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How to cope knowing she will never reciprocate the same feelings back to me and may never want to see me again after graduation? I'm already under so much anxiety and sadness that she won't be in class tomorrow so I won't be seeing her until next week,
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>>30970655
Date girls your own age. This woman knows a lot more than you do and WILL manipulate you

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I don't work simply because I don't need to - my parents pay for my food, college and apartment and whenever I want to buy something, the government handouts I receive are usually enough to pay for it (I'm don't have an expensive lifestyle). Also, once I graduate I'll work on a very well-paid field so I probably don't have to worry about the future like NEETS do.
But here's the thing: I'm a white dude living in a brown country, and EVERY white woman here is either rich or dating some rich dude.
Today I was doing some research for apartment prices near my uni and asked my classmate how much does her apartment cost per month, and the value she gave me is 5 fucking times more than my current apartment - that was a wake up call for me that if I'm ever gonna lick a white pussy I gotta make money, and LOTS of it.
Any suggestions?
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>>30968118
Just find a down to earth white chick or ethnic chick instead op.
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lmao si sos argentino y crees que necesitas plata para cogerte una blanquita estas o muy equivocado, o sos MUY feo o no tenes nada de experiencia gordito
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>>30968536
and why should I give a fuck about "social value"? keep working hard goyim
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>>30968118
Get a job?
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>>30970149
Yo onions argentino y virgen con 24, es imposible aca

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Hello /adv/

I'm asking this on behalf of my gf

>gf works as entry level manager at large corporate food company
>department boss leaves, gf is bummed bc she was great to her and did everything to help her learn and grow
>they hire new department boss
>no one sure what to think but she seems nice
>they invite her to every meeting and session they have so she can get used to the new company and group
>she either doesnt respond to the invite, or confirms and doesnt show up
>has been to 1 meeting in the 3 months since she started
>just leaves the office in the middle of the day and wont respond to anyone
>theyve had a couple company events/parties in that time
>she shows up to the events falling down drunk and then just vanishes after a while


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Feign an attempt to need immediate direction on something. When you try to reach her and she is MIA, call her boss directly and say so. If she’s afraid to do this then you do it under a false name. Be careful if she was hired under nepotism or cronyism.

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I felt that women (outside of family) were completely absent in my formative years between church and homeschooling. I went to public high school as a teenager and made a couple of weak attempts to get close to women but they pulled away. I was weird looking and reclusive, I had no guidance from my dad and my mom fed me weird shit like a charles dickens book about being rich and faking your identity to scope out a woman's qualities before participating in an arranged marriage.

I still feel the anger and resentment from rejection. When a woman gives me a chance I feel a bitter sense that it's long overdue, not something normal nice and refreshing. I can only get with chicks that feed my superiority complex.

I'm 30 now. Can I undo this? How? I want to get a nice looking woman who is on my level intellectually. I can only get chicks with inferiority complexes and it's not what I want.

This is serious.
I have tried in the past to find a cute guy i could connect with, then gave up and thought "well maybe i'll just have to wait for it and count on my luck" and now again i realized it's not gonna happen if i just sit and wait.

So my questions essentially are:

1. Where to find femboys?

I used to use furry dating apps lol but they don't really seem to do the job anymore, they are mostly dead.

2. How to be attractive for most of them?

Even though i talked to some femboys they often seem to be only slightly interested and i sometimes feel like i come off as weird to them. Maybe it's because they feel like i''m desperate? Idk.
I'm not ugly at least; pretty slim and some people told me i look handsome. I guess 6/10 face or sth.

3. How to convince them that they are worthy of love too?

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>>30969995
>as soon as we started chatting
maybe you're a bad texter
>Maybe i'm also not feminine enough
I just told you, femboys want masc guys (most twinks don't want either). There are zero femboys who want a fem guy.
Basically if you're good looking and not a totally weird/shit texter then you should be fine
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>>30970013
*most twinks don't want fem guys either
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>>30969206
The reason why I against everyone on here give women a huge amount of respect for upholding monogamy, romance, and some semblence of chastity is seeing how men (specifically femobys and twinks) react in a situation where they get even a modicum of the same attention that women get. Femboys and twinks are the sluttiest, flakiest, most non committal and hypergamous creatures on earth that it makes even the most whorish girls look tame. Pretty much every woman knows they can live like this, but that vast majority don't, meanwhile all men who do take this and RUN. You will probably never find a femboy bf anon. Femboys know that every gay person wants to fuck them, and they have no reason to hitch themselves to one person even if you are the best fuck they'll have, and instead they'll keep you as FWB while hitting up grindr unil they reach twinkdeath.
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>>30970169
Holy shit what a blackpill...
I mean i'm guessing that's the case with some of them? But I've seen femboys/twinks in a relationship with somebody so it gotta be possible.
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>>30970487
Yup, and while I can't vouch for the exact specifics of the example you're talking about as I don't know them, but if I were to guess I'd say that they aren't a purely monogamous or conventional relationship like a man and woman may have. Men can be perfectly capable of monogamy and commitment, but only if a woman forces this relationship to occur by withholding sex until the man puts something down. You can see it in all men, where they define a "relationship" as not being close romantic feelings and human attachment, but by regular and exclusive sex. The vast majority of men want a woman who is essentially a maid who they can fuck. I don't find it suprising though, considering the majority of men hating on us for seeking casual sex are the people who have previously enjoyed women beaten into submisison historically, and are now finding out that getting a relationship involves treating the other person with dignity.

