im trying so hard not to cut myself rn and i cant cause my parents would see it and get worried ive been awful for years and it never goes away it always comes back i dont have anyone to talk to and all the helplines are closed at this hour i dont know what to do or why the fuck im on 4chan this place is the worst place you can go i just dont know what to do im just a kid i dont want to feel this way please dont just call me slurs just cut me some slack
>>34095010Study hard to punish yourself instead. What's wrong in a vague sense?
This may sound kind of dumb, and I'm sorry if it does. But, do some positive things for yourself. Please understand that when I say these things, I don't mean it in a rude way, but... is there stuff you've been putting off? Do you like cleaning? I do, personally. The smell is nice. Even just doing stuff like some light dusting feels productive, it personally makes me feel better about myself. Is there some yummy food in the fridge/freezer? Treat yourself to a nice snack! Any particular clothes in your closet you like? Put them on, let yourself feel cute/cool/etc, even if no one else is gonna see! Sometimes, it's the little things that help us. That kind of stuff helped me, at least. I hope this is helpful, and I'm sorry if it's not.
>>34095118nta but this helps a little to think of things that way, thank you
>>34095010>Please give me attention or I'll cut myselfFucking do it tranny>>34095018No. We don't love you troon. We don't give a fuck if you hurt yourself, nobody does. We are not here for you. Cut yourself all you want, it doesn't matter.
>>34095010Out of curiosity. Why do people cut themselves? I have never understood it. It makes such a big mess and is so difficult to hide. This girl once told me they do it because the physical pain numbs the mental one. But she used the sharpest knives, which hurts the least. Why not whip your own back or something?But why are you feeling awful? I think knowing that could help a lot.
>F, 18>both parents died (from different causes, i was unlucky enough for them both to die in the same year)>Ive been living alone in another country for about two years, so i havent been able to say goodbye>work in a bar at night and constantly feel like a prostitute because of the perverted customers>i was expelled from college for absencesIs it over for me? I need genuinely useful advice, not "stay strong" please. If killing myself is the best option, tell me the best method, please
>>34092325>The US is impossible to get into.Bullshit. You can get into most places. Why wouldn't you? Globohomo is awesome. Trump is moderate globohomo.
>>34091147Wow, this would be really compelling if i was a low iq drug addict.
>>34090881>i was unlucky enough for them both to dieI suspect it wasn't much fun for them either.
In the usa we have a program called Job Corps that provides housing and educational opportunities to young people (under 25) JUST LIKE YOU. Look up a similar program for where you live or where you want to pay respect to your parents. There are people that can help you I'm sure of it
>18>works in a bar in a country where the drinking age is 21
I miss my crazy ex who I had to get a restraining order against. She was obsessed with me, she wanted to marry me after 4 months, she was insanely clingy and constantly begged me for sex.Predictably, it ended with a court case and a legit restraining order.So I've been with a normal, nice woman for 9 years now. We've been married for 2 year, yet I still think about my ex pretty often. Not the stalking obviously, just being wanted that intensely (and the sex was unreal). Feels fucked up to admit, because I know inside it was a truly miserable experience at the end.
>>34095885People have sex, virgin. Try not to take it personally.
>>34095934not even trying to deny it.get the fuck off this site
>>34094501as the obsessed ex you should do it it'll make her so happy
>>34094501Why are moids like this? Thirsting over abuse Stacy from over a decade ago. You should be beaten.
That's funny as fuck I hope your wife finds this post. felt nice to be a wittle victim at the time, larping you were like a stalked woman, then reality comes back and you realize it was just your true shot. Enjoy your boring marriage you baby reindeer faggot
Where can I get a cute blind fag? I'm not ugly I just love the vulnerability and that they're probably a virgin
If anyone has one as a family member or something I'll take care of him
I’m a therapist and I’m struggling to not kill myself right now. I don’t think I’ll ever be mentally stable for longer than 2 years straight. I do a great job with my clients but it’s never good enough. I’m never good enough. I live in NYC and I want to kill myself tonight but I want to have sex one more time. Unfortunately, I’m too unstable to even leave my apartment but I’m an absolute pig right now. I’m 31 and never been in a relationship all I can do is fuck and I always want to kill myself after I have sex.
>>34094660oh is this some sort of coordinated anti therapy push to get anons to not seek help, further pushing them into delusional madness and solitude?
>>34094921Yes. If every avenue of self-improvement is a jewish psyop then nobody is obligated to change at all and its never their fault.
