>Received multiple happy Birthday text by multiple men, friends, relatives>But not from the one man i am actually in love>Basically invisible but only to the ones i likeAnd this keep happening in my Life. FUCK. JUST WHY. WHY
>>34088359>asked him to not bother me on chat despite giving him my IG (reverse psycology). I mean its should be obliviouswe gave this the right to vote
>>34088359>and asked him to not bother mewoman moment
>>34086625Be grateful someone remembers your birthday. My birthday is basically just another regular day
>>34086655Yup. Exactly. Women just enjoy getting what they can't get. It's why the wedding ring effect mostly happens to female. You rarely see men stealing other men's wife. It's always women stealing other women's husband.
>>34086625I haven't received any birthday texts in my entire life. Go fuck yourself
Something I don't get about dating and attraction, how can a woman make up her opinion based on looks alone, without even sitting down for a coffee date. This is bizarre, there are too many variables unexamined.
>>34096483I am not a woman, but I need to be attracted to someone to date them. It is non-negotiable. Being attractive isn't sufficient, hence dating, but it is necessary. Going out for coffee isn't going to make me physically attracted to someone
>>34096545What is physical attraction?
most women dgaf about looks, more about pErSOnAlItYI know this because they're not attracted to me from the get go, it's once i austimally share my interests that they begin to warm up to methis is also why you see hot women with ugly af dudes, it's either their wallet, dick or vibe
why would she date someone she is not attracted to
>>34097082Because attraction includes behavioral genetics, no?
how do i stop internalizing the bad things people have said about me or done to me? ive always acted very cocky and overconfident (i cant help it) which has attracted a lot of hate from people , mostly people who dont even know me.
If ur confident why do you care Or are you actually insecure and faking "overconfidence" to hide it from others
>>34096989i just come across that way because of the way that i smile and the way that i walk and things. i always act cheerful and freidnly when im talking to people and maybe it comes off as manipulative. im very insecure inside as you can tell
>>34097019I wouldn't classify that was "cocky" but eh. Just sounds like you're being nice to people (causing you to have more social opportunity in general/more social connections made) and for some reason, others are threatened by that (envious) and want to sabotage you. In that case, tell them to suck it
I just got home from barcelona to visit my moms boyfriends family for christmas. The problem is that his daughter is a weeaboo, and for the first time in a ridiculously long time (maybe the first time in my life) I actually had a pleasant, non-forced conversation with a member of the opposite sex, who I genuinely found interesting.She has a boyfriend and I'm autistic and a bit chuddy, so it's obviously not going to work out, yet in my mind I can't stop thinking about her.
>>34092288simply meet more people, men and women, feel different peoples vibes and learn to tell friend from crushthat doesnt mean you wont still like the wrong person sometimes just so you know
>>34092288>She has a boyfriend and I'm autistic and a bit chuddy, so it's obviously not going to work out, yet in my mind I can't stop thinking about her.fix this. stop thinking this. do something about it and realize you have crushes because of doubt. you must want enough to change.
you'll get over it
>>34092288>yet in my mind I can't stop thinking about her.when this happens to normal people they ask someone out. if it's a no, then you move on
>>34093815i mean desu literally this. i was fawning over this one girl. the only girl thats ever happened to me to and i asked her out. she said no and had a bf but at least i asked and she added me on facebook too and actually had a bf so it wasnt a lie either
Yesterday I got a pretty cute girl's number through some rather unusual circumstances. I was at work, she came in as a customer, I ended up having to drive her to her house and back (the job does not typically involve driving customers around) so we got to talk for like 35 minutes, and I found we had pretty similar interests (car things primarily). She mentioned where she works, so later I stopped by there and asked her for her number for shits and giggles. She actually said yes with pretty much zero hesitation. Not like in an outwardly joyous manner, but she didn't seem bothered. We texted back and forth a bit last night and some today, and she's fun to talk to, but it really feels more like just shooting the shit with a regular guy friend than actually flirting. I don't know if zoomers are just built even more different these days or if she's genuinely just not neurotypical or what. I told her I wanted to hang out and do car stuff, but it's dead fuck middle of winter so nothing is really going on in regards to that. I know I'm supposed to set up some sort of date, but I can't think of any ideas that aren't lame. I've never dated or gotten a girl's number before now. She's 18 and I'm 21. I'd really like to try and have something with this girl, since she's possibly autistic and not quite old enough to be poisoned by many problems plaguing modern women.I've always wondered what you actually do after getting a girl's number, but I figured it would come naturally. Nah, I have no idea.
>>34094422>i don't drive in the winter3rd worlder
>>34095917>I assume one car being away in the winter means not driving3rd worlder. I have 3 cars you poor ass faggot.
