Alternatively, how do I know if I made it?I'm the standard high school loser, late bloomer, decided to take schooler's advice after a whole of NEETdom and the crushing loneliness that comes with it. I've been working out, I am well read, I speak my mind and successfully created this "persona" who is extroverted, talkative, funny and undeniably attractive (as women have flirted with me and I am even having a fling). But then there's this psychology class where you need to talk about yourself, and people have told me (men and women alike) that their first impression was that I was a nerd. This really stuck with me. Am I simply doomed? Have I been marked? There's nothing that screams "nerd" about me. There is about the soft spoken dude who wear a checkered jacket, a Skyrim t-shirt and loves talking about AI, League and anime. THAT GUY is a nerd. And we're definitely not the same.(Afterwards, the people who said that corrected themselves, said they meant I looked "smart". Well if they meant it they'd say "smart, not "nerd", so there's that. Felt like it was worth mentioning.)
>>31070847Not sure why you'd want to be one
How can i improve my looks? 23 year old male get no attention from women also 5'7
DUDE DO YOU EVEN HAVE A RED GLOW TO YOUR SKIN?? AND YOU LOOK DEAD AND GLAZED LIKE A FUCKING DONUT. IN FACT, YOU ARE JUST A FUCKING JELLY DONUT TO ME. AND YOU'RE 5'8
>>31058232get a fadeyour hair looks messy and fucked up
>>31063171wait a second
>>31067362Not a timestamp with you in the shot or proof. A guy posting mirror selfies could easily have a collection of several saved up from someone's postings online. My guess is you found some musclenerd online and are just larping as him with the pics. Loser
>>31058232grow your hair out a bit so you can actually have a hairstylewear less graysmile
30 year old robot. Been in love with one of my best friends since we met freshman year of high school, September 2008. She's never returned the feelings. I asked her out four times over the years. The first time was a few months after we met, the most recent was Valentine's Day 2021. I dated a few girls throughout the years but always ended the relationships because my heart was never able to leave my best friend. We've always been inseparable. We took all our classes during both high school and college and were even roommates during the latter.I decided that I'm going to start working out. If I'm muscular and well-built, she will definitely fall for me. No girls can resist an athletic, musclebound guy. I've never been this excited! Any advice for how to build muscle faster? I plan to ask her out again, successfully this time, before the year's end.
>>31070804theres plenty of fish in the sea. this fish has stated multiple times that she is not interested in you in that way. you should respect her boundaries dude.by all means work out and get fit but you should do it for the right reasons.
>>31070837It's not harassment if it's one time per every several years, and it's good to check in sometimes because feelings can change
I noticed sometimes at the grocery store self-checkout other men will come up to the one next to me and try to rush, seemingly to get done and leave before me, even though I'm a random stranger.I always respond by going extra slow, and refusing to participate in that retarded shit.But is it possible it's all in my head and they're just in a regular hurry? My instinct told me they were intentionally trying to race me. Pic related, most of the people look like that, e.g. fat and bald.
>>31065715Meds. They're racing to leave and get out of other people's way. You're delusional and making yourself a public nuisance over nothing.
>>31065715Probably in your head.I'm always speedy because I hate shopping and if I'm faster I can leave earlier. Also, nothing sucks more than slow fags when there is a line
>>31065715damn i'm gonna go extra fast now so all the slow niggas think i'm racing them
>>31069215Okay, what will be your secret technique.
>>31068363Yeah F self checkout.
So, after years watching trans porn I finally decided to give it a try and hired an escort. She was fairly feminine, she sucked my dick, then I ate her ass and sucked her dick for like 2 minutes and didn't enjoy it so much, so I fucked her up the ass (with a condom) and I came.Now here is the thing: I have NEVER cummed from penetration alone with any other cis woman. This made me feel a little fucked up, because why the hell am I only able to cum from fucking a trans? I mean, I never fucked a cis woman's asshole before, but I have never managed to cum from fucking a pussy. After the sex I felt kind of sad and repulsed by myself and by her. I waited for her uber to arrive and it felt like an eternity. I feel dirty and I am worrying over having contracted HIV even though I used a condom. Why am I not feeling well? I have jerked off to this kind of shit for years and now I feel empty.
>>31064431I did the same thing with a man, except he fucked me. I had this fantasy since my teen years and decided to act upon it in my mid 20's because I thought I was gay.I still cringe thinking about it almost 10 years on, turns out I wasn't.