>i’m a tHeRaPiSt aNd i’m sTrUgGlInG To nOt kIlL MySeLf rIgHt nOwso what is your question?people come here to ask questions, get constructive help and they end with the symbol "?">ctrl f "?" has zero resultsso ur just a whiny bech then. got itherbal
how the fuck are you a therapist. isnt your job to literally encourage emotioanal stability
>>34094921Yeah what >>34094940 said. Does not make it not true though. Find balance the Force.
Should I set this up for a few months or return it? How much do loft beds suck? I would just like to have a couple extra square feet for a while.
>>34086582Listen to easy wisdom. Use cardboard from cereal boxes and colour them with crayons or candle wax and cut pieces for quieting gaskets between all fastened joints. Use linseed oil or lift strength thread locking compound on the nuts and threaded holes. This will add only a few minutes to build and will double the overall quality.
>>34086582I have a small room and looked at these too but they seem absurd. I'd rather build something out of lumber if I had a garage or something to do it in but i'm just suffering as a spacelet instead.
>>34090112How about a hammock or rolling your bed up like a classic aisian?
>>34087367>>34087378I decided I may just use it as overhead space, is that a bad idea since I can't drill for shelves?
>>34096059That’s genius.
I always have anxiety, whenever I want to do something I get stressed and start overthinking the worst scenarios possible. Let's say I want to do something important next week, from week before I start feeling anxious.Tried many multi vitamins, omega 3, St. John's wort, B12, D3 and Saffron extract but no luck.I do exercise and meditate everyday.Any advice?! I'm thinking maybe SSRI might help, but is there any healthier alternative?!
>>34089352Thanks, will do.
>>34093520What's fucked is that i still can't be a functioning member of society even without the anxiety. I still have problema with authority and come off as aloof.
>>34093574It's not your fault.Society is fucked.
>>34086672
It is never only one thing that will make you feel better. I would say there are some things that are a good base: enough sleep and exercise. Thst helped me a lot. I would say sleep is the most important. After that that what i havr been doing to writting down my bad thoughts and then ask myself what my best friend would say. I know it sound cheesy and it takes a little bit of time but you will start to become a lot kinder to yourself
I had a long term relationship with a guy and we always had romantic calm sex, he didnt like the ass so we never did analWent to a Christmas party 2 days ago and i teased a guy to challenge him, he then groped my ass and i sucked him later in the toilets. We exchanged numbers after that and last night we had sex. But he wasnt vanilla like my last one. He literally treated me like a filthy whore, not as a woman but as a sex slave. He slapped me hard to show his dominance, fucked me in the ass (never did it before so it hurt really bad and didnt even stop when j was begging and crying) he said beg more baby, he got hard from my tears like a psycho. He made me taste my ass and cummed inside my pussy. He groped me, man handled, tossed around, pinned down, and repeatedly made to choke on a cock, get my tits fucked, ass pounded, pussy stuffed. He made me cum over and over again and didnt stop until my body was in bruises, sore and a mess with fluids from tears, spit and cumIt was my worst, intense night ever. I never had sex like this before. He treated me like a worthless piece of slut in the bedroom. But surprisingly i liked it so much. I dont wanna be respected and just used for his pleasure anf nothing more Is it bad that i crave more of him? I think i like him even more than my ex even though i only know him 2 days. I wanna serve him for the rest of my life and be his submissive slaveHe jusr unlocked something dark inside me, is this jormal? Did he break me?
such an obvious larp, jeez. ever heard of subtlety?
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>>34093907You will never be a women.
>>34093907Ignore the trolls, who are all virgin incels resentful of all women.Sexuality takes a lot of forms, very few of which require shame. But you should know that the healthiest BDSM is at core role-playing - that is, you PRETEND that he is forcing and abusing you because that adds to the pleasure, but you both know it is consensual and mutually enjoyable. REAL violence and abuse is rape.
Bait thread. Kys
I'm 36. Had fine health until 32, when I started having chest pain that feels like a rubber band is around my heart. Went on six months or so but thought it was just due to stress and would go away. I then had a fairly traumatic experience where my mom got drunk on a cruise my parents paid for us to come on, and she said a bunch of crazy shit/lashed out at me. Had never seen her misbehave before. That night I tried to have some time to myself (was sharing room with my sister) but the cruise staff would make no accommodation for me. Felt somewhat traumatized. Had never felt trapped like that before. I just wanted off the boat but the cruise was going for another 5 days. Trapped.Two weeks after the cruise I asked mom for an apology. She wouldn't apologize at all. I was disappointed, but not shocked.Two weeks after that I had my first panic attack. While at work. I had no idea what a panic attack was, so I thought i was having a heart attack, so I had an ambulance called. Doctors said I seemed fine. Since then, for about 3 years now have dealt with the chest pain as well as heart that feels like it's often thumping, even when i'm totally relaxed and pretty low stress. I also feel like I have a chronic elevated adrenaline level. As if I'm at 5% of what a jump-scare would make you feel, but all of the time.
