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post wallpapes to soothe my sorrow, anything that gives of a depressing vibe goes
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>>7893832
I know that feel anon. I almost died at the end of 2020 due a serious and unexpected health condition. I was on medical leave for 7 months and an additional 6 with work from home (fortunately a lot of my job could be done remotely). Total medical bills were close to 150K, but fortunately my job had good health benefits which covered most of it save for about $7500 in copay and deductibles. I was married at the time to a woman who had severe mental health issues (bipolar/early stages of schizophrenia) that she had refused to treat during her 20s. When I got sick, my parents had to take care of me because she couldn't take care of a pet rock if her life depended on it. While I was recovering at their house she had a complete mental break down, disappeared for a while, most likely had an affair based on several accounts, reappeared and then threatened to kill herself. Then she left me without a word, demanded a divorce, and stole nearly everything out of the apartment that I had paid for. We had been together 7 years.
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>>7893832
it's alright anon hope you'll get better, know you will
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>>7893869
bro read the room

>>7893832
I gotchu OP, shits gonna suck for a while and healing isn't a linear process but eventually this too shall pass. This is a good time to remember that the love for yourself is more important than any other in this life and that only you are responsible for nurturing it - true happiness isn't and shouldn't be dependent on external validation from other people, whose prerogative you cannot control.
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>>7893869
I'm afraid this anon is correct, best to embrace the pain. Everyone goes through it. Suffer well.
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OP here

>>7893869
Anon, i thank you for your realness, i know im going to get there, its just that it feels like a situation i need time to come at peace with. It definetely wont be an fast task but in this sitution i am stronger than death.

>>7893934 Thank you for your story anon, i know it might sound wrong but knowing there are people which had an even shittier end of the stick exist makes me feel a little bit better. Still, very sorry you had to live throuh that. Hope your doing well.

>>7893942
It does suck, i dont show it in text form but i had to take a break just while writing this. Her name feels like chains and her face an unforgettable euphorianof the “good times”, if youre feelin me.

>>7893994
Thank you anon.
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You're going to come out stronger than this. This is not the end for you for relationships. I've had a 5 year relationship go down the drain, and in high school my girlfriend at the time went into a room with another guy infront of me. All I have to say is that all those situations made me learn that you need to always strive to be the best version of yourself. There will always be young women looking for a real relationship. Everything is a lesson but nothing will ever be the end.
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>>7893832
Forgive her
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>>7893832
Cuckold
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>>7893832
Fucking whores, trust me bro they're all the fucking same. It's just a matter of time. I smacked the shit out of the last one. Take my advice Anon, go and heapse of nature treks and don't let videogames or booze consume you because if it does it all goes down hill. Become a Fortress man. Who knows how hold this bridge is, and yet it stands. Good Luck.
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>>7894013
Also what I recommend is reading good books, like the big classics, enjoy nature like >>7894112 said, reject media consumerism because this will constantly shove the type of content in your face which you really don't need right now. Lots of good content on YouTube to keep you busy, if you know where to look.
Learn to appreciate to be on your own, in fact that goes for everyone even if you're in a relationship.
Good luck
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>>7893869
>relationships are pointless and you should avoid them at all costs; you should also ignore women entirely and just focus on yourself, focus on hobbies and improving your health, and you'll feel much better

yeah pretty much this. I've been divorced for a few years and now I'm rounding 30. Never felt better by finding god, relinquishing all my wants, minimizing my needs, etc. I feel more eligible for love than I ever have again. Chasing pussy made me feel like trash. I quit drinking and smoking. Life is so good now, it's pure contentment and living in the now.

I cheated on her and wanted to kill myself for the longest time. It's hard to live with your shame and you can't get away from it if you're honest with yourself.

My theory is, if I sustain this, love is much more likely to come my way again anyhow. But if it doesn't, that genuinely doesn't matter to me either. I'm not lying to myself about it this time. I'm in a state of equilibrium and I realize the results of my life are inconsequential. No more proving anything to myself, like money, cars, girls, drugs, revenge. I just don't give a shit anymore and I am so happy to be at home with myself in a spiritual way.

I have a funny feeling, someday I'll recognize myself in another and we will be walking the same path together rather than carrying each other along, arguing, wanting more out of our senses.

