>>31126670
>like a massive faux pas.

because it is. dont do it. they are paid to be nice to you

>>31126680
I did it in the past, worked out fine.

>>31126680
Then how can I ever have a chance with her? Wait for her to get off her shift and try to bump into her outside the store?

>>31126692
Give her your business card

>>31126670
>we always talk a little
"...Well, it's fun chatting with you, but you have to get back to work. What time do you get off {or "get a break"}? I'll buy the coffee...."

>>31127160
lol cringe
>I'll buy the coffee
yeah I bet you will, machiato for one over here

>>31126670
>I imagine they're not even allowed to give out their number while.on the clock
What? I've never heard of anywhere being that controlling.
>I can't imagine how awkward it would be if I asked her out in earshot of all her coworkers and other customers
Yeah, you just gotta bite the bullet on that one. I would ask her after you finish paying so you can leave immediately if things don't go well.

>>31127212
I used to work at a hot topic and we were told bluntly we were not permitted to flirt with or give out/accept phone numbers from customers while on the clock, I think it's a pretty normal practice in retail

>>31126680
"don't do it" is shitty advice
yes, they are just being nice, but thats absolutely not always the case
the people who don't care, don't understand, and it wont matter what you tell them who just do it anyway won't even take this advice into consideration
the fact that hes even unsure about this and understands maybe he shouldn't means hes clearly already thought about this and u are just doing a disservice but even humoring him about WHY it might be the case

>>31126670
the reality is it can happen and they can be interested, but they can't just be being pleasant and you think thats enough, have to be having these little chats, especially if its quiet and you hang around for a few minutes and shoot the shit instead of just exchanging a few words.
you also can't ask at any time, needs to be a quiet day with no one else around really, then asking a question that leads into, a "what time do you get off work" type of thing rather than just outright "whats your number" type of approach

good luck anon, hope you aren't misreading anything, sucks if you are.

>>31127242
Cuck

>>31126670
You can give her your number OP, this puts the ball entirely in her court and doesnt demand an immediate response.

>>31127519
Unfortunately that goes against the zeitgeist that men are the ones who have to do literally everything every step of the courting process, while women remain completely passive and just accept/decline advances

>>31126670
My time

>How the fuck do you ask out girls while they're working?

Calmly, with a confident smile

>It just seems awkward, and like a massive faux pas

That is your perception. Because you you have low self esteem. Some people cant make a call, some people perform for thousands of people live. Comes with practice

>we always talk a little when I check out
Good, she knows you, feels safe

>but I can't imagine how awkward it would be if I asked her out in earshot of all her coworkers
Yeah, because YOU are insecure. Why do you give a shit what some bystander think? That social pressure is an illusion in your head because you dont believe yourself to be significant yet

> I imagine they're not even allowed to give out their number while.on the clock

Women with high attraction will break rules, risk pregnancy, pay for you, lie for you and will justify anything in their heads. With high attraction

>Any advice?
Most men are afraid of approaching. Out of other few, most are afraid of doing it without signals, outside of usual social places and so on. Women love confidence. Women love the best men. The strongest. The ones who can come to them at work, charm them playfully in front of loser awkward thirsty coworkers and the ones who will give them their number (you give, you dont take, she will must to contact you). Or even beter they love man who will charm her so hard, he will set a date right there without numbers exchange. That is if she likes you and just polite right now

If done right it melts them. Its an exciting story that she will tell all her girlfriends about, what strong and bild guy is interested in her

Be ready for rejection. If she declines, feel that you are the only man in the building with balls big enough to do it. Take it as a proof that you can do it. Her loss, you spent like 5 minutes on that, go on with your day

Chances are she will respect and remember you just for courage, and will give you a chance later

>>31126670
Literally just ask them. I've done it before, mostly you get rejected but life goes on. If you never take a shot you never know.

>>31128312
Good advice. Should I ask out my hot neighbor literally across the hall from me? She's the hottest, nicest seeming girl I know, and we've talked abit, running into each other in the halls and she always seems happy to see me. If it doesnt go well then we're both stuck there. Should I wait till I move out and then give her my number so she feels no pressure? I think it'd be weird if we get stuck in an elevator randomly after she already knows i want to fuck her

>>31126670
I got left a lot of numbers but never one from a guy I was interested in.

>>31128544
This. Why can't men just accept that some people aren't going to be interested? It's not like she's going to hate you after you ask, in fact if you swallow your pride and say "Hey, it's cool. Just thought I'd throw it out there" and move on, there's a chance of something in the future since you aren't a little bitch ass crybaby.

>>31129308
>Should I ask out my
Always yes. You want her, be the man and get it. Direct, decisive, confident

>we've talked abit
She knows you, feels safe, good

>she always seems happy to see me
She likes you, otherwise you would be invisible to her

>If it doesnt go well then we're both stuck there
If it doesnt go well you will be lucky, because then you will practice emotional self control. You will frequently see a woman who rejected you, and you will have to act unfazed, indifferent yet still playful and friendly. This skill will help you tremendously later in life with break ups, lay offs, failed approaches and other rejections

Plus, if she rejects and you show that its not a loss for you it will raise her interest. Very few man can handle that. Its very attractive, especially if she sees you later with another girl

Or if you dated and it didnt work, end it first (always end it first) and now you have a hot friend next door, very useful

>give her my number so she feels no pressure?
You are starting to get it good. No pressure and shows her that you are indifferent to outcome and confident in yourself. Just say it properly, *take my number and give me a call later* instead of reasoning how nice and respectful you are

>I think it'd be weird if we get stuck in an elevator randomly
Women and kids are mirrors. It will be weird if you make it weird. Always be playful, charming, laid back, calm and fun and she will follow

>after she already knows i want to fuck her
If you are not her father or brother, the only reason you would give her attention is sex and dating. She knows, she considers it otherwise you would be invisible

>>31126670
Carry personal card as gentlemen used to do. Present yourself discreetly with small talk, no one will notice, and give one card to her.
Easy as.

Monitoring thread because there re so many QT cashiers that recognize me around my neighborhood and dont know wat do.
>>31126670
How often do you interact with this cashier and how long are your chats?

You can't, it's not something human beings do

there's nothing to say or talk about, it's just social faux pas like shitting yourself publically and cannot result in relationship

if you ever want to speak to a woman in has to be in school or through friends

>>31127169
Not him, but something similar worked for me

>>31126670
I've frequented a café because of a barista girl working there.
I took it slowly, going only once every week.
She was always happy to see me and I felt she started to miss me.
She ended up asking for my phone number.
A week later we had sex.

