I’m just here to share my life story because I’ve accumulated this and now I just want to die. I am an older brother and I have a younger brother. We have always been inseparable, especially after we lost our mother 5 years ago. Our father, struggling with his grief, drowned himself in bottles and gambling. The only thing I could do was start working at the age of 16 and start providing us with food and buying the most necessary things for home. We were left with ourselves, trying to survive this pain and cope with the new reality. I just didn’t understand how to help my father, and I felt sorry for him because he is my father, he constantly insulted us and beat us to a terrible state. Every day became harder because we knew that no one else would take care of us.Later, my brother fell ill and was diagnosed with cancer, and treatment required huge amounts of money, which we did not have. I promised myself that I would find a way to save my brother, even if it meant selling everything. I understood that only I could take care of my brother and started selling whatever I could and worked 3 jobs and I saved up around $11,000 in 1.5 years. I literally had $4,000 left for my brother to have the operation, and I could pay the rest later myself. And my father began to drink more and gamble, I began to hate him because even when my little brother needed help the most. Later I found out that this idiot lost his car and was also stuck for $9,000, he ransacked the whole house when we were not there and found where I kept the money. He spent all the money to pay off debts and continue drinking, which I saved for treatment, and this bastard didn’t even tell me about it until I found out myself. I just beat him to death for this and almost killed him, and I just cried after all this on the street and now I don’t even know how to look my brother in the face. I collected my last $200, which this asshole didn’t have time to spend, and left home. My telegram: Tsundur
I read this same story like last week or two weeks ago. Except it didn’t have the telegram at the bottom. Fuck off.
>>31258794Depends on your country. In some cases you can enforce a guardianship over someone who has spending issues and/or substance abuse. But you’re gonna need lawyers and it might take a few months. And selling the house is usually a no-no.>>31262257I mean, losers lose. If you send money over the internet over something like this you deserve to get scammed.
>>31273845How can I sell my several organs? You don't know how to do this or can you help me with this?
>>31276007People who buy organs like that usually do so in Bangladesh or some other country they can get them for dirt cheap. No idea where or even if it would be enough to pay for your expenses. Or if the guys would even pay you considering your desperate situation.
>>31258707SCAMMER.
Why do some women get mad when you wanna hookup? This fat white girl just started insulting me. "You can't talk to a woman this way" kind of bullshit. So i hit on a skinny short latina and she came to my place.
Flee from fornication. The book said "flee" so if you are in the same vicinity, you position yourself AWAY from the situation. When it is a yes, you say "Yes to running!" and get going no questions asked. ASKING is crazy.
>>31275454Women are really weird. Just because you want to fuck them, they expect you to be polite.
>>31275454>fat white girlprojecting insecurity, she knows you're out of her league so she thinks you're just using her.
>26, too old for the "I don't know what I want to do with my life" crap>Useless degree>Enlisted in the US military in a job I hate>Jaded by the atrocious dating scene in my current location to the point where I don't even want a gf or a family anymore>Applying to be a pilot, already got rejected once last yearIf I get rejected again, what can I do to unfuck my life? I feel like I'm grasping at the last straws of hope for a life that doesn't make me want to jump off a bridge.
God wants to make a point.
I don’t even know why I visit this site anymore. Larpers, bots, shills, and toxic terrible people.Anyway, try again with the pilot thing. All you can do is try to solve the puzzle. This can take time so be patient with the process but also don’t waste time. All the best anon.
>>31273862Play video games, read a book smoke weed take benzos there are tons of ways to spend your time. If you need a real purpose in life read about, religion philosophy, history maybe learn an instrument. etc. Or go to university and learn something else.
>>31273862>enlisted>wants to be a pilotlol
>>31275639Tons of pilots are prior enlisted, are you high?
Why do I constantly get vivid night terrors where I see people in my room at night?
>>31274610We're there.
How do I stop lusting over black women?
>>31275950how do you even start? no such person exists
>31 years old>Applying for apprenticeshipThe position is aimed at people just out of high school but they encourage people looking for a career change to apply too.I've done a completely unrelated university degree as well as a handful of courses towards a degree in a related field. I don't know if putting that kind of thing on my resume is going to get me the trashman treatment or give me an advantage.I'm thinking maybe it's better to leave it off my resume because my current work (shift supervisor at a fast food joint) should put me above any high school kid and putting anything else in there is a risk. But at the same time then I don't have anything else to put for what I've been doing the previous 10 years.
>>31275105Find a way to turn your academic history into qualifications. For example, did you EVER help another student in anything? That's Executive Training. Ever write a term paper? That's Strong Communication Skills. Science labs? That's Precision Work. There is no such thing as "useless" academic classes if you package them right.
>>31275105What trade are you shooting for man?
