What the fuck is wrong with me? I have constant horrible brain fog. Always misplacing and losing things, can't listen a lot of the time to people and misprocess information given, always feel the need to violently shit, eyes always feel fucking tired and heavy, forgetful, and so fucking brain foggy. I feel like I need adhd medication combined with a colonoscopy. I'm afraid of what adhd medication will do to me though and would like more natural alternatives. Any advice?
>>34097632I relate to that. All zoomers probably do.Adhd medication might be fine, but remember that it's meth. It can disrupt sleep and make you lose weight.Touch grass, talk to people in real life and so on.
same i feel like i need to get lobotomised
Is there any reason as to why you don't talk to a doctor?
am I doing okay if I’m 24 years old and have so far had 1-3 dates with 6 women so far? Also I have no friends my age bcuz I’m not in college I’m in trade :P
>>34097490BUT IM NOT WHORE I NEVER HAD SEX (is this a sign from god that I will be a tranny fucker cuz woman not letting me..)
>>34097503My lust died the second I wrote the average feminine nature on paper and stratified it according to its moral nature. I am now convinced that the only thing you are supposed to do as a soul, as a man is to wrestle your own flesh into submission, find God and develop a prosperous and altruistic relationship with our creator in order to escape this prison. 99% of women are half humans with no souls, everything they strive for and enjoy is ultimately evil in its nature. The very core of femininity is absolute evil that seeks to devour good men with the same glee and joy youd get from stomping out some dorky kids sand castle.Once I realized why women are the way they are, it's like I've finally been enlightened as to why hermit monks become hermits in the first place. It's all a lie, its all a joke. This planet is a prison, women are archons who genuinely don't give a fuck about anything but they have to pretend to have interests beyond themselves just so men dont become suspicious and notice the huge disparity in the nature of each gender. It's not a complimentary nature, it's completely one-sided and parasitic. The entire role of women is to entrap a mans life force and pull another soul onto this false reality incarnation trap. Thats all they were designed to do. Satan takes a hold of their hivemind vessels with comedic ease and no resistance. They are all beyond corrupt, they fall apart once a month and endure pain unless they fulfill their ill-natured task. There is nothing in this world worth striving for besides Gods love. There is absolutely NOTHING in this world that is worth your place in heaven.
>>34097490I have never had sex. This makes me incompetent in an important area of life.Female virginity is different, but also cringe after 30.
>>34097487Damn that's so fucking racist but at the same time so fucking hilarious.
>>34097649/pol/fag here. That's a 15 year old facebook meme. It's among the least racist memes i have seen this week.>>34097487You probably know how to get more. Go for it if you want that.
I'm thinking about stopping giving my man oral as an excuse to get him to quit smoking and drinking. It's not a bad idea right? How would you as a guy feel about it if your girl said that to you?
>>34096349Use bj for good, when he doesn’t smoke or drink.
>>34097045Would it be ok to end the relationship because he’s not willing to quit?
>>34096349I think you're better off just asking him to clean up his act.Although, if you're usually swallowing his loads, you do have a very fair point here. Those two habits will make his cum taste gross. Or so I've heard.
>>34096349Psychologically, wouldn't the other way around be better?I.e: Instead of taking something away from him to make him stop doing something, why not give him something if he does the correct thing?Negative reinforcement is never great. I personally fear he would compensate the loss of the oral by smoking even more.
>>34097477>Those two habits will make his cum taste gross. Or so I've heard.You're sounding like nick fuentes right now.
This ones for the LADIES! This is a thread dedicated to women seeking men.
>>34097330>pays all my bills.Cringe. Imagine getting leeched on by a women and paying all her "bills" lmao (mostly probably unnecessary shit too)
>>34085619>How to get menShows a buffalo furry
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>>34097395This thread isn't for you. Silence
>>34097530Well, I hope you're both happy. You did bear him children, right?
I've been learning "drawing" or trying to draw the whole day with this new drawing tablet I got for Christmas and it seems an insurmountable task. I've watched a few beginner tutorials but they don't tell me anything besides to do the fundamentals of drawing simple geometrical objects. I've tried just drawing from reference but they all look like some paint meme more than any coherent effort of an actual drawing. Is there any concrete type of plan I can try because I feel drawing as if I were 6 for the next 18 months is going to drive me insane. And frankly I don't see how people get good at drawing digitally where all their lines are crisp and clean.