>>31130751
>Carry personal card as gentlemen used to do

That is good idea on paper, if you look and carry yourself appropriately. If something is off, that oldschoolness will be perceived as weirdness

>Present yourself discreetly with small talk, no one will notice, and give one card to her.
Thats nice guy move, its weak and repulsive. In your mind you see it as being lind and virtuous. But in any woman mind it would be - he wants me, he is interested in sleeping with me, but he pretends to be different, he restricts himself not to go against social norms, he pretends not to offend me, he is manipulative pretender with fake kindness, its weak its scary

Its the same with elaborate dates and gifts. If you have to shower her with it, something is off, she didnt do anything yet, its creepy

A proper man that makes her feel safe will go for what he wants directly, without hesitation or overthinking or fake self restrictions. The hunter, the king, the soldier

>>31131229
>there's nothing to say or talk about, it's just social faux pas
Go outside and talk to people, your mind will blown by how wrong you are

>if you ever want to speak to a woman in has to be in school or through friends
While you imagining why you cant do it, millions of men approach women in parks, in gyms, in libraries, in museum, on markets, in malls creating cute romantic opportunities

Your friends circle is super limited, you missing out on great women around you

>>31131421
Excellent. Non needy, slow, confident. You gave her time to miss you, to think about you, to imagine what your personality is, how your date would go. Patience wins women over, because most men are needy neurotic children

>>31129308
If she's attractive and normal (social, good mood regularly) then shes perfectly capable of asking YOU out. Ive met plenty of friendly and attractive women who are simply like that. And if you live right by her that would be soooo awkward.

Another thing to consider is that females are just as capable of flirting and insinuating as males are. Has she ever tried to get to know you, saying something besides "hi"? has she ever struck up a conversation with you?

>>31131648
Go outside for once in your life and you will see there's absolutely no one anywhere to speak

Redditor niggers love talkng about harassing strangers and then are unable to ever write what would they say because they've never done it or can imagine it being done

Your mind will be blown away the second you step out of your incel lair

Not a single man in human history ever spoke to any stranger because women are conditioned since birth that stranger=danger
There is no written example of it ever occuring, just redditor lies without being able to write what would they say

>women in parks, in gyms, in libraries, in museum, on markets, in malls creating cute romantic opportunities

Write a dialogue in each one of these settings

You cannot do it because redditors just post spam of random locations, like you just did, but are biologically incapable of even imagining what could be said there thats romantic or cute.

You must have 0 friends otherwise you'd know friends and school are the only way to ever speak to women

>Non needy, slow, confident. You gave her time to miss you, to think about you, to imagine what your personality is, how your date would go. Patience
Make sure to include each of these values in every one of the 6 dialogues you're gonna write. Tell us exaclty what do you say to her and her friend after stopping her and harassing her in a store. And include the friends women are there with, everyone who has been outside knows women are glued to their friends

Protip : this anon is about to have a meltdown and wont write any conversations because he's just copy pasting incel redditor who has never been outside in his fucking life

Not one human being ever wrote a conversation that can form relationship outside of school or friends and they never will because it simply cannot happen. The redditor incels always have to just say claim and they might as well say the world is flat, they cannot back it up with any evidence since it cannot happen.

>>31131421
notice that even in his pornbrained fantasy he could never have spoken to the woman himself

in fact in his whole story absolutely no verbal exchange took place

the woman just had to rape him because that's all he sees in porn, he's never been in a cafe does not even imagine himself being able to speak
just no speaking instant sex like in a cheap tv show written by an incel jew who has never gotten laid but wants audience to know his character is cool

incels are not even able to imagine being able to speak to women despite claiming harassing strangers is how people have sex.

he couldn't even lie that he was the one to speak or initiated anything, the woman had to do everything because even his pornbrained retarded head couldn't come up with idea of a man speaking to a barista since he has enough basic social skill to know it cannot ever happen

>>31127160
something like this.
literally the best way to be not creepy is to be upfront and direct about it. you like her, you'd like to get to know her outside of just work interaction.

one thing I recommend: prepare and practice a good and politely accepting answer if you get rejected, it makes getting rejected easier, and it makes the whole interaction less creepy/awkward. making a move is not obtrusive if saying no doesn't make her feel bad.

>>31131703
ignore this, it's the incel that talks about middle school as his saving grace despite his lived experiences proving the opposite

no school for your face
no school for your autism

>>31131703
>Go outside, you will see there's absolutely no one anywhere to speak

Huh? Do you live in a village? There are thousands people around you everywhere, each one has his own personality, story and lessons to teach you

>unable to ever write what would they say
Dialogues with people are not scripted events. Either it goes based on environment (gym, bar, park, beach), shared activity or shared interests

>the second you step out of your incel lair
You are asking me how to talk to people, and yet you insult me as being inferior. Thats not how you talk to people

>women are conditioned since birth that stranger=danger
Thats is very very incorrect. Go to a bar or a club for an evening, just sit and observer. People go out to meet other people. Especially women, they are social animals and need it more. And stranger is not danger if he does things right

>There is no written example of it ever occuring
Now I have a suspicion that you are just trolling

>Write a dialogue in each one of these settings
Sure, thats my last interaction in a museum, Mariella. I will paraphrase:
- Hey, excuse me. I like your colours, it feels like endless summer
- Thank you! I just coloured my hair!
- What is your name?
- Mariella
- Melodic, but sounds a cocktail name
- Haha, and what is yours
- My name is Anon, nice to meet you
- Do you come here often, Anon?
- Yes, it feels very peaceful to think here, do you like the place?
- It is very different to my home town, we have only a small museum, its boring
- Where is your home town?
- Oh its on a small island, you probably dont know it. We are famous for...

Etc etc etc. Its just a small talk, people discussing nothing serious, exchanging body language and having fun. We had drinks same evening and I made up recipe for Mariella cocktail for her which tasted awful, it was a fantastic day. And I created it out of nothing, just walking up to nerdy blonde girl in a national museum

Comment too long, you get the idea

>>31131703
>park
>Write a dialogue in each one of these settings
>You cannot do it

Story from 2 weeks ago:
>in park. stray cat came to me. I pet it
>suddenly it slips away, I turn around
>cat went to a cute girl, she pets it and looks at me
>"sorry I just stole your cat"
>"fair game, I think she just likes you better"
>"no I just think she smells that I have something to eat"
>(laugh, pause) your English is pretty good, where are you from? (I was on vacation in a country where most people only speak broken English)
then just continue the conversation like with any other human being.

This is no fucking rocket science. you don't have to devise perfect conversations and formulations, you're not a writer for a TV show. if you're not feeling insecure, you're likely not giving her vibes of insecurity. and there's no reason to feel insecure, you're just talking to another person, and you have literally nothing to lose through that interaction.

>>31131852
You had what I call a hook, some rememberable thing to initiate. Very good, I like you

If you date her, she will remember that hook forever. The cute opening page to the story of your romance. Also women are very sensitive to details and have exceptional memory for it. Well played (it wasnt luck, luck is habit and previous success)

>>31131886
>it wasnt luck, luck is habit and previous success
luck is opportunity + practice. and the more someone goes outside, the more opportunities there are. the more opportunities, the more chances to practice. and then "luck" becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy. not just for dating, for any kind of success.