Information>5'3 (male, dont laugh), 18>Gym for around a year a half>Interested in reading books recently>slightly better haircut>skincare (inconsistent)What now? What else should I look into to become a more fulfilled person? Height seems to be a big issue for me, but I also think my personality needs work but I just don't know how to improve any of that.
>>31274780>5'3u can seriously try becoming a modern version of a court jester with that height. Lol
>>31275136you mean a white house comedian? wtf is the modern version of a court jester?
>>31275158internet lol cow, stand up comedy, comedian in tv series that everyone pokes fun at, etc..
>>31275163non of these have anything to do with courts.
>>31274780Are you an interesting, fun guy? Would a woman enjoy your company even standing up with your clothes on? THAT is the best route to lying down with them off.
All the good looking women who would make great wives and mothers are taken in high school and college the latest. Whatever remains is taken shortly after they enter the workforce. There exist very few good looking (7 and above) women that are single and have a good heart, are modest, raised in a decent family, soft spoken and pretty. The window of opportunity when they are single is very very narrow. These are the 2% of women, the highest stock of females this wonderful creation can offer. If you don't frequent their circles or the events they attend you have no chance of meeting them. Women also don't go anywhere alone, so whatever hobbies women have or events they attend it is done with their husband or boyfriend and if they are single with their groups of friends.tldr; there simply aren't enough single good looking young white women to go around for everybody, they are rare and exist mostly in very niche places where men without social circles (loners) can't get in to
So quit your job and go to university and snag them just like you describe you retardThere's literally nothing stopping you from doing it except for time to save up. Universities will always exist and with them a way to take one of the women You just need to quit your job and come back to schoolNothing in your post indicates that you cannot get a great wife or mother to your kids. >>31270621none of these videos have any info of ever talking to a woman or ever being around one in same roomevery incel follows all the advice in these videos 24/7 and none of this shit mattersonly school setting can ever help anyone
>>31270612This gayass board is just the same 12 or so schizoids spamming nonsense at each other in a circle. Hiroshimoot should just put /adv/ out of its misery at this point
>>31275159Not true. The best places to meet people are through family, friends, work, bars/restaurants/parks, and online. School is the WORST
>>31275279Not true your drawing is entirely fictional and you've cried 100s of times because of it alreadythere's literally no data at all that suggests any part of this drawing is real you might as well have made a graph saying dragons are responsible for majority of deaths with 2nd most likely cause being asteroid strikesits made up drawing work fires you, people who are at work dont want to go out with customers, in bars/restaurants/parks every woman is just sitting with her boyfriend/inside meat cube unable to communicate, and they dont at all use dating apps to ever meet anyone, men outnumber women 1 000 000 to 1 on every appthere's literally no way to ever speak to a woman outside of school for people who dont already have someone
>>31275384>Schooler on suicide watch.>Again.Your real problem, Schooler, is that you are literally retarded. Your IQ is no more than 80.
Getting anxiety recently I feel like no one respects me around me except a few people. There is this one guy who constantly nags me online and makes fun of me or tries to bring me down he is extremly manipulative and talks shit behind everyones back then he plays nice with them basically he turns people against each other. So yeah i feel anxious and its hard to be alone as well, like people suck the energy out of me as well.
>>31275289https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kbb_0qNdjjohttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=H07Rs3H0-PMhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=udkS-FVLUbk
>>31275289Ignore him, ghost him and warn others against him
I’m a 28 year old firefighter. My gf is 26, she’s a nurse. We’ve had some issues prior because my libido is higher. Ultimately I decided to just stop whining and jerk off before bed or run more. Thing is, now I’m starting to have episodes where I’m restless in bed and it’s waking her up. Originally she said she didn’t want to fuck me beacuse she didn’t want to feel like “an object or tool for you to use when you’re stressed or need to rest”. Now, she’s saying she’d rather fuck me than have me keep her up. I’m autistic so this kinda doesn’t make sense to me, why was it bad for me to ask when I needed a shag to sleep but now it’s fine when she’s loosing sleep over it? I don’t know bros. I’m used to staying up so I’m not really bothered. Been overall just doing my thing. Anyway, some solutions I figured are sleeping on the floor or zapping my libido with an SSRI. Any other actionable solutions? Don’t suggest divorce or whatever, too expensive. Thanks
>>31267866youre getting cucked
>>31267866>My gf is a nursemy condolences
>>31269441Sorry, I don't take advice from someone who doesn't know the difference between your and you're
>>31272382You were only jealous because you can’t let yourself be vulnerable like that with anyone and it makes you irrationally upset.I think a relationship should be mutually tender and caring. >>31270829This is sweet and cute, this is precious and ideal and is a moment of this man showing care and women become more high pitched when experiencing attraction. There’s a silliness that expresses wonder and joy at such a simple action of care.The idea of needing to be hyper-serious and overly mature for adults is retarded. Being playful and silly and indulging in mutual care is sweet. Look at any old couple that enjoys being together after 50 years, they have great senses of humor and vulnerability between one another and do silly things that last a lifetime.>>31269205Most stable answer in the room. She’s probably feeling ashamed she can’t provide you with what you need due to her emotional insecurity. She may feel unsafe to be vulnerable with you. The repeated inability she felt to have sex and your responses lead me to believe you were very strong with your requests. That’s why she said she doesn’t want to just be an object for your desires.Take her out for an adventure she’s never done, but has always wanted to do. Look at her interests and hobbies and actively seek out her as a person. Don’t expect sex during this time. She will want to have sex with you, naturally, when you treat her like a person more than just your wife.Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>31274423>The idea of needing to be hyper-serious and overly mature for adults is retarded. Being playful and silly and indulging in mutual care is sweet. Look at any old couple that enjoys being together after 50 years, they have great senses of humor and vulnerability between one another and do silly things that last a lifetime.i wasn't complaining i like being silly/goofy with her we have fun batnz. and it's really cute when she gets all high pitched. we had a fight and i didn't see her this weekend and i missed her a lot.
