>eat junk food and jerk off>want girlfriend and sex>eat healthy and dont jerk off>dont want girlfriendIsnt it supposed to be opposite? How do I fix this?
>>34457921Not really no. Girls are okay.
>>34458130that's the reason you're having problems getting a girl bro, the moment you rely on the opinion of anyone else but you to feel good with yourself is the moment you've lost the game of life.and girls don't wanna be with losers
>>34457921>eat healthy and dont jerk off>dont want girlfriendSame. I enjoy beign single and having the time and energy to work in my projects
>>34457921maybe you are actually gay
>>34457921Once you have a girlfriend you'll realize you don't need to have a girlfriend at all. You'll go back to your factory default of pre-teen phase where you didn't care jackshit about partner and relationships. Girls who ain't looking to be in a relationship being single is fine meanwhile if you're a guy people will call you out gay for saying you don't need a woman in your life. People will call you gay for it. Other people will say you want it for attention. The reality is that you weren't dating woman this whole time because all the bitches around you are disgusting human being with their personality and attitude. You're not desperate for sex and attention. You'll only start caring to give a shit when you find the right person.Just focus on your goals in life whatever you have from being jacked, wealthy, millionaire etc.. then the relationship status wears off from you.
What advice can you give me to ensure I don’t waste my twenties?
>>34439534Put money into ETFs early. The power of compound interest will make you safer in your 30s. As you earn more you can increase the amount but it's important to make a habit.
>>34439534forgive your fatherforgive your motherforgive yourself
>>34439622this is good advice for every decade of your life, though>>34439534here's some advice specific to your twenties: >don't drive yourself crazy and waste tons of time trying to save your first relationship if you're having serious problems. just break up and meet someone new.
>>34439534It is always too late to prepare for retirement. Get cracking.
>>34439534Go out to socialize once a week. Once a month, spend a weekend doing something fun, new, or out of town. Doesn't have to be something pricey or loud, but you need to do something new or fun often or the days will blend together. Be fore you know it youre 45 and haven't done anything except work.Learn something new often, even if it's surface level. When you find something you do like, deep dive into it. One concept can apply to multiple ideas.When making big decisions think about what happens if things go ideally, AND if things go wrong.Keep yourself decently heathy at minimum. If you notice you are getting fat, eat less carbs. Prevent health problems preemptively.Saving is hard, so when you do spend try to avoid debt. When you do big purchases make sure they are a decent investment. When you spend on small comforts, make sure it's actually something you enjoy and not something on impulse. Impulse will become a bad habit.Occasionally talk to yourself out loud and narrate your thoughts. It helps with public speaking in your later life if you are shy or have problems vocally. It's easy to become silent when alone.Put important things in the same spot every time, or else you will lose them and spend 30 mintues looking for your keys while running late.Have two spares of important keys, not just one.When you are in a situation and don't know what to do, look up solutions online first. Learn from other retard's bad mistakes.A lot of people will put aside their common sence if someone else tells them everything's fine, and before you know it you have a shattered metacarpal. A bad idea is a bad idea.Avoid women with names that start or end in vowels.Don't let people manipulate you emotionally. If they are pulling on your heartstrings, they are trying to get you to do something that you normally wouldn't do. Some people do this unintentionally, it's human nature.Take advantage of every opportunity presented. It's easy to get too comfy in routine.
What are some good free social events or activities for making friends that don't require you to already have friends? Stuff that you can go to alone without people thinking you're weird.
>>34456650Archery
>>34456650Why concern yourself with looking weird? Others finding you weird (in a bad way) is a good filter for you to use. You can immediately eliminate them as your potential "friends" and move onto the next bunch.As for free social events or activities where you can make friends easier as a lone person. Depends what you mean by make friends. What's a friend to you? Because you are free to talk to anybody out there, and engage in a back and forth, but who will actually stick? And what's the glue that makes you both stick? Who the hell knows, it depends on what you actually want friends for.
>>34456650clubs (in the sense of shared-interest groups)clubs (in the sense of dance places)classessports teamsvolunteer workchurch
>>34456650Join hobbies already full of weirdos like board games
>>34456925I am sorry for your situation but you should focus on your faith instead. May another opportunity will rise in the future.
