I'm 20 and I still feel attracted to teenage girls (13-17). I thought it was normal but apparently it's not. I read that most men grow out of liking teenage girls, but I feel like I'll still be this way when I'm 30. Is it true most men just grow out of liking girls that age?
>>34279161>Is it true most men grow out of liking teenage girls?I'm 27, and I know I didn't.
Any last minute advice bros?
>>34278760Nod and smile and say omg that is so interesting when she is talking and really use your face and hand gestures to show how interested you are don't overdo it though.
fap before the date
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>>34278760Say nigger to yourself in your head a lot to make yourself laugh. Then use that good vibe to make the date a lot better. If you're having fun, you can actually make the date good.
>>34278894kek I gotta remember this one because I do that but mostly when I'm alone and bored or sad
How old are you and where are you at in life? What has been on your mind? What are your current goals and hopes? What is something positive about the last couple weeks in your life? Any advice you want to give?
>>34273064What kinda books did you read, if you don't mind me asking?
29, wasted 10 years as a NEET, more or less understand how humans and society work now and don't want to participate in it, pessimistic about future. Hoping for society to fix itself, or killing myself if it doesn't happen. I guess I'm in the process of trying to real talk with people up one last time, so I can at least say I tried then, though most people aren't very receptive to reality. Or maybe I'm just too ahead of everyone else and impatient. Anyway, if things ever get better, I'll be 40 by then and it'll be too late. I guess I should start now just in case, but honestly I'm just tired and can already feel myself solidify into a societally non-functional person with the flexibility soon gone.
>>34277375 (me)Advice: Don't think about things too deeply choose carefully which realities you need to confront and which to leave alone as delusions, you'll only find disappointment and others won't follow you into the abyss and then you are alone. Form close social connections to satisfy your social sense of security and purpose. Adapt to each others' delusions, make sure you have common delusions, (innate need for religious thinking) and stay up to date with each other through physical proximity/regularity and avoid social/online media which will drift you apart. Don't be NEET for longer than a year.
>>34269492>>Any advice you want to give?>I know this sounds stupid and obvious, but if you ever find yourself so infatuated in a game or a show or a series so much to the point where it takes over your life, to where you find yourself scouring the internet looking for the latest fanfics, art pieces, and dedicate more than 3 hours of your day to it, please cut it out of your life. I wasted so much of my vital young teenage years on an anime seriesTrue cept extend that to just nearly everything abt youth and modernshitAdviceFuck all social rules (but use them to conduct shit and assess ppl's character too)All socialshit is a farceNever devalue yourself in comparison to another. Just cuz someone else has XYZ doesn't mean you don't have VWX anymore. Spend a fucking lifetime reclaiming VWX cuz got brainwashed as fuck into devaluing the self.Your gut instinct is probably wrong and right, so figure out how it's wrong and how it's right.There, buncha vague unwarranted advice
>>34269425>How old are you and where are you at in life? I’m in my late 40s and doing well. I own my own house and I lease a luxury car. My job is enjoyable and pays well.>What has been on your mind?I have been wondering more about what kind of lifestyle I can afford to live after I retire. I also wonder about getting married and maybe having children. The retirement issue is more important for me right now, but I’m open to future opportunities.>What are your current goals and hopes?I want to get to a point where our company is really successful so we can all cash out and retire in peace. At this point in my life, I’ve done another things for me to be satisfied so I’m fine with dying tomorrow as long as it doesn’t involve too much pain.>What is something positive about the last couple weeks in your life?I just started a new project at work that I’m excited about.>Any advice you want to give?Having a passion is very advantageous in life. It will help you develop courage and perseverance because you working towards something you really care about.
hello /adv/what is the best way to get into the waifu lifestyle? I have my waifu, she's perfect and I've been in love with her for so many years, however I don't know how to culminate that love. Should I buy posters, pillows or merch? Should I have some sort of shrine? How do you guys make the most out of your love for your waifu? Do you write fanfiction or draw? Any recommendations?
>>34276786>your waifu would HATE your guts if she were to suddenly become real and meet you IRL. There. Shattered.I hope not :(
>>34276786>If you do so, then YOU are not even worthy of your waifu. WHAT are you doing, you're a useless loser and your waifu would HATE your guts if she were to suddenly become real and meet you IRL. There. Shattered.WRONG! Satania would love me not matter what! She'd love me and all the time I take to devoting to her!>>34278077Your waifu loves you /a/non. Don't listen to what this loser says
>>34278246>Your waifu loves you /a/non. Don't listen to what this loser saysTysm bb <3
>>34278261Np anon :3Satania loves me and your waifu loves you!
