Someone told me I have polyuria, but apparently that's when you piss a lot often. I have to pee very often, maybe every hour, hour thirty, but it's never an amazing amount like your first piss of the day
>>34454786Bumping because I answered your question
>>34453023you might have a small or deformed bladderI have a small bladder, I have to pee after very little liquid consumption compared to other adultsbut I'm more resistant than kids so it's not too bad.I mean it's bad but not that bad.Also I can keep my pee for a while until I find a place to pee, I've never pissed myself, apparently women with my same problem just pee a little.poor things.
>>34458113I dont remember this being a thing I've always suffered from, but it's definitely been a problem for years now. Can deformed bladders be created over time?
>>34458153have you had a badly cured ghonorrea or something?scarring can make the bladder smallersome stuff like steroids can too
>>34458184I don't think I had ghonnorea. I know I had steroids when I got my orbital bone fractured, but I'm pretty sure I've had this problem even before then
I love Mexican ladies but Cuba's expensive and I'm still struggling with Portuguese nouns, plus they're mean. Should I go to Iran and try to meet an Indian instead? Can I get either to wear Aztec uniforms and a thong???
I like the movie punch drunk love because an autistic freak learns to stand up for himself and is able to find love. How do I do this. I’m unlovable and when I try to be confident everyone can tell its a sham
>>34456826Try to replicate the movie scene-for-scene in real life.
>>34456826Autists don't need to stand up for themselves to be confident, everyone knows if you push an autistic person far enough someone is going to a hospital and it's usually not the autist. Autistic rage is a widely respected and feared power. I've seen what the autists did to school bullies once the autist snapped, school bully was laid out like a newborn baby after autist got done with him lol
>>34456826Vodka.
>autistic freak learning to stand up for himself and finding love>jewish absurdist comedyyep checks outhow about drink with me
>>34457688Drinking doesn’t work. Still a freak>>34457693It’s not really jewish the main character just so happens to be jewish. Also see above
I love Japanese girls but Tokyo's expensive and I'm still struggling with Japanese verbs, plus they seem a bit hard to impress. Should I go to Manila and try to meet a Filipina instead? Can I get her to wear a neko maid cafe outfit?
Japanese girls are not real it's all a psyop to make us want to commit suicide for not having one
I just went to Tokyo recently in my yumekawaii outfit, and they were super nice me and to the boys also, but idk how they really are
>>34452327Feel free to go to Japan to meet women but please do realize that the pretty Japanese girls you see online are the top 10%, and often look like shit/mid without make up/filters.When I was there, the average Japanese woman was a hard 5-6/10.Most of them probably have some STI because the Japanese genuinely believe that STI's can't survive in a Japanese body because their temperature is >naturally lower than other races.
>>34458032>hard 5-6/10.Those are the sluttiest ones
>>34452332Your filthy frank Japanese depresses me.
What did you learn to like about women besides their ass cheeks, thighs, and pussy?
>>34455315This went over my head completely, sorry. I didn’t watch or read attack on titan
>>34454191This. Op is a peedo.
>>34454123I also learned to enjoy their cocks and balls.
>>34458118Source?
>>34457464BROTHIS POST GIVES ME LIFE LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOLI'm laughing so fucking hard (for me) IRL, because I just relate so fucking much dude. I love pussy SO FUCKING MUCH. just this morning this girl pushed her boobs onto my face and I came so fucking hard. sadly she's not my gf I'm just seeing her as friends (I guess with benefits now) and bro. I have been missing out so hard. I need MOOOOOORE OF THIS MOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOORE
https://youtu.be/LOal99tAiZc?siI can't see how not. Thoughts? How long do you think this will take for the military to allow?
The past month my (now ex) girlfriend started spending a lot of time with a guy she met in a college class. They were going out together drinking until late night and shit like that. Of course when I raised an issue with it I was called jealous by her, I was called jealous by our mutual friends. I was the controlling freak. Yesterday she broke up with me and guess what happened? They're now together. One day after our break up. I was right about everything. Please tell me what to do. How the fuck was everyone on her side? Are there even women who respect boundaries?
>>34455243By default people don't care about validating other people's "conspiracy theories". When you raise the issue, how do expect people to react? They are just going to be like "whatever...." They don't want to join in on your vendetta. But it sounds like your ex had more social capital than you. If you were more of an alpha male your mutual friends would've taken your side regardless of evidence. Most people are NPCs who don't think, they just nod and agree with the person with more social proof/capital.Now, either more of your mutual friends are on your side than you think, or perhaps they just stay quiet to stay out of it. Or it's common that friends don't especially like or GAF about you and just tolerate you in their friend group.The socially adept grown-up thing to do is break up with her before she does with you. You can't go through life needing other people's express validation and agreement. You just do what you gotta do, set boundaries and so forth.Another way to repel social validation is to be an incel chud about it, i.e. whining about "why are wahmen like this?" This whole situation isn't about gender, and commonly happens in all permutations of gender.
