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I hate women
>>31122697Why?
I love men
>>31122697Punch them randomly>>31122706Shut up ho -SMACK
>>31122692Wtf is a practice gf and how are you anons getting them?
I hate men
>>31122712It's literally just a girl you try new shit on in terms of dating, where you don't really give a fuck about losing her, and you manage to get a gf because you're confident and not needy.I have no idea where you get one.
>>31122692you faggots need to realize that you can be the guy in the right and the guy in the left with the same girl. There is nothing stopping you from doing that.
>>31122707No you don't! :(
I love OTF, YSL, OVO, FBG.
We could offset these graphs, femanons.
>>31122721OP was clearly ragebaiting, but I don't want the first panel to exist at all. I don't want to treat my wife like shit, and I certainly don't want a wife who enjoys it.
>>31122722Yea I do
I hope women understand why some guys get annoyed that they get rejected constantly while at the same time they watch women stay with or even repeatedly go after abusive subhuman trash that cheats on them/hits them. Its the most demoralizing shit.
How do I manifest love or open my soul and energy up
>>31122707People who say they love the other gender are almost always promiscuous.So, ew
>>31122712>>31122720It's just a girl below your league and you can do anything you want to her because she knows she's lucky to have you also. Usually they show interest first and it's easy from there.
>>31122692I broke up with an ex after i learned that the fuck buddy she had before we were together would pee on her face.
>cute new neighbor moved in and moved to town a few weeks ago>go out and chat with her and instantly felt chemistry>exchange numbers and texted her later saying if she needs help or anything or if she wants to get food together sometime (as friends) to reach out.>replies with "I'll definitely hit you up when I'm more settled in!"Am I delusional or doesn't this imply she felt that chemistry too? Like why would she need to be settled in just to go eat dinner with someone as a friend? We live really close and I don't want to make things awkward so I'm going to play it a little slower.
>>31122707Thanks, bros appreciating bros is a good thing. Love you too, G.
>>31122721I get woman on left side but never right side. I get the fuck, but not the love. Starting to believe that woman are too selfish to love.
>>31122745I've never had sex
>>31122744Send out what you want to receive. Align yourself with the frequency on which what you desire exists.
>>31122747At least you drew the line somewhere, but why would you date a woman who had a "fuck buddy"?
>>31122750You live in the same apartment building? Just go knock on her door and ask her out.
>>31122734>I don't want to treat my wife like shit,That's why you don't have a wife
>>31122755Can you explain I am a complete beginner and don't even know how to access frequencies
>>31122744I thought this was a meme until I realized women unironically think emotions have energy frequencies. Funniest shit I ever saw.
>>31122746>It's just a girl below your leagueThis does not exist
>>31122759Bad advice. That would feel intrusive and puts her on the spot.
>>31122744Ease up with the woo woo bullshit first of all.Look into attachment styles, you may be an avoidant type
>>31122767I don't know anything about anything>>31122773How do i fix that if I am
>>31122709Some madman in NYC is on it
Imagine not being attracted to women
Either gender, Hello again, pregnant anon here to try and answer any pregnancy questions you may have. I went to my midwife appointment yesterday and she told me to get a covid vaccination while pregnant so it can be passed onto the baby.. bit of a yikes
>>31122741Why don't you learn from it anon instead of whining?Stop listening to fucking women especially your mother about what women like.Go read some stuff that women actually get themselves off to; female porn. aka romance novels. Who do the women fuck? What are their characteristics?
>fixed my life too late>now doomed to be alone forever How do I cope with it?
>>31122786i wouldn't even allow my children a normal vaccine at this point, especially as infantsfucking doctors send me into a rageanywayHow much more do you have to eat when pregnant? What diet have you eaten?
>>31122789How old are you
>>31122744three red flags in a single sentence. Impressive.
>>31122750>I don't want to make things awkward so I'm going to play it a little slower.I think your instincts are right on this. It's possible she's not interested in dating for a multitude of reasons that may have nothing to do with you personally, or maybe she's the type to get easily overwhelmed and really does need some time to settle in before going out for dinner. Give it a bit of space and see how things unfold, maybe she'll get back to you and if not there will be other opportunities in the future to gage her interest
>>31122778I'm not sure specifically. I only went in-depth on the anxious type since that's my natural state.
>>3112279532, was a long journey
>>31122786why do I want to make girls pregnant while they look so gross with a blown up belly
>>31122769wrong
>>31122692why are women like this? Should I even bother being nice to them, or should I treat them like pieces of meat, since that's obviously what they want?
>>31122753That's why you love men, you have no experience with them.
>>31122750> when I'm more settled in!"indefinite delay = never anon. You got rejected.
>>31122764There is a threshold where your subconscious will switch into self destruction or into ascension. If you crave things that are destructive then that means you are in the lower half of frequencies that have the goal of terminating you because you are basically a failed attempt. If what you crave nourishes, heals and uplifts you then your subconscious still has hope for you and wants you to succeed and access higher frequencies. The fact you are asking about those things is likely an indicator that your soul has not given up fully yet but she is getting desperate. Ever single thing you do sends out energy. From what you eat to how you sleep to who you interact with to what you watch and think. How you dress, what you do for work, what you dream about, how you express your sexuality, what you put on your body - everything. All of those things can either drag you down or lift you higher. For example, the person you crush on would be a great indicator. Are they someone that would treat you with respect and kindness and be gentle and loving with you and you with them? Then that would be pointing towards ascension. Would they be abusive, chaotic, drama inducing and maybe even abusive? That would be your soul trying to end your misery by lowering your frequency. You can observe what porn gets you off or what foods you crave. Nothing about any of that is random at all. You can use your willpower and free will to gently steer your frequency in the right direction but it has to be done out of self love, not self hatred. So for example, cutting out porn because dome podcast bro has told you that you have to practice semen retention to get more sexually aggressive to get pussy will lower your frequency and make you feel like shit after the initial ego boost. But cutting it out because you start to truly feel how this is something that is harming your dignity and the dignity of the people involved in producing that material then that will raise your frequency.
>>31122744Give regular offerings to the Goddess of Love, Aphrodite
>>31122807Hooooly schizopost
>>31122773>Ease up with the woo woo bullshit first of all.>replace is with pop-psychology woowoo shit insteadahahahahahha
>>31122792Yeah as we left the building I told my husband that there is no way I'm ever getting another covid Vax, let alone when pregnant. It can cause miscarriages. Wild that it's even suggested. The calorie increase goes up with each trimester, basically an extra meal after the second trimester.My food has been really up and down and at the moment I'm just trying to get enough in because my appetite has been non existent. Alot if fruit and veg but also alot of bread which probably isn't great but it's the only bland thing I can consistently eat without throwing it up. Meat has been hard to even chew and swallow which is annoying. >>31122802Evolution
>>31122804>Should I even bother being nice to themno. It literally repulses them.> should I treat them like pieces of meatignore them.
>>31122757I was a beta virgin, that's really all there was to it. Never again.
>>31122759It's a big house composed of 3 apartments, with 1 being used as storage. So basically her and I in the same "house". A little more intimate than a big apartment building.
>>31122805Probably lol
>>31122807Forgot to add another very important factor. Your surroundings matter a lot. If you live in cluttered and unclean places then that will drastically drag you down. Basically you can ask yourself about everything in your life if it makes you feel uplifted or humiliated and that will be your answer. Good luck. You got this.
>>31122785what's the upside of being attracted to them?I have to deal with their bullshit and jump through all these fucking hoops just to get laid. I genuinely wish my dick would get hard looking at men, but no. God decided that my neurons will only activate upon seeing the objectively inferior gender.
>>31122818Then yeah, go knock on her door.
There's this very cute nerdy older girl that I really wanna ask out on a date, pls rate my invitation:"Finished up most of my uni work for the week today so will make sure to try out that game. Anyway I've had a lot of fun talking to ya yesterday so I thought I'd invite you on a fun little date like an escape room. Been wanting to get to know more people doing cosplay anyway as I wanted to get into it myself actually"
>>31122823Faggot.
Why does this make women seethe?
>>31122825>>31122826
Has anyone here ever noticed that the femanons in this thread are kinda horrifically awful, judgmental people that consider every mild offense in the world unforgivable? The femanons here would probably break up with their boyfriend and consider him an abuser if he accidentally bumped into her.
>>31122692I almost paid a girl for a footjob. I don't even like feet. Then i jerked off and now my mind is void of degeneracy and wanting women. Isn't that crazy?
>>31122807I don't do anything very destructive, I keep my drinking to a minimum, I don't smoke or do drugs, I keep my home clean, I spend time outside and exercise frequently. I don't have many friends but the ones I do have are really good. My job is not great but I'm working on it. I don't watch porn but I do read erotica and it's always based on the characters being in love. I try to eat healthy and my menstrual cycle is regular + healthy. I haven't had a crush on anyone in a long time which frustrates me because I really want to fall in love and I don't know how to attract a person who I can mesh well with like that. In the past, where I thought I had met that person, they did not take me seriously
>>31122825You come off as an insecure weakling with 0 game but maybe she is into personalityless dorks.
>>31122835Thats all women. Its not just this thread.
>>31122712the girl who obviously likes you but you have no interest in her but you're still invisible to hot girls so you date her for sexual release.this eventually turns into an unhappy marriage as your looks fade and you age making it even harder to get hot girls.
>>31122835I hate to break it to you but there are no women here. The posters you're talking about are all incel autistic dudes larping as women to feed rage bait to suckers like you.
>>31122784>>31122709
>>31122837Ah dang, man, I wish I could meet someone like you. I'm so burned from past relationships. I can't find a decent woman for the life of me.
>>31122811Attachment styles have genetic and neurobiological antecedents.If you know of a better model I'm all ears.
>>31122809What does she like?>>31122848I don't think I'm all that great I guess. Someone would have noticed by now if I was
Do random females really expect you to risk your life for them? It's not like she would fuck you after helping.https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_45ts5YOFuw
>>31122746>>31122844Damn son, sounds like some sociopath shit.
think I've lost the ability to fall in love, if I ever had it at all. met this qt. she's in love with me but I don't feel shit. no anxiety, no buzz to be around her, nothing. she pressed her body against mine and the only thing I could think off is that I'm not feeling a thing. I'm not depressed either, I just lack the ability to care enough for others in order to love I think. I just want to fuck her
>>31122855Not gonna make itWomen do much worse
>>31122827Based mustafar bro
>>31122837I see. That is very good. But there still seems to be things holding you back. You see, you can do all those things but if they are done for the wrong reasons then they will actively lower your frequency instead of uplifting you. For example, exercising is good. But only if you do not force it and hurt yourself. Or if you exercise because you think you need to fit some beauty ideal. Your only reason for moving your body is because it feels good, it makes you feel even better snd because you want to unlock your bodies full potential. Imagine a young horse happily jumping across a meadow not because it wants to tone its legs or get a perky butt but because it is simply happy to be alive, healthy and able to move its body freely in the sun and the fresh air, that is how exercise should feel like to push you closer to ascension and to not be a form of self harm instead that drags you down. The same is true for all the other things you listed. They sound good in theory but it is very easy to do something that sounds good but actually do more harm than good to yourself by accident. The no drinking for example. It is obviously great for your liver to not do that. But if this goves you a sense of superiority then it will drag you down. Also if you become rigid about it and can not even enjoy that one mug of mulled wine on christmas you have been craving. See what i mean? If good habits start to make you unhappy, give you a superiority complex or take away your freedom is when they instead become bad for you.
>>31122807Do you have even a single fact to back that up?
>>31122835sounds more like reddit to me
>>31122825Is this for real or is it bait? I honestly can't tell
>>31122827I can’t figure out how impressive that 1 arm pull-up is considering he lost like 30% of the weight he’d normally be lifting
>>31122853>What does she like?sweets, chocolates, flowers and other plants, salt, sugar, sea shells, art, rosewater
do men really think anything a woman does for them besides having sex with them is friendzone and leading them on?
>>31122836If you almost paid for it I’m thinking you like feet more than you care to admit to yourself
>>31122864I think my mindset with exercise is good because I am not chasing any kind of body, just the endorphins from movement but the drinking is for superficial reasons lol, because it breaks me out. But I'll have a glass of wine with my friends at dinner or a cocktail on vacation
>>31122850>Attachment styles have genetic and neurobiological antecedents.Which is a legitimizing coat of paint over what is essentially glorified woowoo. None of those antecedents of which you've truly explored in themselves.>a better modelThere's your problem. Stop seeking "models" as the only way to understand human behavior.
>>31122855That's most relationships.To all the women who think their bfs are loving and caring. 90% of men will go to the strip club for their "friend's" bachelor party. Most husbands cheat on their wives when theyre at work. I worked in corp america for some time and maybe 95% of people cheat on their spouses/gf with people at work. More so the men but the women do it too
>>31122871>I'm just like herHow do I give these things to her?
How do I start feeling sexual towards women?
>>31122872We wouldn't if you weren't sluts for Chads.
>>31122873maybe. I just didnt jerk off in a month. I like girls feet but idk if i have much sexual attraction to them generally. some girl feet is very sexo though.
How do I get over the fact that the overwhelming majority of women nowadays are like the one in >>31122692 ?That is, they have an unflatteringly promiscuous past, which is both a huge red flag and extremely unattractive to me.Just earlier this year, I met a girl from Tinder who came straight out of my dreams only to have things end because she wasn't interested in something serious and presumably hopped back on the cock carousel.She was everything I could have ever asked for in a girl: a nerdy pale big titty smart white freshman chick who's attending the same college I graduated from, majoring in CS so she has an avid interest in computers and tech, has an extensive history of playing vidya, has enough knowledge of anime and weeb culture that she's an avid fujo who loves yaoi + BL on the downlow, the list goes on.Added bonus points for being shy and having introverted tendencies that made it difficult for her to makeAbove all, she was attracted to me and was engaged enough to swipe on me and initiate everything.Even though we had undeniable chemistry, that still wasn't enough and she was back on Tinder talking up other dudes within a month.How am I supposed to harbor any modicum of hope for the fairer sex when every encounter I've had so far, from the lowest lows to the highest highs, has ended up this way?
>>31122881why do men think that because you had sex with another guy, you also owe them sex?
>>31122887Because it's disrespectful to be made to wait for something you gave up for free? How would you feel if they gave a free ride to someone else, but you had to pay 50 bucks for it?
>>31122826Recommendations for other approaches pls?>>31122826Not bait I promise
>>31122872Depends. Does she usually fuck random guys but withhold sex from you specifically? Then yes.Although to be fair, the answer is going to be yes more often than not, so it is what it is.
>>31122872I never think a woman is leading me on. However if you reproach me for putting less effort in you after being rejected I'll think you are being manipulative.
>>311228352.8 million years of hominid evolution and you STILL don't understand that women's words are totally meaningless.
WTF BROS HE TOLD ME WE WERE ALL KENOUGHWHY DID HE ANSWER THE CALL?
>>31122876That is good then. What do you think holds you back? I have seen you post that you do not think you are all that great or else someone would have noticed by now. That sounds like you measure your value by the validation of others, especially men. Which is an easy trap to fall into since that is how we are programmed and raised to think. It is also an indicator that you are operating on ancient instincts that demand you to procreate. Which is not wrong or a bad thing in itself but it can be a slippery slope to think low of yourself if that does not go as planned. It just means that you are keeping yourself back from ascending into frequencies that are less rudimentary. Could it be that you are still very young?
>>31122886you can't really. there are some women who are more sexually pure ( you're not going to find them on OLD) but you'll have to compromise somewhere else. you're not going to find a perfectly desirable young qt who's also your dream pure tradfu. the world just doesn't work like that. girls of that quality get swaped by male attention from age 14/15
>>31122880Unironically girl sweat, if that doesn’t work I’ve got some news you might not like anon
>>31122872>anything a woman does for themCould you be more specific? Cos it's not a situation I've ever encountered.
>>31122899these plastic surgeons are getting away with murder
>>31122854All these "ain't no reeel man mmm-HM" comments on that video. Fuck the whore, she voted for basketball Americans and equal fights, she gets basketball Americans and equal fights.
>>31122886>go to slut marketplace>obtain slut>confused and upset that she's a slut
>>31122899Fully bogged. He looks like he fell into a wasps nest. Is this real?
>>31122879purify yourselfmake a little shrine or altargive them the offering and pray to themyou can throw it out or burn it or consume it when they've accepted it afterwards.
Femanons, how do you feel about guys talking to you during sex? Not dirty talk, not a full-on everyday conversation, but the guy you're fucking huffing and puffing to the rhythm of his thrusts and asking you things about your life or getting to know you better while doing the deed?
i was talking to this old muslim man who is a friend of my dad and he started telling me "ok so you are a young girl and you need to hear this, men all over the west are flying out to the east to find virgin wives because of how promiscuous western women are. my advice to you is to stay chaste and save yourself for a good man." and i said "yeah i never had a boyfriend". but why did he just come up to me and start to talk about these things out of nowhere when we were just discussing unrelated things?
>>31122861>women do much worseYeah, that's probably true.
>>31122899nooo please this isn't real he didn't bog himself
>>31122892what is this communist mindset, not everyone deserves equal treatment
>>31122909Truly hilarious. Reminds me of that time the fresh and fit podcast bros got called out for calling all women gold diggers but using sugar daddy sites as dating sites exclusively. My fucking sides i swear.
>>31122864Fucking paragraphs anon.
>>31122914That's retarded
>>31122914sounds nice
>>31122915>old muslim mani.e. a horny sex-deprived cretin who was raised on stories of loli harems. gee I wonder why he would bring up sex when talking to a young girl.
>>31122920I accept your concession. I win.
>>31122909Is Tinder explicitly relegated to hookups by the general populace?Can dynamics and relationships not evolve or escalate into something different or more depending on how things go in-person?I discussed this with a female friend just the other day and her views on it seem so rigid.
>>31122900I do think my biological imperative is starting to mess with my life yes and I am also not super out going. I still try to put myself out there, I go out at least once a week but it is hard because I am quiet and shy. I don't seek out male attention but it does make me happy to get a compliment, and I don't think that is bad per say but I still try to always keep myself in check and not chase that feeling from people I don't care about. I'm not that young, I'm 23 and have no experience with relationships beyond early dating stuff
>>31122899Holy crap he actually did this.
>>31122692Why do you guys care about this shit? Just fuck her harder. Seething over this shit seems extremely enmasculating
>>31122750>"I'll definitely hit you up when I'm more settled in!"Could mean anything from "I'm never going to text you again unless I need you to do a neighbor thing" to "I like you my life is just in boxes right now"
>>31122929i didn't get a creepy vibe from him i just don't understand why he told me that because i don't think i have promiscuous vibes
>>31122933You are coping so hard, you literally talked to a real woman and still don’t believe it
>>31122903Not lustI meant capable of having sex with women
>>31122933You can not possibly be this retarded
>>31122914Sounds dumb
>>31122937Sloppiest seconds imaginable
>>31122934>23That is still very young. Give your brain time to fully develop. Puberty lasts until age 25. Do not make any haste decisions until then.
>>31122887I think most guys want to be both the one you lust over and the one you care about.
>>31122939He would have liked to fuck you, in his mind that's enough reason.
>on video call with cute girl I've been talking to>she starts crying>ask her whats wrong>she says she doesnt want her dog to die>her dog is 5 yo and perfectly healthy>didnt know how to comfort her>told her obvious shit like "she's gonna be fine," "everything dies," "it's okay, you'll meet up with her again in heaven">she starts crying harderWomen wtf do you want from me
>>31122933Tinder is a fuck app
>>31122942>>31122946Explain to me in a non-redpilled poisoned way why it's dumb
What does it mean if you're nice when people are nice to you but quickly become aggressive when others show aggression towards you?
>>31122939that just means you're not very good at spotting creeps. pro tip: it's every man who ever talks to you.
>>31122899Now the Rothschilds bow to him.Would you not trade vanity for omnipotence?
>>31122958Preliminary question. Have you ever had sex before?
>>31122949>Puberty lasts until age 25It does??? Life is so miserable I feel like I am too careful. I could do with making a few stupid choices and learn from them while I'm young
>>31122956Yet another reason why LDRs don't work. That was a 30-difficulty speech check but a 2-difficulty physical check (hug and say nothing).
>>31122825You're still a khhv aren't you.Drop this: > "Finished up most of my uni work for the week today so "Drop this: > "Anyway I've had a lot of fun talking to ya yesterday so I thought I'd invite you on a fun"Drop this: > "Been wanting to get to know more people doing cosplay anyway as I wanted to get into it myself actually"And rewrite what remains.
>>31122926NtaWe don't use reddit spacing here
>>31122933I don't think anyone in angloid or angloid-adjacent countries still sees it as anything other than a way to get sex.
>>31122956FNothin u can do it's just a wave she's gotta ride out. I would cry so hard imagining my dog dying I would throw up and then when she died for real I was depressed for two years. nothing anyone could have said to me would have changed the way I felt. The only thing that made me feel better was meeting people who had gone through same exact thing
>>31122956Yeah bro nothing goes harder with women than telling them to die early so that they can be reunited with their dogs in a magical spacetime realm
>>31122948Do you think a Lion or a Gorilla cares about sloppy seconds?
>>31122972I didn't ask for reddit spacing I asked for paragraphs.
>>31122965Most if not all of my sexual experience is from Tinder
am i a cuck for being okay with my boyfriend doing these things because i also do them>having friends from the opposite gender>traveling and staying with the opposite gender>hanging out with the opposite gender in his private time>having long phone calls with the opposite gender>being half naked around the opposite gender>kissing the same gender>sexualizing other peopleas long as you don't act on them>hiding dms so your partner won't snoop
>>31122804>believing that all women are "like" any one thing in particular, instead of being individuals with different preferences Ngmi
>>31122982Do you think a Lion or Gorillas cares about rape?
>>31122969You were supposed to have parents that guide you wisely and protect you from doing destructive things with your best interests in mind up until that age. If you do not have that then you have to protect yourself and not making any life changing choices until your frontal lobe has fully developed seems to be the absolute wisest thing you can possibly do.
>>31122979Couldn’t you just get another dog
>>31122982Dont they kill other males due to paternal uncertainty?
>>31122986you can call it open relationship at this point tf are u guys doing
>>31122985Do you think what you proposed would have gone over well with one of your tinder dates?When I'm having sex I want to be thinking about that and be in the moment I don't want to be answering questions about myself it's ridiculous.
>>31122986Yes
>>31122986It’s pretty sus. 80% chance of cuckholdry. But he sounds like a cunt either way.
>>31122900>value by the validation of others,That's right anon. Other people decide how they value you and your valuation of yourself just doesn't matter to them.
>>31122713Good girl
>>31122982You are not a lion or gorilla my nigga, at best you’re a chimp
>>31122970Im trying to get her here asap before my autism causes this to collapse>>31122979I get crying when the dog dies. But what's with those reactions when the dog is alive and well? Were you also on your period when you got those thoughts?>>31122981She told me that she also cried earlier thinking about me dying before her, so I told her I'll take her with me and she seemed fucking elated.