But you're right, I had a hook. Theoretically, you could approach any woman by just saying "hey I think you're cute. want to grab somethink to drink?" - of course that's pretty blunt and will work better in some situations (bars, nightclubs) than others (park, gym etc - here, a good hook is worth gold, but really almost anything can be a hook). But the important thing is: if it's communicated authentically, it'll not come across as creepy or awkward. People like people. It's completely natural to want to get to know new people. That's what interesting, likeable and successful people do all the time. If she doesn't want to, she might be somewhat socially awkward herself. And that's fine. That doesn't make the guy approaching her a creep. Some people stay within their small friend circles their whole lives. It's not something I'd like to emulate.

>>31131852
you're not starting a conversation even in your deepest daydream lmao and you had to rely on something that no one could even do IRL since no one can just brainwash cats

why even lie about the cat, just start off by writing that the woman instantly propsed to you and begged to be your sexslave?

There's nothing to even continue conversation since normal human beings do not ever communicate with strangers

It's not rocket science, these things do not occur on this planet You cannot devise conversation or formula here because they cannot happen. You're not a character on a tv show where it just jumpcuts to sex after 2 people look at each other.

If you dont know each other, there are no possible words that a human being can say, there's literelly no possible interaction that can happen there and you literelly cannot say any words in that place.

You're literelly such an incel shut in retard. Your story makes no sense, why the fuck would a person outside of english speaking country,. where clearly english is such a rarity no one can speak it well would start off by speaking english??? You're a complete retard with no idea how the world outside of your subreddit operates

This isn't even a conversaiton you described beforehand you have showed none of
>Non needy, slow, confident. You gave her time to miss you, to think about you, to imagine what your personality is, how your date would go. Patience
You did NOTHING like it, you have given her 0 things to imagine your personality

You're just another spamming redditor obsessed with posting lists of locations you haven't been to that's unable to ever write a conversations you lie could happen.


Normal human beings know not a single normal human being would ever speak to a stranger ever in their life.

>>31131811
Huh? Do you really never go outside??? Not a single normal human being ever stops randoms to convey own personality, story and lessons to teach you. You clearly never leave your room.
>Either it goes based on environment (gym, bar, park, beach), shared activity or shared interests
Neither of these allows for strangers to ever speak. There are no dialogues that could ever take place there.
>Thats not how you talk to people
Exactly, no one ever talks to strangers. Human beings do not do it. You are inferior for claiming otherwise.
>Go to a bar or a club for an evening, just sit and observer
I did and saw that not a single person ever speaks to strangers, especially women. They come in tight knit groups sit together and then leave together. There are no possible words for a stranger to say to break them up.
Go to a bar or a club for an evening, just sit and observe them instead of just reposting spam from quora you fucking monkey.

If you ever been to a museum you'd see all blondes there are just with their boyfriend/friend group and there's no possible conversation to be had.
In real life people never ever discuss anything with strangers, they just walk past each other. The body language exchange is never interacting. They have fun inside their group so there's no way to make drink for them, there's nothing to ever be said to them and there's no possible dialogue, just like you have admitted yourself in your comment you get the idea.

Dialogues involve words, you have no words that can be said to these groups so there's no other environment but school to ever speak to another human being outside of friends. Dialogues cannot ever take place in your reddit spam list which is why none of you trolling retards ever includes speaking your lying posts.

>>31132060
>>31132040
Men approach women, women approach men, people meet people and have fun. You have your own perception and its very off from reality

I see no point trying to convince and disprove your delusional worldview, its like arguing that gravity is fake and moon is optical illusion. My apologies, I am out

>>31131886
it's because it never took place. he couldn't ever imagine speaking to someone so he had to daydream a scenario where she's the one who initiated like in a shitty YA novel.
it wasn't luck, its his cowardice and lack of imagination of what could be said without someone doing everything for you.
Also women are incapable of ever speaking to strangers.

>>31131969
There's nothign whatsoever any human being can do to
>in park. stray cat came to me. I pet it
>suddenly it slips away, I turn around
>cat went to a cute girl, she pets it and looks at me
>"sorry I just stole your cat"
whatsoever, it involved no opportunity or practice at all, it's just wet dream fantasy.
there's nothing practiced there at all.

rest of your post is just twitter grifting spam that involves no conversation
and just like all PUA schizo incels you have to get away from using actual words and turn to everything abstract because you understand there no human being can ever speak outside of schools/friends to someone

People cannot speak to strangers which is why spammers like you cannot ever write dialogues. There are no conversations that can take place at all outside of schools or social circles.
You couldnt even dream of starting a conversation or doing anything on your own.
It's not normal to ever speak to strangers which is why you didn't write about you speaking to someone in normal way.

interesting, likeable and successful people do not ever accost random women on the street or have badly written YA stories happen around them

You couldn't write a single example despite claiming 6 different places
You couldn't have started the conversation on your own
You couldn't have spoken to multiple people at the same time (which is how most women move around)
You couldn't even do it in normal setting, you had to rely on a made up cat doing something for you

You are a lazy retarded spamming incel addicted to twitter brainrotted grifters which is why you didnt write a single convo

>>31132040
I know you're shitposting, but there's actually people on this board who legitimately, maybe unconsciously, think like this, so here's a couple thoughts:
>You're not a character on a tv show where it just jumpcuts to sex after 2 people look at each other.
it doesn't need to. if your only reason to talk to a women is because you're hoping to immediately have sex with them, they will notice and you will come across as a creep, because you are a creep. things like that may happen, eventually even frequently, but the more you try to force them the more you're working against yourself.

>why the fuck would a person outside of english speaking country,. where clearly english is such a rarity no one can speak it well would start off by speaking english??
because I was very obviously a tourist (European complexion) at a touristy spot.

>This isn't even a conversaiton you described beforehand you have showed none of
I'm not that guy. I agree with some of the stuff he said, but eventually it boils down to: be authentic, don't be needy, be capable and likeable. If you can't act authentic without being needy/capable/likeable, there's your problem. Become happy with yourself first, then be authentic and compassionate with others. Then there's no need for canned routines. Some people will still reject you, and that is totally fine. There's billions of people on this planet, not every one of them needs to be your friend/fling.

>you can totally speak to random women all the time!!!!
>ok write how
>ok so check this out just sit on your ass until this chick walks up to you and begs you for sex. my indian twitter friends told me that this is what all the charismatic and cool people do! yadayada anxiety yadayada be urself yadayada words arent real speaking doesnt happen so i cannot write anything please dont ask me

It's the same shit with these approach retards every time
None of them ever speak using words, they just have endless spam of the same motivational garbage which doesn't involve any in person communication.


All they do is just post further and further evidence that none of them ever spoke to anyone the way they lie they would. Every post without examples of conversations is just proof they didn't ever speak to anyone and don't believe they could. They're all just in bizarre incel cult completely unable to understand how normal people form relationships with one another.

There's only 2 settings which allow for conversations and they're schools and mutuals.

No one ever wrote or will write what can be said in a bar to these groups because everyone understands interesting, likeable and successful people or any person in human history could ever say there, they just have to rely on the same defence that dialogues are not real and human beings do not speak using words.

