Am I corny for not fucking the office (warehouse) slut? She's pretty hot and went after me hard for months, but I refused unless she was willing to attempt something more serious. Now I feel like an old-fashioned moralfag. I was grossed out because she flirts with dozens of guys, fucked a couple sloppy guys (that I'm aware of)before me, including a sex pest who is still there and has recent allegations against him from coworkers for doing creepy shit. The two are part of a small clique of long time employees and I've been there a bit less than a year and I feel like they're clowning on me. I'm also embarrassed that I took her seriously in the first place, but I had to work with her face to face for months and she was persistent. She's actually pretty hot though
I can confirm that you are gay. Since you have no need of your masculinity, I will take it from you.Ooogaba shrieltako nyoombiszarrrI hope you enjoy your etrlernal celibacy.
I don't understand why not?free sex is free sex and even better if woman hot as long as there is protection from the stds
>>34276487I don't think so. The best case scenario would've been that you fucked her but you end up caring more than her and it would've blown up anyway. Just find a normal girl elsewhere.
I'm a 40y.o. man. I had my first gf at 35, can count with my hands the times I had sex before I met her, and I never had the opportunity to "go wild". Or maybe I had it, but I was too autistic, poor, and was (and still kinda am) too much of an insecure coward to deal with all things women, and never asked friends for help... But things have improved a lot for me in the last decade.As a way of "solving" the need of going through that stage, I'm planning of renting a small, cheap apartment in an area with the most universities per square meter. Why? Tons of women, of course, so I can force myself to learn and act.The thing is, I'm 40, my hair is becoming whiter as time passes, and I'm not really sure if getting involved with women in their 20s is a good idea for a guy like me. Not because I don't like the idea of having sex with younger women, but because of the social/moral implications. On the other hand, I'm tall and good looking. I still get looks from all kinds of women, even in that age range, and I've been approached with obvious intentions, in public transport, &c..Should I do this? Any advice is welcome.Pic unrelated. I can only dream women were this hot in my country...
>>34274944>your life is waiting on it before it can begin and you might not get that yearI've worked, not just "waited", on a lot of things. currently, hopefully, in the final phase. this one would be one of those things. I can finally relax and do whatever the fuck I want after living in poverty, surrounded by miserable people, for a long fucking time...>Good luck though.thanks anon. good luck to you too.
>>34273700Pursuing women just isn't worth it, especially with autism. Just hire prostitutes. Hire only high class verified women with good reviews and enough pictures to tell if you're attracted to them.This is how I went through a similar "wild" phase later in life, however my wife gave me permission first. She was the one who brought it up, I wouldn't ask your wife.
>>34273700It comes down to this: Do you have money? A 40-year-old man trying to pull college girls is a "Creeper." A 40-year-old man trying to fuck college girls who has money to burn is a "Sugar Daddy" - It's that simple. Years ago while shopping for a birthday gift for my wife at a high-end store, I saw a 20-year-old redhead looking at a Coach handbag. No way she could afford it with the way she was dressed. I told her it looked nice and that she should have it. So, I bought it for her. She was very happy. I gave her my card and told her to text me when she had free time to hang out and maybe I'd take her shopping. I got to fuck her for the next 2 years. She even brought a couple of friends for me to fuck a couple of times. But it cost me close to $40,000.
>>34274959>Pursuing women just isn't worth it, especially with autismfuck, you have a fucking point there. I'm not a diagnosed autist, but I would bet people around me think I am autistic, or maybe just kinda "weird".and, yes, women have always been a mystery to me. like, why can't they be honest and open? why does being honest to them results in them crying or whatever? let's not even talk about mind games and stuff. but I have to be honest: I do the same shit, because I don't know how to react to other people's shit.>>34275022>It comes down to this: Do you have money? A 40-year-old man trying to pull college girls is a "Creeper." A 40-year-old man trying to fuck college girls who has money to burn is a "Sugar Daddy" - It's that simple.>it cost me close to $40,000.I guess that's the reality today... but I feel like you are one of those guys who people would call a findom, aka, financial cuck. I wouldn't spend that much money on women. like, 10% at most, and only if the girl is pretty and hot. and I'd feel like shit, because obviously the relationship would be fake, so I would feel empty.but I guess I could try. maybe I should try that...
>>34273700OP here.btw, regaring the apartment: should I rent something cheap, or something a bit more expensive? should I pretend to be what I am not, so that I can "fake it till I make it"?
anyone have neetbux advice?I have diagnosed schizoaffective, havent worked in years, hospitlization records, and a psych team. but im worried ill probably get denied.i need surgery for a few grand but am worried that working short term will ruin my application, additionally, i will never be able to work long term so why try again now.anyone offer advice for better odds. my chances? its over
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Please help me my fellow 4chan niggers. How do I last longer in bed?My penis in vagina lasting time is just under a minute and my girlfriend needs more!
