advances
>Gets everything they ask for in men because they’re so good at sex
Virgins:
>Smaller dating pool
>No one wants the burden of “taking care “ of a virgin (ie showing them the ropes, be there for them)
>Men don’t even look at them
>Thinks that there’s something wrong with them
>Literally have to beg men for everything when whores got shit handled to them for free

>>33551615
the male obsession with circumcision is endlessly funny to me

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Women: What are your thoughts on fisting? Will any of you admit to having tried it?

>>33551676
I'm probably the worst femanon to answer this, sorry.
Fisting looks really painful. I know the vaginal walls can stretch to the circumference of a baby's head. But a fist? A man sized fist? Sounds horrific. There is so much bacteria under a person's fingernails. I guess the person getting fisted can pretend to be a muppet so that could be fun for them.

>>33551799
>There is so much bacteria under a person's fingernails.
as someone curious about it and hopeful to some day find a girl who lets me fist her, i would make her inspect my hands before shoving them up in there. she'll know they are clean enough, or she'll be willing to take the risk if they're not.

>>33551629
Gotcha; any discourse that doesn't devolve into binary, jingoistic nonsense is beyond you, isn't it?
>>33551658
Why is it funny?
>>33551655
The attention, validation, and bigger dating pool tends to not be of the best quality. If not necessarily of suitors, than in the intentions and investment thereof. What I mean is, for most men, the bar for who we will fuck is far, far, *FAR* lower than what we'll commit to, and if we don't respect a woman or see potential in her as a long term partner, we'll play all sorts of games and tell all sorts of lies to keep her interested until we bore of her, and we won't lose any sleep over having done so. It sounds awful, and it is, but my point is don't envy the abundance in male attention enjoyed by loose women. The other thing working against you is that you live in a time where men are becoming more and more wary of getting into relationships, there's a lot of reasons for this, but the tl;dr: is we don't really benefit from them, and they tend to invite complications. Men tend to work very hard for what we have, and the more we build, the more we tend to scrutinize who we let close.

Focus on building genuine connections with the right kind of men, and be patient.

>>33551526
sluts are for pumping & dumping. pure is for wifing & creating a family.

>>33551809
>Gotcha; any discourse that doesn't devolve into binary, jingoistic nonsense is beyond you, isn't it?
It's a pointless discussion. Circumcision is basically a non-issue. The only people who care are men who think their life sucks now that their penises are less sensitive. It's a pointless, useless topic to spend cycles talking about.

>>33551676
I can do it to myself

I'd never admit it to a guy without knowing whether he was into it or not first.

>>33551804
Just wear gloves dude. Makes it easier to get your hand in there anyway.

>>33552149
Can I be your holiday season e-gift card sugar daddy.

>>33552149
>I can do it to myself
how much/how little do you enjoy it?

>>33551809
Still, society praise them and put them on a pedestal and virgins are seen as too much. I blame of, sex work and porn addiction.
They have fun with these sluts more anons. There are men who outwardly disrespect their wives and gf and give these loose women whatever they want, many such cases. I tried to be positive and wait for a good guy but they never show me any attention, waiting is a pain in the ass when you know these men are out there partying it up with whores. Admit it, sluts are winning, no one wants a genuine girl anymore and they usually mistreat them.

>>33551676
Funnily enough i was reading a thread about how one of this guy’s friend was struggling to find a gf because he was into fisting kek

>>33551434
>>33551437
I'm a man and my younger brother wouldn't even respond to my dad in a timely manner, some times weeks, when my dad was paying for his and his girlfriends phone plan while he and his then girlfriend were living in my dads house.

My brother has a bit of a main character personality and says callous shit then calls me uncaring. I don't think this is an issue of women. However I will admit to failing to respond within a day or 2 for some things when I want to check something before I respond so it could be self interested/involved personality failings or just getting distracted.

>ask her whether she talked to her
>no reply
A little confusing but is the her in this the common friend you mentioned 2 lines ago? If so it could be that YOU are the asshole and they are discussing it before getting back to you because your story makes you seem like a major tool.

>>33551655
Sluts:
>Male validation and attention
Maybe if I simp hard enough she will sleep with me
>Bigger dating pool because they whore around so much
it seems like this chick is easy and all I want is sex so I should try her instead of the prude
>Men are open to their advances
hey easy lay
>Gets everything they ask for in men because they’re so good at sex
HOOERS
Virgins:
>Smaller dating pool
She doesn't seem like a whore / she doesn't seem like there is a lot of attention for her affections
>No one wants the burden of “taking care “ of a virgin (ie showing them the ropes, be there for them)
I jsut want a quick lay
>Men don’t even look at them
she ugly (or doesn't put effort into her appearance maybe)
>Thinks that there’s something wrong with them
Honestly good virgins get wifed young

>Literally have to beg men for everything when whores got shit handled to them for free
maybe she will sleep with me if I etc. etc. etc.

>>33552549
>society praise them
Only the parts of society positioned to profit from them.
Female Empowerment = female expenses

>>33552227
....what?
>>33552503
Like on a scale of 1/10? I have to be "in the mood" as it's kind of an undertaking but I guess 9/10? There's no negatives to it other than feeling the tiniest bit gross when I'm done. In theory I would really enjoy having it done to me by someone else rather than having to do it myself. The angle is hard on my wrist.

>>33552549
Wait holy shit you're coming off as having a massively inflated sense of self worth. Aside from a mint condition vagina what do you offer as a wife or partner?
>I tried to be positive and wait for a good guy
>they never show me any attention
>waiting is a pain in the ass
There is so much shit to unpack here like if you don't like waiting then be more proactive.
But also,
>Admit it, sluts are winning
Is this bait?

>>33552549
Babe no one is "winning".
The sluts aren't competing with virgins. At least in theory if the men who say they have morals stick by them. We're not competing with each other for the same pool of men, the men who are interested in you want nothing to do with me, and vice versa.

>>33552819
Keep telling yourself that.

>>33552813
It’s not inflated, its lack of it. The right guy never came, might as well be salty on an anonymous board.

>>33552838
I think he's trying to say you should have been proactive. Done something about it instead of just waiting.

>>33552838
Some of guys would happily be very patient with a virgin girl and treasure her and let her explore her sexuality at her pace.
But its not all men i agree, so yes you are at sort of disadvantage.

I know i would like to have virgin future wife.

With that being said, just being a virgin doesnt mean you can neglect everything else.
Still have to put in effort into looks, still have to have firm understanding of the world etc

Doesnt matter if a girl is a virgin if shes genuinely too hard to hang out with because shes just a bitch

At that point guys would rather have a girl whos easy go get along and easier to court because she knows whT she wants.

And no, the right guy will not just magically appear in your life.

>>33552806
Fisting always seemed like it could be a pretty magical experience whenever I read about it. To me the allure isn't in the size/girth exactly. Our hands are how we explore and interact with the world. When we need to access the bottom of a jar or vase it's always pleasing when we can slip our whole hand down there, and frustrating when our hand won't fit and we have to devise a workaround to reach the bottom. We want to touch the thing, squeeze the thing, see if we can fit our hand in the thing, and we find real delight in experiencing all of this. I guess on some higher level the idea of using an entire hand to bring the woman I love pleasure sounds incredibly satisfying. It doesn't sound porno hardcore so much as it sounds meaningful and deeply bonding. But I've never done it, just thought about it. My disc is crap.wagon if you're interested in chatting.

>>33552998
>Still pick the slut at the end of the day
You’re running around in circles buddy. I’ve tried my best to improve myself both in looks and personality but nothing happens. Even trying out the apps and I even come up and talk to them. Still no results.

>>33553080
You did manage to make me feel a little less gross about being into it. If more men see it the way you see it and not as some like insane bdsm shit where it's about "ruining" my body or whatever. It's just nice to feel full and complete a challenge.

