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You will never raise your own daughter edition

Transitioning guide: https://www.reddit.com/r/asktransgender/comments/5xuoms/i_just_reached_5_years_of_hrt_mtf_here_is_my/
• What gender dysphoria is: https://www.reddit.com/r/asktransgender/comments/6505ch/psa_gender_dysphoria_doesnt_mean_what_many_of_you/
• How to come out: https://www.dropbox.com/s/mg3ciizwn5btbx2/10stepguideforALLgenderIdentitiesMFN-BtoCOMEOUTtoyourParents.pdf?dl=0
• Basic DIY hormones: https://1drv.ms/f/s!AudRJceTA5C9gQnyM7wxZcBGWRzW
• Makeup tutorials: http://masterposter.tumblr.com/post/116605714860
• Fashion tutorials: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLKRRdfgve6FVGKvESatjjE7BS5oF6SuF1
• Male vs Female measurement data: https://www.bwc.ohio.gov/downloads/blankpdf/ErgoAnthropometricData.pdf
• Correct hormone levels: http://www.hemingways.org/GIDinfo/hrt_ref.htm
• Checking your levels: http://www.privatemdlabs.com/lp/Female_Hormone_Testing.php
• Transition timelines: http://imgur.com/a/qWpxv
• Voice Training: https://www.reddit.com/r/asktransgender/comments/1ske7b/mtf_voice_training_regimen/
http://www.genderlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/04/voicebook020.pdf
• Voice Help: http://webjedi.net/projects/lgbtq/speech-therapy/

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>>9962652
old hair was cuter
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>>9962654
You like femboys too much
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lmao nice filename.
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>>9962645
Good night, Emmy!

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>be me mtf
>start hrt
>18 months later my whole life changes (:
>mainly i start bedwetting ):
>and spotting on my panties ):
>buy diapers ):
>want to go to bed, left diapers in car...
>...really dark and scary out, hear wolves.
>go out to car, get diaps, lock car door, shut car door
>turn around
>really cute neighbor yells boo!
>scream and jump
>she sees my bag of diaps
>"oh, im sorry! i didnt mean to!"
>her face has this look of... pity? or something?

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>>9962497
cup your nuts and push up on your taint a little bit. it will push that liquid out. do it after every pee. it's not a transition thing. but spiro can make u incontinent and everyone gets warned about it unless they self med.
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can't you wear pads? the overnight (usually orange) ones are longer and have more capacity
im not familiar with the intricacies of donger physiology sorry
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>>9962465
storytime
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>>9962526
are you a cis?!

the ends of pickles kind of don't stay put enough for a pad to be in the right place at the right time
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>>9962478
lol
I'm on 300mg spiro and I have to wait 30sec at least before peeing each time (which is super annoying tbhon.)

Do transgenders reinforce gender norms?
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>>9961401
That's actually kind of cute.
Yeah that does make sense. I guess i'm operating on the premise that gender roles can be harmful however you are completely correct that they must be upheld for transwomen to pass.
so to ask, for you, what it means to be a women is what ever a man would generally find desirable? like you said you wanted to look best for your man?
Thanks for your input as well, I guess the problem isn't with gender roles. Maybe it's something else.
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>>9961346
>before even knowing I was trans when I was young i would wear my moms clothes and makeup bc it felt right to me.
t. AGP
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>>9961529
Hmmm yeah it definitely is super complicated to think about. If I was solely going off of what a man would desire from me then I don't think I would have transitioned at all, I would just live as a gay man since many men desired me pre transition. But to me, the way they wanted me didn't feel right at all. For me a gay relationship feels like two feminine energies seeking the man in each other and I've never had an ounce of attraction towards that.

When I would see how a man looked at a woman, it was completely different. It felt like true masculine energy. If a man could ever look at me like that I would feel complete and authentic which is why I'm transitioning. Being on hormones also helps as it really accentuates all the parts of me that I identify with, testosterone just made me feel very disgusting and wrong.

I can tell how this shit is so confusing for anyone to understand, it's difficult to articulate for me even tho I'm trans!! I think gays and mtfs are actually very similar, you can especially see this through kids. It's very common for both to have wanted to play with girl toys, be more comfortable around female friends, etc. But I think what differs is what you're trying to define. It's whatever that thing in trans people's head that makes them believe that theyre wrong and meant to be women. It's gender dysphoria and I do believe that it is definitely a mental illness.
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>>9960418
>this whole post
literally the reason I ditched one of my projecting trans friends when I went full time, she constantly told me how women are supposed to stand on trains, that we aren't supposed to ever touch our hair that they don't do this they do that etc it's incredibly draining and the biggest reason feminists dislike us
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>>9961346
You've just proved the poster's point because you wear 'THIS makeup' and 'THESE clothes'. Plenty of girls don't wear make and dresses every day. Makeup isn't a symbol of 'inherent femininity', it's just doing a stereotypical thing girls are supposed to do. Women aren't birthed with an inherent interest in make-up, it's sold to them.

