Why do people who treated me badly try to come back into my life ;-;
>>34074184Because they want to revenge, closure, to patch up the lost time, lots of reasons
>>34074184So they can treat you badly some more
>>34074184Every person who has treated me like shit never came back into my life because I went nuclear on them with righteous anger, and now they fear me. The women are now begging for me to come back to society, but I'm just going to continue being maximum comfy in my house, because it's not my problem.https://files.catbox.moe/u4vrpf.mp4https://files.catbox.moe/nhyjin.mp4https://files.catbox.moe/eew135.mp4
>>34076068But I feel bad and always hope that they've changed and we had a connection and knew eachother for quite some time
>>34077809A lot of people don't deserve 2nd chances
What does it mean when a guy who used to show (likely fake) romantic interest in you (for about a month), ghosts you, but doesn't unfriend you, then you message him almost a year later, asking how he's been, and he doesn't respond, just uses that one program to delete every message he ever sent you, while still not unfriending you? I suspected from the beginning that he was a troll, as I am ugly, but can someone elaborate even further on what he meant by this? Just some sort of attempt at humiliation? Genuine paranoia, even if he never knew about the extent of my past "insane" actions? Met him on Duolicious a year ago almost.
He wanted to cheat on his gf but got cold feet or she caught on
>>34080158For sure not, he would've chosen someone far more attractive for that. Besides, he never showed sexual interest, as he claimed he was scared of that, he just wrote insanely huge paragraphs about philosophy, eugenics, conspiracies, etc, all the time.
>>34080153i did this to my love interest when she started dating other guy, immature but i couldn't help being jealous
>>34080158Ding ding. Happened to me, had a side chick, merely got bored with the idea of cheating so I let her go. I think I mostly just chasing the thrill of attracting a new woman
>>34080170>EugenicsWhat were his takesAnyway yeah just coward arrogant behaviour, call him out on it and say yeah fuck you too Felicia. Ghosting and deleting instead of apologising and communicating like a proper human being, disgusting generation and youth these days
it has occured to me that i'm too ugly to lose my virginity to a cis womani think i'm going to hop in Grindr and smash femboy or tgirl asshave any other straight dudes done this?have advice to offer?
>>34078019>have advice to offer?Don't do it, you're just driven by lust, but there's no reason for you to engage. You're not a baby, you don't have to fulfil your every need, you're stronger than that, so therefore stay pure, know that even if the world lets you down and doesn't fulfil your desires, you can still be blameless in the situation - if someone knew what you were doing, they'd shun you, regardless of how progressive some people's views are :)
>>34078106fpbp
>>34078019>i want to sodomise the asshole of a gay man who wears a wig and a dress >any other straight guys feel the same? “Straight” lol. okay.
>>34078019My "advice" is don't fucking do it. I was so lonely I did the same thing, and the man I met up with was just that, a man. Everything about him was masculine and it was repulsive to me. Luckily all we did was kiss a little bit before I left but I still feel disgusting when I think about it.
>>34078106>you're just driven by lustA demon.
I know more than half of the posts here are about anons complaining about women, but I wanna ask how I can even start trying to find a romantic relationship. The only time I’ve tried was in 8th grade when I was politely rejected. Covid screwed up my social life, I went to an all guys high school lol, chiari also killed my social life until hs final semester, and now I’m 2 years into uni with no experience. It’s a majority girl school but I’m scared if I tried it wouldn’t go well. I don’t know how to talk to women and online dating is a scam. How do I even start?I also fear I might not be able to hold a relationship or that I might fuck things up, but I’m tired of not even trying.
>>34079989I have some guy friends I’ve reconnected with last and a few I made at uni, but they’re basically in the same boat or have just given up
>>34079979I don't know. But when you finish uni it gets even worse. Jews totally fucking destroyed our society
You have to expose yourself to being awkward and being rejected. In uni, talk to girls in your class, better to go in with no agenda.It's like learning an instrument, you will only learn by putting in practice. Only real piece of advice anyone can give you is to convince you to put in the practice.I suppose I could also add, when socializing, try to maintain some awareness of what you're feeling, don't know if that applies to everyone, but it helped me to discover how anxious I really was and to find my way to being calm and present.
