What’s the least painful and most affordable way to kys for someone who lives with their parents?
>>34075526Make a rope out of your parents and hang yourself with it
>>34075526>What’s the least painful and most affordable way to kys for someone who lives with their parents?Don't kill yourself, anon. There is hope for your life.
>>34075534Why do you try to flee from your problems rather than solving them? Why are you broke? You live with your parents so, assuming they aren't threatening to kick you out, you have some level of security. I'm broke and live with my family too. It's not the wirst situation to be in
>>340756361>>34075864My folks are in debt & selling the house
>>34075534>I’m diabetic & brokeAmericans
Can damage and trauma, particularly from men, ever be healed? Do people just learn to live with the mental scars?
no, sorry. men trauma cant be healed. women trauma is easy to heal from though
>>34075739Yeah, it doesn't really go away, but you learn to dismiss the negative thoughts and move on with your day. The trauma responses are still there, but it gets easier if you are aware of them and how they affect your behavior and can compensate for that
>>34075753This is painful to read
>>34075739No it cannot be healed, and that’s because it doesn’t need to be healed The trauma is the healing itself. It’s your brain’s way to remember danger so that you can avoid it or fight it in the future, it’s a defense mechanic. Once you understand that you stop fighting with it and you are able to live a more dignified life.
>>34075739>Can damage and trauma, particularly from men, ever be healed?Yes. The source is a non-issue.
How come I can be sexually attracted to other women to the point it's a real problem for me and I think I'm a lesbian, but then I'll see some guy in a bookstore or at the gas station and think "I FUCKING LOVE MEN"? I'm not a coomer brain either, so that's not the cause. I just wish it was one or the other, because liking both is a problem
>>34078156You are bisexual. You get to have the best of both worlds.
>>34078183I don't find it a blessing. What it's really like is me finding random girls attractive and knowing there's no possibly way. And then I'm also afraid of being on a date with a guy, or having a boyfriend, and suddenly being attracted to a girl. It's hell.
Imagine yourself as a young man, who works a minimum-wage dead-end job as a night security guard. The job is meaningless to your soul, but you still make enough to live by yourself quite very comfortably. You essentially get paid to do nothing--a very stress-free work life. You never went to college, because you don't care. You also don't give a fuck about advancing a career, to the dismay of your friends and family--in fact, your ex dumped you because your own existence was somehow okay with having no ambition.So, you watch anime at work, then go home to play video games. Your ownly 'productive' hobbies are drawing and working on your own video game. This makes you no money, and it never will, but it keeps you happy enough.Despite your meager earnings, you have enough money to take a mortgage on a humble house when combining your income with your girlfriend, who you love and want children with. Living like this, you will never really achieve anything, but it is a simple life.I live this life, and I am fine with it. Everyone around me hates it. Hates it that I don't care about participating in the rat race. Even my co-workers in the same job are flabbergasted that a young man such as myself isn't desperately trying to get out of this field of work.Is this really a bad life?
>>34069408This is the main problem. Yes, it is a very comfortable and stress free life. But at the same time, are you going to not regret doing more with your life when you get older?It's the same thing with neeting. It is by definition pretty much the most comfortable life you could have. And for the first couple months and years, it may feel like you could live like this forever. But there's a reason you see many older neets despising their condition or just committing suicide. Because you traded any other opportunities for a life of comfort and stagnation. Ultimately, it's up to individual. There are some people who are genuinely happy living a relatively mundane, routine, and simple life for their entire lives. Other people aren't. You will have to just be honest to yourself.
>>34066136From what I see a lot of this life is focused around distraction instead of progression. Nothing wrong with playing vidya or watching shows but if your life is just that, what are you doing with yourself? Making games is good though, creating something gives you something to work towards and progression is good IMO. You could also use that interest to branch out into other hobbies like art or music, and use that to meet new people who you can truly engage with.
>>34066136>comfy enjoyable job>didn't waste time and money on college>friends and family>got your own comfy place, independant>hobbies>contribute to the artforms and carve your own history, through your art and developing video gameyou seem like more of winner than most people
>>34069408>wiped out with an emergency paymentIf you get cancer in burgerland, you're selling the house, even in a higher bracket.Emergency medical costs in the back nine of your life are on the order of tens to hundreds of thousands, can range into $1-2m+ for something serious. If you need to go to assisted living or a nursing home, be prepared to liquidate 100% of your material assets unless you're a multimillionaire.The actual best retirement plan is to die relatively young, having done what you wanted while you could. Having a huge family and forcing them all to become doctors or nurses is a close second.