>>33552792
>A little confusing but is the her in this the common friend you mentioned 2 lines ago?
Sorry, I'll rephrase: ask common friend whether she talked to best friend
>If so it could be that YOU are the asshole
I dindu nuffin

>>33553159
I feel like fisting and yoga are similar activities when you think about it. It's about learning to stretch your muscles and enjoying the challenge and sensation of it. Yoga is considered a spiritually healing activity. I've always thought of fisting along the same lines. It's all about gaining mastery of your body. It shouldn't be any more taboo or hardcore than a challenging yoga session, and it should have similar mental health benefits.

M or F
How do you care enough to get to know someone?
Everyone says dates are exciting because you "get to meet a new person" but that doesn't sound exciting or interesting at all.

>>33553907
F
That sounds like advice from an extrovert. The alternative has to suck more in order to get me to go on dates so it takes like 3 years of being alone before I bother.

Questions for men: What does prostate stimulation feel like? When did you masturbate for the first time, and what was it like? When you crush on a girl, do you fantasize about her, or do you restrain since you like her? Is there a specific fantasy you have (or had in the past) about a crush you'd like to share?

>>33545662
cm y d gif pw soc r9k cgl

>>33554134
>When did you masturbate for the first time, and what was it like?
Probably around 14 or so. I wasn't very good at it, but it still felt good.
>When you crush on a girl, do you fantasize about her, or do you restrain since you like her?
Depends on how close we are. I don't typically fantasize about a girl until we've started flirting.
>Is there a specific fantasy you have (or had in the past) about a crush you'd like to share?
Not really! Most of my fantasies are very, very simple. They're often just cunnilingus / facesitting, come to think of it.

>>33554149
>I wasn't very good at it
How so? Sorry if I'm being inconsiderate, but it seems hard to be bad at jacking off when you have a dick LOL seems so simple

>>33554155
For some reason, I failed to grasp the whole "upward motion" part. So it consisted of me taking one hand, sliding down the length of it, then letting go and repeating the motion with the other hand.

>>33554134

Idk how prostate stimulation feels like
I masturbated for the first time when i was around 10 but not exactly sure. I "came" but nothing was coming out
Imagine my shock when it did start to come out though.
When i crush on a girl i get this warm wholesome feeling inside, like even her tiny gestures like being goofy or smiling can make me happy inside.

At the same time i get attracted by her body, notice her butt, hips, pretty face, and that starts the sexual thoughts.

In comparison, seeing a hot sexy woman i dont crush on also gives me sexual thoughts but no warm wholesome feefees. Just
>OOGA BOOGA DICK IN BAGINA

I have had fantasy about one girl who i had crush on (my coworker) about fucking her between containers in secluded part of warehouse, and punishing her with more (cnc) sex when shes misbehaving (she does that sometimes, but can also be suoer sweet otherwise)

Also fantasizing about some super hot girls from my gym. Had mega crush on like two of them, but they had all, pretty faces, nice hair, amazing bodies and cutest smiles

>>33552058
Why are women so apathetic to mens issues?

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What does it mean when you have a dream about a girl you talk to in class and you guys are dancing and then you kiss at the end? I mean, yeah, I have a crush, but didn't think she'd show up in my dreams.

>>33551526
I'm not sure that's true but if it is, I could think of couple reasons
>girls is virgin not because she saves herself but because she's fat or extremely ugly so no one wants to be seen with her
>slut label is overused and thrown at any non-virgin
>men don't want to wait this long for sex and for better or worse reasons at least one of the parties doesn't want marriage
>it's not love but infatuation, people get together because it feels good and later divorce or simply break up if they didn't get to get married yet
Secret is that men want slutty girl, but only for themselves. Loyal slut, as weird as it sounds, is ideal.

>>33551804
Did fist a girl. It's not amazing but still interesting feeling. It's really hot in there, really tight but it's soft enough you can move around and spread fingers a little with enough force applied. Grip on wrist is really tight. It was interesting to touch cervix and find out it feels like hard tube. When you touch it with tip of penis during sex you don't get to feel its shape and hardness to the fullest.
Best feeling about is seeing girl's pleasure if she's into it. Wouldn't mind doing it again.

>>33553907
I see it as a trial/interview/part of test to figure out if it's potential wife material. There is nothing exciting about it. If anything, it's easy because at first no one knows anything about other person so you can talk about yourself, memories, experiences, thoughts etc. When you run out of that, it quickly dies if you didn't find something common to enjoy together.

>>33554134
>What does prostate stimulation feel like?
No idea. I'm curious enough to try but I didn't find girl willing to do it. I once went to hooker who had this in her offer but since I had diarrhea earlier that day we decided not to risk shitting bed.
>When did you masturbate for the first time, and what was it like?
Around when I was like 12 or 13yo. My mother told me to pull back foreskin when I'll be taking a bath to prevent/check for phimosis and simply maintain hygiene. I did so and at first it burned like hell, but there was slight, pleasurable undertone to it, like an instinct. Next day I decided to play around with it after taking piss and shot my first load into toilet bowl.
When I was younger I vaguely remember laying in bed in a wsy that would put pressure in my crotch while looking at stretching women pics in some yoga book and good semsations tied with it, but I don't think I was old enough to produce sperm that time.
>When you crush on a girl, do you fantasize about her, or do you restrain since you like her?
It's mostly romantic scenarios. My life turned weird way and so I kind of keep sex and romance separate, even though I did find out sex with someone you care about is more satisfying than random sex, even if it's less perverse. I simply have no one to have romantic sex with. But I sometimes did have sexual dreams about her.
>Is there a specific fantasy you have (or had in the past) about a crush you'd like to share?
It's a longer scenario in apocalyptic/crisis and societal breakdown settings where I take her away by force, potentially killing her bf by accident/mistake, keep her safe and even though she hates it at first, over time she realizes I'm not that bad, especially if it involves some sacrifice on my part, and she warms up and we become couple and build family.

And few questions from me for femanons:
Would you be willing to move to village for relationship or cities with availability of work, entertainment and convenience is too much to sacrifice?
How much does sexual past of a man matter to you?
Would you be willing to accept man if he had kink you found disgusting but he wouldn't try to make you engage in it?
Would you buy modular clothing that uses buttons, straps etc to add functional things like sleeves or decorational things like ribbons so it could be worn in digferent weather, different occasions and customized to your liking? Or functional/practical feminine clothing like skirts and dresses but with actual pockets?
Do you find roleplaying and dressups in bed embarassing?

>>33551613
Women say this but then only want shitty hypermasculine high status abusechads, women fucking hate the idea of settling for the incels who want equal relationships and oppose gender roles. Women in the real world are extremely toxic with this stuff, thats how I realized life is like this, from seeing firsthand how normal regular women act in dating

>>33551613
Problem with this thinking is that it's utopian. Men are women are not the same so you can't reach equality in roles and effort. It would be stupid to make woman do heavy lifting and man to feed infant. What is desirable is fairness through assymetry. You need stuff to be made properly so if it's risky, heavy etc, you delegate man to do it because we're better equipped for that. But in return woman contribute by doing easier, but more cyclical jobs. It makes illusion that women do bulk of the work but reality is they do similar, it's just distributed in different way. Man takes big risk and does heavy job every now and then and woman does light, easy job almost every day. Nature didn't specialize us through sexual dimorphism for nothing and pretending it doesn't matter is recipe for disaster somewhere down the line.

>>33555074
I would prefer a small village provided I can get to the kind of area that would have a Target in like an hour and a half or so.
Sexual past matters in that I don't want to take advantage of someone with less experience but I don't want details or exact numbers.
Depends on if the kink is something I find gross (vomit) or morally abhorrent (bestiality)
Modular clothing is cool
RP in bed is cringe yeah

To females
You ever tried killing yourselves?