Living in a walkup in Tribeca and ive had the exterminators in twice. It's a shitty student size pad just for while I finish my degree. The roaches just keep coming back in small numbers no matter what. Most of the people in the building have them too and have stopped giving a fuck. This filmschool jackass was just like "welcome to NY" when I expressed how stressed I was about roach infestations. Should I just resign myself to the fact that they're living in my walls? I try to keep the place as tidy as possible but I still get them maybe twice a week. I'm basically the guy in Joes apartment for real.
5/7 places I've lived in NYC had some combination of roaches, mice, or bed bugs. landlords are obligated to make an attempt to get rid of them, like getting pest control come by once each year. but that's usually not enough because the buildings are so close together, you get re-infestation pretty quickly. the best you can do is set roach traps everywhere. there are some poison treatment that they'll eat and take back to the nest causing the others to die as well. do try to get the landlord to bring in pest control if they're not already doing so>"welcome to NY"sadly this is how it goes
>>31275015You're never going to get rid of them because while you are apartment may be clean other places nearby aren't.
>>31275015If your neighbors have them, you have them. Always. The best you can do is caulk all cracks and crevices in your home, keep it clean and food packed away, and use bait traps like roach motels and the gel to keep them in check. You could consult your local laws regarding tenancy and contact a local tenant advocate board if they're legally required to address those kinds of pests, but most municipalities only regulate actually dangerous pests, where roaches and even bed bugs just don't qualify. Slumlords gonna slum. They know you don't have better options, so they don't care.
>>31275015>Most of the people in the building have them too and have stopped giving a fuck.they're bugmen
>>31275015Manhattan has roaches. That's life. Trump Tower has roaches. You can keep killing gthem, but they are no respecters of doorways, and if they're anywhere in the building, they'll quickly be everywhere in the building.Enjoy living in Tribeca instead of some midwest state college dorm, an accept what goes with it.
19M, I've been on 4chan for around a year browsing this board +/pol, /biz, /fit I have become completely addicted to this website, I browse this website for hours and constantly keep multiple threads open to later read. Aside from my 4chan addiction I do these things> Procrastinate> Addicted to junk food/eating out ever since I got this new job at work I tend to eat at plaza down the street ( sonic or five guys) yes I know horrible choices, but even then when I'm not at work I get the urge to get up and drive down to sonic to buy food, I have the urge right now ffs> Waste too much on my phone ex. listening to music, podcast, Instagram, youtube I know It sounds retarded but I just keep on doing it. So far I've deleted all my social media apps except for youtube > Also major porn addiction for 6+ years nowHow do I fix myself? What drastic measures should I take? ( No meds or therapy bs plz)Days and weeks go by and I don't accomplish any of my goals ( gym, guitar, studying)I want to cultivate self discipline I want to get rid of these shit habits and stop being a lazy fuck
>>31273123>No meds or therapy bs plz)Sorry bud but it ain't gonna work without that. If you don't want meds try taking supplements like magnesium, zinc vitamin b, complex, vitamin c, lithium orotate etc, they all aid in the formation of neurotransmitters and can potentially fix underlying neurotransmitters deficiencies you might have.Trust me I tried it a thousand times to implement 'drastic measures' but it doesn't work if you have adhd.
>>31275131Fuck I was trying to avoid using meds, Im planning on enlisting soon and I’m pretty sure those will disqualify me. Any way to get those meds illegally?