>>34095354>I then had a fairly traumatic experience where my mom got drunk on a cruiseYou're a fucking pussy. Kill yourself.
psychedelicsmeditation
did u try magnesium
>>34095354Your mom's a slut
>>34095706For real the way he talks makes me think he is the most sheltered autist alive. The kind of guy that'd tell you off for swearing in a bar
andrew tate says something about a man having hoes or not having hoes and respectability of himbut the bible has>Whoso loveth wisdom rejoiceth his father: but he that keepeth company with harlots spendeth his substance.
>>34095900antichristthat really better not be you, normie
>>34095929How are we supposed to know? Are you even in?
>>34096014>Are you even in?huh? what are you trying to ask me
>>34095892Who ya gonna believe - Tate or Jesus?
>>34095892
Hey anons, where would I find a older-than-me fatherly like man who owns and likes guns, is preferably ex military and is not mentally sound, to stalk and eventually marry I want to find one in the wild. What areas do these men orbit. t. girl who only visits libraries. they are not there
>>34095874daddy issues?
>>34096058Very much yes. Tried to ignore it but its really hard to like guys my age, so im gonna cave and stalk an old guy instead
>>34096252From one father issues anon (male) to another father issues (female), you should give up on chasing older prey. It’s a waste of time, just like me chasing older women (yes dad issues causes that in men for some reason) was a waste of time. It’s a waste of time because the real DILF experience you seek wont ever happen even if you bag an older guy that older guy will be mentally ill, emotionally stunted, just like you. The real mature ones are too mature for you and won’t want anything to do with you. Your best bet is to settle on someone around your own age and grow old with them and then you get the promised DILF experience by turning that man into one.
>>34096259sigh. i guess youre right nonnie… wish age gaps worked
>>34096272They only work if the younger person happened ti mature quicker & the older person isn’t emotionally stunted, then it works out. Ironically what ends up happening is the DILF/MILF chaser ends up with an older person who is mentally ‘younger’ and more immature than themselves. So you end up playing parent to someone twice your age which is fucking weird.
>26 in the new year>No women since I was 19>Fat body and thinning hair>Literally sit in my parents basement and rot every dayIt's passed in a flash. I had a booze problem for the majority of my adult life due to being autistic and never fitting in (sober 3 years in feb). I was good at music but never had the social skills when in bands to flirt and get with women. This isn't even about that honestly. My real problem is never wanting things bad enough. I always quit or straight up don't engage with life opportunities and have done for years.Had a chance to send music to someone in the industry, he asked me personally and I never followed up (that was almost 5 years ago now). Had some good money in my bank from a family member's will and spent it all within a few months on mundane bullshit and it wasnt even the good kind. I could have had a gf a month ago but I couldnt be bothered to drive all the way to see her and see a movie so just ghosted. I was offered gigs where I could get money to start saving for a new car and never followed it up. I worked out for 3 months at home this year and built a real routine then just stopped one day and got even fatter.Now I'm here, I know what my problems are and I shouldnt be asking you all. Especially since this charade of new years resolutions is contrived anyway. But I've made progress in a few aspects. I can drive, I've played gigs this past year with a band and it's nice to know that I still have just enough hair to pull off an okay look even if it's obvious there's thinning there.My plan so far is this, get minoxidil again, message people for gigs, get back to working out and maybe join a gym, learn how to properly cook so I can stop being a fat retard and most importantly. When women present themselves actually take them because beggars cant be choosers. No 7/10 goth is going for a fat ass retard like me.What do you think boys?