>>31122992I did and I feel the same way
>>31122786I've run out of questions, but you're based ngl
>be me, aging pretty boy salary man>stop by ops manager's office today>manager tells me to take a seat>new-ish girl is there>think she's sorta strange but seems friendly>kinda fat but I still would>manager is taking a really long time to deliberate/research something>I'm checking out the girl, mostly her style>shoes, nails, earrings, bracelets>get self-conscious that I might be being rude>notice that she hasn't so much as glanced at me the entire time>also she is fidgety as all hell>alternating between bobbing her leg really fast, to swinging her feet, to tapping her finger, etc>I almost laugh while watching her, have to look away>manager finally dismisses her>30 minutes later>walking out of office>new girl comes up>"hey anon, you know how we were in so-and-so's office for a really long time and he couldn't figure out the answer and told me to come back later and blah blah blah">seems weirdly really earnest and friendly nowyou guys think she might be οn the spectrum?
>>31122986>am I cuck for eating my boyfriend's jizz out of another woman's pussy?I dunno, femanon, I just don't know...
>>31122786What the fuck is a midwife, I never understood that
>>31123017>But what's with those reactions when the dog is alive and well?I was hormonal yes and it was probably a multitude of things I felt sad about just being pinpointed on my dog. I had no friends and only had her and the thought of being all alone once she was gone really hurt . And then sometimes it was just about not having her presence in the house
>>31122937the problem is, My desire to be loving and affectionate to her is going to be at odds with my ego that will want to one up any guy she's been with and manhandle her and fuck her into oblivion.
>>31122802>they look so gross with a blown up bellyNigga u gayI hate fat chicks but pregnant chicks make me DIAMONDS
>>31122982Do lions or gorillas have relationships?
>>31123002Except I've literally done nothing but that with all of my sexual encounters. The majority of them enjoyed my company to maintain a consistent fwb thing that usually ended when one or the other caught feelings and things fizzled out. But talking never seemed to be an issue that was brought upAll I just wanted to know was what other anons, especially female ones, thought about it
>>31123020No she's not you simp faggot
>>31122987Yeah, individuals that you will get the sloppy seconds of, if you don't fuck her first.
>see old high school friend on tinder saturday>today she posted a picture with some guy on instagram and some rando on the comments called them a coupleUhhh, I hope the rando was cracking a joke or something.
How do I cope with being an asexual who really wants to find love and have a family?
>>31122990I don't know, I feel like I am digging myself into a hole. I'm not "growing" as much as I could be
>>31122935>>31122899looks normal to me. Although it'd be funny if he started bogdanovmaxxing
>>31122692Why are women so against paternity testing?
>>31123046Find another asexual who really wants to find love and have a family
>>31123021>women acts perfectly normal>she must be autisticGod is trying to grant you a gf as an apology for making you a bit dim.
Where's the trophy? He just comes runnin' over to me
>>31123006And how they value you should only matter to you if they have your best interest in mind.
>>31123046Man or woman?
>>31123046not gonna happen.
>>31122982lions will eat their competitors offspring my guy.
>>31123036That is so bizarre to me. I have never had a guy do that or had the desire to do that. We talk before and after not during.
>>31123042I've seen taken girls on Tinder too, they usually have empty bios or use a different first name.
>>31123048Hiding in a hole when your parents fail to protect and guide you is the wisest thing you can possibly do to keep yourself from harm. You can come out of your hole once you are fully hatched. Patience.
>>31122712I’d say it’s the same with as a fwb.
>>31123056Did you see the graph that shows that Taylor Swift’s monthly net fuel consumption produces the same amount of CO2 of 50 million cars over an year?
>>31123052forgot picrel
>>31123061Yeah I know, that's why I was asking how to cope with it
>>31122786Every other vaccine is fine and you should take them but covid vaccine is still in its early days and has some serious side effects especially if you take them yearly.Honestly it is best to avoid covid vaccines for now but other vaccines are safe to use and have decades of research and success behind them.
>>31123066No, it was really her. I know her well and the bio 100% fits her. Either the guy is a megacuck or it was just a joke.If I had a superlike or platinum at the time I would had found out what it’s about.
>>31123020Lol thanks anon>>31123053It's the implication that they've cheated. I think paternity testing should be automatically done at birth so men aren't trapped. I've has that discussion with my husband but he just laughed and said he's not worried since I don't leave the house without him. If he wanted it I would do it. When babies are born you get the families commenting on how the baby looks like the dad, it's an evolved thing because without testing you never "truly know" so by comparing the baby to the dad it eases them.
>>31123063Well maybe you should try it out with me sometime anon ;)
>>31122825People are being overly cynical, as an introverted nerdy girl myself I would appreciate being asked out like this. Maybe remove the last sentence though; you've already asked her on a date in the previous sentence, so the "been wanting to get to know more people" seems a bit insincere. Maybe conclude it with something like "No pressure of course, but I'm free this Saturday if you are." Projects just a little bit more confidence while still giving her room to say no if she's busy or not interested.Also... I'm not sure if an escape room is the greatest first date suggestion unless you two already know each other well. Being locked in a room alone with a strange man is kinda terrifying for a woman. Perhaps something more public?
>>31123072Looks not normal at all. Wtf drugs are you on?
I always know that I'll dick her better than anyone before me. I don't get insecure over exes.
>>31123070dont care theyre so cute and this line makes my heart melt so much HE JOKES THAT ITS HEROINE BUT THIS TIME WITH AN E
>>31123053If it was mandatory and done for every birth I wouldn't have an issue it's the idea of being accused of cheating by my partner when I've done nothing to provoke that that pisses me off.
>>31123070Swifties say “it’s ok when she does it, she’s boss”. That’s an actual sentence that was said to me from a girl who said she’s done nothing this week but listen to The Tortured Poets Department
>>31123094Swifties all need to be executed.
>>31123087Same actually. I'm a very good fuck.
>>31123077I don't ever plan on getting another covid Vax. I had to get them to keep my job and I'm still not happy about it. I'm going to get the whooping cough and maybe the flu but I'm not sure on the latter yet.
So I did one of those attachment style quizzes and got "Disorganised". It describes me fairly well, but all the description is done in the form of assuming you achieve relationships and then sabotage them. Why does all this shit always assume the reader is getting into all these romantic relationships and THEN fucking it up? What, are you expected to be some kind of totally neutral, unaffected Casanova who can easily pull chicks left and right when unattached and then instantly transform into your actual emotionally-stunted autistic self when one bites?I seriously do not understand the assumptions of normalfags.
>>31123082Thanks but I'll pass. If we can talk we're not doing it right.
>>31123080>I think paternity testing should be automatically done at birth so men aren't trappedIt would also help with avoiding mixing up babies which sometimes happens. Right now they brand the babies in some way to identify them (I still have mine, it’s inside my nose).
>>31123087>Even if he had a billion dollars, he can't make her cum like me.
>>31123103Your schizophrenia is acting up again.
>>31123068I don't know.. What were they supposed to protect me from? I'm an adult and at this point I should be doing something more with my life
>>31123103Having my baby mixed up is my worst nightmare, I might get testing done just incase it has happened
>>31123040Ask her about tiny hats
>>31123101Have you ever came from doing it right?
>>31122914Ehhhh I'd say no on that one. Arousal is a lot more mental for us, and that would take me out of it a bit too much. Save the small talk for afterwards.>>31122933Maybe I'm just cynical, but I have very little faith in dating apps to actually create meaningful connections. They encourage you to be very shallow by design, so any connections made are going to be equally shallow. Every long-lasting relationship I've ever had or seen other people have has come from meeting someone IRL, usually in some kind of hobby or interest group.
>>31123114For what? To get any other Basic bitches response?
>>31123115The "doing it right" kind of implies that does it not
>>31123091Uhh, okay.>>31123094I would never say this to a girl irl because I have some degree of social tact, but man, she’s a total industry plant. I wouldn’t be surprised if the entire scene was played out and rehearsed previously. I was watching some old music videos from the 2000s and her trailers are the fakest, most obviously focus tested clip meant to exploit emotions ever. At that time she was appealing to boys following the Hayley Williams-Avril Lavigne model, though.
>>31123103Wait, for real? 0.0Do we all have them in our noses?
>>31123053They're only against it if you tell them about it anon.
How common is retroactive jealousy in relationships?
>>31123093Getting angry would just confirm your partner's suspicions though. Or worse, make him suspicious when he wasn't before. Is it that hard to see it from his perspective?
>>31123107What do you mean? It was my father who told me about it and I can still see it to this day. It’s just a birth mark that was artificially implanted.>>31123113Yeah. There ought to be countermeasures in place but it is still a possibility.
>>31123123I imagine not, otherwise it wouldn’t be very easy to tell the babies apart, would it? Mine is on my left nose.
I need him to pet my Wookie
>>31123099Whooping Cough and Flu vaccines are safe to use so I wouldn't worry about these.It is a bit of a concern you have to take covid vaccine to keep your job, if you have no choice but to keep this job then I would do some yearly checks on your heart and veins, this vaccine causes some serious build up and will eventually lead to blocked arteries.I would honestly sit down and discuss with your doctor to get an exemption somehow. the covid vaccine put my dad out of work for over a year due to it and the doctors agreed he cannot take covid vaccines.
>>31123133>a birth mark that was artificially implantedSo you inherited your schizo from your dad? Checks out. Post pic of your identification birthmark.
i don't act possessive or jealous of my boyfriend because what, is he gonna go out and find a better girlfriend than me? no. that's how much i trust myself
>>31123131No. If I haven't done ANYTHING to provoke suspicion I don't understand why he would ask in the first place?Like I said if it was mandatory it would be fine it's the perceived insult to my character I have an issue with. If he doesn't trust me not to cheat on him he shouldn't have impregnated me.
>>31123128Common enough that I avoid talking about previous girlfriends.
>>31123143Based and same. He is free to go and try his luck. Not going to hold him back. If he succeeds then good luck to them i guess but i highly doubt it.
>>31123147Because you know 100% who the daddy is but the man doesn't. If you love him, you will take the test.
>>31123147It's a peace-of-mind thing. You can never truly know anyone, might as well double-check when it's easy to do so.What if you spent 20 years of your life raising another woman's child because it would have been rude to ask the hospital staff if it's really your baby?
If you aren't willing to have sex on the first date it's not true love, the feelings between you two aren't genuine.>B-but I don't want to be a slu-I don't make the rules, if he doesn't make you want to bend them it's not real, you're in a pretendionship
>>31123160I unironically think like this.
>>31123077>>31123099Jumping into this convo to say I got the first two covid shots, which made me sick for a day, and then I got covid anyways, so I decided I'm done with Covid shots. I don't believe they're a giant conspiracy to kill everyone, but I do believe they carry some significant cardio risk and pain in the ass side effects, all this in exchange for some pretty piss poor protection from the disease in question. For this reason I decided to skip getting any more of them, I'm pretty sure they're just a moneymaking scheme at this point.
>>31123160>pretentionshipI like this world and i am stealing it.
>>31123158If he loves me then he would trust me :(Being asked to take a paternity test when you didn't do anything is like saying "I don't know you at all and suspect you might be a terrible person". If he thinks that then why is he having a baby with me?Making them mandatory fixes this problem. If you're so insistent that we need them why don't you want them to be mandatory?
>>31123131lel whatYou should trust your partner not to cheat. If you don't have even that basic trust in your partner you ought to break up. Simple as.
What do single people in their 20s even do?
>>31123159>peace of mind thingWhich I get. Which is why I think they should be mandatory. It doesn't hurt my feelings if the hospital demands it not my hypothetical husband.
>>31123160If I have sex with a woman on the first date I’m not going to love her. She goes straight to the slut uber eats phonebook.
>>31123160This is the trick to collect hearts. You have to make him believe you are a prude and then act surprised that he brings out the slut in you because you just can not help yourself in his presence. He will think you are his soulmate. Works every time.
>>31123160The issue is I want to fuck everyone on the first date. I feel like it really helps me click with someone on a new level, no matter how long we typically wait in a relationship to do it.
>>31123159Trust is the foundation of a good relationship. If you aren't capable of trusting that your wife wouldn't cheat on you then you really shouldn't be in a relationship.
>>31123184Dumb bullshit with their gay friends, get tattoos, eat hot chip and lie.
>>31123182This, you should immediately break up if "wait, would he ever cheat on me?" pops into your head.
>>31123128I just wish my gf would let me creampie her like her ex did! Im clean too, I've always been clean, and she's on bc.
>>31123194Truth
>>31123160F VirginThis freaks me out. Is it true? >>31123188What? I don't understand
>>31123184I stay in my room all day and only leave for work and groceries.
>>31123094>she’s done nothing this week but listen to The Tortured Poets Departmentshe's just like me...
>>31123137I assumed they emitted different radio frequencies or something.
>>31123184Drink, drugs, suicide...
>>31123179It's stupid to trust anyone blindly, especially a female.
>>31123184FI go to Trivia nights lol
>>31123199>F Virginlets change that (with rizz)
>>31123188This woman is evil. A trickster.
>>31123160Some people wait for marriage.
>>31123140It was in 2021 mid covid peak and yeah I feel stupid for strongarmed into it. They can't make me get another one especially when pregnant so I'm glad it won't be happening>>31123173I've had covid a few times since getting them, the vax we would have gotten isn't for the new mutated strains anyway so it's kinda pointless in the end. If you're not of garbage health you'll bounce back from covid anyway.
>>31123212Why would you say something like that? Oh yeah, you also have to act like this is overwhelming to you and makes you feel flustered.
>>31123207I'm not seeing how someone with that perspective would even want to seek out a relationship with a woman, much less make it all the way to marrying and impregnating her.And it's not blind trust. It's earned trust.
>>31123128Haven't been an issue for me That said. If I know she has had casual sex before and plays prude with me I'll get offended as fuck. Anons joke about it but this shit does happen. Just because I am nice doesn't mean I am a "nice guy". Don't expect me to be mode patient than other guys because you want to play pretend all of the sudden.
>>31123188Works as a guy also
>>31123207So you just want to argue, cool.
>>31123160I don't want to have sex with anyone other than my wife though.
>>31123179>why don't you want them to be mandatory?There is no sane man on this planet who would vote against mandatory paternity tests. It's not *our* fault this will never happen.
>>31123055She didn't look at me the entire time I was checking her out. Is that not a sign of her non-interest?
>>31123213Some people enter business deals on their wedding day not bless true love. Could not be me.
Do women really find some boys undatable but are willing to sleep with them? Why?
>>31123211I don't think so
>>31123229Has anyone even tried in the US?
>>31123225>If I know she has had casual sex before and plays prude with me I'll get offended as fuck. Yeah this is bullshit.
>>31123226Not really because women know that men fuck everything that lets them. But you can try. It might work on some extremely desperate and insecure girls i suppose.
>>31123225What if she actually is a prude? Would you think she was lying?
>>31123235Bgzc <===advance each letter by 1 to discover the answer.
>>31122986everything but the last two are perfectly fine. The last two, are somewhat iffy
>>31123235Validation. Those are the women that have not yet understood how low the requirements are for a man to fuck a girl. They still think it must mean they are at least a little cute. Or they fuck them strategically. To make someone jealous or get back at them or to get their foot in a certain social circle or so. Many reasons.
>>31123235He's hot and he's not annoying but there's something that would make him a bad boyfriend for you or you just don't have that kind of chemistry. I've had situations with guys who were fine friends, but I would have hated them as boyfriends. I have different/higher expectations for friends vs significant others.
>>31123046find another asexual
>>31123251Kek
>>31123138o_0>captcha: kkkr2
>>31123237You mean the most expensive country in the world?>hey, why don't we fix paternity fraud by blowing a Moon-sized hole in the budget?>it'd also mortally offend 50% of voters btwAny congresscritter proposing that would be out of a job in about five seconds.
>>31123254It means you respect your male friends less than the guys you hook up with.
>>31123179Why the fuck is anyone asking for paternity tests in the first place? They sell the kit at Walgreens for like $50, if you have even the slightest suspicion or just watched a lot of redpill videos or whatever just do it and don't tell the mom.>omg my man doesn't trust me waaaahhhOkay let's put the shoe on the other foot, let's say there was a rapist in your town that matched your boyfriend/husband's description to the T, like the women even identified birthmarks and shit. Your man says he won't take the DNA test to prove his innocence, and then he gets mad at you for saying he should. Kinda retarded, right? Unless he's guilty as shit that is. >>31123229They should just be mandatory, they're cheap, quick, and medically important. It also eliminates the whole trust question, if anything it's a huge boon to women who are faithful because they have the man locked in financially.
>>31123253>They still think it must mean they are at least a little cute.so men will even fuck women they don't find attractive at all?
>>31123229As a moid I'm not sure I'd vote yes on that as it would probably destroy around 40% of families. I'm not sure civilization could survive that.
>>31123268>so men will even fuck women they don't find attractive at all?No they won't
>>31123246No, but you can tell by getting to know them. I mean if you had two boyfriends before me I don't care, but I'll know odds are you had sex with at least one of them and that you think of sex like any other adult. If you deliberately keep me on hold for more than three dates I'll start thinking that you are manipulating me. That said, I haven't dated a virgin since high school, to put it into perspective.
>>31123268Yes. Some men even find it more entertaining to fuck women they find disgusting since then they can unleash their full anger and frustration on her. Men fuck for many reasons, love not being one of them.
>>31123263Nta but wouldn't there also be an issue of enforcement? What happens if one of the parents refuses?
>>31123188as a guy, she isn't wrong it that it'd prob work.If people like >>31123199 consider it tho, it's sorta evil/devious. If a gf did that to me, it's def not break up worthy, but i'd want to have a talk about other deviousness she's been doing. I don't like being played or my emotions abused
>>31123265So you're saying you will automatically suspect your wife is cheating on you?
>>31123235For the exact same reasons men will fuck certain women but not date them: they're physically attractive but have too many personal flaws to be worth dating.
>>31123278We can't even feel love
>>31123264>respect your male friends lessThe "friends" in my post are the guys I'm hooking up with. I have higher expectations for someone I'm in a relationship with than a friend. Some pass the bar for friend but not for boyfriend but are still hot enough and likeable enough to fuck.
>>31123287I know.
>>31123289I think I've discovered why, if you're interested.
It would be a hilarious troll to ask your cousins or friends if they got a paternity test just in case. It already plants the seed of doubt in the man's mind and the female would immediately be on the defensive.
>>31123265The what? They have kits now? Surely that can't be accurate, don't you need a proper PCR setup and a cycler and everything?
>>31123294Lets hear it.
>>31123265>Your man says he won't take the DNA test to prove his innocence, and then he gets mad at you for saying he should. Kinda retarded, right? Unless he's guilty as shit that is.This is a very different scenario though. I'd be telling him to do it to save on lawyer fees and rule him out so the police leave him alone not because I think he might have done it.
>>31123160That you think like this shows you wouldn't ever be able to comprehend actual love.>>31123188Nonsense that only works on degenerate retards
>>31123296I mean, if you want to ruin all the families of your friends and cousins then go ahead.
>>31123235>>31123254what sorta minimum chemistry/attraction is needed for fuckable but not dateable?
>>31123263>moon sized hole in the budgetlmao of all the stupid bills you get for having a baby in a hospital a $20 paternity test would be the least of them>offends 50% of the populationno woman will publicly come out against it, it's very easy to get all huffy and feministy on a personal level, but on the societal level the position is indefensible and would destroy the social life of any woman dumb enough to take a stand on it.
>>31123277>If you deliberately keep me on hold for more than three dates>t. manwhore
>>31123304>that only works on degenerate retardsWhich makes up the majority of men.
>>31123305Well, if she didn't cheat, it would make the relationship stronger. He knows he can trust her.
>>31123301Our bonding chemical isn't oxytocin like yours, it's vasopressin.
>>31123298Nta but I just looked into it and everything I saw was a kit for taking the samples. You mail them in and get the results in a few days.
>>31123304>That you think like this shows you wouldn't ever be able to comprehend actual love.Let's hear yours then!>>31123312Why is it that wanting to have sex with someone you like makes you a manwhore now? Why are you girls like this? Sharing a physical connection fast as possible is healthy
>>31123306It's hard to describe but I can do an example. One guy I liked but he wasn't big on cuddling/touching outside of sexual activity and that bummed me out. Plus he was a little bit too into marvel. This is really oversimplifying it.Think of a list of people you would be friends with, how many people on that list would you be roommates with?
>>31123315I did not cheat but if my husband would ask for a paternity test i would get one and hand the results to him along with the divorce papers and the child support contract since now it is clear that it is his child and he is legally obligated to pay for it and i would not spend my days cooking dinner for a man that thinks i am a slut. So go and try it. See how that works out for you.
>>31123284>waaah make it personal, make it about meeeeno, fuck you, only dumb evil cunts have any reason to oppose this>>31123298you take a cheek swab and mail it in to a lab, they sell them at every drug store in the USA, I really don't get this "ask for a paternity test" nonsense.
>>31123319That explains nothing really. You have to be more specific.
>>31123322>Sharing a physical connection fast as possible is healthyNta. There is some evidence to the contrary. I'm being a hypocrite here but jumping in to bed with someone too quickly can make you think you like them more than you actually do.
>>31123328You are insane. You should be grateful that your husband is a smart man who doesn't trust everyone for no reason.
>>31123288Do bf material guys have to be hotter than the friends?
>>31123338If he marries and impregnates someone that is everyone and he has no reason to trust then he would not be smart by definition and instead an actual retard.
>>31122959You have no principles except monkey-see-monkey-do.
>>31123321>>31123329That makes more sense. Looks like it's legal to do them without the mother's knowledge as well, which is a relief considering some of the insanity on display in this thread.
>>31123339Nah. Less if anything.
>>31123342Crazy troll.
Men can't be whores
>>31123354No. because nobody would pay to fuck them. They can be sluts instead.
>>31123352I hope you're trolling and you're not that warped. It's silly to be thinking about paternity uncertainty when you're too untrusting and antisocial to even make friends.
>>31123312We live in a societyJokes aside, I don't look for casual sex but I don't think of sex as a fairytale either. I expect sex on the first date if it goes well, but i am willing to wait for three if she wants to feel safer around me.If by the third date you don't know - there's something off and I don't understand why you are even accepting to date. By that point I already expect exclusivity if not an outright relationship.
>>31123354>>31123359Objectively untrue, but YET AGAIN it's the exclusive realm of chad
>>31122882I know what you mean, I as well like feet...IF they are good looking feet, if they're ugly or the fingers are a lil bit longer then I don't like them. The same apply to women with smooth hands, female hands can be beautiful too. But I do NOT like feet and hands as default.
>>31123360If your husband knew something important 100%, but you could only assume, wouldn't you like there to be a test that removes all doubt, and you would know it 100% too?
>>31123328Whoops he moved to mexico and is never seen again.
>>31123334Well I wonder how men could be capable of love when we don't even have the right neurochemistry for it?Imagine for example we discover a new animal species, and all of your observations of that species tell you that they're incredibly passive and lazy.It comes out later that this new species doesn't even produce dopamine in the reward centers of their brains.That would probably explain the observed slothful behavior, right?
Men can't be sluts, like I lost my v-card to a drunkish hookup and only have had one night stands afterwards. I'd be a total slut/whore if I was a woman but I'm not, I'm a man. For a man to do something like this it takes skill, it takes workingout, you need to be suaveHaving sex with sluts is hard work, if it's hard work it ain't easy and therefore you wait a slut/ho
>>31123384No I would trust him unless he gave me a reason to doubt him because he's my HUSBAND.
>>31123389Right, because no one's ever been blindsided by a partner cheating before, especially not in a marriage.
>>31123390But I wouldn't assume he's going to do that to me. If I assumed he would cheat on me I wouldn't marry him in the first place.
>>31123390You don't understand. Anon is posting from Earth-2, a magical fairytale land where nobody ever lies. I wish I could go there.
