This ones for the LADIES! This is a thread dedicated to women seeking men.
>>34086453>I'd say keeping is when he feels that his woman is on his side and supportive of what he wants.Strange. As a man I don't need much of that from the woman. I'm happy to fight my own battles and I don't require much support to chase what I want. Though when the woman does help, I don't fuss and graciously accept it. Just saying it's not a necessity for me and I presume a lot of men feel similar because men are problem solvers, and we generally prefer being the only problem solver in a relationship.Women are excellent problem seekers though. I don't mean that as a put-down either, their ability to find problems to verbalize (what retards call 'nagging') is extremely beneficial to the long term survival of a marriage or a family unit for example. Because problem solver gets to move more obstacles so long as woman tells him where they are.
>>34086587What you said isn't contrary. If your goal is long-term survival of a family unit you're going to want someone who agrees its a good idea and has a net positive contribution by nagging or whatever you're trying to say.
>>34086883Isn't that every woman? Going along and agreeing with whatever the man has to say?
>>34086907No. Same problem with food and sex. Following the consensus leads to long-term failure.
>>34086961Why would it lead to long term failure?
Hello Anons, I will preface this post by stating that I am a suicidal individual. Now, don't say because of this that I am looking for sympathy or attention, no that's not what I want and its not what I need.I am simply asking for good advice before I leave this planet, I want to help other people if possible, I want to be a decent human being. Many suicidal people I feel fall into the trap of being like, "fuck it, who cares what I say or do so, I might as well be as negative as I can before I go", kind of thing. This is the same logic that mass shooters use because they know they'll get away with the crimes because they know they are just going to kill themselves anyway.I want to use that logic but in the other direction, I want to give back to the world as much as I possibly can in positive ways. so tell me anons, what should I do?
For starter, sign to donate your organs after death and try not to kill yourself in a way that destroy your body. Then give all your possession/money to charity? Maybe do something to the person you did wrong a long time ago
>>34086823Suicide is the ultimate selfish act, whatever little thing you try to do before you die is gonna be a cope, the reality is your death will be a net negative to all of humanity, even if you think you are worthless while you are alive.Volunteer at a soup kitchen or local humane society, donate money to charities and your old clothes to the homeless, etc etc, if you really wanted to help people, you could. Just know that killing yourself is extremely selfish and don't lie to yourself about that.
>>34086840>try not to kill yourself in a way that destroy your body.Pretty much the only way to do that is to arrange for yourself to die in hospital of a head injury.
At what number should you start lying to women about your bodycount? Sluts like it if you have fucked a lot and even girls who try to do the humble gf act like the idea of experience and getting cumblasted.
>>34085299So I can tell her I have fucked hundreds of escorts?
Do what women do and generalize. If you don't obsess over numbers and she doesn't either you two might make a good match.
>>34082803you tell them you've had experiences and know a thing or two about sex and SHOW THEM what you know, you don't tell them how many girls you've fucked1 they like the mystery, they like when men are mysterious about some things, their past romantic life being one of them2. I've fucked over 150 girls and probably nearing 200 by now, I would never tell that to a girl, I belong to a class of men they'd never take seriously anymoreand thing is in between my manwhore episodes I do have formal faithful committed relationships. I think more than 75% of those relationships would have dumped me if they knew the exact number of girls I fucked before being with them, they just enjoyed the experience I got, didn't know the details.
>>34085344Yes. I mean if she asks.
"Does it really matter? More than a few, less than a lot."
So, for my christmas gift this year my GF, who likes to go on Etsy, got an anime picture commissioned of us done in the JoJo's art style. Problem is, it is very obviously AI and I'm positive she does not know this. Clearly her intentions were good because I like JoJo's a lot, but I'm wondering if I should tell her what it really is and to really be cautious about going on Etsy for things these days since it's been turning into Temu quality. I just don't want her to spend a bunch of money on more crap like that.
>>34086374I'd tell her. You just have to make sure you frame it right making AI and Etsy the villains instead of her making a mistake
>>34086374Plot twist: It was GF who used the AI to generate it, and the purchase never happened.
