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Ever since the covid hoax I stopped interacting with the goyim cattle. I just look through them and pretend they don't exist. I don't even greet them or acknowledge their presence. I'm not staring either, I'm just looking straight through them as if they weren't there.
My life has significantly improved. I am at peace
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>>34076338
>I am at peace
and yet you can't fight the compulsion to post this every day.
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>>34076604
Triggered (you)
Checkmate gaytheist
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>>34076338
Good for you.
Get the fuck off of 4Chan then.
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>>34079760
Way to necrobumping faggito

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My ex got caught trying to have sex with someone underaged.

What do I make of this? I'm still trying to process it..
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>>34079383
The normal reaction is to be shocked and to laugh at how fortunate you are to not end up with such a loser. Beyond that, nothing, unless you were underaged when you started dating or something.

Many predators aren’t exclusively attracted to children, they just pursue children when the opportunity arises.
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>>34079440
Past tense, it doesn't effect you any more
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>>34079440
>>was
"Was" tells you everything you need to know about the situation. You dodged a bullet, good job.
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>>34079383
Hot.
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>>34079440
>Well I was dating him?
this isn't a counterpoint. im with the other anon, i fail to see how this is your problem. let him rot and be happy you dodged a bullet.

No matter how much I try to work hard, job and freelance at the same time I never get ahead. I didn't manage to get what I want, no wife or kids. Recently the small company I worked with failed and we all got fired for economic reasons. Should I give up on everything and accept failure and let it all rot? Why should I contribute to this society?
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>>34073108
I won't read threads that are just a whine rather than a request for advice.
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>>34073108
Are you asking whether you should kys?
I mean, I don't know. Sorry. I just like bumping random unpopular faggot threads.
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>>34076742
Yet you reply. People here usually vent and that's ok. I really don't like people like you, constantly looking down on others.

Op, obviously you should keep trying, there is no other road. God bless you.
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>>34079783
Thanks I appreciate you. God bless

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>be me, university
>hang out with this dude during class, better than being alone (but not by much)
>don't stay in contact after
>last couple months he's been trying to speak to me again
>we hang out/play games once a fortnight now

Problem is he's so fucking dull. I dread spending time with him and only do it out of obligation. I don't want to be rude because he's generally a well mannered guy but holy fuck he's boring. He's also sort of miserable and self-depreciating which makes me feel bad cause I don't want to hurt his feelings. Am I a bad person for thinking this way?
What do anons
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>>34077751
>>be me, university
you can't be a university though. universities can't post online
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>>34078653
>this nigga this dumb
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>what do
it is what it is. at least he has good manners, so thats that. maybe ask him why or tell him how you perceive him, if you want to know?
unfortunately the bulk of ppl nowadays is boring, but it is their right to be that way.
let them be.
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>>34077751
Maybe you gotta get him outta the shell. I have had the rare experience of working with boring fucks for years but, when I got bad news from the doctors, I started fucking with everyone, asking what happens when we die, or what kind of animal would they have sex with, if they had to pick one, and I called out the CEO for making us pay more for shittier health. People that I found boring for years stopped being boring and people that never talked to me started bugging me. It may be better to let boring dogs lie, if you do not wanna open a can of worms.
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I'm the dude in the OP.
The reason we are full is because every single time I've tried to do, say something interesting I've been mocked, laughed and beaten up like a dog. So yeah, I'm not your personal clown.

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How come I can be sexually attracted to other women to the point it's a real problem for me and I think I'm a lesbian, but then I'll see some guy in a bookstore or at the gas station and think "I FUCKING LOVE MEN"? I'm not a coomer brain either, so that's not the cause. I just wish it was one or the other, because liking both is a problem
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>>34078156
You are bisexual. You get to have the best of both worlds.
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>>34078183
I don't find it a blessing. What it's really like is me finding random girls attractive and knowing there's no possibly way. And then I'm also afraid of being on a date with a guy, or having a boyfriend, and suddenly being attracted to a girl. It's hell.
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>>34078227
Femcel. Join me and we'll be losers together.
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>>34078227
Also just be poly? If you're afraid of having feelings for someone while you're already in a committed relationship, resort to finding a fag who will consent to a poly relationship instead.
I don't fucking know, I've never even held hands before.

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I looked it up and it doesn’t exist. I thought there was r34 of everything. PLEASE where do I find it (it’s a character from a Japanese game)
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>>34078756
I guess you're right except I can't draw. Is there a NON worksafe requests page here
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>>34078767
Oh LOL i found it i will update you people if it works
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I thought women weren't gooners
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>>34078891
You thought wrong, cel.
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>>34078769
Tell me the character and I can judge you. Chances are I'll know him.