>>34274584Thank you. Yukari from GuP>>34276786I think there has been a misunderstanding, I wasn't projecting my waifu on the girl, it sure did help that she loved the same character and fulfilled my archetype, which naturally has been heavily influenced by my waifu, but I wasn't conflating her with the character. If anything I truly came to love her because she got to show me her true, imperfect self. I was ready for anything for her, in this life.
Is it normal to still think about a person who died years ago? My first girlfriend died in 2019 but I’ve known her since 2011. We were super close and I miss her a lot. It wasn’t always the best and looking back she was kinda a bad influence but I still think about her from time to time I ask because do you think I should fully move on and forget about her or am just romanticizing the past?
She genuinely loved me but couldnt stay due to 3.8 inch dickLike she genuinely put so much time and effort in. But the lure of bigger cock meant she ended up cheating. The funny thing is, when jacking off to our past sex vids, she would have this sour, disgusted expression on her face for half a second when my cock showed up but she sucked it anyway H0w do you reconcile wi th this fact? that if only for a couple more inches, you could have had the picture perfect relationship?
>>34277605its true>>34277569no its my personality that made her stick with me for a year>>34275845idk what else to say. its my life.>>34276488yeah that actually worked for a while>>34276502yeah im grateful to experience true love for a while
search TheScienceOfPE and Angion Method on redditreclaim your life
>>34274685Maybe your lot in life is to date Asians and petite women with children's bodies. They are actually quite hot imo like find a bitch like Little Lupe or something.
>>34274685did you get tested for Peyronie's disease? And did you try penile stretchers like RestoreX?
>>34279037i dont have peyrnoies, its just bad genetics
what's the problem? coding is a rote boring exercise. A means to an end. They both crashed out at me for making a webpage with chatgpt's help and one of them wants me to make one without it for some reason to prove something?
>>34273896Because AI makes everyone able to create software and many coders see it as a bad thing. What is the "bad thing" in this situation really depends on your friends.I personally don't like how many people call themselves "programmers" when all they do is prompting Claude and pasting unmaintainable code. So as long as you're not a poser, have fun learning new things!
>>34273896Replace your friends with ai
>>34273896Are they also working on the site? Normies that hate AI? Does the site suck?What did they tell you it would prove?
>>34273896You can read stuff to learn things and understand meanings. Try reading your friends' words carefully. Their messages are very likely to repeatedly mention the exact source of their discontent. Nerd rage is usually not subtle.Or if reading feels too difficult you can just copy and paste your friends' messages into ChatGPT and ask it to understand for you. Lel.
>>34273896I'll bite. I think their viewpoint can be expressed with the quote from Jurassic Park:>If I may... Um, I'll tell you the problem with the scientific power that you're using here, it didn't require any discipline to attain it. You read what others had done and you took the next step. You didn't earn the knowledge for yourselves, so you don't take any responsibility for it. You stood on the shoulders of geniuses to accomplish something as fast as you could>Yeah, yeah, but your scientists were so preoccupied with whether or not they could that they didn't stop to think if they should.If you don't do things yourself you never learn how to do it, and your can't correct the AI because you don't know what errors to look for. Programming's also a perishable skill, once you start farming your thinking out whatever ability you currently have will diminish.You're right that it's a boring exercise, but 80% of anything complicated is the thinking and planning. And if you've done your planning right then the implementation is easy (and therefore boring).Let me ask you; did you design the back-end for the page yourself and let the AI flesh it out? Or did you ask for the whole thing and accepted what it spat out?
Title - is there any point? Hookup culture is pretty much all about physical aspects/outward attractiveness. Does it make any sense to sleep around with chicks if your dick is like 4.5 inches? Are there any examples of that? I heard girls that are up for ONS are pretty much size queens and i'm afraid that once we get nude she'll just reject me or walk away or spread the word about me etc.
>>34277440Most lose more than gain because you can hurt yourself too easily. The stretching devices need to be worn for 6 hours daily and are bulky, won't stay in place under sweatpants. It's worth it more to have a dick that works then to try that shit
>>34274925It's not the dick - it's what you do before the dick even gets involved. 90% of pleasing a woman happens during the foreplay, getting her warmed up and aroused to the point that the p-in-v part is just the topper.Meanwhile, know that most of the pleasure opportunities for both of you are at the shallow end of the vagina. The penis shaft rubbing against the clitoris and vaginal mouth will achieve more than the penis head banging against the cervix.