>>33552549
You’re either a Millennial living in a very urban area filled with people with loose morals or just in another reality altogether. I see articles online all the time talking about how most young gen z people don’t drink, have sex, party or do anything. I mean over 60% of young guys are single vs half that number for women, if you can’t pick from that pool I don’t know what to tell you. Even if you’re an attractive woman you need to put some level of effort in, I started doing it as a guy just recently and have had decent success already (although many women on here complain about men after ghosting and unadding them within a few days, as I have also experienced personally but after talking with enough women I quickly figured out that it was them and not me). Of course when I was a neet myself I never had any female attention despite being a good looking guy because I never talked to anyone. I personally would never date a woman with any kind of sizable sexual history just looking at how that affects your odds of divorce down the line alone but yeah, you can find any kind of guy you want here or anywhere else. If you only want people who are likely to have a good sense of morality then go to church.
>>33555078
I wouldn’t blame them, the feminine man thing is a shit test. Hence why most people leave their bf as soon as they cry over something dumb. Men at every point in history have never been more pussified and effeminate as they are today globally. If a woman tells you you should act a certain way to attract women, do the opposite 95% of the time. Trust me.

>>33557751
Long time ago now but yeah
Did not work

>>33557603
>I would prefer a small village provided I can get to the kind of area that would have a Target in like an hour and a half or so.
Europe isn't so big you have villages without shops nearby. One I have in mind has supermarket in nearby town like 10km away and closest small shop like 5km away. Additionally due to concentration of old people there basics like bakery send mobile shops in trucks to make a tour through villages like once or twice a week. I was surprised fiber internet is accessible there now.
>Depends on if the kink is something I find gross (vomit) or morally abhorrent (bestiality)
Care to elaborate?
>Modular clothing is cool
Why isn't it more common? I was wondering if there is demand for such stuff because it seems like potential untapped market. If I had someone to test it in practice and give feedback I'd maybe consider some business. Men's clothing isn't as big of a deal and focus is often there on other things like durability and sturdiness + practicality in form of pockets and zippers to piss through. Somewhere down the line I might order making shirt for myself with few elements like that to see if additional buttins, zippers and straps won't make clothes irritating to wear. Still, female clothing offers much more room for variety of decorations. You don't see frills, ribbons, cutouts etc in male clothing.

BreakingThem

>>33558659
Shit. It's actually a lowercase t
"Breakingthem"

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Femanons:
Someone I dated for a few months but then we stopped told me that I'm "friend shaped" but didn't know how to explain it. What did they mean?

femanons
How do I know if a girl actually likes me or is just tolerating me? I feel like I'm always the one initiating things but she always seems happy to hang out. I have no idea what she's thinking.

>>33558990
Slightly more sane than the average femanon here... if she "tolerates" you, that's good. My kind doesn't like to initiate too often unless we're needy messes, but if she has fun and says "OK" to hanging out pretty much anytime you ask, then you're in a good state.

Why are guys way nicer to me when i am not wearing makeup, at this point it is not a coincidence its every single time. And its not ugly make up since it gets complimented often by women

>>33557751
I feel like most people on here have tried to kill themselves, but yep!
Drank a fuck ton of paint thinner before bed and woke up in the hospital. Brother found me before I corked it I guess. Don't do it. Recovery is ass. The worst head and stomach pain I've ever felt. If my shit plan hadn't been found out so fast I'd have permanent damage. Just shoot yourself.

>>33556896
Eh sorry, I can only talk from my own experience. I live in a rat race capitalist American city. The work required in order to survive is all the same despite gender. Go to work. Pay bills. Buy food. Clean house. Rinse and repeat. So the "split work" I meant was just that. Is it a "recipe for disaster"? Idk I'm just a zoomer who was born into this system but it's working for me so far. I wouldn't think too hard about it bro. When you break down people into groups, things can get kinda bleak. There was an entire year where I got obsessed with the "science" behind men, which in the end lead me to be terrified of anything with a penis. I feel like when we use science to break people down into hormones and body parts we forget that they are people. Just support your partner in whatever they do and hope they will support you back. You deserve it, don't forget that. And if they don't treat you fairly, find someone who will.

>>33558806
Fat

>>33554467
It means you have a crush lol
>>33559768
No idea because I love pretty makeup but I'm guessing some of those guys see you as more "attainable" without as much makeup, or have negative preconceptions when you do wear em? Don't pay mind to them tho

>>33559768
Maybe you are naturally qt and makeup makes you look more plastic and thus vain?
Maybe makeup makes you look out of their league so they don't even bother thinking you'll simply treat them like lowly trash?
>And its not ugly make up since it gets complimented often by women
That doesn't mean shit. Women and men look for different things. Many women for example look for men with higher education, or at least they claim they do whenever asked or whenever they fill out their profiles on dating apps, meanwhile most men couldn't care less about woman's education since they look in women for things that education has nothing to do with.

>>33559878
That's because your perspective is limited. All of those jobs depend on basics like electricity and safety. And when you look into who extracts oil, ores, who makes sure other army won't just waltz in to rape and establish their rule, it's men. Obviously not all men work those jobs at any given time but whenever crisis happens, they are expected, or even forced to be the ones who take biggest risks. That's why I said that men look like they do less: their biggest sacrifices are scattered over time in form of big spikes. And you don't even need war for that to happen. Recently there were floods in my country and obviously it was men building sandbag walls, operating heavy machinery to save people trapped in cars and now cleaning up whole mess that flood left in dust where visibility is dozen of meters. And it's fine that way because obviously men are more expandable and better equipped to this kind of work. But then if you want fairness, women have to do their share of different work. That's why I advocate for assymetric fairness. Just like in my home where I'm delegated to chop and bring home wood, wash our dog, drag trash bins to the street, dig out bushes or trees for replanting elsewhere while women in the house generally cook, feed and brush dog, do lighter work in the garden like watering, planting flowers etc.

Nuts out for Peanut
Post 'em anons

>>33561785
No, thanks, I don't digest peanuts. I still sometimes eat them because they're tasty, but then I end up with diarrhea if I eat too much at once.

Questions for females about anatomy of the vagina.

I wanted to know if in everyday life, is the vaginal cavity sealed by the labia/lips of the vagina like how the mouths lips create a seal, and is it still sealed if you stretched your legs wide.
So if you did the splits would this open the vaginal cavity.
Also, when you get wet, say you were in the bath, does water naturally get in the vaginal cavity, or again does the labia create a seal.

I feel stupid not ever asking a woman IRL this question desu.
I am curious about it.

I also wanted to ask about cleaning the inner cavity and cleaning cum after sex.
I know using soap products is a bad idea (I don't use anything but water on my penis too)
but do you intentionally get water in the inner cavity to clean it.

>>33551526
FYI I think men like fucking sluts but our own women we want clean.
Even from an anatomical perspective a woman having sex with another man is dirty as the vagina is an orifice with a mucus membrane.
No issue if you get dirt on your skin right, just wash it off, but if you get dirt in your mouth...issue.

I like to watch a woman get used like a fucking piece of shit and gangbanged and cummed in many times with all holes filled up in porn but no fucking way would I ever want to be with a woman like that. Or join in either.
I genuinely want a pure, non promiscuous woman.
I don't care about being a virgin, of course it would be ideal but as an adult it is unlikely.

>pure/virginal women are loosing in love and relationships compared to sluts
I don't really understand what you mean but from obvious pov, loosing intimacy.
Men and women enrich each other. So a perma virgin woman turns into a crazy cat lady without a man.

>>33553907
>dates are exciting because you "get to meet a new person"
I don't think it is interesting either and its actually rather annoying and the person is being fake, as are you.
Reality is we all want to be intimate, fuck and get t the point where we know, like and are comfortable with each other but it takes time and the date is the first step.