>>34093949"Want to _____ this weekend? We could grab a bite before or after."-see a movie-go for a walk-hang out at the mall-go for a drive in the country-or something you chatted about
>>34093949>I know I'm supposed to set up some sort of date, but I can't think of any ideas that aren't lame.If she actually likes you, she won't care what you're doing.
>>34094579just reply with something that gets her to commit to a day and that communicates you look forward to seeing her again. if she is wishy-washy or vague in the response to that, she's not interested and trying to let you down.it gets easier the more you do it, maybe always a little nerve-wracking from excitement, but you'll get the hang of it the more you do it. just keep being direct and polite, and the results will let you know what else works.
>34 years old>literally never had a girlfriend>cannot imagine having kids or a family
>>34096383do you want to wallow in misery or git gud faggot?
>>34096394nobody said that
>>34096198Who said I didn’t go to college? Again life will fuck you up and spit you out in ways you haven't imagined
>i was told to sit somewhere else at a bar>yes, this is why i'm now a turbovirgin at 35lol, lmao even
>>34096905It was just an example>>34096750That's exactly what you said
Minimum wage person who started recently to live with his father wants to pay a percentage of their salary in gratitude; knowing I use 50% for needs such as rent, food and transport, what percentage of that fifty should I use?Have a happy new year /adv/!
>>34090020Offer like 10% of what you make or an expense like all the power bill, all the water bill, etc. But offer first, it might be he doesn't want you to
>>34090020>wants to pay a percentage of their salary in gratitudetalk to him and ask him man to man? He probably would just want you to do the chores he's too tired/busy to do around the home or do daily errands instead. You don't have the finances to make a dent like >>34090037 said lets be real.>started recently to live with his fatheryour goal from now on should be to be financially literate and responsible- you should be doing everything in your strength to stand on your own so you can get out from under your father. The only thing you can be to not be a drag, is to live on your own. This is the truth. Until then, make his life less of a pain and do what you can to help with his financial and life goals. In short, don't give him grief by staying there- do everything to move out asap. You are old enough.
>>34090020The question guys, he's asking for a percentage specifically. I would said a 25% of your half income is not bad to be used in needs of the house.
>>34090020Think the average acceptable is to spend twenty percent for rent so ten would probably be a deal for each of you. You could do something better than fork it. Like talk him into doing a retirement plan so you can cash in later.
>>34093936Good answer here; you can choose from 10% to 20%, less than that would be meager and more than that, not a good idea.
For some reason I keep craving junk food like burgers or kebab, pizza etc. Some shit food.>inb4 fat greedy fuckNo, while i occasionally eat crap food, for most of my life I have ate healthy.Something has happened to my nutrition, like I am at a deficit of something and my body is craving food like this, junk food.I dont know why.I am assuming it must be carp or protein but I also do eat enough. Steak, potatoes, rice, fish.Need some anon who knows more about nutritional information who could help narrow down why my body is craving shit like this.
Chicken bro. Trust me, it'll make a massive difference in your life.
>>34095080>>34095085>>34095087I think you misunderstand. I dont eat/crave food for pleasure, I eat for sustenance. I am not craving junk food because I want pleasure in eating some trashy food, my body is craving it for nutritional needs.I am not eating trash food as a luxury or am some greedy fat or lazy person who cant cook a meal.
>>34092349maybe youre just craving some carbs ? when im long time cold turkey when it comes to unhealthy food i hardly have cravings and they seem to go away quickly if any
>>34096334Cravings are cravings dude, I don't know what advice you're expecting.
>>34096932>Cravings are cravingsNo, cravings are simply your body desiring something it needs. its not like an addiction craving where you have physical and mental effects.My body simply needs something and is lacking some sort of nutritional supplement.
I’m a professional, have a wife and I’m come to the conclusion that all my hobbies and interests are somewhat juvenile. Every time I start really progressing in my hobby nowadays, I come to the same realization. ‘I’m too old to be doing this’. My past hobbies are writing music and trying to make video games. However, I’ll be in the moment of doing whatever I’m doing, and just have this crushing feeling that I’m far too old to be sitting around and doing this with my free time. >just don’t care what other people thinkIt’s not that simple, my hobbies are a young man’s game. I don’t want to be the old guy at open mic, or wasting my life making a video game that no one else will care about. Obsession is a young man’s endeavor.I need a new creative hobby. Something I can do for the next 30 years of my life, without feeling guilty or ridiculous doing. I’m perfectly healthy, so I don’t really have limitations. Besides maybe not being able to afford buying a boat or something. I’m open to suggestions, preferably something creative. I was thinking about getting into glass blowing.
