I want to go to HR on Monday and ask what I need to do to earn a higher position, and I am freaking out at the notion. The last time I did this at a job, my supervisor publicly shamed me during a meeting. How can I word it so I don't sound like I'm demanding, just that I want to be able to earn a promotion,
Was in the same situation a few years ago. I asked about coaching and my boss bluntly told me I was not going to be promoted, and then they had the gall to punish me when I started to do the bare minimum until I quit.
>>34099133Decline some responsibilities? Why your post look weird?
>>34099201I risk losing pay if I decline responsibility. If they don't drop my wage, they would lower how much I get in raises when they come around.
Talked to HR. >"We promote growth here">"You should bring this up on your next 1 on 1"My last 1 on 1 was two weeks ago. My next 1 on 1 is in December of 2026
>>34100242You can increase your money in plenty of other ways.
I'm 26 and I'm going to spend New Years Eve at my parents house for the first time in years. Some friends didn't invite me, some got sick, I had too much social anxiety to invite to my place, basically I fucked up. Since being forever alone in school I'm obsessed with NYE as it's sometimes the only time I have proper fun with people in a year. My bro (18) will stay with his gf in house too but you and I know what they are going to do. Mom will make us some cake, I will maybe toss some homemade pizza and we drive to the hill and watch fireworks.How do I stop being a whiny bitch and appreciate that I have living family and loving parents instead of feeling like a teenager who didn't get laid.
How do I fuck 19 year olds as a 40 year old man WITHOUT paying an escort or sugar baby. I'll do anything else, change my lifestyle in whatever way necessary. I'm not scared of society's judgement for it.
>>34100965I'm 36 and about to fuck a 21 year old if that makes you feel better?
>>34100974duh
>>34100965just as you would any other woman. be attractive and confident, flirt, make her laugh, etc.the age gap is only in your head. if your game is on point and you don't care about it, neither will she
Would you rather have a president who take your tax money fund bombing and shooting children in the head every days. Or a president who fucks two childs and that’s it.
>>34100965You might try going for a whole week without reposting this perennial
Is it too late to find love at 26?
>>34102877>A gorillion kidsIf you want that you probably missed the opportunity. Women that want a lot of kids usually marry young and have 2-3 kids already by 25.If you’re meeting a woman after 26 who’s childless you’re likely getting 2 at most. That being said, women usually want kids well into their 40s so you still have time if you want to pass on your genes at least once.
>>34102761>>34102828What about at 32? I don't how to make myself try to date. Last girlfriend I had was my only girlfriend that I ever had at 14. I ended it because she had to move. I keep thinking about my middle school crush and how we drifted apart and how I don't know who she is now as well as the girl who asked me out in high school and I don't know why I said no. I didn't care about dating at all in my early 20s throwing myself into work and video games for free time. Thought about dating at 25 and then Covid and other shit happened and now I feel like I can't make a real connection with anyone because they've all had those first "real" relationships and I'm a wizard. Frankly I don't want anyone experienced, and I'm not just talking in sex. I just don't think I can deal with someone else's emotional baggage or being compared to past boyfriend. I just think about my middle school crush hugging me tight after I was away for a few weeks and how I don't know how to care about someone like that.
>>34102761Too late for real love, yes. The one where you both grew up together and know everything about each other. After 26, you have to risks with strangers and will discover things you didn't expect. Reddit is full of careercels like this who got married to roasties in their 30s looking for a meal ticket after their career took off and roasties hit the wall. You married a stranger and you're surprised now that she doesn't want sex or cheats on you? Nobody saw that coming kek
I'm sure there are good girls out there at that age but the herd thins out quicker than you'd expect. I wish someone had warned me when I was, like, 12, that you're supposed to find a good wife in college. I didn't figure that out until I was 25. Now a lot of the women I meet are the leftovers whom men do not date for very good reasons.
>>34103581This person has never had a girlfriend or sex but thinks he is an expert on women and dating.