The major issue with a date is that we are getting to know each other and its the gamble where you dont want to open up and tell the person who you are but do want to check the person out and find out who they are.
Hence why the "rule" is 3 dates then you fuck...then get to know each other.

>>33554134
>What does prostate stimulation feel like
I have never really done it sexually.
It would be messy and nasty of course but it is pleasurable to touch.
Prostate can cause a lot of issues though. Like I have had it where it is vibrating and I constantly feel like I am about to shit despite the tank being empty.

>masturbate for the first time
I actually clearly remember it, I was 13 and experimented. No porn. (magazines in those days)
Also fun thing you may not know about a man, but we do have an equivalent of a hymen, a small fold of skin that sticks from the tip of the bell end to the foreskin and this will not break until the forskin is pulled all the way back... like when you masturbate.
Of course like the hymen this skin would be different for each individual.
I remember breaking mine.

>crush on a girl
Don't have crushes per say, only retards and children have them but I can have sexual desire for women I meet, but I am a bit unique that I am religious and actively avoid desire (buddhist) so dont allow my mind to be controlled by it, I will never covet a "non legitimate sexual object" married woman/bf, children, animals etc.
Like I have an ex and she often comes into my mind when I am imagining or using memory to get me off and I have to constantly get her out of the mind because she may have a partner. plus desire for her would not be good for me.
I do have a specific IRL women I once fucked and use her all the time in memory and fantasy as my "legitimate sexual object"

I will say though, when I have been into a women, thoughts of sexual desire and masturbating about her feels smutty. Like I dont respect her.
Generally I think you dont really love a woman if you use her as a fap tool.

>>33554149
>Most of my fantasies are very, very simple. They're often just cunnilingus / facesitting, come to think of it.
Are you me?
Pussy eating is my thing too, its normally always pussy eating and face sitting to some degree.
Never actually had face sit IRL too

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>>33554467
Dreams are just mental formations. They have no meaning. They are like a lottery of X amount of scenarios, situations etc that form together.
They of course can be influenced by events and the like but they are generally random. you can imagine completely unique places and people you have never been to and never met.
Dream divination is complete BS. Looking for meaning in dreams is BS.
Though of course you can use them. like your dream is probably brought on by a desire to kiss that girl.
You should ask her out.

>>33559832
Fuck. I did a tour in a mental hospital for a few months and a girl in there drank bleach. She was screaming her head off in agony and the staff just ignored her thinking she is just being a loon.
Cunts.
She succeed but fuck that is a brutal way to go.
Real smart impromptu option would be to strangle yourself on a noose with a chair nearby, that way you can back out when you get your head right or fully commit.
Ultimate option is exit bag or charcoal but one would have had to do research and it would be premeditated.

>>33559768
Speaking personally I prefer natural women.
But there is a reason it is called "fake up"
Using that shit you are being dishonest and painting your face like a clown trying to look more healthy and more pretty than you are.
Irony of all is human men like human women and makeup is not a human women...it is illogical.
Would you like and be honest to a man wearing say a halloween mask every time you see him?
That is how an intelligent man sees a women in makeup.
So yeah. Men are probably being nicer to you because not wearing fakeup indicates that you are not an insecure cunt, not being a dishonest cunt and look more attractive.

I specifically wont ever date a woman who wears make up.
Exception being wearing it at specific events like a wedding or something.

men do you feel empathy for your gf dwindle as ur relationship progressed like u hold resentment and dont feel pain when ur gf feels pain because thats how my bf is because i cry too often *i have hormone imbalance but i dont believe in birth control or medication* and i am sensitive as it is so i cry easily he used to baby me and now he fels nothing for me and i just feel scared that ill never be cared fo tthe way i once was again

>>33562487
>Are you me?
Last I checked, no. But good taste.

>>33562546
No offence but you write like a little child.
You didn't ask the question properly either.

I guess what you are asking is do men normally mollycoddle women who are emotional.
Fuck no.
Women can easily do crocodile tears and mollycoddling them just reinforces the behaviour.
Like children or babies specifically. Tending to them when they cry on command just teaches them crying gets them shit they want.

Still when a woman is genuinely suffering internally, that is when I would show physical comfort with compassion.
The bf you mention has probably clicked on that you are just being a child but would probably still do like I said and tend to you if you were in genuine distress or pain.

I would suggest to you to learn how to gain some fortitude in your character so that you can rule your own emotions and bodily functions rather than they rule you.
Look into mental trainings.

hey, if you a woman and some drunk fucking cunt man chats to you on an anonymous maessageborad, do you write them off entireley? just curoiusr for a a friend or soemthing

men.
do you actually like to eat pussy? if the answer is no then why?

if the answer is it’s dirty in some way then imagine a scenario where they just showered, is the answer still no?

also follow up question, if the girl was hot 10/10 would that change your mind?

>>33562607
It's my top fantasy, though I've no experience.

>>33562607
>do you actually like to eat pussy?
Yes if it's groomed and doesn't smell. I've eaten pussy before and liked it. But over the summer, I was fucking some girl and went to eat her out and it tasted and smelled terrible. Instant regret

>>33562607
I fucking love eating pussy. It tastes good, generally able to make women squirt by fingering them and sucking/tonguing their clit. I have literally laughed at some of the faces I've seen women make when I just keep giving them orgasm after orgasm.

I have a pretty thick beard at the moment so it's like sopping wet by the time that I'm done. Usually probably like a 45 min - 1 hour ordeal and I'll happily do that everyday if I'm happy and getting what I want sexually out of the relationship. Maybe insert some toys or use a vibrator while you tongue fuck her pussy.

The answer is always yes unless you have an infection or something fucking disgusting. I love women with a little bit of smell. All of you apologize about it and it's cute that you think that the smell of pussy isn't an aphrodisiac for some of us.

If you're nice, hygienic, and not completely busted you can sit on my face. Probably try to eat your ass a little too.

>>33562607
I like eating pussy, its my top tier fantasy, the thing is though I dont eat the pussy of some random girl though I did once.
I want to only eat the pussy of my gf, not some slut who could have been fucking some nigger 20 mins ago.

Still, logically, I am under no illusions that the vagina is a pleasant part of the anatomy. It is quite literally the most disgusting part of human external anatomy.
The difference is, when I am in horny mode, it is the best thing in the world.

Also unlike that other fag, idgaf if it smells or tastes bad because in the heat of the moment none of that shit matters.
my pleasure comes from seeing the woman writhe in pleasure, not from the pussy itself or the eating of it.
Of course I prefer a clean pussy but I have ate a 55yo pussy who has had 4 kids that shit is of course gonna stink and be washed up.
She enjoyed it though as did I.

Goes without saying of course, not eating it in menstruation, discharge and need her to have a shower first.

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>>33562607
>do you actually like to eat pussy?
I don't mind. Taste-wise it's nothing special but I like pleasing person I like and signs like squeezing my cheeks with thighs or doing stuff with my hair is kind of turn on. If girl like it, I can do it. In general I'm neutral towards oral, both eating pussy and getting my cock sucked. PiV is where it's at and I could easily life my whole life with just PiV as PiV > anal > oral.
Though like >>33562971 said, it's for stable pertnership with girls. I reserve stuff like kisses, pussy eating etc only for stable relations, at least FwB.

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>>33552549
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qDhde8MSwBA
You're coming from a place of extreme solipsism. It's not about men preferring "sluts" to virgins, it's about how having sex with someone is not the same as investing in them. Most men are interested in sex, few men, and fewer by the day, are interested in a committed relationship with a woman. Sure, we like the idea of it, but the stark realities of it all have become too much to ignore. No-fault divorce was a mistake, and the beginning of the end; how can you expect a man to invest in a woman, build a life with her, knowing she could tear it all way from him for any reason, or no reason? Having a family is fucking terrifying. Society has turned it's back on men, so men are turning their backs on society. You still have a chance, but you need to go find the right guy, and you need to show him that he can trust you, and that you have more to offer than just the first crack at what's between your legs.