There's a reason why no one ever writes these hooks, they do not exsist, they cannot happen. There's only 2 hooks and they're schools and mutuals connecting you with the girl, other than that there's nothing and you will never find example of people forming relationship other than these 2 places, there's no other examples of speaking but these 2 and there never will be any.

>>31132090
>it's because it never took place. he couldn't ever imagine speaking to someone so he had to daydream a scenario where she's the one who initiated like in a shitty YA novel.
One more thing: whether people choose to initiate conversation with you is 99% your vibe. Eye contact, an inquisitive glance, looking like you're about to say something yourself, open posture and a smile go a long way. If you're a basement dwelling incel, these are things you can practice by filming yourself from different angles and comparing what you see to people you know to be socially adequate.

>>31126670
you dont

>>31132118
>>31132102
>another posts without speaking
You're just proving your point
You cannot even imagine people speaking to strangers so you have to rely on the copypasted reddit/twitter recycled posts to escape any possible real life scenario

You cannot speak to strangers and you're just proving this with every post where you have to run away from topic of conversation like the autistic faggot chicken you are

There's no possible words that people can ever speak to one another so human beings never met women this way and never will. You're just trolling by posting the most braindead copy pasted comments from other websites.
You're clearly a basement dwelling incel, the things you can practice is by imagining yourself being outside and what you'd say to someone walking past or a meat cube formed at a table in a resteurant/bar.
If you're not a genuine nigger you'll very quickly realize there's no possible words to ever say outside of schools/friends.

>>31132118
There is no point, you are not going to change him, let go

>>31132160
don't worry, I'm not. he's obviously shitposting and making fun of people who are like that. I'm replying because some people may have actually internalized some of the points he's making, maybe without noticing.

>>31132108
>>you can totally speak to random women all the time!!!!
Why can't you? Like: can you spell out to me exactly what the random women will say and do when I speak to her? And why it will be bad?

Here's legitimately how I would do this conversation:

- Hey there, just wanted to say I like your hair
- Oh thanks, I like yours too
- Thanks, so I'm anon *handshake*, nice to meet you, whats your name?
- Mariella
- Oh thats a nice name what is that like spanish or italian or something?
- Yeah its italian I'm italian
- Oh so are you from italy then or like you grew up here in america?
- Yeah actually I've lived here most my life but I have visited sometimes
- What's it like there? I've never been. Would you rather be living here or there?
- Oh its beautiful I went to rome and saw fountains and chapels and whatevers in italy that girls love to travel for blah blah you should definitely go sometime.
- Maybe one day I will just gotta find the right opportunity I guess. I do like italian food, like spaghetti.
- Ha yeah
- So what do you think about this art in this museum we're in?
- Oh yeah I like it it *insert something sophisticated I would never go to a museum i dunno what she'd say here*
- Ah yes I definitely feel the same about whatever you've said

And then we'd talk a bit more like this, I'd keep asking questions and listen, never turn it to asking her out or away from mundane questions, run out of stuff to say, get awkward, say the equivalent of big gulps huh well cya and then never talk to her again. And my body language would probably be awful the whole time.

This is just to say yeah it kinda is rocket science that fails me, but yes I do talk to random strangers like this and I did once compliment a girls hair and she complimented me back and I didn't follow up on it with anything but it was an ego boost.

>>31131811
^^^ forgot the tag

>>31132345
You can't, no one can. There's absolutely nothing to say or talk about. Like can you spell out exactly what would you say to these random groups? Write exact words that would lead to retionship after harassing these groups. You won't do it since neither you nor anyone else in human history has ever done it outside of schools/friends

>>31132160
Because I'm completely and absolutely correct. You cannot change the truth.
>>31132231
No, you are obviously doing that.
What I'm doing is posting absolute perfectly clear truth.
ALl you've done so far is point out how retarded and autistic the incel retards who disagree with me are.
Every non-nigger has already seen through you the second you were incapable of posting the 6 conversations you lied about hours ago since they have hypothetical thinking skills which your monkey brain doesn't have. Normal people do not ever speak to strangers since there's absolutely no words that could ever be said to them

>>31132433
>Write exact words
>"Hi, I'm X!"
So what terrible thing exactly will happen when I do this?

>>31131229
I read a lot of garbage only, but at this post, I physically shook my head.
You are so weak and irrelevant. The prospect of trying to describe to you why/how almost takes my breath.

Maybe you don't even get where I am coming from. So allow me to phrase it in a manner you might understand: your post is precisely like someone saying
>you can't hike in the mountains. It's dangerous
I mean how do you even reply to something like that? The "mountains are dangerous"? THAT's the caveat you advance? Not at least, like a concrete fear like "a mama bear might eat you"? Yeah maybe the mountains *are* dangerous of the time, but not generally, not with good preparation, and --
It's completely inflationary. There's no end to proving that statement wrong. You have fundamentally the wrong views on things.

>>31132477
that's not a conversation, that's why all redditors have to end at the hi, its not speaking, its not dialogue, its not a relationship
you're just admitting you're braindead autistic retard addicted to copy pasting posts from other peoples comments, they all always just end at hi as well and you in your infinite retardation couldnt ever come up with anything of your own

it's not speaking, you dont know anything about them and they dont know anything about you
Nothing at all happens after it. You might as well write
>....
and it will result in the same thing as hi

>>31132578
You are such a weak, pathetic pussy incel. The prospect of you trying to ever write conversation would kill you so you have to run away from the conversation again just like everyone else.
Allow me to phrase it in a manner you might understand: your post is precisely like someone saying:
>you can swim in the ocean in your bed. Its possible
I mean how do you even reply to something like that? The "ocean in your bed"? THAT's the caveat you advance? Not at least, like a concrete example like "in the Atlantic"? There is no fucking ocean in your bed you fucking retard.

It's completely inflationary. There's no end to proving that statement wrong. You have fundamentally the wrong views on things.

Human beings cannot speak outside of schools/friends so you had to try to change subject to a hyperbole that you could argue with instead of my point which cannot be argued against. You cannot prove me wrong because entire written history of humanity has not a single example of a man forming relationship with a stranger outside of school or frineds. There are no such words just like there are no examples of an entire ocean being located in a single bed. You are massivly retarded and autistic, no wonder you're shaking your head you fucking spastic tard

it's always very clear that some people are newfags
on reddit im sure you'd get many updoots and tons of praise for completely changing topic of conversation by other people who have never been outside

you cannot imagine speaking to a stranger, something no human being has ever done so you had to talk about mountianclimbing, something people actually do

So allow me to phrase it in a manner you might understand: your post is precisely like someone saying
>you cannot swim in lava, human beings are not capable of it
>pigs cannot grow wings and fly, pigs are not capable of it
>mountains cannot climb you, mountains cannot move

There's no option to advance.
if it was possible to advance, someone would've written out dialogue after harassing a group that leads to 2 people learning about one another
no human being has done it because no one ever did it and cannot even imagine doing it

that's why redditors like you always have to switch subject
you cannot engage or defend point of meeting women by harassing groups since you understand humans cannot speak this way so you have to switch topic to a irrelevant hypothetical which doesn't relate to our topic.

your initial point is completely undefendable in every way and entire written human history proves it cannot be done. There's no end to proving that statement wrong. There's no end in me being proven absolutely correct.
Everyone who disagrees with school/friends being only way to meet women is fundamentally wrong on every level and they will never write any conversation that could prove me wrong, all they can do is run away from the topic again and again into irrelevant, not aplicable hypotheticals since only conversations could prove me wrong and there are none that can take place between a man and the meat walls outside of schools.