All I've wanted my entire life is love. However, I am>short>brown>fat>autistic>women usually grimace when they see meEven if a girl is being nice to me in college class or something, ehat would be the point pursuing her if she already has guys in other classes that look better than me doing the same thing? So why would she pick me? >inb4 personalityEven if I had one it would be negated by my several existing immutable negative traitsSo my question is how do I ignore this desire and focus on my life?
>>34083505I'll tell you what worked for me but you probably won't like it. I stopped being attracted to human women entirely because I enjoy furry porn way more than human porn. I can't say it's a good thing to be like this though. The woman I want literally doesn't exist, so it's easy for me to ignore human girls because I don't want them and I'm not attracted to them. It's kind of lonely though, not gonna lie
>>34083953Women are just a nice bonus.Happens pretty much automatically once you're ready.
>>34083505Instead of wanting "love", want kids
>>34083953>>34084015>women are le subhumanok but I don't want to be lonely>>34084113I'm a jogger, not a jeet>>34085173I can barely take care of myself, so no kids.
>>34085834why do you think a woman should be with you if you cant even take care of yourself? why would someone want to be your permanent sex doll and caretaker? being ugly is one thing, but being a lazy slob is another
Now, I can't say the same. I don't identify with normal people either.How do people like me end up?
You were dumber before. The internet isn't a substitute for friends
>>34086865>How do people like me end up?No clue, and you shouldn't care to ask the question. You get to decide where you end up by choosing what you do today.
i am 24 and have never had a boyfriend. i feel trapped inside my own head and don't know what to do. everything i try ends in failure. can someone please help me understand this? or how to fix it? i have awful luck and i feel like there is an invisible barrier stopping me from finding love. i am petrified of turning 25 and still being like this. i feel brain damaged and humiliated. i have tried:>hobby groups>dating apps>networking events >ask friends for anyone they know>cold approachesand nothing is fruitful. to be fair, i am a bit ugly. but i have my life together to the best of my ability- i'm employed, i'm social, im educated. i go on dates with guys, and they ghost me, or make fun of me, or say they're not ready for a relationship. i don't like begging guys to stay with me or coming across as desperate but i have been feeling myself do this more often recently. only one man in my entire life has "chased" me, but it was because i approached him. and then he dumped me anyway.i went to college during covid and i think it nuked my social life to an extreme degree. but at the end of the day, i know i am the only one at blame. everyone else is doing fine. how do i get there? Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>34085290>i wont stop but it felt like a failed hail maryThat's awesome, what was the activity? I don't think it's a failed hail Mary if you enjoyed it. It's not wrong to do something you enjoy that also lines up with your goals. For example, I suck at expressing myself with my body and with movement, so I joined salsa and bachata dance class, I also have a hard time touching and getting close to women. This helped with that. Idk how "ugly" you are but it seems like you understand us guys thanks to your position. We're basically all "ugly" by your definition, as in we don't get people interested in us and if somehow a date happens it goes terrible or they lost interest. Are you also autistic? Or ugly is the only downside you have going for you?
>>34085612yes its a dance classi dont think im autistic at least not severely so
nevermind im dsad again
>>34085578good for you
this is the worst christmas ever
>33>break up with girlfriend of 12 years>few months go by, time to get back in action lad>go on dating apps>99% of all women have dyed hair, tattoos, nose piercings with nothing but pictures of them at bars, weird gala expo things or eating food, most are also morbidly obese, absolutely hideous and clearly stupid as fuckWhat happened to all the nice thin homegirls with glasses and messy hair buns and ripped band shirts taking bathroom selfies? Where did the normal fucking girls go, man? We live in hell.