Get out and travel OP.
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Not all girls are bad. Keep your chin up, OP.
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>>7894437
Based and realitypilled.
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>>7893869
This anon is right OP,you should avoid women like the plague.I thank god that i figured this out while still young,or i don't want to imagine how much i would have suffered in life.
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>>7893832
My first girlfriend dumped me after a week because she realized I was a nobody, technically the lowest respectable point within the group of friends we were because I didn't stick to a group mentality like ''the metalheads'', ''the cool guys'' or ''the wild ones'', I know it sounds cringe but they're real in the eyes of many. I liked metal, just didn't buy shirts of bands, couldn't care less about the people playing the music, I liked the music and I will listen to it, feel it, sing it, etc. But I didn't cherish GnR or AC/DC back in the day so I wasn't as interesting, dudes from that group were much more... devoted to this group mentality, I wasn't, I wasn't chasing chicks and trying to get into trouble to be cool and I didn't go to parties, night clubs or shit like that.
Second girlfriend cheated on me at a party I wasn't at and found out through an acquaintance that was there, she didn't deny it. Relationship was about 8 months long.
Third girlfriend was completely out of my league but I said why the fuck not, first time I got laid, the lass taught me some good stuff in the bed and out of it, she was on the crazy side, to say she had daddy issues is not enough considering her background of rich parents, having sex with strangers in strange places and doing drugs is wild as fuck and there's something to say about experiences like that, they're not for me, glad I've had some of them because to this day people are still amazed about what I've done with her but she quickly moved on because she got bored and realized that I am too... stable (not necessarily mentally, but in general, I work for a time, seek better opportunities, get a raise or move to another company for a better pay in a few years, get home, work on my hobbies or interests, talk to a few friends and then go to sleep) you get the gist of it. She moved to Italy and found some dude with a villa somewhere and made a family there.
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>>7894516
Fourth girlfriend was the sweetest relationship with a bitter fucking ending after 6 years of sacrificing every bit of myself to make her happy, from denying my friends, to suffering fights because of her inability to be social, to her inability to commit to a future and instead look to her own, to her inability to react like a human being at the first sign of shit hitting the fan, to her inability to control her anger when stuff just didn't go her way.
She had lots of downsides but was sweet, caring and always there for me somehow. But after three years of literally 0 affection, no sex, no kissing, a hug a month if only and no closeness whatsoever I just started to get this feeling like she was distancing herself so much and only cared about her feelings that after three years of trying to tell her that I need her, late night crying on my part and the void of loneliness when I was supposed to feel a presence instead was just way worse than being actually alone.
After that experience, I'd rather actually be alone than with someone who will make me feel alone in the presence of her, it's much more soul crushing, when you're alone, you know you're alone, you recognize the idea that there's nobody there, perhaps there's even some tranquility in silence, but when you get with a person like that, you just feel like that someone that's supposed to be present is only present for themselves, you're just a crutch and nothing else.
I had to break it off for it broke me off.

I still can't love anyone else two years after the fact, every girl I get close with, I just see her face, I just remember that I was happy when things were right, I just remember her smile and laughter that were reserved only for me, because of me, I remember her warmth and way of jumping on top of me while I was on the couch or the late night talks about random shit under the night sky.

And I tried, I had to break up with another chick simply because I just couldn't.
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>>7894531
I've learned a few things from my experiences, there were more relationships but I didn't include them because they were from when I was younger and nobody knew better, in the process of discovering love or I didn't care for as much.
1. A cheating partner is not your partner, simple as. She was yours at some point, maybe, but not anymore, therefore there's no point in crying, it wasn't going anywhere anyway, thank her instead for you have discovered with incredible proof that it didn't matter, move on.
2. I've yet to discover this idea of forgiving and continuing a relationship with someone who cheats us because love is so great but I don't think that's something I can see past as some may say.
3. This one is mostly about myself, I'm tired of the cock measuring contests between peers when chicks consider a mate, at least on the wide-view perspective, some individual interactions might not get into this category and of course would be actual love but they're rare, most of what we see is vanity, comparisons of social hierarchies, financial hierarchies and so on, actual logical interests before love.
4. Love is supposed to be have a positive effect in our lives, the lack of it doesn't necessarily have a negative effect inasmuch as we don't give it that power. Sure if you really want a partner, it's going to take over your life but you cannot rush relationships and love and most probably shouldn't as you might eventually be with someone you wouldn't want to have a family with, they can ruin your life in many ways. Respect the lack of it in your life and do whatever you do anyway, when it happens, it happens, but your life will still go on with whatever plans you make for yourself.
5. I don't know how the fuck to move on when her face and smile are haunting me on every other chick. Probably I didn't yet find the one who's able to erase that feeling?
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>>7893869
can't agree with you there man. rejection and breakup feel awful, but it's much better than the pain of regret of missing my chance.
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>>7894541
Well there's nothing wrong with starting a relationship with somone, but it should never ever be the main focus in your life.
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>>7893869
this
>t. gf of 8 years cheated on me the last 2 years at least with multiple men
Don't base your happiness on a woman because you will be sorely disappointed. Focus on yourself.
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>>7893832
you should dump her if you haven't already and who knows, maybe you'll get a better girlfriend out of this
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>>7893832
My ex wife cheated on me and then wanted a divorce to be with the guy. Also, have a child with her.

