>>34456798lol as if you would turn down free newports and henny because it was from a different color
>>34451384DON'T. Coming from one myself, they're too obsessed with vanity to be worth befriending. They also speak like a 3rd grader having themselves convinced it's a "part of their culture" which isn't really doing any favors, and could definitely dumb you down if you aren't careful. Look for more well-spoken blacks that can articulate themselves well or just befriend other races.
>>34454832Ah. You'll want transgender friends then.
>>34456798I see coalburning everywhere
>>34451384I'm an unironic white nationalist with a very old school folkish cultural background and for whatever reason blacks flock to me. Granted in the settings I've traveled in these tend to be more alternative/autistic blacks but still. In university and in my medical training and stuff every single one of the few black people in those cohorts ended up being in my friend group. I think my pre-modern American culture is more familiar to their FBA culture than 21st century shabbos goy white culture and all the brownoids/asians are
I'm 28 and live in Ireland. I met this woman on TurnUp (Dating app for people who like music) and we had this chat. She unmatched after. What did I do wrong?
>>34457534Didn't do anything wrong
>>34457534>She unmatched after. What did I do wrong?Nothing. She probably found someone she liked more among the hundreds of men who message her every day.
>>34457534nothing wrong maybe be a bit more assertive in setting up a date maybe??? idk this platform also she seems shallow so you dodged a bullet
>dating app for people who like music the fuck lol everyone likes music. This is probably a dating app for weird lefty bitches with tattoos or something in reality
>>34457534This is probably a thinly veiled ad for this app but it's a solid idea for a dating app so if it's not owned by Jews like the rest of them are then best of luck mates
Is it a good idea for a 19 year old woman to become a flight attendant? It's my final year in a culinary program at a technical high school and I have no career plan and I definitely don't want to go to college.
>>34456545I think that's pretty solid. People will always be flying so job security should be pretty good. Sounds a lot like trucking for women where you basically don't have a stable home life. So settling down and having a family will be tough.
>>34456545Sounds alright to me. Good way to get the foot in the door with the company, at least. That picture sure demonstrates that everyone in it has a wristwatch.
>>34456545Yea. Seems like a solid career. As long as you have the people skills to deal with customers.
>>34456545I guess it depends on country, age, etc. But from what little I have heard of from the past becoming a flight attendant is very competitive and you will probably have to compete with other women to even have a chance. its not a "hey want a job? no need to apply!" type of job. expect a lot of commitmet for what is probably a minimum wage job with all of the day to day baggage that goes with it with unique downsides such as:>not being settled in somewhere to have friends or a relationship>exhaustion from strange work hours>constantly being in a cramped crowded cabinunless being a flight attendant is something you can feel proud of I would suggest getting a job at wendy's and I dont mean that in a bad way.
>>34456545Find a good man and get married retard stop indulging in fantasies of being a prostitute
I've been nice to a homeless dude near my job, but he offered to give me a blow job this morning. I enjoy being nice to people, especially people down on their luck, but I'm really not trying to do him favors or interact with him. On one hand, I get homeless people are fucked and may not understand that people do nice things just because, but on the other hand this has soiled our "relationship"
>>34455943yeah happensa girl who was coming out took me with her gay friends to party some years ago and she left earlyI ended up talking with them and we stroke a good conversationeventually they proposed sex, knowing fully well I'm straightI just thanked them and told them I felt flattered but guys don't do anything for methey understood and we parted waysyou're right that soiled our relationship, I deleted their phones after I arrived home, but still, you can always be courteous about it.
>>34456175Just don't hang out with homogays
>>34456185she was straight or thought she was straight when we started hanging outthen she was bi so she dated dudes and girlsthen she started only dating girlsetcthing is we went out to party a couple times with normal straight girls a couple times before that time when she found her first homo sexual circle of friends
>>34456253Yeah. Interesting. I don't know if you're male or female. If you're the gay or the straight. Now i'm just confused.
>>34455943Learn to accept a compliment and carry on.
