Is 28 too old to become a pro streamer
its like the jester dancing meme, but youre dancing in front of barely sapient teens, dancing a dance you hate
>>34456677We all dance like whores for someone for a paycheck
>>34456617Don't stream in hopes of becoming rich or famous. Only stream because you want to as a hobby, and any success you find is a bonus. My gf has streamed since pre-covid, and she barely has more than 100 concurrent viewers.
Do women actually lose interest because of what you do, or because you didn’t accidentally do the one thing they were hoping for without telling you?
>>34456057Typical incel asking the wrong questions. It's not about isolated things like what you did or didn't do. It's about what you represent in her life, or who you are in relation to her. Are you a winner or are you a loser compared to her? Do you make her feel good or do you make her feel bad?
>>34456057yeah, but most are very wide conceptsit always comes back to "i felt he didn't pay enough attention to me""he kept liking insta thot girls stories when I told him I didn't like that""I told him I didn't like him to drink every single weekend, he told me he was going to change but he never did"it's never stuff like "he cries during movies" or "he leaves the sit up"yes sometimes they say that but the "he leaves the sit up" is more like the straw that broke the camels' back, he was probably inconsiderate in many other regards, the sit became a symbol.same as "he cries for x reason", she probably thinks he's bottling his emotions and letting them out at weird timings (and girls don't like when guys bottle things up because they don't know when they're going to explode and what that explosion will look like)etc
>trying to apply reason to how women thinkishygddt
>>34456057Don't worry about that. Just make your move and see if it works. The desperate girls will take anything, but think if you want a desperate one.
>>34456057They lose interest because they’re not getting pregnant, which is their body telling them that you are infertile.
Do guys like chubby girls because l'm so insecure about it and I feel like everyone is so skinny
>>34453132this nigga won't make it
>>34454289Yes, you're their number one option
>>34455449this is such a fake bad baitand yet look at how many replies it gotthis place is beyond saving
>>34456418its 4chan what do you expect
>>34456752More like these>>34455555
I met this milf, 10 years older than me, on a dating app almost 2 weeks ago. Instantly we set up a date for the upcoming saturday and since then we've been texting.We texted quite a bit, not super lengh messages, not hours of texting, but still. Some jokes, some flirty messages were shared, etc.But since last weekend, especially since sunday she started being super reserved in her messages. She reads mine sometimes and leaves me on read.I was unsure so I asked her outright - 'are we still up for saturday?', she said 'of course'. We talked logistics, she said 'I'm gonna have to wash my hair after work before our date'.So she indicated we are still on, it's a 'date' in her eyes, but even since then she read some messages from me (some light jokes about her work) and didn't respond.IDK what to think about this.
Busy People, Busy Lives my guy. Keep sending memes and such as you have so she knows you're on her mind.Worst case, you're gonna get stood up, and if that happens, you move on, best case, you don't get stood up and have a lovely time and maybe end up with her making breakfast.
>>34454109>Keep sending memes and such as you have so she knows you're on her mind.That's the problem. I'm one of those people who don't like to beg for attention like that. I require similar levels of interest.IF she told me 'we have a date set up, let's leave the talking for that day', I'd be fine with it.So I don't know, should I ask her why she's not responding and if she just wants to wait until saturday?I know for a fact, she isn't any more busy recently compared to what she had on her head in previous weeks.
>>34454113Some may see it as begging for attention, for some it's showing that you care, that's one of those things that the action can be seen as either way. If that's not how you wanna run, then by all means don't run that way.If you can handle it, why not give a going silent a try, and maybe even diversifying your options, clearly she won't be the only MILF or pretty thing out there.As for when to ask, if she shows up for the date is probably the best or before you two separate from the date maybe the most ideal. Obviously the answer becomes clear if she backs out or doesn't even show up, right?
>OP wants to date his phone instead of a womanlmao
>>34454113Are you not a busy person? Do you prefer milfs that much that you would be willing to not text as much generally? Perhaps someone closer to your age and more technologically friendly would be better suited? What do you think you could offer this person that they would continue to talk to you?