>>34095397>I shouldnt be asking you allsome people choose to be losers, and it looks like you've been choosing to be a loser all this time, faggot OP. The fuck you want us to tell you? Not be a loser? That you should try more? You need to learn the reality of life is turmoil and work- and no one is going to be your cheerleader. Like fr grow up. You posting this crybaby drivel makes me sick honestly.>boohoo I missed all these opportunitieslike damn bro that's your own damn fault as an adult. That sucks, honestly. The game was to be successful and be skilled with something at an early age so you can enjoy the fruits of your labor while you are still young. Why do you think in other nations, parents are pressuring their young children to succeed at such an early age? Yet, here you are- crying that you let all these chances pass. What did you want us to do for you? Touch your peepee? What advice did you want?>fat ass retard like meatleast you are aware of your situation. You've always had the choice and power to change shit around. Maybe you weren't aware before, but you sure are now. If you still don't make progress within 6 months going into 2026, I don't know what else you want me to say. You are in a global competition- you don't have the time or resources to be fucking around.
>>34095397I'm 34. In even worse situation. Be like me, op. You know you want it.
>>34095397Your parents aren't going to live forever and they will soon become a burden and then they'll die. And when that happens, your life will be beyond fucked if you don't get your shit together beforehand. >i was good at musicSo am I, classically trained and nearly went to Berklee. What the fuck is your point? Do you believe that you're the only one that's musically inclined? No, you're not. You're chasing missed opportunities. What for? Do you believe that your life would have went on an upward trajectory had you had done so? Why did you stop working out? Go back to the gym. If not for your physical health, your mental. You'll feel better overall. Do it now. I'm 34 almost and I wish I worked on my physique when I was younger. Minox might work for you long term, but you probably have to stay on it for a while. You say you drive right? Turn that into a business. I did, I've been doing Uber Eats on and off for about five years.
>>34095693Are you me?
>>34095397Get soberGet out of the basementGet a jobGet a life
Anons,I’m in a truly strange situation. About a year ago, after graduating uni, I decided I needed a change in my life and signed up for a volunteering program that ended up placing me in quite literally the middle of nowhere. As in, the most rural part of a country most people have never heard of.Aaaand it literally feels like I’m in prison. I have essentially unlimited free time (esp right now cuz the school I teach at is on break), live in a decent house all things considered, and am almost completely isolated from my community which is mostly populated by unemployed alcoholics who see me as a source of foreign money. What can I do to fill my time? I have about a year and a half left of this, and at any time I could quit and my org would buy me a plane ticket home. But I can’t do that. So what should I do? Learn a language? Idk. Has anyone been in a similar situation?
>>34096088Well what have you wanted to do that you didn't have enough free time for before?
>>34096095I mean that’s the irony of it anon. My whole life I’ve been searching for more free time. Now I have all of it and it sucks. Kind of a monkey’s paw situation. I’m sure if you work a job or have a family or both you know the feeling of wishing for just more TIME. We all do in modern western society. But 1/3rd of the people working my job in my country last year dropped out cuz they couldn’t take it. It’s deliciously ironic.
>>34096088Keep a diary. There may be a book in this
>Daddy issues>Mommy issuesWhich one is worse? For men or for women? Anybody got experience? Interior or Exterior?
>>34095524>Daddy issuesMakes a man into an insecure, anxious, scared perfectionist. Chances of gay drastic go up!Makes a woman into an insecure, anxious, scared perfectionist. Chances of slut drastic go up!>Mommy issuesTurns a man into a sadistic, cold hearted, self-sabotaging wreck. Chances of being an abuser drastic go up!Turns a woman into a sadistic, cold hearted, self-sabotaging wreck. Chances of lying about being abused drastic go up!For men mommy issues is worse. For women daddy issues is worse.
After 1 or 2 mins of thrusting my legs give out and I become too tired to continue. What do?
>>34093271Sadly not really. Every single woman is a bit different and what makes one girl ick will make another yum. That is why there is that cliche about communication. I have had enough sex I think I can offer some general advice though.1. Be upfront. Say "I'm a bit of an autist so I tend to miss subtle social ques. I'm going to go down on you but this time is just going to be a data round. If I'm hitting a good spot, squeeze my hand. If you want me to stop something, tap my hand with a finger, and if you want me to do more intensity, either squeeze real hard or pulse the squeeze twice" then experiment with tricks you read from some of your books. Most girls really need to get into their own heads to get off, so talking out specifics and explaining exactly what to do in the moment can be hard, but holding hands is nice in and of itself, and the signals I mentioned there are pretty much instinctive so she should be able to use them when approaching an orgasm.
lucky, after 1 minute I simply cum because PE.
>>34092627stop being fat maybehow are people like op even having sex. what are you fucking lol?
>>34092627you should be able to move your hips for 1 to 2 minutes. do you walk at all???
>>34092627>After 1 or 2 mins of thrusting my legs give out and I become too tired to continue.stop skipping leg day, do squats/leg bendsSource: never had sex