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Start slow: just make eye contact with cute girls in the grocery store and in public. If they happen to glance at you give a friendly look/subtle smile
Practice interaction: we get too in our own head about cold approaching someone we're actually interested in because we never cold approach anyone in general. Ask the old grandma at the cash register if she has any plans for the weekend, walk up to an old man in the grocery store and ask him if he could recommend which brand of xyz to buy, go to a bar and talk with random strangers that are males and have a platonic chat, compliment a gym bro you're working out next to on their form or their outfit.

Confidence in specific areas is built in baby steps. You have to build it up. Anything else?

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>talking to someone
>always get distracted by trying to figure out how tall they are
>even if the top of their forehead is at my eye-level I still few shorter than them (specially women)
Is there a name for this?
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>>30970456
Autism
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El Bumpo

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Ok so there is this girl ive been talking to over a year. we are good friends, i do have feelings for her, but i am not gonna confess cause I have more important stuff on my plate. But we are still very good friends, We used to talk like daily till like last month(online on discord), and she is the closest friend i ever had, she knows most of my secrets and we get along pretty well. however idk for some reason, since last month i get the feeling she doesnt wanna talk to me or smth, and this all started since she got into my class. Like we don't talk in class, cause she thinks things get awkward, whenever we talk it's always me initiation conversations, and i get dry replies. even online, i realised its always me initiating conversations and she never does, to test this i didnt send any message, and three days, she hasnt messaged me. I don't now what happened but I'm really confused right know, what happened all of a sudden, or was it like this all along? I'm afraid she thinks of me just as random guy 1. This really saddens me as I considered her my best friend.
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She's doesn't like you and has moved on. Cut her off. Delete her contacts on everything. Discord, number, socials etc

She probably stopped liking you around when y'all had class together and the romanticized version she had of you while y'all talked on discord was destroyed. And when she comes back let this be your opportunity to grow as a man and do no let her come back into you life. She had her chance gang. Move on you'll be alright fren

She has moved on probably happened around when y'all had class
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>>30969588
Be honest with yourself.
You're only friends with her because you have feelings for her and you hope to one day make some big romantic gesture and turn her into your girlfriend or something.
It doesn't work like that.
You should have made your intentions clear from the very beginning, not by "confessing" because that is what losers do but by telling her you're attracted to her and would like to date her.

It's too late now, she probably realized you have feelings for her and so she stopped talking to you because:
A) she doesn't want you to get your hopes up
AND/OR
B) she thinks you're a hypocrite who was never really her friend
AND/OR
C) she used to be attracted to you too but now she thinks you're a pussy
AND/OR
D) she never liked you to begin with and is just being polite


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Thank You.
I'll take your advice and forget about her
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Though it would be hard for me, we are in the same class, and like even if I try not too, I'll still see her everyday for like the next 3 months minimum

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American femanon is here to ask: How can I encourage and advise my husband's mutual friend (late 30s, I'll call him John)? His wife (they had a few kids together) left for a guy (close to John) who decided to take advantage of the situation during an interval of marital conflict. Husband is having me cook John a fancy dinner. Should we advise John to remarry a younger woman and try to have more kids after a period of recovery? How long of a recovery? Are there professions that make a decent amount of $ for someone with insurance and transportation backgrounds? What kind of encouragement would help a man in this situation? Any divorced anons who found a good second wife? Please give me realistic advice because I want to see John happy again...he didn't deserve this!! I don't like this website but I know it is mostly male with some professionals so I thought it might be insightful. Thanks guys.
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>>30969617
what state do you live in? does the wife have full custody?
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Can someone translate?
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>>30969793
John's wife is a whore and now John's friend and wife want to give him good advice on how to move forward in life after divorce.
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>>30969617
Stay out of it

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how do i get God to stop tormenting me?
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>>30970144
If your being tormented it's the devil.

If it's God your not being tormented you being pushed to change for the better

> How would I know ?

Pray for discernment
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Kill him
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how many posts do you want bro? you got your answers 10 posts before
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>>30970152
If you're being moral but haunted by visions or urges of evil, that's the devil tormenting you with temptation
If you're living in sin but haunted or punished by your guilt, that's God
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>>30970144
Salt is a disinfectant. God works in mysterious ways.