>What is /htgwg/?How to Get Women General is by men, for men, about women, so bring all of your questions about getting and dealing with women here. Some anons on this site actually get laid, and some of them even want to help. If you're trying to meet and date women, then this is the place to ask questions, seek advice, and share experiences. We know how hard it can be. We got you bro.>What is /htgwg/ not?These threads are NOT for whining, moping, incels, volcels, MGTOW, hopelessness, or demoralization. We're all aware that meeting and dating women is hard today, and even harder for some, but /htgwg/ is for trying to overcome the challenges. IGNORE the posters who complain, give up, or insist there's nothing they can do. This site has other boards and threads that they can pollute. BE SMART: Spot the bait, don't reply, and DON'T WASTE TIME ARGUING WITH THEM!>How to ask for adviceContext is important: be more specific than "This girl ghosted me, why?" We can't help if we don't know the situation, so try to provide as much (useful) info as possible ("I was at the bar, this chick was checking me out..."). What's your relationship with the girl? How long have you known her? Any conversation screenshots? Etc... Don't forget to ask an actual question.>Resources and Bookshttps://wingman.live/ (AI dating coach)https://pdfcoffee.com/318797392-mark-manson-models-2016pdf-4-pdf-free.htmlhttps://archive.org/details/robert-glover-no-more-mr-nice-guy-id-353324692-size-612https://www.youtube.com/@YourWingmamhttps://www.doctornerdlove.com/blog/Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>34458409All good advice thanks anon. Often i struggle because once the conversation starts to dip or she is hesitant to give me date, that its better to cut my losses otherwise she is going to string it out long enough to give her some validation for a few days before she moves on.I live about an hour from the city. I have no reason to go into the city unless I'm meeting up with someone which is why i try to get a date set beforehand. Even with my friend group, I will wait for them to make plans and then drive into the city just or that even then go home afterwards. If it was possible to find people closer to me in the suburbs I would but no luck yet.Not discounting anything you said, I do like to be able to do my own thing instead of waiting for her to make up my mind for me.
>>34458508Well, yeah, but things are so fucked up that people can't settle into their proper roles.The man has to lead in a couple, but that doesn't mean the woman has to take the role of a child, an employee, or a slave.The woman should advice, support, even guide if her man is not as smart as herself, but never lead. That's the man's role and it's baked into each man.Nowadays, women are told by every authority to lead, which makes men resent them and zero in on how inept they are, on average, at leading.
There's a pretty waitress at a pool hall. Once, I mustered up my courage and asked her name (I know, pathetic). She gave me hers and asked for mine. She ignored my friends and said she recognized me, but not my friends, who are also there often. Last time, I wanted to make more small talk, but she wasn't as friendly. Then, at the end, I asked her out for coffee, since I'm not there very often and she's leaving soon (she's starting an apprenticeship in a few months). She said something like, "That's really nice, but unfortunately, I have a boyfriend." I think she doesn't have one, but didn't want to hurt my feelings or something. I'm 6'5", but have a BMI of about 29. She's really attractive. Could it be the difference in height?
What it comes down to when you are with a woman is if am I reliable to her or not?
>>34458828Could it be the difference in our looks that's the problem?
Tomorrow is Friday. I want to go to a bar, meet a woman, chat for a while, get her phone number, then go on a date a week or so later. How do I do this? Usually, when I go to a bar, all the women around are already talking to someone else (sometimes a man, sometimes a group of people), which makes it really hard to find an opening. I usually end up just sitting at the bar by myself.