>>34274541Length isn't as important as media make you think.It's girth, I have 5.5" dick, but 6.5" girth and women think I have 9" dick. Also an advice to get inside their head before sex.Have her try to deepthroat you, women always think they're master blowjob machines but in reality they can't put anything longer 3" in their mouth unless she's thot pro max.That way she will think you have bigger dick.
>>34277440not OP but i have heard about stretching devices, however keto? What does keto have to do with dick enlargement?
>>34277440Stretching devices doesn't work btw u cannot stretch ur dih cuz fibers which are the dih itself cannot be stretched without being permanently damaged. Those are not ligaments or muscles, those are special fibers which occur only in ur dih.
I want to live here. I don't want anyone else around. I don't want nearby airbnbs, campers, hikers, idiots disturbing me. Just serene nature and myself, perhaps a cat.
>>34277849what will you eat? who will you be paying taxes to?
>>34277849If you live in the middle of nowhere, it will be hard to have access to food and other resources.
>>34277849Well then you better be ready to buy a fuck ton of land and build it yourself and not have access to the town sewer or power.
>>34277719Live in your vehicle. Many people are doing exactly what you described as I speak.
>>34277719Patagonia Argentina
Can hang, but only asphyxiation.Don't have access to pills.Could always mix ammonia and bleach.
dying ain't worth it
todas las cosas tiene solucion, aunque aun no lo veas, lo que te falta tal vez es una red de apoyo, y un poco de validacion y eso esta bien, es completamente humano ser vulnerable, dale una oportunidad a tu familia y amigos que crees que no les importas, deja que te ayuden y se vulnerable, amar es ser vulnerable contigo y con los demass, y aunque duela ser empatico y amable contigo mismo, no deberias hablarte asi, obvio hay amor para ti, hasta yo que onions una completa desconocida se que tu puedes ser amado animo animo
>>34278897It's not on your shoulders to take on every evil thing in this world. You are not a child molester or murderer or rapist, you deserve to be happy, and if you're in evil times and it's all stacked against you, wouldn't you rather be the man who never gave up, even if he failed in the end?What ever challenges you have man, unfortunately they're up to you, but I have a suspicion that on the other side of them is a beautiful life full of exactly what God wants for you, so don't fucking quit. What do you think death is anyway? It's waiting for you, good deed piled upon good deed will make your reward greater, but you'll only end up back on earth again after a little rest. What's the point?
todas las cosas tiene solucion, aunque aun no lo veas, lo que te falta tal vez es una red de apoyo, y un poco de validacion y eso esta bien, es completamente humano servulnerable, dale una oportunidad a tu familia y amigos que crees que no les importas, deja que te ayuden y se vulnerable, amar es ser vulnerable contigo y con los demass, y aunque duela ser empatico y amable contigo mismo, no deberias hablarte asi, obvio hay amor para ti, hasta yo que onions una completa desconocida se que tu puedes ser amado , cuestionar a las personas puede ser un poco agresivo, hay personas que no quieren o no estan listas para aceptar verdades que duelen y entender eso, que los humanos somo imperfectos como tu y yo, tal vez te de alivio, animo animo
Idk ur situation but I'd continue being alive just because I was already born and I am alive atm. Why do you need to kys if there's nothing after this moment for you as a person. Ur life can be changed, but if ur dead it can't. Killing urself is a real point of no return, so why do you want to reach this point even if your life is shit right now. Everything can be changed but not the death. Live your life just because you're alive, at least for me it's a good reason to live. You should know, that impulsive actions are not always the right way. And my suggestion to you is to go to a psychiatrist. It WILL help, it helped me, it helps people, so it should help you as well. Good luck
do you think it exist? is it even worth being friends with boys atp
>>34278873Yes, it is possible mmm but from my experience it is like the female friend you get tipsy with and fool around during sleepovers or something. You can be friends with b0ys but sometimes they will want to fool around with you. So only be friends with attractive boys. Most girls will not tell you straight but this is how it is from my experience.
