Has anyone gotten married to someone they’ve met on /soc or 4chan?If you have or know someone who has please write about it here
>>34478406Personally myself I know a guy who met his wife on /lit and apparently it was kind of a shitshow and she left their home for a while but they’re still together as far as I know
we fell in love, got married and had kidslife was ideal for the longest timethen i woke up and she still had me blocked
>>34478406Not married but had a fwb
>>34478426Pretty good for 4chan, closest I got to meeting someone irl was meeting someone who lived like 20 minutes from me but she blocked me before we ever meet up
>>34478414How do you maximize these sorts of dreams? I’ve noticed if I brush my teeth with extra floruide the night before I often get vivid dreams but it’s usually nightmares I’ve had success with melatonin giving me realistic dreams of past lovers
>>34478428Yeah was the first and only irl thing that's happened to me after years being on this site.
>>3447843420mg melatonin gives me crazy dreams
Dated a woman from here for 3 years before she cheated on me and cut contact. At least I take solace knowing she's a whore who took a dick downgrade. I've gotten fairly close to some other women who I really liked but every single one has ghosted or switched up in some way. It's fine to look for love here if that's what you want, but you should assess every female here with an extremely critical eye. Cliche and I'm sure people will protest but many, if not most, of the women here are simply looking for attention and sex. Even the ones who specifically say they aren't. That is of course counting only the real women, which are maybe 10% of the people claiming to be bio females
>>34478449pretty close to my experience minus the 3 year relationship
>>34478449Anti social females who end up on 4chan are even worse than normies, they also are a lot high in ratio than that at like 35% or something
>>34478457Stay strong nigga WAGMI
>>34478445Currently stealing 10mg from sister but she’s starting to notice so I might have to buy on my own… will try though thanks for the recc
>>34478463wagmi>>3447848510 will probably do it, also helps if you hyper focus on something before going to sleep at least in my experience
>>34478449Thank you for sharing and Sorry for your loss and may your solace be a universal one, I’m personally trying hard to find love on here because almost every girl I met from hinge,tinder, and uni have been boring in a very ugly way.For better and worse the girls here are unique enough in a way that it makes putting up with them worth it.I did also meet a girl on here who I’ll probably never be able to forget about but we have each other blocked so
>>34478463We all gone make it nigga thank you >>34478491We all gone make God wills it brother
>>34478458I don't think it's just anti social. A lot of people here are just troubled. Maybe not necessarily mentally ill. But almost everyone here has an ulterior motive or is very skittish because they know they're here for the wrong reasons. It is incredibly, incredibly difficult to meet someone here that is sincere in any way, let alone looking for love.My best piece of advice is to approach everyone here from a great distance, keep that distance great, and do your best not to trust them until it's proven you absolutely can. I can't tell you the amount of women who have come to me, interested in me, initiating every time and allegedly interested in certain things, only for them to just outright disappear, or come up with the most insane excuses ever for wanting to disappear.I remember the last time I posted some girl added me, we were very intense, she was obsessed. Then one of her parents was put on their death bed and apparently that's reason to instantly and immediately cut contact? I've heard every excuse in the book. Instead of being bitter about these things it's wiser to learn from the experience and use it to make better choices in the future. This place will exacerbate existing trust issues you have so it's not for the faint of heart
I have had a relationship, but not from /soc/. This board is a lost cause, it has nothing but faggots and troons.
>>34478546I agree with you and it’s understandable why after so long one would be cautious but wouldn’t you find true connections by embodying that hopeless romantic?Constantly throwing yourself at everyone and becoming incredibly close to someone you just met is just part of the journey. My method isn’t really good either since it makes the inevitable block from someone damage you 10x harder but honestly I prefer it that way
>>34478596>but wouldn’t you find true connections by embodying that hopeless romantic?In real life sure. You can't trust the people here. You have to think to yourself. What is the chain of events that might lead someone here? Some are just oldfags, sure. But that's becoming increasingly rare as this board dies and 4chan becomes twitter. You don't have to approach everyone here like they're a liar, but it's in your best interest to be distrustful. There are far too many malicious actors here and uncaring, detached, constantly disassociating young women that have no idea what they want. It's easy to pick on men because there are so many low IQ gooners and tranny loving freaks here, but the women are real pieces of work too. They just get away with it.
I thought I was going to but fucked it up after we moved in for a while. It can happen but we aren't usually here because we are normal lol
I know a couple that has been together for several years at this point. They met here. It works if you're looking for a NEET waifu.
>>34478406met on /soc/, wedding is next july. I'm sorry for taking the only good woman on /soc/
>>34478828Prove me wrong, anon
>>34478948prove you wrong about what?
>>34478990Is your gf a contributing member of society or yet another NEET foid?
>>34479137she has a full time job, earns more than I do, and owns her own home.
>>34479137>contributing member of societylmao, you're on the wrong sitesociety is for the retardarded and contribooting to it is a waste of time and energy and soon to be redundanteasy ways to make money and retire early. and who wants their woman working all day unless they are poor wagies also?