>>34458396holy shit it has a making of a perfect madness arc>boy grows up a total opposite of his father>father regrets not more sons>son decides he wants to give his oldman another chance>they have a meeting just to see that everything is the same> "Please wait sometimes">Mom invites son to a bar where she absolutely sucks cock left and right>son is an awkward sperg bumbling with every women there>dad decides it's hopeless says to son, listen kid this will work out gym you me>son goes home laughing his ass off saying jokes like you're still fuck assholesame dad! You same asshole!>mom calls son saying all kind of mean shit to him making him look like an asshole> Police “fuck you, she came to me" *hangs up*Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>Generally has issues with anger; gets frustrated quickly and shouts very frequently, speaks before she thinks and takes it out on others.>Would hit sometimes when acting out as a kid.>Admittedly was a little shit as a kid and did cause some trouble but she would shout, rant, talk about how terrible I was on phone to her friends while I was in the car.>During puberty would tell me (foid) how big my chest was getting and how sexy my body was, make a show of looking at it and grope my ass. When I told her it made me uncomfortable and eventually would cry asking her to stop she'd tell me to grow up and continued. I became (and still am) anorexic and would measure my chest every night to ensure no more growth. I still only wear shirts/jeans and if I wore anything that showed my figure she'd still look and make comments. >As a late teen went out for dinner with family in a dress and she made a comment about my body again. I couldn't hold back my tears and cried again. She gave an apology but when I was hesitant to accept it and wasn't happy with her the next day she started shouting again. She has done this a few times, most notably after making a drunken scene at a wedding where we found out she was cheating on my father. >As a teen would semi-regularly come in my room and berate me for about an hour for having no friends, not trying, being socially inept. When finished she would come in and apologise and offer gifts as an apology. I got a hamster through this. Occasionally still does this.>Possibly the worst moment was during a meal. She gets nasty when drunk and I jokingly said 'shut up' to a remark she made. She then turned and began berating me for about an hour, telling me every thing she didn't like about me and how she wished she got an abortion if she knew this was how I'd turn out. We were at a restaurant and people started looking, my dad left halfway through because he couldn't deal with it. (1/2)
>>34457976No, she was too consistent with it for it to be a joke. I told her it made me really uncomfortable and asked for her to stop but she said I needed to grow up and stop being sensitive. It got to the point when I told her as a young teen that I wanted to get surgery to remove them and she went livid (unbeknownst to me at the time breast cancer had affected a few family members so I can't blame her for this) yet she still didn't stop despite knowing it made me that uncomfortable and self-loathing.
1/2>>34457936>My dad couldn't get over what she did, doesn't miss being around her and is with another woman now. I do wish my dad stood up for me more when I was younger instead of walking away or siding with my mum but he did everything to ensure me and my siblings had a happy life, he didn't deserve anything like this.I'm sorry, I shouldn't have said these stuff about your father. I got worked up because I had similar experiences.>>34457936>But I don't want her to be alone. She's already so lonely and my sister hasn't even fully moved out yet.>She wouldn't have done a lot of what she has if she didn't honestly love and want the best for me.Seriously?>She repeatedly touched you inappropriately>Made mean comments>Made you cry>Made you develop body dysmorphia>Didn't stop and kept doingComment too long. Click here to view the full text.
2/2Someone who repeatedly humiliates you, ignores your boundaries when you are crying, comments on your body in a way that makes you feel exposed and unsafe, tears down your confidence, then resets the scene with apologies… Rinse and repeat. That is not care in a stable, protective sense.That is a cycle that keeps you emotionally tied to her.Now, about the part where you don't want her to be alone. Of course you don't. You're not cruel. But ask yourself this quietly, honestly.Where was that same concern when you were crying and asking her to stop?Where was that care when you were being mocked, or when your body was treated like something she could comment on and touch despite your discomfort?You are extending empathy outward in a way that was never consistently extended to you.If you let guilt guide you here, you will keep reopening the door.Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>34458020Thank you anon. >I'm sorry, I shouldn't have said these stuff about your father. I got worked up because I had similar experiences.It’s okay. I’m sorry you went through something similar.Regarding everything else, it just doesn’t feel right calling myself abused. There were people who were properly beaten, sexually assaulted or psychologically broken and what I went through pales. I don’t think it’s right to compare abuse but I just can’t think what I went through is anywhere near comparable and almost disrespectful to also call myself an abuse victim. But at the same time I know she didn’t treat me right. It feels somewhere in between normal parenting and abuse is that makes sense? Like her touching made me uncomfortable but all she did was grope my ass when she was behind me like walking up the stairs and she did this to my siblings too. I know I’m being contradictory but my mind can’t work around it.
>>34455460Get internal family systems therapy.
I really need a job. Im 30 and have never worked any job in my life. I want to find something niche and mildly in demand but consistent. I want to start right away. I don't need to make more than $30k. I don't know what to look into. I don't know how to find apprenticeships. I found about farriers. I think that's the vein of niche skilled trade and craft thatd interest me. But I can't drive a car so that specific one isn't really an option. The only experience doing anything is repairing some small electronics and soldering. I think I'd like that kind of workshop type of thing. The typical trades like hvac electrician carpentry etc don't really appeal to me
>>34455565I haven't really found any such thing. Its not exactly a typical skilled trade people talk about. Sounds like more of just a business gig. And consumer electronics are moving towards not being repairable aren't they? I think I'd like some atelier workshop type of situation but that is long dead. I'm awful with heights and most trades won't let you just work in the shop especially if you're new.>>34455633Sorry, but its really not something I can do.