>>34278953thats awful. i dont want to 'fool around' with friemd
I think it's someone everyone would want, I have not experienced it since grade through high school
>>34279058i would want friendship to but its difficult with guys. i start to doubt it exists
>>34279075Give it a shot? My discordFromSunToMoon
There's new girl at work which showing me some attention. She even figured my name before I had a chance to introduce myself. I'm good looking guy but the problem is I'm in my mid 30s and she most likely doesn't know that. From her fb it seems like she's in her very early 20s. She's really cute but I feel like approaching her would paint me as a desperate creep once I reveal my age. I don't really have much to offer not even sure what drives her interest here. What do?
>>34279065Everybody at my workplace knows my name, even though I've never introduced myself to anyone. Cute girls call me by my name, so I ask them theirs, but I always forget to offer a handshake. Anyway, what kind of attention are we talking about? Does she go out of her way to interact with you?
>>34279065So how many characters are you going to make based on me?
I have got seriously mixed feelings about my latest visit to an eescort. This was the 5th time I've seen her.Didn't go so well this time. Started off well, kissing was passionate, nice cuddling, she encouraged me to spank her, but for some reason I was struggling for hardness when I tried penetrating her. She was understanding and I eventually came while she gave me a blowjob/handjob but I'm a bit pissed off I couldn't stay hard during penetration. We just cuddled and talked for the last 30 minutes or so.idk why this happened. Last two times have been fine, I went on top and finished inside her (condom on obviously). She says I overthink things which is true.At the end I asked her about meeting again in 2 weeks and she said yes instantly and kissed me but something about her demeanour made me worried. She seemed a bit colder than normal at the end.I've texted her saying thanks and that I really enjoy getting to know her. But I am worried.Is my problem that I'm too emotionally/intellectually attracted to her? Why couldn't I get hard this time?
>>34275772Do you think she might genuinely like me?
>>34275772Also is it normal for escorts to use emojis like this?
I'm this guy >>34273722How do I transition a girl like this into a relationship where I can be with her for free? Not necessarily a girlfriend.Also I plan on bringing her over to my city for a day but I can't drive, would it be ok for me to get a driver for her? She likes to be treated like a princess.
>>34277379You are probably one of her better regulars. She likes regulars that treat her well and are clean. She likes your money. You should ask her out to dinner or something. Take her someplace cool. Then take her to a nice hotel room, open some champagne, feed her some strawberries and then ass rape her.
>>34277379>>34277482honestly, i have no clue if she genuinely likes you. I'm convinced that 99% of what escorts do while serving you is an act just for you to come back to her, but the levels she pushes this act make me question if she really pretendsi'm assuming that this is all financial to her, because she is an escort; but it's easy for me to say that because i only ever eyed an escort and i never had one; however you were with her, and you were physically close to her, so maybe you might have come to some other conclusions. Besides, fuck knows if she has a boyfriend or a girlfriend, either of which letting her just have it with her clients, as an extra bucki presonally wouldn't say that she has a genuine interest in you, simply because it's sex for money, and not because you're unattractive or boring or anything; i still am convinced this is all transactional. But there is a possibility for an escort to develop feelings to her clients, and she might have feelings for you, considering her behaviour. All that being said, with a heavy heart, and i'm sorry to say that, but: i'll leave you to decide
How can I get a gf with big boobs?
>>34275778Idk how i pulled mine but i recommend you to pursue it too. Titjobs are amazing
>>34275778If you already have big boobs you don't need a gf
>>34276609>bro big boob girls are awesome, you should get one!>no I won't tell you how, just figure it out!Sincerely kill yourself.
>>34278073Bro, i already said idk how i pulled her, we just hooked up and started dating. We met through friends at a party on highschool, we started talking about movies, she told me that i should watch the LOTR trylogy since i dindt watched it. She invited me to her home to see it. We watched the first one, fucked and then saw the two towers. I had my first titjob there.The question is. What are you doing to get girls attention anon?
>>34275778go to a place where women are. find one that's pretty and has big tits. talk to her without being a tard and ask her out. keep on hanging out later. escalate, have sex, make it official.
Should I go gym rn or no? It's 20 in the evening rn, and I did my main sport' training but I wanna mby do some gym rq. But I did it yesterday already, so mb it's better to rest today. But it's kinda calming so mb I should do? Lmk I can't decide
Ngas where's a requested advice
>>34278654Rest today and take melatonin so you sleep early and wake up tomorrow morning to start your sport training and then gym. Overtraining kills gainz, anony. You even see this in the horsie game.
>>34278821Nvm I did today, since I want tomorrow to be completely free so I can go for a walk in a forest. I'll take a light sedative pill which does its job at best, so I'll be sleeping as a baby.
