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I feel like I haven't done shit with my life and that I'm wasting my youth by the second.

Anyway, post your 23rd wallpaper.
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>>7852253
Well, I'm twice your age and haven't done shit. Life is pointless, whatever
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do spontaneous shit
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>>7852253
well, yeah. Obviously. You were put in lockdown at 21.
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>>7852253
Happy belated birthday anon. Have a pic of my cat. I'm 23 in a few weeks, and I know how you feel. Try to take your feeling and use it to motivate yourself to make the changes that you need to. Also remember that sometimes you can feel that way no matter how much you do. Covid has not helped my education or career, that's for sure. I'm trying to take up programming in the time I'd usually waste.
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>>7852259
Oddly comforting statement, thanks.
>>7852277
I try to more and more. At 21 I quit my job and drove around the country (America) without telling anyone where I was. Did that for a year, met some really nice people, and some not so nice ones. Sucks that I see people I graduated with in 2017 actually doing something with their lives, ya know?
>>7852278
Thats part of it, but there are plenty of things I could be doing that I talk myself out of, like going innawoods to camp for a week, or a roadtrip, ect.
>>7852286
Not smart enough for programming, so I picked up drawing/painting again just to kill the time. Who knows, maybe I'll be able to make money off of it one day. Thanks everyone for the wallpapers.
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>>7852287

No need to worry! I just turned 30 this year and only a couple months ago got a storyboarding job - got it by just picking up drawing, like you did. You have so much time. Happy birthday, anon, here's my 23rd pape - hope you like it.
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>>7852253
I wrote my first novel at 29, got published at 33. Don't worry, you have time.
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>>7852253
its not just you anon. we all feel like that and it only gets worse. just keep doing shit that makes you happy and be kind to others. literally everything else doesn't mater.
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>>7852259
existential dread aside, what the actual fuck is this wallpaper
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Feel you bro. Its like time is moving so fast nowadays
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>I feel like I haven't done shit with my life and that I'm wasting my youth by the second.

Your feeling is right. Act on it, only you can know best. I recommend finding a lovely woman to call your own, I know having one for myself pretty much defined my 20s and my mental state.

I know, easier said than done. Get to work.
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>>7852253
Happy belated birthday bro. I'm turning 23 in a few months and sometimes I feel the same. It helps focusing on one thing at a time and avoiding comparing yourself to others. Be kind to the people that need it and work on things you love
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Path ahead is forked. One leads to oblivion, the other to an actual future. Comparing yourself will never get you anywhere, because someone will always be ahead. What really matters is how happy you are. Do things that make you happy, and if making money or public accomplishments makes you happy, maybe try learning an instrument. Get some community college degree. Take 2 years of hard work now before it's too late. Don't live with regret for the things you didn't try to do.
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>>7852403
cum? always degeneracy on this site
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>>7852253
kek what a fucking weak millenial faggot. First you waste your youth and now you waste our time posting about your bullshit. Neck yourself. This is the only thing that your generation is good at.
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>>7852259
23 can kinda feel like that but you get used to it, welcome to the modern world, don't worry too much, socialism is coming and all the busy bodies will feel silly when they realise the natives had it right first
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>>7852518
True, a bf or gf or both or what ever is nice
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>>7852253
23 in march, will be 1 year into my computer engineering degree.

Honestly once thought I was "too old" for school. But I only now realize how blessed it is to become pro at something and not fuck around. I get so much fucking confidence programming and fixing shit its unreal.

Just do cool shit man, shit that matters and is profound. Give yourself a month to change your shit completely you will not regret it. Tou have to unlearn shit that's fucking with your energy/vision/power level, I recommend lifting and taking a blood test to supplement your body if deficient in something which fucks people up.

