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>>4050750
Here you go. This is just one. I had to ask one of my friends (who was in the group before) who the girl was because i didn't know who she was.

>forgot to hide the number
they never do. I saw so many numbers because those numbers were considered warnings to others whoi might get a message from that number.

>talked shit about melly
Melly is my friend and I never talked negative about her. I love her.
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>>4050819
Not according to Dollface you aren't.
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>>4050811
I can use inhouse to self med? I thought they started requiring prescriptions a while back?
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>>4050811
so if you're not presenting for whatever reason you cant have an opinion
but if you are presenting and no matter how bad of a hon you look you can have an opinion?
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>>4050797
>>4050819
>>4050829

Literally not what she said.
Stop trying to find more bullshit to drama over.

Welcome to /gaygen/!
Would you ever agree to wear silly, matching shirts or the like with your boyfriend, gaygen? Would the social anxiety from knowing you're being obnoxious be overpowered by the sweet, nourishing feeling of being stupidly romantic and playful with your boyfriend?

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>>4050793

I could probably do a relationship without sex, not like I don't have a horde of dragon cocks to satisfy my cravings.
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>>4050788
This sparked the most bemusing image of you walking down a back alley to find a bunch of working class men in football t-shirts following you and saying "areet mate, did yah watch the game last neet?" and "put it ere" while holding out there hand, all the while you back towards the wall sweating nervously as though you're about to get mugged.
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>>4050793
its not a relationship if theres no sex you fucking idiot
are you 10
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>came out today and parents were supportive but gave me strange looks
>could listen to them talking in the living room:
>"I wish I had no son instead of this faggot"
>"It's a pity that you can't see that before. If I knew it I had aborted him"
>"Yeah. But now you have to support them
I feel like I'm dying. Its the first time after maybe fifteen years I'm crying silently.
They don't know I know about this yet, but they will if they see my red eyes.
What sould I do
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>>4050717
Sounds like the acid trip I had with my straight friend back in winter 2014. Everything was great, we were having so much fun, until he started thinking I was super horny for him, trying to get him to fuck me constantly.

I'd touch him to get his attention, and he'd (because of the acid) think I was like sensually touching and rubbing him, things like that.
Acid can make you perceive small things as absolutely huge, and vice versa. I note this phenomenon and tell him that he looks absolutely huge right now, like mountain-size. He remained convinced I was coming onto him, no matter how much I tried explaining it to him that he's high as fuck and that's why he's freaking out. The situation was pretty awful because when you're uncomfortable on acid, you're extreeemely uncomfortable.
Then after a while, I started (again, because of the acid) thinking he was coming onto me. And that's when everything got out of control and lets-never-mention-this-again-tier awkward for the both of us. But that's a greentext for another day!

Enough about me, what happened to you anon? Date gone sour? Coming out moment ruined? What's the story behind your despair?
>>4050793
If he'd allow me to slut around and get fucked by other men as often as I possibly could, I'd be okay with it. But the whole "you should love me for who I am, not for how well I fuck you" argument... Eeh. I kinda need my man to fuck me if I'm going to consider him an important enough part of my life that I'd call him my boyfriend.
If you have a boyfriend that you don't want to fuck, you have to realize that you're not satisfying him on every level that you could.You have to accept the reality that in order to make your bf truly happy, you have to let him get fucked by someone. Anything else is just unfair, I think. Sometimes strict monogamy isn't the best choice. Sometimes it's not what the relationship needs.

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Are we as LGBT people obligated to support the black rights movements like #blacklivesmatter? We are both discriminated minorities so we should be natural allies. Whats more, there are black lgbt memebers who we should be supporting.

Oh the other hand, the black community is shit to us. They make up only 13% of the population but they are responsible for the majority of gay bashings. They are openly homophobic in their pop culture. Gay black teens are the most likely to be homeless after coming out. And although #blacklivesmatter, apparently not black trans lives because we have had 9 trans people killed so far this year, all of them black and all of them killed by black people. Black trans people have the highest murder rate of any population in the united states because to black people, their lives don't matter.