>>31275330You can get anything you want illegally, in the darknet. But I'm not too familiar maybe download tor browser and look on hidden wiki, stores should be enlisted there. But you will need bitcoin for that. It's all a whole procedure. Maybe ask a friend if he can go larp to a doctor who prescribes him Adderall and or Ritalin try both of them as they can have different effects. But first try vitamins, zinc magnesium, b complex etc. and see how far you get with that. Enlisted in the military? Try calling them anonymily and ask about the adhd thing to make sure.
You can still do all those things, your problem is you prioritize that over the shit you have to get done. Create a reward system like in a video game, complete task a to get reward b.
Spend the next 5 years locked in and learning and leave the rest to God, the rest, everything. Career, future, family, your entire body, your entire thoughts, your entire feeling because you could be feeling anything else. Not enough guys yet who are open about avoiding online negativity so get ready if the responsibility falls to you. Seriously, horrible spirits are wanting to know everything that you do, checking up on you and yum yum instant energy drain.When they said "Give your life to Jesus Christ", this is what it actually means.
>31M>Took all your advice, got a haircu fitting my face and head, grew a beard that I take care of>Started working out and going out>Have my own hobbies, like fishing, light sports, cars>Went to a shrink and therapist>Still no gfStill, women online lose interest/find better options after talking to me, even if we go out together, it leads nowhere after one date.Even if we get to cuddling while watching netflix, I still can't get sex, even if I openly say I want it, etc.Literally NO HOPE FOR ME, women probably smell my autism, it's repulsive to them, it dries them up completely.I bet the next advice would be>Work on your personalityBecause normies will NEVER admit it's over for men like me. So here's my advice, fellow incels: DON'T TRY.If you have to try, it's over.
>>31275334https://archive.4plebs.org/adv/thread/31186498/#31186520
>>31275368>zoomers lmaoWhich part of >31M didn't you get? Also what other option really do I have... To try and talk to a girl IRL is impossible.First, because they don't go out, Everywhere I go, I only see couples, families with kids, old people and lonely men on their own.They also don't go out to meet men like me, they go out to meet with their groups of friends and do stuff with them. At least where I live.If I would be approaching women asking them if they want to be my gf, I would get obliterated, make everyone feel cringy and achieve nothing.Women ONLY find boyfriends online nowadays. If you can't succeed there, you can't do it anywhere, 2/3 of 18-29 single men is telling.IF, IIIIIIF! a woman would be giving me major signals while I was doing WHATEVER, then yes, sure, it may work. But I never go that.
>>31275417>>31275368Also, to add to that, I will say that women give me no SOIs, on the contrary. They look away when I try to make eye contact with them IRL, they go around me, if I say HI to them, they speed up, etc.
>women online lose interest/find better options after talking to meIm backtracking, you claim to have done well until reaching this point and it may be good to look into this.
>>31275469WDYM? Okay I can look int othis: My autism and looks are enough to be of low value. EOT.
I have a crush on my gfs older Chinese aunt.She's married to another Asian man, and he's absent from most of her days as they sorta of live separately. They have no kids.Anyway, I met her for the first time last weekend on Mother's day when we were dropping off a gift for her. She looked directly to me and asked if we wanted to have a visit inside. Her husband wasn't home.That evening, she texted my gf telling her to tell me thank you for the visit. Maybe she feels it too.How do I approach this without ruining everyone's lives? I think about her every day, and have been losing hours of sleep from this the past 3 days alone. Do older, mature Chinese women like to be romantically charmed? What are some plausible deniability type of excuses for me to see her again. I only have her address, no number.
>>31273808>How do I approach this without ruining everyone's lives?By not approaching it at all for a start. You may as well have asked>How do I approach this landmine without blowing my legs off?By not approaching it to begin with ffs
>>31274552good analogy
>>31273915>>31274552it's a shame you, my moral advisors, are recommending this course of inaction. I know her and I could have so much fun together. And I thought it would've given her horny shivers every time she thought about going forward, especially cus she probably wont be around in 20-30 years.
You're not a main character and your life isn't an episode of School Days.Realistically the only way this might work would be if the aunt knew for a fact you wanted to fuck her. Then, maybe if she has a bad fight with her husband, she might consider a hookup.
Motherfucker you already have a GF, save some pussy for us
Is it weird that as a 32 year old virgin I still expect my first girlfriend to be in her mid 20s at least? I don't want a past her prime traumatized used up woman with baggage.
>>31274796Not at all. I'm a mate selection realist. Unfortunately feelings get hurt when men and women are coldly honest about what we prefer.
>>31274092Then you are not gonna make it.
>>31273187Expectations are fine but what are you doing to get these 20s girls anon? 30 and 20 pairings are not uncommon and being a virgin is nothing to be ashamed of but they ain’t gonna drop in your lap.
I've known guys in their 30s that get young virgins but they were all normalfags that lost their virginity at 14.
>>31273187It's not weird and perfectly reasonable.