>waste of space and resources>wants to have childrenMany such cases
ever since i was really young i've been cursed with a plethora of fetishes that i don't know how to get rid of. i've avoided porn for years and i don't indulge in fantasies or anything like that, but they're still there and i feel terrible about myself every time something reminds me of them and i get bricked. i don't even know if i'm attracted to anything vanilla, i always either react in disgust or not at all. is there anything i can do to remedy this? i didn't even choose to be like this, i hate it
>>34077981>i get brickedwtf does this even mean?
Everyone has different tastes honestly, just because you're into some more taboo things doesn't make you any less normal.
>>34078092i appreciate the consolation but i'm very much bent on getting rid of them, especially considering they're the ONLY things i'm into
My boss pulled me aside and told me that I have until May to get a nicer car, less than 10 years old because my rusty truck is an eyesore and makes the company look bad. If I don't, I'll be fired. I only make $17 an hour, with my expenses, I only have $100 at the end of the month. I can't afford a car payment+insurance. I got the "your co workers can do it, so can you" speech. I asked if I made it look better and they said that would not be acceptable. The truck hasn't been unreliable. They are treating it like a dress code thing and a rusty truck doesn't look professional. I'm putting in applications but this can't be legal, can it? I said I would when I can afford it, and expressed interest multiple times to learn new things to earn raises.
>>34077314>my rusty truck is an eyesore and makes the company look bad. If I don't, I'll be fired.Everyone gather around, point and laugh at the American.
Ever heard of the honey badger, OP?They’re small and unassuming, and coexist among much larger animals like hyenas, leopards, and lions, but all of these nasty predators don’t dare tangle with them…The honey badger has long, dagger-like claws and sharp teeth. If you dare to bite it, it’ll maul your face off and never let go. The honey badger goes out swinging, and keeps on fighting until the very last breath…It’s so ornery that even other animals MANY times its size will think twice before picking on it. They know that if they mess with it, they’re gonna wish they weren’t born. Be the honey badger, OP. Show that company who’s boss.
>>34078119I like that analogy i am not OP but honey badger maxxing is a true archetype and I have seen it in my autistic brother who was oblivious naive aloof easily duped easily manipulated easily bullied until one day he fucking snapped and had the autistic rage meltdown and became more beast than man in 10 short minutes but within those 10 minutes of red-tinged fury had beaten one bully so bad he had to be in hospital for a week and the other one needed therapy and a fake tooth to replace his old one that he almost swallowed. May thine honey belong always to thyself, good badger.
>>34077314I would just say "sure, I would love it if the company bought me a newer truck. Go right ahead". Those cocksuckers want you to drive a better truck for the appearance of their company, then they can paybfor it. They want tens of thousands of dollars to be spent for the benefit of the company, so the company can foot the bill. I would tell that to their face.
>>34078108>kicking a young man while he's downSo...Are you a NIGGER or a KIKE?
Please dont make fun of me. So I have an electric guitar with no amp and have been plucking at it consistently for about 2 months now, and I've only gotten some chords down. Cant name them but I think I can play them. All the charts filter me because I dont know where to place my fingers. I like placing my fingers in a shape and plucking at the strings individually (is this fingerstyle? 0_o) more because its easier to bring my (or rather a or ANY) sound out, but I want to learn chords too. I know their shapes and sound for the most part, but cant name them for the life of me. How do I get to the point where I make my own chords?
>>34078158>How do I get to the point where I make my own chords?First you are going to have to learn the base chords. Don't get a massive complicated all the chords and all the voicings chart. Just get one with all the major and minor. You can also get charts that number your fingers and tell you which finger goes on which chord.Something like this http://fingerstofrets.com/ but you want to use your pinky in most chords, not your index finger. Because eventually you'll want your index to play little accents.Practice changing between chords. Pluck each string and make sure you aren't mutting any and they all ring true.The goal is training your fingers to jump from point A to point B quickly and precisely. All 4 of them.You're also going to want to do scales and learn a little music theory.