How to deal with an asshole family member? I’ve asked around and everywhere I go it’s useless moralizing that doesn’t help my situation and so I wonder if there is anything I can do (I legit believe there is none). Like everyone says “forget about him focus on your own life” which is useless. He is this unemployed guy who spends all his time doing drugs, taking my parents money, and going out with a new girl every month (while I get no one), and the most annoying thing to me is I broke my back to work and go to school, often in shit hole places and now I have a boring job. This guy has failed his entire life, never tried and is enjoying everyday, his 20s are so much better than mine.All I want is for him to do what he wanted, which is to go into the trades. At least then I wouldn’t be jealous. He refuses to ask anyone for a job or send his resume now, and so my parents are trying to get him a cool job downtown working at a hospital. It’s so annoying cause I never get help and I love downtown and this guy will get to go there everyday with an easy security or cleaning job, while I waste away in some nameless place.Does anyone know how to make him go get a shitty job I won’t be jealous of him with. I’ve tried everything, I can’t ask him to do it directly cause he’ll think I’m sabotaging him. I can’t do anything man. Do any of you have experience to get this guy to stop beating me in life?
>>34457613>We need a caste system, if you’re ghetto and lazy and don’t try in life, you shouldn’t get to see cute girls in the city who go to university and shit.The women choose him because they know despite all his faults and his brooding bad boy shit, he is at least honest. You are so dishonest you contradict even yourself within two posts. "Better to be the villain that tells the truth.""Than the hero who guards the lie."
>>34457633You hate your brother. That makes you your brother's murderer, even if you never laid a hand on him. Read your own good book.Seriously, the level of pride, conceit, arrogance and psychosis necessary to obsess over a family member "stealing" your hobbies is practically clinical. You may as well be screeching "WHAT? MY BROTHER DRINKS WATER? I DRANK WATER FIRST!! HOW COULD HE DO THIS TO ME? MY LIFE IS RUINED NOW, HE STOLE EVERYTHING FROM ME!". Somebody with your mentality shouldn't be allowed any liberties, you belong in an institution until you learn how to calm down and stop behaving this way.
>>34457629>Yes, everytime I work downtown a year later they move us to a shit office in random nowhere.Now you're confusing me. One minute you're downtown with parents the next not. I can see why you'd make for a good lawyer, lawyers are paid to twist the truth to win cases and help criminals avoid jail. And the lawyer does this because he never actually cared he just wanted money.Anyway, here is the solution: If you want him to get a job in a role you want him in, stop telling him to do that. Instead do it yourself and he will copy you and do it. Because he is black sheep, and the sheep will follow whoever he feels is the role model. Your parents are not his role model, (you) are. But you're in denial about this shit because IDK maybe it would make you feel guilty for all the years you made him feel unwelcome in the home. Who knows maybe talk to a therapist or some shit about that. But if you can accept you are his role model, you can then get him to follow you into whatever job you want him in, but you yourself need to go do it.
>>34457640>Good bookForgive him anon he's a Mormon. This is the same cult that believes Jesus and Satan are brothers. Actual Christians did try to warn people to avoid cults that pretend to resemble the faith but did they listen? Nah. But you're right btw, OP has probably damaged his brother in ways he will never admit. Imagine being adopted and you had no family no home to call your own and you are at the lowest point in your life as a young kid, and a family chooses you and you are given hope and you desperately want to fit in to this family who gave you hope and you try to mimick your brother to become part of the family and feel at home. But the brother (OP) just offers nothing but pure hatred and venom and spite. Wishing for his downfall, spitting on any happiness he finds. Remember though OP is the "good guy" lol
>>34457633>MormonAh, there it is.But really, stop being so obsessive on what your brother is doing and who he is.You have demonstrated that even the thought of him torments you.That's not healthy man.
My whole childhood was spent in foster care and institutionalized bs because my mom never got her act together. How do I stop feeling this way and grow up and make something of my life for once?
>>34457595>How do I stop feeling this wayWhat way? You didn't say how you feel.
>>34457606Like I missed out on my childhood and a crucial part of developing as a human
>>34457595The past had nothing to do with you.Childhood need have nothing to do with adulthood. You are not responsible for that.You are free now.