>>33552058
>It's a pointless discussion
Yet "global violence" isn't?

>>33555078
>Women say this
Right, women in general tend to repeat what they've been told is the correct thing to say. There's a difference between stated and revealed preferences; focus on the latter. Lift weights, get money, be a little toxic; it's not that hard.

>>33559768
It's easier to be genuine with someone who is herself, being genuine.

>>33562546
>mfw
I make a point of not reinforcing undesirable behavior with the desired outcomes. It's not about a lack of empathy, it's about how you, by your own admission, cry too much because you "don't believe in" mood stabilizers. He's not going to baby you because you're a grown ass woman. It's not that he doesn't care about you, it's that he's grown numb to you crying over some bullshit. Stop treating him like an emotional tampon; ya'll never shut the fuck up about how "emotionally intelligent" you are, act like it. He didn't leave you, he just adapted; take the W.

>>33562546
hot take, i would wager it goes deeper than that. you probably don't reciprocate. he gave his time, effort, and compassion repeatedly until he saw a consistent pattern over the long term that you didn't reciprocate his needs and/or match his energy in return. you're probably like a sponge, always soaking things up but never giving anything back. that's the real reason you notice him withdrawing, caring less. stop being a leech.

>>33545399
bump

>>33563730
Bump? What are you bumping, anon?

>>33562607
That depends on how I feel about the pussy in question and the woman it's attached to.

>>33562857
>make women squirt
That's pee, just so we're clear.

>>33562971
>I dont eat the pussy of some random girl
Same.

>>33559768
men dont like makeup, you wear it to compete with other women
>>33562607
yes but most guys wont if she isnt a virgin because they dont want throat cancer from hpv
>>33554134
>When you crush on a girl, do you fantasize about her, or do you restrain since you like her?
if she sends nudes, otherwise no
>>33551526
men want virgins, they dont want to wait until marriage, sluts give it up on the first date and keep him around until he gets bored, virgins have to find an extremely religious beta who is willing to wait (5% of the time) or roll the dice and hope the chad they give thier v card to sticks around (35% of the time)

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Femanons, is possible for you to ever be attracted to a short guy? Like say 5'4" (163 cm)?

>>33564894
Yes because tallfags are disgusting. Death for all over 5'10"
<5'2" womanlet

>>33565262
What if I don't wanna be a femboy though?

>>33562456
,>is the vaginal cavity sealed by the labia/lips of the vagina like how the mouths lips create a seal
Sometimes
>is it still sealed if you stretched your legs wide.
Sometimes
>So if you did the splits would this open the vaginal cavity.
Sometimes
>Also, when you get wet, say you were in the bath, does water naturally get in the vaginal cavity
Sometimes
>or again does the labia create a seal.
Sometimes

>but do you intentionally get water in the inner cavity to clean it.
No.

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>>33545399

Query for women who fuck = which is more important in bed: that the guy has big dick and good looks OR that he's really into you and super passionate (both would be ideal I know)?

As a guy I've just noticed that sex will always be fulfilling when the girl is unbearabley into me and super passionate, regardless how she looks, whereas as if she's a little timid/uninvolved/lazy - even a bit - it won't matter how great she looks or how good her pussy feels I just lose my mood.

I wonder if it's the same way with women.

>>33565360
>more important
It's an impossible question to answer because I need both or it's not going to work for me. He doesn't need to be "hot" and above average but I need to find him attractive.

>>33565364

so in other words big dick is a must for you(?)

>>33565382
In other words
"If I don't find him physically attractive having sex with him will kinda make me want to kill myself"

>>33565360
>regardless how she looks,
you wot mate? she has to look good or else i can't lust after her. no lust means no sex. i've known several women who would have been super enthusiastic with me if we ever got to the bedroom, but i can't take it that far because the thought of fucking them turns my stomach.

>>33547169
Try knitting/crochet. You don't even have to be good, then go to a local craft night in your area. Loads of autistic women there, many younger ladies. Plus you'll probably be the only straight guy there. Also join groups for crochet/knitters.

>>33545399
Question for women
Would you be open to date a guy with a physical disability? I have minor cerebral palsy for example.

>>33565784
Probably? So long as he can still get hard and I don't have to wipe his butt.

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>met this girl at the pub
>we go out together a few times, it's going well
>she says she wants to truncate our dating because she's too busy with college for a relationship
>we agree to keep going out as friends
>our relationship is going exceptionally well, I make an effort to nurture it
>looks at me with smiling eyes, reacts with heart emoticons to my texts, all good signs
>she even invites me to tour her city together, have dinner and sleep at her place
>suddenly and inexplicably she blocks me everywhere

I'm not even upset, just flabbergasted at the sheer absurdity of it all. It IS like her to coldly kill friendships when they're rotten, from what she told me, but it ISN'T like her to be so unbelievably disrespectful, as she's pretty caring overall.
Girls, explain.

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>>33562607
>also follow up question, if the girl was hot 10/10 would that change your mind?
age is a far more important factor in this case, I think. Eating pussy is always gross, to varying degrees, as it's a humid hole made out of flesh, constantly macerating. But eating the pussy of an ugly 16yo is less disgusting than eating that of a beautiful 30y.o.
Same goes for other gross areas, such as feet and armpits.

how do I get over having an average height and dick size?

>>33566797
>better than half the population
>ashamed of this
you don't get over it, anon.

>>33545668
Why do you browse the incel board?

>>33566501

okay serious question would you find sucking a dick more enjoyable than the old vagina?

Testing lol

>>33567574
If the dick belonged to a very attractive and very young guy, it would actually be less disgusting. The dick of a middle aged man would be more disgusting, but not by a huge margin.

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>>33545399
Asking women: When you are considering your options in dating, are short babyfaced manlets like me essentially the male equivalent of fat women? Whenever I have tried dating, that is how it feels (pic rel; I will be 30 next year and still look like a kid and am barely 5 ft 7)

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Femanons:
Does it really matter that much to you if a man has an Android rather than an iPhone?

Females (USA in particular): Why would you rather date MAGA chads who don't see you as equal people or even just support your basic rights to bodily autonomy, and who are currently ushering in a total disaster for America and the world? Why is that so much better than being with progressive male feminist incels who are unattractive and bitter but who actually would care about you, see you as an equal person, and more broadly support equality and progress?

And why are you going to blame us progressive male feminist incels for the damage that a second Trump term is going to do, rather than blame the MAGA chads who are actually making this happen?

Seriously, why do women have to be so distrustful towards those who actually care about them, but so trusting towards those who don't?

>>33569157
this is bait, right? nice guy energy dripping from the seams with this one.

>>33569194
Nope, its genuine and sincere. Just because the masses have convinced themselves that people who call themselves nice can't truly be nice doesn't mean it is actually true

The demonization of anyone who is unattractive and has THE AUDACITY to call themselves nice, isn't healthy for society. Do normies WANT to radicalize the unattractive?

>>33545662
I’m pretty much a tourist but obviously this one, /r9k/, /out/, very infrequently /xs/

>>33547513
Yes actually they are, sorry. Be at least 4 inches maybe. Maybe you can make up for it in other ways though.

>>33553907
You have to want it. You have to want to feel close to someone, the timing has to be right. At least that’s how it is for me.

>>33558806
They think you’re nice but not sexually/romantically attracted to you

>>33565360
Good looks for that initial attraction to exist, big enough (no micropenis) and into us enough to do oral and relish in it. Knowing how to truly please a woman is sexier than a 6 pack and chiseled jawline.

