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So, anyone up for a confession thread?
Tell whatever you've been holding on for too long. I will not judge you, other anons might, tho.

Well, when I was a teenager I was a wreck of a person. I used to sing on an anarchist punk-rock band and I met the her there, that weird, glassy-eyed chick that I used to love so much - We hung out after the show, It was in Albany.
Eventually, she told me she was trans - No problem there, I have a pretty trained eye for this sort of stuff because I grew up as a pretty androgynous dude myself - I just told her that nothing had changed, and she just hugged me and thanked me for literally just existing. Two years passed, we got older, should've gotten smarter, but that was not the case - It was a cold summer night, my mother had died like three days before the discussion that broke our relationship and ended up in the biggest snowballing I've ever seen - I was pretty fucked up, I drank a lot trough those times, my mother was really important to me, so, I was in a terrible mood - She started asking me questions about my mother and everything, and there was no problem in that, until she asked me if my mother wanted grandsons - I replied sincerelly "Yeah, it was one of her dreams actually, I think I'll leave that one for my sister, tho." To which she replied: Do you want to have children someday? I said yeah, I really want to be a father actually - She was really insecure about this, thinking I might cheat on her with a cis girl. Eventually, her insecurities got the best of her, she started getting paranoid and wanted to follow me everywhere - Until we got into a discussion again, this time, I was not drunk, but the discussion ended up with me just saying: "You know why I started dating you? Because you were a wreck of a person, and I was like that too, now we are older, and should be smarter, but you're not. I am tired of you. Get out of my house.

Next day her mother called me telling me she hanged herself in the bathroom.
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I was in a polyamorous relationship once and I regret that we never had a threeway.

Feels bad man.
...Are you trolling?
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my heart is void. My void is mirror. I am a prisoner in my dreams. For now, I live in world of ghost with many spook.
...no...? I honestly thought lots of people did that.
Im in a relationship with a cis girl and we're both messes but her more than me. We're druggies and emotionally wrecked and stuff but sometimes i just dream of having a sweet older boy hold me and drift into imagining living a comfy life with him and giving him everything i can. Someone strong, stable. Feel like shit about it, not going to cheat or anything but i just feel so fucking horrid for not being able to happily support her. I love her though and i dont think i could emotionally bond closer to anyone. I dont think i want to.

fucking hell. that last line made my heart physically hurt. im so sorry.

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Why does a tranny need a colostomy bag after a vaginal examination?
She's getting a colon vaginoplasty.
>work in porn
>cut off your money maker


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Old one died. New passgen. Please post numerous angles if you want legitimate advice. Criticism and advice = good. Bully = bad.
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Photo from 2 weeks ago
21, 3 years HRT
Pass. You have that human chipmunk look to you though.
Gotta try harder than that. You just look like a gay boi right now.
Your nose is a problem. idk about the rest because of the weird angle.
Not really passing. You look andro as fuck but you're so cute I'd hug u foreverrr.
Yeah you pass. Y'all ant people all look the same anyways.
I like your self awareness
No pass. Nose is too big and your wig looks awful tbqh

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Well, you pass if that is actually you.
Looking good mah man!

Early Hon, please.
Acne Faye

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Closeted gay guy here

How do/did you deal with your sexuality and particularly the more depressing parts of it?
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Back toch pol with you
I respect them enough to take no for an answer, don't get me wrong. I'm just sad and lonely and this person to me felt very compatible
Uncomfortable talking to you why?
They had no idea I exicted at first and probably looked like some creep or whatever
Bi? Cis Girl, 25

I came out at 20 but I don’t think it did any good

Parents still think i’ll get over it and date a nice (rich) nerd guy

Few friends who know or don’t dare acknowledge it cause their families are more homophobic than mine

Stuck in a small city with no resources and too poor to move and live independently

My only options for getting social support require me remaining closeted and I want to scream

So I drink, play video games, and live vicariously through fiction

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After spending years as /pol/ and having image as pick related? I used to wear exactly same jacket.
Do you know for sure that your friends are transphobic?
>How to come out as tranny

With a suicide letter, gl.
They are mostly everything phobic.
>after having spend years on /pol/
Oh, well, not to worry. Everyone else there is, too. They'll be here eventually.

I'm thoroughly convinced it's a CIA psyop at this point, there's some kind of clandestine tranny-making virus in the memes or something.
>Everyone else there is, too. They'll be here eventually.I'm thoroughly convinced it's a CIA psyop at this point, there's some kind of clandestine tranny-making virus in the memes or something.

Lol. Knowing far right types in person I can say that a lot of them aren't larpers.

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So I meet a FtM for the first time in my life.
It was terrible. I'm from south america btw so they are super rare around here to begin with.