Turned out to be the biggest blessing of my life. I have a new wife of nine years and two more children. Wife is a lawyer, is based, and she is a little insecure.

It gets much better once you leave the bitch.
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KPeHHpXOOds

get stoned have a couple beers and move the fuck on bro! we all feel for ya but it DOES get better! im drinking one for you man,
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>>7894609
love this one, anyone got it in higher quality somewhere?
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>>7893832
Hey Anon. Shit is sad now, but look at it like this: You dodged a bullet. You can (and will) get somebody new. I'm not pulling this out of my ass, I had somebody cheat on me once and now I have an cute autistic gf. Keep your head up, Anon. Use those resources now to make yourself happy and improve yourself, the rest will come in time.
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>>7893832
I'm sorry anon women can be cruel
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>>7893869
You've never been robbed of something significant and especially not of your time.
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>>7893832
here you go, fren
make sure you use the One-Year Rule:
-no contect with her for at least 1 year
-no contect with her friends for at least 1 year
-no contect with her family for at least 1 year
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>>7895315
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>>7893832
No pape, but some advice. My wife of 6 years cheated on me, abused me, and is now making the divorce hell so I know what you're going through right now, but I promise you it gets easier. Not all at once, and that's the torture of it all, but it does. Every day you wake up and it hurts a little less. It still hurts a lot for me, I fell in love with another girl during the divorce and it's not going great, but every day I wake up and it hurts less. Some days I have to be angry at my ex, some days I have to feel sorry for her, some days I have to feel sorry for me, but whatever I have to feel helps and it makes it easier.

You're going to hurt for a time, a long time, and I'm sorry anon. Just remember that you can trust again one day, when you're ready.
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we love hard and we hurt worse. wish you the best
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>>7893869
you're a faggot and so are the people agreeing with you. relationships can suck but to say 'relationships aren't worth your time' is fucking retarded. just because you're scared of getting attached to people doesn't mean everyone else has to be. your miserable outlook is an indicator that you get no attention from women so your 'blackpill' is a cope mechanism you use to try to convince yourself that being by yourself everyday is what you truly want.
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>>7893832
There is the past, the future and the present. Life is in the present, live in the present.
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I, like many, went through many relationships, and after a while learned to enjoy them a lot more, from beginning to end.
I enjoy the getting to know phase, learning everything about her, showing myself (a bit differently every time as well), telling all the stories, etc.
Seeing each other/dating phase, new cool unconventional dates, sex in all kinds of places.
Living together phase - rare one - and probably the hard mode one. No kids yet, but living together can be lots of fun and comfy as fuck.
And even the breakup is interesting in its own way, and with time you learn to do it more gracefully, because all good things come to an end and there's no need to be bitter about the entire thing just cause it's ended. There's no shame in being sad for a while, but there's also no sense in being angry or feeling offended if she cheated.

The important thing to remember - if one cheats, the fault, shame and guilt is entirely on them. You're not betrayed, you just got a green light to move on and have fun with someone who appreciates your company. That's why it's important not to over-invest in the other person no matter how lovey-dovey the relationship is. Women feel it, they see you're a good company, but not too dependant or attached, and coincidentally are attracted more because of that. Few know this!

I love women btw, nothing is as fun as a company of a nice woman.
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>>7896483
Have a pape, OP
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Love the "Men live like this" vibe. Not quite depressing, just melancholic in a way.
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>>7894502
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why did 4chan captchas become so fucking aids
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>>7894437
based frasierposter but still too long didnt read dont care + you fell off + ratio + stop posting mucho texto on an anime forum
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>>7895305
This sentence makes no sense grammatically. Rephrase your sentence (or don't post at all if you're too lazy to try to be understood, whatever you do in life you should do right the first time or not bother at all) and elaborate (because youre being cryptic and edgy in your wording on purpose to sound intelligent, something you probably picked up from reddit). :)
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>>7895930
kek, spotted the femanon. relationships really arent worth anyone's time. in an ideal society, no one would pride themselves on their social experiences and relationships with people who will probably die in your life time like the traitorous ager they are.