Where do they gather at? All I want is a girlfriend with big boobs
>>34102121No problem. Also nah, it's not. Books are just text on a page. You are reading posts on here, which are words on a screen and you can understand that just fine right? Same deal brotha. You can read just fine
>>34101635>Online social groupWhat is this? Discord or something? Social media? Forums? Reddit? What could "online social group" be in this day n age
>>34101190It's impossible. Either the girl likes her big tits in which case their standards and expecations are to the moon because they know how desired they are. Or they don't like having them and will hate you for liking them
>>34101204Every time I fucked a busty fat, I looked at their social media and see that they used to be slim and busty. No way in hell I could have had them when they were slim.
>>34101190https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EPVgKoruWdA&list=RDEPVgKoruWdA&start_radio=1
I've had an obssession with Karen Carpenter for nearly 8 years now. And it's just growing day by day. I cannot last a single day without her voice, and often fantasize about her as well as how I could save her in some kind of time machine like Jeff Mangum with Anne Frank. I genuinely am in love with her, her angelic voice, her movement, her manners, her life story etc. I cry to her voice at least once a week, and look at her pics on a regular basis.fuck I've never fallen in love with anyone as much as her and I've had my fair share girlfriends. I just couldn't help but compare them to Karen. The painful fact remains that she passed away well before my time and I will have to cope with the fact that I will NEVER meet her in this lifetime. I just want to give her a hug and tell her how beautiful she is and how she has a once in a lifetime voice as well as her extraordinary drumming skills.What should I do? I've had my fair share of obsession with celebs dead or alive, from Shelley Duvall to Carol Kane to Winona Ryder but there's just something about Karen that drives me absolutely insane.
>>34096982Aight so I just read her Wikipedia n shiet, high-key you are obsessed with the "tragic" element of her story, if her husband was fertile and she had the normie pipeline you would not give 2 shits about her
>>34097053And in that case, just imagine her husband was fertile and then go do ur stupid saviour complex on someone IRL at least
>>34096899She's dead
>>34096899bump
>>34096899Take out your frustration on a vagina.
Mostly imageboards. I don’t really know many chans that are actually active, honestly, I only know 4chan and one other, but any kind of forum countsI’m kinda tired of browsing just here. What other forums do you use
>>34103072The others are too slow.I also install reddit once in a while but inevitably delete the account once I have enough of the collective retardation of that site.Social media was a mistake. It killed the forum format.
>>34103626Social media are working has expected.
4chan and kiwifarms are the only websites worth using these days
I've been reading and consuming a lot of adventure media lately such as LOTR, games such as Skyrim, manga such as Frieren, etc. A lot of my draw towards it is escapism which I suppose is not good but I want to go on adventures of my own like Frodo, Frieren and Himmel, etc. I want to do some good in this world, make changes for the better, and experience adventure while doing so. I know its unrealistic to expect to save the world but would like to leave my mark on it. I work a thankless job and I am burned out. I additionally want to move out of my town (upstate NY) because of the politics, population, etc. but don't know where to even start looking (other than the south would be too hot for me). I went on a couple of vacations last summer to various places such as the beach, lakes/camping, national parks, etc. and while I had fun and saw a lot of cool things I found that the feeling soon returned. I even considered going back to Uni or joining the military but each has substantial drawbacks, and the state of the military is not too appealing right now. I desire an adventure of my own, to find my purpose, making new friends, etc. I am 28 and know its a very immature way of thinking or dreaming but I feel like my life is going no where fast, still no experience with women, currently have no close friends, etc. I need a reset. Any advice guys? Anyone ever go through this?
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>>34099434Peace CorpsAmericorps
>>34099927>>34099932How do you make friends?
>>34100261What my heart desires such as purpose, fulfillment, companionship, etc. all exist in my mind in a broad sense maybe because I haven't truly experienced them and don't know what they feel like, what to want, or what to expect... Don't know where to start either
>>34100375https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yQQQgl9OARUSame
Why do women waste so much fucking money on useless crap and little gay perks and how do I get my wife to understand the ends must fucking meet at the end of the month?
>>34102961I don't have any debt because I'm not retarded. But I do live in a low income country, só it's difficult to come up with a value to inform you.She usually spends money on stupid shit like aesthetic procedures, clothing and trips. It's your regular woman brain in the 21st century.
