My gf of 3 years is very uattractive. I think we just got together because I had low self estheem. Currently there is a little biscuit at work I think I have a chance with. My GF is good in bed, but I'd like to have sex with someone slim.Not sure what to do. I dont want to break up yet, because I dont know how it will work out with the hottie at work. So far we have had sex one time after work, but I'm not sure if she actually wants to date. Id feel a bit silly if I broke up with my gf and ended up single.
>>17532548You are a fuck head. Be a man and let your fat gf go and deal with your decision to fuck the girl at work. Again, be a man and fair to the fat gf and let her go and not be your back up plan.
>>17532567Im asking for advice on what is best for me, not for my gf. strategically what you are saying doesnt make any sense.
>>17532574I'm not going to help you be a cunt. Other anons have already told you don't fuck someone from work regardless your relationship status.
>>17532580>on't fuck someone from workwhy not? shes not even in the same department.
>>17532574Beta as hell my man. Why do you feel like you even need a girlfriend? the fat chick you keep on a leash validate your existence or something, you fucking beta cuck?
I've graduated college, but I'm still living at home (my commute is 10 minutes so I figured why not, save money for awhile, etc). I have more than enough money to move out. I feel like living at home is keeping me from doing things that I would potentially enjoy. I'm not certain about that though. I might not enjoy anything I try. I don't enjoy anything I used to enjoy anymore. The only thing I even slightly enjoy now is going to the gym, and I've been going for about 6 months. I think I enjoy it because I'm getting out of the house. I've been looking for a new job further away that will force me to move out, but lately I've been thinking of just moving out anyway. Advice?
What do you do when you're in a relationship that's fine from day to day but doesn't have a future? Actually asking for a friend (best friends since high school), I'm single af and she keeps asking me for advice. I want to be the good friend but I don't have any relationship experience to source, hence why I'm asking you guys.As far as I know, she complains about him changing over the years from a romantic guy into a game-addict with anger issues. She still likes being with him but she's worried about the future because he doesn't have a job and he's not a good father figure. Every time she complains to me about it I tell her to talk about it, but she told me he got really angry when she did. I don't think she tried more than once but she doesn't want to try again. I don't know what else I should tell her/what else she wants to hear.
>>17532027It depends on what you want of course. If you want to find someone you're going to marry and start a family with, then dump him. If you just want to have a good time in a relationship and you are getting that, then stay until your priorities change.
>>17532027>doesn't like who he is>communication is problematic>can't see herself with him long-term>unemployed>angered easilywow anon. that dude must fuck your crush real good for her to stay despite all of this.
>>17532027Been thinking about thst a lot. It made me complacent in my relationship which is likely going to end soon because of it, I'm totally heart broken. It's not about to end anon it's about the journey. If you're enjoying who you're with then honestly I don't think you should take that for granted
>>17532027If she's certain there's no future, I think she should make a decision to end the relationship.As for the other advice, if you're a girl I wouldn't mind giving you some first-hand experience in what a relationship is like.
>>17532046I don't think there are any guys in the picture, though a ton of guys confessed to her the last time she was single. I'm not sure why she picked this guy out of all of them, but I'm sure that once she's single again she won't have a hard time finding a guy.I don't think she's having a good time with him, but maybe just good enough to have no direct reason to break up? Just minor annoyances.>>17532057Wouldn't know desu... She's one of the few friends that I don't talk about sex with. >>17532061You're making a really good point imo. I'll be telling her that. One of the reasons why she doesn't want to break up is because she feels like she's "throwing away years of investment and getting closer" like how they share so many memories. Tried talking her out of that but nope.>>17532108So thirsty. Have another qt asian girl.
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>>17532499Stop this bullishit, please. We evolved form that.If society were always like you say, we would have disappeared from earth long time ago. There were times where beauty didn't matter and there weren't feminist who told other women to fuck 324 bad boy in their life to feel like a woman.There were times like Protestant society and pre 1968 society, who rewarded hard work and forbid degenerate behaviour.Curiosly, Roman's Empire late society shares various thing with ours, including feminism, promiscous women, etc.
>>17532449I am the girl who mentioned it.I don't really know how much is too much. I don't really have a number.I am turned off by people who jump from one relationship to the other (5 months with a girl, 4 months with another one, etc) because I feel like they don't put work in the relationship, and by people who have casual sex because I'm morally against it.The lower, the better.