>>31123394But he isn't going to cheat on you in this hypothetical scenario, you'll cheat on him. That's the point of paternity tests. To prove that you cheated.
>>31123396>where nobody ever liesJust because someone can doesn't mean they will. If I had no reason to think he was lying to me I would accept what he told me as the truth until proven otherwise.
>>31123325Marvel moids are cringe ngl
>>31123268Absolutely. Best sex I ever had was with women I wasn't at all attracted to, and felt nothing for.
>>31123397And we were discussing a reverse scenario. See >>31123384Honestly if you think she cheated on you just leave her and let the court handle paternity testing. You clearly don't love her.
>>31123388It still chips away at your ability to pair bond. Not to the same extent as if you were a woman of course, but it still does.
Women, do you tend to pick partners based on physical attraction first and then gauge their compatibility second?
I’m almost 30. After one failed long term relationship and loads of other short term relationships that didn’t workout in the long run, it is beginning to deeply set in that I will probably never have a wife or a family. I will never know what it’s like to see my wife walking down the aisle, nor taste the headaches or sweetness or raising children of my own. And that terrifies me. My two older siblings are married with kids. My two younger sisters will undoubtedly get married. It’s fuckin scary man. I don’t even know what to do or how to feel anymore. As a result of this I simply have no shame and I’m kind of just existing and doing whatever I want and just trying to make a good life for myself. But holy fuck I wish I had a good woman to do it with.
Men, is there any hope for the future? I'm scared
>>31123328See guys. You don't ask. Just do.
>>31122692Is it a good idea or weird to use the extend match thing on bumble?
>>31123388You can work this hard and channel that energy toward a real relationship. You choose to fuck around and THAT is what makes you a slut
>>31123407Same except I'm 2 years older than you
>>31123406Physical attraction can be figured out quickly. Those who pass the physical round then have their compatibility gauged.
>>31123409I've never felt any myself, but I'm sure there's plenty of hope. Every crisis is an opportunity for someone. Probably not you though.
>>31123407FAt least you know you're capable of those relationships. Life can change quickly and I'm sure you'll find someone. But I have zero experience and I think its really really over for me. I also wish I just had someone to do all this with
>>31123407I have one older brother who is 35 this year and even more of a fuckup than I am. Neither of us have any chance of starting a family, nor seemingly any inclination to. My parents wanted nothing more than grandchildren and are going to die without them. At least you've got siblings who weren't total failures, that takes a LOT of pressure off you that there would otherwise have been.
>>31123415It's different when you want to have fun with different kinds of girls
>>31123424Sure it is. And that is what makes you a whore- that desire for many different women
Men do you identify with the lyrics of "lemme freak" by lil dicky?
>>31123409No, future will be worse for the average men in every way. We passed the peak when females got the right to vote and work. Now we can't even buy an apartment for ourselves on a single income and we're at the peak of hypergamy with empires like the US falling.
>>31123262WHAT!!!
>>31123433Those names sound so motherfucking stupid I'm not even going to look up what that is. I hope that individual and every negroid who listens to their bullshit dies painfully and soon.
>>31123417What’s life look like for you? Like what do you do? >>31123422If that’s the case, life could change quickly for you as well.I will say this, men are generally flattered when a woman takes initiative to show interest in them. Have you tried that? Either way I wish you the best. I doubt I’ll find anyone. Dating is so hard. And I don’t have the mental capacity to do it anymore >>31123423I have an older sister and an older brother. My older sister has kids. My brothers wife is like 40 and they don’t want children. I am the end of the line for my family now. I feel that pressure and I really want to have kids. I just love my family and I want to bring grandkids over to my dad’s house and I want my niece and nephew to have cousins. Fucking hurts dude.
>>31123430No it doesn't, it's exactly the opposite of why girls sleep around
I've gotten the urge to shave my legs for the first time in years only because of you guys. How do i get over this and stop feeling bad about my hair
>>31123439You sound judgemental and old. I can only assume you don't because you've never had sex.
>>31123444IN YEARS? *pukes*
>>31123409It’s all a fucking chemical reaction in our heads anyway. Nothing really matters. Educate yourself and watch some Rick & Morty
>>31123444Why do you feel bad because a bunch of men you probably wouldn't be attracted to IRL don't like your leg hair?
>>31122692Femanons, would you settle down with a non promiscuous guy if you've had a promiscuous past yourself?I think it would be kind of cute to find a girl that thinks stuff like "love is dead," and "guys only want sex," only to be the guy on the right that proves her wrong.
>>31123444The obvious inclination is to assume you're female, and if so: get your legs waxed. I can take a surprising amount of body hair on a woman, legs are ABSOLUTELY not included in that. It's almost moustache-tier, either one of those two makes me instantly think "MAN" and become disgusted.
>>31123453based... so... fvcking... zased...edit: thanks for the 4chan gold
>>31123444Trips of truth say you have to keep it up.
>>31123452:/>>31123456I want men to like me >>31123460I used to get them waxed and they are light and thin because of it but now even that is bothering me
>>31123460I'm gonna start calling it a legmoustache
Gender?How accurate is your height measurement?Do you just go with whatever your drivers license says (most likely measured with your shoes on) or do you have a more clinical or controlled measurement where somebody assisted you to get it accurate (and you took shoes off)?
>>31123459>I think it would be kind of cute to find a girl that thinks stuff like "love is dead," and "guys only want sex," only to be the guy on the right that proves her wrong.Respectfully, begone captain save-a-ho. Your romanticization of Roxanne by the police is your baggage to deal with not mine.
Honestly we should do away with child support and alimony. If I get a girl pregnant and decide to bounce, that's her problem. She can give the kid to an orphanage or something. It's dumb how normalfags love kids so much. I shouldn't be obligated to take care of a kid I don't want. If I get a puppy and think "this shit blows" give it to the pound. Or leave it in a parking lot IDGAF.
>>31123440>Dating is so hard. And I don’t have the mental capacity to do it anymoreMe neither. I wish I could do what everyone else does and have a "roster" but I just physically and mentally can't
>>31123409What kind of hope? And for whom?
>>31123433No, but thanks for reminding me that he exists.
>>31123465>I want men to like mePlenty of them seem okay with leg hair though? No one has ever complained about mine.Do you like your leg hair? Or did you just stop shaving because it was a hassle?
>>31123471And what if the baby has bad vibes? I have a right to ditch it
>>31123463Aw shoot you're right>>31123477I feel neutral about it and when I feel self conscious about it it makes me feel like I'm 12 again
>>31123329You sound like a psycho.
>>31123470Does that fantasy come across as misogynistic or something?
I'm the image of deception
>>31123409Fuck no, hope for the future has been gone for over 20 years. It will just get worse slowly and steadily enough that it goes unnoticed. God I hope I die soon.
>>31123480>when I feel self conscious about it it makes me feel like I'm 12 againme about my boobsDo what makes you feel most confident then!
>>31123470I'd never heard of that song before btw, I'm a zoomer.
Women what kind of rhythm to do you like in humping? Shallow strokes and deep strokes?Slow?I need some tips so I don't jackhammer.
>>31123469They didn't measure me for my license. I could have rounded up but I chose to round down. Fuck the world, fuck society, manlet acceptance NOW!
>>31123477It would be rude to complain. That doesn't imply the men you slept with liked the hair, just that they tolerated it.
>>31123444Just wear leggings babe
>>31123483More patronizing and self-aggrandizing. It's fine to want to date former sluts but the whole "I want to be the special one who fixes her" is a huge red flag.
>>31123409No not really, but hey if you look at it this way we live in the last time of prosperity and can enjoy that before our kids live in poverty reminiscent of the Congo.
>>31123491Look up Cbat and try and match the rhythm.
>>31123488It feels lose lose. If I don't care I get scared people think Im disgusting but If I do shave I get sad that I fell for the pressure >>31123495In the hot summer? No
>>31123437yeah, gave me a good chuckle lol
>>31123499Thanks, femanon. I'll reevaluate.
>>31123504yeah, the sweat makes it better
>>31123511Men are okay with sweat and shit stink but not hair?
>>31123465if u were a friend, i wouldnt give a shit. If ur with a bf, maybe shave on date night or sexy night, but it doesn't have to be a hassle. Men prob already like u
>>31123502Prosperity? Kids?
>>31123494>toleratedGood enough for me!>>31123504>If I don't careBut you do care.>Sad I fell for the pressureAnd this sounds like you're more positive towards the hair than neutral, or at least positive about not shaving.Okay so the problem is not being able to have confidence in your decision not to shave, not whether or not to shave. What you need is to figure out how to stop caring if people don't like it.
>>31123512Nta. Def not shit stink, I like sweaty women though
>>31123515>Prosperity? Kids?You don't even know how much worse it's going to get.
Why are girls with BPD or who suffer from drug abuse so cute compared to the baseline? Not even just in a physical sense but in a "I want to gf her" way
>>31123510Glad to help. The fact that you took constructive criticism instead of getting angry with me means you're not a captain save-a-ho yet, so I apologize for being quick to label you. Good luck.
>>31123514I've never had a bf so they don't >>31123518Yea I guess so
Men, how much does it matter that your partner cares for your emotions? Are you able to connect with a woman without the need to dump your trauma?
>>31123524It's a corruption of your natural protective instincts. Just like importing niggers is a corruption of women's nurturing instincts
>>31123470
State Gender:How much should your romantic interest be able to lift?
>>31123524We subconsciously (and sometimes consciously) manipulate people to like us. It's the inner pick-me.
>>31123530Chad ignored your texts again?
Tfw I will never have a cute white gf cause im fuckin tan and covered in tattoos
>>31123534MMy spirits
>>31123537they say opposites attract anon :)
>>31123534You must be as strong as Atlas if you want this lass.
>>31123538in the material world?
>>31123537Oh no, how unfortunate for you to be covered in tattoos. What a sad thing to happen to you. How could someone be forced to suffer this injustice.
>>31123534F.150 lbs. preferred minimum. Roughly the combined weight of me, a watermelon, and a small cat.
>>31123530Family aside, I wouldn't expect any woman to care about my emotions or trauma. Even family is a stretch.
>>31123545>Roughly the combined weight of me, a watermelon, and a small cat.JH moment
>>31123542Given brain chemicals are physical, ultimately I guess so?
>>31123539Do they really tho Don’t most cute white girls want tall white guys >>31123543I love my tattoos and I’m glad I got them I didn’t think it would turn all the qts away tho
>>31123530>Men, how much does it matter that your partner cares for your emotions?Very>Are you able to connect with a woman without the need to dump your trauma?No not really
How can I trust that a male partner who is stronger than me will not be overcome by urges to murder me?Are all men constantly fighting urges to be violent and kill people?Or am I projecting? I experience urges of violence (not often anger, it's sexual) and if I had more testosterone in my body I'd be more afraid of myself.
>>31123533>>31123542I like you>>31123549Aw come on why does this keep happening
>>31123528No, it's ok. A warning is supposed to get your attention. I appreciate you.
>>31123555>Aw come on why does this keep happeningBe skinnier and don't mention watermelons.
>>31123537I mean I’d still let you paint my insides. get it ?
>>31123554>How can I trust that a male partner who is stronger than me will not be overcome by urges to murder me?Don't date one of those "people", you know who I'm referring to.>Are all men constantly fighting urges to be violent and kill people?No>Or am I projecting? I experience urges of violenceHalf and half, there are men who murder their wives and gfs, but they have some things in common.
>>31123560Is this a painter boy joke
>>31123554You can't really know that a man isn't going to snap and suddenly kill you, same as we can never know she isn't going to slit our throats in the night with a knife. At some point you've got to weigh the positives and negatives of trust and settle on a decision.
>>31123559>skinnierThe cat and the watermelon = 33 pounds in this scenario. I'm already underweight dude.
>>31123530I'm a woman but fuck.You cannot fully bond with someone if you don't know every detail about their life.I love knowing everything about everyone. My friends' traumas live in my heart as well. So much tragedy and pain...makes me feel human.
>>31123534female. at least my body weight, 118lbs, with ease.
>>31123568Wtf
Can I brute force a woman into liking me through the use of precise mental manipulation?
>>31123567>The cat and the watermelon = 33 poundsDon't have fat animals and don't mention watermelons.
>>31123530>can you connect with a girl w/o trauma dumping?Trauma dumping isnt healthy imo. I notice that whenever I start ranting, I'll instinctively always end it with something like, "idk, im just ranting". Never pushed myself to do that, only noticed it somewhat recently. I dont "connect emotionally" with people by connected trauma. This isn't exactly normal tho - most people find connecting by finding similarities and talking about them, which include negative experiences. Cuz of this, I def will do this anyway in order to "connect socially", as in to add my input to the conversation, which is like 50% the value for most people, and like 90% the value for me. I have zero "need" to dump my problems onto other people for the sake of emotional release. I will def mention it if it's relevant to the convo or propels it forward.If i can't add anything personal to her most recent comment, I'll try to find understanding with her comment, or make a comment or opinion. >how much does it matter that ur partner cares for u emotions?a lot? This is basic relationship stuff - someone who doesn't care has got something wrong with em, or i'm dumping way too much onto them.
>>31123552white women hate white men
>>31123572A lot of women are pathetically mentally weak, so probably.Yes, being weak and failing to resist means you deserve what you get.
Why am I gaining weight but I don't look fatter. I think I'm developing some kind of eating disorder
>>31123554Lots of men I know do seem to be on a hair-trigger for violence, especially the ones women prefer, but murder without prior DV is pretty rare.You can never truly know someone, but like, if he isn't actively smacking you around it's unlikely that he's suppressing a desire to do worse.
>>31123554>TrustIdk you kind of just have to hope for the best. Your desire for human connection is higher than your distrust of that particular individual. Plus evidence. Spending time with someone and seeing how they act towards lots of different kinds of people, seeing if they keep their promises or tell lots of lies.You having thoughts about assaulting people is weird.
>>31123273You don't have to (and shouldn't) apply it retroactively.
what does this mean, is he just not interested?
>>31123579>don't look fatterwe've been making fun of you behind your back for weeks becky maybe if you had come to janey's party you wouldn't have been left out of the group chat girl hahahaha
>>31123537half of all white chicks fucking love tats, my guy. It's rebellious in a conformal sort of way
>>31123564t’is. but I meant it !>>31123579water retention? or muscle? it’s normal to fluctuate. focus more on how you look and feel, not the number on the scale.
>>31123573Do you not know how much watermelons and cats weigh? Why is this conversation happening? Fine a LARGE watermelon.
>>31123534F30 lbs so life isn't too inconvenient for him or her. Otherwise I don't care. Ideally I could lift my partner, which I did some work on just a few hours ago.
>>31123583Maybe he has a tummy ache.He says you can play later.If that later never comes, he might not be interested.
>>31123570>>31123545Girls, you weight almost a twice a heavy machine gun and you expect men to lift you? No offense but that's a two person job, speaking from experience
>>31123554I only want to kill posters here (on this website) to be frank. IRL I'm an altruist and love people.
>>31123583He's playing FF7R and knows you would talk over the cutscenes like all women
>>31123565>we can never know she isn't going to slit our throats in the night with a knifeA man can dream... but that never actually happens.
>>31123590How much can you lift?
>>31123313Touché>>31123322Wanting sex without commitment makes you a manwhore. Wanting sex for its own sake makes you a manwhore.>you girlsI'm a man>inb4 incelI dislike them, too. They're frustrated because they want to be manwhores, but feel unable to act on it. >>31123361>I don't look for casual sex>I expect sex on the first date if it goes wellPick one. You are extremely promiscuous; you just refuse the label because of the connotation.
>>31123592I’ve had men carry me over their shoulder no problem. the right man for me will be able to do it alone.
>>31123577You’re kidding right >>31123585Maybe I should just talk to more girls then I dunno. All of the women I’m into seem to elude me and I just cope and tell myself it’s cause I’m brown and have tattoos and look like I kill people for money >>31123588Are you a man or a woman btw
>>31123584THis almost made me cry>>31123588>focus more on how you look and feelI don't think I'm being objective or that I'm getting some kind of dysmorphia. I feel like a beast even though I look the same
>>31123554it takes effort to kill people and to get rid of the body. Most people aren't ready to do this.I dont have violent urges to kill people. I'm a small guy tho. But i dont think much of my friends do either. People with anger issues are just something to avoid in general
>>31123577not this white girl
>>31123604woman. idk how but it sounds like you need to build you confidence.
>>31123592Plenty seem to do it with minimal effort. I can carry an 80 pound child if I have to and I don't even do anything.Being able to carry the weight of me and a toddler should be a goal of his. Just in case. I'll never be able to lift him but I would make sure I'm strong enough to drag him out of a house fire if need be.
>>31123530I've experienced my share of trauma, but I've never discussed it with any woman except my therapist.As far as I know none of the women I've dated ever suspected anything had ever happened.
>>31123554I only have murderous urges against adults who abuse children. If you don't abuse children then I don't have any murderous urges against you.
>>31123583He wouldn't be giving you immediate attention if he didn't get something out of it. Whether that's genuine interest or just him hoping to get sex, I don't know, but what I'm certain of is that he's NOT rejecting you.
>>31123609>pick me!STFU lindsay
>>31123614>>31123603You probably select for bodybuilders so it makes sense now
>>31123619I don't want you Carlos
>>31123537Tan more and say you're mixed so you can bbcmaxx
>>31123609>posts tan man with dark featuresIt's over for blond boys
>>31123620>select for bodybuildersPretty skinny guys can lift me. Are you okay?
>>31123590>Ideally I could lift my partner,Hi, I'm small and lightweight. Let me be your manageable burden.
>>31122877Nta. How would you recommend someone with a behavioral issue or unwanted personality quirk address their issues?
>>31123625
>>31123625Theres room in my heart for all of you
>>31123549Stop being racist.
>>31123621En la noche oscura y misteriosa,burbujea la poción del amor y la alegría.Con la luna llena como testigo,conjuramos la magia que nos guía.Con hierbas y raíces de la tierra,mezcladas con gotas de rocío,invocamos el poder del universo,para traer felicidad y desafío.¡Que las estrellas brillen con fuerza,que la brujería nos envuelva!Con este hechizo de encanto y risa,la magia de la vida se renueva.¡Así sea! ¡Así se haga!En este mundo de sueños y magia,que la energía fluya sin parar,y la alegría sea nuestra compañía.¡Que así sea! ¡Que así se cumpla!Con la magia de la noche profunda,este hechizo de la bruja traviesa,nos llena de amor y abundancia.¡Que la magia nos guíe en cada paso,que la alegría sea nuestro lazo!Con este hechizo en la noche estrellada,nuestra vida será una fiesta encantada.¡Así sea! ¡Así se cumpla!La magia de la bruja nos envuelve,en un mundo de sueños y fantasía,donde la alegría siempre revive.
>>31123583What if he's telling the truth?
>>31123609>not this white girl
>>31123631he kinda looks like me
>latinx hoursIt was time for Thomas to leave.
>>31123620my last bf was skinny. far from bodybuilder and he could easily lift me. maybe you’re just unfit? that’s okay.
>>31123641Say less? whats ur number boo
>>31122986Every single one of those is varying levels of inappropriate, but that's par for the course with bisluts.They're even worse than complete fags.
>>31123577I hate white British men, all the other white men ok
>>31123650Are chavs not chads?
buenos noches, ESL retardos and retardas
>>31123646NTAI was able to carry my ex cause she weighed like 88 lbs, now I date girls who are much taller than me and don't think I can lift them.
>>31123648I was kidding mostly. We have almost identical hair but otherwise I look like an albino Turk.
ur opposite other wants you to send them sexy texts: how often are you down to do this for them without getting negative feelings?
>>31123577Not all of them just ones with poorly defined chins, doughy faces, and skin that burns after 5 minutes in the sun. And I don't hate them I just don't want to fuck them.
>>31123651No they're a disgrace
>>31123655?
>>31123638he said he's good and then not good so one of them has to be a lie? I'm just confused cuz I stayed over and he was really affectionate and told me he wants to play games together>>31123639 that evening but he's different over text
>>31123660I was exaggerating, i'm just ugly
>>31123658Your comment reminded me of this
>>31123613Yeah dude I really don’t know what it is. I have work out and I’m in great shape and I have hobbies and friends and good families and such. But I have so many insecurities Like about my car and my house And how none of it is good enough and a woman isn’t going to date me because of the dent I have in the passenger side of my car and how it needs to be worked on Regardless of how many women I’ve dated, successful or failed relationships I’ve had, I feel so insecure about shit I think a big part of it is my social anxiety. Like I feel socially anxious. I still get nervous around women I’m attracted to and I hate it. I never have the balls to go talk to women I think are cute
>>31123554>I experience urges of violence (not often angerYou have urges to grape moids?
>>31123655>We have almost identical haiGood enough for me DRop them digits boy!!!!!!
>>31123651I thought chavs were lame thugs>>31123665Lol
Femanons do you ask your bf/ guy you are dating about his past sex life?
>>31123672I try to open up that dialogue eventually, yes.
>>31123651I've heard it said that they're a bit timid?
>>31123678What do you do with that info?
>>31123670lol the reminds me of the time i dropped the digits of my cousin who looks like the guy with the gun lol
>>31123657Whenever I'm horny and alone.>>31123680Gauge how well he may know his own sexual preferences, try to understand his taste in women, etc.
>>31123672I try too but I'm scared of prying too deep. I don't want to sound insecure
>>31123657Fonce a month max
>>31123672I ask what they like but I don't want details of past experiences.
>>31123633How is noticing your big ass racist?
>>31123679In what sense? I don't get that impression when they're heckling people on the street
>>31123652que descanses. >>31123667would you try therapy ? I was able to get over some similar insecurities through therapy. nobody worth your time would care about a dent in your car or your house anyway.
>>31123686
>>31123672>>31123678different M anon and my god I have no idea what I'd even say if I were asked about that, 90% of my life has been absolutely nothing and 10% has been escorts and unintended one night stands where they basically dumped me afterWomen, how much should I lie if this ever came up (it won't but still)
>>31123672no I don’t ask questions that will hurt my feelings. or questions I don’t want to answer.
>>31123630Blair, it's time to stop posting.
>>31123703Do not mention escorts under any circumstances. You can mention the one night stands only if she has also done one night stands. Other than that just be honest
>>31123709But at that point I'd have to claim to be a virgin
>>31123665>picrel MEN which one are you?
>>31123700>therapyI have considered it. However I had therapists when I was a teenager and none of them actually helped, I don’t think. And I also don’t think I could reasonably afford it at the moment. I do a good job of staving off negative thoughts generally with my lifestyle choices and keeping busy Like I know I will be successful at work. I know I will be successful in my personal endeavors or whatever I’m interested in. I know I will maintain healthy relationships with my friends and family. But I don’t think I will find a woman I mesh with. And those material things are first to come to mind. I want to build a good life for myself am working really hard to do so. So why would a woman who also wants to build a good life for herself settle for a guy who didn’t have nice shit?
>>31123670555-123-4567
>>31123717Be serious
>>31123699I accidentally replied to the wrong anon, so I meant British moids in general, not chavs specifically.
State genderWhat are you good at?
>>31123719(470) 620-7892
>>31123723FCreative problem solving, drawing, sucking dick
>>31123723FSucking dick
>>31123723F. Cooking, baking, knitting scarves, yelling really loud, finding deals for dumb shit online.
>>31123727HOLY SHIT YOU JUST PUT ME ON AN FBI WATCHLIST FUCK YOU
>>31123723analyzing. being a bum
>>31123727u from Gay?