You're doing exactly what the poster talked about, which is 'acting like the stereotypical woman that was created by society'.

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Is this board just lesbians, gays and trannies? Where are the B in LGBT?

So how's your love life and things in general?
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>>9959910
Bi guy who is gay married to my gay husband and we're in the process of closing on our first gay house for the next step of our gay life, women are sexually attractive visually but no woman can do what a man can do physically. If I want to cum to a woman there's porn for that. If I want anything else there's my husband.
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>>9959128
howdy partner, where u from ?
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>>9959910
I think once they taste the dick and start getting used to getting pounded they can't really pull themselves away. They can break the spell if it's very early on in their gay adventures, otherwise, the transformation into a faggot will be complete.
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>>9959928
What's your bi fantasy? Man fucking you, while you fuck a girl, I'm guessing?
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>>9960060
you sound like my exact type and I'm the bigger more muscular guy you need. Can't wait to find a bi guy like you to fuck down

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Britfag here. Im wanting to transition fully to a female but I have no idea where to go or what to do for it, I went to the NHS back in february and i've heard shit all since.
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>>9933889
The fact they fund laser and electrolysis is criminal. Funny how there's no transwomen standing up for other women who are hairy due to hormonal imbalances who are told ot suck it up and wax/shave like every other women. I'm guessing this type of special treatment doesn't invoke any dysphoria though curiously.
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>>9960175
In usa electro is paid for to prevent hairs when using inverted penis srs. But insurance will pay only for that. Not your leg butts
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>>9960195
I full agree with the use to stop ingrown hairs in SRS since that's medically necessary, but facial? Nope. Women with hormonal imbalances that make them grow hair are told to suck it up and deal with it the old fashioned way.
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>>9960202
And im sure u treat those women and tranners the same, because u care for all humans, right?
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>>9959956
Don't tell them you want to boymode forever, just comply with changing your name, coming out of work, etc. They don't actually care about how you present for the most part. I have a friend who is literally doomed to boymode or being hon and she has been on the NHS HRT for over a year whilst boymodding the entire time, but she's out, so they're okay with it.

>>9959963
Yeah they often fund '8 treatments', they'll also fund hair removal for SRS if you have hair on your penis.

>>9960175
They also fund top surgery for FtM's, should they be standing up for men with significant gyno due to hormonal imbalances?

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How common are women who are into femboys?
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>>9959839
I did went on to transition three years ago.
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>>9958492
lmao midwest but I'm in a relationship rn sorry, but I'm sure you're a really cute boy & you'll make someone very happy someday soon!

>>9959389
I don't browse this board too often so I'm not familiar with what boymode means? I'm assuming that's an mtf that doesn't usually dress or act too feminine, like stealth or whatever? either way I'm good with it lol, mtfs on hormones are great, crossdressing/non-CD femboys are great too. like I said, my preferences are kinda all over the place.
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>5'3" twinkhon virgin who is adverse to using their private parts in any way and doesn't want to ever be pegged nor do the pegging

This is really unappealing, right?
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>>9937197
u can't have your cake and eat it too
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>>9962610
Isn't that what cake is for?

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What's the trans acceptance situation like in Russia?
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>>9956151
She get knifed btw
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>>9957631
i know, it wasn't a random crime though, she was a fool and didn't completely break up with her former wife and was killed by her new bf
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Hm...

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yeah okay so uhhh

few years ago i was a muslim, or at least trying to be. was taught from a young age that being gay was a sin, lots of self hatred and the sort, closed myself in from society, blah blah etc. back when gay marriage was legalized i started to feel a bit less like a shut-in, and seeked out some help in the form of a support group. this was some time during my first year of college and i'm about to fourth in the coming weeks.

so i came out to two of my sisters last week and they were really accepting, and i've never felt more... love? for myself in my entire life. . i actually felt happy. i didn't know it, but i havent been happy in so long. it's so fucking weird to realize that

but yeah i just wanted to say that because i'm just happy i found someone outside of my support group who accepts me for who i am. it's nice to know that i have some people i can act like my regular fuckin self around.

also i didn't realize there even was an /lgbt/ before this point so that's neato

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Fucking GOALS.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Llw9Q6akRo4

>What is a feminine male?
An androgynous male with feminine and soft features. Most are gay or bi.
>Are feminine males trans?
Some inevitably turn out trans. Some age into twunkhood and continue slutting it up on Grindr well past their mid twenties.
>Can I be a feminine male?
It's possible. Masculine bone structure, height, and aging make it hard.
>Should I go on HRT?
Your choice. You'll look younger longer and you won't age like a man. There's more info in the pastebin.
>Is liking feminine males considered gay or straight?
Gay. If you're on the fence, you're bi, like a lot of people.
>Pastebin
https://pastebin.com/0fKx314Q
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>>9959977
dang i thought riley liked her
sad person, i hope she finds someone who loves and takes care of her.
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>>9950912
Washington
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>>9962077
I swear all of you are in Washington.
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>>9962092
Can confirm, am in washington.
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>>9952433
>>9952969
im getting a lip piercing unironically because of your pics, just booked the session
good inspo

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Has anyone gone through this? How did it turn out and how easily/often do public records out you?