Time will fly either way and no matter if you live a dream life you're going to feel cursed and depressed. No gf or millions of dollars will ever fix that.
Just get over it. Do shit. Act.
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>>7852253
Also late happy birthday and love you man, keep things light and sweet, keep moving and staying agile. Dont get too bogged down with details and the weight of the world, just keep moving upwards and you will make it.
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>>7852253
Is there anything you wan't to do tho?
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>>7852253
it'll be okay man
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So this is where I'll be in 4 years, eh?
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If it makes you feel better, I was a dumb druggie on the streets at 23. Going on 33 this Spring and things are much smoother these days, but only because I started to give a fuck about myself and others.
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>>7852253
your 23rd wallpaper is Belgrade, if that is a sine for how your life is going to be for the next year, good luck friend
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it gets better my dude, happy birthday
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I'm 26 yo and at 25 I began to turn my life around after I started to live by myself. It's never too late.
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>>7855340
>millenial
>23
this one is a zoomer lad
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>>7852253
Hey, I also turned 23 back in December. Also about to waste a year doing absolutely jackshit. I still have hope things can turn out better though.
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>>7852253
listen here lil nigga
at 23, I tought I had everything I'd ever need
at 24 was the worst year of my life
Now, at 25 I feel younger, wiser and better than I did at 20.

It's all in your head man. Most important thing you can do is to stop comparing yourself to others. The only enemy you have to beat is you from yesterday. Be better, stronger, and smarter than that motherfucker and you will find your way.
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>>7852253
someone flip a 3-sided coin to see which folder i pick my 23rd from
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>>7863432
sauce on this pic?
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>>7852253
google bowtiedbull and get your life on track. See you on the other side.
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Honestly anon, I was on heroin from the ages of 18-23 on and off, and it wasn't until I met my gf of years and her 2 kids that I could straighten tf up and actually have a normal life. So don't worry it takes time, you might get lucky soon. But it's a lot of hard work too
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>>7863557
Banner Saga
Also check out Eyvind Earle, the game is made in his image
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>>7852253
happy belated birthday
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>>7852253
hey anon, happy birthday

that's surprisingly normal at your age, but as long as you keep it up - keep pursuing hobbies and interests (or perhaps, getting some in the first place), keep putting yourself out there in social events - it will get better. remember that life doesn't end at 30, and you have plenty of time to make something of yourself.
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>>7852253
You are a kid, you still have heaps of time on your side, and probably no strong familiar or work related responsabilities are tying you down.
I also wasted 2 years of my life when I was 21 doing nothing and without a purpose, feeling like everyone was moving on towards adulthood and money but me. Now I'm working on something I enjoy and I keep few but very close friendships, so when you believe all is lost and pointless remember that the future is always yours.
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>>7852253
Keep your head up and keep moving forward bro. Don't be afraid to take risks and push it to the limit
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>>7852253
chase that bag bro. Time building a business or income is not time wasted. You have a good chance of becoming profitable, if not though you'll still learn a lot.
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>>7852253
Since you asked.
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>>7852287
>actually doing something with their lives
you drove around the country, that's dope, keep doing it. social norms were created by (((them))) tonkeep you at home with a stable job, honestly, live your life as you want it
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>>7857782
lmfao
I've always had women and they didn't do much for me or my mental state.
they all tried though but I don't think I was ever interested in changing "for" someone else.
the breakups have always among the greatest catalysts of change throughout my life though so maybe women do define much of these years one way or another.
anyway OP
if you have the idea that you haven't done shit with your life it's probably because there's some standard in your mind for what you'd like your life to look like or at least for what you'd consider a life with some substance to it that you're comparing your current situation against.
all of this is to say you probably have some idea of what you want and what you'd like for yourself and your life.
and the reason you feel you're wasting your life by the second probably stems from the tension between this standard that you're to some degree aware of and your current actions (more so than your current situation).
which means you feel this way because you think this way.
which is too many words to say you probably know why you feel this way and you probably know what you have to do in order to stop feeling this way.
no judgement.
i've been very aware of many of my flaws and contradictions since I was very young and it took me over a decade just to start on the way to doing something about it.
but at the end of the day it all comes down to what you're willing to do and endure.
what are you so scared of?
what is it that you have to lose?
what's the worst that could happen?
what
are
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scared
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>>7866371
ignore scum like this

life isn't about making money, making money can just facilitate somethings you may want
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>>7852253
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>>7852253

23 y.o, best age in a lifetime! Enjoy it bro
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>>7852253
Hey man. I'm 32. I've had a good life - good health, traveled the world, met lots of different people, ate good food.