>>34457595I wasn't in foster care but my childhood was hell. I relate to your OP picture except I wasn't a hello kitty, I'm a dude. And the demonic screaming person I relate to that. What I did is I stopped trying to be male hello kitty. I accepted that the screaming demon man is exactly who I am and I built out of that. I accepted the ugliness of my childhood and stopped running from it. I accepted I was the piece of shit I was desperate not to become and I stopped pretending. And when I did that, it turned out I wasn't really as bad as I thought I was. What I called my inner demon turned out to be an inner child, and instead of hating it, I decided to take care of it. Give things to it I wished I had gotten. Line compassion, forgiveness, mercy. Then I finally matured and finished what my parents couldn't do. I also forgave my parents as well and chose to do the same for them, chose to see the good in them instead of only the bad. Understood they were just humans who had suffered, and in their suffering and self-immolation, they burned others and spread suffering. And that's what I had become too without knowing. I simply repeated the exact same steps as my parents, and that's because the apple never falls far from the tree. But once the apple gains awareness, it can then decide how it will grow. And once you begin to choose how you will grow with awareness, you can break the cycle by accepting the cycle and repeating it, but this time, without the poison.
I really need help bros and I am not sure whats going on with me. I don't really have issues going to sleep but I normally wake up feeling tired still and groggy. I go to work and the first 1-2 hours of my day are absolute ass. It feels like a fucking weight of some sort is on my eyes and I struggle to stay awake in my chair at work. I knod off and basically phase in and out of being "awake". I feel awake enough but I am effectively half asleep it feels like. I also don't abuse caffiene. Coffee basically makes me shit my pants so I don't drink it. HOWEVER, I have found that if I drink an energy drink like White Monster, I do feel a lot better. But I don't want to be dependent on fucking energy drinks. I rarely drink those also. Just not sure what I am doing wrong. Some things I do know:I am likely not getting 8 hours of sleep at night. I basically go to bed 1-2 hours late every night because I doom scroll on instagram. I am not sure if the sleep I do get is restful or not. I wake up at least one time in the night to piss. I also usually wake up and my neck is in pain. Lastly, I find that I basically can't make it through the work day without taking a nap on my break. I basically never wake up feeling energized. Waking up makes me want to kill myself because I feel so awful for those first few hours of the day. What can I do?
>>34457592-Don't be fat. You cant breath correctly while sleeping if you are fat. Your whole body (and critically your brain) will be oxigen deprived. You could not believe what difference it makes.You are perhaps prediabletic if energy drinks awake you, mostly for the glucose.- Get enough discipline to go to bed at X time and do it ALWAYS no matter what. So delete the instagram account. It's enginered to kill you, literally.- Use earplugs. Then it becomes a ritual and your brain become trained to start sleep when you deprive it of sounds.- Wake up at X time and do it ALWAYS.- Take a walk instead of the nap. Youll be adjusted in few days.
>>34457592Apple.
>>34457642I am not fat. I am in pretty good shape. Go to the gym 3 days a week. However, I have heard that even muscular people can have breathing issues so I am not sure. I don't think I am prediabetic either. My guess is that because I am not a caffeine abuser normally, the energy drinks have higher effect on me? I will try the other things you said. Its just so night and day different when I am at work. Like right now at home, I feel fine. At work, for those first couple hours I feel horrible. A part of me thought it was a combo of bad sleep habits and also being bored at work.
How does one cope with the fact that nobody will ever love him (not even his family), that he has been dealt the shittiest cards and that his life is a constant struggle?
when you are delt a shitty hand you bluff
>>34457451I have no idea after 27 years on this bitch of an Earth.
>>34457451You realize that everyone suffers, and that the path out of suffering is the same for everyone. Magnifying your own problems and elevating them above everyone else's just ensures that you stay miserable, resulting from an addiction to self pity.
>>34457453actually, you fold. or you will get exploited for all your money and die miserably in the gutter
>>34457451What have you tried?
