In regards to relationships. Not in the sense of "I want kids", but "I only want a lifelong partner". I would never want to pass on my DNA.Even when a girl literally ASKS me out, I always chicken shit out because I'm like "it won't work because y and z and we will break up eventually". But I just drank tonight, at a bar that had only men and I'm still drunk right now and I'm going "DAMN ITD BE FUN TO HAVE A GIRLFRIEND I SHOULDVE GONE TO A BAR WHERE ALL THE GIRLS GO". How do I make myself want relationships even if I can predict it might end in a breakup?
i understand this feeling but unfortunately life is spontaneous and random and retarded and you never know
>>34277412Should I take a screenshot of your reply and look at it when I need to? I know when I'm sober again I'm just gonna be back in clean boy soldier "lock in" mode, treating everyday occurrences like prison.
Has anyone here had DP/DR(depersonalisation/derealisation) major depression so bad you lost all positive feelings and just feel tired constantly?Im trying to get over it but its taken years to get to a state where i can feel arousal SOMETIMES...how do i get all my feelings back?Im taking vitamins and minerals and stuff, ive been trying to relax and not care, i still feel like shit
Do women actually like being approached in public? Yes or no?
>>34276747I'm not an incel.If you think that most women want to be approached by random dudes while just going about their day, you have a screw loose.
Depends on your looksNo matter how it's framed as a matter of principle and morally wrong, it only is until some rando she thinks is hot approaches her and it suddenly isn't. You'd like being approached by a cute girl, right? It goes both ways. Obviously it can be suspect, no such thing as a free lunch after all. Women are similar, but are also more likely to be in a position of vulnerability than men and need to be more selective of their partners due to greater risks. It's more socially beneficial to frame it as it being an inherently wrong thing to do, as saying "He was hot, confident, and showed interest in me so I went with this stranger" gives off an impression of shallowness they don't want to give.
>>34276292they do, specially in crime ridden shitholes
>>34276224Depends on how you look, your country's culture, and where you approach her
>>34276747He's not wrong though. Cold approaches are more likely to work if you are a rich chad.
I'm in love with someone on reddit but their post history is private. I used to be able to do the search space bar trick but it got patched I think. Any other way I can see users post history and subs they post on and shiett
stop being obsessed mate, move on w ur life
i noticed a tear a few days ago that barely hurt but now it wont stop bleeding and it hurts so badly i cant pull down my foreskin to pee
Why are you going to 4chan about this and not seeing a doctor?
>>34276794why the fuck would i spend money on seeing a doctor for cut skin
>>34277324>cut skin>hurts so badly>wont stop bleeding>trouble peeing >omg I no need dawktwahlmao @ this retarded niggaYOU FUCKING IDIOT GO SEE A DOCTOR BEFORE YOU END UP WITH AN AMPUTATED PENIS AND BECOME A TRANNY
How do I not feel bad or after having conversations with someone? Like, I always feel disappointed or unsatisfied after most conversations and I dislike talking.
>>34276763You must be an introvert
I don’t know why women always ignore me. Whenever I try talking to they just ignore me. I don’t thinks it’s because I really ugly since most people rate me a 5/10. Also I am into fashion so I don’t think it’s because I can’t dress. I think my appearance is ok or at least if you saw me you would be able to talk to me. But for some reason I can’t get a love life even if I tried. I keep lowering and lowering my standards but even then no women talk to me. All I want is for them to acknowledge my existence and talk to me. I have never really had a female friend and I would be happy with just that. Please feel free to ask me questions about me and I will try my best to answer. I just want advice on how I can improve myself.
It’s not anything personal, if people don’t want to talk they won’t talk. It’s not always about what you want at that moment.
I do try talking to them but like I said they just brush me off or ignore me
prob because your penis is the size of a grade schoolers desu.
>>34277139If they don’t feel like talking they won’t
Wanting and getting are two different things unfortunately. The latter no human has control over.
I just want to start a little business. Make some money on the side. sell some weed. Or shrooms or Ketamine or cocaine. Ideally to middle class clients and above.How do I start?
network with the idea that everyone is a potential client. talk to the people you know who use and meet their dealer, then their dealers dealer to secure a solid source for one of them, network network network for sources for other substances. if you want to take the risk in the first place id suggest not fucking around with small amounts. weed is consistent but you need to move a bit. shrooms have a good profit margin, so does ketamine. id stay away from cocaine. middle class clients get good coke and if you step on toes youll know it with cocaine. its not as easy as you may think.
You either become the 'loser' archetype of drug dealer or the 'gangster' archetype.
>>34276869I only wish death for coke heads, way of the disco if you would.
Is it actually possible for a 4chan poster to live a happy life with a wife/kids? I ask because I was a fake normalfags for years due to deugs/alcohol and managed to fake my way till a gf/sex/friends but I always got found out eventually. So is it possible for is to have a social life or should we just settle for posting on 4chan until we die?
>>34276887Tons of millennial fakecels have kids and a wife/husband and still post here
>>34276897But how?
>>34276887I have a family but this is better.
>>34277034how?
>>34277064Try. Look outwards, not here.There isn't anything helpful for you here, truly; it is action that alters situations. You need to go hunting, not tending the garden anon.