>>34479147Big if true. Mazel tov.
>>34479147what thread did you meet in? what was your relationship like before becoming an actual couple (like what were your conversations like, when did you and her feel able to lower your guard, etc)? asking as an utter wretch who will die alone.
>>34479368thanks. I also have a full time job and own my own home so I'm not a total freeloader here>>34479481>what thread did you meet ina fucked up fetish thread. she was a tourist going through a bad patch, browsing out of general interest.>like what were your conversations likeit had a heavy focus on what we originally started talking about (self improvement), and grew from there. we've talked about it since and we were in the same mindset - felt very compatible and interested in each other, but playing it cool for a while.>when did you and her feel able to lower your guardslow and steady. I've had some very bad relationship experiences and had strong guards up, and they were gradually broken down by being in a good relationship with a good person. The meme of somebody who heals you is real, if you get very lucky with the person.
>>34478406Good anons of this thread, lend me your strength! I shall conquer!
>>34479728Very happy for you and may God bless your union, yet what you describe is soo humdrum that it can be found anywhere on the globe. A brief love story found in a Vietnamese hostel carries more panache than this I think if anons are truly interested in finding something so incredibly rare and beautiful then they must kill off the trepidation in them and seek love in a way akin to Willam Blake
>>34479728>fucked up fetish thread kekEnjoy your whore cheating on/leaving you shortly when she gets the tingles for a new guy
I found an asian girl here I plan to marry, I just have to wait for her to turn 18 first. (͡°͜ʖ͡°)
>>34480851kirk van hausen i sleep in a big bed with my wife dot png
True story:I met my husband on r9k 14 years ago, married for almost 11 years at this point. We were both hella toxic, as is standard for 4chan. Did some shitty things to each other, until we went to therapy and lost 300lbs combined (lulfat). We're now actually happy, traveling, have a house, stable life and entertain ourselves with edgy retarded humor. It can work, but I expect it to be a shitshow for most people on here. I lurk every now and then because 4chan is nostalgic.
>>34481805based
i posted in a snapchat thread in 2020 and got 400+ adds. I wasn't looking for a relationship at the time but I fell for him hard. We met irl the next month, and I moved in with him 3 months after that. We got married 2 years ago and are expecting our first kid in February.
>>34487146>got 400+ adds>wasn't even looking Fuck me in the ass. Life is just so effortless for women.
>>34487204plenty of other things make life shitty for women
>>34487416like your brain structure? because the only advantage have is male neurological tendencies, not society
I did 6 years ago. Well, it was someone from another imageboard but I think it still counts. Been happily together ever since.
>>34487204What made you fall for him? What traits did you find the most attractive?
>>34487526His unabashed autism is what got my attention first. He is also very masculine, has a unique sense of humor, intelligent, handsome, decisive, ambitious, has his life together. Was and still is way out of my league.I won him over with my retardedness.
>>34487866Masculinity is interesting to denote here since often times the testosterone plummets in overweight individuals, but of course to act out a role is often embodying the role itself
>>34487969Good thing he's in great shape.Why are you so grumpy, anon? I hope you find a cute wife who makes you happy. Best of luck.
Ended up with a guy I met on /b/ years ago, but stayed as friends until Covid happened and both our lives blew up and we connected in a better way. The wedding is next fall. It’s pretty sick.
I lived with a chick I met on /soc/ for like a year. I met her on here like the week they made this board. She was a horrible fucking slob but she was a cute chubby so I overlooked it as long as I could stand it
>>34489442Was it not you who betrayed both of you being overnight to the point of losing 300lb combined? I’m not grumpy Madame simply pointing out observations
>>34489666No? Wrong person, bud
>>34489706Oh must be, my apologies anon
>>34478406Theoretically speaking if someone did get happily married they probably wouldn't still be on /soc/.
>>34491158OP didn't specify 'happily'
>>34491949It's still important to keep it in mind as the information you see from this thread will be biased. It's the opposite of survivorship bias. If someone comes back here after marriage it's specifically because their marriage didn't survive. Some people aren't smart enough to notice biases like that and then make sweeping generalizations off of biased sources.
I'm surprised no one's mentioned that one girl who used to post on here. I remember seeing her on tiktok, idk which board her and her husband met on, but they're married!
basically every girl i've ever dated was a channerbut it's the ones that i've met irl that worked out, two of them i could've even married if i had so wanted tohere in /soc/ i've found nothing but headaches and head cases, sadly
>>34498681>basically every girl i've ever dated was a channerhow did you meet them?which board, in what context?
>>34498760the irl ones? i met one in high school through mutual friends and we found out we were both le /b/tards (this was early 2007 my dude)i met the other in uni cause we both had anime wallpapers that we liked, found out she browsed /a/ and /fa/i met another one that browsed /a/ at my job but she was the worst easily, still obsessed with her ex lol
>>34478406Kinda. I met my wife on OKC, but I was only there because of a /b/ raid that was going on at the time. Was posting hilarious interactions when I ran into her profile, liked her, and made a real profile to message her.
>>34498822/b/ raided oklahoma city?