As long as you have a goal, or direction, or even something you like to do, life will be OK. Not always great - but no one's is. Try to stay positive, man. Work for a better tomorrow.
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>>7852253
im 23 too, i know exactly what you're feeling.
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>>7852253
don't wait to long to start a family like me anon, good luck you'll do great.
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I haven't been here in a while what the fuck did they do to the captcha
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>>7852253
I turn 23 in a few months, and I only know one "successful" guy from school, and that's because he got a good job through nepotism. Everyone else is a failure or barely afloat.
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>>7866776
sauce on this? Would love to see other stuff from the photographer, very nice work.
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>>7863432
Golden Words, my friend!
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Learn a skill and master it. Save and invest your money. Make a baby maybe. Try in that order.
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Happy birthday Anon
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Happy belated anon, I'm 24 now and kinda feel the same way. Been setting new goals for myself recently and things are starting to look brighter now. I know you can do it too.
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>>7852253
I'm 33 and never did stop wasting my life. it really is hard to stick to one thing until you're good enough at it/can be paid to do it.
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>>7852253
I'm here just so say that I feel you OP, every year is shorter than the last. I feel old at 21
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>>7852253
happy belated birthday anon, I also turned 23 four days after you did and I'm more or less in the same boat as you
let's fight for a better future
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>>7852253
We always end up feeling that way, we idealize whatever we haven't acomplished to the point we consider what we have as meaningless. A man who climbed a mountain will consider this feat meaningless the moment he learns there is a bigger one to climb.
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>>7852253
I'm 20 and feel the same way, everyone around me is moving forwards and so, while I'm stuck.
Maybe give some smashing pumpkins songs a listen, some perfectly encapsulate this feeling: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4aeETEoNfOg

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VKYY8DxVZHE

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AYSbztCCTlA
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>>7852253
This is 2 months old, but it's never too late to wish someone a happy birthday
Just live life the way you want and enjoy the time you have left.
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>>7852253
<28 is the new 19. Enjoy those years while they last.
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>>7852253
Happy birthday.
Wait till you hit 30.
You will never beat procrastination; you need to learn to do things in small chunks to accumulate experience that will help you do the big things faster.
The biggest regrets you'll have will be about not attempting things because they were too complicated; you'll half finish many things, but you'll always walk away with experience.
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25 here. Life's a meme. I'm so fucking bored of it but on the other hand, every time I meet people or do something out of line I get sweaty hands, my heart rate goes up,... you know the usual bullshit. I don't identify with those feelings but it just happens and that's the way it is apparently. I'm playing a role that I don't want to play. Sometimes when I walk somewhere I stop and think of spontaneous out of line things I could do to prove that I still have control over myself but I never do them. I'm not scared at that moment. I feel nothing but a wall. It's like someone stole the keys from my keyboard and only left a "continue boring shit" - key. I've started to meditate to get out of this mindset but it's not really helping. One thing I have noticed is that I'm thinking ahead too much. If I stop doing that life gains some soul and I gain some peace but it also takes my ability to dream and speculate which again takes all motivation to change anything. All in all, it feels like all my actions are deterministic and the only thing I can change is my perspective on life. Right now it's about 9pm. I could go outside for a night walk and take my beer with me. There's certainly a part of me that wants to do that but I won't. I don't know why. I'm not sure what kind of wall that is. Every 2-3 days I keep having the same thoughts about that.
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nihilists are fucking idiots

Watch tradition, there's some things you're born to enjoy. Cringe ass socialists, marxists or whatever those jews call themselves will tell you the human is like an empty doll that gets filled through education.That's a fucking lie. We're more savage than we're thinkers.

