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Hi /adv/,
>be me
>be actual roastie
>not even ugly
>not even whore
>virgin actually
>never even masturbated
>ashamed and embarassed
>want boyfriend, want to have sex, but lack any self-confidence
>consider surgery, but it's expensive and scary
>tfw I'm wasting my best years
What do, /adv/?
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>>18449593
Honestly cosmetic surgery does not solve all problems, once people get it it starts an addiction..they need to change this and now it's that etc etc until you find yourself looking like an inflated plastic thing resembling a human. What you really need to work on is how you see things, once you make things other than your vaginal appearance a priority you'll see that surgery is a waste of money and risk.
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>>18449382
>ashamed and embarrassed

OP, listen now: a person who will truly love you won't care about your floppy vagina. There's more to a person that a curved dick or big vag lips. Sure, it's not the most aesthetically pleasant thing, but it's not the end of the world. Any partner who would laugh at your vagina or drop you because of something like this just proves himself not to be very interested in you. Or rather, shows that his interest is highly superficial.

Pretty pussy is just one of the countless things that make a girl attractive. In the grand scheme of things it's really not that important.
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>>18449628
I was bullied in middle school a lot. By the time I got to highschool it stopped, and guys and shit would approach me, but I never really assimilated, I guess.
>>18449630
I'm very awkward and shy. I feel like if I don't stop talking to them, then they'll do it to me at some point. And I don't want to disappoint them, and I'd rather not try then confirm what I'm afraid of. To me it's preemptive, more than anything.
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>>18449634
>once people get it it starts an addiction
Only in people with an addictive personality. Just like not all smokers or beer drinking people will get fucked up by missusing them. Slippery Sloope Fallacy.

> What you really need to work on is how you see things, once you make things other than your vaginal appearance a priority you'll see that surgery is a waste of money and risk.
If her only problem are her flaps, she probably wont do more, simply because it's fucking expansive. Only rich fucks can afford to degenerate themselves with surgeries.

This is something which will last her for ever and make her happy. That should be worth those shekels. It's better than always having that shit in mind and just trying to talk oneself to like something you actually don't.
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>>18449648
I know that, logically. But what if, when I finally do decide to get a boyfriend and decide have sex with him, he's disgusted or whatever? I don't know if I could handle that, so it doesn't seem worth it to even try.

I spontaneously messaged an old classmate of mine and now have no idea how to move the conversation forward. I ask questions and she answers them some time later (doesn't feel like she is disinterested). How to move the chat forward to get to know more about her
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Start talking about something you're interested/know/have done and she will relate and talk about her. Conversations ser all about talking and hearing

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Ok guys I'm kind of in deep shit here. So I don't go on this board ever, maybe I'll go and give some advice to other people on here as payment. So little back story my ex gf is bipolar receives California SSI. She is only able to work. She has bad anxiety and depression. But whatever that's a discussion on its own. But I got her pregnant. I'm pretty sure it's mine. But we wanna get a DNA test after it's born so I know for sure. She is ok with. Now I can't afford child support. I know that if I sign the birth certificate the state is going after me. I want this child and I'm excited to be a father. But anyways, she we were gonna get a 3rd party DNA test and so she can keep the results in case I dip out then she can go after me for child support. Is there a way out of child support and she can be rest assured that if I run she can go after me for child support.
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>>18449603
Also excuse my typos please I'm on my phone.
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>>18449603
If you want this kid, then what's there to lose? Take custody of the kid. She has a disorder that would make it easier for you to claim custody.

>Have a job that pays more than hers.
>Mentally stable.
>Have better living space for child.
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>>18449626
That's not what I wanna do?

Plus I don't have proper living space for this baby I do work and make decent money. But I just want the baby to stay with her and I just go over there and pick it up and take it to my house or whatever everyday. She just wants to make sure she can get child support later on. If I take off and ditch the kid (which I'm not)
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>>18449643
If you don't want custody, then Child Support is what you'll have to do if you're the dad.

Period. Like the court will come after you if she proves to them that you're the dad.

http://family.findlaw.com/child-support/are-you-eligible-for-child-support.html

Read up.

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Not to sound silly, but should you keep approaching/start a conversations with girls like this if you aren't a "Chad" ?

Not to generalize, but I've spoken to quite a few girls who look and dress similar to this girl and they reject me.

Maybe these girls don't like me due to how I talk, maybe it's my voice or how friendly I act.

