>I’m a swimmer (not professionally, just a hobby)>I post photos of me in swimsuit, on dating apps>pickrelated.jpg>I match with a girl>She ask why I’m in a speedo>I say I like to swim and to show off my body>I’m really fit>She ask where I like to swim>Name a local sport center>She says I’m a sick pervert because there’s children who swim there and they shouldn’t see a grown man in a speedo>Before I can even reply, she block meHow the fuck can I stop being so pissed off at that BS? It take me so much time to get a match, and she has to just troll me like that!
>>34084221Oh. So the bitch calling you a pervert had a point.Gyms allow women to wear skintight leggings. You're obviously using your looks for attention in a dating profile. That's gross for your culture.
>>34078899>How the fuck can I stop being so pissed off at that BS?What are you 12? What do you give a shit about what some random stranger on the internet has to say? Of what importance is it?
>>34084268Online dating= ok to hit on womenHitting on women at sport center = not ok
Speedo?
What is a speedo?Is it droggo Whenever you goDo the sweemo
If you belong to an ethnic background that has a bad reputation how should you conduct yourself when around others? How do you separate yourself from a stereotype?
>>34083560im black and probably going to kms since im a low iq conquered subhuman
>>34083560>How do you separate yourself from a stereotype?I won't read threads posted by subhuman criminals.
>>34085922Feel free. Do it in your own country however.
Sorry, but there's no cure for being somali
you'll never win racist's affections, don't even bother. don't even try to get close to white people, it's almost never worth it and they never see you the same as they do other whites. any interaction with them should be kept to mandatory stuff and maybe trifling pleasantries.
Just go to meetup dot com and meet people they said... are there other sites where events are listed? I quit drinking so bars are sketchy and am currently out of ideas of what to go out and do alone especially at night
>>34088472This happens everywhere but dude, you're a smart guy, just filter those things and ignore them. Just like people, meetup is not a monolith. I've found some really amazing leaders and meetups and friends from that site. 60% of my experiences were absolute incredible, 20% were great, 15% were okay, and 5% was like hmm maybe not again. That's because I do something called - selecting where I go. I don't go to gay shit. If the description reads too strict for example. I try not to pay too much mind to the attendee list although I do check it. It all says panjeet and Muhammad but then I go to the event and they're not there.And if a panjeet does come, it ends up being a really nice person. Why? Because I go to hiking meetups, to conversation evenings, to board games and ttrpg, to bar meetups and dinner with strangers. I go to places with culture, I go to places where subhumans who only want to pick up girls don't go to and guess what? If one does manage to slip through they are QUICKLY filtered by the group. Having an actual disturbance only happened to me 3 times in 100 meetups.Go to the right places and stop stressing out in your brain. The reality is that panjeets bothered me exactly 1% of my entire time on meetups, everyone were super nice to me and the majority are girls. And no I'm not handsome and I'm fat. And no I'm not a social mastermind I only started this March and before that did gaming for 28 years. Still do and I'm 29 now
>>34086719>If you're in NY, you're close enough to NYC so just go there.I'm far enough away that it would have to be something REALLY worth the hassle of spending half a day driving and tolls to the city and gas like maybe a concert or a sports game not some lame ass event I have to pay a website just to view and then pay to go to some strange event I don't give a shit about. IDK the people who use this site must not be very picky about their own interests. One or two people here seem to push this site and it just always seems suspect to me at least not worth paying for in my area.
>>34083059Yes, they are. But you'd rather stay in your cave looking at shadows.
>>34088472It do be like that, you forgot toastmasters.
Holy shit. I found a jackpot!!!A Group Gym class. I really need someone to tell me if I'm doing my exercise poses correctly or not lmao
What's a good set amount to save up in general to move out? I get along with my parents fine, but im honestly fucking tired of living under their rules. Yeah it's easier on bills but realistically I'm ready to be on my own and if I gotta pay more so be it. I just want to know a good general amount so that I can start saving now.
>>34086306Calculated your monthly expenses (rent, food, utilities, insurance, transport, etc.) and I would say 4 to 6 times that
if you have a steady job you dont need to have tons saved up. Just enough to pay rent and move in and keep the ball rolling
>>34086306At least 6 months' total expenses. It may take you that long to find a job, and beginning expenses (like security deposit for an apartment) are higher than later running costs will be
>>34086306rent is so expensive now i'd wanna have $10000 towards deposits, moving, 1st & last month etc. It would be better to save up for a down payment on a house at this point.
Beautiful women fill me with dread. Especially if she's older, intelligent, fun to be around, and fucking most definitely if she likes me. The more a woman shows interest in me, the more dread I feel. I can't stop thinking about her, I walk around all day barely paying attention to life. If she smiles at me I wanna kill myself. I think it's the hope, the hope that this time I'll finally grow some balls and ask her out. The hope that she might say yes, that we might end up together. The fear that she might say no, or that she might change her mind later. The fear that we'll fall in and then out of love. I dread dread dread all day, until eventually she either loses interest or I remove myself from her path. Whenever I cut a woman out of my life, I feel at peace again. Empty, depressed, lonely, yearnful... But at peace. I guess that just means I'm weak, insecure, and I can't handle the challenge, I can't handle life. I can't handle love.