Go with your gut and own life. Fucking loser pseudo-retard. If it's too much I would tell you, kill yourself... But you're sending a deadly hit to your family. Even if they didn't care about you much, they will feel something is fucked up about their life beyond reparation. So don't do it. You will figure out something.

I stole all your wallpapers btw
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>>7852253
same but turning 21 soon:)
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28 here. you don't owe the world shit. you don't have to do anything with your life so long as you are alive. we do what we must and we are what we are anon.
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Sometimes you just gotta go balls out on life man
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>>7852253
6 months away from turning 23 myself
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>>7852253
ayyy Im a 99 baby too bro
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>>7852253
check out uopeople university free and z-library so you can learn some stuff at least. Practice enjoying the small victories and small positive things.
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Its normal to feel that way op. I felt that way and still do sometimes. I guess the best way to feel like you're not wasting your time is to seek novel experiences and to continually be improving yourself. Read a new book, work out, work on your relationships, etc. Live intentionally and realize happiness is something you build, not something you find. Take this all with a grain of salt because I'm just some idiot on the internet, but I can say that since I've started doing these things I have felt better. I'm only a few years older than you but I can say it does get better if you put in a bit of work. Godspeed on your journey, and enjoy the wallpaper.
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OP here, I didn't expect to see this thread still up, but here we are.

I just wanted to say thank you to everyone for the kind words and honest advice. Back in late December was probably the most depressed I've ever been in my life. Compounded with the fact that I saw none of my family for Thanksgiving prior to that, as well as being alone on Christmas and New Years. Multiply that by me just turning 23 it felt like a punch in the gut. I was pretty much depressed all throughout January as well. Which is weird because I was never the type to be emotional or get very depressed about anything.

It's nearing March now and I feel better. I took the advice from the thread to heart and started focusing on being more spontaneous and adventurous with my free time.

I know this is a gay blog post or whatever but I wanted you guys to know you helped at least one stranger on the internet. So from the bottom of my heart, thank you guys.
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>>7852253
23 is a startling age.
25 is approaching fast and then 30.
I always assumed that I would kill myself by 30 but I might be too much of a coward when push comes to shove.
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23 is just out the gate. Just feel around for what you'd like to do. Then find out step one of the process of doing it.
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>>7852253

Never die alone anon, take a pedo with you for the ride
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Happy 23rd. Hail Eris.
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>>7852253
happy belated birthday
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>>7852253
happy very late birthday anon!
i am 22 turning 23 in a few months
was always fat, uneducated, insecure, poor in teens. graduated college on mostly scholarship and lost 20% of my body weight over the pandemic. have a decent job right now but still not where i want to be in life.
the best thing for my shit has been realizing that not everyone's meant to be "someone". someone famous someone special someone important. if everyone was meant to be special then nobody would be special.
i do my best to challenge change and improve myself as much as i can for the time being. the people worst off comfort themselves by convincing themselves that theyre doing good or "better than others". never settle.
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Im 23 rn and yeah I feel the same way. im building my own small business via catering. And learning how to drive. Just take things one day at a time. But have a general goal. Believe me when I say theres alot of people who dont do anything with their 20s by just heading to *some* goal youre ahead of the group.
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>>7863485
Do the 3rd you only have a 3 in your roll
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35 year old millennial boomer here.
Your 20's will fly by, it's important you do so something. But you will probably hear so much advice it will be confusing.
As corny as it sounds let your heart/gut decide and be careful because sometimes your want and desire might overwhelm you and that gut instinct turns quiet.
Next thing you know you blow your crypto load 4 hours before it goes to the moon
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>>7852253
Happy belated birthday anon, hope things are looking better a few months later
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>>7852253
it takes time don't stress yourself out about it man
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A picture we took in the hospital when our baby boy was born
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or worse, heading to the wrong goal. My 20s were wasted going backwards trying to have a family with some moron.
Whatever, water under the bridge now. Im 36, happy, and slowly building. The actual American dream, stay positive anons. Work toward your goals things will work out. You got nothing but time.
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Seeing shit likes this make feel incredibly lucky to have at the age of 22 a well paying job in growing industry. But then i realise it's not because of luck it's because i did what i had to, in order to get where i want. You could probably do it too if REALLY wanted to.
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>>7863729
my city, people payed in in blood, including my father.
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>>7852253
Dont worry the artists of the shitty art in these wallpapers wasted their lives also
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>>7852253
based Belgrade poster
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D: Never Give Up