I won't say it's because I'm ugly, because I've seen guys who look worse than me walk around with gorgeous girls frequently.

I admit that I might be the problem.

The only hobbies I have are playing acoustic guitar, weightlifting (started having these hobbies a month ago).

I play videogames 2 hours a day, I'm taking driving lessons and help my parents pay the bills.

Should I become a man that these girls might/most likely want ?

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Keep trying. Everybody get rejected at some point
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She literally have a perfect body. Literally.
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>>18449520
No girl is out of your league, but at the same time I totally get you. For some reason I can only pull women that float around my level of what I've already dealt with, even if I don't want them. Yet if I go after a legit hotter girl that shit is a minefield. And like OP it happens all time. I dunno, I guess my unconscious body movements turn them off I dunno.
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>>18449562
Looks about 17 or 18. So it would make sense if she actually took care of herself. Most teens are tight as fuck in the body department if they don't slob out.
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>>18449520
This and that animated gif dace lady from yesterday(?) in ask the opposite, are the best female bodies I have ever seen.

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Trying to be a weeb
Wanna be a weeb
Going to be a weeb

I need advice on what anime to watch
Dubbed preferred
Hate all you want
Anime series I have already watch and liked
(at least first 20 or completed)
Full Metal Panic
Naruto
Fooly Cooly
Inuyasha
Full Metal Alchemist
Ghost In a Shell (Stand Alone Complex)

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>>18449282
> trying to be a weeb

why faggot
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Samurai Champloo, Watamote, PSG, JoJo's Bizarre Adventure, Cowboy Bebop, Nichijou, Lucky Star
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>>18449282
If you wanna be weeb, watch subbed.
Ergo;Proxy
Perfect Insider
Cowboy Bebop
Katanagatari
Sakamoto desu ga?
JoJo's Bizzare Adventure
Code Geass is great, but have mechs
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Cory in the House

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People who work 12-hour shifts doing something physical on your feet: how do you keep your energy up?

I'm about to start working as a nurse and most of my co-workers seem to power through with sugar, and therefore like 80% are fat and I don't want that.
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>>18449437
What's your schedule? 4 days a week?
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Fuck sugar, get some slow digesting carbohydrates like wholegrain pasta or sandwiches. Eat more, you won't get fat because you'll be burning those calories. Also make sure you stay hydrated, and get the occasional cup of coffee.
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>>18448347
>>18448466
>>18449466

Summer bike taxi operator here.

Changing your diet does 75% of the work. Try to get as many carbs as you can from veggies first. Then from whole grains. Make sure you are getting enough protein or you will get hungry and tired. If you are not sure you are getting enough vitamins from your diet get a multi sup with lots of B. Try to stay away from sugar. Its a cheaply processed carb that just ends up making you crash. Don't eat big meals right before a shift as it can make you feel tired, but make sure that you get your protein in. It will keep you feeling fuller though the shift. Bring carby fruits for energy boosts.

Coffee is good as long as you drink it at the right times. Right around 8 am, 11am-12pm, and 3pm are best because its also when your body produces hormones that make you alert. Don't drink it after 5 or 6 (depending on how sensitive you are) or you will have problems sleeping. Make sure you are well hydrated. Dehydration can make you tired and weak. There are apps that will remind you to drink water at regular intervals.

Make sure you are getting enough good quality sleep. No blue lights in your sleeping area. Have it focused around the circadian rhythm. Take melatonin if you have problems getting to sleep. Good sleep will make or break a shift.

Exercise! Do smaller exercises that support the frequent movements you make for work. For example if you squat at work a lot make sure to work your inner and outer hips to support your main leg muscles. If you're stuck at a desk do back and core workouts. It will keep you from straining and burning out primary muscles as quickly.
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>>18449546
So vegetables and healthy lifestyle?
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>>18449640

Honestly you would be surprised how easy it is to fuck it up.

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My little brother (14) has taken interest in robotics and wants to learn how to code and play with different programs. He is already in a robotics program for next year but he wants to be a few steps in advance.

I don't know jackshit about coding/programming and I'm trying to evaluate my options:

1. Sign him up for a online class. What I had in mind is the Unity/Unreal Engine 4 beginner course on udemy. He will get to learn about coding but at the same time, have some fun and maybe make a littlr game. I think it's better because it won't be too abstract.