>>34455243>How the fuck was everyone on her side? The problem isn't her choices. The problem is you have no boundaries. You can't control others. They're going to do what they want to do. You were the one who decided to stay together after she clearly showed you who she was. You have no one to blame but yourself.>Are there even women who respect boundaries?Of course. Don't be an idiot.
>>34455243so like, if that's you in the replies - relax.you aren't gaining anything by fighting a bunch of people online or letting them get to you.now onto my advice - same happened to me. except my girl just did it all behind my back without telling me anything. intentionally.she "upgraded", to a dude with a job and a house, who's 40 and infertile, and moved countries for him. dumbass bitch threw away 5 years of relationship so she could live rent free and not have to work.I believe, that my situation is really bad. And so is yours. But I really think many men, go through the "Big relationship" where they experience a huge betrayal by their woman partner in one way or another. Then they understand - just how disposable they are. they are so disposable. Men are so disposable to women. I am speaking as a man - we are disposable to them. the guy who says women are archons isn't even wrong. He's wrong in that he thinks that NOT having sex is the answer - you definitely SHOULD have sex and just understand that you're dealing with the devil, and therefore not feel morally bound to women's words. but still have sex, get emotional fulfilment, and get everything they try to get from you, while having a way out and being emotionally safe always. and having more options. and the means to get more options. always.1/2
2/2This is the big lesson I think. I really think so. even when I have a gf, I'm not going to let myself run out of options. It's just not going to happen. I'll be the best boy. I will not let myself be alone. I won't be super fucking loyal to the point of not even speaking to other women. that shit is fucking gay. always, always keep yourself sharp, wanted, desired. you will be nothing without your girl. Girls understand this from BIRTH almost. we don't. sadly, we find this out at 20, at 25, at 27, at 30..fuck that shit, fuck those bitches, FUUUUUUUUUUUCK those bitches. I don't feel bad in the fucking SLIGHTEST.If you deal with me - you're dealing with an honest, loving person. but I'll be DAMNED if I let myself cuck myself out of options in the future, and neither should you, and it looks like you have, and what can I saay man it fucking sucks, deal with it now. and move on from it because you can and will get a new girlfriend and you will be desired and DO NOT GIVE UP, THEY DON'T CARE ABOUT YOUR MYSERY, WOMEN DON'T CARE ABOUT YOU BEING MISERABLE, YOU ARE NOTHING TO THEM. USE WOMEN. HAVE MULTIPLE OPTIONS. DON'T FEEL BAD TO SKIP. BE DESIREDNEVER EVER FUCKING EEVERNEEEVER LET YOURSELF, BE OUT OF OPTIONS AGAIN. NEVER!!!!!! OPPORTUNISTIC!! WE ARE OPPORTUNISTIC!! WE ARE MEN!!!the WORST ENEMY IS YOURSELFyour woman WANTS you to be only hers but she can EAAAAAAAAASILY GET ANOTHER MAN THE SAME NIGHT SHE CHOOSES TO DO THAT.DOOO NOOOOOOOT REDEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEMDO NOT REDEEM THE CAAAAAAAAARRRDD!!!!!!!!
>>34455243yeah thats how women are, they're whores. now that you know that be someone who whores like and bang a lot of them
Is acknowledging a wrongdoing weeks after it happened considered bad? My stupid ass is just realizing that some stuff I did wasn't okay, and I want to apologize to some people. But I don't know if it'll come off as me trying to get good points or get a favor or something. But also if I stay in the shadows I fear it will look like I never cared. And I want to avoid sounding like a victim, so I'd also appreciate advice in that regard.
>>34457997What did u do?
>>34458001Basically being too distant and closed off to a group of people, and I'm pretty sure it has made me look like someone I'm not. They always encouraged me to participate, but I avoided it due to insecurities.
>>34457997If you apologize earnestly usually it's okdon't try to "I'm sorry but..." or "I'm sorry you feel this way", that's not an apology and you know it deep insidejust say you're sorry, why you're sorry.I don't even remember why but I had a fight with my sister some years ago and I realized I over reacted a week and a half into the problemI apologized and she hugged me and that was itthere will be people who will weaponize an apology but that's not people worth having in your life so this is a good opportunity to get rid of bad people in your life too
>Interviewer: Where do you see yourself in 5 years? >Me: I would like to see advancement in that time from the role I am being hired for. >Interviewer: I don't think this will work out. We need someone more patient and will work with us long term.Why am I so fucking stupid? How do I stop being ambitious so I keep my head down.
Suck a dick and get hired.