Woman texts me good morning every day. We've been talking for about two weeks now.What does this mean?How do I approach this? I appreciate her thinking of me, but what I don't like is the routine of having to respond everyday to it. And I don't like taking much in between dates, I feel like they'll get bored and disappear.
>>31123722Oh, some are just timid yeah. Thats nkt really the problem. A lot of them are arrogant though, and ignorant
>>31123723Fdancing and being retarded
>>31123723MCooking Working with my hands Drumming Guitar Writing (like poems and short stories) but also song writing
>>31123723FDrawing, piano, pasta specifically, weeb shit
>>31123737am guy, there should be some days where u say good morning first, so she doesn't get tired. Talk to them regularly, but it doesnt have to be everyday. Sometimes just go for the bare minimum, sometimes go for something exciting. Ask her out btw
>>31123737How old are you both? And do you have any idea of her relationship experience level?
>>31123712Nta. But isn't being a virgin more of an ick to women?
>>31123737Been in this situation with a guy before. I just don't text that much. You gotta tell them or else they won't stop, and it's probably gonna hurt them. It sucks
>>31123723Nothing, I suck at everything. It's over
>>31123736im not gay fuck you
>>31123254>He's hot and he's not annoying but there's something that would make him a bad boyfriend for you or you just don't have that kind of chemistry. I've had situations with guys who were fine friends, but I would have hated them as boyfriends. I have different/higher expectations for friends vs significant others.Gross
>>31123728>>31123731Press (x) to doubt
Nta anon who asked but>>31123733You sound fun>>31123740You sound attractive
>>31123744Exactly the problem
>>31122692State gender and whether you think it's ok to hang out with a "friend" of the opposite sex solo if married or in a long term relationshipIm male and personally think its weird and unnecessary. Whatever hang out activity you are doing should really be done with your partner to begin with.Nothing wrong with having friends of the opposite sex but isn't it more normal or appropriate to spend time with them in a group dinner or mutual activity with others. I feel anyone else who disagrees most likely came from divorced households or are heading for divorce/breakup themselves.
>>31123740Save some girls for the rest of us please
>>31123723MI'm a pretty good archer and I can suck my own dick. Those are literally the only things interesting about me.Unfortunately they're probably both icks.
>>31123759It depends. Someone they've known since high school and never fucked? Okay. New work friend? I would be uncomfortable unless they were with a group.
>>31123723MNothingI'm boring and bitter
>>31123763Archery is cool...
>>31123759Mnoyou are right
>>31123763Wait no weirdly I'm into it
>>31123759MI'm canning all my female friends once I get engaged.
>>31123723Mpattern recognition
>>31123756I thought you said whoremongering was the bigger ick?
>>31123723MI fixed my great uncles shotgun once.I also strung 60 AA batteries together for a radio battery. That's about the only skilled things I've done
>>31123723MSex
>>31123723MI'm not 'good' at anything. There are things I'm adequate or passable at but I'm not good enough at anything to say I'm good at it.
>>31123723MVideo games, puns, collecting monster girl images, figuring out how monsters and humans would have intercourse despite massive bodily differences, being so lazy that I'm efficient, raising dogs, and flirting by accident.
>>31123775Is that the only thing you think you're good at?>>31123777I doubt that.
>>31123766>>31123768I would love to teach a gf if she were open to it
>>31123771Relative ick magnitude doesn't really matter as much as them being icks.
>>31123743I'm 28 she's 26. I've only been with bpd women for the past 4 years and she was in a ltr until last year September.>>31123745If I tell that to any girl, they will 110% ghost me. >>31123742Then I'm going to come off as insensitive/uninterested/asshole if I don't respond because she texts me good morning around 7am every morning. Then a message during lunch. Then at night asking how my day was. I told her I appreciate her messaging me 7 hours ago and she left me on read LMAO.I don't understand women. Never will.
A guy in a hobby group I'm a part of is throwing the whole group a BBQ. How do I pretend to be a normie while possibly finding a gf who attends different events than me? I don't often go to parties/BBQs and I don't want to be obnoxious.
>>31123787Graze around and eat other dude's MEAT, how HARD could it be?
>>31123782I tried it at an after school program for a little while but it didn't go for long enough for me to get good at it. I'd love to try again. And I can watch the other thing.
Married Women only: How does it feel when your Husband cums inside you? Will you feel it when he goes.- a virgin girl who'll be married soon
>>31123785well yea, respond to her if she msgs you. But u dont have to take initiative every day. But if u like her, u should on some days, and show some enthusiasm so she doesnt think shes wasting her time.>left me on readur last comment of appreciation requires no response. If you always expect a response from a text u sent, u just dont understand texting.
>>31123789I can certainly graze and consume other people's food and drink, it's the getting numbers/networking/deeper-level conversations I'm not so sure about.
Men, would you be okay if your gf slept around with guys she had no intention to date?
>>31123781Oh, okay, I can read pretty fast. I can read an entire A4 page of text and parse it sufficiently in about 10-15 seconds. That's still not a scratch on actually FAST readers. I can type relatively quickly, but not even approaching professional typists. I can annunciate fairly well and allegedly give good presentations, but nothing special. It's all just random dumb shit peaking at adequate.I'm not "good" at anything.
>>31123782I've done japanese archery before but that's about it. It was fun! I'd be willing to try it again
>>31123801who cares about that shit
>>31123803while shes dating me? Nob4 me? idgaf
>>31123804>I can read an entire A4 page of text and parse it sufficiently in about 10-15 seconds.Me too, I use a big font.
>>31123796Congratulations, femanon. Happy for you.
>>31123688>>31123691Are u ok with yall using porn?
>>31123811Gross
>>31123754>>31123760I wish I had a gf
>>31123785>ltr until last SeptemberCould be habit. I would soft approach if I was dealing with a guy doing this. "Good morning! You know you don't have to text me every morning right?" If she says any variation of "I feel like I should" respond with something like "I'm okay with not texting every day if we don't have something to say, it just means we have more to talk about on dates". If she says "I just like to" you can say "I like knowing that you're thinking of me but I feel pressured to have something interesting to say is "reasonable compromise that works for you, you you not her" okay?"
>>31123812Yeah, most of the time is thinking about girls first and then looking at the single A taking up the entire page
>>31123814I think porn is fine as long as it's legal and not exploitative.
>>31123803Like before she met me? Doesn't bother me unless it was ridiculously excessive.
>>31123813To be honest, there were a few close calls during the 2 years we've been together. But I thanks God that he and I were able to resist when either of us initiated. He's a good man
>>31123809How am I supposed to find a gf if I don't do anything like that?
>>31123821Holy shit no way, only women can get away with this, or the most submissive of women.
>>31123793I can demonstrate a few techniques for you...
>>31123803Adding onto this, what if the only casual sex she had was with other women?
Femanons, what's the hottest thing a man can do in your eyes? Roll up his sleeves and carry your shit? Crack out a moan? Talk about their favorite passions? Cook?
>>31123834what do you need a gf for? waste of time effort and money. just enjoy the brisket.
>>31123803No.It only irritates me when people claim "my past whoring was okay because I didn't care about them". That makes it worse, not better. It would be bad enough if she made dumb choices and gave herself to a dude she mistakenly thought she would stay with. That she deliberately detached sex from even dating only shows how little she values intimacy, let alone exclusivity.If a woman wants to be a whore, whatever, I can't stop her. But if she is a whore and tries to convince me it was totally okay because of some bullshit rationalization? Then I have a problem. Why? Because the former is honest with both me and herself. We both know we're not compatible, and we can stay out of each other's way. The latter genuinely believes she is compatible, and will waste my time.
>>31123839Irrelevant. She's still a slut.
>>31123834dont listen to >>31123809. Learning to socialize is pretty necessary. Omegle is gone. Maybe get experience by talking on discord servers or something. Most people like to talk to other people, and aren't expecting the next person to whom they talk to not know how to talk. As long as you care about what they got to say, talking to other people aint that hard imo. Kinda hard w/o experience tho i guess, and w/o someone typing a whole paper on how to talk to people. U got google for that
>>31123804That's nearly 4x faster than me and I read relatively fast so that's wild to me. I think you're judging yourself more harshly than necessary. Something doesn't have to be perfect to be good.>>31123837>or the most submissive of womenOnly sexually usually but I am pretty conflict averse I guess.
>>31123803Yes. I don't know what's wrong with the other replies (well I do, but I'm not supposed to be anti-semitic on /adv/), but why would I date a free prostitute?
>>31123842Well it would be nice to have a wife and some kids one day since I'm not autistic enough to just play vidya until I die. Getting a gf is kind of the first step for that.
>>31123843Question. Why do you guys always equate having casual sex with not valuing intimacy? What does intimacy mean to you?
>>31123821Lmao >>31123837 is right. Dude, absolutely DO NOT do this. Im serious, do not fucking do this. That's like almost immediate bridge breaking @_@
>>31123859Offer the man a fucking alternative then come on
Women would you date a man thats kinda cringe?
>>31123854Sexual faculties are meant to be in loving marriage between man and woman that is open to life(children). Everything else is disordered.
>>31123848Fair enough. I can carry on conversations in small groups, but my shortcoming is definitely initiating with strangers and serious topics.>talk to people on discordI can do IRL conversation and messaging, but I am far too autistic to do voice chat with strangers on discord.
>>31123865Only if he'll save the cringey shit for when he's already inside of me.
>>31123849Women give absolute dog shit advice I'm sorry. >>31123859Yeah bro this Lilith is cooking everyone's attempt at a relationship with her advice.
>>31123852nagging wife and annoying shitheads. sounds like a pain. you'll learn to like playing vidya until you die
>>31123839In my head, i would think that's so fucking hot, and I'd find her a tad more attractive. I dont say this tho because girls take that the wrong way. I don't need 3-somes or anything. To me, it's on par of like, a girl liking a guy who plays the guitar idk. I knew a girl who was bi, but didnt really say it (our mutual friend told me). We sorta liked each other (didnt work out), and I would never ever say anything about her if she mentioned it cuz I'd never want to hurt her or make her feel bad or wtv.It's the modern age, young people dont care no more
>>31123840A guy absolutely obliterated me on an arcade machine once and that was oddly sexyObviously rolling up his sleeves too, brushing his hair back, if you rly like a guy it's even sexy if he gets a little stinky.
>>31123803>>31123839the asymmetry of her refusing men what she enjoys giving to women appeals to me as i have a bit of a misandry kink. But ultimately i would still be a bit sceptical as im borderline demisexual.
>>31123854intimacy is worthless without exclusivity. If you can be "intimate" with some joe blow pump and dump, why would i want you to be intimate with me?
>>31123876Kek which game?
>>31123870Lmao i'm guessing you're thinking lovey-dovey cringe stuff? Im talking more awkward autist cringe
>>31123854Clearly something different from what it means to you.
>>31123830May I ask how you met your husband?
Do women have a perineum?
>>31123884It was fucking puyo puyo of all things, but I reckon he could beat me at most games and that is also kinda hot to think about
>>31123886If he fucks me well, he can sperg about fucking legos all I care. I'll even memorize the official names of each piece in order if he fucks the info into me.
>>31123895what if he's a virgin?>I'll even memorize the official names of each piece in order if he fucks the info into me:O
>>31123870>oh baby, my phaser is set to stun and I'm ready to fire>W-what?>here comes the photon torpedo down your exhaust vent>please stop babe>BAZINGA!
>shave pubes>immediately horny because i'm godlyis this gay?
>>31123899Like half my exes were virgins when they met me.
>>31123895>If he fucks me well, he can sperg about fucking legos all I care. I'll even memorize the official names of each piece in order if he fucks the info into me.This is a massive JH moment.
>>31123839This would probably be harder for me since I'd worry I wouldn't be able to pleasure her as well as a woman could.
>>31123900Him cumming on/in me would be way more of a deal breaker than him being Sheldon.>>31123905Suck a tailpipe.
>>31123904>virgin killerwoah
>>31123781>Is that the only thing you think you're good at?I can do other things too, but it's my best talent.
>>31123854Sex. Attention. Desire. Exclusivity.I don't know how you could value intimacy if you give it away to people you don't love
>>31123891Friend of my cousins. We made sure we had family and friends with us all the time and we never too trips alone together. The only times were were alone were afternoon dates.I've dated a few guys before but no more than a few months so nothing really happened and that at was back in Highschool.Helps that I was in Catholic School.
>>31123894>gets wet when loses to tic-tac-toequeen shit right here
>>31123907>Cumming in me is a deal breakerHow do you think babies are made?
>>31123909Not purposefully. I just attract and am attracted to the types of guys with less experience.>>31123916They're made after careful planning and preparation. Not a surprise splooge.
>>31123901Whenever I manscape I imagine a woman saying "uwu anon! Just for me? Glark glark."So no, not automatically.
>>31123916she knows how they're made. she just has a panic attack at anything white and sticky.you have to get her extremely drunk on margaritas and then "rape" her. That's her fantasy anyway.
>>31123907Not letting him cum in you is immoral bu then you are already fornicating, so you were damned before that.
>>31123904Unluckiest femanon ever. Kek
Where do I find a wife who wants to wait until marriage if I'm not very religious?
>>31123919well i don't think about the woman. my cock just looks so scary and meaty after i shave. it's like a primal urge. it's like i want to bite it the fuck off
>>31123907Hey, someone actually recognized the real you for once.
>>31123922Imma be real with you bro. I've been here about 3 years and i am fully aware of JH lore. But i always find it so weird how you guys keep track of every little thing about her lol
>>31123747Thats not what I said...
>>31123918>am attracted to the types of guys with less experience.Girls like this exist...?
>>31123924How is it immoral?>>31123926I'm not complaining. My last exbf was the best sex with a guy I've ever had, and he was a virgin.>>31123931It's a miracle.>>31123937We've been saying so forever now.
>>31123912Your story is a whitepill, femanon, thanks for sharing.
Why do my feelings for a person go away the moment they are reciprocated?
>>31123796Lmao
How do I cope with the fact no woman will ever feel lust for me?
>>31123930Curious, ive never heard of male autophilia
>>31123928Convert. Don't be like Dawkins who laments to fall of Christianity while being the one to help destroy it.Religiosity or the belief of something greater than yourself is what naturally leads to virtues and disciplines like chastity.You can't have your cake and eat it too
Women how many times per day do you think a guy should jerk off?
>>31123943Because youre a piece of shit
>>31123948skill issue
>>31123953None. If that seed is not inside his wife's vagina, than that's immoral
>>31123953Whatever it takes to get it out of his system, assuming it doesn't cause him physical harm nor distracts him from his relationships or responsibilities.
>>31123955But why?
Why am i getting sleep so early these days? Am i getting old??
>>31123966Don't look a gift horse in the mouth.
>>31123939I'm nta (and a newfriend). However I've never heard of a woman preferring men with less experience before (unless it was for straight up religious reasons).Would you say it's a domme thing for you?
>>31123906But you have a dick.
>>31123964Probably because you hate yourself
>>31123935To answer your question:you will never knowI could live in Gay, or Fairbanks, or Columbus, or Mobile, or St. George, or Tallahassee, or Apalachicola, or Saginaw, or Philadelphia, or Buford, Billings, Butler, Ferndale, Wellsville, Lilydale, Weyburn, Yorkton, Rochester, Brunswick, St. Vincent, Gatlinburg, Jonesboro, Statesboro, Nashville . . . .
Women did you ever feel bad about masturbating? I used to feel so guilty about it back when i was a teen. I legit used to think when bad stuff happened in the world it was my fault for wanking lol
>>31123943Femanon?
Is this why 4chan girls are so stupid?
>>31123952I'm not some fedora atheist, just an agnostic that doesn't really care about the religion/God question.What sect is the bestest out there for faggots like me? Do I have to give up my Sundays with the boys?
Woman would it be okay if I kissed your neck a little? haha
>>31123871Give him something better then>>31123883>worthless without exclusivityWhy?
>>31123939how long did it take for it to get good between the two of u
>>31123629I believe most mental/behavioral/personality issues are physiological problems first and foremost - they're mostly adaptations to stress.I think gut irritation is an extremely underlooked cause of certain health problems - if it's something like OCD or some kind of tic, or some kind of compulsive behavior especially.Otherwise, increasing thyroid function, lower cortisol, estrogen, adrenaline, etc.
>>31123988It doesn't matter
>>31123969I don't prefer men with less sexual experience. I prefer personality qualities and shared interests that happen to be held by men with less sexual experience on average. Scholarly guys I can meet on college campuses or through friends in fields I'm interested in. They tended to be younger and motivated by educational or professional betterment with less socialization, I guess.
>>31123939>We've been saying so forever now.i thought that was unattractive
>>31123977that headline is just more proof that the fundemental erosion between men and women in america comes from health issues
>>31123970But girls don't even cum from dicks?
>>31123980Roman Catholicism.Giving up exactly 1-2 hours every Sunday for God is nothing. See how much he cares about you and your boys? Treat him as one of your boys too.
Does anyone know how to become a prostitute?
>>31123958>than
Men, would you rather date an OnlyFans model who is a virgin, or a girl with a body count of 25?
>>31123975Yeh, for a long time growing up. Education about that shit was fucked back then.>>31123990The second time we tried wasn't too bad for either of us. I absolutely fucked up our first night together, though. Like I still feel horrible about it to this day, I was actually the worst ever.
>>31123977The ladies' numbers were pretty high the last time a body count question was asked.
>>31123973It feels more like fear >>31123976Yes
women would you let your bf give you a labia massage?
>>31124007body count of 25 as long as she was clean
>>31123999That's the point. Dick is so good that I want it even when it doesn't usually make me orgasm. And when it does, it's the fucking best.
>>31124007The one who is least shallow
>>31124007I'd date the first girl.It could depend on exactly how much she shows on onlyfans.
can too much ibuprofen hurt you? the cute foot nurse told me to talk 4 a day for two weeks for my plantar fasciitis but that seems excessive
>>31123992Why reply in the first place then?
>>31123949when you are blessed with a 0.1% niche cock, you have no choice but to admire it. i'm sure some women with objectively perfect tits or asses feel the same.
>>31124007Whoever i vibe better with. If i dont with either, then the more attractive one. If they, aren't attractive, then neither. I'd be friends with either tho, the former being a little more interesting maybe
>>31124023sorry
>>31124007A virgin that is behaving in unchaste manner can still be fixed before she has intercourse and gives that pair bonding to someone else.
I see a lot of women who like men with big noses, but do men like women with big noses?
>>31123977Nice. I'm smrat
>>31124020Yes it's bad for your stomach lining
>>31124008damn, what happened? Puke or something?
>>31124031No, they don't. Next question.
>>31124031there are some, we have a guy in here who keeps saying he loves big noses on women because they're aristocratic
>>31124020It can. But that amount for that time shouldn't. Don't drink though.
>>31124031>but do men like women with big noses?Its not something im particularly attracted to, but personally i dont think its UNattractive
men can get away with big noses, but not weak jawswomen can get away with weak jaws, but not big noses.
>>31124007Onlyfans with face or without
>>31124041What happens if i drink? I've been having about 3-4 drinks a week
>>31124000>Roman CatholicismCan I get a quick rundown on why? They weren't the ones diddling kids, were they?
>>31124036I was asking him to try all sorts of shit he wasn't totally into, but he was too shy to communicate it. I put too much pressure on him to cum while simultaneously putting pressure on him to not cum on me. Overall I was selfish and stupid.
>>31124007VirginBecause at least no one has experienced the real thing
>>31124031I would love a big-nosed woman because then we would have matching noses. We could rub our noses together and laugh at all the small-nosed plebs who are missing out on the big-nosed life.
>>31123991That's interesting, what do you figure is the cause of the gut irritation?My younger brother has pretty bad ocd (despite there being no family history of it) and I remember he had diarrhea around once a month when we were young.
>>31124043Well fuck me. No wonder I get mostly tomboy fetishists or weirdos.>>31124048It can damage your stomach lining like the other anon said. You really shouldn't drink any time you take ibuprofen. What you're doing probably isn't going to kill you if you have a drink here or there but I wouldn't if it were me. For future reference if you ever start puking up something that looks like coffee grounds get someone to take you to the ER.
>>31124007What kind of content is she making? Is she willing to stop in the next few years?
>girl I know has an onlyfans/18+ twitter>she doesn't know that I know she has that stuff>she used the same online name she uses everywhere else so it's easy to find>searching that online name also easily leads to her real name, which itself leads to her Facebook and actual address and whatnotI feel like this is a "play stupid games win stupid prizes" situation I shouldn't even be involved in, but I am also at least a little worried about her being this naive. What would /adv/ do?
>>31124012massage man here. women don't know shit so let me answer1. The base premise of your question: Yes, they would allow it, if he works into it appropriately2. It's not worth it
Women are you scared of pentagrams?
>>31124031shrek nose is a no. I dont find noses exactly to be the most interesting part about a girl. I was with a friend once out and about, and she mentioned (sorta unexpectedly) that she didnt like her nose (common girl problem i notice now). I was like huh(?) and asked her to turn around and let me see, and she looked straight and me and gave this unexpected-but-weirdly-charming-because-it-was-unexpected-and-also-cute smile. Her nose was fine, and since im online i'd say she's cute in general. Couldnt really think less about the nose - the entire experience was so charming.So, unless u got shrek nose, ur fine. Honestly, if my girl has an interesting nose that doesnt make her look like shrek, i'd prob find it even more attractive. Kinda cuz of the uniqueness and indiosyncratic-nature
>>31122721The only way to get that is to find a virgin who has not been used by someone else
>>31124011What's your sexual orientation?
>>31124069>It's not worth itWhy not??
>>31124068I recommend taking a "not my problem" approach. And get off only fans, you're halfway to BEING the stalker that's gonna rape her
>>31124037I'm getting mixed answers>>31124040What counts as a big nose?>>31124042Any dealbreaker noses?>>31124043What if they both have a strong jaw and a big nose>>31124061Cute
Women thoughts on double penetration with your bf and a dildo?
>>31124015I've never thought if it that way. Fingers and tongue still feel better surely?
>>31124075Straight
>>31124086Sounds fun
>>31124052oof, yea that is kinda bad lool. Puking might be better idk. But he's still with you. There's a good chance he even looks back at it fondly or humorously. No worries, really, prob
>>31123759Tifa beeg boobaAerith cute booba
>>31124068if you like her, ask her out. If you want to be friends, be friends and dont say anything. If you're gonna try and talk her out of it... idk guy, it's kinda a her body her choice kinda thing. I aint playing with fire, not gonna recommend u to do so
>>31124095I actually puked in his mom's van after our second date because I drank too much at a movie theater, so he would've been prepared for it.I do hope he had no regrets about out relationship. If we had been more compatible when it came to our long term goals, we'd probably still be together.
Would you say that your mind is a beacon in the veil of the night? And that for a strange kind of fashion there's a wrong and a right?
>>31124072Shrek nose is like black people/asian noses right?
>>31124085>Any dealbreaker noses?I just googled "women ugly nose" and i'm not really seeing any that bad. So the answer is probably no
>>31124089Nope. Cock is best for penetration. Doesn't automatically mean sex with any guy will always be better than sex with any girl, but dick gives a unique advantage.
>>31124063>what do you figure is the cause of the gut irritation?The main culprit is endotoxin, which in high amounts burdens the liver and cause imbalance in hormones. When you eat certain foods that cannot be easily digested it increases this - nuts, grains, seeds, legumes, etc. Slow or paralyzed digestion (in the small intestine) can also be a problem in that it feeds more bacteria which increases endotoxin load.Stress and low thyroid function leads to your body absorbing even more of the stuff, so a rough childhood or even an unhealthy uterine environment could be the root cause ultimately. It feeds a negative feedback loop basically.