>>34102406>how do I get my wife to understanduh ohyou're supposed to marry a woman who will actually listen, say "yes" and obey. if you guys don't have kids yet, your life may be salvageable by dumping her asap
>>34103847What responsibilities is she not taking care of?Is she using all her own money?Does she have an "emergency fund" or does she expect you to handle it if something goes wrong with the car?
>>34103955She does her part, I'm not saying she's a bad wife. She's just caught in what's fashionable for women to do in this day and age.Her money? She recently got a job, I bankrolled her spending throughout the year.She has no savings that I know of. Car? She expects me to finance a SUV in 2026 and pay the bank by driving for Uber.
you married an idiot. and you should have talked to her about this way, WAY before marrying her.for the time being, take away her credit card and give her a certain amount of cash which she can spend each month. then she'll begin to understand how quickly it goes.
>be me>male>19 years old (soon 20)>unironically living in central europe (austria)>don't want to die a virgin>don't want to die alone>realize that most women in this country are:-balkan/gypsies who don't want to do anything with me-Stacies/Beckies who don't want to do anything with me-posh girls who don't want to do anything with me-countrygirls who don't want to do anything with me>felt myself drawn to the "art"-crowd my whole teenagehood>never really interacted with the "art"-crowd whatsoever>convinced myself that an "artsy girl" would do it for meComment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>34101905>ich war ein turbonerd und bin mit ~20-25 mit alten schulfreunden in so nem hippie (antifa/mdma/gras) freundeskreis gelanded und wir waren ständig in so ner verranzten villa, mehrmals die woche feiern.Sind Sie zufälligerweise Berliner? Schau her, alte Schulfreunde werde ich nicht haben da ich Außenseiter bin, weil ich am Spektrum bin wahrscheinlich. Dass du dort gelandet bist freut mich für dich aber Wien ist die langweiligste Stadt der Welt und weit werde ich hier nicht kommen. Ich habe halt höchst autistische Interessen und ich habe keine Ahnung wie ich aus dem Stand hinaus rauskomme. An der HTL sind alle Leute depparte Talahons, mit solchen geht's natürlich nicht.Wenn ich allein auf Konzerte und Festivals gehe klappt es dann?
>>34101949nah, kreis mannheim/heidelberg. zecken gibts nicht nur in berlin>Wenn ich allein auf Konzerte und Festivals gehe klappt es dann?will es jetzt nicht als den supertipp hinstellen. war letztens selbst alleine auf nem konzert und hab keine sau angesprochen, abgesehen von der security. stand die ganze zeit alleine hinten im eck rum und war froh als die band dann angefangen hat. war aber damals mit 20 öfter alleine auf konzerten (metal) un hab da immer jemanden kennengelernt, auch wenns nur zum quatschen für den abend war.
>>34101761You can survive, so you'll be alright.
>>3410176119 ist zu früh um aufzugeben, mit 25 kannst du darüber nachdenken, mit 30 kannst du dann endgültig den Schlussstrich ziehen.t. Ende Zwanzig
>>34103611erzählen Sie mehr.
I've gotten 95 and 97 percentile 11 years apart. I also coasted school and gotten a 3.4 GPA.But when it comes to solving g my life problems I just can't do it. I try to focus on something that absolutely bothers me but my brain start to hurt and I do something else. Like studying or weight loss. It's ruined my life. What do I do? Why do I shut down?
like on an IQ test? lowest percentile I've gotten from an IQ test was 99.5 and I suck shit at living life as an adult. I kicked ass at standardized tests k-12 and while I'm exceptionally good at my blue collar job that does not make it pay any better and my life outside of work isn't great. That's just not what those tests measure, let alone predict.