Khhv here, my one online ex (we edated for 4years) is still posting about me after years of no contact. How do I engage their life again as someone who completely deleted their online identity. Whats a delicate way to apologize out the gate or preface my intentions of reconciliation without coming off as weird or is this completely outlandish and I should not read into their vent posts mourning me.

>>33546477

M 18

>are you happy with your life?
Yeah, pretty much. I met the girl of my dreams, I'm leaving this fucking house soon and going off to college soon. I finally start working out and am slowly starting to actually love myself.

Women,

How do you feel about a guy who reads/watches love stories or listens to old love songs from the 20s when he feels sappy?

>>33545662
/fit/ unironically. Only drop in here bc seeing the pathetic gimps on this board motivates me to keep lifting

>>33569157
>Females (USA in particular): Why would you rather date MAGA chads who don't see you as equal people or even just support your basic rights to bodily autonomy
a bit lopsided if but fair
>and who are currently ushering in a total disaster for America and the world?
completely off the rails
Why is that so much better than being with progressive male feminist incels who are unattractive and bitter but who actually would care about you, see you as an equal person, and more broadly support equality and progress?
and then I realized it was bait
>>33569194
yeah it's bait

>>33569157
>Why would you rather date MAGA chads who don't see you as equal people or even just support your basic rights to bodily autonomy
Only that isn't true, at all. People like you, and these blatantly divisive, harmful, and (most importantly) false narratives are the reason the left lost.
>bodily autonomy
It's not as simple as that. You're talking about weighing one person's right to reproductive autonomy, with another person's right to exist. It's a very complex moral issue with a lot of layers to it, and to pretend it isn't is simply disingenuous.

>>33567882
i don't consider myself ugly, but it'd be hard to date such a guy who is prettier than me ngl, i'd be too insecure. i actually prefer a medium height + skinny look on men so 5'7" wouldn't be a bad thing though.
>>33569580
this is probably pretty rare, wouldn't mind though

>>33570134
>this is probably pretty rare, wouldn't mind though
im the kind of bozo who wants to give and receive love letters desu. Idk i feel weird about it sometimes because its not really common

>>33569716
>and then I realized it was bait
Not bait at all.
https://liberalarts.utexas.edu/news/incels-are-not-particularly-right-wing-or-white-but-they-are-extremely-depressed-anxious-and-lonely-according-to-new-research
Incels lean to the left. Why do you feel the need to keep demonizing us?
>Only that isn't true, at all. People like you, and these blatantly divisive, harmful, and (most importantly) false narratives are the reason the left lost.
Trump literally appointed the FedSoc freaks who got rid of roe v wade
> It's a very complex moral issue with a lot of layers to it
Nope, that's just what magats tell themselves to justify oppressing women and putting a clump of cells above bodily autonomy

>>33569157
TF you blaming me for I haven't dated in years
>>33569580
Dunno Not familiar with enough old media to judge

>>33545539
4N strat time.
No more meeting men.

>>33569157
>Why would you rather date MAGA chads who don't see you as equal people
>>33570311

>>33570134
>it'd be hard to date such a guy who is prettier than me ngl
Elaborate??

>>33570361
well if that image is you, you look prettier than the majority of women Imo

>>33570306
>Dunno Not familiar with enough old media to judge
I read romance manga and listen to older songs

>>33570398
So, would you say that women generally consider that a dealbreaker?

>>33570405
I mean ive never had an issue because of it, if anything my ex's seemed to like it
Id write them love letters or make the playlists of songs, stuff like that. They loved.

Im just, unsure of how to use it when courting someone

>>33570414
Sorry I actually meant to quote >>33570388 lol my bad
I will reiterate: Do you think most women see that as a dealbreaker?

>>33570405
well i know it's a fictional example, but for example many women are into griffith from berk and find him hot, even if he's shown as a very pretty man. in the manga he even prostituted for older men who found him pretty. personally i don't get women who are attracted to pretty men, but many women are into it i think.

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>>33545399
Women: Are any of you sexually assertive? Do sexually assertive women even exist?

It's very common for a guy to be like "Hey babe, wanna give me a bj?". But I've never even heard of a woman being like "Hey babe, can you suck my clit?" And I don't mean communicating though telepathy, innuendo, or mind games. I mean, ask for it. Verbally ask for what you want. Horny? Want some orgasms? Ask for it. Tell him you require service. Is such a thing out of the realm of possibility?

>>33570445
Nope
I'll initiate but using words so directly like that gives me the ick

>>33570444
Oh, well thanks for being honest. I kind of doubt it’s particularly popular as women have never really been into me

>>33570445
You voted against femdom society.

>>33570892
NTA, but it doesn't count if she's straight

>>33570260
>justify oppressing women
Women aren't oppressed in America. They are the single most privileged, protected, and unaccountable group in America. Frankly, they could stand to hear the word "no" a hell of a lot more.
>clump of cells
Ah, bad faith semantics; the signature parlance of the pseudointellectual. Everyone, including yourself, was at one point "just a clump of cells." One could even argue that ultimately, that's still all we are; at what arbitrary point does a living mass of cells become a "life," anyway? Anyway, your take reeks of the privilege of a clump of cells who was fortunate enough to be allowed to be born.
>bodily autonomy
Life begins at conception, but bodily autonomy sure as shit doesn't. There's a great many choices a woman typically faces prior to "do I destroy the life growing inside of me?" Like choosing to practice safe sex, choosing to not trust in the pull out game of some rando with a neck tattoo, or even, if we're feeling a little crazy, choosing to abstain from sex prior to marriage. Or, she could choose to do none of those things, it is after all, her body, her choice. But, once another life enters the discussion, things get complicated. Things get *really* complicated once variables like incest or rape get taken into consideration. Like I said, there's a lot of layers. It's a lot to think about, unless of course, one isn't inclined to thought; things get a lot simpler when the answer to every question is "treat women as a monolith and just say what I think they want to hear, and hope I don't die alone."

By the by, how has that worked out for you so far, incel?

>>33570892
Everyone did.

>>33570260
>roe v wade
I didn't mention that but since you want to talk about that it's unconstitutional for the fed to tell states what to do no matter what way you lean.
I think states banning it all together was over the line but 3rd trimester outside of saving the mother from medical complications is ridiculous.
To my surprise many of the states that banned it all together have medical circumstance exemptions, even if poorly defined.

Men,

Is there a more consistent red flag than the septum piercing?

>>33572132
Not really, at least not that you'd be able to find out without talking to her.

M 28 bi. I've lead a very interesting sex life and love talking about it. Hit me on Kik if you like hearing that stuff. User is WTF1234567891

>>33572132
tattoos are a very consistent red flag that she is worth nothing more than a pump and dump, zero wife material girls have tattoos. You can remove a septum piecing after a phase but tattoos are forever and a sign of poor decision making

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>>33546477
I firmly believe that one need not be happy in this life to live. You just keep going.

>>33546942
Hormonal birth control, SSRIs and other related psychoactive chemicals, caffeine, and having never been told no before.

>>33547614
When you see feminism as a massive populous-wide shittest it makes far more sense.

>>33551526
Well, in my personal capacity, I am so cynical and jaded that even if I did meet the pure/virginal waifu, I probably just wouldn't believe her.

>>33554134
Don't know, don't care to find out.

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>>33554467
Think you answered your own question, really.

>>33559768
There's a tendency to assume that natural women, especially if they're naturally pretty, are moregenuine; which we kinda like, tbqh.

>>33562546
Never been in a relationship long enough to know; although being a bit brutal about it, you sound a bit like hard work, any man is gonna reach his wit's end eventually.

>>33562607
Never done it. Even if I didn't particularly like it I'd probably still do it, mainly because I am a very vain creature and it's something else to be good at.

>>33566481
Fear of commitment, I guess?

>>33572132
Extensive tattooing. Although 8 times out of 10, the girl in question will have both, so point is moot.