I've never had a drink spiked, does that mean I'm ugly?
>>31123970>>31124015Then why were you sleeping with women then?
>>31124076you'll be dodging unpleasant touchesisn't a good massage for her for the amount of trust and comfort you have to build to get there.
>>31124106do you want a dissertation or just the simple validation of "yeah"
>>31124108If her nose wrinkles easily, or if the nostrils face outward, she's ugly. If it's too pale, has a marshmallow like compexion, or is tainted by freckles, also hideous. If she has a Roman, Arab, Indian, or Jewish nose, she's beautiful. Chinese/Japanese/Mongol noses are more of a case by case situation - they can be either beautiful button noses, or the second ugliest shit you ever saw after an Irish or Scandi Euro-sow's nose. I don't make the rules, that's just how it is.
>>31124115Because I loved my exgf.
>>31124122I love you. That's why I would like to put my mouth up to your genitalia and perform oral on you.
>>31124121I disagree. I dont really care about any of that lol
>>31124120I wish I could date a fairy gf who appreciates my micropenis.
>what makes great sex in your opinion>Other than great chemistry, strong emotional intimacy, being able to read your partners body language and touchFor me it's a good power dynamic. Being comfortable enough and having enough mutual (at least for me) to be able to ignore them when they ask you to stop or slow down and just relentlessly pound them into a gibbering wreck because you enjoy watching them suffer and know that they are actually completely helpless to stop you.
women if a guy does a typical routine for foreplay, would you get bored of it?
>>31124129I wish I could be hookup buddies with an Orc Woman with tusks and a ring in her porker snout who mommies me in her aggressive, savage way and treats me as her honorary son with benefits.
>>31124136Yikes>>31124137If we never switch it up at all yeah probably
>>31123975Isn't it normal to?
>>31124124That's lovely, but I don't think I love you, so I'll pass.
>>31124107she was asian, so no loooooool.I was thinking more like >https://www.quotemaster.org/images/s_c5/c59ef2a427f228d353e111c187160844.jpeg>https://www.treehugger.com/thmb/hQXcGMHZAvDbirDvs6wY52gahes=/2119x1415/filters:fill(auto,1)/GettyImages-1135562026-5da98392c39a42ea81e121916110e5f2.jpg (hope it loads)post a pic of someone online w/ a similar nose if ur really that insecure. Guy's really aren't that focused on noses tho, really
How do you prevent the hair around your genitalia from shedding, then falling down your trousers legs in large clumps and trailing behind you everywhere you go?
>>31124137Eventually. But if it leads to actual sex, I'd never be fully bored.
>>31124137it's 2024 just get chatgpt to script you, jeez
State gender.Would you support or oppose government mandated bfs/gfs for lonely people? Basically forcibly pairing lonely people so they don't stay lonely.
>>31124051Any institution with authority over younger members will have bad apples. Teachers still sexually abuse more students per capita than Catholic priests do. The fact is diddling with kids is not acceptable Catholicism and doesn't make pedophile priests correct in their actions.It's an institution run by humans so it won't be perfect. Don't let that dissuade you to the ACTUAL teachings.Also Catholic Church is the original one Jesus established in the world. And Jesus is God. Just giving you the Truth.Look at the shitshow the Protestant Revolution did
>>31124151must have gone through puberty to post
>>31124157I HATE THE ANTICHRISTI HATE THE ANTICHRISTI HATE THE ANTICHRIST
>>31124164>Also Catholic Church is the original one Jesus established in the world.just lol
>>31124157ChatGPT doesn't talk about sex stuff. I deez nuts'd chatGPT once, and it got angry at me lol
>>31124163MOppose, it's retarded and not fixing the problem on a fundamental level.
>>31124163MForcibly, fuck that. Voluntarily, yes. Also what the second Anon said. That's not solving the issue.
>>31124164>le teachers do it too copeyour priests are meant to be an example above the average person but they aren't any different
>>31124180>>31124177What if you had the option to trade with other lonely people, or request a new bf/gf?
>>31124171Um yes. He gives the keys to Kingdom to Peter.
Do women like touching balls the way we like boobs?
>>31124150
>>31124183do you really think this would change my answer?
I think arab noses on women are HOT
>>31124181Teachers are too.
>>31124187I used to, but every guy I've been with and tried it has said I'm too rough with them, so I've decided to never play with balls again.
>>31124192mena women drive me wild
>>31124015I thought you said you had the best sex of your life with the ex gf?
>>31124175If I wasn't so opposed to using ChatGPT I'd make a new hobby out of fucking with it. That sounds fun.
>>31124181The point is, it's still immoral under the standard if the Catholic Church.If I murdered someone and said murder is immoral, doesn't make me wrong.Human not living up to their principles is never going away.
Are laugh lines on a woman a strong indicator of her age?
>>31124193Teachers exist to train children into being functional members of a technological/industrial societyPriests are meant to be the shining moral example of humanity
>>31124195could have tried being more gentle. typical foid overreaction
>>31124195That's sad. I wish you would play with mine.
>>31124167dumb luddite. AI is christlike and perhaps a return to eden. the only chance mankind has had since the invention of fire.
>>31124195>so I've decided to never play with balls again.Dont you DARE say that! I'll teach you, you'll be fine
>>31124189>fuckin, that's like, greek goddess nose? -_- I guess you just barely pass, maybe consider surgery in the near future. Try for a different pantheon
>>31124203That's a very modern mindset. Teachers are supposed to be almost like secondary parents.
>>31124163>forciblyWhat good would that do?
>>31124211Mass education is a modern concept, tard.
>>31124166I have already been through poverty. It caused me to get pimples and hair to grow on my nuts! Such is the consequences of getting fired and evicted and being left out on the streets as a poor man.
>>31124210I can't afford rhinoplasty yet
>>31124208I will burn out your GPUs and short all your CPU VCORE rails to 12V.
>I heard women like handsWomen is this hot?
>>31124195>literally incapable of whispering>can't be trusted to handle a man's ballsyup, I'm thinking that's a JH MOMENT
>>31124214I will mass educate you and your entire family. Soon you and everyone you love will be educated. Whether you like it or not.
>>31124213I think there are a lot of lonely people who are lonely because they don't get out and meet people.
>>31124195>bites hard on clit>for some reason girl doesnt like it>guess i wont do oral on her againfor god sake, hold his balls. Just dont squeeze em like a stress ball. Cupping em is all that's needed to warm his heart
women what are we supposed to do with your butt?
>>31124219Those aren't hands, those are toes.
>>31124211>Teachers are supposed to be almost like secondary parents.No, they're absolutely not. Not even close.
>>31122872I have a female friend that invites me to eat, for a coffee, sometimes we just hang out and smokeI don't think she's leading my on, but sometimes when she's drunk she leans on my shoulder and that pisses me off because it confuses me, oh well
Is going back to see if I can rekindle it with my ex after two years a bad idea?Would you ever give your ex another chance?
>>31124224Okay but that doesn't mean they're going to enjoy being forced to hang out with someone they may or may not like.
>>31124198To be fair, she's the first partner I'd ever been with who had THAT much sexual experience. She had sex with more women than all my exbfs combined, as far as I know.
>>31124230The job of teachers is to intimidate bad children through threats of violence and to sexually educate good children by physically manipulating and stimulating their genitalia. At least that's what I learned in the American education system.
>>31124231Let me tell you now guy, you need to get that to stop before you've got feels for her that she won't reciprocate. You biologically cannot avoid it.
>>31124228Nothing preferably
>>31124218you want to burn a couple of miraculous little cathedrals? why? doesn't track.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=05ro6fcj6EkM/F and thoughts?
>>31124238That's almost as bad as teachers trying to take the role of parents.
>>31124240You don't want objects put inside your anus, or your ass cheeks squeezed and squeezed and SQUEEZED?
>>31124217a lime zester microplane might be enough(btw, i hope ur not autistic or something, otherwise these responses immediately become not-funny)
>>31124228Squeeze it, slap it pat it, etc
>>31124232>bad ideayes>another chanceno
>>31124205>>31124206>>31124209>>31124221>>31124225I genuinely tried to be as gentle as possible. And that includes just cupping. But it was still too rough or scary. Idk what the fuck you want from me.
>>31124243MThat looks like cringe. Not watching lol
>>31124241>calls me a luddite>has no idea how any of his technology works at allI'm a network engineer, by the way. I'm not a luddite, I just think AI is the worst possible development to come out of the 21st century.
>>31124239Any advice? I don't want to come off as mean and make her feel like I don't enjoy her company or whatever. I could use a friend, I just don't want all this 'does she/does she not' shit.
>>31124245So in your culture it's parents who introduce their offspring to sex? Such as mothers having sex with their sons once they sexually mature?
>>31124248I am autistic
>>31124232depends on what went wrong. If the reason why hasn't been solved, then there's no point
>>31124228Fuck it, eat it, grab it, punch it, idc just give me a heads up so I can mentally and/or physically prepare.
>>31124255like I said, you're literally incapable of whispering so I bet you are literally incapable of using your hands gently like that
>>31124255>Idk what the fuck you want from me.>>so I've decided to never play with balls againI want you to never say this again >:[
>>31124255I have literally asked a woman to slap my balls and use a riding crop on them, and then use her knee to crush them under about half her weight.. You'll be fine.
>>31124265s-so i can play bongo drums with them??
>>31124262I will cure your autism by anally sodomizing and buggering you. Now open wide so I can fuck the autism out of you through a butt to cock exorcism!
>>31124270Nta but that is...atypical. Some of you don't like having them touched at all.
>>31124247No
>>31124266Half of my vocas have been whispering, you stupid mongo.>>31124267Fine. I am willing to try again if I ever get with another guy.>>31124270That doesn't sound fun for anyone involved.
>>31122692Why do women have such a hard time conceptualising and accepting that man is supposed to be the head of the woman/householdEven the most alpha woman or miss independent woman gets resentful if their partner doesn't become the head of her.
>>31124272I don't want to work. I just want to bang on the drum all day.
>>31124261Depends what kind of introduction you mean. Talking to children about the biological realities of human reproduction should probably be done both by parents and by teachers, but parents should probably do it first. Hands on experience should not happen until they're adults or at least older teens, and it should only happen with someone they're romantically interested in and ideally married to, or at least dating, with the full consent of both parties.
>>31124279>Half of my vocas have been whispering, you stupid mongo.so you're lying?
>>31124272Wasn't Bongo the name of the president of the United States around 10 years ago? The queer acting Afro American fellow who seemed like he might be part Arab?
>>31124236Gonna seppuku
>>31124280Tired bait
Anyone else get kind of annoyed with themselves when they realise how much the female body affects them?
>>31124284Full contact sexual training by mother to son.
>>31124279>That doesn't sound fun for anyone involved.It made me hard and she said she enjoyed it. I don't think she had ever done it before either.>>31124276I'm aware. I'm sure she's telling the truth that some of her previous bfs have not wanted them touched at all. But Some guys are on the opposite extreme and many are somewhere in between.
>>31124274Oh no
>>31124257>I just think AI is the worst possible development to come out of the 21st century.I would give social media that position, but I'm interested to see you embarrass yourself by explaining why AI supersedes it.
>>31124255did you tell him what u were going to do? Maybe he was just surprised? Kinda like how most girls who like anal dont like surprise anal?>idk what u want from meGuys hold their balls all the time, unsexually. It's warm, and prevents it from being sweaty. Letting a girl hold ur balls is a intimate experience. A great relationship should get to this point, don't give up so soon. Same thing with oral - it's hella intimate and i wouldnt want a relationship without being able to stuff her crotch in my mouth
>>31124292FYea because it makes me shit my pants everyday and gives me pimples
>>31124292I wish I could coom lessIt's taking up like 4 hours of my day
Do women do the playful dry hump thing when cuddling too?
Women, what would you think if you saw a man shouting angrily at your boyfriend and instead of reacting he just froze with a shocked/sad face?Would you be less attracted to him?
>>31124262funny enough, i gave a slight chuckleok cmon. I hate being pedantic, patronizing, mainsplaining, and explaining jokes. Dont do this to me. You understood my sarcasm, right? I know it's harder over the internet but im pretty sure i gave the right cues. Idk, cant really feel urs
>>31124287About being unable to whisper? Or what?>>31124289Why though?>>31124300During bjs mostly. I didn't just suddenly grab them, I worked up to it.
>>31124301Cleaver, but i mean the big horny>>31124302>I wish I could coom lessHonestly same
>>31124265are you down to keeping ur ass fairly clean fairly often so ur guy can stuff his face down there to his hearts content? Thats like dream girl shit right there
>>31124302>4 hours of my dayJesus
>>31122697>finally got a gf>thought id stop hating women >hate them even more nowWhy
>>31124305>shocked/sad >less attractedProbably. If he doesn't deserve whatever criticism he's getting it's not attractive because he's not standing up for himself or at least ignoring it and if he does deserve to be chewed out whatever that is also has potential to damage my opinion of him.
I would like to proudly display my penis in public places. How can I do such things?
>>31124270gdamn man. Personally, im down for a lot, but i'd never want a girl to crush my ball. Bro, waht do u get outta it? Help a bro understand
>>31124272Of course.>>31124314I prefer to prep with a 24 hour fast before buttstuff. So I'd want a day's heads up before letting a bf do whatever he wants, if it's going to be penetrative.
>>31124319You know why.
>work at target >woman I like comes in often >ID says her age is 24 (she buys wine often)>dresses in uniform like a high schooler, picrelIs she a pedophile or pedobait?
>>31122855Better than having to pay hookers or fap at home again
>>31124328>24She watches tiktoks in her spare time
>>31124201Send help
>>31124328
Women, this girl wants me to sext her. She has made clear she wants something really graphic/explicit. I've met her and we've fucked a few times so I'm not being catfished at least. What's something hot a guy can say?
Do women really like men touching them? idk seems gross.
>>31124304No, I grind my butt into a guy's weiner with no intention of actually getting him off.>>31124305Depends why. If my bf is in the wrong and chooses to get angry or double down, that's a lot less attractive than humility.
>>31124335Rocking that 60 year old librarian style
>>31124338FIt happened to me once and I felt nothing because I was so scared
>>31124321>try your best to be a good boyfriend>lose your gf because someone was being an asshole to you in a completely unrelated situationWomen, everybody.
>>31124338Then you’re simply gay.
>>31124338Consensually
>>31124292no, i try to be a glass half full kinda guy. If if find a girl attractive, im abs gonna bask in it. In a world filled with so much misery, it's a like treat from heaven that fills the world with so much delight. In the end, it evens out to both good and bad. At heart, i notice all the bad, but its a great exercise to revel in the good to prevent nihilism etc. Girls are so fucking great man, incredibly lovable, why not enjoy em? If someone said this irl it'd be cringey af but online im just saying it as a response to u. On par with people who say they love cats or dogs or their job or nice people.
>>31124340This too
>>31124344Nah im straight, I love women
I was called sassy by a woman today after some bantz. Was she calling me gay? I mean I am kind of gay but still. I've never been called that before.
>M>give the impression I don't want to be touched>actually just feel bad for anyone put through touching me so avoid doing soWhat is this called?
>>31124298"AI" isn't even actually AI. LLMs are just stringing words together based on what are essentially massive actuarial tables, and "AI" image and video generators are sort of doing something similar. Which is why trusting them to produce things that are useful as anything other than strange art is a bad idea. Producing code or writing documents with AI will inevitably lead to headaches, such as the lawyers who have gotten themselves in trouble for citing cases that never happened because they used an LLM to write their arguments. It enables people to be lazy and ignorant while quality and human interaction continue to decline in virtually every industry. It will also likely lead to millions of people losing their jobs, at least until businesses realize that what I've said is true. But even then, many companies will charge ahead anyway, because many businesses are led by ignorant, useless MBAs who operate on buzz words and charisma who won't want to admit that they fucked up. And this doesn't even begin to touch on all of the retarded engineering quagmires that have already happened and will continue to happen for the foreseeable future because stupid people hear "AI" and lose their minds.I also think social media is a travesty of technological development and it's absolutely a huge problem, but I think AI has the potential to be worse. Where social media turned public life into Idiocracy, I think AI has the potential to complete the transformation.
>>31124309ehh idk, i feel there's some discrepancy here. But wtv, only u and ur men know what happened. Yea, idk jsut ask em how they like it next time. Not much else to say
>>31124328>>31124351She wants to feel sexy but also like she's heading to churchThe proximity to a school uniform is hard to ignore though, but like... almost everyone has that as a fantasy, the problem is preying on the young
>>31124342If someone is being an asshole to you and you are not in physical danger and all you do is get sad I'm going to lose some respect for you. You're an adult you should act like one. I wouldn't take that. At the very least I'd be dismissive in the moment and cry about it later like damn.
>>31124339To be honest, idc what anyone says, sometimes it does seem very comfy to just have your boner hotdog between some warm butt cheeks without it needing to lead to sex. Just nice and cozy
>>31124324It was intimate and intense and I'd fantasized about something similar for a long time. It honestly didn't hurt that much either.
>>31124263I really don't know what went wrong. It was complicated
>>31124319idk man u tell me, thats kidna weird
>>31124309Because I'll never be a god at sex
>>31124360>strange artlook around. you just described everything.
>>31124351>>31124335>>31124328Maybe she goes to private school or a public school with uniforms, maybe she goes to a Catholic school, maybe her family is very conservative, or maybe she just likes dressing that way. She's cute though.
>>31124349That's a nice way to look at it
>>31124368Why, tho? It's HIS problem, not yours.As I said: try to be a good bf, lose your gf because of a completely unrelated situation
>>31122872>>31122887You don't owe me sex for fucking guy X. but I certainly owe you much less than him because at least you're giving him sex while I get nothing out of having to stand you in my life.The dichotomy of a woman letting her cheeks be clapped by a fuckboy who doesn't give a shit about her and her keeping a loser around with her sexual appeal to get favors from him then going back to cry on his shoulder is fucking insulting.Get a full time bf who can help you instead of farming orbiters or deal with the fuckboy aftermath by yourself
>>31124381Which further devalues AI. It doesn't generate anything that is actually useful directly, without the user going back and fixing it or modifying it in some way.
Femanons, why aren't you having sex right now?
Can you guys ask anything interesting?
>>31124390how big is you cock?
>>31124338Consensually yeahIt's nice when the big strong guy touches you gently and sweetly. Makes me feel loved
>>31124319Same here
>>31124386NTAYou need to chill the fuck out, cunt. Grow a pair, stop being a whiny bitch, and move on already. You’re insufferable. :|
>>31124326if it were me, i'd want it all the time, but im not gonna force my girl to do 100% every day. I'd rather her just do it whenever, and she tell me that she cleaned her ass. Actually, i'd be down to do it as long as she did like 10% effort when she showers and cleaned the first inches or so if im going in, or just the outside if im face in. pointless comment i guess. Maybe talk to the guy bout what he likes. Lots of guys are very low maintenance, u really dont need to go 100% all the time. I myself would feel bad.
>>31124259I don't have any advice to help you have a platonic friend of the opposite sex.
>>31124388Because I'm putrid
>>31124390SIG or Glock?
>>31124388No one to have sex with
>>31124392More than 5 in, less than 6
>tfw my gf dresses slutty around me but is modest in public
>>31124385Because I don't want to give someone who is treating me poorly the reaction they want. I'm not being hypocritical I'm looking for someone who thinks similarly to myself.
I'm going shopping tomorrow hope they have good stuff
How do women feel around taller women?Envy? Admiration? Intimidation? Nothing at all?
>>31122872This is a weirdly phrased question, but maybe that's because I wholly reject poly shit and dating forever without getting married sounds like a waste of my life.If you talk to a guy often or hang out with him a lot, go out and get food or do things with him, but you won't call him your bf, refuse to let him call any of your outings "dates", and have no intention of ever marrying him or getting into a serious relationship with him, that is the friendzone.
>>31124337Im a guy. Go to ur local lib and look up the smut stuff. Or read online fics.
>>31122886>expect to get a proper gf>from tinderlol>>31122933>Is Tinder explicitly relegated to hookups by the general populace?Yes
Do men daydream about being in love?
>>31124408Nothing at all.
>>31124339That's such a damn tease. Shit like this might make a guy feel assertive
bi/gay women, does scissoring actually feel good?
>>31124395feminine ad hominem post instead of addressing any point of the asked question, imagine my shock
>>31124388No energy, no money, overdue for dental cleaning, sad, don't go anywhere.
>>31124399NTA but not really a fan of either. Beretta, FN, and Walther for handguns.
>>31124417Unironically yes. Every. single. day...
>>31124390Can you, bitch?
>>31124417yes but she doesn't like me
>>31124408Gf built like a volleyball player pls
>>31124417All the time.
>>31124426Am I retarded for not really like Beretta
>>31124422How does that change the fact that you’re a bitchy, insufferable cunt? It doesn’t.I don’t care about the questions asked, obviously. There you go being whiny again. Talk about unlovable….
>>31124375I’m beginning to understand the amount of bullshit many men have to put up with just to get their dick wet.
>>31124371i got hit in the balls in gym class. It's happened b4 but this time it was, really bad. Had to go to the nurse and lay down for like 1 hr. I dont get it man, ball stomping scares the shit outta me
>>31124435Nta, but he is correct.Ad hominem doesn't make you sound correct.
>>31124372self reflection. A therapist might help, but in general, most people cant help cept urself and her
>>31124396It's okay, I can afford to skip a day of eating a week if it means I get buttfucked regularly. It's a fair trade.
>>31124399CZ my nigga
>>31124442It wasn't like a kick. She slowly applied pressure over time and when I asked her to stop she stopped.
>>31124445If a woman were to be “correct” and lash out like he did, you’d trash on her and call it the same bullshit.There’s no arguing with retarded niggers though.
>>31124442FThis is so cute to me.. poor baby :3
>>31124421Not really. It was definitely better than strap-ons, though.
Women do you ever really think about biting the pp during a bj?
>>31124270you should be killed
>>31124433No, a lot of it is personal preference. I have big hands, so a 92FS is perfect for me, but it's not necessarily for everyone.
>>31124451Based
>>31124458Lol, that's tame.
Who was an adult you had a crush on as a kid? I liked Bill Nye
>>31124435>allegedly doesn't about an asked question nor its topic>yet fully reads its repliesNow you will say, "I was only pretending to be retarded".
>>31124470And now you're the same age as he was back then.
>>31124453>question is asked>reply is given for the question>gets mad
If chad cucks you out of (You)r crush but she gets tired of his affairs with other women so she cheats on him with you, which one of the two is the biggest cuck?
>>31124328Hot and more women should be like that
>>31124467>>31124471>>31124476>read only the first few sentences to see how much you hate women while you act like an unlovable, insufferable bitch>but, okay, sureMoving on, nothing makes me happier than this. Make sure to live stream it and link it!
>>31124470My english and art teachers from elementary.They were both pale blondes (I live in a third world brown country)
>>31124319either you love them or you learn about them, but you can't do both
>>31124483>doesn't care>yet keeps replying and whining about my reply
>>31124474NO I"M OT... STOP IT DONT EVEN SAY THAT
>>31124479Chad isn't cucked if he moved on from her to other women and didn't commit, lmao
To males, have you ever told a woman who was trying to seduce you to stop and that they should have self respect?