>>17532530Guess your best bet is to find a time machine m8
Anyone ever deal with premature ejaculation? The last two girls I was with and I came pretty much on thrust two. I hadn't been with anyone in a few months besides those two, but in previous relationships I was able to last a lot longer.Any help?
>>17532397Seriously though can I get some opinions here? I mean obviously it's not weird if you don't have a gf, but is it weird if you never have a gf and don't try to get one? I don't want to be seen as creepy or something
Hey /adv/ so I'm 22 and living at home with my parents (haha make your jokes) and had a very weird experience yesterday. My parents were supposed to out until dinner so I decided to have an after lunch wank in my room. Well mom comes home early and walks in while I'm beating the shit out of my dick. The weird thing was I just stopped for a second turned and looked at her in horror then started stroking again. This lasted about two minutes until I shot ropes all over my chest, with her watching. Then she just did this little half smirk and a schoolgirl giggle, shut my door and walked away. I'm scared as fuck to leave my room. Any advice? Pic unrelated I can't stomach looking for a related picture right now.
>>17532516Yes I know this disturbs me as well. >>17532536I just walked by her in the hallway on the way to my car. She said hey how are you doing and I said good thanks so I guess we're ok.
>>17532547Yeah it would seem so. But why didn't you stop? Do you have some clue about that?(And why did she watch? I would not be surpised she just checked her son works normally - I had a thing with a younger friend of my mom and she did ask her if I was ok)
>>17532559That's what I don't know. I blew the biggest load I ever blew and I could tell my mother was impressed, as sick as that sounds. Part of me kind of wants to "get caught" again just to see what happens.
>>17532566You could try masturbating spontaneously in front of your mother, but that's the hard way. ;-)Seriously, maybe there's something about pride behind all that. Your mother instinctly wanted to see if her son is a nice male, and you showed her to gain her pride.Would you say the presence of your mother excited you more?
Is your mother hot? Pics?
Minor problem, /adv/. Got sent a Snapchat message that didn't make sense, so I replied, "I don't follow." The message got opened, but no reply after 20 minutes! I want to have clarification, but how can I do so without sounding strange?Pic unrelated.
That's a pretty autistic problem you have there, anon. No matter how you ask for clarification it's going to sound a little funny now, 20 minutes after you already gave an answer. I can't formulate an answer for you since I don't know what you were talking about, what the other person said and what your relationship with them is like, but you could just say something like "Wait, what? I have no idea what you're saying."
>Jump around sciences until 2nd year>Decide to be an actuary and major in applied math with econ emphasis>ez pz>study insurance over the summer before my senior year>fail exam, hate insurance, math and econ are still very easy for me>can't come up with another plan before I graduate with no experience and degree I don't care for (at least I have honors)It's not that I didn't plan for anything, it's just that everyone told me to focus on getting out in four years. I did that despite switching majors so much, but that meant that my whole life was school (even the summers).So now I have no experience and no obvious career goals. I feel like CS would be a good step but I have no experience in that except for basic jave (like barely the fundamentals) and an intro C++ class.Any advice y'all have woulf be greatly appreciated, especially people with years of working under their belt.21 btw.
Despite what people believe, you'll need a lot more than knowing a programming language to get a cs job. If you really want to go that route, teach yourself data structures and algorithms and be comfortable with 3 languages and you should be fine if you decide to pursue that route.
Don't hurry up to finish in 4 years if it means going for a field you dislike. Another year spent at uni can make the rest of your life easier.I know some people who study actuarial sciences and all of them complain about the math and modeling part, I have never heard complains about insurance, so if you have problems with it you're certainly not fit to work in the field. But don't worry, there are plenty of things you can do with math + economy. Have you considered financial modeling, risk management and financial engineering, for instance? Or maybe statics.CS is the go-to field for nerds and people who are unsure about their career and for this reason it can be pretty hard to land a decent job in the field, you'd need to be pretty good and be able to prove it. At least in the west. Don't let this discourage you if you enjoy it, but you shouldn't go in just because it "seems like a good step". There's a lot of information to gather and you'll have to constantly learn new things in order to stay competitive. If you don't enjoy what you're doing you're not going to like working in the field. Or you know, since you seem to like math you could just focus on it and aim to become a university teacher.There are many options for you and I can't think of every one of them, you're the one who needs to decide and you should give it some consideration. Don't be afraid to "waste" a few years to make sure you end up in a field to your liking, you'll be much happier in the long run.