>>34454159It's going to be hard to find a job at 30 with 0 experience. The one thing that comes with age is work experience. But you having nothing makes you come off as lazy and a bum. I'd suggest starting with getting your OSHA 10 cert and CPR cert. Those a both really easy, fairly cheap, and you can get them done in a weekend. They won't guarantee you a job, but you're in desperate need for some extra points on your resume. And those certs do cast a wide net.
>>34457070Why can you not drive, Faggot? Are you missing all your limbs? Are you blind?
>>34457070It’s not for consumer electronics. It’s industrial electronic systems for industries like security. The components are made all over the world but someone still has to wire them all together into a single chassis and enclosure because the specific configurations required are different between sites.
>>34457526Thank you I will pursue these.>>34458112Sounds interesting. How would I Start? Is that under electrician?
Okay, so I'm 34 and I finally feel financially stable enough to start dating and paying for the both of us. However, I'm socially retarded. How reasonable would it be to set up a dating profile and be upfront about needing feedback on my social skills?>set up profile with whatever pictures of me and the stuff that is dear to me, like my motorcycle or book collection>offer to only do dinner dates unless they have something specific in mind (the idea is that even if the date is a failure, the food will be good because i've already scouted all the good local places since I solo-dine all the time)>specify that i'm a functional-autist and have not interacted with women in at least a decade>specify that i would appreciate feedback at the end, positive or especially negative>my solo-dining usually costs me about $35 out the door, so if (big if) a woman is interested in this free meal ticket, advise her that i'm bringing $80 cash for us to split, and no electronic payments (anti-scam measure). Willing to go a little higher if I know it's gonna be a bit more, like a steak house>see how things goHow retarded is this? I am not looking to fuck, I am not desperate. I'm just looking for something new and maybe constructive. When I solo-dine, I normally just read a book (that I take everywhere) so I can keep doing that if this idea is beyond retarded. But if this magically worked, then at least I'm putting myself out there.
>>34456391you cant just tell people to "socialize wit me plz". its like wanting to learn how to drive a bike but wanting to have some guy always hold you, you need to take the risk of falling before you can learn how to ride
>>34457543I mean I don't know what to tell you, if you want to go eat at a relatively expensive place for two, there's a chance you'll go out with someone who doesn't respect your money and so get taken advantage of. Most women are going to expect you to pay if you're asking them out. You might discuss how they feel about splitting tabs, but that's just going to come off as cheap to most of them and turn them away, which maybe isn't a bad thing if you're not into that anyway, but most won't like it. Setting a specific dollar limit with them will have a similar effect. I guess if they offer to pay for themselves at the end, you could take them up on that too, but again most just ask to be polite and won't accept a second date after that. There's women that don't expect a man to pay, but they're more rare than those with traditional expectations. I don't like it either, but what can you do, if you want to play the game that's how it's done. That's why people normally have a small, cheap date for the first at least, so you can determine if the person is crazy, greedy, disrespectful etc. and so you don't invest too much right away. The ones that would reject a date because it's just coffee, or ice cream, or walking around at a park, aren't worth dating and would have no problem ordering too much on your dime.
Sorry, I couldn't resist
>>34457919omg this is likewise hilarious as its brutal brvtal truthnuke kekkkkkkkholy shit how any girl says dating is suffering after looking at this, is beyond me what is girls perspective on this even? like how can you look at this and be like yup this, this is uh totally fine system and good or whatever
>>34457774>I mean I don't know what to tell you, if you want to go eat at a relatively expensive place for two, there's a chance you'll go out with someone who doesn't respect your money and so get taken advantage of.What about this:I don't say anything about my (retarded) plan, but if I notice she picks a particularly expensive item that is out of my comfort zone, then I mention that I only brought X amount of cash for the date? And if she makes it a problem, then I just pay for the drinks and leave?
I think this girl liked me and I was too much of a coward to talk to her, and let a lot of time pass trying to be good enough for her, and apparently she died, and now I don't know how to go on with my life, and I hate myself.