>>34103975ASVAB. Sorry fretted about wording messed that up. I looked up a transferability to iq. Theres no direct way but it's like 120 to 130iq. What sets my cousin apart from me is he can sit and study for hours. I can barely motivate myself to sit and study for the ASVAB at 30 but I did get those 130 line scores
>meet guy, date for 3 years>about 4 months ago i start feeling extremely bad. >get super depressed, gain significant weight, completely lose my (normally extremely high) libido. all i want to do is lay in bed>doctor says i have a hormone condition>they give me meds, they help a little but not much. i will most likely never be the same as before>if we carry out our plans from before hes going to be married to a fat 22 year old with menopause symptoms who will probably never fuck him again i dont want that for him. assuming i dont improve, at what point should i break up with him? im going to try alternative treatments still but i dont have much hope for them. i also worry that he wont go willingly over this, since he is very sentimental and in love with me. what would you want, if you were in his position?
>>34103257I think I'd want you to let me make my own decision whether to leave "for my own good" or not. You think you're doing it for him but really it's self pity. Pushing him away before he has a chance to leave. It's immature. You are only 22, but still.
>>34103257>at what point should i break up with him?Never. Explain the situation to him honestly and let him make his own decision.
>>34103257For you to do what you feel will make you happier. I would suggest you exercise not force it.
>>34103257Just get therapy for it, chemotherapy, and or look for alternative surgeries.
>>34103257For pretty much anyone I would want to date, I would hope they could clean up their diet, abstain from alcohol/sugar/wheat and processed foods, and do some form of exercise. So that would be the case regardless of any illness.
I'm a zoomer and I've been thinking about shooting amateur pornos (mostly POV) with women from my area/region/city. For example, I would pay women a certain amount upfront just for agreeing to do this, then I would sell the video to any adult who wants it. I would then give the woman a cut of the video's sale. To establish trust with her though, I could offer to make her be the one to exclusively own and/or sell the video, and have her be the one to give me my cut. I can also not record their faces if they don't want it recorded. Maybe if I frame this whole arrangement as something "on their terms" or "empowering" maybe that would be enticing for them. I can even offer her more or raise the price of the video if I don't wear a condom. I was thinking about finding these women through dating apps, Instagram or Snapchat. Any other ideas? What do you think? How should I go about this? Which kinds of girls should I contact for this? This has been a fantasy of mine. Everyone would be 18+ obviously.
>>34101264Spoken like a true KIKE Gatekeeper!
>>34101239You need to make connections (network) with people who already make porn. There are plenty of locations where it's illegal to make it.
>>34101239How are you gonna sell it? What's the business and profit gonna look likeAnd how are you filming, just POV cam in hand?Just sounds like those porn series where they cast on the street or something and sell for a quick buck, though it's fake and they probs do a contract etc beforehand then fake act as if it's just spontaneous. But like worse/less incentive because no established structure set up
Hitting up random normalfags is a bit tricky if you aren't already hot, have money and are social. Best bet is to first just get some escorts to do it and build a portfolio and connections from there because whores know other whores. Once you get a bit of a following you'll be able to pull some actual naive amateurs or be able to manipulate someone.
>>34101239>I want to fuck whores but I want to earn money instead of payinggenius>I would sell the videoto whom? you do realize it's very hard to find morons/marks willing to pay for porn, don't you? it's the hard part in this, not the "convincing random sluts to get fucked on camera"on the topic of finding and convincing (coercing) women, you either have it in you or you don't.>How should I go about this? Which kinds of girls should I contact for this?if you have to ask here, you can forget about it altogether
In the past, I've been sexually intimate with women in the sex massage industry but I've never actually had penetrative intercourse. Even when given a choice to have sex, I limited it to sumata because I was afraid to impregnate a prostitute.I regret that now and I'm now courting a young catholic woman who is a virgin. I want to be honest with her but will my sexual history with sex workers ruin my chances with her even if I haven't actually had my penis inside a vagina?
>>34103620What the fuck is wrong with you retards. Are you guys thirdies in ultra conservative countries or some shit? In America even if you grew up in a jihadi household or an idk ultra conservative household none of you would be thinking this way. Holy fuck
I am a iPad kid (parents didn’t give a shit) who grew up on anime teaching hard work matters love is unconditional and life is worth living. Also I haven’t had any human contact beyond immediate family since I was a kid. Am I doomed?