>>31067660>Dating and access to sex is very lopsided in favor of Chads in the modern society. Majority of men do not get laid properly, feel the pressure to do so from the society and their own libido, and under the pressure yield to faggotry as a form of release. That's how I think it works at least.I think this is probably one of the best points made that I've seen in regards to trans sex. Men still have the desire to fuck, and they will find a way to fuck regardless if women are available or not.
>>31064638>>31067660Kinda glad my fetish is mother incest because I genuinely do not want to fuck my actual birth mother.Although I am desiring a separate woman from an SO who can be a mother to me that I can commit incest with. So idk if I will still lose that something by making that fantasy real through loopholes.
>>31064431Nigga u gay
>>31064431>eating da poo pooR E P E N Thttps://www.brighteon.com/3260c0c4-070c-4b6f-96c0-e65725407833
pre gf has been complaining that i dont take her out on dates. so i was thinking about taking her to long john silver tomorrow. is that okay for dates?
>>31070239Climb to the top of one of the towers that hold up a large suspension bridge. Fantastic view and a risky adventure.
>>31070239Long John Silver's chicken is unironically the worst shit I ever tasted in my life.
>>31070239epic fish date KEK
>>31070239Sounds like she’s been waiting so here’s my quick advice as a woman>You can never fail with pasta.Go to an Italian restaurant, doesn’t have to be fancy, most of them look nice >At home you might wanna give her some candy she likes with a cursi note. Doesn’t have to say much, just show you care.>Sex only if she seems like it. It’s nice to be apreciated without it (idk how abt your sex life but yeah) also you can do it any other day
>>31070239Olive gaurdian, macaroni grill, carabas, cheesecake factory, cracker barrel, and red lobstersThese restraunts are good because they pretend to be fancy but are not
Even coming out the other side believing the societal consensus (or rather, the requirement that no one should object) is 100% correct (not true in my case), just having a more nuanced understanding of the subject is a huge social liability. What if you want to live in a cosmopolitan community and have diverse friends? I don’t want to mask my views for the rest of my life. Can I? It doesn’t help that I have OCD. I secretly yearn for the day this stuff is considered proven and enters the mainstream so that society will reconcile itself with it, and so that this will no longer be an issue for me, even if it means the collapse of society. Any /adv/ice?
>>31070314Okay, that’s good advice, I guess. Thanks.
have sex
>>31070636ok bend over
>>31069678Once you pierce the veil you can't un-pierce it. You are on the path to full 1488, it's just how it goes. That said, you absolutely can have "diverse friends", as you can treat them like individual human beings. If they are good people their race doesn't really matter in their interactions with you, right? Unless they're black and you get in a fight with another black, they will absolutely not side with you.
>>31069678just do what you're told, you're notcut out for full sentient livinghttps://odysee.com/@Realfake_Newsource:9/RFNS-1.21-001-010:7
For context: My nose isn't stuffy, I just want to be able to breathe in oxygen so clearly and so purely, that I transport to another dimension, without the need of drugs. What should I use to achieve this goal?
>>31070242As for using breath to steer one's mind and body into relaxation, see picrel.
>>31070217I mean I kind of thought I had Anosmia but that's self-diagnosed, so it's not really that valid. Anyhow, it wouldn't hurt, to know some general advice about nose+breathing!
>>31070341You are not allowed to post Tomoko if you are not a real girl. A REAL one.
>>31070322Permanent broken nose
>>31070203I have chronic sinusitis it is hell. Take care of your nose so you don’t end up like me. I have to mouth breathe forever, the alternative is suffocating and brain damage
>do men expect sex when you’re in a relationship?>will the average man leave if I don’t have sex with them? I’m a cis girl, pretty sure I’m asexual. Is there anything I can do to maintain a sexless relationship with the average man or should I just stay alone forever?
>>31069832Plenty of men are willing to wait for sex—and these men factually have better marital outcomes than others.The issue is that she’s asexual, which is a total foreign concept to anyone who isn’t also asexual.
>>31070587both + CPTSD and DID (I am in constant suffering)
>>31070458my generation has difficulty with the straight definitions of words, they prefer to make up their own words instead. So you'll have great difficulty convincing them otherwise.
>>31069822Men also have mouths and hands.
>>31070564You're not kidding anyone, you're a bloke in a dress.