They just successfully de-aged a rat in 2019. Did you know that? Did you know that we're on the verge of immortality technology for humans? What purpose would I need for social relationships when I can pursue eternal youth instead? When these people die, and I am by myself and healthy still at the age of 130, I will be very pleased with myself for never building relationships with anyone. Most people dont want eternal life, theyre weak and wish to die at some point. The strong push on for as long as possible in pursuit of their own selfish desires. Take from everyone, store for yourself, and live in bliss until the sun explodes.
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>>7896486
This one looks amazing. Top comfy
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>>7893869
This

The hardest thing in modern life is to completely jump over the human need for love and continue to grow your esteem and self actualize all by yourself.

There is no love coming from these spoiled women. Lust maybe, illusion of love maybe, but they have been ruined.
You cannot save them by dating them, you can save just your own self.

And only when you have saved yourself, can you save your women, children, and your family. We're not living in a time of plenty, we're living in a time of famine.
While others kill themselves to become part of the machine, you must fight to stay alive and independent. Don't fall in this pitfall that is "love", you must press on.
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>>7893832
here you go anon, dont worry women are fucking trash
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>>7897133
>Did you know that we're on the verge of immortality technology for humans?

youtu.be/_Jtpf8N5IDE
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here's music to go along with your sulking, OP. Hope you find peace in the afterlife. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=T2fOEhSLBSc
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>>7894531
>after 6 years of sacrificing every bit of myself to make her happy, from denying my friends, to suffering fights because of her inability to be social, to her inability to commit to a future
You're not going to like this, but it's YOUR FAULT for going through all of that.
You should have left that relationship
BUT
your next one would still have been shit BECAUSE YOU ARE MAKING SELFISH SACRIFICES.

Women don't want you to sacrifice for them.
It puts pressure on them to be worthy of that (and no one needs extra pressure in life, especially passive pressure from the person closest to them).

But most importantly, women don't want a guy who is living no life, what they want is to be with someone who's living his own life for himself, as she lives hers for herself.

Sure, you SHARE your lives, but you don't give up yours for her as if you're a soldier in a trench in the midst of a war.

You chose to give up your life.
That's bad, but what's worse: you think you did it selflessly.
So, you feel sorry for yourself.

In reality you gave up your life 100% not for her but for you ---- you expected to be rewarded with her love and loyalty.

until you realize this, your future relationships can't be successful.

hope the best for you
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>>7893832

with 2D this doesn't happen anon :)
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>>7893832
Know that feel, something like that happened recently to me, we ahd been together for about a year or so and it went down in less than three weeks.
Everything passes eventually, it will hurt until some day you wake up and don't even think about it.
But meanwhile know that it will hurt, a lot, and don't regret it, it's part of the process and you can get a new and hopefully better life in the end.
Hope you get better
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>>7893832
i've been cheated on and lied to by multiple women. it's tough. i just want a decent one.
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>>7894610
Paris?
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>>7898313
i'm not OP, but i think it's paris
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>>7898170
>i just want a decent one.

doesn't exist, not anymore, best you can hope for nowadays is to find one that's fucked up in the head comparatively the least and then work with her to help fix that
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>>7894419
Absolutely based advice.
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>>7893869
don't listen to this faggot, he is miserably alone and wants others to be as well.
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>>7893994
>>7894437
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>>7897133

don't listen to these faggots, OP, there's loads of women out there who will treat you like a god.
Don't give up on relationships because of some blackpilled retards who'll an hero at any moment, chin up.
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>>7897397
This is good advice.
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>>7900308
I agree don't listen to blackpills. Recognize though that you need to be happy and fulfilled being alone. If you feel fulfilled alone, you can love someone without giving them the power to destroy your life.
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>>7899268
Definately France but i doubt it's Paris
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>>7893832 focus on yourself. You'll feel grateful for having taken distance from that person after a while.
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>>7893832
At least you had a girlfriend. I'm 24, never dated anyone, still a virgin.
Be thankful for what you have, you will find another girl eventualy.
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>>7893832
I hope you will recover soon OP :DD
also I think some of what >>7893869 said is true, but you shouldnt take it word to word
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>>7893934
Excuse me for asking but what the fuck were you thinking entering a relationship, let alone MARRY a woman you KNEW were bipor and schizophrenic? DID you WANT your life destroyed and everything taken away?
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>>7902471
You still have quite a bit of time, anon. Of course that doesn't mean you should squander it. Otherwise, one day you'll be like me and realize that you're just a few months away from becoming a wizard.
What I'm saying is, there's really no shame in still having a v card at 24. Feeling ashamed of it will actually make things worse for you as women will smell your lack of confidence.
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>>7893869
Everything might be pointless in the end if these do end up being the last decades of humanity. The only reason to get with woman now is to propagate. Which not even be something you want, OP.
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>>7902861
Which might* not even be something you want, OP.
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>>7893869
Don't be so edgy, everything you listed is good but relationships are the key.

