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Dishwasher here. So there's this new guy in kitchen. He's supposed to wash the pots and pans, and I use the mashine to wash the plates and cups. That's his assignment and that's mine.

So he tries to get me to be switching with him so he does the plates and cups and I do the pots and pans. But I refused cause that's not my job.

And now it's been a few shifts but he totally ignores me everytime we cross paths. Doesn't even say hi. But he talks and says hi to the other coworkers in the kitchen.

Basically giving me the cold shoulder. He even made a snarky remark when a customer asked him where to put their dirty cup, "ask mister dishwasher over there" even though he knows where the dirty cups go and he was closer to that area than me.

I now have to work with this guy. What do I do? Just pretend he doesn't exist?
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>>34270391
What?
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>>34267789
Its a power move. He’s trying to get you do his job so he can coast.
Take the boss aside and explain from your point of view, and ask the boss 2 things.

1. His suggestions.
2. Ask him not to be involved, that it doesn’t require him to get involved - unless it escalates, then you’ll speak with him again.

What you’ll have done is set yourself up as being credible, and that you’re attempting to learn how to be the boss/be responsible. Ultimately, it’s just a job. If it gets too much, speak to the boss and say that you’re going to start looking for another job where you don’t have to deal with him.
Perhaps your boss knows of a different position that you could grow into.

Today is only a day. Tomorrow has more potential. Don’t give up, each day is a step towards your goals.in 2 years, that asshat might be your report.
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>>34267789
beat his ass
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>>34274778
kek
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>>34267789
Rat him to the boss. I would be very interested in canning a guy that just walked in and started acting superior, for reals.

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I'm racist and to be honest, it gets kinda hard having any sanity when you're surrounded 24/7 by the very people that annoy you the most.

Heck even most of the people of my own race are annoying. Go figure.

The problem is that they're too annoying. And it gets kinda difficult to hide my racism, but I know they sense it in some level.

How do I deal with this?
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When your literal only accomplishment is being born, it is easy to be racist, it seems. Meanwhile, in the world you are still an absolute loser.
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>>34273494
Yeah anyone who uses their brains knows how common it is for low income people to move into nice expensive housing.
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>>34276563
>>34276570
You're a special kind of stupid.
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>>34276570
These “people” have no respect for their property or others and trash the neighborhood, loud rap music day and night, parties on the front yard. Drugs on the street. They ruin every place they go. You know Detroit was 99% white 60 years ago?
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>>34277950
lol nigga you gon get this thread deleted

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>female
>genuinely a 4/10 if we’re being nice
>always felt insecure about my looks and gets depressed looking after myself
>stink to high hell because I barely shower
>gets depressed during summer time and desires human connection
>i get excited talking about guns with one guy about how to assemble the parts fast
>he confesses to me later but considering I’m literally unfuckable and he’s like a 8/10 I think his friends dared him
But I’ve actually get excited hearing his confession and started taking care of my looks before giving up realizing we’re like total stranger to each other
>sees a post where they make the “loser” girl basedjak have 280 body counts and the actual hot girl got like 12
Damn so I’m actually an loser who would throw myself at any guy with barely any affection
>another post “when the 4/10 is hesitant about committing to the relationship and wants to get to know each other first” and the video is iron man gtfo of the place
Realize I’m just gonna be a guy test subject before they try on the real deal
Atp should I just accept my fate as someone who guys can manipulate then drop as soon as they are ready
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>>34277940
damn that hurts in that case
but let's not wallow on the past shall we. First of all i just want to dispel this conviction of yours that you are "unfuckable" because there is always going to be a dude ready to get into a romantic relationship with you, and of course want to have sex with you. I don't know where you got it from, but just know that women have that much of a dating advantage compared to men that there is ALWAYS a guy willing to bond with them, no matter their perceived ugliness
>why?
part of the reason probably being because hundreds of years of "virgin" being an insult for dudes will make dudes more eager to settle for literally anyone

but alas - do you have literally any guy that you are in contact with? Literally anyone, doesn't have to be a close friend or anything; can even be an acquaintance
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>>34277970
I don’t really have any close friends except for my cousin who’s the only one who choose to be my friend other than that I can’t get my head out of the gutter and I creep any guy off being so porn addicted I alway smell like I’m in rut
I’m so fucking depressed I would rather kill myself than let someone love me
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>>34277976
ok then fuck it, be my friend, we can link up on discord or anything. I won't mind a person to talk to. You up for that?
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>>34277979
Sure anon
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>>34277999
alright then it's @mustardelixir
cool trips too

