>>31107038
pic is the worst trolling He did on the world

>>31107099
>pic is the worst trolling He did on the world
He got Adam a waifu, which is more than this board ever did.

Why would I want to ask a woman anything
This thread is pointless and should be deleted

I found an online community of guys that literally just go around to grocery / department stores / coffee shops / bars and approach random women they find attractive.
While the general consensus here is that it’s probably creepy, these guys will screen shot the texts after they’ve got the girls number and a lot of them will say something like “that was actually really brave,” or “that felt like something out of a movie and a guy has never just approached me like that before,”
And they’ll actually go on dates.
Granted the guys get rejected a lot too.

What are your thoughts on this? Not all of these guys are that good looking

>>31107700
That seems like a lot more work than making friends but then again maybe those guys have already tried and failed to develop a social circle to do things the normal way.

>>31107038
How do women cope with the fact that they will never compare to Sarah Gadon?

>>31107700
It's going to work a small fraction of the time, but I've never met a woman who dated a man who randomly approached her. And I know dozens of women.

>>31107742
Doesnt she have a cute kid these days...

Question for women,

would it bother you if a guy didn't like penetrative sex? I love cuddling, giving oral, using my hands, but actual sex puts me off. I don't know why.

>>31107780
yes

>>31107722
>>31107751
I am 28 and making friends is getting increasingly difficult.
I’ve talked to a lot of women who say they don’t know where to go to meet men, that men never approach them and that they don’t meet men by being out with their friend groups.
Many of them say they wish more men approached them

>>31107780
Yeah.

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Why does anger have such a bad reputation? It's not a problem to overcome. It feels good to vent your lifetime of accumulated pain by attacking others like a rabid dog. It's also the least vulnerable emotion and far less painful than many other 'good' emotions. Loving and trusting others? Scary. Optimism? Bad. Warm and secure moods? Unsafe. Violent hatred? Fun, therapeutic, and safe. Remember to bathe in anger and hatred and never stop.

>>31107791
I would prefer that the men approaching me be friends or acquaintances of people I know though.

>>31107799
how am I supposed to know if you are a man or a woman? Are you on the correct thread

>>31107800
That’s fair
It’s just been really difficult making friends and idk what else to do.
Seems like most people my age aren’t really looking to make new friends and I feel like it might be worth it to try approaching.

>>31107407
and he cursed all his offspring to deal with w*men forever

>>31107791
It's not something I see at all. Even my friends who are 30+ and single don't date men who randomly approach them on the street, literally have never seen it happen even once. At most I've had friends date guys who approached us at events and shit, but even then the percentage of girls who agreed was fairly low (think 2-3% of the approaches worked).

>>31107799
Yeah, this was meant for ATOGA.

>>31107038
What would you do if you were me?

I was hired into a paralegal position a few months ago at a pay rate higher than that which I had been offered by law firms for lawyer roles. I took this job because of the pay and because in the interview I was told that if any of the lawyers left, I'd get their position, along with a salary bump. Now I am three months into the role, a lawyer has left, and I have been told that the position is going on the market, and if someone else leaves I will be considered.

>>31107815
So what would you recommend? Cause making new friends isn’t working and I’m not going to just give up on meeting women

>>31107828
Should have gotten that in writing. Who knows how long it's going to be before you'll be able to find out if they were bullshitting you.

>>31107830
>So what would you recommend?
Dating apps, hobbies, church organizations, volunteering, work, social media, social events seem to work fine. If you want to cold approach rando women on the street it's fine but I don't think it works very well, especially if you're looking for someone more serious.

>>31107840
Should I take a lawyer role at another firm for less pay but the title of lawyer or put in minimal effort here and enjoy the better salary?

>>31107844
Well what do you think is more useful for you in the long run? Having the title sooner, or having more money?

>>31107849
I honestly have no clue. I'd have to take a ten or even twenty thousand dollar pay cut if I left, and likely have to work a lot more hours, but if I stay I am capping my earning potential. As a paralegal my peak might be 100k but even if I hit that, I'll have to start at 50k - 65k if i move firms and become a lawyer. The peak earnings as a lawyer could be millions after ten or twenty years.

>>31107841
Yeah idk
The one dude I talk to gets a lot of dates.
He has shown me a lot of texts to and some of these women seem kind of obsessed with him and the idea that he was brave enough to just go and talk to them.

I just don’t know what to try.
There is a social media page that organizes a monthly singles event in my city but you have to pay to get in

>>31107861
So I guess a better question is how long are you willing to wait to become a lawyer? At what point would you say fuck it and take an even worse deal if it turns out they were lying and you'll never move up?

thread is here

>>31107025
>>31107025
>>31107025

>>31107880
>lust provoking image
rejected

How many women are actually dominant, even to the degree that an average guy might be?

>>31107799
https://www.youtube.com/shorts/nFHOAlJowmk

>>31107911
>How many women are actually dominant
gooner detected

>>31107932
Well what are my fucking options?

>go out on date with girl from class
>hit it off, end up making out and cuddling
>she goes cold a week later and ends up ghosting me without specifying where we're at
>we pretend to be strangers for the next couple weeks then don't see each other due to month long easter break
class starts again next week, should I say something to her to try and get some closure or clarification?
like she ghosted but I'll also see her staring at me out the corner of my eye and she puts herself near to me when she doesn't need to so idk what she's feeling
I'm moving away forever in a month though so probably not worth it tbqh

>>31107969
restore your brain to be normal again

>>31107997
I've been this way possibly forever.
It's possibly genetic.

>>31108006
I can understand that porn has ruined your brain greatly, and you might think theres no going back
but you can do it

>>31107828
paralegal here. sometimes they list the job publicly but reserve it for someone in-house. I mean you’re a paralegal that wants to be a lawyer, how did you not get this in your contract?

Merry human containment day anons. Have you thanked Earth Chan today?

>>31107774
Sarah Gadon does have a cute kid.