>>31124470Jennifer Aniston
>>31124493He likes her but chad's cock is too good for only one woman.
31124489>learn how to comprehend bud>typical men here>hates women openly>other men agree>women hates men openly>throws tantrums>cunts
>>31122872You know well that if you had a penis you wouldn't have half the aid, networking nor "friends" you do and you use it in your favor
>>31124470Some italian singer
>>31124503I've never had a woman try to seduce me, so no
what's with bitches and astrology? maybe I'm asking the wrong demographic here
>>31122872All you guys want is sex yet you complain that that’s the only thing that’s offered? Smart.
>>31124503Everytime a woman flirts with me I think she either lost a bet or is playing some kind of joke on me.
>>31124514It's a belief system which doesn't blame women as the source of all evil in the world. Pretty remarkable, actually.
>>31123268Yes, a hole is a hole
>>31124319I hope you dumped her. She doesn’t need to be around that.
>>31124503its cute that you think a woman has ever tried to seduce me... lol
>>31124452i literally reread ur other comments to see if i missed something. Nope. Nope nope nope nope nope nope nope. Same fear as if a girl slowly brought a knife towards my eye.>>31124455HAH. Useless tangent add-on: a teacher of mine actually got mad at me cause of it. I told my friends this story before, so i hope no one recognizes it. The pain was a slow build up, and became unbearable in the next class to the point that I could barely speak. In the middle I asked the teacher if i could go to the nurse, and he told me to wait outside the class to talk to me. I literally could barely stand, so i just sat down in the hallway, had a minute or two to contemplate my life. When he came out, he started berating me in a father like way for not going to the nurse immediately, but I honestly couldnt care less about anything he said cause i was just outta it. I was like, "Can i go now? Please? Can i please go?" in a sorta quiet voice cuz my soul was pretty much gone. He just stared at me for a couple seconds and then let me go. Next day, he tells me that he talked to the nurse. Turns out, he misheard me and thought something else happened. I dont blame him, cause again I had no ability to talk loudly (and i was also a shy kid so that didnt help). It's a fun story tho, idk
>>31124503I have never been seduced by a womanthough since I learned that a female friend of mine is a virgin and now single I sometimes fantasize on her asking me to be her first time and me telling her that she should save herself for a loved one
>>31124388Damn I thought that was a 70s David Bowie-type Adonis with a brown girl but no, gross lesbians
>>31124503I've only had a couple of girls flirt with me as a joke.
>>31124514it gives them excuses to use in public to irrationally hate X person, to reject a guy for not being chad, etc.
>>31124503idk bout seduce, but i've had flirting. Bruh what? If a girl flirts, imma flirt back (im single). Maybe nothing comes out of it, but it's the joy of interacting with people. It's the joy of playing around with the opposite sex.
>>31124503The biggest butterface in my life pretty much sexually assaulted me in a carpark and I pretty much just let it happen because I was so lonely. She was also a fucking weird cunt, not in a "good" way, in a horse girl biting-the-skin-on-her-fingers way. She had a hell of a body, fucking wasted on her. I still shudder over the experience sometimes.So in other words, I guess not
>>31124517Perhaps that's why it's all fantasy.
>>31124514I'm NTA. Can some f anon's answer this, I'm curious about this too.
>>31124522I hope you’re a woman otherwise thats the gayest shit ive read
>>31124547Fuck off.
>>31124503No, I took her v card and got ghosted after I tried to make her fwb instead of gf
>>31124541>It's the joy of interacting with people. It's the joy of playing around with the opposite sex.I wish I could experience that
>>31124503One time a girl grabbed my ass and made a lewd comment but she was doing it to fuck with me, not flirting. Other than that I've never had a woman do anything close to trying to seduce me.
>>31124548It doesn’t matter. Why should anyone have to put up with someone that clearly hates them? That makes no sense.
>>31124503I have never had a woman attempt to seduce me
>>31124514It's another method women use to avoid their kryptonite: accountability.
>>31124550Woah, uh-oh. We definitely have a pissy little a Sag on our hands.
>>31124567Oh well
Femanons, is it a red flag to you if a guy likes to dance? Not the uncoordinated flailing or grinding of "modern" dance, but stuff like ballroom and folk dance? Most guys call me gay, and there are a fair number of gay/bi guys in my folk dance groups, but I simply dance because it's fun.
>>31124557I don’t hate her, I hate women, if that makes sense. In fact I sort of love her.
>>31124573Dancing is exercising that they don’t understand. It’s not gay or lame. There are certain dances I like more than others, like ballet and jpop, but any dances are okay.
>>31124573Not a red flag but don't expect me to dance with you or in front of you ever.
>>31124576That’s the most retarded thing I’ve ever heard lol Just kill yourself bro. That’s nothing left for me to say about that.
>>31124561Back in my day it was called a blonde momentI once said I was having a blonde moment in front of the blonde girl I was on a date withI'm not sure she actually picked up on it
>>31124561What is it?
>>31124550:( im really not him lol>>31124553Dont give up man. Really, talking to girls aint that much different from talking to guys. Imma be honest, I pretty much talk to all people the same way. This aint a concrete rule obv (like, i gotta think before I swear if im around kids) but the general idea is pretty solid. Im not gonna say you should do the same - there's nothing wrong with shitting around with ur m friends on Call of Duty, but there's def something wrong if ur berating a girl for playing. Adults tell children to "be urself", but it really should be "be ur best self". Do ur best to make urself interesting, do ur best to be engaging, and try and find a love for people. These words kinda mean nothing, kinda like how explaining how to drive a car aint the same as experiencing it. Just experience it man. Take small steps, and go out and try to talk to people. Try to meet different people. Use the internet and talk to strangers with the intent to being friendly. Unless ur dying next week, u got a lot of time to improve
>>31124586>I'm not sure she actually picked up on itblonde moment
>>31124585Ok, bye
>>31124590A moment where you're very caring and compassionate, as is the way of the fairer sex :)
>>31124526Aww thats actually adorable I feel bad for your baby self... How did you even get hit in the nuts that hard? not fun to see a kid doubled over in pain but a grown man would be I think. So vulnerable
>>31124583Why is that? Two left feet or something?
>>31124598>>31124600NTA, you guys are mean..this whole woman moment thing is so mean
>>31123723MOverthinkingCompared to the general population rock climbing.Drawing, animation
>>31122692guys: what would you do if you found a good woman and you dumped her because she rarely had sex with you?girls: do you think you are a good woman? if so, how would you feel if your bf dumped you for not having as much libido as him?for context, I'm 35 and she was my first gf. we had been living together for 2 years and met a few months before that
>>31124514I thought the bible specifically said it was Adam's sin that brought death into the world?
>>31124610Zero training whatsoever. Being bad at something in front of someone who is good at that thing is a particular embarrassment I still can't deal with.
women are mushroom tips uglier than non?
>>31124613M>what would you do if you found a good woman and you dumped her because she rarely had sex with you?She was probably having regular sex with another guy in secret. Dodged a bullet.
>>31124617Meant this for >>31124517
>>31124621They're better
>>31124622we had sex every month or so, aka, during ovulation (probably)I wish I knew if she really had sex with other guy, that would give me so much peace of mind knowing that I was right by not trusting her...
>>31124594I don't talk to people eitherI just feel alienSometimes I wonder if I'm schizoid but my therapist insists that I'm not
>>31124598>>31124600That's cool. I think men can be compassionate too tho
>>31123803No
First time I said woman moment was when I was driving a friend to a vidya night, we were passing through an empty boulevard and a car passed by in opposite direction silently.My friend had a gf at the moment so he got offended and bumped my shoulder.
>>31124611Im not any of the anons.Uh, I thought that >>31124598 was a F making a joke that placed women positively, whereas I would have thought the same about >>31124600 were it not for the "KEK", which to me implies the negative connotation that you attribute to both. Kinda confusing. Also, autistic girl didnt respond to >>31124306. Yall, if a girl actually grinds down her nose with a microplane im gonna fucking die. Plz, respond!
>>31124611Don't let it get to you femanon.Hugs*
>>31124613if she dislikes sex and barely has it then she's not a good woman in terms of gf/wife material
>>31124631If your girlfriend is not having sex with you, she's 100% having sex with another guy behind your back.You're lucky if she doesn't say shit like "you're so much better than my boyfriend" to him.
>>31124617Eve was the one tempted and who convinced Adam to eat the fruit, the snake wouldn't have been able to tempt Adam on his own
>>31124613fI think soI'd be sad if I really loved him, and would wonder if there was anything else I could've tried like viagra or something. otherwise I'd rather he break up with me than cheat on me
>>31124647Why is sex being treated as the end of a relationship? Sex is supposed to be for married people because it's the act of creating another human being. It's lost all it's sacred status
>>31124650What's even the point of having a relationship if not sex?
>>31124642Thank you anon, you're sweet
>>31124650>Sex is supposed to be for married people because it's the act of creating another human being. It's lost all it's sacred statuswho let bro out of the 1700s
>>31124390If we can prove we exist because we think, but we exist on the same plane of reality as inanimate objects because we have the sensations of being able to interact with them, does that mean that inanimate objects can think, or are we all dumb as rocks?
>>31124606We were playing floor hockey. Puck came to me, which meant a bunch of other guys were going to me, and one of em thrusted their stick up the wrong area. I could tell, this one was harder than most, but I think the adrenaline made me believe I would recover after a minute like normal ball hits last.I'd imagine a girl getting hit in the cunt or boob has some similar effect for a minute.
>>31124650yes when marrying and having children at 20 was viable, it was still expected to start having sex in your youth
>>31124613>what would i do after I dump heruh, idk, find a new girl? Are u asking a diff questions?
>>31124650NTA I agree and it's sad
>>31124621MI used to be a bit insecure about mine until a girl said she liked the way it "popped" in her mouth, referring to the way her lips moved transitioning from shaft to head.Maybe she was lying, but it was nice to hear.
>>31124632well, yeah, i dont expect someone who doesnt drive to know how to drive well. Ur gonna keep feeling like an alien if you stay complacent.
how can i stop being so competitive?
>>31124640im a guy. If there was no girl there, I was not say anything but silently be like wtf, who says that out loud. If a girl was there, if she didnt say anything herself I'd def say something.Dude from >>31124632, dont say shit like this
>>31124673Are you a man?
>>31124649whats ur libido like? Just curious, like how often do u want it?
>>31124678yes
>>31124680It's low, I only masturbate once a month, but I've never had sex before
(If this is a dumb question it's because I'm a virgin).If I can cum without even touching my dick, am I doomed to be a minute man if I'm ever in a relationship?
>>31124681Then continue being competitive - it's good for you and women find it hot.
>>31124673at what, everything?
I want relationship with woman.Why?I don't know.I try relationship with woman.She's always mean to me.So no more relationship with woman.Now I still want relationship with woman but woman is mean.What do I do?
>>31124682what if he's the type of guy who does his best to get u off, at bare min make you feel attractive and cared for? Would you really not be down for that daily or 2-4x a week?
>>31124672Bump because it is a funny question
>>31124677He did laugh anyways because it felt surreal and I had good comic timing, but I think he wouldn't have been offended if it happened before he got a gf
Dear femanons.Please be more respectful of my Nofap commitment while I'm lurking this thread.Thanks.
>>31124646>>31124665>>31124649well, good thing then I already dumped her...>>31124647not sure how to get her to admit cheating if she ever did so. not sure if I should care at all anymore. I never had any evidence of that. I could ask her, though, but I'm not sure it's a good idea.
>>31124672jesus christ fuck off to /r9k/ with your fag fantasies
>>31124684just fap before the date.>>31124691all women ITT are opening their legs for you and you leave them like that?
>>31124685No I don't think it's a healthy mentality. All the time I need to be better than everyone else and resent people who are better than me. Can't even enjoy good results without feeling like I don't deserve them.>>31124686Basically. If there are things am just not good at I just give up and try to overcompensate with other stuffs.
>>31124091Is it possible you perceive interest from men as a sign of neediness?
>>31124688I like to think that when I meet a guy I like I'll want to have sex with him more often than I get the urge on my own. But I may never know
>>31124695>all women ITT are opening their legs for you and you leave them like that?I intended no disrespect, but I must keep my virtue.
>>31124613I'd be sad if he dumped me obviously
>>31123943woman moment
>>31124618Yeah, but everyone starts at 0. I've been in one of the groups for less than a year, but if I'd never taken that first step (no pun intended), I wouldn't have a couple months of practice under the belt already.>>31124573Also, I think I misspoke. I'd meant the red flag as more of a turn-off than a danger sign. I feel like a couple of the costumes, like lederhosen and the ones worn by the guys in that pic, give the impression that I'm on the uncool side of "exotic".
>>31124699being serious, have u tried tinder? Honestly, i really feel you should know. Seems like such an odd thing to not know about oneself, not judging or anything, really. There's tons of people here who are against fun sex, but most people now encourage it as long as you do it smart and safely.
Women is shark week over or are you still bleeding?
>>31124618NTA but dance is one of those things where everyone knows what it's like to be bad at itIt's also one of those things where we tend to want our partner to do it with us
>>31124706I have but I don't want to have casual sex. I would always bail before I could get to the hook up
>>31124705>>31124709I can practice. Alone.
>>31123414it's ok>>31124711try bumble instead
>>31124708I just freaking started
>>31122692could i get femanons insight on how to become the guy on the right?t. 21m khhv
>>31124716You really, really, can't. At least not partner dance. And especially not following.
>>31124723Is there anything a moid partner could do to be helpful in that situation?Nta btw
>>31124697>second guySo, I do my best to surround myself with better people. Like, im fairly normal intelligence, but i had a good education so im iq is prob very slightly above ave, but in school I would take the hardest classes, which meant I was pretty much surrounded by the smartest kids in the area my age. Like, I could never hold a candle to them, but I did my best to do well, and being around them made me a smarter person.What's one thing I learned from them? There's always someone better than you in every area. Like, unless ur a super savant, u really cant say ur good at everything. It's half the reason why I hate when teachers tell little kids to show their talent or wtv. Like, no, no. You are not truly GOOD at anything. I've met people who were supposed to be in 7th grade taking the same physics classes as me. I dont hold a candle to anyone, at anything. But knowing that, my value isn't decreased. It just makes me more cognizant of my and others peoples limits - I know what the gauge is, and I'd rather know than be ignorant, kinda like dunning-kreugar people.I've had friends who only liked doing things they were good at. That aint for me, I'd rather do things im not good at, cause why would I want it easy? And I already said, Im not good at anything. Ur more normal, in that most people give up stuff they're not good at, so im not judging u or telling u ur wrong, but like, guy that's part of ur problem. You only hyper focus on stuff ur good at to compensate for what ur not good at. I cant just say, realize u actually suck at everything so why not just be ok with losing or not being perfect and just do ur best and why the hell wouldn't u find happiness when ur friends that u care about win something (even against you), but that's not how people work. Idk, maybe some insight.
Femanons do you want a guy to stop jerking off in anticipation of having sex with you?
>>31124718>try bumble insteadI did
>>31124711Lots of guys on tinder who want a relationship. I wouldn't be so pessimistic or uncertain. Ull get ur guy
>>31124734Carry me everywhere and drape me in yards of tulle
>>31124654Companionship?
women: what's your opinion of musicians as lovers, esp. (relatively) famous ones?
>>31124742Should I carry you as a bride? Or are you partial to the fireman's carry?
As a guy, would it be cringe if one of the pictures on my dating profile was of a gingerbread house I made a couple years ago? I just think it was a really nice job.I'm not in the picture, though. It's just the house.
>>31124751I'm a guy. But my gf has maintained that our relationship is til death or Hayley Williams do us part
>>31124755Moid to moid I think that's cool. But I fear it would give women the ick.
>>31124741>Lots of guys on tinder who want a relationshipNot with me https://youtu.be/GzlKja1ySzo?feature=shared
why is this thread so dead today?
>>31124772women are busy cucking their betabuxes like >>31122692 pic
>>31124754Bride because my tummy hurts and if it is pressed into your shoulder i will throww up on you
>>31124775good for them I guess
>>31124723my condolences
What's the usual length of sex if time is not an issue? My gf and I usually go for like 3-5 hours, she's my first girl but I feel like this is not regular
>no contact for 3 months because she "needs to find herself">her birthday was yesterday and she didn't text meit's over right? she found someone better right?
Women do you get disappointed if your bf's load is not that big?
>>31124772We all went to your moms house
>>31124789A little bit
>>31124767That's my fear as well...Why can't women just appreciate building nice-looking things?
>>31124786depends on your age. for me it's minutes...>>31124791hey, I'll go visit my mom then
>>31124788she had a drunk orgy for birthday party and you were not invited
>>31124755The right girl wouldn't find it cringe
>>31124800she turned 21 yesterday, so a hookup or even a new boyfriend is definitely a possibility. i dont think she's the orgy type
>>31123349Nta. I think that's partly why so many guys are insecure about this; given that women's hookups and fuckbuddies are often if not usually better looking than their boyfriends and husbands.I think this is further complicated by the fact that better looking often = more masc; taller, stronger jaw, broader shoulders, etc.
Do you all know the pain of finding the best fic in the history of ever, but it is unfinished and abandoned..
>>31124813Yep
>>31124813Then it clearly was not the best.
>>31122692how do I get a 18 year old gf at 33
>>31124793Big loads only, got it
>>31124813Not a fanfic, but I've experienced that a few times with NSFW games.
>>31124815I'm so devastated>>31124816It is so good and it could've been everything I ever wanted if it was done >>31124821You mean like unfinished games ? how does that work
>>31124818By not being ugly, its literally that easy
>>31124788ur done, move on
>>31124797I think they can appreciate it from a friend or family member. But when it comes to dating it seems they want a Visagoth who will sack their pussies like the eternal city.
>chat with qt at work>"hey anonette, what would you say to us grabbing a bite to eat after work one of these days?"What are the odds I get sent to HR?
>>31124834Did you already say this? I'm guessing not if you didn't state her reaction. Don't be so forward about it unless you really know her. And go into it with the mindset of making a new friend before a gf.
>>31124788I dont intend to be mean but you gotta move on bro
>>31124825>You mean like unfinished games ? how does that workWhat do you mean how does it work?The game just doesn't have very much content. The dev releases updates incrementally and each one is in a playable state on an individual basis, but still not nearly the size or scope that one could call "finished" and the dev is continuing to work toward that goal. But then one day he decides he's not interested in working on it anymore, or simply goes MIA, and so the game is left forever with the low amount of content.Like imagine if Nintendo was releasing Super Mario World one level at a time every few months, but then Nintendo HQ got hit by a meteor and the game was never finished so the only version available was the one with like, 4 levels. Which is better than nothing, sure, but it's not finished. It's not what it could have been.
>>31124788Just be patient! Chad had a couple creampies he needed to deposit, you can have her back when he's done.
>>31124836>Don't be so forward about it unless you really know her.>go into it with the mindset of making a new friend before a gf.If our departments are so far removed from each other that getting to know her better will take an exceedingly long time, how should I approach?
>>31124776Bride it is. Would you like some tea for your belly?
>>31124813No, but I'm glad it happened to you.
Why are women like this?
>>31124834100%
>>31124831>>31124837i am doing my best. it is hard to move on when you really gave your all to something, only to realize that energy wasn't matched. >>31124848i have had many sleepless nights where i think up all of the possible ways i could get back at her for hurting me and not caring. but in the end, it is what it is. i'm either not good enough or we're simply not a match. she can do what she wants, but i will always wish the worst that humanity has to offer on her.
whats with the fag(s) that keep telling everyone ITT that their loved is cheating on them?
>>31124861crabs and buckets
>>31124772>>31124775>>31124778It's literally hump day in most places where English is spoken. Femanons are a little busy rn
>>31124856The men in prison are those that have wronged the system, not the rapists. The rapists and pedos get to walk around freely but if one dares to challenge the government then off he goes.
>>3112483495%
>>31124861dude if anon's gf didn't invite him for her birthday she's 100% cheating lmao
>>31124867No, there are absolutely actual rapists and murderers in prisons. We live in reality, not your post-apocalyptic Judge Dredd fanfic.
I want to get try to reconnect with my ex. Women, what would work the best on you?
>>31124860Sorry bro, I know exactly what you're going through. It will take a long time, but eventually you'll wake from a daydream and realize that you can't recall the last time you thought about her.As for now, block her on everything.
>>31124875The percentage is neglectable.
Should rapists and murderers be used as slave labor or should they instead be subject to death penalty
>>31124833>when it comes to dating it seems they want a Visagoth who will sack their pussies like the eternal city.That's not me at all, though.
>>31124879The word you were looking for is "negligible", but you're wrong anyway.
>>31124788the second she mentions a ''break'' its over
>>31124867This anon is right >>31124875Read this wiki article if you want to ruin your night https://en.m.wikipedia.org/w/index.php?oldid=1128000992&title=Marc_Dutroux
>>31124882Mdepends on the depravity of the crime
>>31124882death penalty, depending on the case though. proven child rapists? should be hanged in the public square
>>31124876not a womantry sending her this, then see how that goes
>>31124889>hanged>not fed into the woodchipper feet first
>>31124884Yeah me neither. But I'm taking baby steps
>>31124876nothing, an ex would stay in the past as a faint memory
>>31124789don’t have a bf but yes
>>31124878what's the timeframe? i forget about her sometimes, but then seeing happy couples at work, women in porn, or even just women in general, i remember and get angry>>31124886yeahh. and there's nothing i can do about it. didnt even get a closure call
>>31124856I think it's because women have been told that certain races are oppressed which triggers their maternal instincts.When they feel unsafe they blame the in-group for not protecting them.
>>31124876Please don't do this to yourself
>>31123469faccurate measurement 4’10
>>31124691enjoy higher risk of cancer
>>31124789sighcummaaxxing is the only solution
>>31124902>timeframeI hesitate to give you a straight answer because in my case it was quite a long time.Granted she was my first...everything, and I'm quite mentally ill as is, so I wouldn't be surprised if your timeline is more optimistic.
>>31124789It would be okay, any is always better than none
How do I find fun events in my city that may or may not introduce me to new hobbies and or women?
>>31124916That's a low blow, damn.Prostate cancer is easy to treat anyway.At least blue ball cancer isn't a thing
>>31124927this is almost worse than a woman saying "its the perfect size to me"
>>31122692How is this image allowed on a blue board?
>>31124004Bump
>>31124004Explain why first
>>31124935Why?? I love it so much I dont care how much there is
>>31124940No one will hire me and I have bills to pay
>>31124925i am similar, so maybe yours is about as long as mine will be. how long did it take? i had random hookups here and there, but she was the person i did all of my romantic firsts with. the part that fucked me up was that i used to be desired and not loved, but with her i was loved and not desired. she was a virgin and we never did anything sexual. i am also mentally ill.
>>31124936Why? Did it turn you on or what?
>>31124947No, it disgusts me and I don't want to see it
if I had a gf I wouldn't be fapping to middle-school aged anime girls
>>31122823>I absolutely detest women>getting laid is hardGee, I wonder why you're having difficulties. Its almost like women want to be with people who like them
>>31122914Sounds cute, I'd be up for it
>>31124943Unironically r/sexworkers on r*ddit, good luck
>>31124951Well same but it does not violate any tules since you can not see any nudity. Sfw rules are a joke.