How do you guys even Get a Job in Tech ? Today I’ve got 3 rejections in a row.Im soon graduating and im no longer knowing what should I do.Any advices ? Especially for a post graduates like me
>My parents had ruined my life from the very start.>Never got to progress, never got to do what others did.>Stuck in a rather repetitive job with low hours and inability to move out and all the rest. I feel financially trapped.>Couldn't do anything online to become successful and escape from it all. Anything that I tried to do eventually fell apart or failed to take off.>Never got to attend any sort of events that others got to go to, never had any vacations, never got laid, you know all that. It's as if I was deliberately set up to fail from the beginning.>Everywhere I go I see everyone living normal lives, being successful, having nice houses, cars and all that. Some have their own businesses or well off jobs. Meanwhile I'm just stuck...A few decades later, it's all the same, and now I'm just so fatigued with it all. My head hurts, I get too exhausted now. I don't know what I even want to do with myself these days.I thought eventually I would get out of this hell, but it gets worse by the year. And even if I wanted to create an escape, like play old games and such, I never get around to doing it.I am at the stage where I feel that I will never get to talk to people again, I won't ever have a community of my own, I will never get to be like everyone else. Why was I never allowed to succeed? Must I always suffer like this? It's just unfair.
>>34453192Never made enough money between themselves, one of them never wanted to work, other one had lengthy periods of unemployment and even if they had a job they were cleaning toilets and stuff
>>34454144>my parents ruined my life because they were poorYou're honestly a total piece of shit.
>>34454144Gotcha, I grew up poor, but in a totally different situation than you, my father didn't work at all, because he didn't want to, and he didn't collect any government gibs because there was nothing wrong with him, he would just leach off my mom. After my parents divorce I gradually stopped talking to him, he was never a father figure for me, never took care of me or taught me anything at all, I feel like I never had a father. My mom got unemployed 3 years ago, because of her mental health, she didn't look for a job for 6 months till her gibs run out, during that time I tried telling her to get a job, but she refused every time. She found a new job now, but she said she can't afford paying the bills, so I pay her mortgage, condo fees, gas, water, food... Crazy that I am paying for a house that will never me mine because I have siblings. I make a decent amount of money for the country I live in, but I can't live alone because most of my salary is compromised. I lost so many opportunities because of that... I was never able to have a girlfriend, can't brin girls at home, saw all my friends buying their houses, cars, travelling, marrying, conquering their dreams, and I am stuck at the same place. Life is tough, I could have been a way better person than I am if I had a better family, even with the kind of family I got I was able to achieve a lot of things, but I kinda of feel you, seeing your own potential and knowing you will never be able to achieve it messes with your head, just don't give up.>>34454161>You're honestly a total piece of shit.You never went hungry in your entire life. Did you? You don't know what's growing up dirty poor to the point you have to walk around with a hole in your shoes, hungry all the time to the point you can't think. It messes with you, you don't reach your genetic potential, you don't grow taller, you don't develop your brain, knowing that everything could have been different if you were born in another family hits harder.
>>34454161>>my parents ruined my life because they were poor>You're honestly a total piece of shit.By the way, OP is not wrong, it's his parents fault, they should have planned for his birth, they have a moral obligation towards feeding and taking care of OP till he is developed. Thinking otherwise is mind boggling.
>>34455138Correct. Also when people stop working permanently after they give birth. And therefore deprive money from coming in.
Romance is sadly not as idealistic as in my chinese cartoons, not like I've ever had one but from what I've seen and been told there's a lot of compromises both parties need to make and extra responsibilites of all kinds. You also need to be mentally mature and have good comunication skills.Is the average person really getting into relationships knowing all this or do they simply hate being alone and just 'wing it'?It's not like I've never had the chance to be in a relationship but when I was a teenager I always though "what was the point?" and "I'm not ready for this now". I was a mess in my 20s and didn't think I was 'worthy' of having someone. Now in my 30s a lot of people my age are married and unhappy, or getting a divorce, or cheating, or completely burned out and aging decades in just a few years from the exhaustion of having to manage an adult life and children of their own.Was I just overthinking it and now the relation-ship has sailed? Or are relationships an actual scam that aren't really worth it if you don't mind being alone, aren't emotionally dependent or don't care about having kids?
>>34457460>Was I just overthinking it and now the relation-ship has sailed?Yes.
teenage relationships are nowhere near as serious, it's basically their first experience so they go into it with no preconceived notions of what being a boyfriend or girlfriend really means except for maybe what their parents and society teach them, ie. be nice to them and don't cheat or whatever. i take it since you mentioned anime your idealized version of a high school romance was actually being completely devoted to your first love and planning as far ahead as marriage or something.normal people in their early and mid 20s just have relationships to have sex and develop a preference for the type of long term partner they're gonna be looking for eventually.you're not supposed to be an absolute expert in relationships out of the womb, but it is also true that a lot of people don't put nearly as much effort as they need to make relationships work regardless of their age and that's why marriages and long term relationships fail so often.i wouldn't say it's over for you yet, but I believe some people are not made to share a life with another person for one reason or another, maybe you're one of the few who realized this before hurting or wasting the time any potential partner.
