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Whenever I see a woman that isn't super old, my eyes go straight to her buttocks.
I can't help it. Even if it's a married woman with her husband and she has her kids with her I ogle the shape of her ass for a few seconds.
I'm not even a prude I just wish I could control this and show some decency towards others.
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Picrel is disgusting. Fat chicks don't deserve love
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>>31126019
it’s normal, depending on what she was wearing and when you were ogling. was she in tight pants like your pic? then totally normal.

was she in a coat that covers her ass and you still tried to sneak a peek at what’s there? then you have some issues my friend. maybe stop watching porn and masturbating so much.
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it was like this since i turned 16
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>>31126056
>was she in a coat that covers her ass and you still tried to sneak a peek at what’s there?
It's this. Even if they're covered I try to see if I can pinpoint the shape of her as she walks. And if she's got jeans... oh boy...
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>>31126019
Calm the fuck down. You're a male. It's totally normal.
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>>31126068
lay off the porn and quit squeezin the tube for a while.
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>>31126019
Looking is okay. Every man does this. As long as you keep your hands to yourself, there's nothing to worry about and looking isn't indecent. In fact, women like the attention. Just don't be a creep or weirdo about it (staring, taking pics, touching, harrassing etc).
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>>31126075
Will this really work?
Not OP but same issue, this is ruining my life
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>>31126086
yeah, get the habit out of your normal routine and you’ll stop thinking about it eventually. take up a hobby in its place or something.
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>>31126019
Womens tits and ass are their sexual availability symbols.
Looking at them when they put them on display is totally normal. It's literally hard wired into men.
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>>31126078
Women don't like the attention if you're an uggo.
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>>31126086
It's a placebo at best. Could also cause you to be even more horny or become asexual. Use it or lose it. If you are a young man under 25, it is normal to be horny. Stop worrying so much, you fucking pussies and get laid.
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>>31126106
Stop this incel crap. Attention is attention. When i get mirin looks by mid girls, i am still enjoying it (i lift, i am big and tall). The same goes for women. They like teasin the boys.
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>>31126056
This advice is fucking stupid. OP, its okay to look at women no matter what they are wearing. Just don't stare at them for more than 1 second, make them feel uncomfortable, or sexually assault them/don't take photos of them. Holy fucking shit
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>>31126019
That's entirely normal as a man, we all do it. Monkey brain looking for signs of fertility. Just try not to be a creep about it is all.
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>>31126019
Just avert your eyes. You can’t necessarily block out people from your fiends of view but if you catch yourself doing it, look away
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>>31126019
pornography
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>>31126019
If she's wearing yoga pants like the pic then she literally wants you to look at her ass. Chill.

If you don't want to for religious reasons then beat advice is to focus on something else. Force yourself to make eye contact with women at all times. If it makes her uncomfortable all the better.
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>>31126019
I used to do this a lot in highschool but I’ve stopped. Idk why since I’m still a lustful bastard.
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There's nothing normal about being attracted to fat chicks.
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>>31126039
You're a closet pedophile coping. You hate women and just want anyone with the body of a little boy.
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>>31129095
Kys pedophile
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>>31129190
>>31129194
projection
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>>31126019
That feels normal. You assess quality and then move on with your day. As long as you're not staring at my ass while I am staring at you to get you to stop you're fine.
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>>31126019
nothing wrong with that. as a man, you are constantly pulled one way or another by your innate attraction to the feminine. it's only a problem when your life is out of balance you have nothing going for you and you want to whack off in public
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>>31126019
Just don't look. It's that easy. Once you look then you want to look more.
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>>31126056
He doesn't have "issues," he just needs a girlfriend in that case. Checking out a girl's assets when she puts them on full display is 100% normal though. It's even normal while you're in a relationship.
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>>31126019
learn how to take creep shots. there are apps you can use that blank your screen or put up a fake homescreen and let you silently take pictures with the volume key. be sure to test a few apps at home to make sure you are comfortable using them.

i pretty much hold my phone in my hand casually at my side and stand in a way that my phone is facing the target (usually sideways). then i blindly take pictures and subtly change the angle between shots because i have to guess where the camera is facing to moving it around a little helps. i no longer stare at hot women in public now i just focus on not looking at them while taking the pictures and then admire my work later on.