He was basically a really angry dyke who kept acting agressively towards everyone. He also had a gf who was kinda of a dyke too but used female pronouns.

And when I say he looked like a dyke I mean it, he had short hair with shaved sides, tattos on the arms and nose piercings. Also his eyebrows were kinda arched as if he plucked them monthly.

But what really got me weirded out was the way he was talking and acting with people around. He was constantly butthurt and trying to start shit with cis guys when all the dudes were literally trying to chill and eat barbecue and drink some beer. he was the angriest shortest dude I ever seen.

Did I meet a meme or all FtM are like this? Fuck I should have taken a picture to show you guys.
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Because they want to outwardly replicate the heterosexual relationships they see around them. It is the same reason HSTS fem it up so the gay guys they fuck can stay in the closet.
>Found the turbodyke aka ayyden.
Is this necessarily bad?
Brazilian here and you just described one of our iconic FtM which is the son of some old celebrity slut and because of that even went to a couple of shitty reality shows.

he used to be a man hating lesbo too.
idk why, this post made me laugh so hard.

1) Yeah, we kinda tend to look like dykes unless T does enough work, it just goes with the territory
2) Grooming like a woman (eyebrow plucking?) is fucking terrible, though, idk why he would do that.
3) The gross tats and piercings really is an FtM thing. I can't comment on that because I have zero of either and find it both disturbing and completely disgusting.
4) Could be he has serious issues like depression that he's externalizing as anger, or that he's still pretty recently started transition and is still dealing with any anger/bitterness over realizing he pulled the "tranny" short straw.
5) It definitely takes a lot of trans guys some time to get cool with the bantz. Women don't do that, they're passive-aggressive shits and teasing is basically an act of war between women, so FtMs tend to get wound up about it and can't figure out when to chill and when to take something as a real challenge.

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I have a crush on one of my straight friends. Since I knew I had no chance I never acted on it.
Everything was fine until about a month ago when a new girl joined our friend group, She is actually fun, smart and a very talented artist so I thought she must've been already in a relationship of sorts.
A few weeks go by and it's super clear that she has a thing for the friend i'm crushing on and my mind immediately goes into damage control mode saying things to myself like:
>"It's ok they have nothing in common"
>"She is the one carrying the conversation with him so maybe he's not intrested"
I felt bad about thinking that way but it was the only way I could prevent panicking on the spot.
A few more day go by, and I basically get confirmation that he's interested in her too, I felt my heart growing heavier with every breath I took and had to leave my friends earlier to avoid making an ass out of myself.

I know this is all my fault, and I should have never let this happen to myself to begin with, but know I'm actually starting to resent the poor girl for no fault of her own.
Please tell me how do I stop feeling so bad whenever the two of them are together, it's eating away at me and it could make me lose my friends sooner or later.
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lol, went through this
>tfw friend of 7 years hangs out with a girl he has known for a few months more than you
just drop him, it's not worth keeping him as a friend, it's only pain

Buy a maid outfit.
You can at least be his friend, and enjoy that. But if seeing him in a relationship he wants is too painful you'll want to avoid him to not get hurt.
>childhood friend started ldr with this girl
>ok at first, she seems fine
>find out she is heavily mentaly damaged
>literally depending on him for affection
>she only cares about his opinion and bitches when anyone else makes a suggestion to her
>he complains to me about her
>says he is going to break up with her
>pussies out and they make up
>"she gets 1 more chance"
>complains to me again a month later
>says he will break up for real this time
>he hasn't done anything
I fucking hate this bitch and I just want him to fucking ruin her already. If he does, maybe she will kill herself and I can play games with him in peace. I'm pretty sure the only reason why he doesn't break up with her is because he feels bad for her/pitties her situation. She was breaking down when he said he wanted to break up with her the first time, and I want him to finish the job. I don't even care if it's not me he ends up with, but at least a better girl than the current one.
wow you're really peace of shit

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Are there any virgins among /lgbt/?
I mean not underage posters or teenagers, but 20+ virgins.
I see people talking about relationships so much, that I feel like I'm the only one.
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Never thought I would be a virgin at 24 but here I am.
Of course I'm not really capable of investing myself in a relationship and the idea of hookups seems worthless.
>mtf trans but will probably just kill myself
>transition would be pointless, wouldn't pass
>can't see myself in a relationship/sex as a man
I am currently in college (took a break after high school), so I can't say. I live in a big city so I hope there won't be a decline in social opportunities. I haven't really made any friends in my college so I don't imagine it will be an enormous impact, but who knows. What was your experience like?