>>17532519I see CS as something long term; it'd be something I invest in with classes over a few years and maybe some side projects.>>17532563In all honesty, I think I just took the exam at bad time of my life. I was really depressed and was just trying tk get through school and the exam was just stress on top of it. I'm an honors student so I'm usually a great test taker, and math is the easiesy subject for me. I wouldn't be opposed to trying again with a better mindset, but not for now.I already graduated too.Finance is interesting, but I'd meed more experience since most entry level finance jobs require a finance degree (and usually accounting experience).
>get a couple tee shirts at clothing store>go to pay at register>cashier asks if I want to get a store credit card and get $15 off, and I could just never use the card>wtf why? what's in it for them?>say no but they badger me until I say yes>ask for my social security number, yearly household income, and hands me a packet to sign>wtf? change my mind im not doing itWhy do they do this? They reduce my purchase by 15 bux and in return I give them my personal info and sign some shit?
A female friend of mine who I've known for a year asked if she could join me on a trip I'm taking next month. I thought it was interesting that she was so forward about wanting to join me and gladly accepted the offer.The problem is that I'm a guy, and I'm well aware of the narrative that surrounds men and women being "just friends" (that is to say, they don't exist, and at least one secretly wants to bone the other). A couple of male friends are already egging me on to put a move on her, or seem to think that this was part of some cunning plan on my behalf to get closer to her. In reality I have put women/dating on the backburner, and just want to enjoy spending quality time with people I feel comfortable around. I've grown tired of doing everything by myself, and when people themselves offer to accompany me on my trips like this I'm very enthused.I won't lie and say that I am not attracted to her. The problem is I've been burned so many times and while she is fun, interesting, cool and pretty good looking I can't pull the trigger. I don't think a relationship is what I need right now. And I don't think pursuing her is in the best interest of my emotional/mental wellbeing. The only thing that would change my mind is if, we go on this trip and we find out we are very compatible and there's even some spark. Otherwise the last thing I want to do is muck up a quality friendship with something stupid like "confessing my feelings" (ugh) or some similar nonsense.
I'm worried about my ex. His mental health is bad and I know our split is really heavy on him. He wants nothing to do with my anymore so I should stop caring but I can't. I don't know what to do.
This board fucking sucks cock>Have to actually go into threads to see what's being replied to>Have to scroll all the way to the top of the fucking page to reply to a post>No auto-refresh>Total of five posters on the board at any given time>Three are just shitposters>The other two are normie tumblr cumstains>Same 20 questions over and over again>Everything is about relationshit
>>17532544Ironically the shitposters give the best advice :^) I nominate V for being the most helpful shitposter though but thats only because he's old and prob rapes kids
>>17532544Not having 4chanx is totally your fault you know.Can't argue for the last ones tho.
Have you fucked off?I need trust my short gig tonight, over Come with me
Not if this is even worth posting. My pills got flushed by my girlfriend on August 22 while we where fighting (she did it out of anger) I'm taking hydrocodone 5/325 or what it is. I have been out since then. I am dealing with a boxers fracture. The pain and cramping I am feeling is very real but my girlfriend thinks it's all in my head. I've taking about 3,000mg's of ibprofen today. With in about a 6 hour gap. I do not see my doctor till the 8th. So I guess my question is how fucked am I if I keep taking that amount till I see my doctor again. There's a good chance that she will not write another one cuz I have called and told her what happened to see if she could help (witch she could not help) or even to see if she could not give me aunt hung else for the time being. Pic related: the splint they have me in.
>>17532065Ready for some bad news?You're going to fuck up your liver. You're also actively slowing the healing process at those dosages. Also, taking an opiate for pain from a healing fracture is a bad plan. If you're more than two weeks out from the fracture you need to just tough it out.
>>17532238about 1/4 that dose is ok if you're experiencing swelling, but its not going to do much for pain.
>>17532065also, you stuck it in crazy. crazy isn't going to help you or take care of you.
>>17532242Its OK for swelling, yes, but thats not what OP is using it for and those aren't the dosages he's talking about. He'd be better off going with nothing, especially as he's shown he's incapable of self control.