How do I stop hating myself and feeling inferior to most people when I am more accomplished than most?

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First here is the site https://github.com/SoftwareVerde/pos-cash

I have an electrum wallet. I am trying to use it as a receiver of online payments, and I found this open source that seems easier to understand and set up than this https://docs.btcpayserver.org/Guide/

However when I enter an address at the pos.cash link in the readme it says it is invalid. I took an address from the receiving in my wallet. I don't have anything in the wallet as of yet. am I missing something? Why am I too dumb to figure this out?

It seems my merchant account has been otherwise created but obviously without an address I can't really receive anything. ALSO do wallets usually have a bunch of addresses and they are all the same? Can I use more than one? Does this create QR codes? Does this work for mobile?

Crypto nerds please get in here

>Technology board will not let me post a thread, captcha is fucked up

>>31108114
Stop comparing yourself to others, be confident that you are already the best and the only concern you have is yourself and your happiness.
>>31107978
Here are possibilities that no one can confirm for you
>she heard a rumor or got the ick
>you did or said something to take her think you aren't interested so she lost confidence/feels rejected
>she wants more and thinks you don't
>she wants casual and thinks you want more
>she was cheating and feels guilty
>she just had a breakup and isn't ready
>she has a penis

You sound young so honestly most of young relationships don't work out and it's not worth the stress of trying to figure out somebody who won't talk to you. You may not have even done anything, so don't sweat it.

>>31108187
thanks for being so kind anon
We're both autistic art school people so we're both highly predisposed to turbulent relationships that don't work out, I know it's not anything personal but she was the first girl that made me feel *anything* following a 6 month dryspell after the last girl I was with left me for a guy she met on holiday
That second time we hung out where she was acting distant, I was going through a REALLY intense anxiety episode for semi-unrelated reasons and was pretty on edge and I feel like shit because I think that gave her the ick, if my head wasn't fucked and I could actually think straight she might still like me ffs
But at the same time she has a history of short lived relationships and said I was her 3rd kiss since the start of the new year so maybe not
god I hate having anxious attachment lol

the guy I'm seeing doesn't want to share his past. I asked him if he every truly loved someone, he only brushed me off with
>my mother and my dog
when I asked about his previous partners, he only said
>they weren't worth it
do you think he's hiding something? He really does not want to open up about his exes

>>31108211
How does one find art school girls in the wild?

>>31108414
>he only brushed me off with
>>my mother and my dog
thats sounds like a regular answer to me, whats the big deal, what is it that you find strange

>>31107897
Unfathomably based.

>>31108473
Big city art museums that have art schools attached to them.

>>31108414
It sounds like he doesn't think he truly loved them.

I think he's trying to convey to you that his exes don't mean anything to him anymore.

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State gender
Who is the best rapper of all time?

Went out for a date with girl.
It was alright, she seemed a bit tense at moments so I backed off and let her feel Im "safe".
We say byes and she writes "thanks for today, I was a bit nervous but you helped me have fun".
I reply "Im glad" to which she puts a cute reaction.

Next day I ask her out for next weekend "lets go to xy park and see xy". I can take things slow, altho shes mad hot to me, I dont wanna have one night stands with girls who are hot, it would wreck me. I take it slow since I wanna see them more time.
I sent the message early around 12h. She saw it around 16h. "read"
I thought it was "okay, anotha one!" lol, as the flaking and ghosting runs in the xx family.
(Of course, I use humor to dilute the fact I thought about killing myself since even tho people think I have it easy, I had tough history with women and still trying to break not even, but at least find someone I like who likes me too and wont shit me for days.)

Anyhow, she replies at 22h "Thats nice, Im interested in xy park". Already it smells like shit here.
I mean, why not say "Sure, lets check it out!". Or "yeah!"
I replied next day (today) since all the "cool people dont reply immediately meme" is valid imo.
At 11h I sent her "Great, lets do xy day afternoon, weather should be nice, HH (time)?"

She hasnt seen it or replied and its now 23h.


Will someone translate it to normal human communication? What I did wrong is probably something on date, or we plainly were not compatible.
I just dont understand why women have to keep replying and slowly rejecting... Just block me.

Please for the love of God just block me asap if you dont feel it. Dont drag it on.

what are some goos places to meet women who are like 24 to 30 age range, every where I go I swear its all just 18 year olds or just old people all over the place I just want someone whos around my age thats more in the same mind set as me

>>31108692
>I take it slow since I wanna see them more time.
This is a mistake in 2024. Modern foids think you don't find them attractive if you take it slow.

>>31107700
>What are your thoughts on this?
I love going shopping for bitches

>>31108712
I know, my frens tell it to me.

But thats so weird. It makes no sense.

If I keep aksing her out it means Im into her. Plus, when I looked at her with "Im thinking about kissing" she backed off lol, so how can I push it when basic shit is not there.

>>31108712
He went on a single date.
If she thought he wasn’t interested because he didn’t already push for sex, she’s a whore and he dodged a bullet.

>>31108675
F
Ben Shapiro

>>31107038
How do I tell my mom that I'm a monarchist?

>>31108675
>>31108675
Theres no point asking the people here, they are boring as hell and will skip questions like this in favor of endless oversharing and relationshit discussion

>>31108675
M
biggie

>>31108692
>I replied next day (today) since all the "cool people dont reply immediately meme" is valid imo.
Right idea, but you did it at the wrong time
>Next day I ask her out for next weekend "lets go to xy park and see xy"
This is where you should have waited a day or two to text her

Rap isn’t music, and those who like it should have poo thrown at them

>>31107780
it wouldn't bother me at all anon. i don't like it either.
>>31107700
i tell guys the same thing when im cold approached lol. a guy facing his nerves to reach out to me in-person feels very very flattering because i understand the social anxiety to a degree.

