I want to kms daily. Anons who have pulled through, how did you do it? Or is my brain fucked and this will be my life forever?
>>30922862YOU SHOUD KILL YOURSELF THAT MIGHT HELP, KILL A POLITICIAN FIRST, PREFEREBLY A LEFT WING ONE
>>30922862Getting out my situation with my family
>>30922862Spiritual experiences did the trick for me
what's up with the glowie spam?
i didn't.
Men don't need therapy or crybaby hugboxes like this gay as fuck board, they just need to listen to these great men (pic related) and apply their advice with speed and efficiency. Stop being pussies and start hustling. I have given you the truth, do what you will.
>>30924743>holy shit you're stupidwhen you have the need to sneed
>>30923494>does Plato tell you how to make moneyHere’s a novel idea, get a job retard
>>30923939This old nigga knows what’s up
>>30923958> guy that killed his own troops in friendly fire incidentI’ve never heard of this. How did Jocko kill his own men?
>>30925444Zero people ever in the entirety of human history have ever gotten wealthy from a 9 to 5 wageslave job.
How do I move forward after realizing my mom was an enmeshing covert narcissist in my 30s? I've had a lifetime of never being to really connect with other men on an equal level I was always trying to check for their approval and acceptance.I was never able to talk to women because I was always afraid of something I'd say would enrage them.I could never joke with coworkers about slightly inappropriate topics because I always thought I'd be held to a unique standard.My mom was also a feminist, but not the blue hair type, the hypocritical republican boomer type.She was a damaged slut that entrapped my father for a provider, and then deconstructed a man who once lived on a boat into an emasculated blob who just existed, but he was otherwise a good man. I realized last week after I set boundaries with her for the first time that she turned my dad into an enemy and then poured her emotional effort into me to a pathological level, and positioned herself to prevent me from loving girls so she could extract emotional energy from me. I recognize what she did to me, and how it effected how I interact with people, I've already talked to a woman without fear, I apologized to a pair of friends I had a falling out with 10 years ago because my issue made me act a bitch. I had a relationship with a woman who turned out to be a narcissist like my mom, I started emotionally defending myself until she realized she wasn't going to manipulate me and just left me to raise my son alone. Inow have confidence, mental clarity, and drive to do what I struggled to organize and follow through, the coping mechanisms I had took certain things and pipeed them to /dev/null. I'm now carrying all this baggage, including a son, that I don't see anyway I can build the family I wanted, what young woman wants someone else's child, and I'm not dealing with another man's responsibility.The only thing I have going for me is I have a successful career in IT management inspite of my mental hangups.
>>30924541>She was a damaged slut that entrapped my father for a provider, and then deconstructed a man who once lived on a boat into an emasculated blob who just existed, but he was otherwise a good man. That's all women though
>>30924551Feminists always say "behind every great man is a great woman". But they never take credit for failed men.
>>30924541Bitches be like that.
Dang
Three years ago I became obsessed with inteligente. I played chess everyday and did a lot of useless stuff like taking countless IQ tests.However, I've lately felt that I'm too lazy to think as hard as I can. I spend my days without thinking, how can I become smarter and stop this?
>>30925587What type of problems? You mean like buying a book that has problems to solve?I don't read books anymore, I just watch documentaries on YouTube, which I'm sure isn't enough
>>30925628Ideally you want a field of study man. If you don't have one then you probably want to find one first.
>>30925651I like history and philosophy, I guess those are valid fields
>>30925668You're fucked then lol
>>30925677Why
How do I deal with being gay? It's against my religion and I've tried everything to make myself straight, but it doesn't seem to work. I can't get men out of my head.Can I be both a Christian and gay? I feel so lost. Any anons with advice?
You don't need to be gay in order to take ownership of being molested as a child.
>>30924810Do you like heat?Damnation is going to be hotter than you can ever imagine. I will rejoice in your furnace of an afterlife.
>>30925497When were you touched?
>>30924235Lookup Saraphim Rose. He was a gay volcel monk, and gigachad of the faith.