>>34457550Keep in mind that the interview is not only a way for them to filter you but for you to filter them.
Keep in mind, the Job is only for $15 an hour, because I live in a poor area of the US plus being autistic, I'm lucky they did't offer $7.25
>>34457550Dude, they're expecting someone to stay in the same position for 5 fucking years? Are they retard? I went from an intern to a senior software engineer in 5 years, lol.
>>34457873I guess things are different in poor people jobs. I've had coworkers doing the same job for decades.
I am a man and I feel that with dating, I can't really have "high" standards I guess. I don't think my standards are low but I don't feel that I can't make half the demands that women make. For example, a woman might say she wants a man that makes 100k or more. I could never say thats what I want a woman to make also. Same with gym stuff. I just feel as a man, women hold me under the gun far more than I ever would them. Is that a natural thing or is that a me problem? Like I'd never demand a woman make me breakfast and lunch or whatever. I just want to date a woman who isn't obese, doesn't have kids(but open to kids) and lives sort of close to me. Those are quite literally my only standards. Is that too low? What are your standards for dating? I don't even know what other people prefer. I want to be reasonable overall. How would I even know if my standards are too low?
>>34457808What do you like in a woman? Start with that and then you can have standards. Even the bare minimum for standards is fine.
>>34457808Those standards are fine and sound achievable, lots of women tick all those boxes
I've decided to avoid and ignore my work crush completely because I've realized it's the only way for me to get over her, as I'm still infatuated with her, and we see each other every day. However, while this strategy creates physical distance, I don't think it creates emotional distance, as I have to organize my whole workday around her. I also have to constantly fight the urge to manufacture situations where I could theatrically ignore her to make my point. Is there a better way to do this?So far, I've:>cut down interactions to the absolute minimum required by work,>started exiting interactions as soon as possible,>stopped talking to her, except for short answers to her questions,>stopped greeting her, even in response,>stopped smiling at her, even in response,>started avoiding not just eye contact, but directly looking at her altogether, even when talking to her,>started leaving the workplace during breaks to avoid seeing her interact with other men.For context, I was into her because I thought she was into me, but it turned out she wasn't, which left me shell-shocked. She said she wanted to be friends, but then she didn't initiate or reciprocate at all, so I stopped trying. Now we are half-hearted acquaintances, but I grew to resent her and this dynamic, so I'm looking to end it. My goal is to no longer know her and to be able to work without paying attention to her existence. She's a much more socially adjusted person, and I think she's okay with our current relationship, so this might hurt her a little, but it's a price I'm willing to pay.Thanks for reading. Any insight is appreciated.
>>34449584>I was into her because I thought she was into me, but it turned out she wasn't>She said she wanted to be friends, but then she didn't initiate or reciprocate at all, so I stopped trying>My goal is to no longer know her and to be able to work without paying attention to her existence>this might hurt her a littleDude. She fucking hates your guts. Is it not obvious?I don't even know what else to say. It's genuinely embarrassing seeing you get so worked up over a rejection from a person who obviously wants nothing to do with your delusions of grandeur and self-centeredness.This reminds me of when I was in highschool and thought every girl who even glanced at me wanted to hop on my cock.
>>34456249>this is work not a social gatheringI paid no attention to her until she started talking to me. I assumed it meant she was into me, and as a 27-year-old KHHV, I wasn't going to let it go.
>>34456630tell her you have work to do and if you don't want to report her for slacking off on the job she best get to work also stupid whore (don't say that last bit about stupid whore)
>>34456285>It's genuinely embarrassing seeing you get so worked up over a rejectionI know. It's never happened to me before, and I'm sick of it. But I can't help but feel hurt watching her be friendly towards other men, when she rejected both my love and my friendship. At least I assume she's just friendly towards them... I also assumed she wasn't spending her breaks alone with them, and yet she is, so what do I know? It's like the existence of these people has become a constant and ever-present reminder that I'm not good enough, a monument to my worthlessness.
>>34449584Hmm im not very experienced myself but perhaps youre looking at it the wrong way. You are doing way too much for this woman. Yes all the things you listed, you are doing it while still obsessed with her. I dont think its the healthy way to approach it.Perhaps another way would be, to simply accept defeat. She doesnt like you. And she has the right to not like you. And theres nothing you can do about it. Accept it and move on.Perhaps this is the way to help you out of this rut. You dont have to do all these extra shit to not even look her in the eyes you know. You didnt do anything wrong. You made your feelings known, which is totally legit, and it just didnt happen and thats fine, thats life. Just treat her normally, with respect, and friendliness, since she didnt do anything wrong either.