>>34086741>Girlfriend>Of 12 yearsI don't even have a vagina, I'm a man but if I did my hormonal rage would kick in and I'd fire eggs like bullets in pure outrage. Twelve fucking years and no diamond bruhhhh
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>33>break up with girlfriend of 12 yearsI'm sure you're going to do much better than a 21 yr old
>>34086749Yeah he wasted that woman's time and is now crying about it post wallYou weren't supposed to just waste time with a forever gf into your 30's what the fuck is wrong with op. And he has the audacity to be pissed the girls arent like when he was dating as a teenaged boy
- Be me- First time actually, writing something on 4chan- Wanting to emigrate from, where i am currently to South Korea- Wondering, if i'll leave... would my family report me, as missing/kidnapped?- Is it possible to "vanish" from your home country, if nothing is physically holding you here- Wanting to leave behind EVERYTHING, when the day of leaving comes- Not trusting anyone around me, including my own... family- Not wanting to live forever, in my home country- Would my family... discard me after i left the country, as if i... never existed?- Not (really) wanting to contact them, when i would be already in South Korea- Especially disliking, my own father (ex-alcohol addict)- Being on the autism spectrum- Getting yelled on by, my family... for nothing and everything- Last time having a girlfriend, she vanished... like a ghost- Wanting a gf that, actually sees something in meComment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>34086826>- Would my family... discard me after i left the country, as if i... never existed?Depends if the "yelling" is for good reasons like they care or not. Then again, any search will stop in your homecountry anyway and then have a report that say you are probably dead
>>34086826Why South Korea? Are you from there originally?
>>34086848No, I'm not from them. Hell, i i'm not even from Asia.why South Korea? Very far away, from my home country.... which, i want.
>>34086851It's a pretty harsh place to live. You will be working your ass off hard and you can forget about getting a girlfriend, you've seen marriage and fertility rate of that country?
>>34086858I'm not really moving there for, an easy life or relationships.Right now, distance matters more to me than comfort.If i wanted to... not leave at all, this plan would have never left my head.
How do I stop having a fetish for morbidly obese landwhales? I've had this ever since I was 13 and having sex (with both normal people and fats) just reinforced this obsession in me. I also masturbate almost exclusively to BBWs and SSBBWs. Help! I'm white, by the way, not black or brown.
>>34086381Why do you want to stop? Why not just get a fat gf?
You're complaining about a superpower. You have any idea how much harder skinny girls are?
Should I set this up for a few months or return it? How much do loft beds suck? I would just like to have a couple extra square feet for a while.
Make sure it supports your weight and is long enough for your height.
>>34086582they are very practical imho, but you'll never get a woman as long as you sleep in one
Went to a guy's room. No where to sit because its 80% bed. Nothing to do but Watch Netflix. Leave cus not relationship material.
>at a work christmas party>getting flirty with the ladies but not doing anything wildly inappropriate>next day>girl A sends me a photo of me that was taken from across the room sneakily>tells me that girl B took this photo>im slightly creeped but i respond jokingly:>"does girl B want me to autograph this for her lmao">no response from girl AAm i missing something here? Is girl B attracted to me or is she creeped out by me? Im seeing them both tmrw at work but idk if i should confront girl B or just ask girl A about it. Im pretty close with girl A, not as much with girl B but i was flirting pretty heavily with girl B the whole party, not sure how she might've taken it
>>34086683>Is girl B attracted to me or is she creeped out by meI will rule out the second one, you don't sneakily take picture of coworkers. Were you doing something bad? Talk to girl A for sure
>>34086787I told her that her eyes are very pretty a few times, and when we said goodbye i kissed her hand like picrel
>>34086806>i kissed her hand like picrelCould have been weird, nowadays none do that. but it was not a "I'm going to snap this pic and call him a weirdo" type of thing.
>>34086683Nah you should have laughed at it and said damn that's what I look like drunk and I think I will limit myself to x amount of drinks next time.
Girl A is more important than Girl B here.If Girl B showed you the photo, likely she didn't expect A to share it around to you
Beautiful women fill me with dread. Especially if she's older, intelligent, fun to be around, and fucking most definitely if she likes me. The more a woman shows interest in me, the more dread I feel. I can't stop thinking about her, I walk around all day barely paying attention to life. If she smiles at me I wanna kill myself. I think it's the hope, the hope that this time I'll finally grow some balls and ask her out. The hope that she might say yes, that we might end up together. The fear that she might say no, or that she might change her mind later. The fear that we'll fall in and then out of love. I dread dread dread all day, until eventually she either loses interest or I remove myself from her path. Whenever I cut a woman out of my life, I feel at peace again. Empty, depressed, lonely, yearnful... But at peace. I guess that just means I'm weak, insecure, and I can't handle the challenge, I can't handle life. I can't handle love.