>>34079979You don't start with romance. You start with acquaintanceship/friendship and build from there. Get to know women in a non-sexual setting - workmates, classmates, neighbors, church, etc.. Hit it off with one, and THEN ask her out
>>34079979>It’s a majority girl school>I don’t know how to talk to womenHow? Are you just sitting in a corner panting like some squirrel?
A few months ago, I saw the most beautiful woman I’ve ever seen. She was smoking a cigarette at a punk show, quiet, observant. I loved her vibe instantly. My heart was beating out of my chest.We had matching style, matching energy. Everything felt right. She kept drifting near me, staring at me, dancing close. My god. She made me feel things I’ve never felt before.I never talked to her.Fast forward to last night. Another punk show. I see her again, this time playing solo acoustic guitar. Only about fifteen people there. She was just as beautiful as I remembered. Her voice was angelic. And even though she kept looking at me, clearly aware of me, I still couldn’t talk to her.Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>34077237YES, good. GOOD. Well done for sending the email, you got my respect. It was not the right choice, it was not the wrong choice either, it was simply a choice. And no matter the outcome the important part is you used your spine and grew a pair of balls to ask a girl out, that’s all that matters. Good show and well done.
>>34077282Aye thanks manI wish I had more nerve to do it in person, but I guess we will see what happensIt was kind of basic, kind of short and sweet like this (heavily changed):-----------------Hey <name>I saw you preforming at <blah blah>, I really liked your setI think you have a wonderful voice, I liked the cover of <artists> song you didI play guitar too and I songwrite, if you would ever like to catch up about music / songwritting, id love to go to a show sometime take care,----------------Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>34077305I think the important thing is to not be a pussy irl when you see her again. You have nothing to lose and the rejection will not make you feel nearly as bad as this does, if it comes. Doubt it though. IF what you say is true she probably liked you too. Good luck.
>>34077999True asf homie24 hours laterno replyI'm not gonna worry about getting ghosted until after 1 week
>>34079618You shouldn't worry about it period. I get worked up like this too. The best thing to do is focus on other things. Whether or not you have a GF in 3 months or tomorrow is ultimately inconsequential. Check back in a week but go live your life.
I am a friendless and fatherless loser (23) and I never talked to a girl. My face is mid desu. My mother offered her a ride home after midnight mass. She once said that we would be an ideal match. Should I talk to her on the ride home? My mother being there would just put more pressure on the situation and something embarresing would be much worse. I have no choice because cute and very faithful women like her are near extinct. There is also a small chance that her grandma will come and pick her up. In case I do have a chance how do I know if she would be interested or not. I might stutter like a fucking retard. Maybe I was meant to die alone.
>>34080464Or should I save myself from embarassment and walk home witch is few kilometers away by myself.
Be faithful yourself man. God gave us the spirit of hope and love, not of fear. If you realize this you will chill the fuck out and maybe you will see that you will be yourself and not live in your head. Good luck.
>>34080483So your saying talking to her on the ride home is appropriate?
>>34080498Just do it man. Im sure you will have something to talk about after you've both been at the same event.
What happened to your DAD? he DED?
The planets do not transgress the set orbit that they were given. We are to walk according to the word of God this same way. It would be awkward for the moon to suddenly start drifting in a different direction. This is how it looks to God when we walk in sin.
>design thing with a flaw>Act mad when it falls through that flawIf you don't want flaws, you don't design flaws.There is no benefit for free will other than not following God. What's the point then?I'm assuming God knows this and he allows evil and suffering for a greater gain. Because otherwise, it is retarded and a cruel joke.