>>31108724
>If I keep aksing her out it means Im into her.
You're using logic on a female. To the female mind, she thinks you don't find her hot and she already moved on from you, no matter how many times you ax her out. One mistake/her mood gets altered and she will discard you in 2024.

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>>31108794
>Rap isn’t music, and those who like it should have poo thrown at them

>>31108745
>How do I tell my mom that I'm a monarchist?
Of course I'm a monarchist, I'm a king and I believe in myself

>>31108804
theres no point arguing with the people here either, they are endgame losers of 4chan that have nothing to say, nothing to offer. just let them be

Women, do you have rape fantasies? Can you describe them, preferably in detail?

Girlfriend playfully slapped me in the face a couple times while drinking with some friends. We were both pretty drunk. Going to bed that night I calmly told her that we were done if that happened again and slept in a separate room. Next morning/day she was clearly upset and distant. Was this an appropriate way to handle the situation?

>>31107791
Nothing wrong with approaching women but you should only do it when they invite you to. She'll signal to approach ( eyes, movement, general vibe). Cold approach can work but the success rate is miniscule unless you're tall and handsome. Even then it's less than 50/50

>>31108794
But it is art, so chill

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>>31108675
M
1.Hersheys kisses
2.Burger King Wopper
3.Slick Rick
4.Literally any Chochlate Easter Bunny
5.Klondike Bar

>>31108811
>Women, do you have rape fantasies? Can you describe them, preferably in detail?
I have fantasies about being a vigilante, being a neet that's well off, having a loving husband/companion and being a housewife/partime worker, lots of fantasies

>>31108799
it does feel like it. I dont think I made a mistake, I need time too to allow myself to be sexual with someone.

>>31108793
so if she answered at 22h when shouldve I replied?

>>31108735
Yeah, probably so. Sad thing is it took hundreds of approaches for one date (one before flaked) so Im not inlove or anything, I just dont wanna go out on the streets again and do hundreds of approaches for one date. Its so hard.

I legit think about suicide but for now Im surviving.

I dont even think I seek love or some phantasmic special feel. Just a woman I like who likes me too, we are loyal to eachother and have lots of sex and fun times.

I have money and I bought all the toys I wanted it was empty without sharing it.

Who wants to travel if you only sit and watch couples hold hands and joke while you sit or walk alone and take pics alone. SOmetimes maybe ask one of said couples to snap a forced smile of you somewhere where the only memory will be you went there alone.

Yes, Im lonely and horny.

>>31108844
>so if she answered at 22h when shouldve I replied?
Oh, I didn't see what time she texted you, yeah, next day was fine, I just meant you shouldn't have hit her up for another date the next day after your first one

>>31108858
I guess. So leave one day off next time.

Do you know why we shouldnt do that?
Comes of needy?

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136 matches on hinge in 4 weeks.
But none of them are her

>>31108870
I know man.
Next life I wanna be an average woman.

But with my luck in those things, Id be born in 2095 when women are treated as inferior beings replaced by AI and virtual wombs and men mix their genes artificially living in small tribe like like minded communities where peace and order is priority, alongside honesty and respect.

>>31108881
>But with my luck in those things, Id be born in 2095 when women are treated as inferior beings replaced by AI and virtual wombs and men mix their genes artificially living in small tribe like like minded communities where peace and order is priority, alongside honesty and respect.
Kek, we really got the worst timeline as men. We got the peak of female hypergamy.

>>31108881
I've been on a 'date' with a different girl every Friday. Shagged one of them. My ex was a terrible gf (not a terrible person), dreadful mental health issues and we both had to bow out. I miss her so much.
Sigh

>>31108881
> men mix their genes artificially living in small tribe
Incels showing barely-repressed faggotry yet again

>>31108869
>So leave one day off next time.
Or just wait until closer to the day you want to meet, so there's less time between making plans and going out
>Comes of needy?
It's a bit too eager, like she's the only thing in your life and you're afraid she'll get away if you don't make plans with her before she loses interest in you

>>31108898
>Kek, we really got the worst timeline as men. We got the peak of female hypergamy.

"Alive, but at what cost" timeline

ah..

>>31107700
It's cringe

>>31108908
>It's a bit too eager, like she's the only thing in your life and you're afraid she'll get away if you don't make plans with her before she loses interest in you.

I think so too. The thing is I live in big city and women get bombed with attention. Its not unusual to lose the "thread" unless you set up date immediately.
Thats what more experienced lads tell me.

But logically I agree with ur view. Its my first date in long time so Im hyper invested.

>>31108923
If you're worried about forgetting, my phone has a text scheduler which will send it automatically [nta]

>>31108903
>a terrible gf (not a terrible person),
Details? What advice would you give to a girl who was trying to avoid becoming this?

>>31108932
thats a cool phone.

which one?

>>31108813
Yeah that was fine. She might pout or say you overreacted because she feels ashamed. It's hard for a woman to admit that it's wrong to hit your bf after constantly being told "if he lays a single hand on you then he's a monster and you should leave him immediately, no second chances!" So the worst case is that she makes the leap of "you telling me not to hit you means you're calling me a MONSTER and HOW DARE YOU"

I figure that if she gives you any push back you can just shrug and say, "Well, it's not going to be a problem since I trust you not gonna do it again."

Why is she cold to me? She speaks fine with others and has no issue initiating talking with them. When we talk, after i initiate as she never initiates with me, we're laughing and having fun, and she seems really into it too as she expands the conversation and then, next day she's completely cold. When we meet outside coincidentally, she ignores me or just briefly greets, especially if she's with her friends/family.

I take she doesn't really like my presence.

>>31108940
Just an android. My last phone's UI has it pop up if I hold down on the send button. Currently it's under a second setting menu that's a + button. But that's not the picture attachment button, weirdly enough. Try clicking around and seeing if you have it hidden somewhere.