Hello guys i just heard about 4chan from youtue
and wanted ask for advice from you guys english is also not my main language please ignore that i have been going though a wried experience from last 3 to 5 year i no longer feel happiness now nor any saddnes no emotion at all, all i feel is normal a wried look at my face everytime and no i am not deppressd or somethig my friends and teachers offten points me for this and i see people as brains roming around isnet it i dpn not feel hungey and i eat still and going thorugh lots of things at a same time i am not a shykopats and i dont know how tp express myself but pls help me if someone is going thougj this too i alsl asked my parrest too and did a simple test a hospital too but nothing came out unusal i am feeling like i am losing my humainty and something and slowing decaying
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Thank you
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>>34277437
It sounds like depression. The mental state of depression is not just a matter of being sad. It is a general difficulty in being interested in life or of finding any joy in anything. In extreme cases it is not seeing any point in getting out of bed in the morning.

It CAN be helped, with therapy or medications. Talk to a doctor.
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Acctuly i have been to a doctor once but nothing unusal is there also i kew it is not deppresion bec i dont really think but maybe i variation of deppresion and things are getting wrose day by day i parests wants me to marry but i cant explian them abhout my correunt life obviously i cant marry right now not with this condition i also not really deppresed and i do find thing intresting but some one with logic often tell people but this but they could not understand my situtation i observe i see but i can not do anything and in a constant cycle of undertsnading what kind of medication can i even take for this
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>>34277437
Have you spoken to a psychiatrist, as opposed to your primary care doctor?
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No not yet

Hello, good afternoon. I wanted to know if you could advise me on how to stop masturbating. I've been trying for eight years, but I can't, and I find it hard to stop thinking about it or watching that kind of content because I want to be a better person and not fall back into that habit. Please, if anyone can help me or give me some advice, I would be very grateful.
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I beat it today. I was so close to cooming, but then I said no. I did not coom. I will wait one month, then I will find a woman who will let me coom in her. This coom will surely feel incredible and will be worth the wait.

Tell me my goonbrother, do you ever have hope that you will one day coom into a qt3.14?
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>>34276074
Buy a bag of jalapeños.
Every time you want to jack off cut some up.
I dare you to try it after that.
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>>34276074
Relax. Masturbation is normal, natural, universal and in no way a moral failure. And it feels good.

Guilt and embarrassment about it will harm you more than it itself ever could.
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>>34276074
>Please, if anyone can help me or give me some advice, I would be very grateful.
The only piece of sincere advice I can give you about this is: stop worrying about it. Masturbation is a natural, healthy, biological function. A male body produces semen and spermatozoa constantly, but the sperms don't live long. To ensure that sperms in any given ejaculation are fresh and vigorous, it's necessary for the body to keep getting rid of them and to produce more. Masturbation is what makes that happen. You are *supposed* to ejaculate regularly, and there are no benefits of any kind to not doing so. Relax, and stop worrying about it.
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>>34277632
>>34277583

((((These guys))))

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>>34272229
Show bobs
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>>34272229
"Can I please touch your booba"
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>>34272229
"what's your age, address, and your mother's maiden name?"
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>>34272229
Are you this guy?:
>>34275483
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>>34273341
this would work on me

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This guy whose girlfriend had sex with me, during their breakup before they got back together, apparently wants to convert to Orthodoxy and is now going to my church. I feel like this could be awkward, especially if she also comes with him. This is a community which I am very involved in and I have been going there since I was 12, I was also baptized into the Church when I was an infant so I mean it's like part of my culture too.
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>>34277827
Don't feel guilty. That's what the church wants you to feel. It's a destructive emotion.
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>>34274346
>This is a community which I am very involved in and I have been going there since I was 12, I was also baptized into the Church when I was an infant so I mean it's like part of my culture too.
And yet you are an unrepentant sinner.
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>>34277882
I'm not guilty I just don't want to get in an awkward position or for him to chimp out against my mother.
>>34277918
I literally attended confession and got absolved. Obviously fornication is a sin according to Christianity, but I don't really feel bad for him, no.
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>>34277918
This.
Repent of your fornication. You shouldn't be banging women your arent married to. I mean, just look at the fact you are already creating potential social rifts in the church because of your sin.
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>>34277964
I wasn't expecting him to start going to my church.