>>34271910Doesn't it?
>>34254657DO NOT whatever you do mix any of these with the other it can and likely will kill you (apart from Viagra but even then tadalafil is bettet)
>>34273183Why not like... not take any of them... like ever?
>>34273284I would agree if u meant just for premature ejaculation but they are all good when used for their intended purposes
>>34272690I guess
Is it possible to move on after getting friendzoned / friendzoning someone?
>>34276324I'll break up with you before you even think about doing that to me
Usually no, but there is always a chance of success.
Im 19 yo male im currently struggling once again mentally and once again doing things i shouldnt do but i was only curious about smnt the why i fear more cutting myself than burning or like any other sh instead of cutting i can light off cigs on me heating stuff till they are hot asf and then press them into my skin i can smash my head on the wall as many times i can and want same punching but when it comes to cut i always have a little bit of struggle before starting doing it is there someone who has a explanation and a way to fix it without struggling at first even if it costs frying my brain with some mixed meds or drugs
>>34273956please don't do any of this man. If you cut yourself then you are teetering on severe blood loss - which isn't pretty, and smashing your head against a wall is just fucking stupidjust tell me what's on your mind and why are you struggling mentally. A recent bad event? Romantic issues? Lack of desire to live? Overpressured?
You will totally fail at this. Your life is a dumpster fire. Nothing you do will work. You're a terrible person. You will never be happy even if you have extra money. Everything you touch turns to shit. There is no use. You never do anything right. You certainly can't do it as well as others. You will never be lucky. You will never be able to complete anything. You should have never been born. You hate your life. You are ugly and nobody will ever find you attractive. You have the worst and most stupid ideas. You aren't creative. You already know you can't do it. Just thinking about it makes you feel sick to your stomach. Bad things always happen to you. You just wish you could disappear and never come back. You lack the talent to succeed. Nobody will ever like you. Nobody cares what you are going through.You feel so old. Everyone else is better than you. You get overwhelmed every time you try to do something. You lack the confidence in yourself and will never get back something you never had. You aren't smart enough to come up with solutions. Nobody wants to hear your opinion. You may pray to God, but even God doesn't give a shit about you. You're not good with words. You have so much emotional baggage. You always get hurt and should just avoid people so you don't get hurt anymore. You lack the talent to do anything that anyone else is doing. You're not desireable. You will die alone. You are a total loser. You can't take this anymore and will give up. Everyone judges you. You hate your life so much that you don't want to be here anymore. Every day of your life is so difficult and tedious that you should just give up. You keep screwing everything up even though you think you're trying harder. You always have made bad decisions. You have never succeeded ad you never will. You're a nobody and you might as well be invisible because nobody sees, hears, or respects you.
>>34275983Sure. Then you do some blow and you are unstoppable.Because your brain is made of blood and flesh, like your arm or your leg.You are depressed, get help.Have a good day.
>>34275983and you have a small clit dick colton. Makes sense why you are throwing a baby tantrum and crying and shitting yourself here
Would you leave the relationship in my situation or don't leave and fix yourself/improve your relationship?I got into my first relationship at 20 and we've been together for 7 years now, we've been talking of marriage too and would prefer to do in the next 2, or 3 years at latest. But, I think about 2 years into the relationship I got a crush on someone else. And I still don't think I'm fully 100% over it, as sad/pathetic that sounds. I think at this point it's bordering on mental illness since it's been this long, something is truly wrong with me, and it hadn't shown itself before because the conditions weren't "right" until this crush came along. It's someone my partner knows and I've seen that person on average 4-6 times a year, so not that often, but sometimes multiple days at a time when we all hangout at our place (usually). Of course as soon as I realized the crush I changed how I behave to some degree. At first I was shy, but once I realized I have some sort of crush, I didn't let myself get "comfortable" or chatty around the person, as I usually am once I spend more time around someone. I guess I acted this way so that we couldn't accidentally become close or too friendly or something. I just felt really weird because I never had a crush on someone while in a relationship before (well this is my first relationship, but it had never happened during this relationship, and it hasn't happened again since).There was a time period when the crush was very very intense for me and I daydreamed a lot, but that seemed to thankfully go away once we moved in together and I was able to focus on my partner more and be less alone. But some aspect of that obsession didn't fully go away, sometimes I seem to just randomly remember this whole crush thing involuntarily, like it just pops into my head randomly, and makes me feel guilty.