I love black women but I'm a white nationalist. what should I do?
Well lucky you, even non-white women are Chad only in 2026, so you don't have a chance with them anyway (unless it's some foreigner looking for a green card lmao.T. White guy dating an Afro-Latina
>>34451771White guys who date black girls usually have their shit together. Black girls who are into white guys are usually educated, loyal and emotionally intelligent. The opposite side of that coin is usually two desperate low class gutter people trying to breed dozens of offspring to 'get dat money' and/or some jigaboo trying to get some fat trailer park girl to straw purchase him a firearm. That's just the way it is
>>34457323This is quite literally racist confirmation bias. You can say the exact opposite of what you just said and it would and actually is true, on both sides.
>>34457323>Black girls who are into white guys are usually educated, loyal and emotionally intelligent.Cassie has entered the chat lmao
>>34451681>what should I do?Get off of the internet.
how do i get an e-boyfriend that will sleep vc with me every single night? (im a straight man)
>>34457007[spoiler]26dollar[/spoiler]
>>34455175Start playing Roblox. You'll find someone easily there. Just don't give them rl pics or meet them irl.
>straight>wants a bf
>>34457372added you :3
>>34457489im not a child tho>>34457542its the only way i can surviveits the only thing i have ever desiredi will do anything to get a >>34457616yay
So this girl who I’ve only texted with before, who has a bad home life, hit me up looking for a place to stay. I offered to help and hang out with her for a couple. Now I’m chilling with her and it turns out she’s going kinda nuts. Like getting into screaming arguments on the phone while we’re getting food at restaurants. How do I get out of this situation? She’s incredibly needy and freaks out when I even stop holding her handd. She was in a psych ward two nights ago. I told her I’d help. But I’m exhausted by this.
>>34457537Corrective you know what. On a more serious note, now you have a wife. You signed up for this.
>>34457537first of all its good you see a problem in this situation and not only pussy like a former friend of mine. well you fucked yourself a bit with you offering help now the sad truth is there are only ugly ways out. just put your own sanity first dont fuck yourself i hope you get through this
>>34457537>How do I get out of this situation?Pass me her number. I need a girl like that in my life.
>>34457566So I got her a hotel room for the night, told her I had tons of work to do, and bounced. I’m afraid to even have her in my apartment. I feel bad though
Autistic question here.How hard would it be for someone like me to become an aircraft mechanic. For some reason I feel drawn to this job; but I know nothing about planes and the only tool I've ever used is a ratchet to change out a car battery. I guess I'm more afraid of boomers bullying me because I won't know what I'm doing when I start.
not hard my dad did it and he was dumb and antisocial as hell. anything that's real mans work they can't hardly find anyone for anymore
Aircraft mechanic schools provide specialized training to prepare students for careers in aircraft maintenance, focusing on safety regulations and practical skills. Programs range from 36-month apprenticeships to full-time diploma and degree courses, covering airframe, powerplant, and electrical systems, often with hands-on training on aircraft engines and components.
>>34456452Join the military. Airplane “mechanic” is subdivided into multiple, highly specialized roles. You have framers (the guys who work on the body of the plane), aviation electricians, and the engine guys. And if you are one of these that is literally all you do. The military’s training program is specifically designed to take retards who know absolutely nothing about planes and teach them to work on them from point zero. >inb4 zog botIf you look at aircraft mechanics in the civilian sector most of them are former military. The airlines hire them for just that reason that I mentioned in that your training is already done more or less. Navy if you want adventure, Air Force if you want more technical expertise.
>>34456452I'm in aircraft engineering, but aviation maintenance and assembly is pretty easy to get into, and it's in pretty high demand right now.Most positions don't even require an A&PI'm biased but it's definitely the "cleanest" and easiest blue collar job
>>34456452Check with army/navy/air force recruiters and see if they can get you in as a mechanic. You'll have to go through basic training, but you don't have to risk your life like the front line retards.