Is it even worth trying to get your name change records sealed? You'd have to get a lawyer, which could take several months extra and costs thousands.

I don't plan on going full stealth. I just want some measure of privacy and protection from creeps/discrimination. The fact that a name change is so easily googleable otherwise is dysphoria inducing. Fuggg idk what to do
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I just checked the online records for the court where I got my name changed. A search comes up blank. Good. It was a long time ago though and it might get put online eventually. They have marriage licenses that old but not name changes.
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>>9962532
I think it depends on state law, the court, and the judge really. Some judges might consider being trans enough to warrant sealing records. In other places they might want you to show some evidence of a specific threat. Some states might specifically allow for trans name changes to be sealed.
To be honest though in U.S. I don't think having your name change in the public record is going to be enough to jeopardize your safety, though it can obviously cause social/employment/other problems.
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>>9962174

I personally sent in a letter to a number of state legislators and an email to my state's LGBT advocacy organization about updating the law to be more like California's when it comes to name changes. As in, no requirement to publish the name change. I only got a response from one of the legislators that didn't say much more than, "I read your letter," really, and the guy I was speaking to from the LGBT group didn't get back to me after he said he would talk with a few of his friends in California and lawyers here in this state. I even sent him two more emails to check on what was going on. No idea why he ghosted me. He said that they have another issue with name changes that they would like to fix, specifically around minors. I don't know if they'll do that and the removal of publication requirement at the same time even without my involvement.

At the very least the bill on being able to change gender on birth certificates with just self-certification will be voted on in the lower house this Thursday and probably signed by the governor very soon.

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>>9962516

>but in the US changing your gender marker is also public record.
>Court documents will still say,
>[dead name] changed to [new name]
>[old gender] changed to [new gender]

It doesn't seem to be that way in my state.
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>>9962624
>LGBt group
>caring about T people
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>>9962624
I'm from California and you're only exempt from publication if you change both your name and gender at the same time. Unfortunately, the decree to change name and gender are on the same page, so both will be published.

What's it like in your state?

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Why do lesbians do this? They like girls, but they don't mind posting their semi-nude pictures online for patreon money from straight guys.
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>>9962594
Why do you need a co-writer? What could you be stuck on? ya just write it.
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>>9960936
exhibitionists to that extent don't usually care who is getting off to watching them.
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>>9962609
>The average age for a male entering prostitution is 14.
That's retarded. For that to be true, then for every 20yo entering, there would have to be an 8 or 9yo, or two 10 or 11yos, or three 12yo.

For every guy above 20, these numbers get even more obviously bullshit.
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>>9960936
If you could do the same, wouldn't you? It's good money doing something you probably already enjoy.

If there was a market for it, I'd totally be down for selling gay male fetish glamor photography to rabid yaoi fans.
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>>9962626
Yep. Because there's a huge amount of human trafficking and child exploitation in prostitution.

People keep buying the lie that all prostitutes are these super comfortable, middle-class white girls who 'do it because she love it' and forget she's actually a very small minority. It's just beneficial for her to keep peddling that fantasy so her business doesn't suffer. If you bring up facts about prostitution, they get extremely upset and say 'yeah but that's not prostitution that's human trafficking', completely ignoring that they've just themselves said that all of those 80% have been human trafficked, which carries a very shitty implication about the industry.

Shame you don't think boys can be and are exploited in the sex industry. While the majority of victims are women, it's just naive to go 'nuh uh littles boys aren't exploited it's bs because I don't agree'

The future's probably gonna turn out fine. You were able to take this massive step, you can make others, make your life better.
But what fucks me up is the fact that you don't get the past you should have had. Personally I think I'd have turned out roughly the same way... but you never know, do you? And for some people they very much wouldn't have. You can change your future to make it a little more what you want it to be, but you can never change the past, never make up for the youth you should have been living if you'd been born the right way.

So tell me, /tttt/: what are the memories you never got to have? What would your life have been like if you'd been cis and fine with it? What do you think you might have missed out on by not growing up as the right sex? Big stuff, small stuff, personal or not, I wanna know what memories you want, but never had.
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>>9962446
I dont dwell in the past, I am just happy I am who I am instead of being born correctly and becoming a kardashian fan
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>>9962446
I used to really hate this too, I wanted to grow up as a girl. I wanted to be in high school as a girl. I was never asked to the year 10 and 12 formal (prom). I was never able to pick out a dress and prepare all day beforehand making myself look immaculate. I was never able to have sex at the after party. I'll never be the same as everyone else.