>>34086774But normies will tell you it's better to have loved and lost. Everyone pretty much knows the first 6 months of the relationship are the best, and everything afterwards is just work. But are those 6 months worth it? There's this woman, man I'm so in love with her I want to die. And the fact that she might like me too is just tearing me up. But every time I try to take things deeper, she'll say or do something and I reel back from anxiety. I just wish she'd spit in my face and tell me to fuck off. When I think about her my stomach hurts.
>>34086777You may not believe this but I spend most of my time walking. Got tired of vidya, got tired of the internet, and no real friends so... I walk. Usually for 3 to 5 hours at a time, just walking. Thinking. It doesn't help at all. I do appreciate the animals and the trees and especially the sky. I love the sky more than anything... Except the woman I'm yearning for. It just makes me feel more lonely.
>>34086786>But are those 6 months worth it?In my opinion, no. Every moment of pleasure or love that you experience turns into an equal amount of pain when you lose her. I honestly prefer just being even-keeled and not engaging in any emotional rollercoaster.>There's this woman, man I'm so in love with her I want to die. And the fact that she might like me too is just tearing me up.That's not a great situation. It's better if she loves you and you just like her. Meaning that she should be putting in more effort than you, or at least equal effort.I've done what you've done multiple times and it never worked out.
>>34086794Anon, you're not doing it enough okay. Keep trying to enjoy life alone. The moment you are at its peak you'll comfortably have conversations with women knowing you're okay no matter what happens, as opposed to these idiot NTs who get overly excited and freak out all the time.
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My mom always works on Christmas. She's my only parent. We live in a large house so the emptiness and loneliness is exponentiated. All my friends are with their families so I can't bother them. Same with other relatives who I'm close with. The town is like a ghost town so I don't want to go there. I'm caught up with my work so I don't have anything to do. It's so depressing that I don't have a normal large family with siblings and both parents and I always wonder why I deserve this. I don't think I've ever had a normal Christmas or a Thanksgiving or any holiday for that matter. She always chooses to work on holidays. What do I do?
>>34086547She works at a hospital>>34086560They are literally with their family. I don't know how it is outside of where I'm from but here literally everyone spends the whole day with their family on Christmas
>>34086756yes I meant join their family gathering
>>34086262Nurses have tough jobs. It’s unjustified to be critical of her decision over your own loneliness. Act like an adult and stop crying over it.
>>34086986This but show up using your birth name and not doing a falsetto voice
>>34086221You and mom should have decided a while ago that the rest of the world was crazy and Christmas is actually December 27 (or whatever day she's off) and that is when you two are going to celebrate it. Then you can treat the 25th as just another day and enjoy your own private Christmas together.
A few months ago, Instagram's algorithm showed me a really pretty girl. I decided to Google her name, and her LinkedIn profile came up. Today, I saw she posted an Instagram story with my name censored (LinkedIn notifies you when someone views your profile), but I realized it was me. The thing is, I have a kind of funny last name, and the story she posted was about that. Should I reply and try to take advantage of the situation? Or would that make me seem like a stalker?
>>34087223Hmm. How ugly? Jew rat ugly or Jaykwan ugly? You may just be able to go for it.Nah I'm jk do not or She'll doxx you online as a creep and youll be infamous
>>34087263Yes, maybe you're right. I should learn from my mistakes; next time I should use an account with a fake name. I flew too close to the sun and got burned.I hate my life
Post nameBoth names
>>34087181I don't see the problem. "This is the real life Joe Blifiblik here. Since you find me so fascinating, maybe we should meet."
>>34087181George?? George costanza??? I can't believe it! I can't believe it's you oh my GOD! can we get a picture together or something? "KRAMERRRR!! I CAN'T HAVE ANY SAUCE ON MY BAGELS"
I am being slandered by an online gaming rival who is trying to accuse me of horrific crimes. Search results for my username come up with horrible things about me, and I am absolutely terrified.I need someone to help me remove search results from Bing. Tell me how I can tell Bing I need something taken down. My life at the LEAST could be on the line. If my family sees the slander I could lose much more than just my stupid life.
OP, you're making a mistake Chris Chan wouldn't make, and that is letting your humiliation define you. I don't care if this fucker got a pic of you being naked on a site, you need to stand tall and be confident. Look at Donald Trump, motherfucker is on the Epstein List yet still stands tall despite it. Do the same.
are you a pedophile? if so, seek the nearest telephone pole and drive your car into it at max speed
>>34087476Shut the fuck up anon. OP, is going through a rough spot. He does not need some fucking jokester accusing him of what he isn't. Christ you got the reading ability of a 12 year old.