>>31124936Show me the genitals in OPs pic
>>31124954You should meditate on that one chief
>>31124951Nta but agreed
>>31124954you shouldn’t do that regardless
>>31122914>laying pipe>talking casually about how my day was>meanwhile femanon is struggling to breath properly and form coherent sentences in between her pants and moans
>>31124789This is my #1 sexual insecurity right here.Not dick size, stamina, anything.I feel like when a woman puts in work she deserves a big payoff, and I'm offering chump change.The crazy thing is my orgasms seem more powerful than most guys'I'm talking breathless, legs shaking, involuntary vocalizations; it feels amazing, but the fireworks just aren't what I wish they were.
>>31124954Pure cope, your brain’s bricked Imagine having a daughter with this type of weirdo
>>31124905Why not?>>31124897Last time I spoke to her, she said us being together was the last time she was happy. I made her laugh and smile, and she also said that I was a very interesting and fun person to be around.
Women, when is sex “good”?
>>31124876Just take it slow. Ask her out to coffee or something
>>31124971Are you taking any supplements to help add some more gunpowder to the fireworks?
>>31124958Ok, thanks
>its been 5 years and I'm still thinking about herBest way to get lobotomy?
>>31124975when you want it and find someone sexually compatible
Should I (male) learn to sail this year and maybe buy a boat to live on? What are the chances I meet my future wife through the local yacht club? Do women like boat people?
>>31124971NTA, any amount of the seed of life is precious,anon
>>31124887This might be worse than pizzag8.ffs that was dark
>ordered a pizza last night>wasn't that great>realized I could've ordered ice creamI should've gotten that instead, oh well.
>>31124984I am asking for specifics about tour own case. Every description I see is just some vague “it made me cum real hard” bs.
>>311249823 years here, anon.need to eternal-sunshine-of-the-spotless-mind our brains.
>>31124944A couple years :\
>>31124963>>31124965why not
>>31124986always rent if it floats, flies or fucks
>>31124942I thought it was nice, femanon.
>>31124947...m-maybe
>>31124958Did their advice work for you?
>>31124993it's over...
>>31124986Buying and living on a boat is not exactly yacht club behavior. But it might give you some hippie women chances.
>>31124979Actually, no. Can you get obvious results from any of those?
>>31124986>sail this year and maybe buy a boat to live onGlad to see Copy anon's spirit is still here
>>31124975When it's with women
>>31124895But I also don't WANT that to be me.I don't want to have to become a Chad or pretend to be one.
>>31125012Keep up the fight, anon.
>>31125000Good :)
>>31124973>Imagine having a daughter
I'm fucking tired. I'm searching for shit at 2am. this is tedious as hell...femanons, how would you help me if you were my gf in this situation?
>>31124861Fox and grapes, they can't get women so they convince themselves women all suck and that they're actually the lucky ones not to have to "deal with their bullshit"
>>31125027It's possible my brain has been rotted by redpills. I've been wrong plenty of times before. Maybe you'll get lucky and find a girl that's a total sweetheart.
"Men who hate wilen still seek them out. Women who hate men try desperately to avoid them"Do you agree? If so why do you think this is the case?
GirlsWhat do you think about men who like Fist of the North Star?
>>31125041What the fuck is a wilen?
>>31125035This is vague as fuck, what are you searching for
>>31125046Womanchildren
>>31125047a house, a decent one with a big patio
>>31125036The "gf" in questions behavior is disgraceful
>>31125041Because men hate women that do not let them use them and women hate men that want to use them.
>>31125027>I don't want to have to become a Chad or pretend to be one.Cool, just hope you can live without sex/gf
>>31125046They typoed women, its obvious from context>>31125041True, because men have a drive to sex/reproduce probablyThey are also stronger so can take it out on women without fear of repercussions, not so in reverse
>>31125055Women have nothing to offer but their bodies
>>31125035I would not have a bf this incapable to begin with.
>>31124988Thanks. I'll try to remember that.
>>31125041biological impulse to procreateIf I could just turn it off with a button and simply ignore women at an instintual level I would be happier
>>31125052The post I r>>31125052eplied to wasn't referencing anything so idk what you're talking about
>>31125060Men do not even have to offer that because nobody wants their body.
>>31125019I don't think you actually can unless you're significantly deficient in your diet.1. Better overall health2. Lose weight if you'e obese3. Cut out any alcohol or tobacco4. Mild to moderate exercise (don't overdo it)5. Allow your body more time to recover between ejaculations, 1 to 2 days6. Edge but don't finishBut it's all a wash, because your body's tank just isn't ever going to go beyond around teaspoon
To both gendersWas my 4th grade teacher being an asshole? Should I hold a grudge against him?>be me>2008>4th grade>being bullied by a group of five or six kids when the teacher walks in>when he realizes what's going on, he shouts at the bullies "Go to the office! Now!">they protest>he shouts "Right! Now! There will not be any bullying in my classroom, you hear me? Get out of this classroom right this second or I'll drag you down to the principal myself!">everyone mutters and leavesI think it's inexcusable to yell at kids, and he threatened them as well
>>31125050I thought it was alien women
>>31125019nta but hell yeah you canI take zinc, palmetto saw, magnesium and drink water religiously
>>31125055I "hate" women for beating the shit out of me when I was a kid, but go off, queen.
>>31125061well then, I wouldn't share my (future) house with youI'm looking at a list of some 400 houses, for which I automated a big part of the process of downloading the classified ads. shit IS tedious.
>>31125062Again, good :)
>>31124997If I rent, I don't think they would appreciate me installing a gorillion solar panels and making it real home-y>>31125015>not exactly yacht club behaviorThe yacht clubs in my area are not fancy people.>hippie women chances.Sounds better than the thots who can't stand leaving cities desu.>>31125022Who or what is Copy anon?
>>31125073Women are aliens who breathe dryer lint
>>31125072He should have curbstomped the lot of them
>girl friend who we both agreed are not compatible for a relationship and only hang out once a year keeps sending me good morning snaps every day and videos of her squating in the gym with ''form check'' messages>she has a bf why would you do this type of shit
>>31125067This femanon is right, even women prefer women's bodies.
>>31125072MI don't usually say this but I think you're being a fag
>>31125064Fuck I misclicked, btw if this is related to the "mandatory testing" thing:1. Medical testing has false positives and negatives all the time2. It's expensive when 95+% will probably not have cheated3. If the government/health industry suddenly wants to collect everyones DNA I'm suspicious af, especially in the US. That's some gattaca shit
Women, why didn't I feel worthy of having a gf when I was in high school? I could have had a gf easily and maybe be married right now.
>>31125085Women farm attention from any source they can. Attention for them is like video games for you
>>31125078Thank god. Living with an autistic man is hell.
>>31125064They're saying she's cheating because it's obvious she's cheating. That's what "going on a break" means.
>>31125086What's with you cucks these days? Nobody wants to hear about your lesbian and humiliation fetishes
>>31125072Did you grow up to be this guy?
>>31125072Mare you against death penalty and prison too?
>>31125072Decent bait for once, still not good but we're getting there
>>31125091Because of all of the poisonous things you were told about what women think of men growing up
>>31125092im sure there's other ways of getting attention than filming her ass and sending it to a guy when she has a bfim tempted to let the guy know honestly
>>31125099I didn't say anything about any of that?You're just mad because your toxic masculinity is being called out
>>31125107Nta.Those things were true. Just look at these threads.
>>31125110Please stop this larp
>>31125109Women.I wouldn't. He's liable to blame *you* somehow. I've been in that situation before.
>>31125072same shit
>>31125107Actually yeah, probably. At the time I had no car, no job, no money, focused on schoolwork, etc. I felt like I should be a provider in a relationship even at that age. I had nothing to provide, so I didn't engage.Thanks media, I guess
>>31125109do you have horny conversations with her or something?
>>31125116You're a man, correct?
You know what i find very funny, the kids in my area have started to use pedo as the catch all insult. No longer do assholes and retards get called pussy or fag, now they have realized that the worst a man can be is not feminine or gay but a pedophile. God i love this generation.
>>31125135That is the worst type of person though
>>31125135shut up pedo
>>31125135That's great to hear, progress is being made
>>31125098The only person using that phrase itt is youLink what you're talking about or fuck off
>>31125135Based>inb4 pedo loses all meaning and nobody cares anymore
>>31125135>worst a man can be is not feminine or gay but a pedophilenot wrong though, your name can be burned for nothing and get you jobless forever
>>31125135>not feminine or gay>but a pedophile.Those are the same thing though?
>>31125135We have a sex offenders registry, not a homosexuality registry so the kids are onto something here
>>31125149see >>31124788>no contact for 3 months because she "needs to find herself"
Men, how fat is too fat exactly?
>>31125182140
>>31124788Kek this guy at the gym was broken up with his gf for 6months and only got back with him in December Every guy knew her and that she fucked over 10 guys during those 6 months
>>31125182125
>>31125182If I can't comfortably lift and flip her, theres an issue
>>31125129not at all. I dont even respond to any of those videos in any type of way really. leave her on ''seen'' most of the time
>>31125182if I cant see the hint of abs.now if she were pregnant thats a different story. then take that time off for the duration of the early baby time
>>31125182If she looks fatter than me then she's too fat.Essentially any BMI over 25 is going to be too fat.
>>31125153No, it is actually great. Because just like being called fag or pussy has been the base of what people get bullied for (displaying anything other than toxic masculinity) since forever, that is now changing because it is no longer fun to bully someone over the color of their backpack or over the music they listen to. Now kids get called pedos for not being team players and for going on ego trips. Ofc that makes no sense but it shows that they know what the worst people of society are and what people deserve to get bullied for and they apply it correctly. They make the narcissistic pedos the social outcasts nobody wants to play and associate with anymore, not the kids that refuse to participate in sociopathic displays of masculinity like it used to be the case in the generations before. This is peak hopefuel.
>>31125182If your belly sticks out further than your boobs that's probably not a good sign.
>zone out when in a conversation with a woman>absent-mindedly look down at her tits>come to and continue the conversation like normal>never confronted, no weird lookswhy?
>>31125182BMI calculators will tell you
>>31125201Because we do not expect anything else from men. Which is why we only talk to them if we really must.
>>31125201Most of them aren't actually self-conscious enough to think you were staring at her tits, rather just in your own mind. They're not on guard ALL the time.Alternatively she's glad they're getting attention.
>>31124976She's not into coffee. Ice cream shop or a drive-in-movie theater?
>>31125182I'm in the same camp as >>31125200. It's all about proportions to me, and it's a very delicate balance. I think the proportions are most visible when it comes to the arms, but I'm having trouble putting the exact threshold into words
>>31125182skinnyfat here. I care about your ass, your legs and maybe your tits. but yeah >>31125200, is the right answer
>>31125210does it have an effect on how you view individual men that you catch glancing, or is it just something that you accept as inherent to men?>>31125213that's a relief. last thing i want to do is unintentionally creep people out
>>31125201Women actually like that
>>31125182Once you start looking pregnant in any way is when men will get turned off because that is why they instinctively desire the 0.7 waist to hip ratio and the hourglass figure. It indicates a vacant womb that could be filled with their seed. That is all there is to men and hating on fat women, it makes them think another man has already claimed you if you are fat. That is also why men with a fat fetish usually also watch cuck porn.
>>31125204I don't think they do that's why I ask. I have a healthy bmi but I still have a big tummy>>31125200>>31125216>>31125220What if the belly doesn't stick out more than the boobs, but it's just because the boobs are particularly big. Is that balanced?
What's a good way to meet women to just talk to?I'm a guy trying to befriend some to repair my relationship with them since somewhere along the line I went from having healthy, daily conversations and voicechats with women when I was younger to being generally avoidant of them. I talked to my therapist about it recently, 30 yrs old, virgin, had a couple opportunities and blew them because of insecurities, scared of women in general, the usual, and she told me some things about myself but highly advised me to meet women online. (IRL is ideal, but pretty hard since I don't live in a big city with tons of meetup opportunities). It's already fairly difficult to make friends of any sort when I'm old though. I was thinking of trying FFXIV or some hobbyist discords since I like drawing and music production, especially since players in the former skew a bit older. I think there's a Bumble BFF option too but I've never used any of those apps.
>>31125224why?
>>31125231can you post a pic? don't post here, >>>/soc/atoga and link it here
>>31125201I never confront a guy for staring at my tits unless he's really obviously doing itSo the answer is either:1. She didn't even notice2. She noticed and thought it was funny3. She noticed and now holds a slight negative judgment towards you
Bitches in the office acting tough till someone has to change the water in the cooler or reach the top shelf of folders.
>>31125236They like being desired and despite what they say, like it when men are sexual
>>31125223If i catch a man staring i will do whatever i can to never have to interact with him ever again and he will from now on be in the category of men to observe closely and not give the benefit of the doubt ever. It is to be expected from all men that they view women as nothing but objects to use for their own enjoyment, of which ogling is certainly one. A man not doing that has passed the basic requirement test of wether or not he is more interested in me as an object to use for his viewing pleasure if he can acknowledge that i am an actual human being that deserves respect and being genuinely listened to when i talk to him. That does not make him a good man yet, but it at least does not make him a bad one either. Not staring is neutral. Castrating another man for staring is what would make him a good man.
>>31125231Does your belly stick out far enough that it hangs over your waistband when you're standing up? If not, then you're probably fine.
>>31125246You should just not do it lel
>>31125246Women only ask men for help to give them an ego boost and make them feel needed and important.
>>31122692Do women think this picture is hot?Not trying to sound judgmental, just curious?
>>31125256No
>>31125231I'd have to again side with >>31125250. If you belly isn't a sagging mass, you're probably good.
>>31125149You're a tard>>31125169Ty anon.
>>31125233rule 1 and rule 2
>>31125269be attractive and dont be unattractive?
>>31125256No it kinda does the opposite for me
>>31125169Ok so one singular post, there are >25 mentions of cheating itt and that's just oneAlso she obv broke up with him on day one but he didn't get it
>>31125200This
>>31125253Its ok to admit sometimes you need help.This is usually a male issue.
>>31125246The only woman in our office changes that shit all the time. It's only 20kg She is like 5'9 and athletic build tho
>>31125275Yeah, but she's too full of herself for that
>>31125275I have no issues to admit when i need help but i never actually need help from a man. I can just ask other women if i need help. Much less risky since they will not expect me to suck their dick in return for opening the jar.
>>31125201I accidentally did this once and I apologized to her on the spot.I sometimes think about that right as I'm about to fall asleep and I jolt back into wakefulness from cringe.
>>31125279Ah, you are one of those. Never mind. . >>31125278Just seems either hurt or larping.
>>31125279This is so true. I go around giving women jars of food that are closed way too tightly so they ask for help and I can demand they suck my dick. All men do this btw, you aren’t a silly schizo
>>31125210Do you dress differently than you would otherwise to avoid the maze gaze?
>>31125182if there's an actual belly visible, its too muchI just cant. I tried looking past it in relationships but its such a huge turn off I just cant do it
>>31125289You fell for it because the reason jars are hard to open is not because they are closed tightly but because they have a vacuum that you can easily break and then opening them is np. There is absolutely no reason to ever make a man feel like you owe him anything by asking him for a favor.
when I was working in an office and went to the gym, women in the office approached me like cats in heat. instead of fucking all and every single one of them, I did nothing. I'm fucking retarded...
>>31125292Never have kids
>>31125291I stay at home as much as humanly possible and if i go out i make sure to cover every inch of my body i possibly can.
>>31125249What do you think about trannies?
>>31125297NTA but pregnancy belly is very different from fat belly.
>>31125293>once again fails to recognise obvious shit posting Alright you owe me one honey, now you have to suck my dick.
>>31125297there's a difference between post pregnancy fat and just being a fat fuckif you're fat when not pregnant it means you'll baloon up beyond recovery after having a child
>>31125302Men will always be men. They crave proximity to femininity so desperately that they are willing to mutilate and humiliate themselves just to get a taste of it and a way to sneak into womens spaces.
>>31125182If theres cellulite cracks yesIf the tummy is flat and is a blob yesIf you are sucking my dick on your knees and the tummy looks like a blob of lard yesIf you have arm flaps yesIf your ass is like a deformed bord yesIf you look and feel like jello you are fat no matter the gender
>>31125272I'm curious why? Is it male gaze?
>>31125298I thought you did that because it’s freezing out there. I guess if it weren’t for the heckin male gaze you’d be frolicking about with your tits out in the snow
>>31125303The belly stays after birth, its that I'm talking about. I don't mean cos she's fat either really, takes a while for the uterus to shrink and loose skin often remains
>>31125311Now you are acting even more retarded than you actually are.
>>31125273>control F>cheating>9Anon I..
>>31125314And how retarded am I?
>>31125318Very
>>31125319Why do you say that?
>>31125313First, a lot of women are able to lose most of the belly after pregnancy. It's fine if it takes a while, we'll be busy with other things. But more importantly, what we're talking about matters when you're getting into a relationship, but when you're married and having kids it becomes less important. If we're married and having kids together, and she doesn't become a bloated mass of fat, it won't bother me if she has a little bit of a belly that sticks around after pregnancy.
>>31125298That sounds really difficult. My cousin was SA'd and she started doing what you describe.
>>31125293Any curious women in this thread whose mothers failed them in this instruction. You have 3 options for jars:1. Run the lid under a hot tap a fe secs, dry and try2. Get a grip aid - if you have one of those stretchy silicon food covers that works just fine3. The knife trick - google it. Not for clumsy fuckers(Also works for men ig if you are disabled or recovering from a coma)
>>31125307Surprisingly based take.
>>31125317Try without the ing
>>31125310No it's more like, ew is that what I'd look like in the situation? Gross.
MenIf you ever did something nice or helpful for a woman for any reason, and didn’t immediately demand she suck your dick you’re a betabux cuck simp or something.You can’t possibly be nice for the sake of it.
>>31125248MDude, you know that's bullshit.
>>31125313if she was fat before the pregnancy, it means she lacks the habits to maintain her body and will never lose that babyfat. An active woman will lose all if not most of it with time, because the habits are in place. Noone is talking about a woman having to look like a supermodel straight after having a baby. but a year or two after is not a big deal. Its not like im a fat slob either
>>31125336yeah, I always ask for a bj whenever I help a woman
>>31125336I dont interract with women who arent family
>>31125250I think it kinda does a little yeah. What was even the fucking point if losing weight if I'm still gonna look fat
>>31125334Oh, interesting. I actually think she's pretty, but the subtext disquiets me :/
>>31125343How much you weigh?
>>31125343obviously you didnt lose enough
>>31125340If ever a woman says no I backlist her by forwarding her name to the All Male quarterly news letter, where she will go in the “prude” category.
>>31122692Why are redpillers like this?
>>31125344I may have body issues
>>31125343Honestly you should post a pic on the /soc/ thread if you want a better opinion. It's hard to define exactly, but it's usually easy to make a judgement with a pic.
>>31122692Maybe I'm just blind but aren't these two different women?
>>31125336I'm 6'2 and help smol women gets things off the shelf a lot
>>31125336We know there is exceptions but the risk and the odds are too high.
>>31125358>we Women ask me for help all the time. There is no “we” there’s a “you” who is paranoid
>>31125353I'm sorry, that sucks.>>31125355I agree. Different chicks.
>>31125343The cells that used to have all the fat in them are stubborn bastards: https://news.yale.edu/2015/03/02/study-new-fat-cells-are-created-quickly-dieting-cant-eliminate-themIf you were big enough you'll have to maintain for a while or get surgery to remove themOr you're still fatter than you think like the other guy said
>>31124359Dangerously low self-esteem.
>>31125099lesbians have cucks now?
>>31125360Women that still worship men are honorary men and we do not claim them.
>>31125337Women don't actually like men to be unsexual robots, despite what you hear. Actually, they might think worse of you if they think you act like one
>>31125351I only date other virgins
>>31125369>someone asked me for help therefore they worship meMan, I’d love to live in that world. Being worshipped must be nice. However, you’re just delulu unfortunately. The girl who asked me for study notes or the girl who asked me to help pack away a stand on the grass don’t worship me. They just needed help and I happened to be there.
Guy here. Recommend me some hobbies that might be fun and could expand my social circle.
>>31125377>Recommend me some hobbies that might be fun and could expand my social circle.Playing World of Warcraft
>>31125369Also, because you are a severely neurotic and bitter individual, if you go down this path of “everyone I don’t like isn’t a real woman like me” within a week you will be the only person alive who you consider a real woman
>>31125346137>>31125348I could still lose yeah, I was just wondering if I've passed some kind of checkline yet or not>>31125354I would but I haven't posted pics of myself on the Internet before and I'm not sure I wanna start anytime soon>>31125362I've maintained for awhile and the shape is still changing so it explains a lot. At the moment it kinda just feels like everywhere is skinny apart from my tummy and its stressing me out
>>31125370I think they want you to not stare at first, then take a few glances as things progress. It tells them that you don't have to stare, you have self control, but you choose to check them out because you're interested in them.
>>31125380I see no problem.
>>31125336Me when I'm a female and I need to strawman in order to excuse my awful behaviour
>>31125377What's your budget, fitness level and social awkwardness out of 10?
>>31125377Hiking, tennis club, language exchange
>>31125381How tall are you?
>>31125270Yes
>>31125383I do. You’ll be really lonely if you do that. I wouldn’t like to see that happen to you
>>31125249When you say "staring" you mean staring, right? We are physically incapable of completely not glancing at all ever.
>>31125385NTA but1-3Kpretty good8/10 on SA
>>31125269It shows how old and far gone I am that I still thought "Do not talk about /b/" "Do NOT talk about /b/"
>>31125328Grip is the number 1 solution because it's the number 1 problem. Not enough friction between the hand and the lid. The force required to remove the lid is not very high and should be easy for adults, but if you can't get enough friction with the lid then it doesn't matter how strong you are. Squeeze the lid much harder then try turning. A grippy wet kitchen towel works great
>>31125298Is it lonely?
>>31125364Like... dangerously cheesy? So it wraps around to being good again right?
>>31125398"The cancer that's killing /b/" turned out to be porn all along.
>>31125391My own company is to be preferred to the company of people that have questionable views.
>>31125356I'm 6'4" and I just pick them up and use them when they ask for help. Pretty sure that's what they really wanted anyway
Why don’t you publish a pamphlet or start a blog. Telling the six or seven regular guys who post here how awful men are and how much they suck is a huge waste of time.
>>311253875'3
WomenWould you find it weird if your boyfriend preferred pubic hair
>>31125394I'm able to not glace at all. It's very difficult, yes, but possible.
>>31125400No, i like spending time with myself.
>>31125410No it's a relief, one less thing to worry about
>>31125403> My own company is to be preferred to the company of people that have questionable views.You say this despite the fact that you regularly come here, despite the fact that you don’t like a single one of us
>>31125379Already did that for years.>>31125385>budgetPreferably on the cheaper end, my existing hobbys are already not cheap.>fitness level5/10I'd say I do okay. I'm not a gymbro nor am I a complete couch potato.>social awkwardness4/10-6/10Depends on the specific situation, but I can generally hold my own in conversations. I do tend to avoid initiating conversations though.>>31125386>HikingI definitely should get back out there, I used to be a boy scout.>tennis clubPerhaps, never really seemed like my sport though.>language exchangeIs this different from shitposting?
>>31125412That's good. Do you have a supportive community of women in your life?
>>31125406I come here to remind myself of the true nature of men so i do not get soft because i never spend time with them irl. I also come here because men do not deserve to not be called out and reminded.
>>31125409>5'3NTA but yeah, you'll need to work some more
>>31125410... to butter on toast? Yeah
>>31125418She likes JH
>>31125418See>>31125423>>31125422No, whr
>>31125423You sound like a happy, sane, balanced individual
>>311254095'3" 137lbs isn't bad. I think if you get down to 130 or so and keep it off, and maybe work out to tone up a little, you'll look really good.