>>34090622Died in the cold snow I hope.
Wishing you the best anon.I'd tell you to literally just draw. Quantity over quality. Learning anatomy and composit>>34092043ion and colour theory and all that stuff will boost your progress but the most important thing is to just draw.Make it easy, visible and appealing. Draw while listening to a youtube video or a streamer or just music. Dont fret over bad drawings, just keep drawing every day.Also, try paper. A good artist doesnt need the newest Wacom tablet, Da Vinci or Dürer could create masterpieces with juat ink and paper.Also, you get obvious, quantifiable progress when you see the pile of paper paper filled with scribbles.Generally, read Atomic Habits, it has usefull knowledge.Try to get a good average of two or three pages filled per day, then time will do the rest and your pictures will get better and better on their own.
>>34096748Oops, accidentally quoted someone, ignore that
Draw a lot.
>>34090389go to g/adt/ and AI gen cute anime girls while learning to draw
Was Schooler right? Im starting to think he was, if you want girls go back to school.
>>34097103All going back to school does is give you more frequent attempts with women. If you were not successful in the first place with women then increasing the number of attempts is not going to solve anything.Plus if you're above the age of 26 or so then you are certifiably old and outside of the college age range, which is going to seem creepy to girls.
>>34097103I already commented this on another now archived thread with the exact same picrel but damn that short ass skirt that's short as fuck even by anime standards.
>>34097122Maybe you had family and other health issues before. You can always lie about age. It's about the opportunity.
>>34097103>WasDid he really leave us? Did he end up in the great big school in the sky?Anyways no, he was/is completely insane and retarded and autistic. Always demanding that we provide a 500-page exact transcript of every conversation we've ever had because he can't wrap his head around the concept that conversation are dynamic and change person to person, situation to situation, day to day.I you're getting 0 girls outside of school, you're gonna get 0 girls inside of school Especially if during your first time around in school you graduated high school and college with 0 girls under your belt.You'll be surrounded by all sorts of cute girls, and you'll still be sitting there trapped inside your own stupid head going HOW DO INITIATE CONVERSATION WITH FEMALE, ALSO I REFUSE TO TALK TO THEM UNLESS THEY TALK TO ME FIRST and all the other incel funhouse nonsense.Same with dudes talking about "just fly to Japan/Thailand/Korea/Europe/South America" and they're not just talking about buying sex from hookers. If you can't communicate and be charming with people who speak the same language as you, and are from the same culture as you, things are only going to be worse when you add a language barrier and cultural misunderstandings on top of it.>but I'm White! (or black?) I'm also 6 feet tall! I'll be the first and only foreigner these women will have ever seen!Incel bros acting like modern-day Tokyo and Bangkok are still stuck in the 1500s.
>>34097103School is the same as any other place. People in school stick to their groups and don't talk to strangers.
Cheated on my girlfriend by sexting another woman for a day like 4 years ago. I had had a medical episode relating to a chronic health issue that scared me, made me think I would die, and combined with a lot of self loathing and self destructive tendencies during that particular spiral I made the incredibly shitty choice to do this before coming to my fucking senses. The guilt killed me, and I finally came clean last month. She broke up with me. I don't blame her. I'm a piece of shit, I know, and I agree, I just miss her. How does someone move on from losing their best friend?
>>34092465Waaahhh cry more you fucking moron. This is all your own fault.
>>34092220Fucking up your life big time is you get married, this comes out later, and half your shit is gone. Being a man and owning up to shit is better than thinking a relationship is your entire life. Have confidence OP and learn from your mistakes
>>34093779Thanks anon. I think I did the right thing.