So should we be the bigger people, do the right thing and support the black rights movements or should we say fuck you black community, until you stop insulting us, beating us and murdering us we do not support you.
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are you kidding me you little piece of shit i’ll have you know i graduated top of my politics class and i’ve been involved in privilege checking with over 150 confirmed political demonstrations i’m trained in conflict resolution and i was the most oppressed person in my entire upper middle class high school you are nothing to me but another cultural appropriator i will wipe you the fuck out with precision the likes of which have never been seen on this side of the 49th parallel mark my words you think you can get away with saying that shit to me over the internet think again fucker, as we speak i’m checking with my anarcho-communist analyst brigade for your location so you better be prepared to deal with some molotov cocktails and angry feminists flying through your window yOU’RE FUCKING DEAD CHERRY! i can be anywhere at any time and i can kill you in over seven hundred ways and that’s just with me boring you to death while i talk about privilege not only am i extensively trained in hotline management but i have access to an entire arsenal of sociological articles to prove my point and i will use them to wipe your fucking face off the earth you little shit if only you had known what oppressed retribution your cultural appropriation would unleash then maybe you would have held your fucking tongue but you couldn’t you’re fucking dead kiddo
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>>4050760
Look at Africa
Now look at Western Europe and northen America
Yeh there is a pretty clear difference between the two chimps just aren't evolved
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>We are both discriminated minorities
I'll give you something to feel discriminated about you overgrown toddlers
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Because we want to destroy ourselves, obv.

It's every white persons duty to ensure they become culturally enriched by as many strong independent Afrikaan people of color as they can.
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>>4050810
To be fair though, the only reason African society isn't as advanced today as Europe is because of colonialism.

We all need to do our part to feel bad every day for our horrible, racist ancestors who pillaged the glorious African continent.

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>>4050807
but they are so cute and adorable when they try to insult me
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>>4050791
>People used to tackle me, hold me down, and shave my head. I was raped too
Did they pour pig blood all over you too?
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>>4050785

Don't you just love it how the gay guys single out and pick on the only two intersexed people on here, Lalalily?
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>>4050804
>jealous about what ?
That I'm a real woman and you don't even look like one.

Stay jelly hon.
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>>4050816
>when they try to insult me
It's not hard when you have a man body and face. :p

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Sold ded: >>4025931

/ftmg/ vintage edition

Don't forget to sage and wait to make new threads until we're at bump limit on page 9-10.

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>>4049878
i actually got the information from a therapist who has experience working with trans individuals.

but absolutely, theyd probably be happy to help you out if you have some kind of queer community in town. then again, i live in canada, and people are pretty understanding out here. in my city theres even a trans guy who offers this kind of help, and general counselling. if you live in the south, you might be a bit more selective about who you talk to.
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>>4042384
Questions for American ftms:
Do you play CoD? Do you eat cheeseburgers and drink Budweiser? Do you watch the Superb Owl? Are these things too lowbrow for you?
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>>4050746
Those are more male activities...
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>>4050746
I typically don't like shooters, but I play Dark Souls. I like burgers and beer, but I'm not a fan of watching sports, so I don't watch the SB. There's nothing "low brow" about any of those things, though.
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>>4050767
Of course there is, they can be called lowbrow because people regard them as lowbrow. I love all of them :3

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How did you hit on girls or how did girls hit on you, lesgen?

[This is the /cis lesbian/ thread. Please don't talk about trans issues here, go to the trans thread for that. Please don't talk about bisexual crush on males either, go to the bisexual thread.]

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>>4050729
Fedora/10
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>>4050009
>get better at it by practice
Y-you mean, to do it more than just a couple of times?

>>4050178 & >>4050184
Fuck, even just for the heck of it, I can't even begin to imagine doing that myself.
And I'm shocked at how well people took it, edited as it might be.
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>>4050700

No, only if you're antisocial.

When I say friend I don't necessarily mean someone you bestiesistatwinses with but just someone that you have known for a time and feel comfortable with.

A buddy basically.

My current girlfriend and I were friends for a years time before becoming a couple.

You seem like a very assumptious person, that's dangerous being associated with the LGBT we're supposed to be better than that..
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>>4050748
>>4050763
That's true. Guys are even worse. I'm just pissed off because I don't know what she wants from me. Girls are amazing.

>tfw she kept talking about how drama free she was
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>>4050801
>You seem like a very assumptious person, that's dangerous being associated with the LGBT we're supposed to be better than that..
Yeah, you're right

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Does /lgbt/ like Alex Bertie?
Can he speak for all transmen?
http://youtu.be/fbN6vRyi7hM
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>>4050648
>Does /lgbt/ like Alex Bertie?
who is that?
>Can he speak for all transmen?
can some black guy on youtube speak for all black people?
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>>4050648
holy shit nice gal. looks androgynous but female :)
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>>4050648
>http://youtu.be/fbN6vRyi7hM
ugh god transguys act so bizarre, it's like they have this caricature of what a man is in their heads and they strive to embody that. Not to mention they both look and sound female as fuck.
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>>4050799
Pretty sure he was 18 two years ago, so I have no idea why he doesn't try to get on T

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ITT: "I should have known I was queer when..." stories.