https://youtu.be/8KkKuTCFvzI
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>>7893869
military grade cope
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>>7893869
Kek, I just found the beta
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>>7893832
"She's not your girl, it's just your turn" proven yet again.
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>>7903821
every panel is an art piece
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>>7894678
She is getting raw fucked by tyrone as we speak
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>>7904278
Doesn't even have to be desu
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>>7893934
I think that's just normal female behavior.
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>>7906220

then your thinking is really wrong mate, that's not normal beaviour anywhere
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>>7906221
you must be great at parties
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>>7897397
That is the gayest shit I've ever read in my fucking life, literal slave mentality, do not listen to this bullshit but also don't give up your life for unpleasable fucking women who decide their wants and needs on a whim.
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remember to be tender to yourself. its important now more than ever. u got this anon
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>>7897133
Look at this dumbass thinking "immortality technology" will even be available and affordable for plebs like us.
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>be me 25, fresh outta collage, meet a single mom, go on a few dates, hit it off
>few months in I move in with her and her boys
> after a few months, I proposed, she said yes
> I get it it was really fast, but we've made a promise to one another - "All or nothing" - so I went all in, and had no problem with that, was actually happy and at piece with myself, getting along with her and kids both, finally feel safe, accepted, like I belong
>fast forward 3 years, a few months back she gives me the ring back "anon I'm not happy anymore, with myself, with you, but don't get me wrong it's not you, and I'm not breaking up, just giving you back the ring so you can give it to me again, when things are better"
>for me, returning the ring ment that she wasnt 100 % sure, for whatever reason
>don't know if it will ever be the same again
>afraid that if we go trough this, and get married anyways that soon enough we'll start to resent and hate each other for not letting go and trying to find happines elseware
>afraid if the fundation of our whole commitment gets destroyed that the marriage is bound to crash and burn, just a matter of time
>confronted her - told her that if she's not happy I'll leave, and maybe then, when we're both apart from each other we'll realise both our issues and the issues of the other person and option 1 : we'll realise, talk it out, get back on track; or option 2 : we'll realise that it really wasn't ment to be and move on to find happines with someone else
>meanwhile she's working all the time, we barely see each other
>staying home with the kids - taking care of them and the house etc...
>soon kids will leave for the summer and we'll be alone, that's when I'm planing to tell her that I'll look for a place and leave
>I'll miss her, and the kids too, but I don't think she'll prevent me or them from seeing eachother
>I know we still love each other deeply - but sometimes it just isn't enough
>hope that Im making the right choice
To OP: there's more of us
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>>7893832
How do you bounce back from such a betrayal? 5 Years down the toilet, I cant even imagine anon, Im sorry.
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>>7893869
Thank you for the pape OP
I hope everything goes well for you
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>>7894013
It only gets easier with time, Anon. Nothing else. You'll never forget the good times, which is sometimes the most painful part, but it's all part of the path which we walk in life. These intimate connections we make and break with others are trials presented to us. The successful ones are triumphs, and the failed ones are lessons. The good times are just the positive side effect of that trial you've been presented. Take solace in the fact that both of you will - as people do - learn and grow from this, in your own ways.
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I'm sorry to hear OP. Good luck recovering, it takes time but you will heal <3.

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>>7893832
Better to have loved and lost. Then never to have loved at all.
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>>7907815
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great pics, this place looks comfy
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OP I get it, cheating is a terrible betrayal and it's going to take you along time to get over it. My Fiance and mother too my two children left me in October i spent 4 months is a Psyche ward because i hung my self but yet... the dumb as i was made to much noise when i kicked over the chair and she cut me down from what i was told after she got into the barricaded room. It will take you along time to heal man. Just dont do what I did... last time i tried to kill my self was 3 months ago I Od'd off of dilaudid after shooting my swelf with what i thought was enough to kill me... i woke up 18 hours later... alive but hung over and kind of fucked up... now i just shoot up daily and try to get by with the pain of hating my self for ruining everything...
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>>7894076
Are thieves and morty is a great example is laptops that is not showing up on a mobile phones with you mam and you are really meaningful and same as I was confused with you but the other thing that you have to join is the best!
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>>7908135
Is that Ypres?
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>>7910112
am I retarded or did you just have a stroke
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I totally understand what you are going through anon; it's okay to go through the pain; it's okay to fall down and cry; this too shall pass; just don't forget to get back up when it's all over...