>>34094988only real nigga on this thread
>>34094737The greeks believed that some unity between body and mind is the most natural and highest ideal there is. I would pursue a hobby that keeps your mind and body busy.Try Rock Climbing, maybe Hiking, Cycling, hit the Gym, take care of your body above all else, then I think some greater options might open up before you.
>>34094737Anything artistic - drawing, painting, clay/physical model making, digital modelling, photographyI tell people I do drawing and painting and they think it's coolIf you're dog shit at it - just tell people you're learning/just getting into painting and drawing and you're trying to get better - should get you out of having to show it for a bitI answer this as an autist who has to work with normalfags so "needs" a hobby to present/mask themselves as a normal human being
>>34094737>Reddit spacingIf this isn't a bot repost, I see no reason why you can't keep making music. Yeah the indie game shit might be a little juvenile but>I don’t want to be the old guy at open micBrother I see old dudes performing venues all the time. Even at screamo shows and shit.I sympathize with the whole "I'm getting to old for this scene" sentiment. I felt that recently with cosplay and costuming - at the last con I was at I realized I was a 33 year old guy talking to a bunch of kids not even old enough to drink about cartoons made for teenagers. A bit of a different context because I had the generation gap staring right in my face but still I got the feeling of "I'm a grown ass man doing something that kids do."One question you need to ask yourself is if the hobby still "sparks joy" in you or not. Are you considering giving them up because you're "too old" or because you don't really like them anymore?
>>34094737>too old to writeWhat the fuck gave you that idea?
i am 31 and have no friends. i already have trust issues from childhood. everyone i meet ends up using, betraying, or ignoring me. how should i make friends or should i accept the fact that i'm just not supposed to be friends with anyone.
People bond over activities. If you swim do swimming, if you play music play music.
>>34096271I do stuff but its a class so we all just do it and leave after. I have asked pepole to hangout before but after we do I get ghosted or they just get too busy.Should I pay for one of these group friend dinners or whatever.
>>34096271I am talking to AI now as a friend. I think I will just talk to AI now. I don't care.
it's a numbers game. you just have to keep engaging people, suggesting things, putting yourself out there, even agreeing to activities you might not like very much, until something/someone sticks. obviously, if you keep finding yourself on the outside, you might wanna think about what behavior might is putting other people off. it's worth "code switching" as the idiots say or tuning down some aspects of your personality to make yourself more attractive as a friend.
I've had an obssession with Karen Carpenter for nearly 8 years now. And it's just growing day by day. I cannot last a single day without her voice, and often fantasize about her as well as how I could save her in some kind of time machine like Jeff Mangum with Anne Frank. I genuinely am in love with her, her angelic voice, her movement, her manners, her life story etc. I cry to her voice at least once a week, and look at her pics on a regular basis.fuck I've never fallen in love with anyone as much as her and I've had my fair share girlfriends. I just couldn't help but compare them to Karen. The painful fact remains that she passed away well before my time and I will have to cope with the fact that I will NEVER meet her in this lifetime. I just want to give her a hug and tell her how beautiful she is and how she has a once in a lifetime voice as well as her extraordinary drumming skills.What should I do? I've had my fair share of obsession with celebs dead or alive, from Shelley Duvall to Carol Kane to Winona Ryder but there's just something about Karen that drives me absolutely insane.
Overrated. My celeb waifusbando is way betterAnd even I'm not obsessed, I just respecc and continue my own life cuz I'm way more important
>>34096982Aight so I just read her Wikipedia n shiet, high-key you are obsessed with the "tragic" element of her story, if her husband was fertile and she had the normie pipeline you would not give 2 shits about her
>>34097053And in that case, just imagine her husband was fertile and then go do ur stupid saviour complex on someone IRL at least
My gf (my first and only gf) told me she had a fuck buddy for more than 2 years who had a bigger dick than me (I asked, idk why). Apparently he didn't even go to her, she went to his house about once or twice a week every single week just to talk a little and get fucked by him. While she was telling me I could barely breathe as I actually felt like I had a lump in my throat and now I want to kmsI wish I never fucking knew, I wish I had met her before that fucking guy, I wish I could erase my mind. Please tell me how to actually cope with this, without the usually "just be a man" bullshit. She's in love with me and I believe that, but her past consists of 4 horrible exes and now a fuckbuddy with a big dick who didn't even have to do shit for her to go over there for him to fuck and cum in her (she was on the pill all the time apparently)I don't wanna end up kms on fucking christmas
>>34085266>sticking up for whores>calling others a simpThe irony here is actually astonishing. You're getting legitimately mad and hurling insults in a blind nigger rage over another man suggesting women may be lowering their value by having casual sex, and then have the gall to call other men a simp.>we would all be sexless gooners in perpertuityBro I can't think of a bigger gooner mindset than "I love women being whores oh yes let me play in pussy I need cummies I want fuck fuck pussy wonderland yay!" Absolute WEASELS like you who have no chance of competing for a decent partner advocate for promiscuity because ironically that's YOUR hope for having sex. You are the fucking slave to pussy. You are the one simping and putting your neck on the line for women here. And guess what, buddy boy - they're not gonna fuck you!>WOMEN LIKE TO HAVE SEX GET OVER IT INCELOk they can have all the sex they want. Also answer my fucking question. If sex is a biological imperative, where are all the babies from these casual relationships?