Hello everyone,So I am an American guy with a decently well paying job who is able to travel and work overseas. I am living in the Philippines where I have lived fir 4 years, and been married to my filipina wife for 3 years.My wife has a cuckquean fetish and desperately wants to watch me rail another Asian girl while she watches, she is even considering making this a regular thing with 'no strings attached' at first I was suspicious that this was a trap, but she has been persistent about it for months now and I think she genuinely wants this.Now for part 2. She has a handful of female neices and cousins that live in our house together and work as maids, I am to a small degree financially supporting almost everyone in her filipino clan. I genuinely enjoy their company, but some of the younger maids in the house are surprisingly hot and range from about 19-26 in age.There is one in particular, 24, who I am kind of getting a thing fir, she has big boobs for an Asian. Anyways, I am just wondering if my wife really wants to see me with another woman, but wants it to be 'no strings attached' is it better or worse to keep it in the clan? Will this be better because I am already supporting her and we know and trust her? Or worse because it might cause inter-clan drama?I have asked thus same question on Reddit but they just said some garbage about 'colonial mentaility' and 'patriarchy' and told me to seek advice on polyamory subs, which is degenerate and gay as fuck, I am not some vile luck, I just want to do what is best fir my clan that I care about deeply.Can /adv/ please give me some advice?
>>34454229>>34454219I don't like the sounda this. Smells fishy, man. I mean at the end of the day you do what you want, but I can't shake the feeling there's something odd going on here, doesn't seem like normal behavior. Being so persistent about it also makes it worse.It's usually not a good idea to go looking for headaches.
>>34454345because her vagina is loose, just get a different cousin or a random filipina
>>34454478I mean we are planning to try out the random filipina thing this weekend, so that might work, but their is a part of me that really enjoys 'ownership' and having her in the house fir so long make me feel like she is my property so now I want her.
>>34454442I understand what you mean, but is there any advice you could give on how to do this the right way?
>>34454703You don't do it you idiot. not him, even if your wife is 100% on board the entire way. You will effect how you feel about your marriage wit this. You don't start fucking other people and not walk away without a pyschological difference. Legit low IQ.You are about to change how you feel about your wife subconsciously. But your on here trying to justify a way to do it anyway, so you don't really take your marriage that seriously anyway.
I have premature ejaculation. It is part of the reason why my last girlfriend left me (part, not the sole reason). I'm now trying to solve it, but as with any exercise program, progress is slow.In addition to it, though, I seem to have developed an anxiety or complex about sex. My libido is never insane anymore, my erections take time to come when I decide masturbate (3-5 min) (though it's rock hard and doesn't falter during masturbation), and most importantly I don't feel worthy of love and sex until I can fuck like a normal person.It has the unfortunate consequence of making myself aware and dismayed at my shit performance, even if it has improved slightly. I'm not even having sex and disappointing anyone right now, but still it lives rent-free in my head.How do I stop thinking about it and eradicate this inferiority complex, so I can pursue improved performance without self-judgement.
>>34456687I'm 26.>>34456694Not cut. I know the reason behind it and I am working on fixing it, but this whole thing has taken a toll on my sense of self-worth. Normal people don't have to spend months trying to fix themselves so women don't, and I quote, "dread having sex" with them.
>>34456714checks out, combined with depression, my morning wood is also close to none, random boners basically not happening either, that started happening after 23+i had premature ejaculation because i was always mentally too horny and putting my dick in a pussy just pushed me over the edge, but nowadays its just blunt, you will also get comfortable if you sleep with the same women, you both know what you like, whats angles are too sensitive etc., lifehack - changing positions will help you delay imminent cumming, you can even work her with your hand for a bitit gets better with vitamins like zinc and C, proper sleep, hydratation and taking care of your body in general, but a lot of it is because of mind, of course condoms help too
>>34456719Thing is, I acquired PE after LDRing for a while. In other words, my stamina decreased despite knowing her spots and my spots. I wasn't a stallion prior to that, but I could at least control it and thrust for 5 minutes without cumming. That's why I think it can be trained away.I don't think I'm depressed, I just have anxiety around sex because of bad experiences.I guess I could try some supplements and see if I feel any different. My diet is okay. Should I visit a doctor before starting any supplements?
>>34453961I had a terrible breakup and my dick didn't work for a while, I ended up taking dick pills (viagra, then switched to the imo superior cialis) I got from the internet until I started to get my mojo back and I weened off the pills. The PE, try wearing a condom if that will help, I have a hard time lasting going raw but a dinger helps me last much longer, even if it's a turnoff.Honestly though your issues sound kind of deep, it might be worth seeing a therapist.
>>34456732My PE is with a condom, although I recently discovered (and this will sound like a humblebrag) that the condoms I own are too tight. Like I was close to cumming, rubbered up to try out something not important, and immediate came without any stimulus. So next time I'm in a relationship I'll have bought some looser ones.I might see someone professional. As I said in the above post, I don't think I have depression or anything.