Help me make sense of my ex's actions >be together 2 years >she was 18 when we start dating I was 22>she was bullied hard throughout school, never had friends, never received any romantic attraction before me, low self esteem, so she told me that being with me was the best thing that ever happened to her>the relationship is amazing, constantly doing new things together, having new experiences and get on great together >we agree to move in together so start looking for apartments together >also start seriously discussing having children down the line>we're both very excited for the future >a week into looking for apartments she gets a new job at a large company >2 weeks into the new job she gets oddly distant with me, give me short replies, gives excuses not to call eachother after work>a week after this she dumps me despite all our plans and apparently great relationship>when I ask her why she wants to break up she can't give any other reason besides "I just don't want to be in a relationship right now">feel devastated because I'm not even sure what I've done wrong Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>34456781realistically, whether there is a guy or not at work she most certainly fell into a group of single girls there and has acess to a new social life that she didnt have before you. If she is with you she wont be able to go out with her new single friends and live the social life that she missed out on, and yes, meet new men. of course there is no reason for her to break up with you over that but I guarantee its mostly likely that reason as opposed to a male coworker.
>>34456781She got a new peer group at work and you don't measure up to them, so she dumped you. Sucks, but that's how women work, especially modern women.It's going to take a lot of willpower but the most important thing you can do is move on quickly and never take her back. Something similar (although not quite as heinous) happened to me after a 5 year relationship and it took me years to get over it because I couldn't understand why she left me. Your gf fell out of love with you because she saw something she wanted more than you, she doesn't value what you have to offer. She's just not the right one after all. Cut contact, go make more friends, and when you're ready, find a better girl. Your ex very likely might come back begging to get back together. Do not under any circumstances accept her back. This is the one chance you have to make her feel the consequences of her actions. Make it count. You've seen her true colors, you'll never be able to trust her again.
>>34456781At least she didn't drag you along before breaking up.But if she does try to crawl back to you, reject her immediately. She's not gonna be the same.
>>34456847>She's fucking one of her coworkers, or trying to get him to fuck her and thinks she has a good chance of success.>>34456797>Got the ick. Monkey branched.>>34456851>She met new prospects at her new job. She realized if she was in a relationship with you, she can't fuck the ten hot, older, successful men that all flirt with the new girl at work.>You didn't do anything. She just wants to fuck Chad and probably enjoys being the center of attention as the new young girl at her workplace.>>34456879>A hot guy flirted with her at work. After getting used, she will inevitably crawl back to you in tears, be strong and reject her.>>34456882>she met Chad at her new job and decided his dick is better than yours. Bitches be like that, don't worry about it. Every GF you will ever have will end the same way.This right here, OP. There's no secret. No need to guess. You probably alread suspected too.
>>34456991Potentially, yes. But it's on a case-by-case basis. So while yes, that is likely, there'll be exceptions if you're lucky.
Am I attractive enough to date a black girl?
>>34456946are you white? then yes
>>34456946Nta but I'm indian.
Bitch
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>>34457739>DID YOU REALLY FUCKING THAT PIECE OF GARBAGE Not sure what you're trying to say dude.
I had an early sexual experience at the age of 5 and I remember getting fuzzy when I saw older girls and women interacting with boys in cartoons and anime. I have since developed an attraction to seeing them get fucked by futas and traps and I am disgusted with myself. What can I do to get rid of this fetish?
>>34456039Will that reduce the amount of times I think about it or will that rid me of my fetish like I want to?
>>34456229it will increase the chances of bothalso, watch this, it's a brief explanation of how intrusive thoughts workhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=laeYq51SYA0
>>34455345Well you don't beat yourself up over it. That just makes it rubber band. You'd do engage with it without guilt than slowly, over months, replace it with something similar to the extant you can. You probably cannot get rid of it. Which is another reason to not beat yourself up over it. All that accomplishes is weakening yourself.
>>34456341>replace it with something similar to the extant you canI’d rather skip to that
Wish I knew this answer
>33M, given about 8 months to live by doc>spent last 3 months going places and doing things I wanted to do>going through advanced directives, last will shit with my lawyer>talking to the little family I have left>putting on a brave face for them>inside i'm a fucking wreck>tried becoming a christcuck, does little to help>don't want to canadian healthcare myselfI'm not ready to go. I have no idea what's awaiting me on the other side. It hurts, but I'm not ready for the pain to end. How do I man up and take my medicine?
>>34456381Sorry, that's just Mint. Definitely one of my more constant comforts these past couple years.
Go out with a bang and do us all a favor with one of them billionaire lizard people and you might get isekaid into an anime harem
We're all dying, you're just dying faster than the rest of us.https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mx4eSkMBx-U
>>34457076Haha. Tempting, but my aim and my energy aren't what they used to be. My friend joked about it the same way.
>>34452242Just try to make your mark on the world known and if you can get treatment that isn't euthanasia, it doesn't hurt to try.