Sex is a really vulnerable activity, emotionally and physically! You're pretty much literally and metaphorically laid bare for someone else to see, of course that can be intimidating. Our culture has normalized casual hook ups, which is great for people who are inclined towards them, but can make people who aren't feel like they're weirdos for not being able to be super casual and laissez-faire about it. Do things at the speed at which you're comfortable and on the timeline that's right for you.
33, bi FtM, still a virgin. Quit all relationships before getting to sex when I was younger, then ended up not dating because I felt like I was in limbo in my transition...then still ended up not dating because I waited too long to figure out how to date as an adult. You know?

Probably gonna die a virgin, I would have no idea at this point how to tell a potential partner that I have literally zero experience except some sexless teenage dating. I almost don't care, I guess, I have an okay libido but low drive towards actual sex.
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>What was your experience like?
As with high school, I find myself dodging dreamlike opportunities left right and center, and I only meet these people because I have classes with them. It's my last year so I have the end of those chances to look forward to. I made some great friends, more than I ever have in any period before college, so a pit is growing in my gut 'cause I know these precious connections will start to wither after graduation in about 9 months. One girl I grew particularly close to is the only person I ever I fell in love with, and my absolute favorite human, but she's a lesbian unfortunately. I've fancied a good amount of straight guys, but this hurts more for some reason. I'll probably just bite the bullet and download Tinder or Grindr in a month.
It's probably because you never dated while a tween or teen, so that part of your social development is lacking. I honestly have no idea how to learn to love at this point.

what is a "small" dick? like whats the size in inches?
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4 inches objectively
Well if girls need 6-7 inches to be satisfied, which is generally perceived as being true if you talk to any girl in real life, then pretty much anything under 6 inches is not quite enough.
Even though 5.5 isn't that "small", it still won't be able to satisfy a girl.

And of course anything under 5.5 inches and you better hope she's a virgin or she will have to fake her orgasms.
Less than 5 inches is basically what I consider below average size.
Just look up micropenises on pornhub
You're either measuring wrong, humblebragging, or extremely stupid.

I thought we could have a thread about controversial issues between trans people on the one hand and feminists on the other.

If a young trans child doesn't act like their ASAB because they are trans, is it right to treat that with hormone blockers or should they be forced by their parents or their parents be forced to make them go through the wrong puberty, under the logic that allowing trans people to transition is patriarchal and sexist in some way?

Where do the rights of trans children and their supportive parents end on the one hand and on the other hand feminists right to stop people doing what they consider sexist or decide for their child what gender the child will be?

Is there a possible compromise?
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With /r9k/ it's sometimes hard to tell because they too put one layer of irony over another, everything's ironic and "post-ironic" (the hipsters have turned into SJW, the channers into "ironic" hipsters! How ironic...) that it can be hard to tell at times what' serious, what's trolling, what's irony.
But we treat them when they have disorders.

If they feel dysphoria they should be put on blockers.
How does it feel to have to team up with evangelicals and neo nazis to move your anti-trans agenda? Also, if you're really for ending capitalism, why does the left almost universally hate TERFs? Maybe body autonomy is something people have a right to and telling people what they can and can't do with their bodies isn't egalitarian?
Yawn. The egalitarian talk is bullshit. You don't care about AMABs. And you people only care about AFABs in a patronizing, vaguely creepy way. People removing themselves from the 'sisterhood', joining the enemy, oh, but don't forget you have a WOMB also, you gonna get raped because meeeennn.

You're creepy as fuck. Like, I don't even disagree about the shit with kids being left to transition without a bunch of checks, and trying to purge all the trenders beforehand, but why the fuck do you have to take all these essentialists stances?

I knew my gender at two. I realized other people were getting it wrong at four.

Why the fuck is "KIDS DON'T KNOW THEIR OWN GENDER HURR" such a fucking meme? Are THIS many cis people legit this stupid? Do you really not remember being five? What is wrong with you?

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It's been a while since we had one

ITT: Write a letter to someone who will never read it/confess things
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Wow why so mean :(

Can't imagine they love them much if they're just gonna drop them for 2-3 years tho, was more trying to work my way into getting the person to talk about that tbhon.

I still miss you and think about you every day. Though I didn't share all the details with you, when we knew each other I was going through the roughest patch of my life and seeing you come online and talking to you even briefly made me smile and forget about my problems for a bit.

I used to daydream about our quiet fantasy life together; a little cottage in the countryside, weekends spent curled up on the sofa reading books, long walks in the forest holding hands. Maybe kids one day. When I'm lying in bed at night feeling lonely I still bundle up my duvet and wrap my arms around it and pretend I'm cuddling you.

My life is better now and I'm happy, although not nearly as happy as I would be if you were in it. I'm still waiting for a guy to come along who's anywhere near as clever and funny and cute and sensitive and caring as you but I think I might be waiting a while.

I hope you're happy now too, you deserve to be.