https://youtu.be/n5h0qHwNrHk
https://youtu.be/6W6HhdqA95w
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>>7894437
I wish I could feel that way. I will be 30 in a few months, never had a relationship in all my life. I just feel like trash and everything I can do alone is boring.
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>>7893869
You seem based. Please, help me with this, because my life is fucked up right now.
What if a 32yo man married with two kids find his woman don't desire him anymore? What if she is against him making any progress in life?
inb4: I know the easy answer is dumping her and not looking back, but divorce is not an option because the kids and because I am a Catholic.
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>>7894437
>>7897275
I would like to read your opinion too, frens. Needing help with this:
>>7911919
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>>7894678
>Wife is a lawyer
yeah...Anon...
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imagine being sad over a broad lmao. fuck this gay onions earth.
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>>7906225
what would you know about parties?
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>>7906226
Incel spotted
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Fuck off with this faggotry
Some cunt fucks you over and your first instinct is to post about it on wallpaper board of all the places
Not only you're shitting up the place with your uninspired blog post, you're also retarded as fuck moping over with muh sad papes
Get a grip, look at the fucking state of you
Now fuck off to /adv/ or wherever
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>>7911919

Story looks incomplete and you're pointing a finger which is a bit odd. No judgement but signal that you'd benefit from expanding on this, and your best bet is a licensed therapist that you can work well with. (no meds, just chat)
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>>7901985
>>7900308
these anons get it
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>>7897130
I understood what he meant, you feminized plebbitor. How ironic that you're the one who calls other people plebbit.
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>>7894516
>>7894531
>>7894540
pretty good points made here. I want to say a few things.
Lack of love isn't negative. Love can be positive. That's a very good point.
And second, if you keep meeting girls with daddy issues look inside and try to understand why that keeps happening.
And don't focus on forgetting stuff, it's impossible.
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>>7902315
>peak moscow aesthetic
>>7894609
that's moscow?
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>>7893869
Shut up, baby dick.
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>>7894479
Most are. You naive, naive anon.
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>>7894541
this just happened to me
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>>7906392
Love is a choice anon. That ecstatic feeling is not love, it is lust or infatuation or whatever, but love is a choice. love is the decision to sacrifice for the other's benefit. I feel you it hurts, but understanding love makes things more clear. God be with you in Christ
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>>7893869
the hardest cope possible
just because something can end badly doesn't mean that there is no reason to pursue it when it can also be the best thing to ever happen to you
so many people are in amazing relationships with people they love, you just need to look for the right person
thinking that relationships and women are completely irrelevant and worthless is the thought process of a broken and sad person who refuses to put in the effort
>>7893832
don't listen to the retards who most likely can't even talk to women in the first place, you will find the right person for you if you keep looking, and this is the end, just another beginning
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>>7911002
yeah wtf is he saying
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>>7893869
Based
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>>7893869
garbage advice. you can only love the truth/virtue. you can only love a woman insofar as they embody virtue. find the quest to truth and it may reward you with a good woman
(also dating a woman for 5 years without marrying her is a red flag)
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>>7914190
This
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>>7897405
live life
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>>7893832
Recently broke up with my girlfriend too.

It'll be hard anon, allow yourself time to grieve and process. Go easy on yourself and try to keep yourself moving, even if it is slow. Slow progress is better than none.

Try spend some time with friends. Relationships only work if "the stars align" and things just happen to work.
Friends are the real win

Look after yourself anon
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>>7893832
fuckin cuck
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>>7918465
Totally. Anything over 5 months is toxic.
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>>7893832
Also broke with my gf of 5 years at around the same time you made this thread. Don't know if you still lurk it but, how are you doing? Getting easier for me but it still feels uncomfortable and a complete shift from those 5 years. I don't really cry anymore, don't feel much rage.
Hope you're alright anon, hope you don't let a shitty person's betrayal ruin who you are. Be strong
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>>7893832
Go hit the gym, work on yourself, there's almost 8 billion people on the world you are good
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>>7893832
To jam to
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=HP563XCjSj8&t=2288s
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>>7906392
When she gave back the ring it was a sign she wants to leave, but you are "on the hook" as a daddy. She already is probably seeing people behind your back. It ended when she gave back the ring. Pull the trigger and get out before it gets worse.

