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Tips for cold approaching random girl in a bus? Note: I'm committed to do it despite my zero experience in doing such a thing (which in my opinion is even more of a reason to do so). I just want to get inputs from more experienced anos from here
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>>33670673
The kind of general comment one passengerr might make to another.

"Traffic's lighter/heavier than usual today"
"Nice/lousy weather today"
"Is that book good?"
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>>33670692
What do you think of going straight to the point and asking her out? I'm only take the bus for a short window of time (20-25 minutes at best)
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>>33670703
By that logic, just jump to "Hi. Wanna fuck?"

Either way, it saves time.
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>>33670703
if you were the kind of man who can pull that off, you wouldn't be asking here
so, no
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>>33670673
get off at her stop and follow her
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>>33670673
>Tips for cold approaching random girl in a bus?
Don't.

There is almost nowhere that is a worse place to approach than a bus (except maybe a train). If you must try a cold approach, at least choose a location where the woman can easily walk away if she isn't comfortable. If you try it in an enclosed space like a bus you immediately make her feel trapped: it looks like you're trying to engineer a situation where she can't escape, and that's scary. There is no possible way she is going to respond positively to you if she feels frightened. Even if she might otherwise have liked you, approaching in that environment is a guaranteed fail.
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This move will have her GUSHING
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>>33670673
Try to wear some nice clothes since the first thing she sees is your appearance. Don't physically block her into conversing with you, make it easy for her to leave. Be willing to walk away if you're not getting a positive response.
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>>33670703
Cons: She doesn't know you. Women are wary of guys because rapists and douches exist.

Pros: You're honest and straight to the point.

The only women who will react well to this are women looking for a quick fuck. If women are valuable and are the ones who do the choosing, ask yourself what kind of woman is looking for a quick fuck.
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>>33670673
>>33671479
This. Cold approaching complete strangers with absolutely nothing in common is bad enough, but to do it on a train/bus or plane is worse.

I don't get why anyone cold approaches complete strangers anyways.

I guess I've actually cold approached strangers on public transport before but we always had something in common like we were both on our way home from a concert or she was reading a book I'm a big fan of, something like that.

I don't know why anyone (from 4chan) would want to be chasing after just random blonde normies or whatever. Sounds like a nightmare for everyone involved.
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>>33671570
>>33671588
>>33671596
Reasonable responses, I guess it's not that clever to do it as I was intending to. I'll try to at least to have some mundane chat going and see if there's any connection at all. I've spent too much time being outright scared of women and want to change, that's all.
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>>33671611
>I'll try to at least to have some mundane chat going and see if there's any connection at all.
pro tip: join a thing like a community college night course or gym where they have group exercises or one of those card & board game stores where female nerds hang out if you want to practice small talk and social skills, since you'll have things to talk about.

Wearing a tie and riding a bus to nowhere just to go "Excuse me. Hi, sorry, hello, howdy miss, fine weather today isn't it?" to a girl listening to spotify on her ear buds isn't going to do you any good



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