I don’t like myself very much
>>34273897Same
Me neither. To be honest I hope one day I have one epileptic attack so strong that kills me for real. I'm epileptic and I read long time ago that these attacks exists.
>>34273863I don't like you at all
>>34273863This is not an advice thread
>>34273863same
how can we become not retarded if I am too retarded to become not retarded?
>>34276772We? Speak for yourself, Retardo. You can stop watching poop dollar and epic fails and shopping on fb marketplace, then use the internet to learn stuff and go out in the world and practice it. There are also plenty of good books but I would not expect you to read. There is no reason to make things difficult. Learn how to get money and you can get away with a lot of stupid.
How do I feel things again?
why would you want that
>>34275160One day the issues that plague me will be gone, and I will be ready to return to society.
>>34275248Would you be ready to accept the pain that produces returning to society and all it's consequences? it's not that easyI have been in your situation and it's more easy that way. There's nothing good out there. Well, maybe for you there is, I hope so.
Coc
>>34275008Hi PeteWhat's taking so long?
Why am I losing interest in my bf (fiance) when he works hard, does everything right and never cheats?I feel like utter shit for this
>>34270232are you sure he is doing everything right? is there nothing missing (not material) in your life? why did you accept his proposal and how long has it been?
How warlike is he? Does his DNA really give him a chance at long term survival? Do you think he'd have been one of Hitler's top soldiers?
do not marry someone you don't like bit he is probably...well...boring.Two things women hate: men who are boring and men who are broke
>>34276540And boys with small dicks
Your uterus has noticed that despite all the eggs it has hosted in his presence, he hasn't impregnated you yet. Thus your uterus assumes that this means he is infertile. Your womb is sending your brain the chemical signal of 'this guy is a loser, find someone else'.The honeymoon phase exists to get you pregnant. If you're not pregnant by the end of it, your reproductive organs hormones basically try to hypnotize into believing you have to move on.
Advice please? Been rekindeling things with ex girlfriend. She's trying to get out of a current relationship with someone who compulsively lies and sneaks out to cheat on her. This person keeps manipulating her to pull her back in everyone she gets fed up with the bulls hit. How to break the cycle? She doesn't deserve this, I care about her.
The moon only has eyes for the sun. Everything else doesn't matter
>>34274490In English please? It's late im tired
>>34274496My Maria chooses me
>>34274483>She's trying to get out of a current relationship with someone who compulsively lies and sneaks out to cheat on her. This person keeps manipulating her to pull her back in everyone she gets fed up with the bulls hit.Kek, translating this from womanese:"This guy treats me like shit and fucks me good with his big dick which keeps me hooked to him like a junkie on meth. I have assigned you the role of emotional tampon for the occasional female post nut clarity I get after the daily pussy ravaging he gives me".tl;dr she DOES deserve this, you should NOT care about her, and you sure as hell should not rekindle anything with her.
>>34276625Except for the cock was tiny, it was an emotional bond, but that's over down
I'm involved in an unusual situation and don't know what to doI go to this gym 3 times a week and i'll frequently see this one woman there whenever i'm there. She talked to me once but I could tell she was disinterested and I found her boring, so I decided to not speak to her again. Outside the gym, I happened to see her at the grocery store I frequently go to and I avoided her, paid and left. Fast forward to last week when I happened to see her again at the same grocery store and I again avoided her and left after paying. I get an email from the gym saying I have been reported for "stalking" and making her feel "uneasy." What the fuck? I don't know this girl. I coincidentally see her two times outside the gym and her reaction is to notify the gym? This doesn't even make sense. The gym has no control of what happens to their clients outside of their premises The manager pulled me aside and told me this will go on my record and that if I do it again i'll be banned and have the police called. They refused to confirm it was her but I know it is. I haven't fucking done anything. I go to the gym to workout and leave. How are they taking her side? She seems legitimately nuts
"Stalking" used to mean someone visiting your house and throwing a brick through your window. It's a deliberately threatening activity meant to intimidate or harass someone. Stumbling upon someone by accident multiple times is NOT stalking.Now, thanks to feminism, almost anything can be considered "stalking" if a woman decides she doesn't feel comfortable. It's very, very common for men to be accused of this when they haven't done anything wrong.You can't afford to be charged with stalking, either. Even without a conviction, any background check will automatically flag you if the word "stalking" appears even once in public court records tied to your name. You're basically screwed and need to do whatever you can to not allow this to escalate further. DO NOT allow a police report to be filed, because if they decide to charge you, you are FUCKED in a way that even the best lawyer can't fix.As a man, you're guilty until proven innocent. Welcome to 2026.
>>34275498You could try explaining the situation to the girl, but if she insists on accusing you of stalking, you may be unable to do anything.Because of feminism foids can literally lie for revenge purposes towards a man and still be believed.
>>34275504this doesn't seem like bait. it's quite believable, actually. is this woman attractive? do other men chat her up? if so, she may be annoyed that you aren't pursuing her, kind of like "every other douchebag talks to me but not him. fuck him" idk I could be wrong but if her ego was hurt then she may be vindictive
>>34275498tell him that she is the one who stalked you and followed you home. Give him 1 week time to ban her from the gym or else you will report him to the police for cooperating with a stalker schizo bitch
>>34275846Should have said that to the gym manager in the first conversation. Unfortunately it's too late now.