>>34094175>Thread conclusion:>"I did the right thing"OP you're truly the biggest faggotWith no due respect, stop being such a massive raging faggot.I'm this guy >>34092220My ex of 5 years cheated on me intentionally and is still with that guy for over a year now, she recently met me to break off some shared accounts we have together, she told me that even if her new guy dumps her, there are thousands of guys with a job who want a trad wife like her. She's aware that she can provide sex, food, and the facade of being a good girl. I gave my all for that woman and was dumped in an instance, intentionally. If it taught me anything it's that you shouldn't feel guilty for women, not even for a moment. They know what they're worth, there's no doubt in their mind that they can get a guy, their reality is completely different. You are a faggot for role-playing guilt into your conscious. Your gf and any girl is capable of what my ex did, no human goes without flaws. I personally know two women in my life, my aunt and my ex's grandma, two entirely different people, one from Israel and one from the Netherlands, one is 40 and one is 80, who both made kids with their husbands by stopping to take the pill without telling them. To this day their husbands don't know. Women, lie, so, easily. You are a fool, a kind hearted but heavily misguided fool. Don't feel bad for the gender that has it all easy, the gender that takes it all for granted, the gender who's sole purpose is to receive everything, manipulate men, and feel no guilt while doing so. You are a brainwashed, massive faggot, yet I wish you all the best
>>34095488Just because someone is capable of something (and we're all capable of horrendous things), doesn't mean she would have done it. She is the kindest person I know, and I did something awful to her. Not all women are like your ex in the same way that not all men are like you.
Does anyone do blue team labs online. I need the answer to question 8 in the breach online lab? Its a certain mitre attack technique but I cant find out which one it is. I've tried so many.
Does it make sense to move out if you'd be living really close to your parents? I'm on the fence about it.I'm 28 and still living at home, which is getting embarrassing. However I'm able to put away nearly my entire paycheck into savings each month, which is nice.There's an apartment I can afford ten minutes away. But I'm not sure if it's wise to move out and forfeit all those easy savings.
>>34093039>That said, what are you saving for?A down payment. But the purpose wouldn't be to have a "place of my own" but rather a home to raise a family.>You should move with purpose, not desperation for people's attention.To me that is part of the issue because it's hard at 28 to attempt a serious relationship while living with your parents. A lot of people "should" be engaged or in LTRs at that age. I'm not interested in hotel hookups like the previous poster mentioned, the purpose is to have a stable relationship leading to marriage. While staying at home for a couple more years would help make a higher down payment, I feel like it really narrows out the dating pool, which makes purchasing a home feel moot.
You’re getting to an age where you have to start weighing tradeoffs based on what YOU actually value.Having your own space and feeling self-sufficient is nice, but what would you do with your own place that you can’t do now?
>>34092887Not OP but it just feels like it's time. Not to mention my parents love hosting ppl so it's a pain in the ass to be sociable when im getting off of work or just want to be left alone. I also have a gf so shit like sex and other stuff isn't as fun when you know you gotta keep it down so your parents aren't hearing your fucking through the walls. My parents are great but I just feel like it's time to be on my own ya know? I can even tolerate something like roommates, I just don't want to live with parents.
>>34092959Dude you have 220k in savings, motherfucker that's atleast enough to afford a 1 bedroom if you have flowing income. I'm trying to get to 20k before I move, how the fuck are you stuck at 220k?
>>34092880it only makes practical sense to move out if you have dating prospects with someone who won't speedrun ruining your life>which is getting embarrassingimagine burdening yourself because you care what others think
There are people on 4chan, reddit or even incel forums who allegedly chat with women or even meet them in real life and I've never got the hang of it. I don't think I'm being hostile or anything, just uninteresting to them I guess. I rarely get a response and when I do, they ghost me shortly after. I've never sent my dick picture or anything. Call me a cuck but being a 29 years old virgin, at this point even having a female friend who already has a boyfriend could be an appreciable progress. Please tell me how to find a female friend.