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4chan X keeps fucking with the captcha, when it says "verification not needed" I try to post as usual, and it gives me an error that says "No Valid Captcha", how do I fix this?
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>>34271847
Idk.
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Are you on phone? How did you post if you're having problems?
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>>34271847
Use XT.
https://github.com/TuxedoTako/4chan-xt

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So I'm cleaning the place up and this dude comes up to me and yells at me for touching his stuff. Mind you, anything left behind has to be thrown away. I had no idea the stuff was his. Just assumed it was abandoned garbage.

What would you say to this person in order to calm them down and not have them beat you up?
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>>34273515
Why am I so rich then?
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>>34274428
You rich in fat, ya big dummy.
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>>34266090
Start humming 'closing time'
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>>34274642
What does that have to do with anything:?(
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>>34277016
It has to do with you being a big dummy, ya big dummy.

Beans and disease.

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How do people find this type of stuff as "lost media" or just strange animations/films/sites/texts, or internet riddles like cicada etc. I'm so bored with social media, I want to wander through the deepweb to encounter something you can think about for a while not a mainstream shi. Maybe some schizo (or not really schizo) theories such as allreligionsareone.org
Also I like to read declassified cia documents but it is not as fun and mostly boring. I am obviously not smart enough to create something similar myself, or do a research on something, so in order to satisfy my desire for individualism, I can consume at least less mainstream content, so as to recognize myself as a part of a smaller, more distinct group rather than just society at large.

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My dick is curved and I can't tell whether I have a 9" dick or a 7" dick.

Which is it?
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>>34273265
Use a string and round up.
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>>34273265
If it's between 7 and 9 inches I don't even think it matters to know. It's more than 99% of guys anyway.
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>>34274431
This, or use one of those fabric tape measures to match the curve.
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>>34273265
7" from above, 9" from below? You're 8".

t. 7" from above, 5" from below, 6" overall

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Im autistic(nobody can tell) but everyone keeps trying to set me up with inept white retarded ugly dudes.

I AM NOT OBLIGATED TO ENSURE FAIRNESS PUSSY AS A FUCKING GIRLFRIEND FOR EQUAL DISTRIBUTION, FUCK WHITE RETARDS AND FUCK YOUR DATING MARKET
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>>34274891
I can tell
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>>34275098
Cool. I got a cat to keep me company.
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This is why women don't want to be virgins.

Get a boyfriend. You can treat him pretty shit and ignore him most of the time. His mere name keeps other men away. You'll end up with a lower bodycount and better mental health simply by less fuckboys trying to approach
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>>34274891
can't you just tell them you're not interested?
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>>34277816
unfortunately this bitch is retarded, which everyone can tell.

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>>34277699
>this is about some sport betting bullshit
unironically gas everyone in this video
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State gender + I had pizza for breakfast and I just had a big diarrhea :D
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How can I have women simp for me?
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Moids, what about voluntary draft?
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>>34279199
Have fun with that, then.

How do you text a girl? Should you ever "double text"? What about triple? Why has social media and phones ruined our ability to form healthy bonds with our fellow man? Did people back in the day be worried on whether or not they should "double send" a letter with a bird carrier? I'm so tired of it all but there is no way to opt out.
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>>34277234
Someday some genius is going to invent a hand-held gizmo that you can actually talk to people through, using your voice and words and like that, and we won't have to do all that thumb-typing.
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>>34277234
Double is fine occasionaly, especially if she does it to you too.
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>>34277556
Boomer
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>>34277376
This. If she wanted to she would.
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>>34277234
Just be polite. If she is into you, she will eventually reply and keep the conversation going.

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How do you start to talk to girls? How do I start a conversation with one or make them start one with me? Even if it's for non romantic/sexual reasons.
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>>34276030
>>34276035
Because you are randomly shitting on yourself and it's not relevant to the thread.
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>>34276044
fine.
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>>34275483
"Hi. Wanna fuck?"

Either way, it saves time.
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>>34275483
Are you this guy?:
>>34272229
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>>34275989
Don't reply to obvious demoralization glowNIGGERS, anon.


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