>boxers' fracture>girlfriend flushes pain medicationLeave her. A government that did that to POWs would be guilty of war crimes. Shit's just not cool.
So my friend was caught with 3 hits of acid last night and got arrested. Other than this he has a paraphernalia charge from a few months back (he's really been fucking up lately). What are the odds he will go to jail? Everywhere I look online tells me something different, I'm looking for people who have any personal experience in this area.This happened in Illinois btw
>>17532542With a misdemeanor prior for drugs he's looking at a felony charge. Your friend needs a lawyer, if he catches the wrong judge theres a very real chance he'll do a year.
>>17532554He's got a good lawyer already. Definitely getting a felony charge I just hope they put him on probation so he gets his shit together.
>>17532441>caught with lsd>has priors>illinoisyeah, hes looking at some time
>>17532561His white privilege could help him out lol. His dad is some bigshot scientist at argonne lab maybe that will help him out somehow.
>>17532557If he's white he might be able to get a plea bargain. If he was in Cook he'd definitely be looking at probation. Being in DuPage, where they aren't stretched quite so thin, I wouldn't hold my breath.
Is there any way I could scrape together a few hundred GBP from people online? I am at university in the UK and really struggling I work 2 part-time jobs and still cannot afford the cost of living. I have begun bin dipping at the back of shops and at one supermarket I was caught and they threatened to call the police. I fear I might need to drop out. Slim chance, but would anyone on /adv/ be willing to send a few paypal donations? Is there any rich people I should e-mail? Fundraising sites?
reddit borrow is okay if you post on reddit regualrly
I love tennis.
I've had this callous on my finger for about 10 years because of the way I hold a pencil. Of course I'm used to it by now, but I'd really like to get rid of it. I draw a lot so I can't just stop using a pencil and I can rarely hold it differently.
Drinking hurts, but I can't stop my head hurts but hurts worse when I dont drink and my nose is bleeding maybe from dehydration. What should I do?
>>17532458If you are referring to alcohol . Stop drinking it and drink some sports drinks.If you are referring to general fluids seek medical attention.
>>17532466Alcohol yes...How can I get water? Is faucet water from hose ok? My parents have me live in backyard and only give me 1 liter of water for day. So if I drink alcohol dehydration happens quick
Is this for real?What the fuck anon. Get more water and stop drinking alcohol. Contrary to popular belief tap water is safe to drink in most areas. Rule of thumb is, if it doesn't taste weird you can drink it. It's certainly better than being dehydrated.
>>17532484Yes I know thank you. I ask for parents to drive to store for water. They may say no, but its hot so no shade also but now I just get hose water
>>17532568Do you want to stop drinking alcohol? I'm confused. Either way drink lots of water because you're going to have a horrible few days until you can drink again.
So I have a serious problem when it comes to blondes, and I was wondering if anyone knows how to help me get better. I have a harcore blonde fetish. It's getting seriously out of hand and really screwing with me. I think that blondes are the apex of women and I've only ever dated blonde girls. When I'm in the internet, if I see a picture of a blonde girl (even if it's not really a compromising picture), I'll usually end up masturbating. In public whenever I see a blonde girl I immediately get hard regardless of if she's even attractive or not. It's seriously out of hand. So basically, have any of you had serious, borderline debilitating fetishes? If so, how did you get yourself over it? I want to be normal. There's a cute brunette girl who's talking to me and who I went on a date with yesterday, but over the night I had a dream that she was blonde instead. There's something seriously wrong with me, and I need some help, /adv/.
>>17532381same problem with fetish for a specific body type (women with thick thigh and ass). To make it even more debilitating my gf is a 5'11 skinny blonde and even though I love her I'm pretty sure she would castrate me if she catch me flirting with another thick qt again.
>>17532387I like chubby women that sre blondes.My life is aight. Gf is blonde pawg but is still pretty petite (~100lbs).
>>17532518wait till you get to your late 30's bro.
>>17532524It's why I'm enjoying things now. Her mom and grandma never got really fat, just overwright from an inactive lifestyle. If she gained that much I'd be okay with it since she distributes it nicely. I'd probably have her do squats too or something.It's a marathom not a race.
That's not a problem OP, that's how everyone is, including myself.R-right?