Where do I find a non-junkie girl? It seems that every girl now is literally taking crazy pills. Whether it's antidepressants, or birth control, they're all turning themselves into basket cases and are dependent on their therapists (pushers) and I just don't want to deal with that. I want to be with a normal girl.

>>31108969
iphone here, but I will go back to Android, shits too limited.

thanks anon.

>>31107700
Interesting

>>31108964
Just ask her out and see

Girls, rate my new pickup line:
Wow you are so pretty I low key be trynna join the sex offender registry rn

>>31108938
She was horrifically depressed, and is failing college with a few months to go. She did not have a troubled childhood, and grew up in a wealthy environment, however her parents had a strange relationship and never really told each other they love each other etc. I was her first bf at 23, but she had hooked up with a lot of people before me (same for me, not judging but just saying she didn't have healthy or lasting relationships with men), she was very insecure about her situation and always miserable. I can't give you advice, because only you can change that. While she was physically affectionate and sweet, she could never tell me she loved me. I loved her and wanted us to be a happy, romantic couple. She couldn't give that to me.

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>>31109022

>>31107038
If a girl ends her messages in :3 a lot, does it mean she is into me?

>>31109031
It means she has a penis.

>>31109028
What does this mean?

>>31109037
its my reaction to your opener.

dont try to be interesting or shocking.

Be boring normal dude. Boring normal dudes have girls.

Always ask yourself "what would a normal horny dude do?" then do that.

>>31109031
It means nothing by itself.
Some girls have "cutesy" persona and do shit like that all the time.

Context matters more.

>>31109031
It means she is underage

>>31109042
>what would a normal horny dude do
I can't I'm not normal

>>31109008
You might still have the option in there. But yeah iphones are a pain. If you decide to get an android, I recommend GSMArena.com to look through options. I usually get an unlocked one from ebay.

>>31109031
She's a weeaboo or a furry. Or both.

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which one foids?

>>31109025
That's rough. I can see some commonalities I have with her, with the uni thing and depression and general lack of ambition. But at least I have the affection going for me I guess.

>>31109105
Who is the woman?

>>31109118
thats bjorn andersen
who is a guy

>>31108710
Grad school?

>>31108813
How come her actions while drunk matter, but yours don’t?

>>31108987
This view is not normal, hope that helps

>>31109022
It rhymes so it’s good
>>31109031
It means she’s into yaoi

>>31107780
Yes. I need dick if there's one available and attached to someone I love.

>>31109152
t. Addict

>>31108987
The only drugs I take are caffeine pills and (You)s.

>>31108473
art schools, art events run by galleries and organisations for young people, bars/pubs near art schools

>>31109167
Based JH.

>>31109115
I suppose I do have some advice, this goes for anyone:
Do not get into a relationship unless you're sure you can handle it, and want to be in it. You will cause so much anguish for the other person in it.
I'm happier outside the relationship - it made me utterly miserable. I never felt enough

>mid 20s male
>NEET at parents house
>live in a big city where its just yuppies and millennials, no people my age or anything relating to my interests
>barely any friends and basically invisible to women, sometimes I luck out on cold approach or meeting someone at a young people's event but it's the exception rather than the norm
planning to
>start making money through crypto trading
>start renting an apartment in a city where young people actually go outside and there are events related to my interests always happening
once I carry out the latter greentext how much more attractive will I become?
Slightly above average in terms of looks, charismatic and confident enough to get my foot in the door, mildly autistic but I like the aspie girls so its nbd

>>31109178
Are caffeine pills really that identifying at this point?

Continuing on the relationship books from last thread. I read one that listed top 5 needs in a husband and wife.

Are these right?

Challenge: If you value an item from the other list, which item would you swap it out with to make your top 5?

NEEDS FOR MEN:
>1) He can't do without sexual fulfillment.
>2) He can't do without companionship in recreational activities.
>3) He needs a good looking wife-- Physical Attractiveness.
>4) He needs peace and quiet-- Domestic Support.
>5) He needs her to be proud of him-- Admiration.

NEEDS FOR WOMEN:
>1) She can't do without affection.
>2) She can't do without intimate conversation.
>3) She needs to trust him totally-- Honesty and Openness.
>4) She needs enough money to live comfortably-- Financial Support.
>5) She needs him to be a good father-- Family Commitment.

This is from 'His Needs, Her Needs: Building an Affair-Proof Marriage' by H. F. Harley. If anyone wants more details on a list item, I could give more info from that chapter.

>>31109182
>but I like the aspie girls so its nbd
Having a type as a man is how you remain sexless.

I can't see myself having a life-long relationship with a woman, just short periords.
Can I be truly happy with that?
All the old people I know who have this kind of relationships end up alone and/or unhappy.

>>31109182
Having your own place makes dating 1000% easier. You’re going to love it

Guys:
What does it mean for a woman to respect you?

Can you give some anecdotal examples of a respectful action? Or a time when a woman was disrespectful and what she should have done differently?

(reposting from bump limit thread orz)

>>31109049
>Some girls have "cutesy" persona and do shit like that all the time.
This. :3, :3c, <3, (:, and basically any other "cute" emoticons (i.e., ones that you wouldn't have seen in general usage 20 years ago) are just signs that the girl is trying to be cute.

>>31109150
1. physical violence
2. his what actions? you can't just say he must have done something to deserve it

>>31109183
Nah, it's the use of (You)s as a drug plus not being on birth control.

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Things are not looking good for me, bros

>>31109182
>planning to start making money through crypto trading
this is fully retarded, the rest are good ideas

>>31108813
By “playfully” do you mean it didn’t really hurt? Is this more about feeling demeaned? Either way, I think your reaction should have focused more on her getting that drunk in the first place, but you were right to address it.

>>31109183
I’m 32 years old and never heard of caffeine pills outside this thread, it’s quite unique

>>31109209
Birth control is stupid when condom + having the guy pull out works perfectly. Also (You)s are everyone's drug ITT.

>>31108813
the other anon is right, she might be pretending to be upset to avoid the shame.