>>34457643We barely knew each other, and she was crazy and stalked me without me knowing, I did like her back but waited too long, and she OD'd, apparently. She was a really smart cute girl that was horribly abused as a child, and I just found out that I waited too long before finally reaching out, and now I'll never talk to her again, and I'm not that young, so I feel like I'll probably be old before I get over this, so I also feel like I literally let my last chance at love die.
I feel like when I found out I died too. I'm not planning on hurting myself but I feel like my life is over.
>>34457665>we barely knew each other>soul mateRetard kys
>>34457831I feel like she died because I wasn't stronger or faster in dealing with my problems.
Read some chivalric romance. You can still dedicate your efforts to her via courtly love. There are plenty of cheap anthologies, Puffin Classics, Penguin etc, that you can find even in bookstores.After you've read the dozens and dozens of stories and the themes speak to you, read a pdf of Nos by Serrano.Kind of a different matter, but reading all the wiki pages related to Tanabata helped me get over (still) being unmarried and separated from whoever my true love is.
What are the best things to learn for the job market? I have a degree in business and finance, so something I could use there. Hopefully related to AI.
>>34452211>lifetimeWat?
>>34452182>AI is a vaporware bubble that's going to pop.the things they're promising it will do are all vaporware nonsense, but the stuff claude code/cowork and agentic approaches do are never going away. even if anthropic and openAI and all that go bankrupt next month we're never going back to copywriters and editors like we used to have
>>34452087Get experience in transferable skills. A good salesman can sell anything. A good department manager can manage any department. A good PA can assist any executive
>>34452087>What are the best things to learn for the job market?How to tie a noose
>>34452087are you jewish? if not good luck
I'm a 23 yo male and I did a DEXA body scan the other day and found out my body fat is 40% and I am osteopenic. I had labs drawn today and my ALT is elevated indicating that I probably have non alcoholic fatty liver disease. I am freaking the fuck out. I feel totally disgusting and like I'm a metabolic ticking time bomb. I do not want to have a body any more this is disgusting and I hate it. It feels like I just woke up into a body horror movie. I started going to the gym and taking vit D3+K2 supplements and I'm cutting out all junk food. I am a wreck because of these findings and I haven't even been able to bring myself to study I'm just talking to different AIs over my lab results and DEXA scan
>>34456459Bro. Walk and eat less. That's it. 13 x Bodyweight = Calories needed.You can eat shit, but keep the calories down and walk. 2000 calories of soda is the same thing as 2000 calories of eggs, basically. It's more complicated than that when you are going for certain goals, but to start your path do that.
>>34456459you needed a body scan to tell you that you are fat?nigga lmao are you a retard? do you need a retard scan?
>>34456459every time ppl screech at me for being a vegan is worth it just for posts like these.
>>34456459>I'm just talking to different AIs over my lab results and DEXA scanYeah because that's bound to make you feel better and will in no way make you spiral. Try something radical like eating less shite and exercising more (i.e. at all)
>>34456459Do keto for a while. Don't be extreme with the cut or anything, but use it to clean up your diet and flush the shit out.
>28yo khhv incel>the one thing i actually wanted to experience in life was teen sex but never did>will never be a teenager again>so i can never, ever, for the rest of my entire life until i die, get what i wantso... just go next?
>>34457332at 28? absolutely not a problem. thats when tons of guys are just for the first time figuring out to not just spit in her mouth and jackhammer thrust and roll off once they shoot. you can start learning how to fuck at 28 and if you pay attention to what she wants you'll be totally fine. bad experience and low expectations are assumed for all 20s sex
>>34455989You know OP... You thinking this matters shows how asleep you are. You have no idea the riches that are within you
>>34455989Yes OP, you can't experience teen sex if you are no longer a teenager. Just turn the page.
I traded virginities with my girlfriend at the time, we were both 14.I'll admit it was extremely visceral and emotionally intense but it's nothing you can't just get from regular sex with a normal fertile woman above the age of 19 tbqh. I think why it's desired so much isn't the ages of everyone involved just the fact of inexperience and shared novelty. Just find a virgin OP. I fail to see why fucking a 16 year old would somehow magically be better than fucking a woman your age, pussy is pussy. The fact it's causing you so much distress probably calls for significant introspection, if not being able to have teen sex is a major problem to you the I'd be grateful to have problems as trivial as that.