2. The other thing I found is some sort of coding bootcamp where he will learn to code with actual teachers.

What should I take?

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GUIDELINES:
Before you post a question, check the FAQ to see if it's already been answered.
Keep questions short for more answers.
If you're not going to like honest answers, don't ask your question.
And please no derailing arguments.

FAQ:
>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
>What do girls/guys think about <an insecurity including, but not limited to: looks, physical traits, personality traits, virginity or otherwise lack of dating experience>
There is no one answer. Preferences differ, but complexes are always a turn-off.

>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Get over it by practising and exposing yourself to it, little by little, step by step. There is no single magical moment that will instantly change you forever.

>I like someone. What do I do?

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>>18449642
Maybe you're subconsciously acknowledging that they're out of your league so you don't want to bother?
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>>18449647

That's possible I guess. I have noticed a few girls were either staring or glancing over at me a few times. But I can't tell if that's a good or a bad thing.

But, I guess you're right. Because they are really hot, and I don't think I could get them. Even if I did, I don't think I'd deserve it
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>>18449642
I wouldn't overanalyze it. I think for most people their interest in sex and the opposite sex is kind of an ebb and flow. Could be hormonal, could be that your lack of masturbation for three weeks caused your sex drive to fade a bit (it spikes at first but typically, the more you come the more you want to come), could be that them being so bountiful actually makes it less exciting and more mundane to be around them, could be that you are having such a great time and feeling so good that you feel fulfilled without needing anything else...
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>>18449653
>deserve
Women aren't passive prizes that are awarded. If she thinks you're good enough for her, you are, it's only up to her judgment. If you disappoint when getting to know you better she can stop hanging out with you.

Don't shoot yourself down before anyone else even got the chance to.
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>>18449638
"Wanna grab a coffee sometime?"

Just ask her during one of those moments when she comes to you and initiates small talk. Be casual about it.

This year I will turn 25. I moved back in with my parents after college, living with roommates was terrible. I'm well off now and I keep thinking about moving out of my parents' house but the more I think about the less reason I have for doing it. The thing is if I don't, I'll just be right back where I am the very next year, and I don't see that cycle ending. Ever.

I can't articulate a coherent question, I guess I'm just looking for some feedback.
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>>18449580
More like a college student who is trying their best to do what is right for parents since the other two fuckwad siblings fucked off and didn't go to college.
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>>18449577
I REALLY don't give a fuck about them or how selfish I am
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>>18449616
Your parents must be so proud to have raised someone just like them
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>>18449616
See, that's why our generation will always be remembered as the fucking ass hats that older generations claim us to be.

Why can't people just be fucking grateful. Why do these egotistical shits come onto this board looking for advice for their egotistical lifestyles.
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>>18449577

While OP should be moving the fuck out, any parent who expects their child to take care of them, and ESPECIALLY one that says it as a reason for having kids, is a shitty parent.

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can you get STDs from getting your dick sucked?

long story short i've been invited to this party and i've overheard this girl has a plan to suck my dick but she's a bit of a whore so i don't know if i should be worried

it's a serious question, not a troll
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>>18449405
you're a very fun guy
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>>18449405
Different anon my dude

When it comes to getting the dick wet we are perplexed by women who just want to suck guys randomly among other things
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>>18449050
It's possible, but not as likely as unprotected vaginal sex. Some STDs are only present in saliva in such low concentrations that it's virtually impossible to get infected that way.
If she has any small cuts or wounds in her mouth or throat, the chance of infection from oral sex goes way up for everything.
And, of course, there are some STDs that are as happy in the mouth as on the genitals, like cold sores, they're a form of herpes.

So, Anon, if you're planning to get your dick sucked, bring a condom or three. I'd recommend one taste-neutral, then one or two with some fruit taste, strawberry or vanilla or something like that.
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>>18449471
>So, Anon, if you're planning to get your dick sucked, bring a condom or three
have you ever been sucked with a condom on? just don't even bother with that shit. it's the same as not being sucked at all.
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>>18449644
Well, if you prefer potential STDs...

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I came across my flatmates girlfriend one the way to the kitchen and she smiled at me. When I got back to my room I cried for like an hour

She was so pretty, I wish I was as pretty as her. I've never had a boyfriend.

They go on dates and laugh and talk together and have sex.

I think I flirted with my flatmate when we first moved in and he was disgusted.