>>34093287How adept are you at talking to people in general?>>34093673>I remember back in high school guys used to touch the girl's asses and tits but somehow the quiet nerd who looks down unless the teacher addresses him was the "creep" according to womenIt's a perception of "normal". The annoyingly sexually aggressive guy trying to touch girls probably bothers them but he seems honest, direct, and confident. Plus, he likely makes the girls feel desired and attractive despite his attention being unwanted.Whereas the quiet weird guy? He doesn't do it say normal things. So they are left to imagine what he's thinking and it's always worse.And in my experience and observation, girls who are vocal about the quiet guy being "creepy" are shallow immature twats.>>34093803>It's worse in uni, all the financebros party all day creeping with women and very obviously are champagne socialists while straightforward guys get bullied outThis was not my experience at all.I'm wondering what you're defining as "straightforward guys".Mature adults don't really bully people.Immature twats can be disregarded as the idiots they are. Anyone respecting vocal idiots isn't really worth your time.Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>34093673I don't remember this at all. I remember most people sticking to their relative groups and having interactions with women within those cliques - nerds with nerds, goths with goths, jocks with jocks, theater kids with theater kids. I don't remember anybody being labeled a creep that wasn't for a very clear and creepy reason - that would've required people outside of their clique to put energy into forming social narratives about the outcasts who ate their lunches in the band room. As I recall nobody paid any attention to them.
>>34093546>They hate the world and want it to be destroyed.Based. Who cares about the whores and degenerates who will bear no fruit in the future
>>34093673It's just you and your village is full of whores little bro. Most girls would slap the shit out of you if you did that shit back in the day
My dude, you have to be interesting to yourself before others will find you interesting.Pick up hobbies you’re proud of and pair that with activities where women might also participate, like a running club — but do it to connect, not to pick up.Just be authentic and straightforward.
I don't know how to improvise in social situations. I'm overly worried about embarrassing myself. I don't trust my intuition. Usually I only talk to people when I need to, in a very direct way. I'm never comfortably sure about the untold elements of social interaction. If I'm invested on it, I will try to find explanations to logically support my intuitive perception, but I always end up with at least three different competing narratives in my head about "what she meant by this." Sometimes I act, based on the narrative that sounds the most solid or how I'm feeling that day, but it's normally some very low risk, baby steps, overthought, super abstract action towards a goal that I would only realistic reach in like 10 years if people are willing to wait 10 years for me. Old friends and relatives do, but it turns out girls aren't that patient. I've never been in a relationship, always fumbling it in the talking stage, if not in the starring stage already.This risk aversion only seems to be this bad for social interactions because I'm quite impulsive with other stuff and I'm frequently making mistakes in my life or radical changes for the better or the worse.What can I do about this? Is it even solvable at this point or do I have to accept that as part of my established personality?
simply get a retail job and this will probably all go away
>>34097123Why? I already have to regularly interact face to face with different people because of the stuff that I do. I don't have a problem communicating if that's the implication. It only becomes a problem if it could cross personal life territory.
>>34097109The most immediate advice is to go to therapy so they can help you build a framework for not catastrophizing situations and for learning to be okay with the unknown.The “Opposite Day” episode of Seinfeld is a hilarious example of how going for things on a whim and not getting stuck in your own head can actually lead to better outcomes.I used to have the same problem until I realized there are people with very little social awareness who still manage to socialize just fine, even if they trip over their words or have no filter at all.
PLEASE GO TO THERAPYI don't know how many threads I've read where people sound like they might have real psychological problems which a combination of therapy and medication can treat well. I don't want people to suffer, I don't want people to kill themselves, but most importantly, I don't want people with real problems going on the internet seeking advice from randoms who probably have many problems of their own. Please speak with a professional if you have a serious problem and you want to commit to getting better. And also get off 4chan. Thank you.
plenty of bs in here and plenty of bs therapists too. but medication and therapy actually helped me live a normal life. you need to want help, though, and you need to be honest with the people who you're talking to. or they will be taking shots in the dark
>>34086764Nah fuck you OP. Therapy is useless for serious problems and it's dangerous to tell people that it's a functional field if they're not dealing with the mental equivalent of a paper cut. It's tuned for the majority who need another person to cry on to process their emotions. See how popular AI therapists are, that's what the majority of people need. A wall to talk to that says yes a lot.If you have an actual problem you are fucked. Psychiatric medication is the only thing that can help you.
My therapist told me, a 35 yearold man, that I'm a bigot for not wanting to be friends with a terminally online, severely bipolar, 19 year old girl from the opposite side of the country.