For a while now I have gone on and off of interacting with my hobbies. This is not a case of having a tough week at work and simply needing rest. These periods last a long time, months. During which I am basically subject to acting on many impulses. I doomscroll, randomly DM most people on my friend's list, mindlessly edge when not horny, watch Youtube videos I dont have interest in and constant check tab after tab, refresh feed after feedThis sort of mindset just sticks for months on end and I do not know the cause of it. Even at work, I have my own office and kind of schedule my own work. I would spend so many hours, literal hours, just scrolling on my phone putting work off. But randomly 2 weeks ago I stopped and caught up with things and am doing them in a timely manner. Because my phone is in my pocket / to the side. So I guess the cause is just...my phone / social media I just feel like this should be the real me but it never is for long. I cannot tell if I am awakened or if this is yet another fad. It will pass, and I will regress back.I have major feelings of insecurity right now about what causes myself to be productive / focused / and generally more, well, alive - is it random cycles or caused by my actions.Can I act in a certain way to curtail certain behavior, rather than try and forcefully do the desired behavior. Through habits can I subliminally coerce myself....if that even makes senseLast September - November i was consistently good, great, best ever in fact.....and then I stopped. It seems random.It's odd all of this started at the same time, being productive at work, dieting, and now this- but i dont believe it is seasonal, just cyclical.
>>34455090Well, just say that, then.The last one wasn't even a yes or no question.>apple or pears, pick one>nah bro, I'm normal fr fr
>>34455112i ignored it because it was weird and i dont see how it relates
>>34455136Fine. Have fun living in zombie land.
>>34455150So what’s the diagnosis doc or are you just gonna be a faggot
>>34455239Kek
hello, apologies for another thread of this kind. I became interested in a girl when I was at the climbing gym with my friend (m) she with hers (f). we were climbing next to each other or taking turns on the same walls for ~30 minutes. after I said goodbye to my friend and got my route, I noticed she and her friend got on the same tram and later only she got on the same bus as her (it goes out of the big city). I am 100% sure we were both aware of each other. I want to know, what to do next time, if I ever see her.
>>34456632*she got on the same bus as meapologies
>>34456632>I am 100% sure we were both aware of each other.You absolutely were. She was thinking, "Ew, is that the creepy guy from earlier? I hope he didn't notice me..."
>>34456690I have had many positive experiences with women in my life never pulled through due to my own mental inablities. I get attention from women and get called atractive quite often.
>>34456632You say exactly what you wrote here, but to them.>Hi person>I became interested in you when I was at the climbing gym with my friend and you with yours >We were climbing next to each other taking turns for 30 minutes >After I said goodbye to mt friend and got my route noticed you and your friend got in the same tram and later only you got on the same busd fnsjejcndjf>You're a hot girl so I want to have something with you or get over you>Anyway, bye I guess, sorry I'm a faggot retard sorry not sorry smell ya later
22 years KHHV. Is it over for me? Will I still be able to experience young love? What can I do?
>>3445541140 yo khhv here. no.
>>34455477No what?
>>34455511just no.
>>34455576But the first two questions if answered no contradict each other, and it isn't an intelligible answer to the third.
>>34455759definitely no.
I just applied for a low tier wagie job (some european groceries chain, think WalMart) and my throat is dry and I'm shiddin' and bissin' myself after NEETing for 6 years intermittently.Despite being a pussy that gets scared at something that everyone else does on the daily I wanna believe this is going to start getting me out of my rut (I'm 29).Anything you can tell me to prepare myself in case they do take me? For an interview at the least, whether they'll actually hire me remains to be seen. I have pretty much no working experience
Stop the showboating and just do the job the best you can.
>>34448322Gaping hole in resume? Just tell them that you have personal reasons for it. It's a grocery store, they ain't going to be picky. As long as you're not a criminal, and sometimes even if you are, they'll hire you.