You are making the right choice. Find someone better. Don't kill yourself over someone who is not really yours any more.
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Nobody cares your imaginary crush "cheated" on you, pigface cunt. Shut the fuck up and stop making these idiotic number threads. You act like an annoying fuckface heading straight into permafilter.
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>>7893832
jesus christ so many moaning fags in this thread
stop posting wallpapers and go change your tampons
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>>7893832
The same thing happened to me, except I got married 4 months prior to her cheating on me, and leaving to another state to be with her new boyfriend. It sucks man but you can get through this, just like I will get through this.
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>>7910960
Yes it is.
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>>7902640
NTA, but metal issues can be hard to diagnose, even for experts. A girl I found interesting started giving me odd vibes and I kept my distance. I see that she now has 5 children with 3 different men. i dodged a bullet, there.
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>>7900092
>>7900308
>>7903915
>>7903920
>>7914745
>>7917623
Why are you faggots so angry? Everything he said is true,and he didn't even say much,just that you should ignore women and focus on yourself.What is so bad about that? Why does it bother you so much?
>>7893953
I miss winter,i'm so tired of this heat.These last days it rained quite a bit,and yesterday there was a massive dry thunderstorm,the biggest i ever saw in my life.It was very comfy.
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>>7926395
You talk like a fag bro. Of course you should always focus on yourself. What theses Anons are trying to say is you shouldn't give up on trying to find a meaningful relationship just because the last one went bad. Learn adapt thrive
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>>7926911
Not everyone likes to live in delusion. Why you reality shamin' bro? Don't answer that. You've trolled enough,
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>>7897133
after hours of research i believe that anti aging will happen in the lifetime of 20 yr old. it's too late for a 40 yr old.
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>>7926978
Lost cause. Keep on doing you man
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>>7914785
It's possible to be both naive and cynical. Here, have another image.
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I gotchu
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>>7897275
Women haven't been ruined. Women have been allowed to be themselves, and what they are is a heartless black hole of evil.
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>>7906392
>few months in I move in with her and her boys
>>7894531
>sacrificing every bit of myself to make her happy
>>7893934
>I was married at the time to a woman who had severe mental health issues (bipolar/early stages of schizophrenia)

These are the people telling you women suck. You are like a woman who married an aggressive jogger with anger management issues and proceeds to blame men for the fallout.
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>>7894653
Why even cheat? Why not just say it's over and break up?
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My GF of four and a half years dumped me after she crashed my truck. A few months later I lost my dream job.
It gets better, slowly but surely. I am still looking for my job but it shows that I have supportive friends.
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reading all you anons stories sooth's my mind and soul that i am not alone im reading alot of similar stories to my own and im happy to see some are growing and learning from all this pain
>its been 4 years since i last seen her, not a day goes by where i dont think about her, i wonder if she thinks of me for just a second out of a year...
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>>7927681
The best revenge is success. Move on, be happy.
I am still struggling not to think about her, but it gets easier as time goes on.
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>>7893832
Had a shit relationship almost ten years ago. She slowly became more and more abusive, berated me because I didn't want to live the way she wanted to. I left. It hurt. It hurt a lot. Decided to focus on myself after that. Built myself up through the pain and healed.
Found out through a mutual friend a few years ago that she still cries about losing me when she has too many drinks.
She's missing a tooth for some reason.
Apparently at a party, someone tried to tell her that I was doing fine and never spoke about her, she went into a fit.

My point is that the other anons here are right. The best revenge is success, work on yourself. It's ok to take it easy and feel bad for yourself for a bit, but make sure you don't get used to it.
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Y'all are sulky, some people don't even get a good fuck in their life and sacrifice it away anyhow.
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It gets better
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Same thing happened to me, OP. My advice:

Forgive her, but don't take her back. Forgiveness is not for her her, but for you. That relationship is broken beyond the point of repair. The sooner you can accept that, and forgive her, the sooner you can reclaim your life.

Get rid of everything in your home that reminds you of her. Pictures, objects, whatever. Even if they were gifts.

Avoid certain kinds of media. Overly sad stuff. Anything focusing on a love story. You don't need that sort of thing right now.

Focus on yourself, your own happiness, and your own self-improvement. Hang out with friends. Go for walks in nature. Meditate. Work out. Maybe try a new hobby. Eat healthy food (learning to cook, if you don't already, will go a long way for this).