I felt for sure last night
That once we said goodbye
No one else will know these lonely dreams
No one else will know that part of me
I'm still driving away
And I'm sorry every day
I won't always love these selfish things
I won't always live
Not stopping
It was my turn to decide
I knew this was our time
No one else will have me like you do
No one else will have me, only you
You'll sit alone forever
If you wait for the right time
What are you hoping for
I'm here I'm now I'm ready
Holding on tight
Don't give away the end
The one thing that stays mine
Amazing still it seems
I'll be twenty-three
I won't always love what I'll never have
I won't always live in my regrets
You'll sit alone forever
If you wait for the right time
What are you hoping for
I'm here I'm now I'm ready
Holding on tight
Don't give away the end
The one thing that stays mine
You'll sit alone forever
If you wait for the right time
What are you hoping for
I'm here I'm now I'm ready
Holding on tight
Don't give away the end
The one thing that stays mine
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>>7852253
>I feel like I haven't done shit with my life and that I'm wasting my youth by the second.
Don't try to fool yourself and think you still have plenty of time. Time will slip away before you know it. Whatever you think you want to do, just do it. Even mistakes are better than standing still.
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LOL. You're 23? Must be fucking nice.

I'm 34, lost my job at the beginning of the year and had to move back home. No GF, no money, no social life.

Probably best if I just blow my head off.
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>>7852253
I will be turning 23 in like 3 weeks, have been feeling like that for a while now but after the pandemic kinda destroyed the prospects of my inertia driven life I decided to revive some childhood dreams and have been working towards them just because I didn't really know what else to do other than become some computer vegetable that lives of his mom. Every step forward makes my life harder, the culmination of my "dream" will turn my world 180º degrees and I can already forseen many years of struggle and hardship. And while I feel like I'm going somewhere I still don't know if it's what I want but I really don't have anything else to do but carry on. I just wish I could tackle my personal development with more diligence, I got two jobs and getting the needed money and papers to achieve the more material parts of my dream but I'm not even close to being mature enough to face the future. I haven't touched my books in years, I can barely bring myself to study, I stopped working out, I have no social skills or network. Wish me luck, I'll need it out there.
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>>7882689
same I turn 23 in like 3 weeks
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>>7870345
Brings me back desu. Binged this shit in like 2 days after my first heartbreak in my teens. Never even read mangas like that but this one is special.
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best advice I or anyone can give you is to learn to manage your time properly. If I don't plan out what I'm gonna do with my day I'll just play video games all day. Seriously dude, decide ahead of time what you want to do and make time for it, schedule time for cleaning your house, time to hang out with friends, time to learn new stuff. If nothing else you'll feel like you're achieving stuff
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>>7852253
I'm 33, have a biomolecular science degree and am stocking shelves at the local supermarket. I'll just leave you with that quote from fightclub:

“ Advertising has us chasing cars and clothes, working jobs we hate so we can buy shit we don't need. We're the middle children of history, man. No purpose or place. We have no Great War. No Great Depression. Our Great War's a spiritual war... our Great Depression is our lives. We've all been raised on television to believe that one day we'd all be millionaires, and movie gods, and rock stars. But we won't. And we're slowly learning that fact. And we're very, very pissed off. ”
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>>7852287
dope picture of mustamägi bro
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make art
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>>7852253
Happy late birthday anon, feel you on this. Hope it gets better for all of us.
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>>7881054
damn nice, got any more like these?
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>>7882689
>>7882697
good luck frens, you can do it
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>>7855340
Hey man, no need to be such an asshole. No one here thinks you're cooler for it. Chill and have a pape.
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>>7852253
You can improve man, stay strong!
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>>7852253
All life is wasted, just do what makes you happy.
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>>7852253
Happy birthday.
It feels like that now sometimes, but it gets better if you keep on trying.
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Dont be so hard on yourself OP. Your life is just beggining
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In less than a year you will be in your mid 20's, OP. Don't forget to save money and plan things.
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>>7872207
lmao
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ooga booga, congrats on making it this far. Be gay, do drugs, hail satan
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>>7887029
lol