But I can't change any of that. I have to look to the future, be the best person I can be.
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>>9962446
I read teen fiction, childhood greentexts and make up things in my imagination to cover the childhood I never had.

Lots of my sexual fantasies are being a girl at high school or doing other things that age.

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What should I know about electrolysis?

I went in for a consultation on laser hair removal two weeks ago and what I was told was pretty disappointing. So now I'm considering electrolysis more seriously on my face at least. What do I need to know? The average is apparently 200 hours to get rid of a beard, but according to http://dallasdenny.com/Writing/2013/05/12/electrolysis-in-transsexual-women-a-retrospective-look-at-frequency-of-treatment-in-four-cases-1997/ that comes down to low skill of the electrologist. And that an electrologist who is doing it properly could do it in less than half of that. How many hours can I fit in in a week if money isn't something to worry about?
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>>9956405

Bump.
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>>9956522
Mine didn't even ask me a single question, sign a waiver, get on the table and zap zap pew pew -200 dollars for beard getting murdered
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>>9956458
Today I learned that I'm not northern European genetically so much as I am Hispanic. Weird.

(I'm not trying to be as snarky as it may sound)
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>>9959741

That reminds me. The man co-owner told me over the phone that they generally don't do the scrotum, and that if I wanted it, I would have to sign a waiver. The woman co-owner (they're a married couple) didn't mention anything about a waiver and said they just don't do it. That was another reason for looking at electrolysis more.
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>>9959741

They charged you two hundred per session?

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how much did it cost, who did you choose for the job, and where did you have to go to get it performed?
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>>9962212

Where do you live? I check my work email and they list job openings every week, a considerable amount of them in new facilities. I think the only thing you have to make sure of if you're not going for a salaried position is that you're at least a part-time employee, not FLEX. Reduced time or full time is probably the best way to make sure you'll get the insurance plan. And you also have to be employed directly by Amazon, not a staffing agency, if you're going into a warehouse, sort, or distribution center. I think Amazon also hires truck drivers, if you're into that. If none of those are in reach, you might just have to relocate, though if you did that, it would be better to have a college degree.

>>9962229

>im boutta pass better than actual men

That's an unfortunate typo, senpai.
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>>9962295
southeast ohio. Closest I find is Columbus ohio which is 2 hours northwest of me.
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>>9962218
I think I've maybe just completely lost the ability to look at my face objectively. I have a friend I trust to be honest with me who says I look different and fine but I just....don't really see it. Still hoping that "you don't think you look any different until 6 months" meme is real

Ha yeah I catch the reference, and I'm not surprised your mom does that.

I mean a lot of the problem is my skeleton. I was too old when I started. And...everyone always says I'm skinny but I don't get it - I have 20.5 BMI which is well within normal range. I am intentionally gaining weight though so eventually I can get a fat transfer.
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>>9962329

In that case, you might be better off looking at other companies that offer transgender coverage if you can't get relocate or have a bachelor's degrees. Amazon does have some virtual customer service jobs, but those are rare for people who just speak English. The last one I saw like that was looking for someone who spoke fluent Japanese.

T-Mobile also covers FFS as I recall, it just has to be in the US. Here's a list of companies that offer any kind of coverage at all for transgender services. You'll have to look at each one more closely to see what they cover because some might cover SRS but not FFS or vice versa. https://www.hrc.org/resources/corporate-equality-index-list-of-businesses-with-transgender-inclusive-heal
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>>9962212

What do you mean "fucked again"?

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"Fun night" edition.

Old thread: >>9929099

Transition timelines:
http://helpfultransinfo.tumblr.com/tagged/tc
Bottom surgery info:
http://gendercube.tumblr.com/
Passing guide:
http://ftmguide.rassaku.net/
Old sites, but still great one-stop-shops for FTM information:
http://ftmguide.org/
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>>9960849
fuck. if i had to look at it you must too
it's that guy from a meme where he sits near a cake with photoshopped communism symbol. i recognize him. when i first saw that meme i thought he's a failed mtf tranny and probably disabled
kek
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tfw have fantasies of you dykes being raped by big black men in prison. Just tearing up your vaginas and creaming inside until you degens realize that your all women not men like god intended.
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tfw have fantasies of raping big black men in prison. Just tearing up their buttholes using tears as a lube, helpless about their manliness being discarded, until they realise they are degenerates wanting to be a sissy, not men like god intended.

>"b-but no homo, you don't have a penis!"
>"it's not gay, r-right?"

Too late.
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>>9962512
I'm a trans-man anon, tell me how you'd fuck the boy out of me through my cis-vagina, like god wants.
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