>>31126670
Asking girls out while they’re working is big dick Chad energy whether you embarrass yourself or not. She and everyone who witnesses may make fun of you if you do embarrass yourself but everyone (especially the girl) will likewise respect you for taking such a bold shot like that. Just send it dude it’s a win win because even if it doesn’t work out you will still have gained very valuable XP for doing it

>>31132749
>The prospect of you trying to ever write conversation would kill you
I am not a 17 years old loser with a shitton of time on my hands to waste on an rando /adv/ thread. Not sure you understand this yet.
>[rest is just a series of insults]
Jesus Christ, why are you so mad? Get actual help for your anger issues. I can imagine you, sitting at home quivering in your little rage at my post.

>>31132749
>that's not a conversation
But that's not my question. My question is "What terrible thing will happen when I do that?" and if your answer is: "no conversation will develop" then that's not really frightening enough to keep me from trying.

>>31132776
this

>>31132776
this is the mindset.

>>31132776
>respect you
If you take no for an answer. If you keep coming back and hanging around for 45 minutes at a time that's not cool.

Weird guy who hit on me by talking about Ben and Jerry's and passing me his number on a deli ticket? Yeah I respect that. Don't want it but he's chill.

The Schooler is right.
I haven't said a single word to anyone other than family ever since I graduated.
The only reason I got my job was I wrote on paper to communicate and I convinced them I was born without a voice box. That was 4 years ago.
Last week I tried to make a sound but all that came out was a hiss like a snake.

>>31132776
You will have my time just for that

You have IT, I like that

>>31132908
>not if you keep coming back and hanging around
Yeah no shit… lol
>>31132959
>I like that
I know you do

>>31126670
Don't approach girls at the gym, shopping, or their work.
If she initiates with you while she's at said places, then you're fine. Otherwise you should leave them alone.

meh. worked with my current gf. the worst thing OP can do is not even try, i think it's worth a shot.

>>31133350
oops, meant to reply to >>31127557.

>>31132872
You are a 14 yo loser, who doesn't understand the world outside of school setting. It's not just you, no one in human history ever wrote a conversation like it and no one ever will because they cannot biologically take place.
You need some help for your autism issues, I can imagine you sitting in your moms basement quivering in your little rage at my post that popped your bubble

>>31132884
It's not trying, it's not doing anything. You haven't answered my questions of what would you say to form relationship and your answer is to do absolutely nothing and don't have any conversation at all you scared little pussy ass bitch. Not doing anything = not trying, you're not having conversations so you're not doing anything meaning you've never tried doing anything

>>31126670
>How the fuck do you ask out girls while they're working?
FFS, WHERE IS YOUR FATHER?!
That isn't how you do it.
Here is how
>Build up a habit of conversation with a cute girl where she works and you shop
You seem to have done that
>Share hobbies and interests and talk about local events
For example, we just had an art festival 4 blocks from where I shop for groceries and I talked to the meat department manager and the checkout girl about it
Never INVITE them but Let It Be Known you are going to stuff close by and talk about how you hope it will be fun.
If a girl is interested she will show up and, if she is really interested, will say something like
>"I'm going, too! I'll look for you!"
or similar.
Then, if you DO meet her away from her work it won't be weird of awkward and THEN you can chat her up and maybe ask her out

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>>31132913
still more believable than people claiming strangers harass cashiers into relationships while being unable to write what would they talk about with them

and unironically your post about not having a voice contains just as much dialogue and conversation examples as people who do believe that strangers talk to random passerbies
both examples have absolutely 0 speaking which makes the idea you were born without a voicebox MORE belivable than those autistic niggers

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>>31126670
>I already routinely talk to a cashier at a store I shop, should I ask her out on a date?"
How retards read that
>>31133432
>so you think you can harass a stranger into a relationship? GIVE THE EXACT WORDING OF HOW!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!!?!?!?"

>>31133468
he's just lying in OP about the first part as well
all OP wanted to do is appeal to the redditors who want to spam their useless garbage feel good qutes which involve not ever speaking verbally to others

retards just want to have the same circlejerk thread with the same copy pasted non-verbal garbage spam
none of them could ever write what could be said because all normal human beings know strangers dont speak to form relationships outside of schools/friends

>>31133485
I talk to strangers all the time.
I have made friends with people that work at my local grocery, at the comics shop, the brewery, and so on.
School is just a few years out of a long life. The majority of people never go to university at all.
If
>strangers dont speak to form relationships outside of schools/friends
were true Mankind would have died ages ago!

>>31133485
Psycho Schooler the Crazy Poster is back, baby!
Remember, folks, everyone but Schooler lies about how they met and Schooler never, ever talks to women, ever!

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>>31133485
DER SCHOOLER!
How is the Mumbai slum, Schooler? Did begging get you any rupees today?

>>31133485
>none of them could ever write what could be said
Translation
>When people DO write what was actually said Schooler pretends it didn't happen
Ice Cream Guy, Library Guy, Festival Guy, and so on have written long discussions that actually happened and Schooler just screams
>NUH-UH!
over and over

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>>31126670
>ask her out
Do it, but...
>in earshot of all her colleagues
That's an honor to women.
>BUT...
Present it as a reward for her ongoing hard work and service for all customers, not as "yeah I wanna fuck you." Make it sound like "You a good girl," kinda stuff.
>not even allowed to give out their number
"Is it okay if I wait until your shift ends?"

And if anyone butts in, ask IF SHE'S INTERESTED, and in that case you could call the manager and promise to check out with another cashier to avoid conflict of interest.

For example.

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>>31133641
you dont, no one ever has
there's nothing to say in any of the places you copy paste, there's a reason why these comments always end on the list of locations and dont have any words
School is the only place in human life where strangers talk without mutual connection to form relationships.
If people formed relationships with strangers, there would be examples of such conversations and yet mankind has never had one!
>>31133642
Remember, folks, retarded schizos have never ever been able to even imagine what would they say, ever!
>>31133659
Nope, all these copy pastas have been debunked countless of times already in long and detailed forms. None of them involved speaking or getting to know the person, all of them ended at
>hi can i please stalk you???
and were written by pathetic retarded incels
none had speaking, none had people getting to know one another, none had conversation that could happen in any capacity, just instant begging for permission to silently stalk and not saying anything
there has never been a long discussion written at any point in human history because human beings are biologically incapable of even imagining men and women speaking to form relationships outside of schools/friends

OP has been mustering up the courage to speak to this grocery store clerk for weeks now. He thinks he's making headway everytime he goes in there but I guarantee she's really thinking what we all are:

>this fuckin' guy again...