It's gonna hurt for a while, I won't deny that. Allow yourself time to grieve, but don't get stuck in the mire. You'll make it Anon, I promise.
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>>7922259
Is this a metaphor for a prolapsed ass?
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>>7893942
oh wow this is beautiful
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>>7893934
Same anon who posted this 5 months ago. Just wanted to bump the thread and say I got remarried to an amazing woman I met over the summer. They're out there, just gotta keep trying.
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>>7935055
Thats profoundly blackpilling. Repeating mistakes over and over is bad for you anon.
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>>7893832
Women

Can’t live with em, can’t live without em
amirite?
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>>7893832
My gf invited me on a trip, surprise introduced me to her entire family and then got upset when I was slightly uncomfortable. When she implied it was okay to cheat on me I thought it was a joke but she did it.
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>>7936973
Not really a mistake if it's a completely different kind of woman.
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>>7935055
You got married for someone you've known less than five months? Jesus Christ.
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>>7937296
You know back in more civilized centuries people would get married after only a month or two of courtship.
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>>7893832
>soothe my sorrow
>anything that gives of a depressing vibe
Are you retarded?
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>>7893934
Hope you're doing well son
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>>7894076
> infront of you.
i hope you have hit her after that
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>>7894112
ur retarded kys
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>>7900308
REEEEBIIIIRTH OF GOOOORGOOOOROOOOOOOOTH
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>>7893832
Should of fucked in those five years.
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here op, feel better bud:)
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>>7897378
This is my favourite ever pape thanks for posting
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I am sorry my dude. Something very similar happnt to me. Took a couple years to recover but my mans you are better off and don't you forget it. Reach out to ur friends n family. Give urself time and time to be wrong about ur recovery and take a few chances to get it right. most of all dont let urself become bitter. its very easy to do and its okay to be angry but u gotta keep the hope alive that u are still on ur journey to somewhere amazing cuz that stuff is a self-fulfilling prophecy and its ur choice in this life whether to be a black hole or a beacon and you know which choice is right. God bless yeh. You'll be okay.
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>>7932887
thats what im saying
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>>7893832
I don't understand why people get depressed when they can get angry instead. You have the option to choose strength over weakness, you know.
Pic: I'm not implying that you should decapitate your girlfriend with a sword, but why feel mopey and self-pitiful and sad about her. It would be psychologically far more constructive for you to hate and ignore her and go screw someone else who genuinely appreciates you.
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>>7922259
This guy is right.
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>>7945031
You don't understand because you've clearly never been in a relationship with someone that you've had intense feelings for over that period of time or longer. You realize all of it was for nothing, also this person has also been a part of your life for so long that it's hard to remember what life was like without them, then in this case since cheating was involved there is a sense of betrayal. Anger comes and goes, but the feeling of loss hangs around for a while afterwords.

OP will recover, but it will take time, depending on how good or bad the relationship was. It's easier to recover from abusive relationships, for example, and those tend to make you stronger in the long run (and by stronger I mean more emotionally detached the next time around).

Speaking from the perspective of a guy who was friend zoned for years by a girl he liked more than any other, a girl who used gaslighting and seduction (full nudity in some cases) to maintain control, she was kind and inviting when I seemed to be drifting away and cold when I got too close. Things ended with me walking out of a bedroom to see her riding some guy she had met at a bar an hour or so earlier. I may not have been her boyfriend or whatever, but the pain is exactly the same, and it took years to recover from it.
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>Girlfriend of 5 years
>Didn't get married
Anon it's like you are trying to get cheated on.
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>>7893942
>> true happiness isn't and shouldn't be dependent on external validation from other people

Totally this.
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>>7893832

Don't sink and drown anon, remember... almost 3.905 billion woman on this planet, I learned very quickly to surpass that invalid one, and seek out that one who will strengthen you
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>>7893832
More than half a year of meditation on this.
I hope you're in a better mindset now
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>>7893832
sorry anon, you'll be ok!
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>>7893832
Should we post 5 year old papes?
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>>7897133
>welcoming death
>weakness

still not sure this is always true
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I am in a 4 year old relationship and these kind of threads scare me
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>>7893832
Are you the same guy who has posted this same thread for at least 5 years?
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>>7910111
jesus christ anon. you still alive out there?
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>>7910111
checked
and hang in there fren im 5 months off the junk and life still sucks but i know how you feel my 3 kids were taken all the way across the country from me which led me to the depths. hang in there your not alone
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>>7893934
Sounds like your typical modern woman to be fair. I can't talk in a forever alone schizo piece of shit anyway. Good luck for the future fren.
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>>7893934
>WILLINGLY marrying someone with BPD and Schizophrenia
LMAO you deserved everything you got retard. Maybe next time have higher standards instead of being such a fucking loser you'd marry literally anybody that stuck around you for more than 5 mins.



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