>we've been together for 7 years now, we've been talking of marriage too and would prefer to do in the next 2, or 3 years at latest.are you retarded? what the fuck are you waiting for, till you're in 30s? ffsthat's what relationships are for, see if someone fits you, and even if you're retarded that shouldn't take more than a year, not 10 fucking years. i don't envy your situation desu and have nothing smart to tell you
>>34276018Well we were both students for quite many years since master's is required, and now we're both still in an unstable situation, neither have full-time employment after graduating. So we just want a stable life situation first. I lived with random roommates in a really cheap tiny apartment for many years and it's not that long ago that we finally properly moved in together.And I understand, it's a mega frustrating situation. I think about how it makes me feel (guilty, bad partner etc.) more than I ever do about the lingering crush itself .
>>34276033well if i had to pull it out of my clairvoyant ass, i would say you're a femoid, and you were postponing it because you feel you missed out on golden carousel years, and feel you're settling down with the poor schmuck that "let himself go" after he went bald waiting for you to feel stable
>>34276060Thankfully my relationship doesn't correspond to terminally online fantasies, but I still I know need to do something at this point
I'd try to detransition and start living life as a male again, and get therapy to accept you can never have a sexual relationship again due to your mutilated genitals and fucked up hormones
So I'm a guy and my sister and I were fooling around, roughhousing and her crotch ended up on my face. She was wearing sweatpants so it wasn't skin to skin or anything but I became aroused and she teased me about it. I made it clear that it wasn't because I was attracted to her, but pussy is pussy, and I admitted that I enjoyed having her pussy in my face. She wasn't offended and seemed to accept it and even find it amusing but I'm wondering if this is a typical reaction that a woman would have to her brother in this situation. To be clear, I'm not hoping she's attracted to me or harboring feelings or anything like that. I'm just worried that I creeped her out or made her uncomfortable. I never brought it up again and I don't intend to and I'm certainly going to be more careful roughhousing with her moving forward.
>>34271640Have you tried not being a pussy?
>>34271831
This has to be a larp wtf anon
>>34271249Imagine the sad existence of such a person kek
I have to work double shifts because I'm poor.How can I make my body have more energy?
C R Y S T A L M E T H ! ! !:DddddddddOH SAY CAN YOU SEEEEEE
>>34275941>more energyEat good food (whole foods, generally), sleep well (quantity and quality), and have a little coffee (caffeine and various plant alkaloids that are healthy). Mix the coffee with milk and creamer if need be, but take it light on the sugar (too much can make you feel fucky).
I cried like a retard on the way while listening to the same song for all those 4 hours.By the end I thought I finally got her out of my system. She felt more like a younger sister to me than anything romantic and I felt like I had let her down. I just wanted to take care of her.As soon as I got home, I started wanting her again but for different reasons.It's now been an hour and I don't know what she means to me again.It's been 3 years of this.Does someone have some advice for me? How do I find back?
>>34275535Things like "i need her" are lies you tel yourself
>>34275780lmao. just take a look at her and realize it was all in your head. it's always the same: we amplify everything in our heads, good things just as much as bad things.
>>34275535you should commit suicide.you will never have a good relationship with anyoneyou're incapable of doing it
>>34275795I know. I've known it's in my head since the first day, I just haven't known what I've been afraid of and why I couldn't let it go. Can you help me anon? I am desperate?I rarely make threads about this and I haven't asked Reddit because I'm not active on any subs. I've gotten therapeutic help three times but it didn't lead anywhere. I don't know what to do by this point. I know everything logically but I just can't let it go.
I think it might've been one, giant OCD episode.It all started because I was never going to get over having hurt her feelings, and I really cared about that because I wanted to get over it fast and move on with my life.The obsession snowballed from there.But it is not letting up, so that can't be it either.
I’m 21. Is my hairline receding?
>>34267314Yes but it's pretty normal for zoomer standards, you guys have a nuked endocrine system
>>34267314It wont look like that if you dont pull your hair back like thay
>>34267314>zoomer got visited by the Norwood Reaper(tm)
>>34267321> Also you can be identified from this picture.Genuine question, how's that he could be identified? He isn't showing any facial features except for the forehead and hair. Wouldn't that be too generic?
Start taking drugs. NOW
I am from Western Europe so> Women are whores, so no possibility of forming a family none marriage> Even if doing that, for each kid you have, government introduces 200 Engineers with their families> Housing is impossible> Jobs are shit and most job offers are fake or saturated> Voting will not change anything as retard boomers + new europeans will keep voting status quo due to ponzi-scheme pension system and benefits> Taxation is used to maintain parasitic invaders who hate youI dont see any reason to keep doing anything t be honest. What would be the most reasonable thing to do? Because I want to escape from here> Can I grow something online? Like a business with Ai or something? Can I even get money with crypto or trading enough?> Where to flee afterwards?
>>34272619My country is classed as being in a situation similar to what you're describing, I'm saying there are still white areas, you should move to one. You are just letting the problem get worse if you don't have a kid.