somebody marked their territory
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>>7852253
No worries bud. Life doesn't even really start until you're nearly 30.
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Only a few years older but most people I know closely no matter the age have expressed this, me not excluded. Take it day to day
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I'm in the same boat anon. But what we both have to do is stop crying over spilled milk and start acting. We wasted six years of our lives doing fuck all but playing vidya and scrolling through this kiked website. Act! Now! Whatever you want to do just start fucking doing it. Stop saying next monday, or tomorrow. Do the shit now or you're doomed.
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>>7863675
wonder if you'll ever see this but heres a (You) anon, keep clean brother
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Kinda related. I'm not sure if I should be grateful or panicked. I'm 30 and got covid about 6 weeks back, after I recovered fully from it it's like I can see for the first time in probably 20 years...

All my life I've just played vidya, watched porn, and neglected everything else. Now I have no desire to do any of those things. I actually have energy to clean my apartment, go see old friends, visit my family, and I'm planning to go on a trip outside my own country for the first time ever.

I just keep thinking of all the time I've wasted by living in a mist which drained my energy and forced me to sit in front of the computer every day for years on end.
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>>7872271
thanks for sharing anon
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>>7852253
congrats on your birthday.
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>>7852253
>I feel like I haven't done shit with my life and that I'm wasting my youth by the second.
You're quite young, if this bothers you i urge you to try and change it, although I understand that's easier said than done. I'm 28 and this hole only goes deeper if you sit around like me. Although there is an alternative of making peace with "wasting" time but not everyone is satisfied with this.
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>>7852253
same age, feel the same, no advice, here is pape.
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Been browsing this website for a whole lot of years. This is one of the honest threads I've ever come across.

HB OP. Stay clean. Don't do drugs. Deep inside, you know what you gotta do, you just don't have the strenght and courage to do it. What you will do in 5 - 7 years will define your whole life and it will harder and harder to do it unless you start it right now. Be happy and stay close to the ones who are important to you. Today is always the best day ever.
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>>7852253

this is no doubt one of the wholesome threads i have ever seen. happy belated birthday anon.
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>>7852253
Happy birthday, anon. Don't lose your mind over it.
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>>7852253
Turning 23 very soon myself...
I've wasted 4 years in college so far, and my degree is still nowhere in sight.
Feels like I haven't learned anything usefull at all. I'm now pursuing a degree in the same field as my estranged father. I like it, but I just don't do anything, except locking myself in my room and wasting my time. I have zero discipline and a terrible work ethic. I don't know why but I just can't seem to stop fucking up, even though this is probably my last chance at uni. Failing where my father succeeded deeply hurts my pride, and thinking about the future makes me shiver, since I have no alternatives (yet, I guess...). I know what I have to do, but I don't. I just feel so trapped.

Anyway, happy birthday to you and thanks for reading my blog. I sincerely hope you'll find peace
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>>7852253
Happy bday OP with a big delay, nice Belgrade view you got there…yk Kalemegdan is the best place in the world to observe Zemun
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>>7852253
I used to live in Belgrade, I recognized it the moment I saw the tower on the right.
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happy birthday anon, its okay were all just coasting through life making the best of what we can, focus on finding something to do that you enjoy, even if you absolutely fail uni, fail it by doing whatever you want
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>>7852253
i recently turned 24 and feel the exact same way.

guess its up to us to force our lives to be interesting
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>>7852253
Then consider it a proper welcome to your 20s, happens to a LOT of people.