>>34084103Just cheat on her until you feel even with her or just feel better about it.
>>34096836I'm honestly going to try this and find out if it works. I'l create a thread once I've done it.
>>34085273>reddit/iPhone spacingYour opinion is meaningless off the rib but>You understand the whole concept of the maidenhead was cooked up by old world stooges in order to ensure the purity of their line, right?Sounds good to me. Aren't like 1/3 of all babies born in France not the offspring of their legal father? >Do you also want to bring back bedding ceremonies where your entire family watches you fumble around with your scared virgin bride?Sounds like a laugh to me. >The two used to be interlinked, but we've since learned to decouple them to create pleasure separate from procreation. And it is literally destroying civilization. You can literally mark the moment relations between the sexes broke down with the year the pill was released.>are weird racial puritans obsessed with bloodlinesRight, we should blanda upp guys! Mix it up, just go fuck mystery meats! Forget about your own race and people, blanda upp!>your intense insecurity and phobia of sexLMAO I'm not afraid of sex, you are the hedonists afraid of going a single secnd of your life without pleasure
>>34084103drop her ass. you deserve better. she's using you as a safe option. his dick size is meaningless. if she wants to play the town harlot, let her. not your problem.
if anything, fags are lucky they don't have to deal with women. i want to be free like them too.any tips?
>>34094850Yeah but check around and see if they're just interested in making you a damn cum dumpster or actually getting to know you. Like oh do whatever you want, but I'm gonna unleash my load and forget about you, bye. It's the nightmare women were fucking afraid of. Being a pump and dump. You're gonna be depressed after a while and it'll be a sex addiction like a porn addiction. You may be like, "but for once I'm wanted!" Yeah, by all the wrong men. I don't know but being raped by a guy who wins arguments with me makes me feel like I'm in Hell.
>>34095712Big reason why I'm a gaycel. People put very little effort into relationships, pump and dump is extremely common.
>>34095712I feel like you're gay and an idiot. Dudes have a high sex drive, the arrangement of "pump and dump" is a desired one in many cases, because you can't build the same emotional connection with a dude as you do with a female unless you're truly, truly gay. Like yourself.
>>34095675Sasaki and Miyano, Free! (fujobait but point still stands), Mignon, & Banana Fish are pretty good.If you're into VNs I'd recommend definitely Togainu no Chi (if you're fine with assloads of homosexual rape).
>>34086117What are you going to do when they get older then? Sure maybe you could get some twink for now but what happens when he’s 40? Are you really going to be able to stay with that?
how do i make myself more productive and superman? I'm tired of pulling the lever on life. I wanna even the odds a little
>>34095887It will always be a gamble
How to cope with the clownworld/hellworld God put me inLets get this straight, the two most popular religions in the world both say if you don't follow their specific faith, you will burn in hell for all eternity for the mere act of not submitting to their worldview.I'm forced to work for what other people have from day one of their life and never have to work for, they even rule the economy I live in to add insult to injuryAnd another thing, if an ambitious white young man kills himself because it's fucking impossible to get a decent woman now let alone afford marriage, nobody bats an eye. But if a deranged grown man larping as a woman offs himself, everybody loses their mindAnd people STILL expect me to believe Jesus is coming backHow do I cope with reality. Maybe its a beta onions question but I wanna know how to make sense of all this.
it is christmas time . before christ came the earth was in darkness to. it is a good time to remember that
>>34092850Fuck you, you worship a fucking sadistic tyrant. NTAKYSJesus belongs in hell for what he's done, all he ever does is scapegoat everyone else into doing the dirty work and I will take no responsibility for any of this shit. >Everyone's a sinner and has to pay>ETERNAL DAMNATION FOR EVERYONE>*Jesus does it*>Nah being whipped, nailed to an object you will forever be worshipped on/for, and dying for only 3 days is enough>By the way you actually go to hell for a bit (don't worry though, it's just a quick road trip to pick up your fav pals!)>This is "GOOD" equal payment>To justify things>To himselfComment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>34096654>To Himself>You worthless sandbags never grasp itIt wasn’t to justify to Himself, it was justify to (you) actually. You wanted God to know your pain and you got it, yet you still are not satisfied.
>>34092840How many years have you been making threads like this now and have you taken your meds today?
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