>>30924554Not true. There were even "gay" saints, like Fr. Seraphim Rose. The same with any sin. Don't act on it.>t. one who struggles with faggotry
PLS gib adviceI'm 22 seniore in college.I don't understand how dating works at all or even how to find potential datesI have no idea how people are dating let alone meeting multiple romantic partnersI got lucky over 2 years ago and had 1 GF so not KHHV but very inexperienced.>inb4 go to classpeople are rarely making friends in class, everyone who talks are already friends. people are antisocial as fuck and on their phones with airpods in>inb4 cold approachare you fucking kidding? I don't know a single person who does this and have seen a guy approach once maybe twice in my damn life. girls look at you like you're a psycho and gib # because they're scared shitless>inb4 go to barsI go into a bar and know absolutely no one, what the fuck do I do. everyone there is already friends>inb4 looksmaxxI'm 6'2, more jacked than 85% of guys at my gym, and lean. I've been told I'm attractive my whole life and have been catcalled by a group of girls when running outside.PLS GIB the protocol to consistently go out and meet potential datesComment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>30925615Don't try to date, try to make friends and dates should come later. I don't mean find women to befriend, just make friends in general. Friends lead to new experiences and that opens up your chance to meet women in an organic way.
Your main problem is you care too much about what people think. Don't. You're already on this board, you're already halfway there.>barsgo to one with a pool table or similar game and ask to join themThis is for friend, not girl. Girl come after friend. You seem to be attractive to a point that you've even said girls catcall you and you're just too autist to do anything about it.There is no protocol, just do it.
anons i started talking to this girl i met in a store next to my workplace and she's cute, we share the same taste in music, we both like the 80s music era a lot, collect vinyls and we clicked kinda quickly by liking the same bands, songs and stuff but that's about it.She's really interested in me and became pretty obsessed real quick. That's the first time someone obsesses over me instead of the other way around and it honestly is annoying and completely turns me off.I was playing vidya the other day and didn't answer her text for half an hour and she was immediatly pissed. That happened 2 times already and we've been texting for a week maybe and drank coffee twice between work breaksI'm rather introvert and have had one relationship for 3 months so that's the only expierence i have but she's like even more introvert than me and also seems to overthink a lot more than i used toThe problem might also lie with me as i'm not over my ex i guess as i still miss her (i broke up cause overthinking led to jealousy and that led to me breaking up)How do i tell her that i don't want to keep dating? It will probably break her heart if i say that
>>30924720Just tell her that you like her but you want to take things slow because you're an adult with some experiences.If she doesn't handle it well, then politely tell her that you don't think you should see each other anymore. If she responds well, then just take it slow and realize it's a good sign that she responds well to establishing some boundaries.
>>30924783>I have zero experiencehow do you intend to gain experience? You've gotta take that leap of faith
>>30924802I’m bad at making the first step like kissing. The girl on nye was staying over night and we lay in my bed, cuddles a while after I felt she wanted to do more I told her I’m bad at making the first step and after that she started making out with me. Probably could’ve get laid there but was too inexperienced. In this situation now, she has less experience than me so no one to show me the roots here
>>30924904You have to take charge and become the captain, not the passenger. You know she's already into you so you'll have to be the one to initiate here. Girls like a guy who can assert himself without coming across rapey
>>30924904Understandable I was in your position anon take the risk to the chin you was already laying in bed with her let your intrusive thoughts take over… if she rejects you now you know what was on her mind it’s better to find out than keep guessing your just blue balling yourself don’t think about how well you do or bout the sex just do it… pick her up kiss her toss her on the bed plenty of teasing
I won't go into the details, all dad was saying about mom was there's things that he isn't allowed to do, that she is. That she stopped him from doing certain things, then he also said mum does a similar thing to me, saying don't do this thing, then saying it's ok other times or something along these lines. I don't see why he has to vent to me about mom, I don't want to say too much. Other things have happened but as I said I don't want to expose myself on here.
>>30925610Your pops has no one to talk to. Maybe have some empathy and make him understand you’re there for him?
>>30925630First of all, my mum isn't a bitch you are being rude, nor is my dad a chump. He is the dad who stepped up for me, when aside from my mum and nan, most of my biological family discarded me (like my bio dad).I agree that I am a chump and a bitch.
>>30925658Well maybe youre not a bitch or a chump afterall.
>>30925652I've tried my best to do that in the past, he's talked to me like this for most of my teens, I get worried about taking sides, I have tried to be empathetic. Who do I side with? My biological mother, or my stepdad who I call my own father?
>>30925665My mum and dad are my rocks in life, and well, I disagree with you, I am a bitch and a chump. Mum has always stood by me, and dad has been in my life for 10 years.
My attention span has deteriorated so much that I quite literally will watch youtube videos at 1.5x speed while switching 4chan tabs every second while holding one hand on my dick, cracking my fingers every 30 seconds and pacing around every 5 minutes. When I sit down to actually focusing on something, I lose focus in 30 seconds. How do I actually overcome this?