>>31109219
If you need your fix of caffeine but had to cut out soda for health reasons and coffee to keep your teeth from being stained, they're necessary. I figured they'd be more popular.

>>31109189
F, the female ones seem accurate to me. 1 and 2 are kinda the same thing, aren’t they?

>>31109227
Why not just drink diet soda? Or are you worried about aspartame and microplastics accumulating in your body?

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Does /atoga/ have a case of the Mondays?

>>31109235
A very bad one only JH can fix

>>31109189
Female. I make enough money to support myself already, so I’ll trade that for Admiration. I want my husband to be proud of me too, not just keep me around as arm candy.

Black girls, thoughts on white boys who want to be owned by you?

>>31109235
No, I'm NEET.

>>31109230
Sugar substitutes are scary and the taste makes them addictive even moreso than pills. I used to drink so many energy drinks, then I got talked out of them by an ex, and now I'm afraid of going back to them.

>>31109227
I take caffeine pills too because you can just wake up and take them and they start working while you're hitting snooze on your alarm

>>31109235
Do I look like Garfield to you?

>>31109235
My Monday has been fine so far.
>>31109241
I don't have lasagna, though.
>>31109243
Does mixed count as black today?

>>31109189
M
Only need 3 and 4

Why do I find casual female nudity so hot?

>>31109243
Raceplay is boring, I’m more than just my skin, I’ve got a great set of DSLs too.

>>31109251
I dont want lasagna, im already making pasta as I type this.
Need that bratty attitude

>>31109198
In addition to some of the replies from the last thread, I'd say there should be a certain amount of deference to me. "I'm your bf/husband and I asked you to" should be as much justification as is needed in most cases.

>>31109248
If I sleep too soon after taking a caffeine pill, it fucks with my body. It's awful. So I make sure my last one is before five.

>>31109246
It really is addictive, I had Diet Coke for the first time this year and now I’m constantly drinking it. But hey, zero calories!

>>31109255
Post lips

>>31109198
Idk treat me like a human being
Realize I'm doing my best and that I have feelings
Whether you're saying no to me asking you out or getting mad over some laundry mistake

>>31109254
Because naked people you find attractive are nice to look at? Duh?
>>31109256
Now I'm going to be extremely amicable for the rest of the thread.

>>31109264
I have multiple times already.

>>31109263
Your body is having a field day figuring out how to handle the not-sugar, I bet.

>>31109228
Thanks for your response!

I'd say that there's overlap, but definitely some affection doesn't involve intimate conversation, and intimate conversation isn't necessarily focused around being affectionate.

Affection can definitely mean sweet words, but it's also hugs and small touches, doing things for each other, getting excited about new experiences together, that sort of thing.

Intimate conversation, as the chapter describes it, emphasizes one-on-one conversation that doesn't necessarily have to be that deep. It's more about doing it together and giving each other their full attention. It refers about marriages where the home is dead silence. No conversation or chit-chat at all. The author gives a piece of stereotypical evidence for this is how men will finish up a phone call with a male friend and the woman will say, "Isn't his wife giving birth around now? Did it happen? How is she and the baby?" and the guy will say it didn't come up. Their type of conversation was different than what women tend to have.

Sugar is good for you.

>>31109268
>Now I'm going to be extremely amicable for the rest of the thread.
Fuck man, i was counting on you woman. But wouldnt doing the opposite still be kinda bratty? Like out of spite

>>31109274
Oh that’s a great example. I do want my guy’s curiosity to be solely focused on me.

>>31109268
>Because naked people you find attractive are nice to look at? Duh?
that answer would be fine if my question was "why do I love naked women" or something

>>31109278
Perhaps. Either way, I hope your pasta comes out well.

>>31109255
What are DSLs?

>>31109278
Schrodinger’s Brat

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I want to live a real life.
I don't want to dream any longer.

>>31109286
It's a type of internet connection.

>>31109242
Thanks for following the swap challenge lol. I was worried people would say, "it's normal to want all these things!" What do you visualize for your husband giving you admiration?

>>31109252
Pretty wife but no sex?

>>31109283
Peak brown girl performance right here

>>31109271
I hope it’s not making my pre-diabetes worse.

>>31109282
Maybe you're voyeuristic but don't want to enjoy it at the expense of a woman's privacy, so the casual nature of the nudity would imply an acceptable degree of awareness and consent?

>>31109290
>Pretty wife but no sex?
Ive had sex a handful of times in almost 30 years of life. Honestly if I made it this far with basically none of it, I can make it to the end

>>31109293
you need to cut out polyunsaturated fats ASAP and eat fruit

>>31109289
?

Follow up to this >>31109189 >>31109189 >>31109189


Ladies and gentleman:

What do you think of the opposite sex's list of expectations for you? Do you think they're reasonable and you can give them?

>>31109290
I want him to brag about me to his friends, more than about my body. I want to be valued as a person.
I’ve been called a genius maybe twice in my life… it would be great to hear it a third time from my husband :’)

>>31109292
Race has nothing to do with this, anon.
>>31109293
I think it would still stimulate insulin production, but I have no idea honestly. Talk to your doctor about it when you can. You really don't want to be a straight up diabetic, it seems awful.

>>31109189
Female, yes the ones for women seem right to me. From the men's list I'd take sexual fulfillment, and I'd swap it for financial support only because I have enough of my own to live on.

And thanks for the book recommendation anon, I've made a note of the title

>>31109189
M
I've never been in a relationship so I have no idea about what I would need
But
>He can't do without companionship in recreational activities.
I actually can
In fact it might be an issue

>>31109297
I can replace all my salty snacks with apples right now, I’ll do that.

>>31109305
Yeah, both my parents are diabetic, and I really don’t want to be like them. I kind of resent them for raising me on food that promotes diabetes, but that’s a topic for therapy.