>>34080022I imagine evil existing simply to test the righteous. How can a person know they're righteous if they aren't put to the test by someone less righteous than them? Will their conduct reflect righteousness? Or will they stoop to that evil person's low vibrational level. Christ was an example of a righteous person. But I'm reminded of Batman's character as well with the no killing theme, granting mercy where none is deserved. >I'm assuming God knows this and he allows evil and suffering for a greater gainEvil is also there to remind you of the repercussions of sin. Notice in Deuteronomy 28 has the blessings stacked up and ready for you. But it also has a long list of curses if you ever stray from God's path. People are suffering because of sin/iniquity. They stumble around in the dark, and know not what they stumble over. They live in spiritual darkness and not in God's truth.
>>34080239>Notice in Deuteronomy 28 how God has the blessings stacked up and ready for you***
>>34080239>But I'm reminded of Batman's character as well with the no killing theme, granting mercy where none is deserved.I forgot, David was the same way.>1. When Saul came back after dealing with the Philistines, he was told, "David is now in the wilderness of En Gedi." (MSB)>2. Saul took three companies--the best he could find in all Israel--and set out in search of David and his men in the region of Wild Goat Rocks. (MSB)>3. He came to some sheep pens along the road. There was a cave there and Saul went in to relieve himself. David and his men were huddled far back in the same cave. (MSB)>4. David's men whispered to him, "Can you believe it? This is the day GOD was talking about when he said, "I'll put your enemy in your hands. You can do whatever you want with him.'" Quiet as a cat, David crept up and cut off a piece of Saul's royal robe. (MSB)>5. Immediately, he felt guilty. (MSB)Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>34073635You are, you were just socialized to believe different stupid shit.
How can I let someone know Im not a demon. Sincerely, that I don't mean harm. Without sounding insane of corpse.
>>34079391Wear a crucifix prominently, clearly touching your skin
>>34079391It's not about what you say, it's about how you say it. Focus on the sound and noise you emit when speaking instead of stressing about the words you pick (just avoid charged words) Also hair can play a part in expressing warmth rather than coldness.
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>>34079391>of corpse.Is that a deliberate joke or a freudian slip?
I'm having trouble with my conversations being too friend-like with women. I don't really know how I can flirt or be playful without it being creepy or forced. Any pointers or advice? I'm sort of turned off by the pickup artist stuff too.
>>34069854Its not good
>>34076213I mean yes but also, we aren't really into our mom right? Just the care and love of the girl, not the actual momright?
>>34076079When I was a teenager, one of my favorite hentai scenes ever was where a succubus magically paralyzes this dude and then proceeds to fuck him with the intention of fucking him to death. He turns it around on her and it's consensual between them, but it wasn't until recently that I realized that she pretty much rapes the guy up until that point. Even though I know it's wrong, something about her high intensity and eagerness in her desire to dominantly fuck the shit out of him makes me wish I was in his shoes even now.
>>34062043flirting is very much one of those "it's not what you say, it's how you say it" things, which is why autists find it basically impossible.
>>34080393What does this mean? How do i say what? How do i realise when someone is flirting with me? Like 10 times already i was completely unaware that a woman was flirting with me, only for someone else after the fact tell me "you fucking idiot she was flirting with you". To the point where i was told a girl cried after an interaction with me because she thought i rejected her but i was actually genuinely unaware she was flirting with me and i found her very attractive, lol. Kissles virgin btw
Is it time to put a gun in my mouth? I can't even crack 1500 on lichess. Seriously, is there a reason to live when vermin like this can cheat with impunity and get away with it because they intentionally lose some games? It makes me physically ill.
>>340684581000 elo 2 digit IQ kramnik.Also, who replies to messages on lichess? lmao
Just found your account and just reported you with a link to an archive of this thread attached.Get ready to get banned faggot.
>>34077725>Just found your accountName?
>>34078301>Name?lichess.org/@/Kramnik_Is_Rightnta, but you just have to look at the other players accounts and find when he played them, the screenshot has a timestamp
>>34068477holy shit OPlost
Think ofsin as being an annoying fly in the room. Alot of people's first thought is "that fly must absolutely be swatted at once!". Especially if it continues to pester you. How do you think God feelings are towards sin? It is something that must absolutely be punished... yet you continue on with it without a care.Ezekiel 18:30 >"The upshot is this, Israel: I'll judge each of you according to the way you live. So turn around! Turn your backs on your rebellious living so that sin won't drag you down. (MSB)When people say "why does God allow so much bad and suffering in this world?!??!".........does He? Or are they just being punished for their own sins? Or let alone, even from some generational curse?