I (F19) am a straight mesophile-gerontophile (aka attracted to men over 40). I have a job at a place where there are no such people and am studying at university where I (obviously) can't have relationship with lecturers. I recently am finding out that I never really had a relationship in my entire life and at the same time rediscovering how much am I into older guys. So with that... Could you give me an advice on starting a friendship/relationship with a guy who is in his 40s? Where do I even meet those people in person and how to approach them?
>>31068261this is true, I'm 30 and seeing a 20 y/o and I get judged for it by my mates. at the start it pissed me off a little but now I couldn't care less
>>31067621
>>31067621At bars, usually drinking by themselves. At least that is what I do, although I don't look 40.
I'm a gerontophile too. I'd wait til you're a little older. For now try and go for guys who are younger but really mature, maybe dudes who just graduated and have a serious job.I didn't feel comfy fucking old dudes until I was 23 and had a career. Even then, those relationships were casual and secret. Dilfs aren't good boyfriends but they're a hot fuck.Don't get in an actual relationship and don't get groomed, PLEASE
>>31068261Speak for yourself, I want to be around 19 year old girls
I've been with my boyfriend for a year and the sex is the best I've ever had but I feel like it could be better. He's not good at foreplay or talking dirty, but he is good at the actual fucking. I'm not sure how to explain what I want. I want him to dominate me in a gentle sort of way I guess.My best idea is to get him to read an erotic novel but I think he'd laugh at me...
>>31070584Just tell him. Don't expect him to read your mind. Women always do this for some reason lol.
Just forget it. Men are fully incapable of turning a woman on. Use your fantasy, it us your only option.
>>31070605you sound fucking autistic as shit. Maybe you should do this so he can realize he'd be better off without you.Seriously stupid thread.Imagine if a guy was so autistic that he was making a thread like this, I fucking can't.Not in this dating environment, not in this world.You are retarded.
>>31070688More retarded than my boyfriend who doesn't get it?2 retards in love if u ask me.
>>31070688Women have no problems turning men on because they are not fucking selfish, so a man would not need to make such a thread.
>24>Still live with abusive momIt's over isn't it
>>31070244Plan a journey with Google Maps and either walk to the bus stop/train station or order a folding bicycle on the Internet to get there.
>>31070674Or just book a cab.
>>31070244You got a bus station, right?
>>31070194Also, if you buy a vehicle, especially a beater, then definitely join the automobile association or have insurance that includes roadside assistance.
Your mom can't abuse you if you're a 24-year-old man
This thread is going to read like a madman's ramblings. Sorry about that. I had oneitis for the first time in forever. I don't know what to do about it. >be me>24 years old>unironic phobia of talking to girls>possibly severely depressed for years but undiagnosed - 'you just need purpose!'>get invited to a graduate bootcamp>way out of my league>first year MA around fourth year PhDs>see an incredibly cute girl>whatisthisfeeling.jpg>things happen>power through all kinds of thoughts>establish contact, spend (minimal) time togetherComment too long. Click here to view the full text.
Bump.
>>31065416i wish you weren't a tripfag, kinda kills my mood to give you genuine advice... but you sound legit insane so let me help you.but only if you reply within 5 min so i know ur still lurking
I am.
Help me.
I'd give anything to be a normalfag.
>>31070567t. a looser loser
>>31070563I'm a normalfag. My IQ is one point below qualifying for the giga society. Try again, your cope is sad. Social awkwardness comes from a lack of social experience paired with the risk of social rejection and the long term consequences of that in a closed social dynamic. Or autism, autism also creates social awkwardness because autists aren't people. They're only partially made.
>>31070563Dunno, man. I scored 102 on the Mensa online IQ test. I know online tests aren't that reliable, but I must be really average or even below average. Besides, I have met a considerable amount of normalfags who were way more intelligent than me. Actually, I share most of my classes at uni with two of them, and both have better grades, better thinking and better social skills than me. And one of them is a fat faggot, to my surprise when I saw how intelligent and sociable he was.>>31070568Nooo! I'd never do something this cruel to my cat!
>>31070597Normalfags are not on 4chan. Nice try autism incel.
>>31070597>cope>giganot a normalfag nobody is falling for your larp
>>31066926It depends.Are you genuinely suicidal or just le sad?If you don't envisage that life will ever get any better, then embrace the void.
therapy is all u need
fent
>>31066926Physical activity and some contact sport worked for me.
become an adrenaline junkie