Spend some time, disengage from life. Maybe meditate a bit and look for what makes you happy.

If you feel trapped, don't say "I can't do this" and start saying "how man I make this a reality." You'll find there are a lot of cool things out there you can make happen. Enough moonshots and something will stick.

Speaking as a 24 y/o who was in the same spot as you only a year ago after graduating. Took a year to figure my shit out, and decided I needed to see the world so I decided to start applying for jobs and shit in other countries that got me excited (about anything?) for the first time in years.

Lot of rejections, but eventually something stuck. One year late I moved from the US to the Netherlands to work a dream job in VR shit.

The feeling will go away if you break it down into small steps and start thinking in terms of possibility and not limitations. That's not easy, but it's what helped me.

Don't let life happen to you. Get proactive and there's nothing wrong with seeking help.

Good luck anon
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>>7872271
thanks for sharing anon
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>>7894114
Not OP but thank you bro I'll save your message
I'm 24 too rn
Health issues though, unfortanetely don't make it easier
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>>7853239
yea, ain't nothing new
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>>7852287
>At 21 I quit my job and drove around the country
You did that at the best possible age. Everyone wishes they traveled the country in one big road trip, but most people never do. You have plenty of time to build something from where you are now, but the more you try to fight the urges to succeed the more regrets you'll end up with. It's ok to not want things. But if you do, you will need to get them yourself. It's ok to want be things and make changes, but try to think ahead as best you can. You're dealing with something we all do. Gl and never doubt yourself.
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happy birthday anon. have a beer for us
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>>7894395
Here's a pape now that I'm on a computer.
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>>7852253
Well, OP, what have you achieved so far?
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>>7894114
Not OP either, but seconded, thanks for sharing. Motivation might be temporary, but I think I managed to channel mine long enough to set up a longer-term strategy. After years of doing nothing and playing a metric ton of MMOs I took my first baby-steps towards not living on autopilot.

It's not much, but I wrote exactly one chapter of content for a potential book (which I've been "planning" to write since I turned 20). It's not much, maybe 3 pages, written over the last few days, 30-60 minutes at a time. I think the pace makes it less daunting, and is probably maintainable over a long period of time.

One foot in front of the other, and 3 pages at a time, but slow progress is, quite literally, infinitely faster than no progress. It sounds a bit romantic, but I guess I'm still on a bit of a high... It's such a tiny shift in my lifestyle, and yet I feel more optimism than I have in my entire adult life.

P.S. The meditation thing isn't a meme. I gave it a try over the last two days, so I'm still a total scrub. But, in terms of return on investment, there's not much better uses of 10 minutes a day. My anxiety has been totally in-check and my mind is crystal clear for a while after. You won't regret it.

Here's the intro course I started using:
https://www.soundstrue.com/products/mindfulness-daily
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>>7879715
made me kind of teary for some reason. some boys don't get hugged enough
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>>7852335
you're an inspiration anon
love the pape too, sucks we have to survive what will no doubt be a brutally hot summer before getting to this level of comfiness again
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>>7852253 We're all in this shit together. 24 here, had a big positive breakthrough in the winter, but i had troubles at work with a coworker that led to having to leave a company I invested a lot of myself into. I immediately started to fall back again. Life's a series of up and downs. I feel like being happy actually means recognizing when a "down" is coming, and treating yourself in the best way possible to try and invert the trend back to going up. It's all about finding coping mechanisms. Also, living alone sucks hard, it's not making things easier. Happy Birthday 4 months late btw.
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Love you anon, stay safe, Happy Belated
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Whoops almost forgot the present
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>>7872369
Imagine saying nihilists are the idiots and buying into the belief that THE JEWS are after your happiness. I agree with the general sentiment though.
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>>7852287
>Not smart enough for
You don't have to be smart, you just have to keep cracking at it
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>>7855340
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>>7898872
cringe nigger ass jew didn't read
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