I'm fed up with being a virgin at 21 so I've decided to go to a brothel (they're legal in Switzerland). Any advice for the first time?
>>31111580Tell her you like her hairstyle
you have to lean into it. don't go there filled with shame, guilt and preemptive regret. you gotta channel the degenerate boomer in a hawaii shirt haggling over a 20 dollar blowjob energytreat here like the dirty piece of shit whore she is. it's like a form of misogynistic therapy. I facefucked this 18 y/o romanian whore raw a few days back. while I was fucking her I told her to tell me about her fucked up life, how she was tricked into coming here under the guise of being a barmaid etc etc, then I came in her throat and slapped her around a bit. I walked out of there like a new man let me me tell you
>>31111603was your first time with a sex worker too or?
>>31111686no. when I feel the agression and frustration building up I visit them. keep in mind that I have a reduced capacity to feel shame I think, so for me it's no biggie. I fuck normal women too. sometimes it's just easy and fun to have a disposable fuckhole
>>31111709well I don't know if I'll regret it but also I feel like being a virgin makes me way too nervous around women and that it would help
>>31111603If he had that kind of confidence you mentioned he probably would've losed his virginity by now. My guess is that he's already pampered up with anger and frustration and will probably regret doing the deed with some random whore.
>>31111580If your dick is big enough cervix pounding doesn't make a woman feel good. Neither does speed, think of it more as a dance, increasing the tempo doesn't make it better but there's a place for it.That's more just common courtesy, you're buying sex from someone who's selling. If they're legal there'll probably be some kind of "rule list" available so that makes it less awkward.Don't buy the GFE, she isn't good at it. She won't remember you or gossip, maybe be upfront that this is your first time so she knows what to expect. I doubt you've got the charisma to explain one pump chumpery.
>>31111969is there anything I should look for when choosing a place or anything else I should consider (like e.g. is it still expected to bring flowers nowadays or sth)
>>31112503>anything else I should considerBe very clean and well groomed, always take the shower if they offer, even if you just took one, just so they don't worry about you smelling bad
>>31111580no. save yourself. and dont fuel the trafficking industry
>>31111580Don't, prostitution is degenerate>>31111603nigger
>>31112681>>31112781what's the difference between a sex worker and the majority of women nowadays. At least they make money off being promiscuous
>>31112781>muh degeneracypussy
Don't do it. I regret it
>>31112781degeneracy is a made-up word. it's a spook. the only degenerate thing that exists are degenerate quantum states, those are pretty real. the rest I just call fun>>31111754you most likely will regret it. it all comes down to mindset however. you have preemptive regret because you still hang on to a romanticised idea of intimacy. but she's just a filthy whore like all women. with her you just don't have to act. that is liberating in itself
>>31113948why>>31113976so would you do it if you were me?
>>31113948my first time was with an escort too, i didn't regret it but every man is different
>>31115234I would but I'm not you. I don't know your mental state. personally I just don't care much for anything, so I try to enjoy life on my own terms. including fucking whores if feel likeif you're an anxious person it might be a bad idea. you might go there and not be able to even get hard
>>31111580Go clean shaved and showered.The girl will be grateful you are clean shaved.Take your time to choose the girl.You are fresh meat, the girls will throw at you literally. You have the luxury to say no to any of them. Do it if you don't like her.In most brothels, there are girls for all type of men. If you don't like long nails, sure there is a girl with shorter ones. Even tatoo-free.Get the younger one, easy as.Most girls will small talk with you so they feel better or be assured you are not a psycho. Just do it, it's free practice.You have allotted time for your money. Use it, even for chatting with the girl.When you are with her, let yourself feel anything.Just remember, when you cross the door to left, you should erase her from your mind.
>>31111603LMAO
>>31111603Psychopathmaxxed
>>31111603>>31112781Ignore these guys.>>31111580If it's your first time tell her. She won't make fun of you, she will take inititative and teach you how to stick your dick in her pussy. Have fun with her body while respecting her limits. Abusive assholes like the other are ammo for the prohibitionists' agenda. Just treat her like a normal human being who is giving you a service.
>>31115697how am I more of an abusive asshole than you? all the girls here are either traficked or abused/addicted, it's well known. they put makeup on their injection spots, self-harm scars and bruises. you try to mask an inherently abusive situation with a veneer of respectability. I call that being a hypocrite. like the kind of idiot how fools himself that whores just have a high libido or do it for fun. for me the misery is the turn-on. like putting my dick right in the heart of suffering of the world. pretty hot. they're just whores dude
>>31115758It's easy to tell when they're being exploited. They don't advertise themselves on websites for law enforcement to see, they set their own schedule and turn you down if they don't want to work a certain day or past an hour. You must be going to some cheap seedy trash place if every girl you see is trafficked. And abusing them still makes you an asshole.
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>>31115671>>31115697is there anything I should consider when choosing the brothel
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