>>33546894
I want a full-on theocracy, and I want the promiscuous to be shamed.

>>33551613
Forgot you, pal, I love my gender roles. A man should want some purpose and have it, the real issue here is that society no longer fulfils its part of the social contract.

P.S. Fuck the spam filter

>>33573047
>Fuck the spam filter
Can I do that? Is she cute?

>>33572132
Of course. Fucktons of tattoos, those gaping holes in earlobes, any sign of fag-rainbow shit, drugs and alcohol usage as it dismantles rational thinking and risks cheating. Septum piercing isn't even that bad as it can have charm for couple things, and can be taken off anytime like all the other piercings.

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>>33545399
Husband has only ever slept with one other person besides me and that was his childhood friend he had a crush on his whole life until she ultimately rejected him for having feelings for her

To this day though when they greet each other or say goodbye they still peck each other on the lips (just like they did as children).

Be honest, Is she his true love and am I just a cope?

>>33576114
Hard to speak for someone else on such personal matter, but since I too ruined my chance with first crush I can tell you how I see it. I consider that girl my first real love, not just infatuation. When it went to hell I sent her a letter from heart as last try to fix it, and one of the sentences there was about her always having small spot in my heart. It took 2 years to stop missing her but whenever I for some reason stumble upon her pic or something every couple years, I do feel a bit of pain inside chest. If I found a girl I had feelings towards, got together and my old crush would reappear in life and even offer herself to become a couple, I'd refuse for several reasons:
>she once deemed that someone else is better match than me for her, I don't see how time passing would change me being not worthy and thus I would feel suspicious about it, it's simply humiliating + there'd be risk she'd leave again
>I have no reason to ruin valuable relationship I already have for uncertain, potential relationship, even if looks-wise she's perfection for my tastes, as trust requires time and we don't have infinite time, at some point it's too late to keep trying again and I'd rather want to invest time in strengthing already established bond
>it's a shit thing to do to someone you value, and if I decide to get into actual relationship, it means I find that girl valuable
>I see relationships more as a choice than some magical fate shit
Some bridges should simply not be rebuilt.
In your place I'd simply tell him you're jealous and you'd want him to stop doing what seems like intimate thing. But besides that, if they aren't disappearing together, I wouldn't be worried. Even if he can't completely get rid of her from his memory as we do not have complete control over our brains and thus, to some extend, feelings, if he's wise about it he won't act on it. There is difference between nostalgia and actual commitment. Commitment is what actually matters.

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>hang out and talk with girl in class
>really like her
>sit next to each other
>she's nerdy and also reads Star Wars fan fiction before class
>she's a self-proclaimed hermit
>doesn't go out much, have a lot of friends, and is only now learning to drive at 22
>can't tell if she's awkward or has the tism like me
>got her a Mandalorian pin at a con
>called her pretty a week ago
>said thanks but she didn't respond very enthusiastically but not negatively
>dreamed about her twice
>walking her to her car on Wednesday
>as she leaves, I'm pretty sure she called me bud
>has never called me that before
PLEASE TELL ME IT'S NOT OVER. Some of my friends have told me it's not. Even friends who are girls. I was gonna ask her out soon. Am I cooked?

>>33576304
>pretty sure she called me bud
next comes the handshake and hi 5 greetings. it's so fucking over dude.

>>33576325
>hi 5 greetings.
I've given her hi fives goodbye because I don't wanna be weird and ask for a hug. She always waves when she sees me. I was genuinely gonna ask her out on Monday. It can't be over

>>33576355
ask for (or probably better just take) a hug from her, you retard. guide it in the direction you want it to go.

>>33576355
you sent her mixed signals, or unclear signals. if you want her but have treated her as just a friend for so long, this is your fault.

>>33576372
I just don't know how to cuz I'm dumb. She'll laugh at my dumb jokes even terrible ones. One time as she was leaving, I said hold on, and she stopped and quickly turned around. Or we touch shoulders or legs sometimes when we sit and she doesn't move away. Or when I move in close to whisper, she doesn't pull away

>>33576375
>treated her as just a friend for so long, this is your fault.
Never as a friend. I was just nice and polite to her. Would it be too late to ask her out?

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>>33576114
One question: Is that childhood friend in a relationship or married to anyone? Toxic tip (viewer discretion is advised): Check if the time he asked you out or married you, that childhood friend got herself into a serious relationship. If so, it is most likely that he settled for you once he knew she was off the market.

>>33576304
How long have you known or talked to her? Do you know what is her type or at least she's in a relationship or not?
If not then its not over, you need to show her that ur courting her romantically not just hinting it and call it a day. Make your feelings and intentions obvious.

>>33576392
>Would it be too late to ask her out?
there is such a thing as waiting too long, but it's highly variable for each person and situation how long that is. just ask her. sooner is better than later. on average for normie mode, you want to have made your move within approx 3 months of having met a girl.
>>33576390
>we sit and she doesn't move away. Or when I move in close to whisper, she doesn't pull away
these are encouraging signs\

good luck bro

>>33576408
Since September. I got her number almost right away. Like I said, she's a hermit, but has never mentioned a boyfriend or a guy she likes to me.
>>33576421
I'll ask her out on Monday or Wednesday

>>33576484
If she's a hermit, it's going to take her a while before she comes out of her shell. You just have to be patient. It's only been 2 months or so, do more detective work, aren't autists the best at doing that?

If you want to continue talking, I set up a burnermail.io for you, it's jg567767.0503ba@
I'm about to head out, but if you want to continue talking or just exchange mails, I leave that up to you.
I'm European though so our timezones might not align.

>>33576510
>do more detective work, aren't autists the best at doing that?
Yes, but she has no socials. I've only found her LinkedIn and her WhatsApp. I can't find any other form of social media

>>33576527
Lmao. Who are you talking to?

>>33576536
She'll know.

Men, I really feel like getting degraded today. Feel free to insult me

>>33576643
Normally I would, but since you asked for it, I won't.

need female advice,
currently dating girl, she a good person but wants things i can't give her like a family and kids and i fear she's willing to give that up for me. i like her too much to allow that but i also can't give her what she wants due to childhood trauma. i need to break up with her, currently in a long distance relationship due to my job so i can't do it in person i also suck at communicating verbally so I'm trying to write it down or do a letter. how do i let her down without completely destroying her

I think I've started flirting with the woman that cuts my hair. She's started laughing more, and when I brought up that I've been asking a lot of questions about her after she said she gets annoyed when customers ask about her life she laughed and said it was fine that I did it.

I want to ask her out, do I stop being a pussy and ask someone out at their place of work, or do I just think about how many days until I next see her again?

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Do femanons prefer a handsome jock or a handsome bookworm

>>33545399
Question for women.
Assuming you have a dating profile, do you lie about your age online? I get that the market gets thinner as it gets older but the overwhelming number of 18-24's has me thinking a lot of it is artificial.

Can any femanon give virtual hug

>>33577300
>she a good person
Don't take that for granted.
>but wants things i can't give her like a family and kids
I'm sorry to hear that you're unable to father children.
>i fear she's willing to give that up for me
That'd be her choice.
>i also can't give her what she wants due to childhood trauma
Ah, so it's not so much a "can't" and more of a "won't." No offense, but have you ever considered not being a little bitch about it? Bad things happen; I'm sorry bad things happened to you, but that is life. You owe it, not only to yourself, but to anyone who cares enough about you enough to invest themselves in you, to work through your trauma. Don't feel bad if you can't do it alone, there are very few people who can, but don't just wallow in it and let it get in the way of you living a full life. Get a mental health specialist, unpack your issues, process them, and move on with life.
>how do i let her down without completely destroying her
You don't. If you chose to ignore what I say and persist in operating in "something bad happened to me, therefore I am allowed to be selfish and a coward" terms, at least find some semblance of manhood somewhere in your meek, broken excuse for a soul and have the integrity and consideration to tell her to her face. Yes, this will mean inconveniencing yourself somewhat; that goes into showing that you cared for her, that she ever mattered to you in the first place.