> about six years old
> first standardized test
> FILL OUT SEX: MALE OR FEMALE
> intensely uncomfortable, don't want to check "appropriate" box
> do it anyway because teacher will be mad

I never got over it.
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>be young, between 5-10
>hanging out with another girl friend
>looking at magazines
>see a girl and think "whoa she's beautiful"
>instantly chastise myself because "thinking other girls are attractive makes you a lesbian"...

>be in 8th grade
>become really close friends really quickly with person
>they come over and we're sitting in my room talking
>quotes "i wish i had a penis" and "i wish i could be a boy for a day"
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>>4049540
>4
>always insist wearing dresses

>7 or 8
>desperately want to be a girl
>spend hours thinking about it
>super uncomfortable expressing any feminity because dad isn't happy about it
>somehow manage to pass it off as just curiosity
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>>4050487
>>cringe at being identified as male
>go into sisters room and put on her white dress to feel more comfortable
This didn't happen, if so LMAO.
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>>4050374
wow what a total faggot
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>>4049540

>8yo
>discover anime
>spend most of the time pretending to be a magical girl's mild mannered alter ego

Or my favourite

>12 yo
>hide in dark of clothes cupboard
>use the dark to imagine the cupboard as a transformation chamber
>wait a decade before appreciating the irony of being so blatantly closeted

Seriously, I wonder how it took me until my mid 20s to realise I was trans.

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how can i have some nostrings, no AIDS fun? im too poor for prostitutes, too awkward for parties and too uncool for drugs.

i dont like shit like grindr cause its just so sex-obsessed.


i just wanna meet a guy, watch a shitty film and cuddle. maybe fuck, maybe not. is that too much to ask?

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Share funny/annoying/creepy messages/conversations you've had on Grindr

>"Horny?"
>me: "That depends. Face?"
>"Selfish bitch"
>he blocks me
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>>4048236
I know the feeling, didn't jerk off for a week to see how horny it'd make me and I got drunk on grindr.

And now thanks to that I'm into watersports, regretted it the next day but eh.
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>>4012172
I lol'd at that one too
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>>4046908
I'm not really. It just seems that hook-ups are all that exist.
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What does "I keep it 100" mean?

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What's so wrong about the term cis? All it does is describe someone who isn't trans. I hate transtrenders, SJWs, and third wave feminists as much as the next faggots but I don't get why people are so up in arms about "cisgender".

Sure, SJWs will use the word 'cis' to talk shit about people but it's not a slur or insult. It's just a fucking adjective.
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>>4050475
That works for physical traits, i.e. black-haired, dark-skinned, brown-eyed, and so on, because there are other humans out there with different traits. It even works for certain behavioral traits, e.g. right-handed, because there are a significant number of left-handed people out there.

Homosexuals and transgendered people are so far in the minority that they can't even really be accurately studied in census data. No one would describe someone as 'five-fingered' unless they're being facetious, or they're using it to describe 'normal' people who do not have six fingers, or are missing fingers or limbs, unless a) you're writing a special-interest report and want to differentiate these poor unfortunates from the rest of society, or b) you're a six-finger mutant and every word out of your mouth is dripping with bitterness, disdain and unadulterated hatred for the rest of humanity.
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>>4049860
Because it's a shitty hipster synonym for "normal."
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>>4050594
>they can't even really be accurately studied in census data

There are a lot of reasons why this is, and it's not specifically because 'there are so few of them'. There is an incredible cost to identifying as trans, thanks to the immense level of discrimination and prejudiced targeted at trans people.

It's like the argument that there are more gay people nowadays. That's evident, but it's a combination of the LGBT rights movement advocating, broader social acceptance, and better access to sexuality education. There are people who were 'gay' decades ago that would have never written down on a census that they were gay because they were so deeply closeted, as a result of an actively hostile society. As trans acceptance improves, trans people will become more visible.
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>>4050591

Straight is part of the common vernacular and they were up in arms about being the "normal" ones and thus, didn't need a label. We'll look back in a few years and laugh about how cis people were up in ar,s about being called cis and not needing a word because they are the "normal" ones.
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>>4050676
Low visibility (which has only gotten way, way better in the last ten years, nevermind the last century) still doesn't really make up for the relatively tiny number of people who are LGBT (whether they identify or not).
The fact remains, there aren't very many people who are going to be using the word 'cis' (to describe a person who identifies as the gender matching their physical sex) in their vocabulary all that often, and when they do it's almost never going to have positive connotations.