How do i enjoy the dating process with random girls? I'm a bit autistic but not in the "fun geek" way, rather the "misunderstood genius" kind of wayI've always felt really exposed and struggled to have fun in learning about people. I tend to be serious and critical.I'm also relatively poor and live in a dirty cramped shared apartment, so I kinda have a chip on my shoulder. I feel I deserve someone young and hot. I have delusions that I'll be famous in five years or something. I know I'm pretty much insufferable but I do look good
stay humble. ask questions. maybe find some shared interests and try to engage around that, so you talk about something you find interesting but also can ask them questions about it and stuff. maybe give some light compliments. thats what i usually do but im not a dude
How hard is it to find uncut cocaine and how can you tell?
>>34077165It's hard to find.
The fastest thing is to push for legalization. The cocaine that most people know of is some garbage extraction. In the old days you could get medical grade cocaine for nasal/dental surgery (and before that, many other things people. it was injected as a stimulant) that was a solution, not the powder that is culturally familiar.
I don’t know if I am big promoting but, used to be able to get (in the US) Agwa de Bolivia, coca tea, and some diet pills. All of that shit was epic for my headaches.>>34077242I didn’t know from lack of exp. My friend found some stuff in a parking lot. I tried that. It was like smoked gasoline. Was that coke? Huh.
>>34077165nigh impossible unless you're the cartel or the government
>>34077165>How hard is it to find uncut cocaine and how can you tell?In NA? Basically impossible. If you want pure, go to Columbia or Bolivia
it has occured to me that i'm too ugly to lose my virginity to a cis womani think i'm going to hop in Grindr and smash femboy or tgirl asshave any other straight dudes done this?have advice to offer?
>>34078019>have advice to offer?Don't do it, you're just driven by lust, but there's no reason for you to engage. You're not a baby, you don't have to fulfil your every need, you're stronger than that, so therefore stay pure, know that even if the world lets you down and doesn't fulfil your desires, you can still be blameless in the situation - if someone knew what you were doing, they'd shun you, regardless of how progressive some people's views are :)
How do I become my girl's dark minotaur?
>>34075555i hate these book covers, disgusting lol. but yeah, manage to tick all of her unmet needs in a single packagefor example, be these things>gentlemanly>mysterious (doesn't talk about useless shit, such as complaining constantly, nobody enjoys that)>good sense of humor>edgy on the outside, kind on the inside>but not a simp who acts desperate>manage to somehow activate her "i can save/fix him" feels>be cool and have your own cool life that she'd want to be a part of^this last one is the most important i think.
>>34077267the have fun fucking someone elses life up, too. sorry whatever is in reach for you is never good enough. peace. do not reach out to me again.
>>34077278>weird nonsense reply>don't reach out to me againlol you are on an image board, grandpa anon
>>34077267You can make yourself look as cool and mysterious as you want, you can be the thing that ticks all the boxes but if the woman is retarded or a gassed up mid all she’ll see is a desperate poser no matter how genuinely you do cool hobbies or work a gainful job you’ll still be JUST a man. I learned this the same way everybody else does. Made money, bought motorcycles and ride regularly with trips even, play guitar, can afford to eat out most days of the week and for my efforts? Only the fattest most desperate fatty fats would respond to me on hinge or look my way at bars or work when the rare woman would deign to visit the shop floor. I had my sister tell me “oh so we have similar tastes” and I was too embarrassed to admit that the fucking Ms Piggy looking bitch I was seeing was the best I could pull. >>34075555Start stealing shit and get face tattoos
I'm never going to be good enough. Zugzwang.
Reddit called this user that listed these prerequisites for his ideal woman a "incel" and accused him of having "extremist unreasonable standards". Are they tho?
>>34073571And what does he bring to the table?
>>34073571I was gonna write out a long response trying to calculate the probability of a girl matching all or most of his criteria, but I'll save you the trouble and in reality it's about 0.1-1% of women.This guy seems like an introverted guy who isn't really attractive or notable who wants a girl of around average attractiveness at minimum (if a girl isn't obese, then she is pretty much always going to be at least average in the current dating market unless she is horrifically ugly).Now this expectation isn't unreasonable because this was easily attainable in the past, but nowadays this is completely impossible. Pretty much any woman of average attractiveness or above is going to be extroverted or sleep around at least a little bit. Put your self in the shoes of the average woman nowadays, why would you want to be in a committed relationship with this guy? And don't use male logic to answer that question, assume you're a woman. You could be with a bunch of chad guys or you could settle with this guy you don't find attractive who probably doesn't even have a lot of money or a promising future. Plus you're in your mid 20s, you still have a few more years of fun before you need to worry about settling down.The not religious part also excludes a lot of the women he is looking for, I'm assuming he's a reddit atheist. Most girls who aren't partying or doing hookups are going to be strict religious girls, who are small in number and are unlikely to date someone like OP.Just to show you how unrealistic OP is being, nearly half of young women nowadays have tattoos. As another anon said, he wants an ideal girl that pretty much every other guy in his position wants.It's like if a woman was saying that she wants a guy who is >at least 6 feet>makes 100k/y minimum>at least average lookingthose criteria alone exclude 99.5% of men. It's unrealistic.