>>31133710
how did your parents meet?

>>31133691
this drawing has absolutely 0 data behind it
nothing was studied to make these drawings

you might as well make a column saying that dragons are 90% of worlds presidents and remaining 10 are minotaurs

there's absolutely no reason to believe your drawing at all you delusional retard time for you to kill yourself

>>31133780
in school

>>31133710
Can you stop lying? Theres no way to even meet women in a school or via friends, its impossible. You retarded reddit nigger are just using chatgdt for epic updoots. Its biologically impossible to talk to women at school or through friends. How do see it? How do you talk her into a relationship? Give me the text example retard, its not possible!

>>31133795
>In school

I'm not sure I entirely believe you. Give me an example of a conversation they would have had.

>>31126670
>How the fuck do you ask out girls while they're working?
Simple, you dont

>>31132776
this guy gets it

>>31133780
military when dad was stopped at a town and went to a restaurant she worked at

>>31133795
>science not real
lol
Lmao, even

>>31133780
They met at a church

>>31126670
Don't. You're right. It is both awkward and a faux pas. If you think about it, you're basically hitting on them in a context where they can't really get away with you, making any sort of advance instantly sort-of-cornering in nature. That's not suave.

>>31133413
>You haven't answered my questions of what would you say to form relationship
normal conversation. as soon as people answer to you in a non-hostile/non-dismissive way, you can shape the conversation any way you want depending on your own interests and talents. Most cool people will engage, because interesting people go to social places precisely because they enjoy meeting new people.
Assume it's a place where people come to do a specific sport (e.g. lounge in a tennis club, after introducing yourself):
>"I haven't seen you here before, is it your first time here?" (assuming it's a recurring event)
>(she says she switched clubs after moving from one part of the city to another)
>"No way, I used to live in X too! What street did you live in?"
>(she answers)
>"Oh it's lovely there, I once went to restaurant just around the corner"
>(then continue to talk about food if you know a lot about food and restaurants and she's interested)
>"You know, there's an amazing japanese place here, they change the menu regularly so I go there once a month. you should come!"
>(exchange numbers)

Of course, it's pointless to give a precise schematic for a conversation, because that's not how human interaction works. if she doesn't like food, you talk about something else. if you find you have nothing in common, the conversation will become boring and you just go talk to someone else. no shame in that.

>>31133805
this. how would anyone even approach someone at school?
>"hi, nice homework"
>"so you're also into ... chemistry class?"
the girls there are forced into school, they have nothing in common with you except for age, and usually not even that because girls usually date older guys anyway.
this schooler shit is total bs. you obviously only can form relationships with people you have something more in common than "we happen to go to the same school" or "we happen to know the same person".

>>31134305
If you are in the same chemistry class as her and you can't work that into a conversation bringing up how you both share chemistry or would like to partner with her for an explosive experiment or something stupid like that to make her laugh i don't know what to tell you. Plenty of props to work off of when you're mutually stuck in the same place you chose.

>>31134342
total bs.
>so how do you know each other
>haha he partnered up with me in chemistry class to do an explosion
this is real life not a fucking 80s highschool musical

>>31134451
your real life is boring then. I live it like a character from a cheesy movie and I've gotten girlfriends doing it. you want the kind of sluts you get from refining game or whatever don't do this.

>>31127242
> we were told bluntly we were not permitted to flirt with or give out/accept phone numbers from customers while on the clock
Companies like Hot Topic are not the law. They literally cannot do anything. They can't even question shop-lifters in many states.

>>31126670
I don't know anon there's a lot of ways this could go wrong so i would suggest you don't do it. It's hard to pull it off without coming across as a creep. The best way to meet girls is through mutual acquaintances as girls/women generally hate being approached by random men in public, there's a lot of "horror stories" going around, you probably know how it is. Good luck either way

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>>31133809
very much the same as I've written in all my examples
Why don't you write what would be said to the meat cubes in bars? Write a full conversation that a man would have starting with interrupting a groups conversation in a loud bar to getting to know one of the girls sitting there

>>31134217
its not science lol its a drawing
do you think pic rel is also "science"??
pic related in your opinion is a scientific proof that you're completely wrong
it's retarded, you posted nothing that has conversions outside of school/friends whatsoever, no dialogue, no verbal communication at all, not a single evidence just a drawing that someone made up
if just having a drawing is "science" then science is settled, no one has formed relationship outside of school/friends time for you to fucking kill yourself you autistic fucking retard

my drawing is actually better than yours because it actually has an example of what a man could say outside of school
NOTHING
which is a proof that people cannot speak this way to form relationship or get to know anyone

>>31134245
Not at all. The normal conversation is not speaking at all because cool people do not ever speak to strangers
There are no recurring event at all outside of schools for anyone to speak to so your whole conversation has no place to ever start outside of schools in any capactity

It's pointless to give schematic because there are no schematic. It cannot physically biologically occur in human society outside of schools, because that's not how human interaction works. There's nothing at all to say to anyone at all, there's no way to ever talk to anyone. There's no shame, there's nothing that can happen until you quit your job and come back to school.

>>31134305
Your approach can actually happen, you speak words and you get to know the person a bit. After this question you can ask them about their major, why they picked it, what they want to do afterwards, what classes they take, how are their other classes going etc. all on top of infinite number of things to talk about relating to your currect class

They have everything in common with guys in school unlike outside of it where they cannot speak to anyone in any capacity.

There's no way these older guys have to come into contact with the girls if they dont have mutuals who connect them in any capacity.

You have no way to even speak to them to learn that you have anything in common without school/person connecting you in the first place. They just walk past everyone you, you walk past them, there's no option to ever start speaking to one another to ever learn anything about them at all. You can walk past person you share 99% of everything in common and she's still going to just date and fuck some guy who sits next to her in class because he actually got to speak to her a little bit to learn they have 1% in common.

You obviously cannot ever speak to anyone to learn you have anything in common at all if you're not in school or know person who can set you up.

>>31134649
No you didn't. Your obsession with never speaking and "scripts" is a clear sign you cannot even imagine speaking and you never got a girlfriend at all. You cannot game at all, you've proven this countless times already ITT where there's 0 speaking going on outside of schools
>>31134227
in churches no one speaks, they just come to mass then they leave to go home
no speaking, no socializing at all with strangers, just sitting down surrounded by old fat dying shits

>>31136869>>31136893
At first I thought you are stupid, then I thought you are just pretending, now I am sure you are crazy. Its incredible, I never saw anything like this before.

I wonder what kind of trauma causes this. This reality denying stubbornness of mental self punishment similar to 'its impossible to make more than 100k' or 'its impossible to travel' or 'its impossible get shredded' followed by mental gymnastics and made up facts

Focus on conversation is the most bizarre part. Imagined inevitable rejection in his mind comes only from conversations outside of particular environment. He cant comprehend people having communications, to him, by his words, its fundamentally impossible.