I just want to die. I'm surrounded by couples all the time and it hurts.
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>>18448074
Ok then meet new people, or seduce a guy you're friends with into a romantic relationship?
It's really not that hard to seduce a guy into a romantic relationship (if he's not a chad/alpha/freak). Especially if he's single and lonely.

Or again - meet new guys. Even at the bar, or at parties.
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>>18447967
Post pic, I'm an makeup artist and you might be doing some unflattering things. Lemme see what can be done.
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You want the truth?

Post a picture of yourself. I'll give you the truth, no bully.
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How often do you ask men out?
Every boyfriend I've had, I initiated. Hell, every date I've had, minus one, I was the initiator. And I'd consider myself an attractive girl.
How old are you? I think you've got some other things to work out if you think that you have a deadline for romantic dating. People go on dates and be cute together at every age. I watch my divorced parents do it in their 60's. I see dating in my grandma's retirement home. Romance has no curfew.
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>>18449614
Where I live, any woman would rather die than initiate any form of contact with a man.

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Is it immoral to fuck an escort if it is legal in the country you're in?
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>>18448599
Immoral? Nah, I don't think so.

It's pretty fucking desperate though. I and most of society looks down on people who reach so low as to pay for sex. Pretty pathetic.
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>>18449410
Na, op don't listen to this butthurt guy.

I recommend eros though.
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>>18448599
No. Why would it be?
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your feeding into a womans habit which will destroy her. she doesnt want to have sex with you, imagine the social foundation that needs to be laid with most self respecting mentally healthy women and then imagine what it would take to ignore that, and let a man you dont know use your body for his own pleasure, all women really have is their dignity at the end of the day, how will she be a good mother that raises healthy children with all that shame and guilt?

plus you will be down a few hundred which could be used to much better gain
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>>18449623
Honestly, it cannot be worse than 9 to 5 in a cubicle. Or working at a callcenter. Or serving customers in fast food. Prostitution actually seems downright empowering compared to a lot of "normal" jobs.

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So I met this girl 2 weeks ago who i cuddled up with and wanted to sex me
i gave her my number but because im an antisocial insecure autist i havent messaged her since
is it too late to ask her to hang out?
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>>18449481
I thought it was funny...
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Dont get too excited she probably found another duck to play with
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>>18449519
Yeah, but it was cute-funny. Got for your gf but kinda autistic for a ONS. You don't cuddle with a slut.
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>>18449080
>I met this girl 2 weeks ago who i cuddled up with and wanted to sex me
i gave her my number but because im an antisocial insecure autist i havent messaged her since

Guess what ?
You're not an anti-social autist.

Anti-social autists don't get numbers (especially not from girls)

I assume you're joking about the austist thing, you're a normie.
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>>18449080
Well we if she is a slut then she doesn't really give a shit and is used to be discarded so go for it. Worst case she lost interest and is set on someone else or best case you get stinky fingers.

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How do I learn to accept the mediocrity that is adult life?
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If you are bored, stop being boring.

You're an adult now, no one is responsible for your life but you.

Go buy some cement and rummage through the trash until you have enough beer bottles to make some kind of giant, bottle/cement James Woods statue or something.
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>>18449604
>Go buy some cement and rummage through the trash until you have enough beer bottles to make some kind of giant, bottle/cement James Woods statue or something.
Where the fuck did that come from?
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Get a physical job
Be agresive
Fight with bare hands to any provocation
Use girls like fucktoys
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>>18449612
I dunno, it'll give OP something to do though. They'll be the only person to have built a giant James Woods out of cement and bottles.

Think of all the puss he'll be swimming in with that thing on his lawn.
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>>18449629
Sounds like half the population of Baltimore minus the job thing.

So I could use some advice on losing my wizard powers. I posted about this yesterday too but that thread was about whether or not I should persue her at all, now I'm asking how I should go about that. There's a girl who I've known for years, but never spent much time with until recently. A few days ago we were running a stand at the local farmers market for a community garden we volunteer at. She teased me and shit the whole time, and kept dropping ice cubes down my shirt. After doing the ice cube thing a few times she asked me if I wanted to get her back by doing it to her. She touched me in some way every few minutes as well. It kind of seemed like she was trying to flirt with me but she acts playful like that around everyone.

So what do you suggest? I've resolved to try to start a relationship with jer but I've never successfully done that with a girl before. Pic very unrelated



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