i honestly dont feel bad, its less rude than starting and nobody ever suspects anything. the way dudes get caught out at the gym or in general is because they are dumb enough to look at their screens and try to line up a single perfect shot which is easy to notice while i am spray and pray shooting and sifting for profit later.

picrel is a sample of my older work from college.
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>>31131090
>less rude than staring

How the fuck did we get here. Am I really that old?
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>>31131133
>id is just 1s and 3s
nice

I guess its just my personal preference. I always notice when other dudes are staring at women so Im pretty self conscious about it. As a bonus I get some OC fap material and I have pics of my hot coworkers.
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>>31126019
compliment them and build your self esteem.
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>>31131155
>As a bonus I get some OC fap material and I have pics of my hot coworkers
This is why it's more rude.
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>>31131189
how the fuck is it rude? wouldnt that imply that i have bothered someone? they dont know im taking their picture and nobody around us does either who is going to be upset?
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>>31131207
>they dont know im taking their picture
Taking pictures of people without their consent is rude. And taking a "what they don't know can't hurt them" approach about it doesn't make you a better person.
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>>31131214
how is it rude if nobody is left feeling offended, threatened, taken aback or anything? if you are out in a public area then i dont need consent and there is no laws against secretly operating a camera out in public so long as im not sticking it up any skirts. did the vlogger filming themselves walking around a beach full of hot near naked women need to ask them all for permission?
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>>31131247
This is what's making me feel old. Before cellphones it was rude on principle it didn't matter if they found out or not. I think it still is and you're just being an uncultured little shit but what do I know.
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>>31131247
>did the vlogger filming themselves walking around a beach full of hot near naked women need to ask them all for permission?
You are legally allowed to record people in public. That doesn't mean it is polite to do so. The vlogger should ask.
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>>31126078
>women like the attention
wtf no, we surely dont like this type of attention, and in this case i dont think married old women would even think of it (unless she's specifically into that shit)
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>>31131260
why would i need to ask if im only doing it for personal use? and how the fuck would i ask?
>excuse me maam may i take a picture of your buttox or genital area please? how about those large breasts of yours?
>>31131255
>I think it still is and you're just being an uncultured little shit but what do I know.
people get filmed without their knowledge countless times a day. i dont feel like i have exploited anybody, im just casually standing or sitting around in the presence of a woman with my phone in my hand.
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>>31131306
>and how the fuck would i ask?
You wouldn't. Because it's impolite to take pictures of people in public.

Anyone over 30 feel free to chime in here

>people get filmed without their knowledge countless times a day
Getting caught on security cameras or by the news is different than some random asshole snapping a picture of my ass while I'm standing in line at Walmart. Look all you want as long as I don't notice, but don't take pictures.
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>>31131483
if its just your ass and no face connected to it then who cares?
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>>31131515
>who cares
I see that this perspective is impossible to understand for someone who doesn't remember life before everyone had the Internet and cellphones.
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If you ain't looking at girls who are clearly showing off their ass as a guy, something is wrong with you (you're gay)
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>>31129190
Fat women should be shot down (figuratively) in the streets like the wild hogs they are.
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>>31131090
i only took creep shots in highschool because you can't get those anywhere else.

if you take creepshots of college women what's the fucking point, just watch porn
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>>31131090
what app(s) are u using?
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>>31132030
"SCOS 3" you can find it at APK Pure. Used to have the donate version on my previous phone but it got pulled from google play and I cant find a cracked APK of the donate one which isnt sus.
Might start shopping around for a new app.
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>>31132030
i think it has evolved into this project. always paranoid about knock off apps: https://www.spycameraos.com/
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>>31126019
Same here, OP. I check out just about every woman who is not a disgusting pig. Doesn't help that my workplace is crawling with hot college students in booty shorts and yoga pants.