Its amazing. That guy believes that humans talk only in small specific situation. I wonder if it comes from childhood, hes the guy so mother is the first woman she had a connection with. Could that comes from his mother? Shaming him for talking to strangers in her delusional hyper care? Punishing him for going outside of their small social group? Interesting.

>>31137077
>another post with inability to even imagine these conversations
>instantly just jumped to reddit projection of his own problems

At first I thought you are stupid, then I thought you are just pretending, now I am sure you are deranged autistic.
Its incredible, you are completely brainwashed by reddit and incapable of thinking on your own. I wonder what kind of trauma causes this. This reality denying stubbornness of mental self punishment similar to 'its possible to just manifest 100k without ever working' or 'teleportation is possible' or 'doing nothing but eating fries will make me look like arnold' followed by mental gymnastics and made up facts while running away from topic at hand and being incapable of writing how he'd actually get there

Running away from conversation is the most bizarre part. Imagined the inveitable success without being able to write anything he'd say. He cannot comprehand people having verbal communication, to him by his own words are fundamentally impossible.

Its amazing. That guy believes that humans are harassing strangers on streets or in stores into relationships. I wonder if it comes from childhood, hes the guy so mother is the first woman he had a connection with. Could that comes from his mother? What led him to think any strangers could fuck her at any moment? What abuse did he subjegate him into thinking that strangers can ever speak?
Interesting.

Tell us about your mother reddit schizo. Did she perhaps fuck random strangers, who never even had to speak to her?
Why do you think every stranger can fuck every woman just by saying "hi"?
Did you have to look at it go down?

Explain yourself to us, lets unpack some of this trauma you've been carrying. Treat it as a safe space.

It's bizarre you are so hyperfocused on just naming random locations, while simultaneously being unable to write what could be said in them. Have you ever been outside on your own yet? I can't imagine what a crushing blow to your mental health it will be once you do and see that people dont just fuck random people walking past them. Your obsession with the idea people dont communicate verbally is also interesting. Are you capable of actually speaking?

Can you even understand the doublethinking paradox you're presenting to everyone?
If you believe people can speak to strangers, you could write what they'd say.
Your inability to write anything that could be said is a proof that you cannot do it.
Surely even with your traumatic abusive childhood and your unstable mother you can understand that to normal people, you come off bizarre and deranged.

We have writings of all human beings who have lived up until now, and none of them wrote anything about speaking to strangers. There are no words or phrases that a person can use to ever communicate, build relationship, get to know someone or form a bond with anyone but their friends out of school and it's a fact.

Every day people post everything they do, every other action and conversation type has written down evidence of them occurring, except for 1 thing and it's men/women talking to each other to date or form relationship outside of schools.
You have to be seriously deranged and at odds with reality to ever lie that it can happen just because someone on reddit wrote that "they did it"
If you saw a comment saying that
>I can turn leafs into golden bricks
would you believe that as well, with no explanation or recording or any evidence that it took place? Because that's the same logic that people use to justify their constant spam of reddit location list with no elaboration.

You need to go outside for once in your life or even justpick up a book or watch a movie or engage with human culture at any level except for reddit spam written by chatbots.
If you went to a bar you'd see it's just people sitting at tables with their close ones and no option for a man to ever get to talk to them. There's no way to ever speak to anyone ever outside of schools.
Shit you dont even need to do any of it, you just need non-nigger brain that lets you ponder hypotheticals. If you could do it, you'd just imagine yourself in a bar, looking at a table of strangers or out in the park walking past some couple thinking what could be said to them and you'd quickly arrive at conclusion there is NOTHING that can be said or talked about with them at all in any way.
If you still insist that strangers can speak, you're just an autistic nigger who has never left your room and never been involved with human culture at all beyond your same ai written comments on quora/reddit

>>31137331
>>31137308
>>31137294
Wow, that hit a nerve. Are you okay?

>>31137077
don't worry, he's just a troll. I don't lurk /adv/ usually but from the other answers I gather he does this here a lot. I don't know why, but to continually pretend to be such a person just to get a reaction out of strangers you'd have to be just as fucked up as a person actually believing what he's saying.

>>31137308
your trolling is obvious, because according to your theory, every person moving to a new city (where they have 0 friends/family) would forever be alone there. This is obviously not the case, and even the most deranged basement dweller raised by Pakistani fundamentalists will instantly understand this. so maybe you'd want to refine your shtick a little.

>>31136869
>The normal conversation is not speaking at all because cool people do not ever speak to strangers
Cool people are usually those who remain confident while speaking to strangers. This is why people accept them as leaders and admire them, because talking to strangers is what gets you ahead. This is true for business, social settings, life in general - and of course romance.

>>31137375
No, you're the one trolling here. If you were correct, then we'd already have read thousands of posts of written out conversations when in reality in all human history, there are only the ones I said can happen. Only the most deranged basement dweller incel indian/pakistania/bangladeshians etc. disagree.

Cool people are the ones who are well socialised meaning they'd never, ever speak to strangers. People accept them as leaders because they aren't autistic fuck up like you, talking to strangers does nothing since there's no option to ever say anything to form relationships. If it was possible, there would be written out words that can lead to romance between 2 passerbies, but there are none.

You are either trolling for attention by copying reddit circlejerk or you are seriously fucked in the head to actually believe that its cool and romantic to harass strangers while also not being even able to imagine what could be said to them.

Cool people, the leaders and admired ones, are the ones who have social skills good enough to know only schools and friends allow for any communication that leads to romance.

>>31137362
wow you must be traumatized as shit, who hurt you? why dont yu share us what abuse you went through to end up with this retardation that makes you doublethink so badly?

>>31137396
we already have those conversations written all over human history. even in this thread.

you yourself are currently, in this very moment, having a conversation with complete strangers. I'm not friend or family to you, yet we're having a conversation.

>>31137396
Yes, but are you okay? We are not in school and we are not friends, I know, but since we are already talking you can open up. I wont snitch to your mommy

>>31137431
>>31137489
>we already have those conversations written all over human history.
No we do not, there's literally none written ever in human history and there never will be. Human brain is not capable of imagining what a man could say to these groups of strangers sitting like meat shielded off from any contact and with nothing to say to one another.

Right now we're not speaking, your mouth isnt saying anything to my ears and mine aren't to yours, we arent in the same room, no eye contact no possibility of any interaction just like its not possible for any man to meet a woman itt. We're not having a conversation at all, this is just posting on the internet.

>>31137571
Huh? You dont know that we see and hear you? Check your webcamera

>>31132983
>no shit
You would be surprised how many guys do not seem to get that. You have some semblance of social skills if you understand that's fucked up, not everyone has that apparently.

>>31137645
I think most guys understand that on some basic level. It’s the few freaks that makes it seem like it’s more prevalent than it is. Does this happen to you a lot?

>>31137650
>few freaks
You would be surprised by the frequency of freaks I encounter then

>>31137650
>>31137653
To elaborate.

I don't go out much. I don't have friends. The only guys who talk to me are the freaks because they're the only ones comfortable going against social conventions.