>>31109305
I know its not a race thing, but its what sets you apart innit

>>31109189
Male.
I think I'd rather have affection than admiration.

State gender
Do you ever think to yourself on your way to the store
>i am such a storepilled foodcel
>i am goin full grocery mode
>on my producecore vibe arch
>total buymaxxing behavior
?

>>31109302
M
The women's one seems fair I guess
I hope she would just be assertive and tell me because I'm not good at reading people and would be dumb

>>31109286
Dick Sucking Lips

>>31107038
>tfw I'm fairly certain my current crush is at least 10 years older than me
In spite of this, she still seems qt and has a great thicc body. Should I still pursue a relationship, or abort before any damage is done?

>>31109286
Daddy-sexual Lesbians

>>31109311
>but that’s a topic for therapy
This thread is good for venting, at least.

>>31109313
Not really. Lots of us ITT.
>>31109317
F. I feel so out of touch with the internet if this is humor now.

>>31109320
Oh haha I just want to be black owned tho

>>31109321
Go for it anon

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>>31109321
Np

>>31109335
What does that even mean?

>>31109333
Doubt theres that many brown bratty girls itt to be honest with you

>>31109189
Male. Also want affection more than admiration.
I need to be able to trust her more than a companion in recreation. Need her to be a good mother more than peace and quiet.

>>31109333
You are such an obsoletepilled humorcelled oldhag.

>>31109342
Brown girls don't equal being black, stop it.

>>31109338
These memes exist, yet I got made fun of for dating a guy barely 10 years younger. Not fair.
>>31109342
There's at least one.
>>31109346
My feelings.

>>31109333
>There's a bunch of qt brown girls itt
H-hi

>>31109257
Thanks for the follow up! That's a good one since it's more about a thing I can do rather than simply avoiding being a terrible human being lol. I do try to do this, but sometimes I think my questions to understand could sound like resistance and questioning his judgement (I'm kind of autismo so I get a bit hung up on knowing All The Details even if I'm already set on doing the thing)

>>31109265
Being graceful and forgiving of the little things is definitely important. I'll make sure not to lose sight of that. I've definitely heard of relationships that weaken simply for resentments over petty things and nagging.

>>31109346
You're a retarded zoomer. Get with the times dimwit

>>31109338
What would these two people have in common besides sex?

>>31109340
I just want a black gf who is dom

I just bought a pint of milk, it was sour, expired on the 20th. Women how could you do this to me.

>>31109336
>>31109338
What if I'm almost 30? I worry we may fall in love and then be unable to procreate or accidentally make CWC babbies

>>31109348
im pale as snow man
brown, black, tan idgaf. I have a fever for brown girls and if they're bratty its even better
>>31109349
yeah, JH

>>31109356
That is all men and women have in common anyways.

>>31109361
One OTHER one.

>>31109354
I am actually a boomer.

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>>31109369
but will the other one practice voodoo with me?

>>31109356
Attraction to each other? What else do you need. "Oh noes he won't get my quirky 80s tv show references ;_;"

>>31109372
>back to the voodoo
Fuck amicability. Fuck you, I'm making crepes.

>>31109373
Nostalgia trivia is all i have to offer.

>>31109374
Is that a secret voodoo practice?

>>31109378
Yes. The French are known for their zombie raising.

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>>31109374
>crepes and voodoo
hell yeah, what are you putting in yours
lemon juice with powdered sugar is fucking mint

>>31109381
True, they are all basically zombies.

>>31109382
I made fruit salad. Going to whip some cream with it.

>>31109281
I'm happy to clarify :)

>>31109296
Fair enough!

>>31109303
That's really sweet. I like that.

>>31109307
That makes sense. It seems to me that there's a lot of variation in women's sexuality vs men.

>>31109310
That one did surprise me. The example the book gave did make some sense in that it was more about deception. The woman pretended to like baseball games just to get close to him, but then stopped going once they were committed, belittled the sport, and pressured him to stop going. What would you say about adjusting that to being supportive and encouraging of your hobbies? What do you think of having separate activities that you two do together?

>>31109314
Affection is one that I really feel strongly about too. I think admiration can play into it, but I personally would want all of it.

>>31109319
Some people sure are bad at describing their needs! I think sometimes they think it's common sense or that men and women want the same things.

>>31109345
Thanks for the swaps. Can you tell me a bit about what trust means to you? That chapter emphasizes opening up and sharing thoughts/feelings/decisions. This is one I can see my bf moving to his list. I have a tendency to get a bit withdrawn. Is that in line with what you're looking for or do you mean more along the lines of fidelity?

>>31109388
dust some coconut flakes over it

>>31109382
>>31109388
>lemon juice with powdered sugar is fucking mint
I think literal mint is great too! In both the crepes and the fruit salad

>>31109317
I get supply-chain-pilled hard when I really think about it.
Grim.

>>31109392
I wish I had some.

Women, what is life like on Little Girl Mode?

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>>31109402
show crepes when you're done. im a sucker for cooking

>>31109351
Hi

>>31109360
The chance is like 0.00001%, don’t base your future on miniscule probabilities

>>31109396
I grow mint but feel it's too intrusive to add to most things.
>>31109409
No promises. I don't want to get in trouble.

>>31109294
no no you're onto something here, I would add a degree of comfort and trust as well.
I guess I want to be a voyeur but not actually be a creep or an interloper in the private 'female world' so to speak.

>>31109404
From what I remember, I had cute clothes and worried less about men.

>>31109404
I had mochi for dessert so it is going great.

>>31109415
>I don't want to get in trouble.
what did she mean by this

>>31109415
>I grow mint but feel it's too intrusive to add to most things.
Maybe you're just traumatized by the mint intruding on your other plants

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>>31109338
God that silhouette is so graceful, dignified and MILFY
Something about the highlighted area in particular has a profound effect on my brain

>>31109404
My mom told me to cough near smokers to shame them and to bat my eyes at prospective girl scout cookie customers.