>>33577815
Yes, ask her out. Worst case scenario you find a new barber.

>>33578475
As long as you're handsome it doesn't really matter.

>>33578774
Not a woman, but in my experience women lie about their age on apps *a lot.* This usually manifests in two ways. First, it seems like there's a couple years between a woman's 29th and 30th birthdays, second... I'd be very careful about believing 18/19 at face value; I've had enough close calls to adjust my minimum to 21.

>>33578992
I'm 33 and have my minimum set to 24 but occasionally I lower it to see what's out there and I see some profiles with tastes that are in my age range so it gets the noggin joggin. I guess I can see why they'd lie but I really don't want to comb through brats and BPDemons looking for a sugar daddy.

>>33567882
Bump

>>33579001
For the longest time my age range was 18-29, but like I said I had enough close calls a couple years ago to change it to 21-29. Not just that, but attraction isn't purely physical for me; if I'm going to bother with a woman she has to be able to participate in a conversation and have the right emotional and sexual energy. The problem with women under 21 is that they don't know anything about anything, but they tend to be convinced they know everything. It doesn't really matter how cute a girl is if you lose respect for her with every syllable that comes out of her mouth. Even if I'm just looking to end a drought and play on recruit difficulty, I'll typically skew the other way and increase my age range up include women aged 30-34, AKA the desperation bracket. Besides, lots of women over 28 are single moms, and those bitches be havin' snacks.

I'm not saying I'd stick around to raise another man's child, but it's nice being able to nut on a girl's face, then help yourself to some strawberry poptarts and a capri-sun.

>>33576510
She already has, btw. She's very talkative with me. Telling me about her life in Mexico before moving here when she was 14. About her brothers, or her family. Also other stuff

>>33578981
thank you for the advice, i don't take it for granted nor will i make excuses for the type of person i am. i don't wallow or self pity my upbringing i simply do not want the same things she wants, kids and a stable home arent what i envision for my future i won't deny that might make me a coward, selfish, narcissistic its simply how i have lived and will continue to live. i've seen what she's about and what she wants in life and i don't wish to change that with my life. i can't tell her to her face since she's in a whole other continent and won't be able to meet her in person in a long while or else i would have done that my only other option is facetime and call and messages all which are not ideal that's why i was asking for advice.

>>33576304
Update to this. She did not call me bud today when I walked with her after class today. So, good sign?

>>33576304
>>33576484
>>33582072
Girls make up their minds about us pretty quick. You're doing yourself a disservice going through the motions of a friendship with the intentions of pivoting into a relationship; a week is about as long as you ever want to wait to make a move. Ask her out and see what happens.

>>33582905
>a week is about as long as you ever want to wait to make a move
That's not great when class is only two days a week, dude. Also, there's no way that's true.

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dick pick poses 2

>>33583818
>>33583819
Really a good work, artist anon!
Always doing great drawings!

>>33583830
thank you!! these are quite old, made & posted back in sept but an /adv/ anon wanted them & I didn’t want to risk a ban LOL

>>33583835
And what are you working currently?

>>33583840
not many personal works, all my recent works are doodles or projects for classes hahaha

>>33583843
Ah sad! Well, i am sure you will post the good things when you have some :)
But doodles looks good too hehe

>>33583845
yes hahah I like doing requests on the adv thread, do u want a doodle?

>>33583818
>>33583819
Not sure if I’ve got it down. Can you help me?

>>33583848
What would be the adv thread? I may check it!

>>33583855
just the atoga thread !
>>>/adv/32299664
>>33583852
drawings are as clear as it can be sir

>>33583860
Perhaps I can post examples and you grade my composition

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>>33583863
no thanks

>>33583819
>show more than just your cock
Oh no! I've failed in all of my pictures!

>>33583887
the face !! face always important !!!!!!!!!

>>33583890
I'm not comfortable showing that around here! And around here is mostly the only place I post them, heh.

>>33583893
hmm, well just the cock isn’t too special. For intimate relationships I think having the face is cute for pictures like these, but online, posing and making the picture look good as a photograph rather than a dpick is what makes it above everyone else’s pics

>>33583895
It's tough, because you don't wanna make it too identifiable, y'know? I'm kinda afraid to post anything else.

>>33583898
hmm I guess. blur tool is your best friend

>>33583899
True, used that once when asked for an outfit check. Regardless, appreciate the pic advice, will definitely be using those for future relationships!

>>33583902
glad to have helped LOL

>>33578475
Probably jock since 'golden retriever energy.'

>>33576643
You deserve better than what you've been given

>>33583819
>teasing
>bulges
>show more than just your cock

yes, please, this, having your cock next to a can of monster is great for scale but not great for appreciation

>>33583818
If a man ever sends me "POV shot" I'll have nightmares
I don't think I've ever seen a picture of a man where I could see his face and dick at the same time where he didn't look goofy as fuck lol.

>>33573036
>I firmly believe that one need not be happy in this life to live. You just keep going.
The horrors persist, but so do I.
>Hormonal birth control, SSRIs and other related psychoactive chemicals, caffeine, and having never been told no before
That was eloquent, anon...

Also, why Alonzo?

>>33579657
Dude if you've never met this girl in person you're not even in a relationship. This one is easy, just call her and tell her you want different things in life and don't want to waste her time.

>>33583641
>That's not great when class is only two days a week, dude
Which is why you should have, especially by now, secured contact info and have been hanging out outside of class. If I'm understanding you correctly, you're buying this girl gifts, yet you don't even have her #/socials? Not so subtle, anon; I guarantee you she's waiting for you to *finally* take a move so she can reciprocate or let you down easy. If it makes you feel better, the fact that she hasn't froze you out after calling her pretty is probably a good sign.
>Also, there's no way that's true
MAH BOI, I've had sex with more women on the night I met them, than years you've been alive. I've also been happily waking up next to the same woman for over three years. Women aren't a mystery to me, is what I'm saying. I've had, *by far* the most success in the first two interactions. If the chemistry is strong enough when I meet a girl, I make a move. If it's not quite strong enough on the first meet, but the energy is still positive on the second meet, I make a move. It's highly unusual I'll interact with a girl I'm interested in more than three times without making a move; usually involves external factors or parties throwing off the vibe. Example, I had ran into a girl I worked with on lunch twice; was sure she was feeling me, and planned to ask her out... then her grandma died, so I dialed it back and just focused on being a good friend and being what she needed me to be... she ended up asking me out.

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>>33575769
>Can I do that? Is she cute?
No idea, knock yourself out.

>>33576114
I'd say his behaviour is very inapporpriate for a spouse, even if they are old friends.; and you should say so, quite frankly.

Everyone has one that's gotten away, so don't take it too much to heart.

>>33576643
That is a smashing blouse you've got on.

>>33585037
>The horrors persist, but so do I.
Pretty much. Christ told me to pick up my cross and follow Him. So I do.

>That was eloquent, anon...
One tries.

>Also, why Alonzo?
When I started posting in these threads semi-regularly, I had just watched Training Day for the first time, and despite his moral nature, I found many of Alonzo's qualities to be admirable in their own morbid way; so I used it in that first thread, and I believe it was actually Exhibanon who referred to me as "Training Day-chan", and it's just kinda stuck since then.

>>33585037
>and have been hanging out outside of class. If I'm understanding you correctly, you're buying this girl gifts, yet you don't even have her #/socials? Not so subtle, anon; I
I covered this, I thought. I got her number right away. We've met at a library and worked on a project together. That's where I gave her the gift. We just haven't hung out as in like, a fun activity