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>>31130869
I think these are the most sane responses here. The male gaze just kinda happens. The best you can do is try and notice when it's happening and avert your eyes, and eventually you'll get better at handling it. I have a hot coworker with a chunky phat ass, and I will often look discretely when its in my vision, but I've gotten better at not looking when I can help it.
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>>31126019
Just don't be weird about it. It's normal to peek especially if they are dressed in tight pants just don't feed the lust demon in your mind to a disgusting degree.
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>>31131090
This is stupid. Yeah sure, what you are doing is equal to not doing it at all, until you get caught, after which your victim will know and be violated by your actions. If you want to jerk off to your co-workers, the safest and smartest thing you can do is look at their photos on social media. That way your chances of getting caught is basically zero, you will still get somewhat nice images, what you are doing isn't morally wrong because most people look at profile photos for different reasons, and you won't build up a reputation of being a creepy degenerate.
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>>31131281
Don't care bitch, Imma keep looking if you keep wearing them tight ass yoga pants
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>>31131207
I wouldn't call it rude, but it's a degenerate action. I thought I was perverted until I saw your posts. Lay off the porn.
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>>31131281
>"nooooo I hate that people think I'm attractive :( nooooo don't look at meeee and my attractive bodyyyy :((((((("
Just take the double glance as a compliment and move on with your life. That's what I do.
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>>31132786
It is rude though, and immoral. The victims in those photos didn't ask to have those taken for the purposes of sexual gratification. Its too far and that creep who takes photos should rot in prison
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>>31126019
I'm the same. I can't help but stare at boobs, butts, or weird shit like moles or crooked teeth.
I make it a conscious effort to look girls in the eyes or avoid looking at them altogether, because I know too much eye contact can make people uncomfortable. Also remember to blink.
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>>31132820
you are the dumb nigger that expects people to stand and stare like a bunch of degenerate pajeets.
>>31132671
been doing this for literal years. app makes it very difficult to get caught.
>>31132786
>nooooo stop photographic your coworkers giant boobies nooooo thats gaaayyyyyyyyy!!!!
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>>31126019
Who the fuck says "buttocks" though?

You're a red blooded male. You like ass, aint nothing wrong with that.
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>>31133806
>Who the fuck says "buttocks" though?
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>>31126068
I was like this too and for me, the beginning of the answer was wanting to stop. If you truly want to stop, use my tool. I used to be pervy but now I don't care unless it's on full display, but even then I try not to lose myself

For starters, whenever you catch yourself imagining, just think about her asshole smelling as bad as yours
Stick a finger up your ass, smell it, that's what the inside of her crevice smells like
Now, when you see a nice ass and you drift off, remember had you separated the cheeks and smelled it would smell like that
It's an instant turn off and makes you disinterested quite quickly (unless you like the smell of your own ass hole, in which case you need legitimate help)

Try the technique with webm related, and keep trying until you imagine it smelling like your own man ass (which it does) and it becomes uninteresting
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>>31126068
Do you want to rot in prison, have your entire life ruined, lose friends and be labeled as a sick fuck because of your degenerate behavior? If the answer is yes, then you won't take your desire beyond just looking.
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Don't be a disgusting freak and respect women. Their bodies are to be admired and respected, not assaulted or violated
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>>31134273
if the answer is no*
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>>31133995
Would it really smell like a man ass tho? Unironically. I assume it’d be less hairy and sweaty.
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>>31133761
>takes hundreds of creep shots of the women he interacts with daily
>doesn't even bother using his imagination
>thinks he's morally superior to people who just look and nothing else
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>>31126019
On some level this is normal heterosexual male behavior, especially with what women wear these days. But are you a coomer? I feel like that pornifies your view of the world if that makes sense.
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>>31134623
Bump for answer.
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>>31134623
Shit smells like shit bro. And we don't have balls but still get swamp ass.
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>>31137704
How do you get swamp ass with no hair there
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>>31137709
Skin sweats, not hair?
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>>31137715
Swamp ass is from a hairy, sweaty ass not just a sweaty ass.
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>>31137722
It literally just means a humid, sweaty buttcrack. Hair is not required.
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>>31137730
I see. Well the more you know.
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>>31133995
What if the thought of burying my face in there and inhaling her ass close-up gives me a rock-hard hardon?
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>>31134494
>>>31134273
>if the answer is no*
LOL at anon's "Fruedian slip."
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>>31126019
Unfortunately you can't really stop it. Not easily anyways. Women dress like whores to get gawked at. Coom brains are drawn to whores. It's part of the programming.
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A lot of people in this thread sound like rapists
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>>31126019
Once I had an affair with this woman who had the most gorgeous ass that looked so good in yoga pants. When I got her alone with her kids and husband out of the way, I convinced her to meet up with me at a hotel and we had mindblowing sex. We had an affair going for five months after that and we spent the last time at her house. We ended it after that and, three years later, nobody knows except us.
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>>31139258
You are fucking disgusting and it makes me vomit that you regret nothing



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