>>34458200there aren't really any virgin women who are attractive above the age of like 20 it's either some hamplanet or tattoo'd mentally ill chick, and even those kinds of women wouldn't date me because i'm not like a fruitful well-to-do guy i'm a pessimistic broken by loneliness incel chud and not even the lowest down baddest women would go near me.
My dad and mom were born so that they could create me. They knew I would be the greatest one in the bloodline. They knew I'd change our families fate and turn us into a dynasty. If I am to take us to the heights of the Rockefellers, Rothschilds, and Habsburgs; I will be needing a sigil worthy of this. Any and all advice is welcomed on what the sigil should consist of.
>>34457903A clown snake
>>34457950Lil bro mad he has the ambition and soul of a peasant
>>34457903>what the sigil should consist of.Here is the perfect sigil for you
I'm just kidding about this last image. I have the same thoughts as you OP, but then I remember I'm 24, single, and don't own a house, lolz
>>34458280Ego is great if you use it, but it's hinders you if the ego uses you. It's a fine balance between delusion and excess self confidence. I'm 25, i have 10K saved, 3K in a vanguard fund, might try and buy a place next year if the market keeps going down. Could get a nice little starter condo.
Why do women treat me like a piece of human filth?
>>34450978I remember my friend sending me a pic of you when you still had hair from some nofap shitkek
>>34450978you're not even ugly, probably unbearable to talk with tho
>>34451097you're talking to a statistics denierthis kind of people is beyond help, they'll believe what soothes their anger and agrees with them and no amount of proof will dissuade them
I still don't know if this poster is actually samuel or if he just posts samuel's pictures without him knowing.If you are the guy in OP can you take a pic giving a thumbs up?
>>34451082>Genetic determinism is unavoidableI believe in genetic determinism, but what you said has anything to do with it... He could very well have sex right now if he lowered his standards. Genetic determinism is the idea that your traits and outcomes are fixed primarily by your genes. Taken in its strong form, it suggests your life trajectory is basically prewritten. Now look at your claim again. You're taking a snapshot moment (being rejected at 18) and pretending it predicts your entire romantic future. That’s not science, that’s fatalism dressed up with a scientific-sounding label.
22 years old male graduating college and still a virgin. Going to do a masters next year though.I feel a deep, very painful, suicidal sense that I missed out on certain high school/college experiences. I would say my life is otherwise above average and I am on a good track career/money wise, but the lack of romantic love is tearing me up inside. I think the regret might actually put a permanent dent in my mental health if left untreated. What can I do over the summer and into the next year to try and salvage my situation? Where can I go? Online communities? If I reach 25, 30 etc. without these things there will be no cope, only misery and suicidality. Has anyone recovered from such a situation in modern times? Have you been able to cure this terrible regret?
God, who gives a shit. Just talk to people on campus.
>>34457780Well this is a given...next year I will go out to societies etc. every day, if not multiple times a day...I want more specific advice if possible from people who have been in my situation and salvaged it.
Bump
Sex isn't everything and it won't fix you. Everyone misses out on something. If you let FOMO run the show, you will end up in a much worse situation.
>>34457805Hi. Same problem here: adult virgin suffering from crippling loneliness and maybe some mental illness. I'm just one year older than you and I don't even go to college. My advice: STOP seeking for advice. Yes, you read that right. No, I'm not trying to sabotage you. This is not a crab-in-the-bucket situation. Stop looking for guidance on 4chan, YouTube, Plebbit, whatever. Doing that is just a refined form of procrastination that your brain does to keep you suffering, but without leaving your comfort zone (which would be a lot more mentally taxing, cognitively speaking). If you are a homo sapiens like me you're inherently equipped with the tools to start socializing and eventually make (meaningful) connections, you're literally built it for it. Your upbringing maybe lacked here and there and then you made it to 22 without scoring some pussy or maybe you choose to prioritize other things rather than being social and now you're paying the price for it, I don't know. What I know is that you'll not make satisfying tangible progress in a such nuanced aspect of the human experience that is getting to know people by applying ideas from random people from the internet that don't even know you. Many people here can help a lot with their input about a lot of things, but, if I were you, I'd go offline a bit and just start trying whatever tactics you can come up with(without abandoning reason and common sense), apply them and learn through trial and error. PS.: I didn't proofread this post. There may be many mistakes. Hope it helps anyway.