>>31125429I'm sorry?
>>31125422No, whenever i meet women they sooner or later turn out to be cock worshipping and so i have to cut contact and avoid them.
>>311254095'3 and 137 I don't know if I were to call you fat you sound more or less like a chubster. Fit chubsters can be hot but that depends on where your fat gets stored. Do you have a goal in mind?
>>31125399The hot water trick also helps grip for some reason
>>31125430If you are sane, happy and balanced in this world then it is because you benefit from how things are and are part of the problem.
>>31125434That's unfortunate. Are there lesbian communities you could interact with?
>>31125438Fuck off, gnostic
>>31125423> I come here to remind myself of the true natureDo you remember how I used to laugh at the “women’s true nature” posters? Now you’ve just became them in reverse. You may remind me how awful I am for existing because I really do enjoy this kind of posting. It’s so absurd and comical. And before you get upset that I find this amusing, keep in mind you have no moral high ground. You come here to insult people after all. Sad to see> I also come here because men do not deserve to not be called out and reminded.You are a joke. The “men” in question are the ones you can count on one hand. Why don’t you go out and remind all the other 7 billion men how bad they are?
>>31125397Oof that's pretty high awkwardness. Probably best to go for a hobby that involves coincidental nearness to people (like a bouldering/climbing gym) or is full of a lot of other nerdy weirdo types like gaming (includes board games/dnd)
>7 billion Sorry, 3.5 billion
>>31125442Nta how would anyone know what you used to laugh at?
>>31125423ignore the angsty manlets. you're a feisty but cute cat, I would love you even though you'd scratch me up
>>31125448Oh yeah Woops, I got a little bit too ahead of myself. Nobody would know that, I forget we are anonymous sometimes
>>31125420Sounds like a hiking club is a fair bet then. Or another cheapish interest club like dancing, gardening, though most gardening clubs are full of olds
>>31125439No and i do not want to. I see no reason to seek out human connection. The right people will find me and the rest can stay away. I am spending ungodly amounts of time on just trying to get people to leave me alone but they never do. It is very draining.
>>31125455Hi honey! How was your day?
I’m not sure if posting inflammatory, bait like posts every day that get guaranteed yous is a great way to be left alone
>>31125453>like dancingI feel like this would absolutely trigger my social awkwardness. I don't know if I could keep my spaghetti in my pocket if some stranger was inside my personal space.
>>31125420>Already did that for years.Class/spec/race?Did you play on sargeras US?
>>31125425I will, thanks>>31125431Thanks, I will. I've been more depressed than usual lately so it's been tricky doing the deficit right. I'm aiming for 125 but we'll see>>31125435Thanks, I think this is more or less what I wanted to know. Have I finally crossed the boundary from fat to chubby? If so it's my first time being here, growing up fat really wrecks your perspective on where normal isGoal is to just look normal, but my fat distribution is really weird
Me when women
>>31125442Telling the truth is not insulting. Not my fault that telling the truth about men and their flying monkeys insults you. Also, those posters were right about womens nature because that truly is how the women that interact with men to use and abuse them are like.
>>31125460Is that a discomfort you could work through? Could be beneficial in the long run
>>31125249No, a good man would grape the misandry out of you
>>31125468Did daddy want a son instead of daughter?
>>31125467I cant tell if this is nonsense or if this is a car joke I do not get
>>31125455Do you feel like other people have let you down?
>>31125467I too wish to run over women with a car
>>31125458It is because i can control it. I can just close the tab and walk away. Not so easy to do that with people irl. This is just a safe and effective way to vent my frustration and you can not do anything about it. If it bothers you maybe stop coming here.
>>31125401Brother...
>>31125466>Thanks, I think this is more or less what I wanted to know.....Hmm I grew up fat too and had to work extra hard to shave off the fat in specific places like my stomach and my chest. You are fat if your legs chafe when you walk if not you are probably in the chubby region.If you have weird fat distribution you need to find a fitness routine that targets the specific region you are aiming to get rid off.Where does the fat mostly go to?
>>31125468Alright but if being an irredeemable monster is my “””true nature””” (quotation marks because those are your words not mine. And I don’t believe them) why do you even bother to type these posts? After all, this is just “how I am” according to you because I am a man who likes women. I mean what, do you think spamming the same talking points every day is going to change my “true nature”? And that every evil thing I’m destined to do because of my rotten “true nature” just won’t happen? Well aren’t you a saint, saving the world
>>31124388What's this from?
>>31125463>Class/spec/raceI usually played human warrior(prot/fury) or paladin(prot/ret) as my main. I played survival hunter for a bit after Legion made the melee spec. I played some Arcane mage in Dragonflight and had fun, which is interesting since I typically hated ranged gameplay.Human>all, the rep bonus passive was nice>Did you play on sargeras US?Don't think so, I floated around and I don't recall the name of the server I was last on.
>>31125477Do what you want, but if I take the bait don’t be upset when you get replies from people. That’s what’s supposed to happen. I have less self control in regards to bait than any of them
>>31125469I'm sure it is, I'm not so autistic I'm beyond help. Whether or not it's something I'd be hyped to go through is another story.
>>31125481Legs dont chafe anymore! It's all stored in the tummy, hips and thighs. It's weird because the top half looks kinda skinny and the bottom have looks terrible. It's strange that none of it goes in the waist and I have an oddly tiny waist. It's all just, very odd
>>31125366No, they don't.
How do we cure misandry bros? Should we start practicing FGM? Circumcised men simp more so maybe if we circumcised women too theyd be nicer to us. Discuss.
>>31125466Sorry to hear you've been depressed, hopefully it doesn't last though. 125 sounds like a good goal weight. I think you're well into chubby range at this point and not too far from leaving that behind as well.The skinniest I've ever been was when I was about 18, I was 6'1" and about 200lbs, so I know the feeling.
>>31125477What do you think is the ultimate source of your hurt?
>>31125482It is to wake up other women, it is not for men.
>tfw 6'1" and 225lbsJUST
>>31125507I'm 6'2" and 250
>>31125506You are so silly, if other women wanted to wake up they would set an alarm clock!
>>31125506feminists have been telling women that men are all rapist killers waiting in ambush but it didnt change a thing because they are in denial about women wanting that exact thing to happen. When a man goes on a spree of rape and murder he doesnt have women with pitchforks outside the court room waiting to lynch him, he instead gets groupies and thousands of love letters. you will never be free because your gender is pre-selected to be abused and get off on it. And the funny thing, is that they will blame themselves for it KEK
>>31125496Ok so fastest way to burn fat in those areas is to grow the muscles so anything that targets abs thighs and glutes will help. What type of body do you have is it hourglass pear shapped or V taper. Theres a study done on body types. There are 3 different body types and every person is a mix of 2 of them. Depending on what type you are dictates how much fat you store and where you store it. Every body type has a prefered way of working out and dieting in order to shave off the fat. Whatever works for type 1 will not work the same for type 2 if that makes sense.
>>31125509>>31125509>>31125509New, migrate
there's a saying that men's libido is like being chained at all moments to a lunatici kind of agree with it
>>31125501Heh, that's close to where I was at my biggest...I feel like I could make it to 125 if my life circumstances were a bit smoother. Alas, it is what it is. Thanks for not being mean about it man
>>31125506Have women reached out to you saying that you've changed their views on men?
>>31125514OK, I'm doing thighs and glutes right not but not abs I guessI think it's technically a pear shape right now, but it used to be hourglass. And that does make sense yeah thanks
>>31125518Of course, I have no reason to be mean to you. I also need to motivate myself to do what you're doing, because I probably need to lose at least 50lbs.
>>31125524You can find out more here.https://www.everydayhealth.com/fitness/do-you-know-your-body-type/I'm gonna guess you are either Meso-endomorph or Ecto-Endomorph
>>31125510They would if men did not steal their alarm clocks because them being asleep is the most convenient for them and now they have to rely on other women trying to get them to wake up again. Sure, some do not want to wake up or actively want to sleep deeper. But it is worth it for those that have been trying to wake up but forgot how. And as i said, it is also for me to just have a place to put my feelings without social consequences irl. And maybe it helps some men too. Women also have the natural ability to be monsters. You know i never denied that. And those deserve to be called out just as much. It just seems kind of curious that the most monstrous women are those that still crave male validation because what monstrous things they do is usually done to use and abuse men for their own benefit more. The right thing to do is to not use other people, regardless of their gender. And i understand that many monstrous things men do is to appeal to monstrous women. But not all of it by far. Some is just to give them a sense of power and superiority by destroying and humiliating what they can. Some women do that too. And there is enough misogyny in this world to account for the things those women have done. I am just trying to bring balance because not saying those things has not done any good either. People that do monstrous things do not deserve to not have their reputation ruined because this keeping things to oneself and minding your own business and focus on the bright side is exactly why monsters get away with what they do.
>>31125513I am very well aware of that. And yet it is still worth reminding them and repeating it because every now and then one of them wakes up and becomes ready to receive the informations and can escape this hell hole of craving male destruction and humiliation because they have been conditioned to do exactly that. And for those rare moments this happens it is worth saying it over and over because you never know when one of them is about to wake up and my dream is that there is no woman (and man for that matter) left in this world that craves to be humiliated and destroyed by anyone anymore.
>>31125548nice blogpost roastie, women r propery repeal the 19th
>>31125519Yes
>>31125548Do you consider your mother a good woman?
>girl called me dark and broodingCant tell if its a compliment or I look schizophrenic
>>31125558lol stick to the misandry this concern trolling is lame and disgenuine af. Did your hormones crash and now you feel sympathetic all of the sudden? kek
>>31125548Well first off, it was a joke.But yeah fine. But don’t be expect me to not bat an eye when the thing you want to get off your chest and vent about is simply that “your nature is evil”My nature isn’t evil. Yes I am a man, yes I like women but that’s it.
>>31125559Sorry, femanon he has the unlimited pussy licence. What he says goes
>>31125567She is a good human being deep down but she sucks ass at being a woman because she has always put male validation above everything else and made her kids pay for it by keeping a father around them that should have never been granted the privilege to be a father in the first place. This is the fate of almost all mothers because by default they have very likely granted a man access to their womb that did not deserve it. Unfortunately that means that every new generation will always be the spawn of women that have not been able to stop craving male validation yet, perpetuating a cycle of creating a world where this will never die out.
>>31125584>women are literally biologically destined for slavery to usThis just gave me a massive dopamine spike faurk
>>31125594Although those men are Chads and not you
>>31125584I'm sorry that happened. You and your siblings didn't deserve it.
reading this thread makes me appreciate how based and normal my parents are Yall got some serious issues
>>31125526Good luck!>>31125545From the page it says ecto endomorph it seems
>>31125597Well, as long as foids are miserable its a win
>>31125575As long as you deny that part of your nature is evil, you are dangerous. Did you know that a big part of post war PTSD is people trying to come to terms with the evil and monstrous things they have realized they are capable of doing? It is scary to acknowledge what monster we can become if we let ourselves and under the right circumstances. But denying our potential to do so is exactly how it can get the best of us. Because then we let our guard down and think we are the good ones and we would never do such things. Until they day we do. And then instead of admitting what we are and have done we find excuses and try to downplay it to not have to adjust how we think about ourselves You can never grow past this if you do not take a good look at your own evil potential and learn everything you can about it so you know what it looks and feels like, so you can better master and control it. Flat out denying it is there is extremely naive and irresponsible.
>>31125603I know. When people on this site talk about their parents it’s usually in the context of some sort of unspeakable abuse.My parents were just kinda chill. Flawed human beings for sure but they did their best and loved me plenty. Now anons just assume we are all evil because that’s what their parents were like
>>31125610>erm okay maybe you aren’t a caricature of an evil rapist man like I’ve been saying the whole thread BUT under the right conditions you COULD do bad things if you were pushed.That is NOT what we we’re talking about. I don’t deny that there’s some human darkness in my soul, and that I’m capable of evil. I just deny your premise that I’m evil inherently for being a man who likes women Yes, I have to chose to be moral and yes I could be evil but I’m not a violent woman abusing monster
>>31125604Ok now you just do more research and I hope everything goes well for you if you have any nutrition question or anything else I can drop my contact.
>>31125620All humans that still crave the opposite gender in a sexual way are complicit in the humiliation of the whole species by bringing new souls here to have to endure the suffering that is the human existence. If you were male but asexual then it would be different. You still could do monstrous things but they would not be about your perpetuation of unnecessary suffering.
>>31125620>expecting a well thoughtout postion from a roastieThe foids who post here literally admitted they misandrypost depending on the week of their cycle. They dont actually think deeply about anything because their feelings are constantly changing. This is why there are no female philosophers worth anything
>>31125558can't it be a good thing if men wish to be humiliated?If men are subs, women don't have to make nice with them anymore, if men are simps, women get paid, if men are cucks, male jealousy becomes less of an issue, etc.
>>31125632The fundamental difference between me and you is that you hate being alive and you hate living and I don’t. Me and you will never see eye to eye on this. So I don’t see a point in dragging this discussion on. I think circumstance makes your life terrible, but terrible isn’t the natural state of life.
The one on the left should read "your future", plz fix
>>31125647No. Humiliation of any kind is a bad thing. This is not about demanding that women are able to benefit from men being used and abused, humiliated and exploited. That would be revenge and revenge just keeps the cycle of destruction going. What i want is for there to be no humiliation left. I am sick and tired of humans being trapped in this infinite loop of humiliating each other to get back at each other. It is insanely pathetic and immature. It is like two toddlers slapping each other whilst screaming and whining about how the other slapped them too and also first and much harder anyways. Fucking disgusting.
>>31125649If I try to convince you of optimism you will find that extremely patronising so I won’t bother. Just know, trying to explain how miserable everything is and how terrible things are to someone who isn’t miserable is like trying to describe colour to a blind person. I will never sign on to this idea that I’m a bad person for enjoying life. Sorry, I won’t be dragged down
>>31125632>suffering is.....LE BAD
>>31125649That is because being alive works for you because you are the one benefiting from the established systems and structures right now. Ofc you think it is awesome here and there is no reason to change anything or to want to leave. Humans only care if it is them that are currently getting the shit end of the stick.
>>31125662It is.
>>31125667>you are the one benefiting from the established systems and structures right nowWhat am I benefitting from? My standard of living I would bet is much lower than yours. Do you mean gender dynamics? Well as you know I haven’t benefited from that either lmao>you think it is awesome hereNope>there is no reason to change anything There are thousands actually.You’re just trying to twist me into some caricature because I dare to be happy despite the struggles of life. You are now telling yourself I’m some sort of sauve rich kid player who benefits from the way things are because you can’t imagine someone daring to be happy in this world unless they were milking it. I acknowledge things need to improve btw.
>>31125659I am aware that life is good for you. It is just sad that you do not give a shit about the fact that it is only good for you because it is miserable for others and you are benefiting from hundreds of years of the misery of others to make it possible for you to enjoy life and think it is wonderful and full of hope and optimism for the future. Just shows that you have no empathy and only care about how things are for you personally.
>>31125690The fact that you do not see how you benefit is just another symptom of your privilege. You simply can not even fathom what it would be like to not be you in this world.
>>31125707Would you like to join us in the new thread? I can ask you a question there to get started.
>>31125698>Just shows that you have no empathy and only care about how things are for you personally.I worry about a certain person who’s always saying these doom and gloom things about how horrible life is. But every time I try and say something or express empathy it ends badly so I stopped doing it. But that doesn’t mean in my heart I don’t care.>it is only good for you because it is miserable for othersAlright sure. My existence makes other people miserable (for some reason). Should I honour their sacrifice by being a miserable mopey depressive person or should I make the most of it?>You simply can not even fathom what it would be like to not be you in this world.If I wasn’t aware of suffering in this world I wouldn’t dedicate my life to the cause of improving it. My point wasn’t that suffering isn’t real or we shouldn’t be empathetic to others, it’s just that I can HELP without being a totally miserable person.
>>31125725No
>>31125707women live on easy mode thats quite literally subsidized by the misery and disposability of low status men. You are the problem
If you’re going to hate me for being happy, I think you will come to hate me a lot. You certainly won’t succeed in shaming me into misery
>>31125741I did not say you should pretend to be miserable if you are not. That would be pathetic. I am saying that the fact you can chose to not be miserable is a privilege not everyone has and telling people that do not have that privilege because they are the ones that are suffering the unpleasant consequences of the same systems that give you the pleasant consequences to cheer up buttercup is very tone deaf. This is as if you told a slave that they should try to sing a song and hold their head up high if they are getting whipped because showing that their abuse is affecting them would give the slave owners a sense of satisfaction. Ofc you would be right that it would be more dignified to put on a fake smile and pretend like the abuse does not affect you but i also believe that abusers deserve to get confronted with the unfiltered reality of what their abuse does to those they are exploiting. I know that that just puts a smile on their face because the suffering and humiliation of those they are abusing is their entertainment but i also do not think they deserve that we just take it with stoicism and unfounded optimism just to not give them that sweet satisfaction of seeing us hurting because they hurt us. You demand us to be full of hope and joy, to smile and grind our teeth, to make a fist in our pockets and to keep talking pleasantly and never let the oppressors know how we really are doing and feeling because it is not productive to let them know. And because being an emotional mess is not going to change anything. Sure. But toughing it out is also not changing anything. If anything it will just dare them to whip us harder to get a response out of us. You can be stoic or a mess. It does not matter because neither will appeal to the humanity of demons because they have none. I chose to be a mess because i refuse to repress how i feel to not give them the satisfaction of seeing how their treatment makes me feel.
>>31125792> If I try to convince you of optimism you will find that extremely patronising so I won’t bother.I said this specifically because I knew you would feel this way otherwise. And you still ended up feeling this way. Well anyway, I tried reasonably to not be patronising. Sorry
>>31125742Okay. Thanks for answering my questions.
>>31125792>You demand us to be full of hope and joy, to smile and grind our teeth, to make a fist in our pockets and to keep talking pleasantly and never let the oppressors know how we really are doing and feeling because it is not productive to let them know.No I don’t. Im not telling you how to act or behave. I’m simply telling you that your world view is built on the idea that everything is terrible and miserable always and mine is not. THEREFORE you won’t be able to convince me that I should feel bad for enjoying life. You can sulk all you want. I wish you could feel better but it doesn’t really matter
>>31125792Women arent opressed and never have been. When you had to do laundry by the river; men were choking to death on coal dust. Stop larping as a victim you arent one
>>31125804I am just telling you that chastising someone that is being abused for reacting to the abuse is insanely cruel. And yes, i am allowed to react however i want to the abuse that women are enduring that are not me because some women do not have the privilege to be able to speak up about it or react to it because it would endanger their life or that of the ones they love. So i will. On their behalf. Maybe it gives them hope and strength to even just hear someone that can and dares to put it into words put it into words so they feel seen, validated and not alone in how their situation makes them feel and that is worth being shit on by men that are inconvenienced by my speaking up because it disturbs their peace a thousand times.
>>31125826Trough all of history, for every male slave there was a female slave he still felt entitled to rape and beat with no consequences. I never said men did not also get exploited and abused. But it is not on the same scale and to the same degree.
>>31125838>I am just telling you that chastising someone that is being abused for reacting to the abuse is insanely cruelWhen did I do that? Weird, I don’t seem to remember that.
>>31125844You do whenever you answer to my posts by telling me that what i say is pointless and immature and grounds for making fun of me or throwing me under the bus.
>>31125850Alright well I apologise for that. I just tell it like it is from my perspective. But if it’s having a negative effect on you I’ll stop, as long as you understand that being told how horrible you are just for the way you were born can also be hurtful.I’m not doing it because I have anything personal against you, I just get defensive when people talk shit about me.
And yeah those posts were not about me but I have a father and a brother, uncles, cousins, friends etc so I can still feel a certain way about it
Anyway bye now. I have to do something.I regret that you feel I’ve been throwing you under the bus. I just thought that getting worked up on 4chan and taking out your frustrations on some random anons will never help you move past it. I hope one day you will find a better way to deal with the abuse you’ve faced but from now on I won’t say a word about it Not my place
>>31125843female slaves definitely had it much better than male slaves. Males slaves either got worked to death, castrated, or became unpaid soldiers. Female slaves had relatively cushy lives of doing domestic duties and fucking their master every once in a while and considering female sexuality they wanted to anyway. Women are always attracted to men who have authority and power over them. So basically female slaves got to live out a fantasy compared to the hellish life of a male slave. Keep coping
>>31125861I know how it is from your perspective because i have empathy. I understand that it sucks to be told you are by birth and by default a danger. But it never sucks as much as being on the receiving end of the danger to be told you are a risk, so you asking me to shut up to not hurt your feelings is cruel because i am speaking up for the little girls that get raped by their dads and sold by their mothers to rapists to make money and you are telling me to shut up because it feels uncomfortable for you to hear about male nature because you are also male. I hope you can see how your suffering is not on the same level as theirs and thus asking me to be considered of how my behavior hurts you is selfish. Maybe instead of getting defensive you should look inside and see how you contribute and benefit from a system that tells women that they only exist to benefit men. Whenever it is hard for you to imagine a certain dynamic, just switch out sexism with racism and it often becomes blatantly clear what is going on. You are like a white person that gets frustrated that a black person is angry and tells you to check your privilege. You are saying that you have never done anything racist so you do not deserve to having to listen to how white supremacy is not dead at all and you do not deserved for black people to be vary of you simply because of the color of your skin. You will say that you do not benefit from living in a racist society because you never owned slaves but you forget to see how you by default will always be seen as the master and not the slave benefits you in ways that go unnoticed by you because you have never experienced existence in a black body and you never will. You still benefit from the fact that black people will naturally be more cautious around you and maybe even cater to you ore than they would if you were black too simply because they have generational trauma and have been taught by history and experience that white people are someone you
>>31125900Can not trust because for a long time and not even two generations ago they have not even seen you as human but as cattle to be bred, kept and slaughtered, to be denied rights and freedom however they see fit to be able to gain the most advantage from owning you. And now you stand in front of them in all your whiteness and tell them that them telling other black people to better be safe and stay away from getting close to white people is offensive to you and hurts your feelings. Now replace white and black with male and female. I hope you can see how that is unreasonable and extremely self centered.
>>31125900>so you asking me to shut up to not hurt your feelingsI’m literally not. I just said that I hoped you understood that I didn’t do it to throw you under the bus, I did in defence. Complain on 4chan about how dangerous men are all you want. Like I said, I wont say anything anymore. It’s your business now
>>31125888I will never move past it because this is not only about my own story but about that of all women and i will not shut up until there is not a single woman left on this planet that is being abused. You always assuming that this is just me having personal trauma i have not worked out yet and once i do i will be fine and the whole topic will not bother me again is insanely insulting because it assumes i only care if it happens to me directly and once it stops hurting me personally i stop giving a fuck. Maybe that is how you do things but stop projecting that on me.
>>31125915You getting defensive over me being hurt is very selfish. i hope you understand that.
>>31125917>>31125924I will chose not to say anything more on this. Like I said, it ends badly for me when I try to understand you. So I won’t anymore. I will let you do your thing and I’ll trust you that what you chose to do is for the best.I regret being insanely selfish and insulting but I am who I am, and now you know
>>31125949At least you try to understand. That is more than the majority of men will ever do. I have to give you props for that.
>>31125953Take care now you lemon!