>>34080117You are a retard
>>34080117hey if it helps your schizo ramblings, none of the abrahamic religions are true
>>34080334Keks but yeaIf god is le omnipotent why does he let absolutely terrible horrendous shit happen, where no amount of justification could explain away that the thing could've been a fitting sacrifice for a better reward afterwardsUtterly purposeless suffering and grave injustices with no chance of rectification, how can this be part of God's le planCuz there is no omnipotent dude out there, shit just happens and we have to deal with it and prevent really bad shit from happening ourselves
odd question but you know how it goes .... (internet full of overdramatic "you have cancer" + aislop etc these days) and don't exactly wanna ask this IRL for obvious reasons.but yeah I picked up this job where I'd deal younger with children a lot and since 30% of (yes civilized denmark!) kiddo fuckers have worms pinworms its called in english ig ... the consequence is that I myself have pinworms too now. First it kinda scared me but reading up on it its actually very common in the civilized world (central to northern europe) so whatever still lowkey embarassing eventhough every second person gets it once in their life here according to wikipedia.Now my question is: im currently on vacation and rented the place 34 days , the procedure is to change bedsheets every day but I kind of do not want to ask the staff for new bedsheets on a daily basis. The deworming agent I take apparently kills all adult worm that can reproduce but as they lay 10 000 spore like eggs everywhere its quite common to re-infect yourself assuming you managed to "cure" yourself either trough completing one reproductive circle OR trough taking the deworming agent. Now I wonder what if I just spam the deworming agent (pyrantel) 5 weeks in a row and do not keep up the extreme hygiene practices of changing bedsheet every single night. The thing is the worms eggs (which stick everywhere and can even infect trough inhalation) can survive outside the host for like 3 whole weeks but as I'm the only host around I should in theory be able to be less extreme with the hygiene (boiling everything daily as disinfectants don't work) right?Wikipedia says:"The egg-laying process begins approximately five weeks after initial ingestion of pinworm eggs by the human host"so If i were to eat it 3-4 times a month, all eggs spread around in this place would die (as MAX 3w outside host) and those I already consumed would die before being able to lay new eggs (as from consumption of an egg 2 laying its 5w)
>>34080071I'll drop some interesting facts on worms I discovered trough kinda researching this. Feel free to look it up but note that the articlesin dutch and german and scandifag languages differ from the english one in stats but its still wikipedia and quotes other sources you can check) Fact 1:1) only 33% of people notice they even have them, Personally I found out cuz i was told some of the kids had it by the parents and i mean you can feel sth move inside your ass which is terribly distressing desu2) in WW2 in the netherlands 80% of the population had it as they ran out of the medicine <look it up dutch wikipedia>3) the medicine I used pyrantel is sold OTC in all of europe along with one for tapeworms but almost nobody gets tapeworms these are RARE4) the medicine tastes not super bad but not nice either, its an extremely strong red dye and will color everything in a strong bright red so don't spill it , i think they put it in so you know once it traversed you which may take 2-3 days4) initially on the way down it was ok I mixed it with plenty of alcohol cuz needed the alcohol as courage to ask for a deworming agent in pharmacy. But when going to bed much later I kinda got weird disgestive discomfort like when you about to shit water like it felt unhealthy . This morning I woke up nauseous and a little off , I went and bought a pack of MCP as the sert based ones cost 130 for 5 pills what a joke(but she told me don't worry it happens all the time . Just ask for 2 doses for 12 year olds if ur shy and don't wanna admit its for yourself but she told me its nothing special so whatever)Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
How do i enjoy the dating process with random girls? I'm a bit autistic but not in the "fun geek" way, rather the "misunderstood genius" kind of wayI've always felt really exposed and struggled to have fun in learning about people. I tend to be serious and critical.I'm also relatively poor and live in a dirty cramped shared apartment, so I kinda have a chip on my shoulder. I feel I deserve someone young and hot. I have delusions that I'll be famous in five years or something. I know I'm pretty much insufferable but I do look good
stay humble. ask questions. maybe find some shared interests and try to engage around that, so you talk about something you find interesting but also can ask them questions about it and stuff. maybe give some light compliments. thats what i usually do but im not a dude
If you think you're handsome you should try looksmaxing on top of that
>>340781452 words that'll change your life if you choose to learn about them.Cerebral NarcissistYou're welcome.