>>31134342
>If you are in the same bar as her and you can't work that into a conversation bringing up how you both share going to bars or would like to partner with her for dancing or something stupid like that to make her laugh i don't know what to tell you. Plenty of props to work off of when you're mutually stuck in the same place you chose.

>>31134342
You just proved no one ever speaks in school, ever. You can't even imagine what you would say! If it was possible you could write out exactly what you would say to make her enter a relationship with you.
You can't because it is impossible because no one talks in school.

>>31126670
I literally met this girl I've been talking to at her job, but it was a restaurant that I go to often. Just be a regular customer, don't be weird, and strike up a conversation.

>>31126670
>How the fuck do you ask out girls while they're working? It just seems awkward, and like a massive faux pas.
I've dated a couple of girls I met working and it usually follows a rapid progression of building up rapport by talking to them like a regular person, talking about more personal things like what I'm doing later or asking what my plans are with my "girlfriend" (so I can tell them I don't have one) then just asking for the number. It feels natural if you and the person superficially like each other
>There's a girl at the grocery store who is super cute and we always talk a little when I check out but I can't imagine how awkward it would be if I asked her out in earshot of all her coworkers and other customers
So ask her when she's alone and just be casual about it.
>I imagine they're not even allowed to give out their number while.on the clock
Women will break the rules for a guy they like
>Any advice?
Life is short. If you like the girl just ask her out. If she says no the negative feelings will be mild and short lived unless you're mentally fucked. The not knowing and regret of not having the courage to take the chance is much worse. If a girl likes you you have a short window to make a move. Don't spend another week or two or five wondering about this.

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>>31137331
>We have writings of all human beings who have lived up until now, and none of them wrote anything about speaking to strangers
>https://www.amazon.com/How-Talk-Anyone-Conversations-Effortlessly-ebook/dp/B0BJF3SMSF/ref=sr_1_7?s=books&sr=1-7
>https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0871N22LF/ref=sspa_dk_detail_3?psc=1&pd_rd_i=B0871N22LF&sp_csd=d2lkZ2V0TmFtZT1zcF9kZXRhaWwy
>https://www.amazon.com/dp/B08MWYZPCR/ref=sspa_dk_detail_2?psc=1&pd_rd_i=B08MWYZPCR&sp_csd=d2lkZ2V0TmFtZT1zcF9kZXRhaWwy
>https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CSXSRCTN/ref=sspa_dk_detail_4?psc=1&pd_rd_i=B0CSXSRCTN&sp_csd=d2lkZ2V0TmFtZT1zcF9kZXRhaWwy
>https://www.amazon.com/Talking-Strangers-Should-about-People-ebook/dp/B07NDKVWZW/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&sr=1-1
>https://www.amazon.com/How-Talk-Strangers-psychological-conversational-ebook/dp/B0C5Q137GS/ref=sr_1_13?s=books&sr=1-13
>https://www.amazon.com/Strangers-Advice-Professional-Stranger-Talker-ebook/dp/B0CQDQ157S/ref=sr_1_17?s=books&sr=1-17
>https://www.amazon.com/Talking-Strangers-Adventures-Insurance-Salesman-ebook/dp/B00PCKXJJM/ref=sr_1_16?s=books&sr=1-16
There is an entire genre of books to explain how to be better at talking to strangers, you psycho autist.

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>>31137362
Schooler is a stone dead loser of the lowest sort.
He has repeatedly admitted he never talks to people face to face.
He has admitted he never spoke to anyone at university BUT he once saw a guy at university talk to a girl and that is why he is obsessed with it.
He has admitted he is broke, unemployed, friendless, and totally socially isolated.
His only human contact?
Here. Doing this.
He spends hours a day fantasizing about how IF he were in school again and IF he had the courage he'd talk to a girl, finally.
I mean, look at his ridiculous statements:
>>31137308
>Why do you think every stranger can fuck every woman just by saying "hi"?
>>31131229
>it's just social faux pas like shitting yourself publically and cannot result in a relationship
>>31131703
>not one human being ever wrote a conversation that can form a relationship outside of school or friends
>>31132749
>Its not speaking its not dialogue, its not a relationship
>>31133413
>You haven't answered my questions of what would you say to form relationship
Schooler legit thinks thatIF you talk to a girl successfully BOOM! You are in a sexual relationship with her RIGHT THEN.
He has zero idea how conversation, building friendships, dating, etc. works, At all.
Der Schooler is almost certainly the worst loser on 4chan, ever.

>>31137871
Holy fuck, that schooler post in the image is brutal to read.

>>31137917
Yeah.
Schooler has never been able to figure out how to talk to ANYONE. But he once saw a guy on a university campus talking to girls so he knows the secret....
Sad AF.

>>31137653
I could imagine. What’s the worst story you got?

>>31137926
Homeless guy hopped in my car as I was putting new ice in my cooler, offered me meth, wanted to fuck in the back. I got him out by giving him some tobacco but saying I had no rolling papers. Booked it when he went over to the liquor store to get some.

That's the worst one. Most of the time it's just a weird guy who doesn't talk to me but stares at me and follows me around for 40 mins. Generally that guy seems more afraid of me than I am of him but it's still really uncomfortable.

>>31137871
4chan, the magical place

>>31137931
That’s pretty insane key did you call the cops to euthanize him with a 9mm? Also I’m guessing you’re like an average or below average girl? Or even a tranny? Based on you posting here

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>>31137856
None of these books involve ever talking to a stranger in any capacity you retard. You haven't even thouched them, you just googled random titles.

If you ever picked up one of these books you'd see they are just empty reddit babble with cutsey pre-approved morals that make retarded autists feel good about themselves (bee urself, accept rejection, feel goood about being an incel its alright etc.) and NONE of them contain any words that a human being can actually speak to a piece of meat ahead of them out on a street or in a cafe etc.

None of them contain people actually speaking to a stranger, none of them have any conversations, none of them have any human contact in real life.

>>31137603
I dont even have one

>>31137823
in a bar she's just sat at table inside her other friends that she came in with, she's completely enclosed in a wall of meat where no one can get close to her wheras in school everyone is in hallway free for everyone to walk up to and talk to each other.
Bar offers absolutely nothing to say to other people, there's nothing to talk about there, schools offer infinite conversation topics to get to know the person better. There isn't a single "prop" to work off there, there's a reason why there's books about schools and none about bars. Look at a website of a school and one for a bar, schools have thousands of websites about different subjects, different classes, majors, different topics to learn about all of which are conversation topics that lead to talking about workload about what they've done today what their last class was about. Bar just has garbage list of drinks that are 50 times more expensive than what someone can make at home which, even if you could SOMEHOW break through the meat cube to talk which no human being can do, all come down to simple yes/no question if its good or not. You can't hear hours long stories of what their latest class was about, just its good/bad yes/no nothing to learn about the person.

>>31137979
6/10
And no I drove away after I got him out of my car like I just said. What good would calling the cops do?

>>31138596
>6/10
Luckily for you 6 is my favorite number I hope it’s true we could have good looking babies

>>31136869
>picrel
>venn diagram
you should go to school but not for the reason you think