>>34087407Relax. Nobody uses Bing
I've spare money, I'm only 18 and I do believe I'm smart enough to not lose all of my money, pretty good conditions to start investing on the stock market.Besides that, I still hesitate doing that because of the feeling that I may be doing something unethical. Is it a real concern or am I just attached to my current situation and scared of growth? Are my future deeds made using the gains worth being part of things I despise? Is being a member of society enough to make the possible extra guilt of these investments not worth considering?
>18>think you won't lose all your moneyThat's not how it's going to fly. You are young and therefore inexperienced in the world. If your friends say jump, you will ask how high. Parties where stupid shit happens will happen, and that costs what little you have on liquor and weed. Money will slip through your fingers and that's non-negotiable.
>>34087477I would've related 100% to your feelings when I was 18. Look for ways to invest and grow your money without putting it into standard stocks. My choice has been gold and silver. For you, go to the library or thrift stores and see what you can learn. Info in books tends to be far superior than internet searches.
>>34087477Understand what you're doing. Buying stocks means actually buying a tiny piece of a real world company. If the company makes money, you get a piece of it; if the company loses money you lose money. The only thing potentially moral or immoral about it is the choice of company. If, for example, you believe strongly in protecting the environment, you might not be comfortable owning a tiny piece of a company that pollutes.
>>34087477Because investing means buying into actual companies that might do well or badly, your investment is not guaranteed. If your company loses money, so do you, and companies do go up and down in value from day to day.That's why a lot of beginners hedge their bets by investing in several companies at once rather than betting on just one. That's what mutual funds are - a company like Fidelity or Vanguard combines your money with a lot of other people's and invests it all into a basket of different stocks, counting on the likelihood that if some do badly, others will balance them out.
>got home from bf's family christmas at like 11pm last night>go to my car this morning at 7am>step on this box on my porch>not signed by anyone, just a tiny box with a tiny piece of tissue paper and a single bellI am really creeped out. There was no similar box on any of my neighbors porches in the culdesac. I do not speak to any of my neighbors and am not on friendly terms with them. I already got a card from the management where I live. I did date a few guys before my bf that were a little obsessive but I thoroughly dumped them/blocked them/told them I have a bf and it was literally over a year and a half ago. I'm feeling very threatened and concerned right now. Do you think it's a guy I used to date?My bf has guns but I feel kinda freaked out that a weird guy was on my stoop in the middle of the night just to leave me a creepy present. It gives me "I won't go away" vibes and whoever it was didn't sign it because he knows I don't fucking want himI know it seems like I'm overreacting but it just feels fucking weird
>>34086644giving people adventures to puzzle or have breakdowns over. It's about giving back to the community
>>34087001Why so late at night >>34086930Who would make something up like this
>>34085783It was me. I'm in your kitchen right now.
How very very sad it must be to live within the paranoia so many of you seem to take for granted.If someone meant you harm they would have done you harm.
>>34088466You've never had someone show up at your house when they weren't wanted and it shows
I want to hug a girl and never let go. I just want to feel the touch of a woman.
>>34082401>good>animeTwo things that never combine.
It's amazing, but you'll get there some day.
Cuddling someone you love is an incredible feeling.Sex is nothing compared to this.
>>34087742sex is cuddling but with an extra cuddle that's warm and squishy for your weinie so it's better
>>34087742You know what, I agree.
>>34088434They are doing better than you, right? Maybe they're doing something right and you are doing something wrong.If nothing truly did matter, you wouldn't be asking how to cope.
This quite possibly might be the most autistic question ever asked on this board, but how do you get yourself to like real life more? And when I say that I mean to the question's fullest intent. From real life rewards being more boring to achieve than in video games, to preferring watching anime over filmed movies because I find real life uglier aesthetically. It feels like I can't enjoy living through real life itself since I'm not in some fantasy world.
>>34086399Maybe try to gamefy life.>How?Idk
>>34086399you just realize that video games and anime are just as dogshit as real life as they're made by real life existing faggotsmmmuhhhh escapism. lmfao. sorry but you're always in the same pile of shit no matter where you look
>>34088426Yeah escapism shit is just inspired by reality anyway, often in a tasteless fashion so you're better off developing your eye for reality
>Qt cashier >We vibe >Just when I'm about to go out and give her my card they move hereWhy does this always happen
>>34086801Damn. At that point why even bother wearing the skirt? Just wear panties instead! You're already sitting on your panties because the skirt is so goddamn short and has ridden up so much.
>>34087190this is exactly the reason why dawn's from pokemon outfit bothered me so much. and pokemon is supposed to be like the literal most kid-friendly anime out there. it's the most kid-friendly anime out there and dawn's skirt is absurdly short even for anime's standards
>>34086801She>>34087240Actually somehow makes Dawn's skirt look really long.It could just be the position she's sitting in. Dawn's just sitting normally while she's bringing her leg up to her chest. But you can actually make out a booty cheek. That's way too high up to just simply be the top of her thigh.
>>34087190>>34087240>>34088269i mean it's fucking anime what the fuck do you all expect? lol. of all the weirdest things in anime in general this is probably not even in the top 100
>>34086918The managers.