>>34096340That don’t seem right, if you are looking for an opinion.
>>34096355No because the correct answer is that it's a bad idea.
Why do men view women as bang maids, sex toys, objects of desire, a game to play when bored, house cleaners, and entertainment? As a woman I want to be seen, heard, respected, provided for, and admired. I want the honeymoon phase to never end. I want to feel secure.
>>34086697>You expect me to believe this shit?right, trannies everywhere and you are all faggots for replying.
>>34082513>i'm a woman and i need my gibs cause I'M A WOMAN! gee, i wonder why.
>>34096788moids are the ones who demand sex slaves>i should be allowed to rape kids because im male and i wanna1!
>>34097172you will never be a real woman tranny. No sane man would want to be within a few feet from you
>>34097226im not trans, but y'all do rape trans women all the time. clearly you see them as real women.
At what number should you start lying to women about your bodycount? Sluts like it if you have fucked a lot and even girls who try to do the humble gf act like the idea of experience and getting cumblasted.
>>34097155Difference is I threw even the ugly/fat girls a good time. Yeah I broke their hearts but at least they got to have a taste of romance, some decent dick, and a guys undivided attention for a few weeks. Most of the guys on this board would kill for that, even if they knew it was fleeting.
>>34097116wow you're fucking insane
>>34097223I’m actually pretty responsible as far as man whores go. I always wrapped it up unless I was seeing a girl for more than a month or so, got std checked every 3 months if I needed it or not. Never cheated, would always give the whole “this ain’t working out” speech before I moved on to someone else. Sure, revolving door, but only one customer at a time.
>>34097316maybe just become a porn star
>>34097191ugly moids have kids for some reason, and theres another thread where you moids are admitting that when you say "Good women", you just mean attractive womenyou also brag about supposedly dumping women when they turn 20. you dont have a leg to stand on.>undivided attention>Most of the guys on this board would kill for that, even if they knew it was fleeting.yeah, sure. women are definitely the whores. moids never demand hookups and then bitch about not getting loyal women.>>34097316still thinks women are the whore gender
DON'T GO TO THERAPY studies show therapy makes people ruminate and fixate on their problems, often making them worsenot to mention many therapists work under a psychiatrist and is seeking to push medications on youdon't ever take an ssri or maoiif you need immediate depression relief there are ketamine microdose treatment centers that will give you immediate relief, unlike an ssri which takes weeks to have an effect and messes up your brain permanently for the rest of your life READ THE BIBLE LOVE YOURSELF LOVE YOUR NEIGHBOR
>>34095708Firstly, >Ketamine is not FDA approved for the treatment of any psychiatric disorder. FDA is aware that compounded ketamine products have been marketed for a wide variety of psychiatric disorders (e.g., depression, anxiety, post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), and obsessive-compulsive disorder); however, FDA has not determined that ketamine is safe and effective for such uses.This is directly from the FDA website. Secondly, the sources that I found that said Ketamine was an approved treatment in some clinics cited that it was not physician recommended as a first medication but rather as a last ditch alternative for hard to treat depression if other more traditional methods had been tried first. It also was not recommended for long term use and cited "limited data" to support its efficacy.I always find it bizarre when people are so uneducated about their own opinions. You're so excited to hop on whatever anti-establishment bandwagon your favorite anime forum tells you to that you don't even bother researching a topic that apparently you feel SO strongly about. Fucking embarrassing to be this much of a brainlet.
>>34095764lol you're so intellectually dishonest it's not even funnybut here ya go pleb and while the therapy and ssri industry may be panicking and trying to gatekeep access, in my state there are plenty of centers you can go to for immediate depression relief from ketamine without the need to tithe with pharmaceutical companies and therapists for weeks and months first
I wouldn't recommend ketamine. It's very addictive to depressive people.
>>34092216> not to mention many therapists work under a psychiatrist and is seeking to push medications on youNo shit, I have been saying this for yearsThe real therapy comes from within, not from a kike who profits over your misery
>>34095852i wouldn't either unless you're suicidally depressive and need emergency treatment that's why i posted "if you NEED immediate depression relief..."