Try to be happy being alone even if it is difficult. Let me tell you something that is beautiful that you can do alone. Go outside, go for a walk and see the beautiful winter environment you are in. Look at all the birds and wild animals flocking about, and be happy like them with their lives. You don't see them depressed or miserable for not finding a mate, you see them flocking around looking for a meal. You need to be like that. So right now grab your running shoes and go for a walk.
>>34086774But normies will tell you it's better to have loved and lost. Everyone pretty much knows the first 6 months of the relationship are the best, and everything afterwards is just work. But are those 6 months worth it? There's this woman, man I'm so in love with her I want to die. And the fact that she might like me too is just tearing me up. But every time I try to take things deeper, she'll say or do something and I reel back from anxiety. I just wish she'd spit in my face and tell me to fuck off. When I think about her my stomach hurts.
>>34086777You may not believe this but I spend most of my time walking. Got tired of vidya, got tired of the internet, and no real friends so... I walk. Usually for 3 to 5 hours at a time, just walking. Thinking. It doesn't help at all. I do appreciate the animals and the trees and especially the sky. I love the sky more than anything... Except the woman I'm yearning for. It just makes me feel more lonely.
>>34086786>But are those 6 months worth it?In my opinion, no. Every moment of pleasure or love that you experience turns into an equal amount of pain when you lose her. I honestly prefer just being even-keeled and not engaging in any emotional rollercoaster.>There's this woman, man I'm so in love with her I want to die. And the fact that she might like me too is just tearing me up.That's not a great situation. It's better if she loves you and you just like her. Meaning that she should be putting in more effort than you, or at least equal effort.I've done what you've done multiple times and it never worked out.
>>34086794Anon, you're not doing it enough okay. Keep trying to enjoy life alone. The moment you are at its peak you'll comfortably have conversations with women knowing you're okay no matter what happens, as opposed to these idiot NTs who get overly excited and freak out all the time.
I'm honestly scared of her, even if we have a 7 year agegap (she's 21) i somehow find her more mature at least superficially? And that stop me from trying to understand her more, she has like this perfect image of herself that stop me from even trying to get closer other than the formal "hi" "happy birthday"...
>>34086742Thats a lot better than my sister she got 10k off my mother for her lawyer fees when she had a divorce from her boyfriend and she told her to fuck off and threw dads funeral in her face. So at xmas I asked her did you apologize to mum and she threatened to leave I told her go ahead as you have to be at least that level of decency to be here. She left mum was upset but happy at the same time that someone stood up to her.
>>34086790>Also if she tells you something bad DO NOT tell your parents about it as this is her testing youTo be honest the problem is how to start, even how's your day will just get me a one word response, i'm a serious and not shy person overall if needed. I have no problem keeping things to myself, i would only discuss it with one online friend because she's helping me with this aswell
>>34086803Well if you want to test the waters do something like you had a beer at a friends and see if she tells your parents and if they find out tell them that you want to connect with your sister this is what will be difficult as you will feel embarrassed and even though it will be painful it will bridge the gap and make sure you tell your parents its a all made up about the alcohol now if your parents are the overprotective they will see it for a desperate connection.
>>34086748Yeah i agree it is weird same thing happened she was nice and boom a real pain in the ass it happened around when she was a teenager tho she became bi girl personality and she started shiting on me around those time to be honest she is not the brightest girl also i know she is fine because she has a big sister also hates me i haven't talked to them in a while when i moved 2 years ago it got worse i haven't talked to them in a while went back home for Christmas, new years stuff they are still the same i will just wait it out until they want a brother in there life.
>>34086814I mean, my parents are not in the picture at all, them and my sister have a whole different set of problems together, the whole game of telling or not our parents is not worth even trying. I'm an adult aswell, i can drink alcohol if i want to lol, she woulnd't care
So the title is pretty self explanatory. I am a 22 year old chad. I have no problem meeting women out and about and I’ve had a lot of success in talking with them. However I want more and no relationship feels fulfilling because I have such niche fetishes and I need them to feel fulfilled. Does anyone know a good place I could meet women who are into latex armor and short hair. I know it’s a long shot but I really want a woman who I can feel sexual satisfaction with. Any advice would be beneficial. Does anyone else have experience with my specific fetishes.
>>34086792fetlife.com