>>34077772Good taste in women, apparently.
>>34073571>Are they tho?I wouldn't call them extremist, but they are unrealistic.Put it another way, someone that meets those requirements isn't going to be in the "dating pool." They'll already be in a relationship or they will be to career oriented to care about long term dating.
>>34073571All of those are basic requirements and obviously you asking that on reddit, full of fat bloated libshit women whose lives are utter trainwrecks, is going to warrant nasty responses.
How do I find an autistic gf?
>>34076171moids just want to cause suffering. why would moids be wanted? moids just want to be hated, after all
>>34076171>Another retarded thread that just goes to show that autistic females are more wanted in shitciety than their male equivalentsThe way it works for autism by gender is this:Male Autist:>+ (plus) 100 ability to make same sex acquaintances or friends or hobby groups>- (minus) 666 ability to get romance, sex, or relationships with opposite gender without paying money for it.Female autist:> + (plus) 1 (one) ability to find opposite sex romance, relationships, sex. Would be higher but autism means less likely than a normie girl, but autist girl can still do it without crazy effort by merit of the fact she is a female.>- (minus) 666 ability to make same sex friends. Autist girl is always hated and mocked and laughed at by other females. She gives other girls the ick just for existing.
play video games, the ones with a lot of lore
>>34077014>Autist girl is always hated and mocked and laughed at by other females. She gives other girls the ick just for existing.this is not true. stop projecting onto women.moids are mindless, sadistic whores, of course women are more wanted than moids.
>>34075525online games (especially the less normie ones that still have girls like league or osrs instead of overwatch). or "autistic girl games" and their communities, like wolfquest. in daily life most at least somewhat high iq autistic women prefer to try and look normal, and they probably won't look much different from a normie irl, other than out of the norm mannerisms and things like having a strange intonation/way of talking, which you would only really know if you were already acquainted with them .
How do I get over this? She's emotionally abusive, but not to the extent that it warrants me to mentally spiral in her presence. I show physical fear when I'm around her, which she also takes offense to. Anytime she knocks on my door, I have a habit of yelping and when she walks through the door, I start shaking. She's only hit me once in the past few weeks, so my responses are unwarranted. We're both women by the way.
>>34078015>She's emotionally abusiveThen your fears are warranted.
A few months ago, I saw the most beautiful woman I’ve ever seen. She was smoking a cigarette at a punk show, quiet, observant. I loved her vibe instantly. My heart was beating out of my chest.We had matching style, matching energy. Everything felt right. She kept drifting near me, staring at me, dancing close. My god. She made me feel things I’ve never felt before.I never talked to her.Fast forward to last night. Another punk show. I see her again, this time playing solo acoustic guitar. Only about fifteen people there. She was just as beautiful as I remembered. Her voice was angelic. And even though she kept looking at me, clearly aware of me, I still couldn’t talk to her.Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>34075176>>34075168Newfag, KYS, I won't read your huge rant, lol
>>34075174>>34075233I sent the email last nightover 12 hours agoI still dont know if it was the right choiceOh well
>>34077237YES, good. GOOD. Well done for sending the email, you got my respect. It was not the right choice, it was not the wrong choice either, it was simply a choice. And no matter the outcome the important part is you used your spine and grew a pair of balls to ask a girl out, that’s all that matters. Good show and well done.
>>34077282Aye thanks manI wish I had more nerve to do it in person, but I guess we will see what happensIt was kind of basic, kind of short and sweet like this (heavily changed):-----------------Hey <name>I saw you preforming at <blah blah>, I really liked your setI think you have a wonderful voice, I liked the cover of <artists> song you didI play guitar too and I songwrite, if you would ever like to catch up about music / songwritting, id love to go to a show sometime take care,----------------Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>34077305I think the important thing is to not be a pussy irl when you see her again. You have nothing to lose and the rejection will not make you feel nearly as bad as this does, if it comes. Doubt it though. IF what you say is true she probably liked you too. Good luck.