Move to Eastern Europe there are still small enclaves of native communities. Besides that there is a small chance that Putin will save it from woke USrael regime.Bankrupted EU is pushing for war with Russia, but Brussels knows that old Europeans won't fight it hence the need for massive import of illegal immigrants. EU officials are already admitting that for fighting against Russia anyone can get faster citizenship and other benefits.
>>34272633> Also, stop watching television, the news, shows, movies, and tell other people to do the same. They fill your mind with garbage and you get the punishment the actors and other wicked people involved in the process will get.This is extremely antisemitic .
>>34272584Neck yourself.
>>34272593You're catastrophizing. You get something positive like "not literally all women are whores" and you immediately jump to some other negative thought.This mindset is keeping you weak. I know myself that it's hard but try not to focus just on the negatives. If you meet ten women and two are loud and obnoxious, I'm assuming you'd forget the normal ones and focus on the worst two.I get that the west is facing many big problems and I also struggle with defeatism but at some point your mind becomes a bigger issue.And don't forget that empires have fallen before and afterwards something new came. After the horrible fall of Troy, you had the beautiful Roman Empire. After Rome, you still had a beautiful Italy and Europe, right?Imagine if the people of Troy or Rome had chudded out and said It's over. But instead they got back up and had families anyways and after some struggle, things got better.So don't be too negative. You only need to find one (1) good woman, so try to become a good man so that when you encounter one, you can have the confidence to pursue her.Wishing you the best, Anon
How feasible is finding a person with only:- first and middle name- age- country- professionto go on?In theory that narrows it down to a pretty small pool but in practical terms it seems near impossible to search without a last name or phone number.How would I best go about this? Thought about hiring a PI but that's like an absolute last resort
What do you mean "find"? Do you want to know their location, find their social media, see their face, know who knows/employs them?Depending on what profession it is, I'd try checking that country's registries of professionals in that category, or the lists of graduates that schools/universities sometimes publish.If the person does not appear in there, I'd try checking other countries' universities' lists, I guess.Then I'd check each match's Facebook, LinkedIn, and/or Instagram profiles. There might be software to help speed up this search. Their profiles, pictures or style of posting might confirm their age or contain whatever you want to find about them.Or, and this is a long shot, you could use the antique "chain letter"-style strategy: inquire among your friends and acquaintances and ask them to forward your inquiry to any person they know that they think might have a better chance of knowing your quarry or someone who knows them.
>>34274443>What do you mean "find"?Just a phone number, or any sort of social media I could use to contact them. Already know their face. >I'd try checking that country's registries of professionals in that category, or the lists of graduates that schools/universitiesDon't think it's the sort of thing that has a registry, and I know for a fact they don't have any sort of degree.
Is not having a middle name more rarer than not having a last name?
>>34274389I don't know if they still hold up but Ghunt and another old tool helped me get a fullname, phone number, email, and password length for a friend's old Facebook account. That laptop is gone so I can't check what I used exactly, but it was with a few OSINT tools. I'm sure I used Ghunt again to help another set of friends find someone on Discord, but that was on the same laptop. I can try finding tools again later if it helps
>>34274801Can you explain a bit about Ghunt and how it works? Looks like it needs an email for the person, which I don't have, unfortunately.Only contact I had was through discord, which is why I was hoping to rely more on biographical information to find them.
Does Jesus care about brown people like myself? It doesn't feel like it at all.
>>34271971Thank you anon
yes the Trinity, Christ too, surely cares about every soulful being, i imagine. why else would He incarnate in Jesus to take your mistakes away for free so you cant get accused? and why else would there be agents of the enemy, even in this very thread, fighting for your soul and your decision and attention, badmouthing Christ?theres a real war going on for every soul and spirited beingthat being saidyou should care about you, yourself, like a big boy.people nowadays are so lazy it is insane (and i say that as an aquarius, a real lazy ass myself)why do you want to export your "care" to others, like Jesus for example?do you not have free will? are you a weak faggot that you cannot stand for your own actions/words? sure you should have faith in Christ and use your free will and intent to divert your sins onto him. but that douesnt mean you should not care or go sin now.alsoyou can yourself decide what to do. it is your life after all.you can go sin and get shot by cops/rot in a cell/get raped in the prison/go to hell afterwards (literally, you will go before the accuser and get accused, thats why so called jews are such "good" lawyers)or you can live life morally correct by the golden law of the cosmos/bible (do unto others what you want to be done to you and accept the transaction of Christ and have faith)aka do you wanna get shot? no? then dont shoot others.Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>34270544I thought you browns had your own gods anyway. Why would Jesus care when most of ya'll don't care about him?Ask Muhammad or Vishnu to care about about you, depending on which brown you are.
>>34274397Jesus is a brown people god, anon
>>34271899>sacrificng kids to Gods and demons is NOT the same as abortion.Yes it is, abortion is literally a sacrifice to Moloch.