Hi, Im a guy in my early 20s working in a corporate environment with no end in sight. I have a good bachelor's degree, looking to get a masters next year. However, I'm just so depressed thinking I will have to do this wage slave shit forever. I'm willing to take all risks in the universe not to be in this position. I have some intelligence and creativity and would love to content create on ytb etc. Yet, I feel very nauseous when I think about how of a risk this truly is: if it all fails I'm doomed, becasuse very few people actually make it in avenues where creativity is at the forefront.
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>>34076654
Fake having a disability
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QKIaHJvlR6s
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>>34076654
The US Army is always hiring, son!
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>>34076654
Create content on youtube before you decide what flavor of slavery you want to be your 24/7 life. You might suck or lose interest when you actually have to do youtube for money.
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Yeah, same here OP. I realized early on that I dont wanna fucking work only for my money to disappear into thin air for taxes, rent and other bullshit. Homelessness or off grid cabin life it is.
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>if it all fails I'm doomed
According to your post you're already doomed, so if you failed you wouldn't have lost anything except maybe a bit of time which as far as risk taking in your 20s go you can afford

Where do i find myself a girlfriend that isnt promiscuous, vain and obssesed with showing off to other women trough retard shit like buying shoes and getting those weird nails?
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>>34075119
maybe on a different planet
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>>34075119
You're not gonna like the answer, but truly ugly girls or extremely religious girls.
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anon i dont know how to break this to you but women arent attracted to men that remind them of their grandparents
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>>34075119
You're not going to like the answer but you have to be a man of greater value than the female you're desiring.
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One that has her shit figured out. Good luck.

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Why does reddit/tiktok/whateverthefuck call men pedophiles for liking younger, legally aged women? Is this something I have to worry about irl at 31 if I start dating a 18-20 year old?

Do people really think this way irl? Do other men really say stuff like “I can’t even look at 18-20 year olds they’re children” like on reddit?
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>>34078954
None of what you wrote is actually true.
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>>34070970
The #MeToo movement in 2017 fundamentally changed the dynamic of male-female sexual relations forever.
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>>34078773
>Why are you speaking for an entire group of people you don’t know?
Because that's how you analyze issues society wide. I can't speak individually for billions of people, anon. That wouldn't make much sense, would it? That's why we make rules, so that we can apply them in a blanket to populations instead of a case by case basis. It wouldn't make sense for people to reach age of consent at all different ages based on their maturity level. That's why we just set it at 18.

>My assumption is that most 18 year olds would probably laugh at you for saying “you shouldn’t do this” because they’re adults and can make adults decisions with full autonomy
And 8 year olds cry when I tell them they have to brush their teeth and take a shower. That isn't really relevant to whether or not they should. 18 year olds should make their own mistakes, I know I did. Also, not in the dozen posts I made in this thread did I ever say 18 year olds shouldn't do this. I haven't instructed anybody to do anything so I don't know who you're responding to.

>I had a 19 year old who wanted to drive a few states away to meet me after we randomly swiped on tinder while she was in my state and we matched and talked for a bit. Would your old weird ass say “hey dont do this your lobes arent developed”? Sounds weird as fuck
You're arguing with someone that isn't in the room. I've never said any of this. Legal adults can fuck whoever they want. I don't care. As a general rule I don't encourage teenagers dating significantly older people but its a case by case thing. Its mostly none of my business what other people's kids do. I can't be fucked to tell them who they should or shouldn't fuck.
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>>34070929
>Is this something I have to worry about irl at 31 if I start dating a 18-20 year old?

Don't worry, this isn't gonna be an issue for you.
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>>34079346
Literally all of it is true, saying NUH UH isn’t a refutation

>>34079306
I’m OP, I’d fuck anything from 18-60 but am not dating or marrying anyone older than 25. Women my age and older are abhorrent and I want healthy children

>>34079374
Now you’re talking about 8 year olds, it’s time to stop responding

How do I get over this? She's emotionally abusive, but not to the extent that it warrants me to mentally spiral in her presence. I show physical fear when I'm around her, which she also takes offense to.

Anytime she knocks on my door, I have a habit of yelping and when she walks through the door, I start shaking. She's only hit me once in the past few weeks, so my responses are unwarranted.

We're both women by the way.
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>>34078015
>She's emotionally abusive
Then your fears are warranted.
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Be brave. If he's a bitch then just be a bit h back. It's not hard.
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>>34078015
Yeah she scares me too idk
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Can you move out?

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Can damage and trauma, particularly from men, ever be healed? Do people just learn to live with the mental scars?
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>>34075739
Yeah, it doesn't really go away, but you learn to dismiss the negative thoughts and move on with your day. The trauma responses are still there, but it gets easier if you are aware of them and how they affect your behavior and can compensate for that
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>>34075753
This is painful to read
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>>34075739
No it cannot be healed, and that’s because it doesn’t need to be healed The trauma is the healing itself. It’s your brain’s way to remember danger so that you can avoid it or fight it in the future, it’s a defense mechanic. Once you understand that you stop fighting with it and you are able to live a more dignified life.
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>>34075739
>Can damage and trauma, particularly from men, ever be healed?
Yes. The source is a non-issue.
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>>34075739
Add me on discord if you wanna chat.
Jarvisu

Constantly tired, despite getting 10 hours of sleep every night with good schedule. I do intense workout two evenings a week after work, plus chill exercise on saturdays. for the most part I eat well (mostly eat fish and red meat, eating veggies but could eat more I guess). Minimal stress, happy life.