>>31109424
Confidence

>>31109338
I wish I wasn't a 25khhv and was smashing 30 year old women at that 29

>>31109420
I posted vocas the other day and got away with it, I don't want to test my luck with posting my food porn again.
>>31109421
At this point I've just accepted that the entire flowerbed is mint eventually.

>>31109390
The baseball thing is awful, like sociopathic levels

>>31109321
>>31109338
When I was 22 I crushed on a Chinese girl who was 40 but looked my age

Now I'm 30 and crushing on 35 year olds that look 25 and 18 year olds that look 25 because of fucking millennial/zoomer genetics

>>31109428
at 19**

>>31109429
what does food have to do with vocas?
just post the damn crepes girl, confidence and all that

>>31109373
Idk people 10 years younger than me seem like fucking idiots
What are we supposed to talk about after sex?

>>31109434
Zoomers all look like old people because of their looksmaxxing stress they have been exposed to since their teenage years.

>>31109425
>cough near smokers to shame them
Lmao I also used to do this as a kid

>>31109436
Most of my day bans have been because of vocas and food pics.

>>31109359
It's your fault for not paying attention to the expiration date. Go blame the store

>>31109411
I suppose you're right. I may also just be overreacting and seeing signs of age that aren't even that bad.

>>31109390
For me trust is basically not needing to put up defences against someone. So I don't need to be strategising ways to fend off potential attacks.
For that to be achieved, I suppose I need someone to not side with my enemies/adversaries (not the same as trying to understand them), and I need someone to be able to hear honesty. So I could say something unflattering (to me) without them using it to damage me. Another tell for trust is if I put myself in a position where someone could fuck me over and they reflexively don't. Another would be if something is important to them and they chose me over it. Not that I would manufacture either situation. But those are the ones that count. If someone trivially fucks me over as a reflex, or puts me second to trivia, it lets me know what I'm worth to them and I go from trusting them to trusting them to be them.

>>31109220
>Birth control is stupid when condom + having the guy pull out works perfectly.
This good sense is part of why I love you so much.
>Also (You)s are everyone's drug ITT.
It's the presence of both traits that does it.

>>31109443
oh fuck, was the cooking
that bad?

>>31109445
Adoption is always an option, too. If you love someone, you make it work.

>>31109439
it's that and they all fucking vape and I swear vaping is more intense on the body than regular smoking despite the "lower risk of lung cancer" because they're just fucking themselves up on nicotine without any pacing from the actual smoke. I wouldn't know though, I've never smoked a cigarette or anything before but that's my interpretation of it.

>>31109220
> when condom + having the guy pull out works perfectly
Horrible
stick to big female strap-ons, cumphobe

>>31109447
Love is a strong word, anon.
>>31109449
Fuck off, it was impeccable.
>>31109452
Strapons actually sucked the couple times I tried them. Felt hollow, like figuratively and literally.

>>31109451
I doubt it has anything to do with vaping. Plus they all have been using makeup like a makeup pro since age 13 thanks to yt and tt. Best we millennials could do was some lipgloss and eye liner we stole from the store.

>>31109455
>Fuck off, it was impeccable.
what did you make?

>>31109455
>Strapons actually sucked the couple times I tried them. Felt hollow, like figuratively and literally.
wtf what's the difference between them and a regular dildo?

>>31109390
>The woman pretended to like baseball games just to get close to him, but then stopped going once they were committed, belittled the sport, and pressured him to stop going.
Jesus that's fucking psychopath behavior there

>What would you say about adjusting that to being supportive and encouraging of your hobbies?
Well I mean just less antagonistic
I am a pretty big sports guy and my mom has always hated that
Constantly shitting on it
Obviously don't be like her

I do worry though that I would be too distant. Like if I want to go to a game I wouldn't want to bring my gf because I wouldn't want to worry about her entertainment, even though that's not really an issue.

>What do you think of having separate activities that you two do together?
That should be a goal

>>31109458
Pies, cookies, drinks. I've had my hand slapped for lots of stuff.
>>31109459
A dildo is a dildo and a strapon is attached to a harness that a woman is wearing while she fucks me with it? How is that a question?

>>31109456
Every day I thank God that I graduated school right before the iPhone was invented

>>31109467
What exactly felt hollow though?

>>31109468
I am grateful i had my hoe phase before phones had cameras.

>>31109467
Huh, I figured you’d be the one wearing it…

>>31109390
More re: trust,
I guess what I'm looking for is a person not to attack my sources of strength

>>31109469
The thrusts. Like sure I expected there to to be a lot less weight behind it when I was being fucked, but like the dildo just felt sort of pushed in and not necessarily as an extension of her during sex. Also the rhythm of the fucking was all wrong. Nothing like sex with a guy, not even close.

>>31109467
any more complex dishes or just pastry?
get that pasta going, or meats.

>>31109471
It's tiring and not physically satisfying. And she preferred to wear it anyways, so it was a win-win for us.

>>31109477
I don't think anything too complicated. Maybe some potstickers completely from scratch?

>>31109360
The fall off is gradual, you're not gonna wake up one day and find out 99.9% of your eggs are gone and the one that's left is going to create a horribly disfigured abomination
Don't get too stressed about it, you still have plenty of years left to continue the bloodline

Men, would you still bother with sex if you didn't have a penis?

Say you lost it in an accident

Women would you still want sex if you couldn't use your vagina? What would you do?

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>>31109424
>>31109338
I kinda wish I hadn't missed out on being taken advantage of by an older woman but my older brother was a cockblock "protecting" me.

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>>31109485
not like im having it as is

>>31109487
>Women would you still want sex if you couldn't use your vagina? What would you do?
Sure? What do you mean by that?

>>31109485
I'm not bothering having sex with a penis attached as it is

>>31109491
How would you have sex without a vagina?

>>31109482
girl is going to need to start learning recepies if she wants the ring

When women talk about needing foreplay, what exactly do they mean?