>>34078145I'm pretty much like you. Just force yourself to talk to people, that's it. And don't be "serious and critical", girls will just think you're boring and get the "ick", pretend to be someone else.>>34078157>im not a dudeWhat you say is pretty much irrelevant if you're not a dude.
you can not enjoy the soul-sucking experience of datingmen only put up with it to get love from a woman or sexit's always been a means to an end
how does one know they're fit for a relationship?I keep meeting people who've been through multiple divorces and I just don't get it. How do they keep fucking up even after having so much practice? And how do I know I won't be the same way? Is it learned, or are you born with it? Do you have to have good parents and a loving upbringing, or is there hope for everyone?
>>34079687Interesting take, but I suspect you are wrong.From what I've read, the most telling factor for a long lived relationship is respect. If the couple don't respect each other, it's doomed. And lack of respect can be subtle or obvious.
>>34079407It would be difficult to make curtains out of concrete. Doesn't matter how good your method is if you're working with the wrong materials.
>>34079687kek this is exactly it i think. i've noticed that pattern too>>34079844this is the other bad option. what you're referring to is "religious nut who's so scared of divorce they'll stay in an abusive situation". not very interested.
>>34079886>Interesting take, but I suspect you are wrong.>From what I've read, the most telling factor for a long lived relationship is respect. If the couple don't respect each other, it's doomed. And lack of respect can be subtle or obvious.You’re not wrong, but you’re grabbing the pointy end of the stick. I’m talking about the root, where lack of respect develops from. And it develops when two fantasists date each other, when two idiots have in their head an idea of an ideal love, and an ideal person, “the one”. What happens is both idiots will write the whole script to the fantasy movie of what they THINK should be their love life in their own heads, and then get bitterly mad at each other when one partner doesn’t know the lines of the script. In other words, idealists will start disrespecting the people they date for falling short of their ideal. These types of people never fall in love with other humans, only approximate ideas of humans they project onto the face and body of whoever agreed to date them. So eventually what happens without fail is a ticking time bomb to break up or divorce.Could happen in days, weeks, months, years, decades even. But it always happens to them without fail no matter what. Then they become a statistic, a 51% stat. And instead of actually reflecting on themselves, they will call it ‘misfortune’ or they dated he ‘wrong’ person at the ‘wrong’ time, or if theyre especially immature and retarded, will villainise their exes as if they had been victims of emotional robbery or some crazy shit. And they’ll continue to think love is all a numbers game or a statistics game and chance rules everything lol.
>>34080210>t. virgin
how am i supposed to cope with being absolutely humiliated? Go on /gif/ and theres a billion webms of beautiful young women having sex with the absolute dregs of society. I am a decent looking young white man with a good job and I'm in shape and yet I am totally unseen by women. It is humiliating and blackpilling and can drive one to insanity
>>34080014>Go on /gif/LOLOL
>>34080014>go on /gif/>decent looking>>34080024LOL
You're invisible to women because being a young white man with a good job doesn't make them feel excited, or intrigued, or anything really. You sound like an average, generic guy. Of course you're invisible to them, because there are average generic men everywhere. Have you ever done anything exciting even once in your life?
porn is not real. instead of trying to find a way to cope with being humiliated, stop humiliating yourself.
Cuz those "beautiful young women" are actually pretty mid and on par with those "absolute dregs of society" and you're just a dick brain who puts femoids on the pedestal for existing