>>30925531meditation
>>30925531LMFAOOOOO, same, the answer is, probably human contact, and less screen time, to bad im an irredeemable socially inept retarded lover who literally nobody wants to associate with, so I hope with just endless doomscrolling,.I hope my afterlife is at least peaceful
how to cure my autogynephilia
Instead of getting rid of your kink, how about you learn to just masturbate to it without letting it take over your life?
>>30925611Start talking to your parents more, quit drugs, pick up reading and lifting, and if you wanna be a girl be one on the internet. It won’t go away completely but you’ll be glad you did it
>>30925611Based kink.
i'm a guy who is a little skinny fat and i want to shrink my belly so i don't look fat when i'm relaxed or stitting down but i don't want to have any abs or muscles
>>30923271one meal a day fast, its that easy. I lost 45lbs in the last year.
>>30925591with water throughout the day?what's in the meal exactly?
Are you actually fat, or is your spine crooked? Can you suck it in and have a flat stomach?Also no you can't spot-reduce fat. You lose it all, randomly from all parts of your body, and if you dont eat right (starve yourself) that belly will persist, especially if you're 30s.
>>30925618also ozempic is now a thing if you dont care about those potential unknown side effects
>>30925603NTA but what you want. As long as it's below your daily expenditure you'll lose weight. But of course eating healthier options would be more beneficial
Are bad news liberating or overwhelming? For the last 16 years I've been living fearing I have cancer because of this lump, needless to say that has taken a huge toll on my confidence. Now I'm finally tired of living like this and I've decided to get it checked, what am I in for?
>>30925636If it was cancer you would have been dead by now. The real question is what are you gonna focus your anxiety on now that you know you're not dying of cancer.
After 16 years it's probably safe to say it's not cancer. I have a lump on my forearm and a millions lumps all over my body, now that might actually be cancer.
How do you deal with Normie co-workers?
>>30925572Repeat thread.
>>30925572I'm one of them so naturally it's easy. My best advice is just to join them.
>>30925572I can fake being a normie pretty easily until I actually have to talk about my life
>>30925581I fell asleep before I could reply to any of you guys sorry >>30925582I can do small talk but I cannot even pretend to care about Taylor Swift or the newest football game, I just nod and say "uh huh" and find any excuse to segway the topic to something else.>>30925584Mostly the same, I can do small talk with almost anyone but I have a voice in my head telling me that I should never ever tell others about my personal hobbies and interests outside of work because I feel like they might use it against me somehow. For the record I'm 23 working in my first fulltime office job straight out of College.
>>30925624You dont have to like every normie topic that comes up. There are lots of times where i do the same exact thing.
What has your experience been like on here?Im somewhat nervous.
Some groups and classes will have people you click with, some will not be to your taste. Don't let it discourage you too much if you get a dud. Very big congrats on touching some grass. I sincerely hope you have a good time.
>>30919803I went to a japanese language meetup and introduced myself in japanese, then almost no japanese language conversation happened after that. some guy bought his homework in and people did review it, and i stopped going after a few weeks. i think this one lady was interested in me but my social anxiety crushed me.i tried looking for other groups, but everything is crypto, coding or ponzi schemes. so i dont bother
>>30919803I joined an art group. People were nice, but it was boring. Most people were socially awkward and not people I would want to go to dinner with.
>>30919803Depends. Mostly shit.
>>30919803Garbage for everything, fuck reddit & it’s users for suggesting this piece of shit site
why dont women just approach meni dont understand
>>30925503Don't quote scripture, scum
>>30925535Why not?
>>30925533What the "black pill" fails to show is that there is someone for everyone.
>>30925475I will take any opportunity to share this obsession I have.I've refined my process so the last two times I was more natural.My initial trials:>identify random men at my university>take note of their usual routes>search them on social media if possible to ensure they are single>"hey, I noticed you around and want to get to know you better. Would you like to grab coffee some time?" Cue social media exchange or date set-upOutcomes were unsuccessful dates, one was flabbergasted and scared, one stood me up, and one was so charmed he reached out to me twice later and we had a second date a year after (we were incompatible)New process, tailored to situation:>research classmate on social media>timed everything perfectly so I would sit next to him in class, took all possible opportunities to speak to him and prolong our contact>propose we do group project together>we end up becoming friendsThis worked...sort of...but I was emotionally devastated by this relationship due to an obsession that preceded our contact by a year. He was also the most attractive to me, his face was an art piece. And he was so sexy, slender, and small. Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>30925243can confirmt. chad