>>31109450
>>31109483
Thanks anons, this actually kind of reassured me. Now I can go back to worrying about whether or not she already has kids and whether she even likes me.

>>31109360
Like the other anon said, 4chan (and the internet in general) exaggerates te fuck out of it. Unless you're having your first kid at 40, the risk is pretty minimal.

>>31109485
It wouldn't be sex anymore, but if I had a gf and lost my pp and she still liked me enough to stick around after I'd probably still be willing to finger her and other shit to get her off. I like getting women off.

Women does penetration hurt?

>>31109489
what chinese cartoon is this from

>>31109498
nigga, do dirty talk, touch them all around, tease them, let them hump your leg.
just be fucking sensual

>>31109502
No

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>>31109487
Sure. My mouth and butt still work.
>>31109496
Bitch I know how to make lots of shit, I just haven't posted pics of any of it ITT.

>>31109504
Koukyuu no Karasu

I never watched it, I just liked the webm so I can't tell you if it's good or not.

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Women, one year without gaming? or one year without sex?

>>31109507
Gross

>>31109485
I’m satisfied with just kissing already

I support the LGB. T+ can fuck off.

total peggincel death

>>31109508
bitch how about you tell me about it then. what are you cooking. Im a pasta and grill type of guy, I dabble in soups sometimes

>>31109494
Your question doesn't make sense, please elaborate

>>31109487
The clitoris is separate and that’s the important part, so sure

>>31109511
No sex.

>>31109514
I only support LB(female) the rest can fuck off

>>31109511
Gaming. I could go for a year without Pokemon, I couldn't go a year without being eaten out.

>>31109507
Why do you need to be pegged? Just date another man. A tranny might be your dream date.

>>31109518
How would you have sex if your vagina disappeared?
>>31109519
What sex acts would you engage in with just a clitoris?
What if the clitoris head is gone too?

>>31109523
I'm not attracted to men.

>>31109517
Not cooking anything right now. I took the crepe shit out but didn't start.

>>31109498
Kissing, titty squeezing, anything but going straight for the puss

>>31109528
I meant in general, not right now. what are you good at

do peggingcels realize how embarrassing and clownish it is when they post the pictures they do here?

>>31109526
Never mind. No sex than. I heard having anal sex is nasty and very unhealthy.

>>31109511
I don’t need sex, but missing a year of WoW would ruin my life

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>>31109507
Based

>>31109533
Cringe

Does cunnilingus count as foreplay or not?

>>31109536
>subfag calling anyone else cringe

>>31109533
I thought it was sweet.

>>31109516
I had a female roommate who had fried her brain on gay porn (she used to typeset yaoi doujins) and wanted to peg me and it just got fucking annoying listening to her beg multiple times a week if I'd change my mind.

She had a very poor comprehension of male anatomy and thought that the prostate stimulation was something so pleasurable that if ever experienced would just make every guy change their mind about pegging and anal sex.

>>31109514
I swear the T only exists to make the LGB more socially acceptable by comparison

>>31109508
>Sure. My mouth and butt still work.
based, JH-sama, I kneel

>>31109532
I like to think I'm a little good with everything. I really can't write a comprehensive list without just typing everything out. I make all meats, seafood, pasta dishes, stews, potato dishes, pastries, etc. I've had to do a bit of everything for a long time because my dad gets bored and picky.

>>31109539
We're here, we're sub, get used to it or don't, you tell me?

>>31109507
It sounds good in theory but in reality it is very underwhelming.

>>31109539
Yes
If you're afraid of exploring yourself, you are cringe.
If you're afraid of allowing your partner to explore different parts of you, you are cringe.
If you're afraid of having fun with different power dynamics in bed, you are cringe.

>>31109540
Yeah but you're a fujo so nobody cares what you find sweet

>>31109529
>titty squeezing
Is that considered foreplay? I guess i assumed that would also be considered "main dish" kinda thing

>>31109538
It can.
>>31109543
Post the Vegeta.

>>31109526
I dunno, I get off just fine rubbing it between my fingers. And even without that, I still have my nipples.

>>31109548
When you say "exploring yourself" you mean dressing up in women's clothing, cuckolding yourself, and the only "exploring" you're doing is in your rectal cavity

>>31109505
Sounds nice except dirty talk

>>31109550
It does very little for me, but men love it, so I let them do it.

>>31109542
>I had a female roommate who had fried her brain on gay porn (she used to typeset yaoi doujins) and wanted to peg me and it just got fucking annoying listening to her beg multiple times a week if I'd change my mind.
This is like being in a desert while someone complains about bottled water

>>31109550
foreplay is anything you do before you stick your penis in her vagina

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>>31109544
>turns out JH is marriage material.

>>31109553
could you be happy with only nipple rubbing?

>>31109551
>Post the Vegeta
Nta but i thought you were asking him to post that gif of Piccolo fucking Vegeta in the ass lmao

>>31109549
I'm male, mate.

>>31109558
If it does nothing for you then what's the point?

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>>31109558
>It does very little for me
Say sike right now

>>31109563
>"marriage material" to moids is just cooking food and being willing to be fucked in the butt
You are so disheartening sometimes.

>>31109569
Thank you. This isn't from DBZ, but it still brings me so much joy. Fuck Vegeta, he's a tard.

>>31109542
>I had a female roommate...
How bad did she smell? Kek, of course the only women into pegging are fujo scum

>thought that the prostate stimulation was something so pleasurable...
This is what every tranny, faggot and subcel believes and they spread it around like a religion. They believe it so much that the think
>BUT WOMEN DON'T HAVE PROSTATES HOW CAN THEY ENJOY THAT??
embarrassing

>>31109572
I didnt say anything about buttfucking woman.
I just come to that conclussion due to mutual interests

>>31109575
based male-submission hater JH

>>31109572
And "marriage material" to women is making a bajillion dollars