>>34448749Customer facing didn't make me more normal, but sales and customer service did. Part of training was learning empathy and making sure we're nice. If you treat other people like they are a customer, and actually have a desire to be nicer, you eventually just start being nicer. I was talking for probably 6 hours a day with 1 hour for 2 15 minute breaks and a 30 minute lunch and that other hour probably spent between calls over the course of the day. When you talk that much, talking just gets easier. I struggle with small talk though.As far as saying something awkward. The only one who remembers it is you usually. Think about how many people you've ever known and how many of those people have said or done an awkward thing that you still remember. There may be people you remember who did stuff that you didn't like, but just awkwardness? Who cares? And if you remember something awkward about someone, do you still even know that person?
explain gaping holeyou>cared for your elderly grandparents, they needed help>you were abroad traveling, meeting family abroad and living w them for 6 years helping them construct a house>you had health issues and couldnt work (50/50 gamble, they are not allowed to ask but can drop you becaus e no1 wants a tardo who doesnt show up to work lmao)idk be creative>t. neeting for 8,5 years now, probably not going to chance that anytime soon
status report
I'm a guy over 40 yeah i'm probably a loser because i'm still single and have other problems like dealing with an elderly sick parent, but I've done some cool stuff in my life and recently getting in really good shape lost over 50 lbs and quit drinking in the past year. Joined a dating app and my only match is picrel a scammer using an onlyfans hoe's pic. Is it over for me? There were women older than me there but I guess they don't want to date unc either. I'm just thinking a lot about my dead girlfriend dead cat and dead dog... the dog really was sad to lose. I guess i'll just buy some concert tickets and see what happens and just go alone or take a friend if no real ladies exist. What am I supposed to do to meet women sober at my age?
>>34456511Did your girlfriend die
>>34456538yes DED. It was a few years ago but I have been on only one date since which was also a few years ago.
I just earned my GED at 18 after being a shut-in high school dropout since aged 14. How do I celebrate? I told myself I'd make a dating app profile to try and find sex if I pass but now that I did I don't have the confidence to.
Go to community college to study something you enjoy for cheap, there will be women your age there too
I am 21I have never really had a friend in my life. After first meeting people talking then exchanging contact information, I end up never talking to them again. I can't think of anything I could say to them to continue the relationship. Social anxiety may be the cause but I don't feel anxious around strangers. I'm not really sad about that any more I've leaned to be happy enough by myself and I talk to strangers every so often to fulfil social needs. I just feel like I'm missing out because most people have friends and they seem to enjoy being around them. Being a friend would nice I think need to lean how to stay in contact and text people to make friends. I think being able to read lots of peoples messages between their friends would help, but I couldn't find anything like that.Any advice is appreciated :)
>>34455271Did you have some specific activity to do when you were with these people? Or did you just exchange information and then wait for them to call you?Trust in people that are at first strangers develops slowly over time and you need a specific reason to get together. This is why people have clubs and activity groups. It’s the best way to get to know other people. No one is going to hang around with another stranger for no reason.
>>34455513>No one is going to hang around with another stranger for no reason.Now that you say it. I'm a bit retarded>need a specific reason to get togetherI don't do activities with people. don't really have any interests, I only go on trips to places because it's supposed to be healthy and so my family doesn't think I'm depressed when I talk to them. Clubs/activity groups have always felt awkward to me because it feels like paying for friends. This is prob a personality issue of mine that I have improve. It seems like my main problem is lack of interests. How do you develop interest when everything I do feels so boring?
dear a (if (you) know (you) know)i've always been so afraid to tell you how i really feel. i try my best to be honest and all of that but it's really hard to get it all out and say it without being scared or dumb. i love you in a way that's really confusing to me. it's confusing because i love you in a lot of different ways. it feels like you're my family, and it also feels like i'm IN love with you. i also feel really evil for loving you. i've always had problems with throwing people away. i'm really sentimental until i get tired of something and then i can just throw it into the trash. i guess i tried to feel that way about you, too, but i couldn't do it. something kept bringing my mind or my body back to you. the truth is i'm just afraid and i think you always knew that, it's like you knew me more than my mom or my brother or anyone and i didn't know how and that kind of scared me really bad too. i really appreciate everything you did for me and the person that you are and i always have the feeling we'll end up coming back to each other somehow again and again no matter what. thanks for letting me be me and try to work myself outhope you're doing well
I leave the lights on for you
>>34458196Because you are great big pussy
What's wrong? Did you read this whole thread over and feel guilt? Was it something I said
you just love hurting me don't you
How do I prevent myself from getting an erection when in the presence of a sexy girl?I know this may sound like a ridiculous question but I want to be able to have this ability in times when I don't want an erection.
Take SSRIs
>>34451173Ummm.......................................................................................................................................................................................................................... No.
>>34445576Erection good
>>34455395Yes!
>>34445576Pinch your own skin with your nails, extremely forcefully.