Dear A,
Dear M,

Why u straight? no1 will luv u as much as I do.
Hey Fabio,
you know how much it hurt me not talking to you anymore and not hanging out with you despite I always have fun when you're around, I actually had real feelings for you but you just chose to put it on your side and use it any time when it suits you... You've been toxic for my life but I really really loved you with all my heart. I wish I could just forgive and forget... but forgiving nor forgetting is not what makes me me. It really hurt me a lot when you told me you have been in a relationship with this guy for the past 8 months... and you hid it from me knowing well that it will hurt me a lot... you were so cruel and dickhead....
I hopefully think you're not worthy of me...


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>tfw too tall to be submissive without looking weird
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>when ethnik dwarves approach 50% viewership
...I prefer to be statuesque, speaking for myself :)
so...that's what happened to me. well then.

I've never heard all that before, but I always wondered why I felt that way. I just figured it was because I was trans and we all felt that way. I was shocked to find out people actually want to be tall sometimes.
5'6 landwhale hon.
As much as I hate being this tall I dont mind at least being smaller than most dudes.
oh well I don't really call him "her", he isn't that far in yet- so far he just wants to look cuter and girly, he has no interest in pronouns and they'd make him feel more mannish.

But desu it just comes naturally when you get to know somebody. He may be 6'1" but I know better. When he is feeling a certain way I feel the need to protect him and coddle him. It's important to respond on the fly when they are feeling needy or emotionally vulnerable. I worry about him getting hurt on the street so I gave him my pepperspray, I cook for him when he's sick and say "awee poor baby". It started with ironic fun but it's a little less ironic once you get to know these are legitimate emotional needs. Try teasing your trans friend with babytalk or something, they will probably find it strangely comforting.

You've never heard of all that before? Shit senpai where have you been I say this all the time. It should be obvious, yo. I'm trans so it's pretty easy to introspect on these kinds of things, it gives me insight into other trans people.

It's pretty fucken obvious.
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Those facial planes, how can overgrown Euros compete?

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Thank you Blanchard Edition

Let us think of our gratitude for those who told us the truth when others sought to deceive us. Thank you Ray Blanchard. Thank you on behalf of all the countless people you helped and who owe even their lives to you, and thank you on behalf of all those who suffered after you were prevented from helping them by the enemies of truth and deniers of AGP and your typology. Thank you.

>AGP questions and answers
>Thoughts and feelings / emotions
>Help, advice, guidance
>Be cozy and chill out

>What is AGP?
Autogynephilia, from Greek αὐτό- ("self"), γυνή ("woman") and φιλία ("love")
Broadly, arousal to the thought of being a woman. It can take many forms - being aroused at imagining or seeing yourself with a female body, dressing in clothes that make you appear feminine, acting in stereotypical "feminine" ways, or others.

>Isn't AGP just discredited pseudoscience?
No, AGP is a real phenomenon. Some people disagree with Blanchard's Typology, which included AGP, but that people experience AGP is indisputable.

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Could try reading Whipping Girl.
Good but dangerous book :))
You should read Ray Blanchard's original papers. Hopefully doing so will show you why they're shit.

High quality research on ETLI and detransitioners pretty much doesn't exist, although ETLI is very well established as existing with other paraphillia research.

Unfortunately the best research on ETLI and their removal/retargeting is with pedos.
As I see it what's established is that there is a correlation between being attracted to people with unusual features and wanting to have those unusual features yourself. You see the distinction, right? We haven't the faintest clue on why this is so. There are many possibilities. For example: people are known to be attracted to people who are similar to themselves. It could be that, rather than any error in locating erotic targets, people who want to have unusual features are simply much more likely to be attracted to those features because they perceive people who have those features as being similar to themselves. This idea is supported by the fact that people with AGP are more likely to also be GAMP. Mix the desire to be female, attraction to similarity and autoeroticism and you get AGP.

Do I believe the above hypothesis? No, because it is just one possible answer, and I feel very similarly about ETLIs.

>tfw the only context which your body could be seen as female is when a company cherry picks a freakishly ugly woman for an advertisement about high beauty standards so they can say “look! not all women are super models honey!” but you’re so ugly that most of the “ugly” women watching will think “hey i thought i was ugly but i’m not as bad as that thing” and then they feel better about themselves and buy the product that was getting advertised

not a very good feeling

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>got out of 9 month relationship with trans
>Confuse about my sexuality
> Go into two gay bars
>Not feeling it
What's wrong with me guys?
Do you hate cis women? Do you think cis women are too uppity and need a good beating to put them "back into their place"? Do you hate the idea of a cis woman not giving a shit what YOU want and just doing what she wants to do?
trans heaven
Trannies and chasers are mentally ill men who hate women.
>Trannies and chasers are mentally ill men who hate women.
This is op.
Your on to something.

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