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>Tfw intense jealousy of ftms and everything they have
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>>4046781
Be as jealous as you want to be, but you're the only one suffering in the long run. Jealousy is fucking awful, turns you bitter and skews your perceptions. You better get a handle on it if you ever want to be a decent person, or just for your own sake.
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>>4046792
This, so bad.
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>>4046781
>mtf being jealous of x again
this is why no one hangs out with you dumb hoes
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>>4046781
shut the fuck up. please.
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Can relate. Gay man btw

I'm ftm and after the transgirl/mtf version of this thread went on for awhile, I wondered what the answers would be from people who like transguys. Hearing from y'all would be interesting, male or female.

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>>4001370
>So question to chasers (and anybody else more inclined to transgirls) I guess. What makes us more appealing than assigned female at birth women? I'm curious if there's reason beyond the whole "shemale" fetish thing.

Flip this instead to be about transguys/ftms, share your reasons and thoughts if you're someone who's into us.
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>>4043743
Might try the student union's alphabet soup officer or somebody in the queer society. I should already be on their mailing list, they put on a good film festival.
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>>4045384
>alphabet soup
lol. it's true, there's getting to be a ridiculous amount of letters....lgbt is enough.
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Where do you find FTMs? The guys I met were from online dating services/apps.

What would you recommend?
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>>4047627
Unless you live in somewhere like Seattle or SF the apps and services are probably your best bet. I think some guy mentioned fetlife but he found "ftms" who were really just kinky butch chicks.
Grindr had a trans tribe i think?
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>>4047666
>I think some guy mentioned fetlife but he found "ftms" who were really just kinky butch chicks.
It sounds more to me like that guy doesn't understand the whole hormones thing. He probably hooked up with some pre-T ftms and thought "these guys aren't ftms at all! just butch chicks!" because they were pre-T and didn't look like guys to him or look like what he expected an FTM to look like...heh.

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What is /lgbt/'s opinion on the Castro in SF? I've heard mixed reviews: that it's a must for any gay guy, but also that it's become more mainstream, attracting fag hags/etc. causing the real gay scene to move. Which is it? Where do I go to find the real hot gay guys to hang with?
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Capitol Hill (Seattle gay district) is about a few blocks away. I live on the other side of I-5.

People aren't happy about the gentrification. And they definitely don't like transplants raising their rents, chopping down their trees and contributing to 'the freeze'.

Not sure if I should move, or if so, where to.
Gentrification sucks.
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>>4050380
How do they feel towards gay tourists?
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>>4050534
I honestly wouldn't know. Too shy to actually go there and meet anyone or do anything.
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>>4050584
But have you heard from any friends/etc. about the general attitude at gay tourists? I'll just be there for a short time.
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>>4050696
Don't have any friends or know anyone in the area.
It seems like as decent an area as any to play tourist.

There's an art museum in the area, plenty of shops and restaurants and such, traffic is kind-of painful. Outside of Cap Hill there's plenty of stuff to see and do but I have yet to do so.

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Tell us about a time your favourite footwear /fa/ or not, /acegen/!

Old: >>3934224

Friendly reminder that you can hide the thread by clicking the little minus sign to the left, or by filtering "/acegen/" through 4chan's settings (top right). For those of you who continue to insist that we do not belong here: /lgbt/ is the most relevant board on 4chan for the discussion of GSRMs (gender, sexual, romantic minorities) which includes asexuals and asexuality

>So, what exactly IS asexuality?

There's two commonly used definitions, the first (from dictionary.reference.com):

asexual (a-sek-shoo-el) in medicine
3. lacking interest or desire in sex

And the second (from asexuality.org):

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i'm bi but i always end up befriending ace ppl. it's kinda weird but i'm just drawn to them platonically, without trying. kinda feel some weird link between bi and ace folk.
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>>4050348
Well, we are equality into all the kinds of people, which does set us apart from the monosexual agenda.

It is just into everyone vs no one.

I often find I can understand sort of the idea of being attracted to people, but the only being into half of people based on some arbitrary things is just too much for me to understand.

A physical type I would get. An orientation based on only what kind of junk a person has (mostly, trans people and all that) is confusing as hell.
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>>4042044
I'd not seen that one before. Never even heard of squishes. I get squishes. That explains a lot

>>4050308
One of my friends keeps herself to herself, but I'm 90% certain she's ace. Never outright asked her though.
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>>4050308
I've only meet one other ace irl and they were a family member.
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>>4050308
Yes, one of my best friends from College is also ace.


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