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>chronic chest pain that doctors say is anxiety chest pain, tests ruled everything else out even stuck a tube down my throat to check for acid reflux
>on meds and therapy but still constantly anxious and depressed
>no interest in anything which makes being alone agonizing
>meds destroyed my sex drive
>only thing that makes me happy a little is spending time with my wife but all she does is doomscroll so my only joy in life is cuddling with wife and watching what she doomscrolls, and then maybe we watch some TV shows/movies together if I can managed to get her off doomscrolling
>but I want to try to at least make my wife happy if I cannot be happy and be some kind of self-sacrificial depressed person
>only thing wife really wants to do is travel long distance to somewhere
>terrified of planes, cannot do it with this level of anxiety
>long car rides give me severe anxiety and panic attacks, the result of which is I will have an after shock of even worse chest pain that lasts for days and I'm not sure I can do that level of self-sacrifice to make her happy

I feel trapped. I don't want to be a shutin but this onset of sudden super increase in anxiety and depression makes me wanna kms. I cannot make my wife happy, she is stuck with a husband who has suddenly become very mentally ill and cannot travel even though we talked about travel years before we got married and both wanted to do it. I'm really trying hard to figure out why not to kms with exit bag method. People say what I'm going through is temporary and suicide is a permanent solution for a temporary problem, but its been months on these meds and this feels like hell waking up constantly feeling pain in my chest, shakiness of anxiety, and feeling like a failure to my wife that I cannot travel.
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Bump
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>>30969573
Chlorine dioxide does wonders, page 313:
https://web.archive.org/web/20230803150232/https://safrax.com/wp-content/uploads/Forbidden-Health-by-Andreas-Kalcker.pdf
Also, worms cause most disease, consider parasite cleanse.
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>>30969573

My GF has been trying to lose weight since January. She started at 210 and got down to 198, but has stayed there since the beginning of the month. She may have recomped a bit as she looks a LOT better than having lost just 12 pounds. I think she might not be eating enough protein or something, because her caloric intake is super fucking low. Her habits are as follows:

BREAKFAST
>Starbucks bacon egg bites (300cal, 20g fat, 19g protein)
>Black coffee
LUNCH
>Smoked salmon 4 oz
>Pretzels
>Clementine
>Brie cheese 2 oz
DINNER
>Chicken breast 6 oz
>Salad w/o dressing
>White rice 1/2 cup
MISC

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>>30970070
The only thing that makes her already perfect BLACKED work even better is the fact that she has a white husband, and she's a former child star in america, so lots of people will get introduced to BLACKED content through her. And of course the fact that she's not a crackhead or anything, she was in a stable marriage and everything and she chose of her own volition to get into porn but to be exclusively BLACKED.
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>>30970123
Why don't you people just go fuck a black guy if you care about this shit so much, fair warning you're going to be disappointed.
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>>30970070
yeah she needs to be eating more. most women get taught they need to starve themselves to lose weight but it doesn't really work.
the only time I've ever actually lost weight was doing keto and making sure I was getting enough calories. Severe calorie restrictions never did anything for me. She should definitely up her protein and where are the fats? Fats will do way more for her than things like those shitty pretzels ever will.
I also noticed with myself and other women that we tend to have "wooshes" of weight loss once you get past the initial period of weight loss, where your weight is steady for a while and then you suddenly finally notice a drop.
You're probably right that she's recomped a bit if you've really noticed the changes visually. She might want to start tracking body measurements rather than focusing on the scale number so much. I looked my best and 'smallest' at 10 lbs more than I am now.
How tall is she?
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>>30970070
Natural The first 10 pounds are the easiest. After that you can't really hope for more than a pound a week.

>be me
>wake up at 7:30 to see my phone flashing an alert from Wells Fargo
>my bank account has hit the negative
>-$4.76
>the entirety of the money we have totals $16.43
>transfer $10 from saving to get my account out of the red, literally 6 bux to my name
>my gf says "I'm getting a bunch of packages today please don't be mad."
>an hour later SEVEN packages are dropped off at my door
>my gf bought more FIM and G3 ponies
>again
>"It was all only $50 and I got something special just for you!"
>She bought me a vinyl statue of my favorite pony, Applejack, as a sexy anime woman

I just decided not to say anything and was thankful she at least thought of me and my favorite pone. Is there anyway for me to explain to her this really isn't the best time to be spending money on our hobbies when I'm in school full time and only work part time at a restaurant and we literally are poor af. When we started getting into Monster High together she did the exact same thing and basically bought every currently available G3 doll in a three month span and now she collects the old G1 dolls that are hella expensive.


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bleed
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die
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burn
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bleed
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die

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Why is it so fun to use jew slang like Goy and Kvetch?
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>>30970247
Maybe you’re a Jew
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>>30970247
Because it is wish-fulfilment to pretend you are one of the superior

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is it normal to be pretty sleepy during the day even though you sleep 8-9 hours
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>>30970431
Whole cultures have been built on the siesta.
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>>30970431
Sort of. But there are some certain types of insomnia that don’t mess with the amount of hours you sleep, but they fuck up the quality of those hours. You could check with a professional, or read online about the many manifestations of insomnia.


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