But - I'm always so tired. Like, extreme tired. To the point where I even get dizzy. Yesterday I literally collapsed asleep on the couch for an extra 3 hours in the middle of the day (wtf??)

I'm worried it could be something bad. Have had two incidents this year where I've had my whole skull feel like sudden pins and needles - first time (april) hospitalised overnite and drs did nothing about it and literally gave up. second time (two weeks ago) did nothing (because they did nothing last time) and I felt like i was on the verge of what I'd imagine an epileptic fit would feel like for hours (but didn't happen), tried to nap it off but it didnt go away until the next day.

Booked a doctor's appt for next Monday, but, a bit worried in the meantime. What does his holiness Doctor 4troon MD think?
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Too much gooning
Too much cooming
'Low T'
>despite getting 10 hours of sleep every night
it shouldn't take that long,
how many pushups can you do
Have you tried Carnivore and Keto or Vegetarianism
Have you tried fasting
Have you heard of the term 'Antioxidants': Garlic, Olive oil, Blueberries and such
Have you heard of the term 'Psychosomatism': so fear and anxiety and such ,stress causing the physical issue
Have you tried cold showers
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even the anime you posted looks low energy look at something like this.
Maybe try seraching up your symptoms... Cancer, its cancer, its definitely cancer you have cancer its always cancer
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10 hours of sleep a night sounds too much. If nothing else is the problem like sleep apnea then you might actually get more tired by getting 10 hours than you would be by 7-8 hours.
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>>34079617
cheers Shrek (never thought i'd get adv from ye olde swamp). thank you for the reply. Probably youre right re: the T imbalance, I'm ftm troon, so that's probably contributing to the issue big time. i'll mention it to the doc. antioxidants are fine, no major stressors very happy, and dont goon too much. tried carnivore previously and fasting (but in the latter case probably didnt space it properly). have been considering keto but not done it yet, maybe I'll take the plunge?

a cold shower sounds really good right about now to be honest!

>>34079625
sorry yes you're right, it's definitely Cancer it's cancer it's absolutely 100% cancer always was always will be cancer, my mistake, of course. gotta consoom more goku, he must be Immune to it.
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>>34079639
hmm yeah. Mostly the 10 hours is just because I naturally just conk out at around 10PM and wake at 8. I guess i'll wake up earlier?

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How much trouble could i get into if i gently slapped the ass of a coworker that showed some interest at work? Theres cameras but she told me about breaking up recently but i also think i heard her talk about and glaze her new bf the other day. Also this girl is 21 and does tiktoks where she dances like a whore.
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>>34079040
If she decides to make the biggest possible deal of it, you could easily be fired, just hope she doesn't care
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There has to be a bit of chemistry between you two.
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>>34079040
Not sure. Post yourself and let's see. If you're hot, she might not mind, women are easy like that.

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she cheated on me 2 years ago on the dot. No trouble moving on without an apology on her end, and I still think about it every day. Have developed massive intimacy and trust issues, haven't touched a woman since either.
What do?
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fuinjutsu to the uterus with your foot or fist
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>>34076007
distract yourself and meet new girls learn to read in between the lines if your having trust issues or be straight foward so there's no room for miscommunication. No real girl would ask for too much
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>>34076014
>The paranoic who thinks his wife is cheating on him woth no evidence is pathological even if he's right.

Lol, lmao. Kek.
>He doesn’t know.
>He thinks it’s pathological
>He doesn’t know what everyone else knows
>He doesn’t know what force tips people off about cheating before evidence is found

It’s like cheaters are a different species or some shit. Different species of human or some spooky branch of small frontal lobe neanderthal that somehow survived and now roams the earth.
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>>34076007
RIP Itachi
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You made the mistake of projecting your morals onto someone else, psychos feel no remorse for anything

What advice would u give t teenagers?
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>>34071215
>What advice would u give t teenagers?
Youth is wasted on the youth. Youth is wasted if you just sit still and consume. Get up and create. Go out into the world and live. Nothing really matters until you turn 25. Want to run through girlfriends every 2 months? Do it. Want to tell your parents to fuck off? Do it! Want to live like a bum for a few months? Do it. Get drunk, sleep it off under a bush, then drive home.

Just avoid making decisions that will permanently affect your future. Examples : debt, pregnancy, military service, criminal record, tattoos, drug or alcohol dependency, debilitating injury.

I'm not saying "drop out until 25." Getting an education is good. And if you have a specific goal, say doctor or civil engineer, you're going to need to focus on that. But outside of that, remember that nobody in the adult world is going to give a fuck about your grades. At worst, your workers and boss want you to be smart and knowledgeable.
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>>34077011
>Don't let the internet/video games consume you. Spend time doing things with actual real life value.
thats what the fuck i was saying dude, what do you think i meant by get out of your bedroom
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>>34071215
1Get more sunlight.
2Everyone has a hidden battle its your job to Win.
>why more sunlight.
Figure it out
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3(if) Its 2025 get a gym membership see if its for you what do you have to lose
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>>34071215
Kys


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